JustPearlyThings - December 10, 2024


Indian Father Driven To Suicide Because of Spiteful Ex Wife ｜ Pearl Daily


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In this episode, we talk about the latest court case involving a bank robber and a mother of three, the WNBA's Kaitlin Clark and why she is not as good as the other women in the league.

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00:36:49.480 i i can't even believe this so the woman who is also involved in this
00:36:56.160 the judge said i accept that you only became involved due to the pressure of stewart warby
00:37:04.300 so not her fault at all his fault no agency all his fault so let me get this straight by this
00:37:14.880 logic if your friend asks you to let's say drive a he he's gonna rob a bank and he wants you to be the
00:37:27.180 driver did he pressure you into it was it his fault if he asked and you said yes he also ordered
00:37:36.680 that she complete or he sentenced the mother of three to 22 months in prison suspended for two years
00:37:43.680 he also ordered that she complete 40 hours of unpaid work 0.95
00:37:49.260 he said it was ultimately a selfish act andrew oliver mitigating for cepeda said the cleaner
00:37:58.100 acted out of misguided loyalty to someone who is friends with her partner he said cepeda had no
00:38:03.980 previous convicted and she's devastated she played a part in the harm and suffering that's been caused
00:38:09.640 and didn't receive any financial or other benefits um for the part that she's played okay so again
00:38:16.620 this is as usual now i can't say it's atypical the men are evil for doing it according to this
00:38:26.040 and the women have no responsibility or accountability i can't say i expect anything less 1.00
00:38:32.800 okay we're gonna read um the chat's thoughts on this oh wait oh and i don't think there's been
00:38:39.440 any new ones let me refresh it real quick okay so next the next story we're gonna talk about
00:38:47.100 is
00:38:48.980 caitlin clark in the wnba so caitlin clark
00:38:56.000 was named times athlete of the year now as you guys know i played volleyball and basketball overseas
00:39:05.120 i've played 16 plus years of sports i ran track in college volleyball and basketball i am an athlete
00:39:11.060 but do i think that it makes sense for
00:39:15.300 a league that loses money every every year that's not entertaining enough to turn a profit
00:39:26.260 is more deserving of times athlete of the year than a league that fills stadiums and does turn a profit
00:39:37.600 now i do like caitlin clark i think she's very talented i think she is classy and i think she works hard
00:39:43.800 but i have to be honest when again this is going back to playing pretend where we're pretending that
00:39:49.340 she has the same star power as the men and she simply doesn't the biggest reason that she's in the 0.94
00:39:55.700 news is yes it is because she is talented but it's more because of the drama that goes on with her and
00:40:03.740 the other girls and the other girls bullying her as someone that works in the news that is mostly what 0.99
00:40:10.000 we cover right okay so clark apologizes for her white privilege and says that the wnba is built 1.00
00:40:17.780 on black players i want to say i've earned every single thing but as a white person there is privilege
00:40:23.220 a lot of black a lot of those players in the league that have been really good have been black players
00:40:29.500 this league has kind of been built on them the more we can appreciate that highlight that talk about
00:40:34.800 that and then continue to have brands and companies invest in those players that have made the league
00:40:40.180 incredible i think it's very important i have to continue to try to change that okay so do i think
00:40:48.300 that the wnba has been built on black players i think it's been built on men men's money because again 0.54
00:40:57.900 none of us would be playing and i can say this as a female athlete generally speaking all female leagues
00:41:08.480 operate at a loss because we are not as entertaining as the men unfortunately the leagues that do make
00:41:18.520 money have a tendency to make it through social media drama or
00:41:24.780 unfortunately taking off the clothes getting naked you know those are the only things that really make
00:41:34.680 money when it comes to female sports so i don't know why she's not talking about the real reason she's 0.99
00:41:42.000 able to do what she does the nba okay next all right so the next story that we're going to talk about
00:41:52.560 is an indian man was oh actually sorry so as you guys know i went from america to england and
00:42:06.720 i wanted to play volleyball there now when i went to play volleyball i started a panel show on the
00:42:15.440 on the side where i would invite my friends from volleyball and just people i would meet at the gym
00:42:21.300 on the street etc to come on and talk about relationships there's a huge podcast scene in the
00:42:27.080 uk so i just kept inviting people and making a show it was so much fun now during this time i was
00:42:36.180 curious as to why men would say things like there's no point in getting married and marriage is a trap
