John Antony Reveals The TRUTH About Spinning Plates
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Summary
In this episode, we talk about jealousy and living with other women in the house and how to deal with it in the real world. We also talk about what it's like being a stripper in a house full of other women and what it was like living with them.
Transcript
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didn't you guys do like you had multiple girls living in the house yeah in 2021 um we moved
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two girls in and then we moved a third girl and we had there was like some rotating girls in
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living for periods of time but at the height of it there was like three girls besides her
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it got to be too much for her and she left and like i lasted like another week after that and
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i just kicked the other girls out and moved her back in and said like let's not live with girls
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anymore i was gonna ask if how do you not get jealous because i'm like i would be so jealous
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yeah because two of the girls fell in love with me and it was like a big it was like it was like
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non-stop drama i was trying to basically try what hugh hefner was doing where he was living with like
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like on the girls next door and it sounded good in theory but in practice you know people there's
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like so much drama every day about every little thing so it's like lots of stress lots of bs i
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think the jealousy part is like about like i was okay like living with the girls but like
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the part is when you put a bunch of people together to live together like the real world kind of thing
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it's like it's like those tv shows like those um shitty shows you know that people started like
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arguing for nothing it's like so much drama all the time and what would like make me like really bad
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is like it was like for nothing like for example oh i want a apple juice and someone said oh but you
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should take orange juice and then no no i'm gonna take a oh my god did you see that she said that
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oh my god it's like everything every little thing is like you know but the part about me not getting
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jealous is because i don't know i just don't like uh like my first relationship like i started like
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my relationship with when i was 18 it lasts almost three years right and in the end of like my
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relationship like i was with such a nice guy but it was like truly truly nice you know and i was he was
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really really cool and like in the end of our my relationship with him like i tried to help him
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like to be with other girl you know that was like a friend of him that he had a crush before
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and she was like really cool she was like so sweet and i was like no you guys should be together now you
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know and like that thing about jealousy is something that doesn't bother me so was like this
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because i think it's natural for the men to have other women so you you were more annoyed with the
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girls in the house you weren't even jealous no whether i was jealous not jealous but like
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super mad is like the amount of bullshit that happens every day for nothing yeah because like i
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like i used to work i was like doing my like engineer job i'm like civil engineer i used to work
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and i would come back home and they would treat me like the boss for example all the girls would come
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with me with problems and like since like john works a lot i always took like the part of the
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house as my responsibility so i hate for example imagine like a lamp uh is not working right it's
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like i don't i won't even go to him like to say oh that's not working let's no i'll go there try to
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fix when he has to come to me to say oh that wasn't working i feel like i fail on that because like i
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took that part for me you know so it was like i would come to the house and one of the girls oh
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did you see that the maid didn't do that oh but she was supposed to do that and so it was like
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dude you could have solved that why you're making this a thing you know go there talk to the person
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talk to the maid like like you don't need me to like to come to see what's going on and then i
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would take one part one side like oh i think it's better but then the other part would be like
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is the is would you say the culture in brazil is a bit different is that much more open yeah like
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most girls are bisexual like most girls are kind of like sexually liberated um like we would go out
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to the clubs together we'd end up bringing home like you know two other groups of girls a lot of
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nights and we had like a stripper pool in the house so there'd be a lot of nights we get back to the
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house there's like 10 brazilian girls like running around naked in the house i'm like the only guy
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yeah i think we have more open yeah how does it work the other way around so if she brings back a dude
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well that's not allowed i've got a question about this as well because this is i've never come across
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anyone that has this setup do you think that you're okay with how you're living because he
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meets your other needs like does he meet your needs emotionally so is that does that make it
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yeah okay because like when like what i like when he goes out like to the other place to bang is like
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he comes back happy if he's happy my life like becomes like so much easier you know like if it comes
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like if it comes back of a smile oh it's okay i always ask how was your banging oh it's okay cool
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nice but like what she always says have a nice banging before i go because i have a second place
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now like we were doing it like in the same house and i gotta be too much like there was literally
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and this is like quality problems there's like periods of time when those three girls live in the
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house where i was still having other girls over all the time and the three girls would like
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be in their room while i'd have other girls because you had like two
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two floors place so it was like easier because the uh the up floor was like a a setup like with
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food nice stuff the the bar you know so it would like use the other but it's like was too much of
