JustPearlyThings - December 10, 2024


Indian Father Driven To Suicide Because of Spiteful Ex Wife ｜ Pearl Daily


Episode Stats

Length

1 hour and 3 minutes

Words per Minute

58.637024

Word Count

3,705

Sentence Count

133

Misogynist Sentences

17

Hate Speech Sentences

9


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00:36:49.480 i i can't even believe this so the woman who is also involved in this
00:36:56.160 the judge said i accept that you only became involved due to the pressure of stewart warby
00:37:04.300 so not her fault at all his fault no agency all his fault so let me get this straight by this
00:37:14.880 logic if your friend asks you to let's say drive a he he's gonna rob a bank and he wants you to be the
00:37:27.180 driver did he pressure you into it was it his fault if he asked and you said yes he also ordered
00:37:36.680 that she complete or he sentenced the mother of three to 22 months in prison suspended for two years
00:37:43.680 he also ordered that she complete 40 hours of unpaid work
00:37:49.260 he said it was ultimately a selfish act andrew oliver mitigating for cepeda said the cleaner
00:37:58.100 acted out of misguided loyalty to someone who is friends with her partner he said cepeda had no
00:38:03.980 previous convicted and she's devastated she played a part in the harm and suffering that's been caused
00:38:09.640 and didn't receive any financial or other benefits um for the part that she's played okay so again
00:38:16.620 this is as usual now i can't say it's atypical the men are evil for doing it according to this
00:38:26.040 and the women have no responsibility or accountability i can't say i expect anything less
00:38:32.800 okay we're gonna read um the chat's thoughts on this oh wait oh and i don't think there's been
00:38:39.440 any new ones let me refresh it real quick okay so next the next story we're gonna talk about
00:38:47.100 is
00:38:48.980 caitlin clark in the wnba so caitlin clark
00:38:56.000 was named times athlete of the year now as you guys know i played volleyball and basketball overseas
00:39:05.120 i've played 16 plus years of sports i ran track in college volleyball and basketball i am an athlete
00:39:11.060 but do i think that it makes sense for
00:39:15.300 a league that loses money every every year that's not entertaining enough to turn a profit
00:39:26.260 is more deserving of times athlete of the year than a league that fills stadiums and does turn a profit
00:39:37.600 now i do like caitlin clark i think she's very talented i think she is classy and i think she works hard
00:39:43.800 but i have to be honest when again this is going back to playing pretend where we're pretending that
00:39:49.340 she has the same star power as the men and she simply doesn't the biggest reason that she's in the
00:39:55.700 news is yes it is because she is talented but it's more because of the drama that goes on with her and
00:40:03.740 the other girls and the other girls bullying her as someone that works in the news that is mostly what
00:40:10.000 we cover right okay so clark apologizes for her white privilege and says that the wnba is built
00:40:17.780 on black players i want to say i've earned every single thing but as a white person there is privilege
00:40:23.220 a lot of black a lot of those players in the league that have been really good have been black players
00:40:29.500 this league has kind of been built on them the more we can appreciate that highlight that talk about
00:40:34.800 that and then continue to have brands and companies invest in those players that have made the league
00:40:40.180 incredible i think it's very important i have to continue to try to change that okay so do i think
00:40:48.300 that the wnba has been built on black players i think it's been built on men men's money because again
00:40:57.900 none of us would be playing and i can say this as a female athlete generally speaking all female leagues
00:41:08.480 operate at a loss because we are not as entertaining as the men unfortunately the leagues that do make
00:41:18.520 money have a tendency to make it through social media drama or
00:41:24.780 unfortunately taking off the clothes getting naked you know those are the only things that really make
00:41:34.680 money when it comes to female sports so i don't know why she's not talking about the real reason she's
00:41:42.000 able to do what she does the nba okay next all right so the next story that we're going to talk about
00:41:52.560 is an indian man was oh actually sorry so as you guys know i went from america to england and
00:42:06.720 i wanted to play volleyball there now when i went to play volleyball i started a panel show on the
00:42:15.440 on the side where i would invite my friends from volleyball and just people i would meet at the gym
00:42:21.300 on the street etc to come on and talk about relationships there's a huge podcast scene in the
00:42:27.080 uk so i just kept inviting people and making a show it was so much fun now during this time i was
00:42:36.180 curious as to why men would say things like there's no point in getting married and marriage is a trap
00:42:43.280 and when i was there i started digging into the court system in the uk and i found some terrible