00:42:43.280 and when i was there i started digging into the court system in the uk and i found some terrible
00:42:49.880 awful things now one thing that i would continually hear over and over again was how arranged marriages
00:42:56.480 were the way they did seem to have a better outcome so i'm going to give them that but i would
00:43:02.920 hear i would always hear india has a zero percent divorce rate now this confused me a little bit
00:43:11.900 because when i'd gone to india like 10 years prior i definitely met some feminist women and it seemed to 1.00
00:43:18.640 be a problem there but according to what people were telling me and the divorce rate truly not a thing
00:43:25.980 in india well i think that has since changed or somehow those stats are being are misguided
00:43:34.580 now i looked up the divorce rate in india and i wanted to read an article
00:43:39.360 the divorce rate in india is steadily increasing year by year it's estimated that the number of divorces
00:43:47.080 has more than doubled over the last two decades india is a country of immense diversity and culture
00:43:53.040 with each state offering something unique one of the most discussed topics in india is its divorce
00:44:00.760 rate which varies from one state to another the divorce rate of urban cities like delhi mumbai and
00:44:07.800 bengaluru i'm so sorry guys i'm not going to be able to pronounce these um is more like 30 percent
00:44:16.200 in places like delhi bengaluru mumbai um calcutta calcutta and luck now divorce applications have risen
00:44:26.300 dramatically in recent years almost tripled northern states like ub byhar harina and rajinstan
00:44:34.740 which is known for patriarchal society have relatively low divorce rates and separation rates 0.92
00:44:42.120 the divorce rates in the northeast region is on the higher side so here it has the 10 states um
00:44:50.180 from 27 okay it looks like these are the divorce rates okay and people age 20 to 30 35 are searching
00:44:59.860 for divorce the most below is a graph showing gender from 27.12 to 27.12 so again remember all the
00:45:07.920 countries don't know what to do if we have all of these single women so they have an incentive to 1.00
00:45:13.800 mislead you about the divorce stats so what's one thing that i tell you guys that they do they include
00:45:19.900 people that were before social media in order to make the divorce rate seem not as high it is as it is
00:45:27.660 so can we say that women born that are 65 plus years old or 50 plus years old were from a
00:45:37.860 different generation a different time and have a different set of problems 1.00
00:45:41.780 yes okay um more men are searching for divorce than women in india the above graph shows percentage
00:45:52.360 of genders from 2021 to december of 2022 um causes of increasing divorce rate in india lack of communication
00:46:02.180 financial problems emotional breakdown lack of trust different values unhappiness insecurities
00:46:07.540 wanting to be independent erratic work schedule alcohol and smoking recent research research suggests
00:46:14.740 that the main contributing factors to the rise are lack of communication between spouses infidelity
00:46:20.340 financial instability and incompatibility
00:46:23.340 this causes the the causes may vary from person to person but overall result is a lack of breakdown
00:46:32.320 and what was supposed to be a strong marital bond many couples simply don't know how to move forward
00:46:38.220 once they reach an impasse and can no longer bear living with one another day by day um okay
00:46:44.620 as more and more women attain higher education they have become independent more than ever 1.00
00:46:51.200 with newfound confidence they expect greater respect from their husbands and partners something
00:46:57.520 which men aren't used to and are willing to accept wholeheartedly the results in serious conflicts
00:47:03.680 between them with which often leads to divorce on the other hand educated men expect similar respect from
00:47:09.420 their wives but when it is denied it also causes tension from them resulting in separation so
00:47:16.080 couples with higher educational qualifications tend to be more independent minded and less receptive towards
00:47:23.440 traditional values which further contributes to merit towards marital discord leading to an increase in
00:47:29.920 divorce rates among well-educated couples oh this is i think this is from a legal website so in india
00:47:37.200 the divorce rate is on the rise that may seem like a bad thing at first glance but it's actually a good sign 1.00
00:47:43.280 an increasing divorce rate indicates that more couples are feeling empowered to take control of their lives and unhappiness
00:47:49.600 in marriages the decades-old stigma of divorce is gradually fading away and more couples are taking
00:47:56.400 the bold step of filing for separation this can be attributed to changing attitudes towards marriage
00:48:03.060 and family life especially amongst younger generations okay so that leads me to my next story which is
00:48:13.680 something oh wait actually let me go into so i tweeted i've looked into a little bit some of the laws in