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that time so then why why do you think that you need more women is because you can't live without
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sex which is what we're no i just like like i i devoted my whole life towards like you know the
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dating game and and i just enjoy like going through the whole process and stuff like that
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and if you look like you know back in history like monogamy isn't natural anyways it was mostly
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imposed by by the church and the state to have familial units and stuff like that it's not natural
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at all if you look at the animal kingdom and stuff like that right there's like a tribal leader like
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in monkeys for instance and that sleeps with all the different females and the females are all
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attracted to that tribal leader but they'll go to other tribes and try to sleep with the alpha leader
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of that tribe right and then there'll be like fights and stuff like that but don't you think that's like
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a self-esteem thing though because i'm trying to look at the i'm trying to get deep also you're not
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monkey because yeah because i'm thinking because i'm from a caribbean culture and african culture i've
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got both sides and i'm telling you right now i i'm too no it just could not happen like it could not
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happen and i think also in the uk like what she's saying have you ever been have you ever been in a
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situation ship yeah so you're sharing a guy anyway without knowing yeah i've been in a relationship
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and the man's been for the streets but yeah no i hear that i hear that but actually like
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that yeah like and allowing it to be like part of the lifestyle would you rather they lie to you and you
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just don't know could you be okay with it if you didn't know wait would i no i wouldn't beat up with
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that person but you wouldn't know yeah yeah but they don't know i think what i value most is like
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the truth you know yeah it's like the thing is about like he can be like sure like he sits my
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by my by my side and he opens his mouth like to tell me anything he can be sure like the truth
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hundred percent because there's no lies yeah because men are gonna do what they want anyway and that's
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that's why it's better for communication which i understand i think it's so it's so authentic
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i'll tell you something though and i all do respect to you right but men will find it at least the men
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that i'm surrounded by and i'm 32 and i i'm surrounded by loads of men especially how quality
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men coaches blah blah blah but anyway men will find it very difficult to get married to a prostitute
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just because of her work period and other way around i think woman is the same right some men
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will marry a prostitute but on the promise of like okay she will change her job blah blah blah but you
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will find it very difficult for a man to settle down with a prostitute i've dated a lot of strippers
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for instance like that they were like reversing it but did you get married to them no but like i had
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a lot of stripper girlfriends in different places yeah girlfriends is different when you're married and
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having children to a stripper or a prostitute now listen there's there's a lot of prostitutes
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that are amazing girls then they're out there doing that job to support their families and
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their circumstances is just different a hundred percent now but they do get pushed down or like
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not looked at because they're prostitutes or strippers it's the same for men the quality of men
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and he can make a lot of money whatever it is wait you think it's the same for men when they've slept
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around when they slept around and openly sharing about it and it's just everyone knows about it
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the quality you go for it are women skeptical and reluctant to sleep with drake
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now here is the thing right this is the thing um definitely i will just answer the question it's a no
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no right and they're not yes what about i'm gonna ask you another what about rappers ballers look at
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nick cannon he's got all the baby but here's the thing who are they going for yeah listen if they're
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going for a certain type of girls that's like unknown they earn less than them um they kind of
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like structure yeah they will not hesitate in two seconds and and drake had a kid with a stripper
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but high quality women will definitely not sleep with drake and so many other rappers and they be
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i don't know if i would agree you don't have to you don't have to high quality women like let's say
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what is but that's the thing like what is a high quality i will tell you like i'm sorry i'm just
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like people from the parliament people in the in the in the politicians they won't do that they
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don't want their names associated with they just keep it i disagree they keep it low key but here's
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the thing the other men they keep it low key you there's a respect put respect on the name you
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realize like and put the respect on my name as well nba players have women that like actively pursue
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them to the point they'll like buy hotel rooms like at the places look to look for where they hang
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out and also like know everything about like they literally pursue them this is what they do i'll tell
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you what they do right why do you have this info because i okay i know i know about this info because
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i have personal assist a lot of influencers and some celebs in the uk so i've seen some behind the
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scenes of what goes on and how it works is that i don't know like an artist or an nba player so i've
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never worked at nba player but i'm just saying someone of that status will go through someone
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else and say i'm requesting a girl that's this age this and this they will scout for the girl oh yeah
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they will say call this person um wants you for the night they require x y and z and that's how it
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works it's not even always it wouldn't be just drake himself they all do it they all do it contracts
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there's so many contracts and that contracts will have it in d8 i was just banned on tiktok and we
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