00:42:49.880 awful things now one thing that i would continually hear over and over again was how arranged marriages
00:42:56.480 were the way they did seem to have a better outcome so i'm going to give them that but i would
00:43:02.920 hear i would always hear india has a zero percent divorce rate now this confused me a little bit
00:43:11.900 because when i'd gone to india like 10 years prior i definitely met some feminist women and it seemed to
00:43:18.640 be a problem there but according to what people were telling me and the divorce rate truly not a thing
00:43:25.980 in india well i think that has since changed or somehow those stats are being are misguided
00:43:34.580 now i looked up the divorce rate in india and i wanted to read an article
00:43:39.360 the divorce rate in india is steadily increasing year by year it's estimated that the number of divorces
00:43:47.080 has more than doubled over the last two decades india is a country of immense diversity and culture
00:43:53.040 with each state offering something unique one of the most discussed topics in india is its divorce
00:44:00.760 rate which varies from one state to another the divorce rate of urban cities like delhi mumbai and
00:44:07.800 bengaluru i'm so sorry guys i'm not going to be able to pronounce these um is more like 30 percent
00:44:16.200 in places like delhi bengaluru mumbai um calcutta calcutta and luck now divorce applications have risen
00:44:26.300 dramatically in recent years almost tripled northern states like ub byhar harina and rajinstan
00:44:34.740 which is known for patriarchal society have relatively low divorce rates and separation rates
00:44:42.120 the divorce rates in the northeast region is on the higher side so here it has the 10 states um
00:44:50.180 from 27 okay it looks like these are the divorce rates okay and people age 20 to 30 35 are searching
00:44:59.860 for divorce the most below is a graph showing gender from 27.12 to 27.12 so again remember all the
00:45:07.920 countries don't know what to do if we have all of these single women so they have an incentive to
00:45:13.800 mislead you about the divorce stats so what's one thing that i tell you guys that they do they include
00:45:19.900 people that were before social media in order to make the divorce rate seem not as high it is as it is
00:45:27.660 so can we say that women born that are 65 plus years old or 50 plus years old were from a
00:45:37.860 different generation a different time and have a different set of problems
00:45:41.780 yes okay um more men are searching for divorce than women in india the above graph shows percentage
00:45:52.360 of genders from 2021 to december of 2022 um causes of increasing divorce rate in india lack of communication
00:46:02.180 financial problems emotional breakdown lack of trust different values unhappiness insecurities
00:46:07.540 wanting to be independent erratic work schedule alcohol and smoking recent research research suggests
00:46:14.740 that the main contributing factors to the rise are lack of communication between spouses infidelity
00:46:20.340 financial instability and incompatibility
00:46:23.340 this causes the the causes may vary from person to person but overall result is a lack of breakdown
00:46:32.320 and what was supposed to be a strong marital bond many couples simply don't know how to move forward
00:46:38.220 once they reach an impasse and can no longer bear living with one another day by day um okay
00:46:44.620 as more and more women attain higher education they have become independent more than ever
00:46:51.200 with newfound confidence they expect greater respect from their husbands and partners something
00:46:57.520 which men aren't used to and are willing to accept wholeheartedly the results in serious conflicts
00:47:03.680 between them with which often leads to divorce on the other hand educated men expect similar respect from
00:47:09.420 their wives but when it is denied it also causes tension from them resulting in separation so
00:47:16.080 couples with higher educational qualifications tend to be more independent minded and less receptive towards
00:47:23.440 traditional values which further contributes to merit towards marital discord leading to an increase in
00:47:29.920 divorce rates among well-educated couples oh this is i think this is from a legal website so in india
00:47:37.200 the divorce rate is on the rise that may seem like a bad thing at first glance but it's actually a good sign
00:47:43.280 an increasing divorce rate indicates that more couples are feeling empowered to take control of their lives and unhappiness
00:47:49.600 in marriages the decades-old stigma of divorce is gradually fading away and more couples are taking
00:47:56.400 the bold step of filing for separation this can be attributed to changing attitudes towards marriage
00:48:03.060 and family life especially amongst younger generations okay so that leads me to my next story which is
00:48:13.680 something oh wait actually let me go into so i tweeted i've looked into a little bit some of the laws in
00:48:25.680 india and i wanted to see if they have some of the gynocentric issues that we have here in the united states