00:48:25.680 india and i wanted to see if they have some of the gynocentric issues that we have here in the united states
00:48:31.360 many times i i really it sounds like selling a dream to me um that you can go overseas and you won't have
00:48:38.640 some of the same issues but i keep seeing stories time and time again where even in other countries
00:48:44.560 they seem to have some of these same issues you guys could go amish though i do think the amish
00:48:51.680 go get you an amish girl you know what i mean go give up your electricity and your power that might be 1.00
00:48:57.280 the solution for you okay so no protection for men under scenarios where the perpetrator is female
00:49:08.320 section 40 498 a husband or relative of the husband of a woman subjecting her to cruelty section 509
00:49:17.200 or gesture or act intended to insult the modesty of a woman unnatural offenses unnatural sex commitments
00:49:24.720 towards women assault of a criminal force on a woman without the intent to outrage her modesty
00:49:33.200 okay wait let me
00:49:36.320 let me go look at something
00:49:46.720 i saw something that said that men in india if they have sex with a
00:49:54.400 a woman and don't marry her can be taken to court for great i don't know if that's true
00:50:00.320 but yeah anyway so there is a man who recently committed suicide so his name was atal subha she was 34
00:50:10.800 years old he got married to in 2019 and was driven to suicide by a his wife in-laws the bias laws and
00:50:20.640 systems within five years and he left an hour and a half suicide video and a 40 page note his wife
00:50:27.680 demanded three crores alimony and which i believe is around 2000 a month wife didn't even let him see
00:50:36.720 the face of his child uh the family court judge rita rashik demanded five lacks to settle the case
00:50:44.880 he gave lacks to his wife to help her family but then got accused of dowry
00:50:54.400 oh i think they have laws against dowry so if men give the women money they get accused of having a
00:51:03.280 dowry i'm not sure but i think um his wife's father died of disease soon after his marriage but his wife got
00:51:11.360 FIR under sections of murder slapped on his family claiming he died of shock because of the demanded
00:51:18.000 dowry he had to attend 120 dates in the last two years family court judge passed an order of 40 000
00:51:27.200 per month maintenance for a two-year-old because he didn't pay her the bribe she had asked he used to
00:51:34.640 do households he used to do household chores got his wife a job and accenture india helped his brother
00:51:42.880 in law financially spent lacks on the birth of his child and got his death in return this is not a
00:51:49.680 suicide video this is a testimony of every married man in india facing false crimes false cases from his
00:51:56.880 wife in a one-sided battle of the courts in the last words of a tool i refuse to pay and i choose 0.97
00:52:04.480 death because i don't want my money to be used against me by my opponents to torture me and my family
00:52:11.440 um let me see if there's so
00:52:19.040 the dowry act enacted on july 1st 1961 in india prohibits the giving or receiving of a dowry the
00:52:26.480 law defines a dowry as property or valuable security given by either party to the marriage by the parents
00:52:33.040 of either party or by anyone else in connection with the marriage so yeah so he gave her it looks like
00:52:37.200 he gave her money as a gift she said it was a dowry and then um dowries are illegal in india okay now
00:52:48.560 oh wait let me
00:52:49.200 let me
00:52:55.440 let me read the
00:53:01.120 i'm reading his some of excerpts from his suicide note
00:53:04.720 potential options for me as my understanding one keep fighting the cases with all the evidence
00:53:24.960 honestly but a corrupt judge is going to favor the opponent by harassing me and my family manipulating
00:53:30.720 the cross and examination and giving a judge a judgment by twisting every fact in the case against
00:53:37.200 you two my wife will keep my child alienated and will keep filing more cases to harass me and my old 1.00
00:53:44.800 parents and brother using the very money i gave her as maintenance instead of using the money paid by
00:53:50.240 me for the maintenance of my child it is being weaponized against me my old parents and my brother or as
00:53:56.080 as suggested by my wife nikita my mother-in-law and the laughing judge rita kaushik on instigation that 0.73
00:54:05.120 i should commit suicide this suicide is going to stop the supply of money to my enemies and the corrupt
00:54:10.800 legal system it will also stop the taxes i pay which is going to be utilized to pass more laws against
00:54:17.040 more mothers father more fathers men's and their families i choose to commit suicide as that would 1.00
00:54:23.280 seem to be the best option that will satisfy my wife and mother-in-law while stopping the funds to wage war 0.99
00:54:28.880 on my family and me it is also to expose the corruption of the judge and the madness of the legal system
00:54:34.720 against me my old parents and my brothers and then let me see the last one i had
00:54:40.800 instances of corruption corruption and rita's court stats um from rs 50 um who sits next to her takes a
