Indian Father Driven To Suicide Because of Spiteful Ex Wife ｜ Pearl Daily
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Summary
In this episode, we talk about the latest court case involving a bank robber and a mother of three, the WNBA's Kaitlin Clark and why she is not as good as the other women in the league.
Transcript
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i i can't even believe this so the woman who is also involved in this
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the judge said i accept that you only became involved due to the pressure of stewart warby
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so not her fault at all his fault no agency all his fault so let me get this straight by this
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logic if your friend asks you to let's say drive a he he's gonna rob a bank and he wants you to be the
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driver did he pressure you into it was it his fault if he asked and you said yes he also ordered
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that she complete or he sentenced the mother of three to 22 months in prison suspended for two years
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he also ordered that she complete 40 hours of unpaid work
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he said it was ultimately a selfish act andrew oliver mitigating for cepeda said the cleaner
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acted out of misguided loyalty to someone who is friends with her partner he said cepeda had no
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previous convicted and she's devastated she played a part in the harm and suffering that's been caused
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and didn't receive any financial or other benefits um for the part that she's played okay so again
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this is as usual now i can't say it's atypical the men are evil for doing it according to this
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and the women have no responsibility or accountability i can't say i expect anything less
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okay we're gonna read um the chat's thoughts on this oh wait oh and i don't think there's been
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any new ones let me refresh it real quick okay so next the next story we're gonna talk about
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was named times athlete of the year now as you guys know i played volleyball and basketball overseas
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i've played 16 plus years of sports i ran track in college volleyball and basketball i am an athlete
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a league that loses money every every year that's not entertaining enough to turn a profit
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is more deserving of times athlete of the year than a league that fills stadiums and does turn a profit
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now i do like caitlin clark i think she's very talented i think she is classy and i think she works hard
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but i have to be honest when again this is going back to playing pretend where we're pretending that
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she has the same star power as the men and she simply doesn't the biggest reason that she's in the
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news is yes it is because she is talented but it's more because of the drama that goes on with her and
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the other girls and the other girls bullying her as someone that works in the news that is mostly what
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we cover right okay so clark apologizes for her white privilege and says that the wnba is built
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on black players i want to say i've earned every single thing but as a white person there is privilege
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a lot of black a lot of those players in the league that have been really good have been black players
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this league has kind of been built on them the more we can appreciate that highlight that talk about
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that and then continue to have brands and companies invest in those players that have made the league
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incredible i think it's very important i have to continue to try to change that okay so do i think
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that the wnba has been built on black players i think it's been built on men men's money because again
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none of us would be playing and i can say this as a female athlete generally speaking all female leagues
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operate at a loss because we are not as entertaining as the men unfortunately the leagues that do make
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money have a tendency to make it through social media drama or
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unfortunately taking off the clothes getting naked you know those are the only things that really make
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money when it comes to female sports so i don't know why she's not talking about the real reason she's
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able to do what she does the nba okay next all right so the next story that we're going to talk about
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is an indian man was oh actually sorry so as you guys know i went from america to england and
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i wanted to play volleyball there now when i went to play volleyball i started a panel show on the
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on the side where i would invite my friends from volleyball and just people i would meet at the gym
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on the street etc to come on and talk about relationships there's a huge podcast scene in the
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uk so i just kept inviting people and making a show it was so much fun now during this time i was
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curious as to why men would say things like there's no point in getting married and marriage is a trap
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and when i was there i started digging into the court system in the uk and i found some terrible
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awful things now one thing that i would continually hear over and over again was how arranged marriages
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were the way they did seem to have a better outcome so i'm going to give them that but i would
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hear i would always hear india has a zero percent divorce rate now this confused me a little bit
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because when i'd gone to india like 10 years prior i definitely met some feminist women and it seemed to
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be a problem there but according to what people were telling me and the divorce rate truly not a thing
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in india well i think that has since changed or somehow those stats are being are misguided
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now i looked up the divorce rate in india and i wanted to read an article
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the divorce rate in india is steadily increasing year by year it's estimated that the number of divorces
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has more than doubled over the last two decades india is a country of immense diversity and culture
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with each state offering something unique one of the most discussed topics in india is its divorce
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rate which varies from one state to another the divorce rate of urban cities like delhi mumbai and
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bengaluru i'm so sorry guys i'm not going to be able to pronounce these um is more like 30 percent
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in places like delhi bengaluru mumbai um calcutta calcutta and luck now divorce applications have risen