00:48:31.360 many times i i really it sounds like selling a dream to me um that you can go overseas and you won't have
00:48:38.640 some of the same issues but i keep seeing stories time and time again where even in other countries
00:48:44.560 they seem to have some of these same issues you guys could go amish though i do think the amish
00:48:51.680 go get you an amish girl you know what i mean go give up your electricity and your power that might be
00:48:57.280 the solution for you okay so no protection for men under scenarios where the perpetrator is female
00:49:08.320 section 40 498 a husband or relative of the husband of a woman subjecting her to cruelty section 509
00:49:17.200 or gesture or act intended to insult the modesty of a woman unnatural offenses unnatural sex commitments
00:49:24.720 towards women assault of a criminal force on a woman without the intent to outrage her modesty
00:49:33.200 okay wait let me
00:49:36.320 let me go look at something
00:49:46.720 i saw something that said that men in india if they have sex with a
00:49:54.400 a woman and don't marry her can be taken to court for great i don't know if that's true
00:50:00.320 but yeah anyway so there is a man who recently committed suicide so his name was atal subha she was 34
00:50:10.800 years old he got married to in 2019 and was driven to suicide by a his wife in-laws the bias laws and
00:50:20.640 systems within five years and he left an hour and a half suicide video and a 40 page note his wife
00:50:27.680 demanded three crores alimony and which i believe is around 2000 a month wife didn't even let him see
00:50:36.720 the face of his child uh the family court judge rita rashik demanded five lacks to settle the case
00:50:44.880 he gave lacks to his wife to help her family but then got accused of dowry
00:50:54.400 oh i think they have laws against dowry so if men give the women money they get accused of having a
00:51:03.280 dowry i'm not sure but i think um his wife's father died of disease soon after his marriage but his wife got
00:51:11.360 FIR under sections of murder slapped on his family claiming he died of shock because of the demanded
00:51:18.000 dowry he had to attend 120 dates in the last two years family court judge passed an order of 40 000
00:51:27.200 per month maintenance for a two-year-old because he didn't pay her the bribe she had asked he used to
00:51:34.640 do households he used to do household chores got his wife a job and accenture india helped his brother
00:51:42.880 in law financially spent lacks on the birth of his child and got his death in return this is not a
00:51:49.680 suicide video this is a testimony of every married man in india facing false crimes false cases from his
00:51:56.880 wife in a one-sided battle of the courts in the last words of a tool i refuse to pay and i choose
00:52:04.480 death because i don't want my money to be used against me by my opponents to torture me and my family
00:52:11.440 um let me see if there's so
00:52:19.040 the dowry act enacted on july 1st 1961 in india prohibits the giving or receiving of a dowry the
00:52:26.480 law defines a dowry as property or valuable security given by either party to the marriage by the parents
00:52:33.040 of either party or by anyone else in connection with the marriage so yeah so he gave her it looks like
00:52:37.200 he gave her money as a gift she said it was a dowry and then um dowries are illegal in india okay now
00:52:48.560 oh wait let me
00:52:49.200 let me
00:52:55.440 let me read the
00:53:01.120 i'm reading his some of excerpts from his suicide note
00:53:04.720 potential options for me as my understanding one keep fighting the cases with all the evidence
00:53:24.960 honestly but a corrupt judge is going to favor the opponent by harassing me and my family manipulating
00:53:30.720 the cross and examination and giving a judge a judgment by twisting every fact in the case against
00:53:37.200 you two my wife will keep my child alienated and will keep filing more cases to harass me and my old
00:53:44.800 parents and brother using the very money i gave her as maintenance instead of using the money paid by
00:53:50.240 me for the maintenance of my child it is being weaponized against me my old parents and my brother or as
00:53:56.080 as suggested by my wife nikita my mother-in-law and the laughing judge rita kaushik on instigation that
00:54:05.120 i should commit suicide this suicide is going to stop the supply of money to my enemies and the corrupt
00:54:10.800 legal system it will also stop the taxes i pay which is going to be utilized to pass more laws against
00:54:17.040 more mothers father more fathers men's and their families i choose to commit suicide as that would
00:54:23.280 seem to be the best option that will satisfy my wife and mother-in-law while stopping the funds to wage war
00:54:28.880 on my family and me it is also to expose the corruption of the judge and the madness of the legal system
00:54:34.720 against me my old parents and my brothers and then let me see the last one i had
00:54:40.800 instances of corruption corruption and rita's court stats um from rs 50 um who sits next to her takes a