00:54:54.960 minimum rs 50 from everyone in front of the judge it is a daily routine for the pish car to take money 0.57
00:55:02.240 from everyone and the judge multiple times judge rita has seen him demanding money from me people like me
00:55:08.320 who are ai professionals from bangaluru make good money and have to pay rs 500 to rs 1000 to get the
00:55:16.000 next date on every date securing a date on saturday or avoiding a very short date requires begging and
00:55:22.080 paying money if my opposite party is able to pay more than me i will get a short date continued harassment
00:55:28.400 this is like a bid system whoever pays more will get a date of their choice except men who also have to
00:55:35.520 beg for it it is common knowledge in john power court that if you secure a favorable judgment from
00:55:41.520 judge rita by paying a bribe judge rita explicitly demanded rs 5 lichens as a bribe 21st of march which
00:55:50.960 i refused it says a thousand rupees is eleven dollars
00:55:55.280 i don't think so i know i looked up something earlier it said 2000 i don't remember what it was
00:56:06.640 but um pashakar madhav gave his number and asked me to call around mid 2022 promising to help me with
00:56:14.800 settlement before the inter interim interim maintenance order to was to be passed when i called him he
00:56:21.440 demanded rs 3 lax promising me to have an arrangement with judge rita to secure a favorable amount in
00:56:29.040 interim maintenance to help with the settlement too i refused to pay let me i'm gonna send the link
00:56:34.960 because i i sent um i sent a couple invites to people so let me see if they want to come
00:56:46.560 um oh how to join she said how long will it be pearl it's through well if you guys want to come
00:57:03.120 all right he said please read this on the show in 2021 crime against women in india
00:57:09.600 um 82.8 percent of dowry were false wow 73 of all of cases overall were false 71 of grapes were false
00:57:24.640 40 were just breakup a hundred thousand 15 000 arrested people were proven innocent 14 000 were mothers or
00:57:34.480 yeah 14 270 were mothers and sisters um
00:57:44.000 okay
00:57:50.160 let me see if they're going to come on
00:57:52.000 100 000 rupees is uh 1175 us dollars
00:58:06.960 okay
00:58:10.800 and let me show you guys so apparently she did lose her job and a case has been filed against her for 0.93
00:58:18.640 abetting suicide the ex-wife but demanded that the case be tried but they're trying to demand that
00:58:23.840 the case be tried like a murder case actions should be taken against the judge who demanded a bribe
00:58:28.720 she is sure to lose her job and go to jail his wife nikita um shing 1.00
00:58:33.520 oh my gosh these last names singhanni was working with accenture earning well still she demanded two
00:58:41.120 lack per month maintenance without hearing him the court asked him to pay 80k per month nikita demanded three
00:58:51.680 see roar to free a tool from false cases he refused to be her atm
00:58:58.000 um let me show you guys the video i couldn't understand it
00:59:03.120 obviously because all right 40
00:59:15.440 oh here it is there we go so this is the guy who committed suicide i can't understand this because
00:59:21.840 it's what water weight does to your body hold on guys rumble's got ads i have youtube premium not rumble
00:59:28.720 premium oh we got two ads um it's okay it's right here
00:59:35.440 my name is atul subhash i'm about 34 years i live in banglore i live in banglore
00:59:41.440 today i'm going to commit suicide 0.90
00:59:43.440 uh
00:59:48.240 do
00:59:49.440 And I think
01:00:03.840 protection
01:00:05.840 I am going to talk about the complaint of the Supreme Court and the High Court, and I will talk about my mother-in-law and brother-in-law.
01:00:35.840 I am going to talk about the complaint of the Supreme Court, and I will talk about my mother-in-law and brother-in-law.
01:01:05.840 They do want to hide what is going on because many people, including judges, prosecutors, and the women of any country are making money off of this system. 0.93
01:01:17.060 So it is in their benefit to not let the truth come out.
01:01:23.440 It says search BNS69, BNS69.
01:01:27.240 The law about breakup.
01:01:31.580 There is a law where if you give a woman the promise of marriage or any reward in return for a sexual relationship, but if you do not follow up on your promise, you're jailed for up to 10 years.
01:01:44.980 Wow.
01:01:47.280 That is insane.
01:01:53.440 Let me see.
01:01:55.420 Let me read the comments of the chat before we close out for the day.
01:02:00.580 Nobody's hit the Zoom link, right?
01:02:02.180 Or have they?
01:02:03.380 No?
01:02:03.780 Okay.
01:02:04.000 I think it's pretty late in India.
01:02:08.820 Okay.
01:02:09.540 So it says two big traps to avoid student debt and marriage.
01:02:15.920 LPGA is the only women's sport that I enjoy watching.
01:02:22.400 Okay.
01:02:22.920 Let me check the chat one more time.
01:02:27.580 Okay.
01:02:28.140 I don't think they saw it.
01:02:29.020 I think it's pretty late there.
01:02:30.080 Okay, guys.
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