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dramatically in recent years almost tripled northern states like ub byhar harina and rajinstan
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which is known for patriarchal society have relatively low divorce rates and separation rates
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the divorce rates in the northeast region is on the higher side so here it has the 10 states um
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from 27 okay it looks like these are the divorce rates okay and people age 20 to 30 35 are searching
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for divorce the most below is a graph showing gender from 27.12 to 27.12 so again remember all the
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countries don't know what to do if we have all of these single women so they have an incentive to
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mislead you about the divorce stats so what's one thing that i tell you guys that they do they include
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people that were before social media in order to make the divorce rate seem not as high it is as it is
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so can we say that women born that are 65 plus years old or 50 plus years old were from a
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different generation a different time and have a different set of problems
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yes okay um more men are searching for divorce than women in india the above graph shows percentage
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of genders from 2021 to december of 2022 um causes of increasing divorce rate in india lack of communication
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financial problems emotional breakdown lack of trust different values unhappiness insecurities
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wanting to be independent erratic work schedule alcohol and smoking recent research research suggests
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that the main contributing factors to the rise are lack of communication between spouses infidelity
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this causes the the causes may vary from person to person but overall result is a lack of breakdown
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and what was supposed to be a strong marital bond many couples simply don't know how to move forward
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once they reach an impasse and can no longer bear living with one another day by day um okay
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as more and more women attain higher education they have become independent more than ever
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with newfound confidence they expect greater respect from their husbands and partners something
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which men aren't used to and are willing to accept wholeheartedly the results in serious conflicts
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between them with which often leads to divorce on the other hand educated men expect similar respect from
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their wives but when it is denied it also causes tension from them resulting in separation so
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couples with higher educational qualifications tend to be more independent minded and less receptive towards
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traditional values which further contributes to merit towards marital discord leading to an increase in
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divorce rates among well-educated couples oh this is i think this is from a legal website so in india
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the divorce rate is on the rise that may seem like a bad thing at first glance but it's actually a good sign
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an increasing divorce rate indicates that more couples are feeling empowered to take control of their lives and unhappiness
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in marriages the decades-old stigma of divorce is gradually fading away and more couples are taking
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the bold step of filing for separation this can be attributed to changing attitudes towards marriage
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and family life especially amongst younger generations okay so that leads me to my next story which is
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something oh wait actually let me go into so i tweeted i've looked into a little bit some of the laws in
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india and i wanted to see if they have some of the gynocentric issues that we have here in the united states
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many times i i really it sounds like selling a dream to me um that you can go overseas and you won't have
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some of the same issues but i keep seeing stories time and time again where even in other countries
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they seem to have some of these same issues you guys could go amish though i do think the amish
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go get you an amish girl you know what i mean go give up your electricity and your power that might be
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the solution for you okay so no protection for men under scenarios where the perpetrator is female
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section 40 498 a husband or relative of the husband of a woman subjecting her to cruelty section 509
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or gesture or act intended to insult the modesty of a woman unnatural offenses unnatural sex commitments
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towards women assault of a criminal force on a woman without the intent to outrage her modesty
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i saw something that said that men in india if they have sex with a
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a woman and don't marry her can be taken to court for great i don't know if that's true
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but yeah anyway so there is a man who recently committed suicide so his name was atal subha she was 34
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years old he got married to in 2019 and was driven to suicide by a his wife in-laws the bias laws and
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systems within five years and he left an hour and a half suicide video and a 40 page note his wife
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demanded three crores alimony and which i believe is around 2000 a month wife didn't even let him see
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the face of his child uh the family court judge rita rashik demanded five lacks to settle the case
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he gave lacks to his wife to help her family but then got accused of dowry
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oh i think they have laws against dowry so if men give the women money they get accused of having a
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dowry i'm not sure but i think um his wife's father died of disease soon after his marriage but his wife got
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FIR under sections of murder slapped on his family claiming he died of shock because of the demanded
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dowry he had to attend 120 dates in the last two years family court judge passed an order of 40 000
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per month maintenance for a two-year-old because he didn't pay her the bribe she had asked he used to
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do households he used to do household chores got his wife a job and accenture india helped his brother
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in law financially spent lacks on the birth of his child and got his death in return this is not a
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suicide video this is a testimony of every married man in india facing false crimes false cases from his
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wife in a one-sided battle of the courts in the last words of a tool i refuse to pay and i choose
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death because i don't want my money to be used against me by my opponents to torture me and my family