00:54:54.960 minimum rs 50 from everyone in front of the judge it is a daily routine for the pish car to take money
00:55:02.240 from everyone and the judge multiple times judge rita has seen him demanding money from me people like me
00:55:08.320 who are ai professionals from bangaluru make good money and have to pay rs 500 to rs 1000 to get the
00:55:16.000 next date on every date securing a date on saturday or avoiding a very short date requires begging and
00:55:22.080 paying money if my opposite party is able to pay more than me i will get a short date continued harassment
00:55:28.400 this is like a bid system whoever pays more will get a date of their choice except men who also have to
00:55:35.520 beg for it it is common knowledge in john power court that if you secure a favorable judgment from
00:55:41.520 judge rita by paying a bribe judge rita explicitly demanded rs 5 lichens as a bribe 21st of march which
00:55:50.960 i refused it says a thousand rupees is eleven dollars
00:55:55.280 i don't think so i know i looked up something earlier it said 2000 i don't remember what it was
00:56:06.640 but um pashakar madhav gave his number and asked me to call around mid 2022 promising to help me with
00:56:14.800 settlement before the inter interim interim maintenance order to was to be passed when i called him he
00:56:21.440 demanded rs 3 lax promising me to have an arrangement with judge rita to secure a favorable amount in
00:56:29.040 interim maintenance to help with the settlement too i refused to pay let me i'm gonna send the link
00:56:34.960 because i i sent um i sent a couple invites to people so let me see if they want to come
00:56:46.560 um oh how to join she said how long will it be pearl it's through well if you guys want to come
00:57:03.120 all right he said please read this on the show in 2021 crime against women in india
00:57:09.600 um 82.8 percent of dowry were false wow 73 of all of cases overall were false 71 of grapes were false
00:57:24.640 40 were just breakup a hundred thousand 15 000 arrested people were proven innocent 14 000 were mothers or
00:57:34.480 yeah 14 270 were mothers and sisters um
00:57:44.000 okay
00:57:50.160 let me see if they're going to come on
00:57:52.000 100 000 rupees is uh 1175 us dollars
00:58:06.960 okay
00:58:10.800 and let me show you guys so apparently she did lose her job and a case has been filed against her for
00:58:18.640 abetting suicide the ex-wife but demanded that the case be tried but they're trying to demand that
00:58:23.840 the case be tried like a murder case actions should be taken against the judge who demanded a bribe
00:58:28.720 she is sure to lose her job and go to jail his wife nikita um shing
00:58:33.520 oh my gosh these last names singhanni was working with accenture earning well still she demanded two
00:58:41.120 lack per month maintenance without hearing him the court asked him to pay 80k per month nikita demanded three
00:58:51.680 see roar to free a tool from false cases he refused to be her atm
00:58:58.000 um let me show you guys the video i couldn't understand it
00:59:03.120 obviously because all right 40
00:59:15.440 oh here it is there we go so this is the guy who committed suicide i can't understand this because
00:59:21.840 it's what water weight does to your body hold on guys rumble's got ads i have youtube premium not rumble
00:59:28.720 premium oh we got two ads um it's okay it's right here
00:59:35.440 my name is atul subhash i'm about 34 years i live in banglore i live in banglore
00:59:41.440 today i'm going to commit suicide
00:59:43.440 uh
00:59:48.240 do
00:59:49.440 And I think
01:00:03.840 protection
01:00:05.840 I am going to talk about the complaint of the Supreme Court and the High Court, and I will talk about my mother-in-law and brother-in-law.
01:00:35.840 I am going to talk about the complaint of the Supreme Court, and I will talk about my mother-in-law and brother-in-law.
01:01:05.840 They do want to hide what is going on because many people, including judges, prosecutors, and the women of any country are making money off of this system.
01:01:17.060 So it is in their benefit to not let the truth come out.
01:01:23.440 It says search BNS69, BNS69.
01:01:27.240 The law about breakup.
01:01:31.580 There is a law where if you give a woman the promise of marriage or any reward in return for a sexual relationship, but if you do not follow up on your promise, you're jailed for up to 10 years.
01:01:44.980 Wow.
01:01:47.280 That is insane.
01:01:53.440 Let me see.
01:01:55.420 Let me read the comments of the chat before we close out for the day.
01:02:00.580 Nobody's hit the Zoom link, right?
01:02:02.180 Or have they?
01:02:03.380 No?
01:02:03.780 Okay.
01:02:04.000 I think it's pretty late in India.
01:02:08.820 Okay.
01:02:09.540 So it says two big traps to avoid student debt and marriage.
01:02:15.920 LPGA is the only women's sport that I enjoy watching.
01:02:22.400 Okay.
01:02:22.920 Let me check the chat one more time.
01:02:27.580 Okay.
01:02:28.140 I don't think they saw it.
01:02:29.020 I think it's pretty late there.
01:02:30.080 Okay, guys.
01:02:31.420 Well, thank you very much for watching today.
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