JustPearlyThings - Is HAFEEZ Coping？？

00:00:00.000 i'm almost at 500k subscribe subscribe honestly that to me if i'm being real i know a lot of you

00:00:06.320 guys love those numbers to me those numbers don't mean anything okay because it's about it's about

00:00:09.840 genuinely what are you out to do because i think like and this is where am i picking on you a lot

00:00:15.200 of people in this space they genuinely the scoreboard is views it's subscribers it is

00:00:21.680 dollars the scoreboard for me is seeing men's lives transformed it's seeing actual healthier

00:00:27.200 families in today's society seeing the system and seeing all those unhealthy things no longer

00:00:33.360 existing and now there's better men better women better better future that's the scoreboard for me

00:00:38.880 and so at the end of the day every single decision that we make should be for the purpose of creating

00:00:44.640 healthier men and women in the future and so if you're if the scoreboard go ahead now i lost my

00:00:50.800 train of thought no go ahead i'm just kidding if the scoreboard is simply views likes and

00:00:57.040 subscribers and then i respect that keep it 100 keep it 100 i'm not mad at it if it's why can't

00:01:02.880 why can't you do both why does it have to be one or the other you can't do both but be honest you

00:01:07.280 can't do anything if you don't make money here's the deal like but be honest what you're doing that's

00:01:11.840 my thing what what are you if you're being 100 real primarily can you be honest uh-huh primarily it

00:01:18.480 because there's no thing is like 50 50 there's no perfect asymetra what's that word asymmetrical

00:01:24.000 split right if you're being honest you're just building this as you fly you don't know these

00:01:29.120 things you're you're new here you don't really know what's going on you're and so to me i'm not

00:01:33.120 holding you to the same standards i hold myself to a lot of those other content creators they're older

00:01:38.240 men they've been doing this for a long time there's a lot of wisdom that i'm like yo i'm a 32 year

00:01:43.360 old man i'm just figuring life out i'm a young man i don't have the wisdom as these older dudes so i

00:01:48.080 hold them to higher standards you we're just having fun you're new here yeah you're just

00:01:52.080 figuring stuff out you're just copying pasting some of what they say to you you're trying this

00:01:56.160 out you're gonna learn you're gonna be better five years from now you're gonna be a totally different

00:01:59.280 person how old are you i'm 25 you're super young you're young see i don't i never get mad at the

00:02:04.960 young red pill guys and girls i don't because you guys are young it's like it's like a young feminist

00:02:09.440 oh yeah i don't want no babies 25 sure i'll see you at 35 with your beautiful husband and your

00:02:15.120 children and so to me my pushback is i get that you're not where they i get that you're not where

00:02:24.640 you need to be right now and it's okay because you're on your journey but my biggest thing is that

00:02:28.960 if we are being honest and we're saying that if this is the big like they're telling me the biggest

00:02:36.000 issue in today's society is to break down the family the biggest issue is the law if these are the

00:02:42.240 biggest issues and i'm like why is not 90 80 70 percent of the energy being put into these things

00:02:47.680 if this is truly the biggest issue i truly believe the biggest issue is that we're not building strong

00:02:54.160 competent men that's why i sacrifice everything that i own and everything that i've done to put all

00:03:00.800 my energy into that i'm as patrick david said that david said a true believer in what i'm communicating

00:03:07.600 and so to me i just got to be honest if you're simply doing this for fun for views for life you're

00:03:13.360 just figuring things out call it for what it is but let's not play this game like we're these

00:03:17.200 altruistic individuals who don't care about these other things when we do and it and it and it

00:03:22.080 waters down the content i've never played a game where i pretend that i don't want to make money and

00:03:26.640 get subscribers like i want that too but i just think you can do both i think you can advocate for men

00:03:32.880 and make money at it i don't see the problem and the reality and i don't i think you can start to

00:03:37.360 build solutions and make money like i think everything like you can't build anything without

00:03:42.480 money you can't build that like nothing but no one's no one's doing a charity here you're telling

00:03:48.160 me my my my goal is to help men and i need to make money but the way i'm making money is hurting

00:03:54.800 men you're i'm not hurting men you don't you said you i didn't say you okay why are you taking this

00:04:00.000 personally no but i'm like why are you taking this personally i'm not am i am i hitting a sore spot

00:04:04.000 that's how you is that's what bothers you at night no no it's you're not hitting anything are you sure

00:04:09.040 yeah you're having a good time having a good time guys you're having a good time but it's like

00:04:14.640 it's like i don't know i just i think you can do both of course yeah but my so my thing is that

00:04:20.640 as you grow you realize that dang some of the stuff i was doing yesterday was i thought was

00:04:27.680 which i thought was good it's not beneficial today it's not moving people forward today it's not

00:04:33.920 helping men and women today once you understand those things then you as an individual can adjust

00:04:39.680 can improve and you will you definitely will you're 25 you just you're new to the space you're

00:04:44.480 going to get so much better and so what i'm what i'm communicating is that if there was a healthy

00:04:49.600 balance right we've gone on too far on the entertainment side and we're not on into the

00:04:55.600 true life transformation side and in regards not saying you not saying you but i'm saying the content

00:05:02.640 in general and that's what i've seen because i've been watching this content for a long time you're new

00:05:07.680 here i've been watching this for a very very long time the people that you mentioned i've been watching

00:05:12.080 them for a very very long time and to me there is an evolution and there's a growth which i love

00:05:16.880 what i was seeing out of kevin i love what i'm seeing out of andrew tate and that's what we need

00:05:20.880 to make the society a better place and that's all i'm advocating for i think i feel like like you