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the dowry act enacted on july 1st 1961 in india prohibits the giving or receiving of a dowry the
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law defines a dowry as property or valuable security given by either party to the marriage by the parents
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of either party or by anyone else in connection with the marriage so yeah so he gave her it looks like
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he gave her money as a gift she said it was a dowry and then um dowries are illegal in india okay now
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i'm reading his some of excerpts from his suicide note
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potential options for me as my understanding one keep fighting the cases with all the evidence
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honestly but a corrupt judge is going to favor the opponent by harassing me and my family manipulating
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the cross and examination and giving a judge a judgment by twisting every fact in the case against
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you two my wife will keep my child alienated and will keep filing more cases to harass me and my old
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parents and brother using the very money i gave her as maintenance instead of using the money paid by
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me for the maintenance of my child it is being weaponized against me my old parents and my brother or as
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as suggested by my wife nikita my mother-in-law and the laughing judge rita kaushik on instigation that
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i should commit suicide this suicide is going to stop the supply of money to my enemies and the corrupt
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legal system it will also stop the taxes i pay which is going to be utilized to pass more laws against
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more mothers father more fathers men's and their families i choose to commit suicide as that would
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seem to be the best option that will satisfy my wife and mother-in-law while stopping the funds to wage war
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on my family and me it is also to expose the corruption of the judge and the madness of the legal system
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against me my old parents and my brothers and then let me see the last one i had
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instances of corruption corruption and rita's court stats um from rs 50 um who sits next to her takes a
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minimum rs 50 from everyone in front of the judge it is a daily routine for the pish car to take money
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from everyone and the judge multiple times judge rita has seen him demanding money from me people like me
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who are ai professionals from bangaluru make good money and have to pay rs 500 to rs 1000 to get the
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next date on every date securing a date on saturday or avoiding a very short date requires begging and
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paying money if my opposite party is able to pay more than me i will get a short date continued harassment
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this is like a bid system whoever pays more will get a date of their choice except men who also have to
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beg for it it is common knowledge in john power court that if you secure a favorable judgment from
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judge rita by paying a bribe judge rita explicitly demanded rs 5 lichens as a bribe 21st of march which
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i refused it says a thousand rupees is eleven dollars
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i don't think so i know i looked up something earlier it said 2000 i don't remember what it was
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but um pashakar madhav gave his number and asked me to call around mid 2022 promising to help me with
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settlement before the inter interim interim maintenance order to was to be passed when i called him he
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demanded rs 3 lax promising me to have an arrangement with judge rita to secure a favorable amount in
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interim maintenance to help with the settlement too i refused to pay let me i'm gonna send the link
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because i i sent um i sent a couple invites to people so let me see if they want to come
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um oh how to join she said how long will it be pearl it's through well if you guys want to come
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all right he said please read this on the show in 2021 crime against women in india
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um 82.8 percent of dowry were false wow 73 of all of cases overall were false 71 of grapes were false
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40 were just breakup a hundred thousand 15 000 arrested people were proven innocent 14 000 were mothers or
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and let me show you guys so apparently she did lose her job and a case has been filed against her for
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abetting suicide the ex-wife but demanded that the case be tried but they're trying to demand that
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the case be tried like a murder case actions should be taken against the judge who demanded a bribe
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she is sure to lose her job and go to jail his wife nikita um shing
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oh my gosh these last names singhanni was working with accenture earning well still she demanded two
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lack per month maintenance without hearing him the court asked him to pay 80k per month nikita demanded three
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see roar to free a tool from false cases he refused to be her atm
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um let me show you guys the video i couldn't understand it
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oh here it is there we go so this is the guy who committed suicide i can't understand this because
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it's what water weight does to your body hold on guys rumble's got ads i have youtube premium not rumble
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premium oh we got two ads um it's okay it's right here
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my name is atul subhash i'm about 34 years i live in banglore i live in banglore
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I am going to talk about the complaint of the Supreme Court and the High Court, and I will talk about my mother-in-law and brother-in-law.
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I am going to talk about the complaint of the Supreme Court, and I will talk about my mother-in-law and brother-in-law.
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They do want to hide what is going on because many people, including judges, prosecutors, and the women of any country are making money off of this system.
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So it is in their benefit to not let the truth come out.
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There is a law where if you give a woman the promise of marriage or any reward in return for a sexual relationship, but if you do not follow up on your promise, you're jailed for up to 10 years.
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Let me read the comments of the chat before we close out for the day.
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So because there's less people there than on YouTube, I can easily read your comments.
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You'll also get first access to our documentary.
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And we are raising money for a divorce documentary.
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Anyways, thank you guys for watching and I will see you guys tomorrow.