00:05:25.760 think rollo tomasi i feel like he it's like i feel like he's the most like these are the solutions these

00:05:32.400 are the tools you need solutions i thought i thought it was i thought it was a praxology not ideology

00:05:36.800 well define for me a praxology let's stop right there define you want me to look it up or do you want to

00:05:41.280 look it up you can look it up i'm curious i don't i think it's like based on i'm not a smart guy i'm

00:05:46.720 just a guy who likes to read books and share my opinion i want to know what a praxology is i want

00:05:51.120 to know a praxology i'm not smart guys i'm just a guy a praxology is a theory of human action based

00:05:58.480 on the notion that humans engage in purposeful behavior am i is this the right one never looked

00:06:03.280 up the definition i don't know how would you use a word if you never look at the definition um i said

00:06:07.600 that's what they say oh so you don't know yeah i don't know you're just you're going off what they

00:06:11.040 say yeah okay cool yeah i told you guys you got to study these things you got you got to study it

00:06:15.200 for yourself you can't just listen to somebody else and then go what they say look it up yourself and

00:06:20.160 just be a blind witness yeah sorry i don't have the definition of a praxology memorized yeah well if

00:06:25.760 you're using a word hopefully you know what it means i'm not gonna throw a word out there i don't

00:06:28.720 even know what that word means because jack and jill tell you what it means no i thought it was like

00:06:32.400 like my understanding of the study of human action and conduct yeah like my my my understanding was

00:06:38.160 this it's like based on like reality and it's based on like data it's not like uh ideology is

00:06:44.080 like how you view the world and a praxeology is like based on what is that that's my ideology is a

00:06:49.360 system of ideas and ideals if you have a solution to a problem that is an idea and so therefore

00:06:56.080 everyone has a unique set of ideas everyone has a unique set of solutions and a unique set of

00:07:01.120 ideas and solutions creates someone's ideology so therefore when you use the word praxeology

00:07:06.000 you're which you did not know what it meant you just heard somebody else said and then you spewed

00:07:09.680 it out therefore what i'm trying to communicate is that well i said that's what they said that's

00:07:14.000 what i said you heard what someone else said and you spewed it out yes yes yeah and the initial point

00:07:20.880 which i was saying initially is that too many people when they hear talking points online they simply

00:07:27.920 regurgitate them they never analyze them for themselves everything that i said guys i'm just

00:07:32.240 a man who likes to read books and share my opinion i'm not dr jordan e peterson i'm not dr

00:07:36.480 david buss i'm simply a man likes to read books and share my opinion everything that i say men and women

00:07:41.680 study yourself investigate yourself because that to me is an destination and so my biggest point in this

00:07:49.440 conversation was that everybody has a system of practices so you said that individual whatever

00:07:55.680 that guy's name yeah has solutions oh wait great i'm curious what is what is his solutions oh so he

00:08:02.000 does money muscle game frame and so it's like if you want to get better with women it's like get your 1.00

00:08:07.600 money up your muscles game game and then so they're telling they're telling men what to do yeah okay

00:08:12.720 interesting yeah interesting so i think he he says it's like the tools that he gives men i don't

00:08:18.560 want this is let's move on from him and you can do what you want let's move on from him because i

00:08:21.600 don't want him to but this isn't your interview i just i just know my my rule of thumb is i know

00:08:26.560 how certain people act then you you mentioned their name is like freaking like mentioned bloody 0.73

00:08:30.560 marriage and pop up in the mirror i don't want to i want to focus on you and me conversation other

00:08:35.840 people other content creators if they're not in the room let's not talk about them but you can keep on going

00:08:39.680 okay okay what is your position on marriage then to me marriage is the greatest blessing you'll ever

00:08:47.520 have in your life or can also be the greatest burden you'll ever have in your life it's a single

00:08:51.680 most important decision that you'll make in your life and it's a serious decision that people don't

00:08:55.920 take seriously and have huge ramifications i truly believe marriage and family the family is

00:09:01.520 the foundation of society if there is no family that society is run by the state and that's what nobody

00:09:07.040 wants i'm not sure your political views but most people don't want a society that's run by the

00:09:11.120 state we don't want communism we don't want socialism we need strong independent families

00:09:15.200 leading strong independent communities and so i totally understand that marriage is the foundation

00:09:21.200 of it but at the same time choose the wrong woman worst burden ever choose the right woman greatest 0.98

00:09:26.720 blessing ever what do you think about prenups did you get a prenup no no prenup no i totally agree

00:09:33.280 if you're a man you want prenups i'm not a money guy there's other things that we talked about and

00:09:37.920 we we we've obviously converse with money is not important to me everybody is different you know

00:09:42.800 what i mean and so if you're a man you want a prenup or you're when we want a prenup all power to be

00:09:46.880 be to it um one of the things i mean my friends had a great conversation about prenups and i said the

00:09:50.800 reality of it is the state has rules if your marriage falls apart so you should have rules yourself

00:09:56.480 so this is what i i was talking to adam about about the marriage marital agreement people don't realize

00:10:01.120 prenup is like a permit uh like a a smaller version of a marriage agreement because prenup is only when

00:10:07.520 it's only a few things but there's a lot more things that you need to have in your marriage i.e

00:10:12.080 what happens if you and i pass away in a car accident who do our who do our kids get raised by

00:10:16.720 there's a lot of things that you need to be able to sit down with your partner and talk about

00:10:20.080 so to me a prenup is just the beginning you need to have a whole agreement when you talk about all

00:10:25.760 these nuanced conversations and topics to be able to benefit your marriage in the long run many of you

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JustPearlyThings - March 22, 2023

Is HAFEEZ Coping？？

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