JustPearlyThings - July 13, 2023


Jonah Hill Gets CANCELLED For Doing This


Episode Stats

Length

10 minutes

Words per Minute

146.51117

Word Count

1,495

Sentence Count

131

Misogynist Sentences

8

Hate Speech Sentences

6


Summary

Jonah Hill's ex-girlfriend, Sarah Brady, needed to talk about her trauma. She publicly accused him of sending her a series of abusive text messages. He also asked her to take down all of her pictures in a bathing suit.


Transcript

00:00:00.000 Let's talk about the oppression of women. We are just so oppressed by these men. Our lives are so
00:00:07.600 hard. Recently, Jonah Hill's ex-girlfriend, Sarah Brady, needed to talk about her trauma.
00:00:16.960 Yes, yes. And I'm sure it was something really serious because if you're going to publicly
00:00:23.540 come forward with an accusation against a man, I'm sure it's some very serious accusations that
00:00:31.120 really led to trauma. So she had an Instagram story. And on this story, she showed these super
00:00:39.980 abusive, emotionally manipulative text messages. She says, fuck it, because she just has had all
00:00:48.360 this trauma that she needs to come out now about, which is ironic because he just had a kid with
00:00:54.620 another chick. Kind of ironic timing, but who am I to judge? Maybe, maybe this trauma and horrible
00:01:03.980 behavior just needed to come out. All right. If you need surfing with men, boundaryless,
00:01:09.600 inappropriate friendships with men, to model, to post pictures of yourself in a bathing suit,
00:01:15.520 to post sexual pictures, friendships with women who are in unstable places and from your wild recent
00:01:23.440 past, beyond getting a lunch or a coffee or something respectful. I am not the right partner
00:01:30.660 for you. If these things bring you to a place of happiness, I support it and there will be no hard
00:01:37.020 feelings. These are my boundaries or romantic partnerships. My boundaries with you based on
00:01:43.760 the, my boundaries with you based on the ways these actions have hurt our trust. Bitches are always
00:01:49.900 the ones that misuse the term boundaries. It's always women. Oh my gosh, this is actually quite
00:01:57.600 reasonable. All right. He made her take this picture down. Oh, boo hoo. I have to take a picture
00:02:06.180 off of Instagram. My life is so hard. Holy F. He went through her Instagram with surfing pictures
00:02:14.560 and told her to remove them because of boundaries. Literally says anything with a bathing suit. This is
00:02:22.460 a warning to all girls. If your partner is talking to you like this, make an exit plan. Love y'all.
00:02:28.940 Call me if you need an ear. Wow. This is such a horrible existence. Like, do you guys realize
00:02:37.200 Instagram is the number one dating app? Do you know how you sound when you are dying on the hill
00:02:43.300 of Instagram? Do you know how crazy you sound? All right. Three removed. Not the video yet. It is my
00:02:50.000 best surfing video. Would you feel better if the cover frame was different? Any more specific ones that
00:02:57.420 bother you? Yes. One that isn't of your ass and a thong. Is that an unreasonable request? Is that an
00:03:04.160 unreasonable request? Not, she says, not a thong, but K. Wow. She just seems like a pleasant woman to be
00:03:12.900 around. And as far as other pictures of you in a bathing suit or not, I'm done. There's tons, but I'm
00:03:21.240 just going back the past month. Ladies, it's not crazy that men want you to act differently in a
00:03:29.360 relationship. And guess what? Before they started dating, he loved her surfing pics. Yeah, because you
00:03:36.380 have a dating app profile. You put that shit up and when you get into a relationship, you take it down.
00:03:42.380 It's really not crazy. This is Cecilia. She says, I feel so badly about her trying to appease him in these
00:03:50.640 messages. Women hate us. Single women, especially single older women, hate us. Jonah, you're right.
00:04:04.520 We can't do surf social things or develop trust until you consider me and make decisions that give
00:04:11.580 regard to our relationship. I have been vulnerable as possible. And I am telling you that I'm needing
00:04:17.240 you to step up to the plate, which you can. I'm sure of it. But if these losers don't get your time,
00:04:23.940 if you want me straight up, it's a consideration. I respect your love of surfing, but I respect myself
00:04:31.020 as well. And your love of surfing and being in those situations and lack of awareness are not
00:04:37.140 mutually exclusive. This isn't me. I have my own. This isn't me. I have my own issues that I own.
00:04:43.940 If you want marriage or a family, you can't use the 25 card. Stop and cut the shit. These people
00:04:50.520 don't get your time or your kindness at the sacrifice of mine. I am just so tired of the whining.
00:05:02.360 Like you women will die on the hill of Instagram. Who cares? Who cares? Oh my gosh. Like you could,
00:05:11.620 you could take option A and just take down the picture and not whine, not fight about it. Or you
00:05:16.960 could do option B and die on the hill of wearing a bikini on Instagram and keep the pictures for
00:05:24.680 yourself. You can still have them on your camera roll. You could still keep them on your camera roll.
00:05:32.160 Maybe show your close friends and family your surfing video. Why does this have to be public? But this
00:05:38.000 shows the mentality. It's the me, me, me mentality. I am more important than the family. My career
00:05:44.980 is more important than the relationship. Me, me, me, me, me, me. It might shock you to know that creepy
00:05:53.000 men have arrived to Cape for a fellow creep. Wow. That's not what it's not remotely surprising. He
00:06:02.340 infantilized her. Feminists just make up words. What does that mean? The way he manipulated her.
00:06:10.000 What it like, I am so tired of feminists just using words. They just make up these words and then use
00:06:17.180 them just to confuse people. So we don't even know what you're talking about. So you can just whine
00:06:21.980 and whine and whine. Honest to God, the number of people that think this list is no big deal is
00:06:28.460 terrifying. Terrifying. All right. Now, Brian came in and said, this seems like pretty healthy
00:06:36.720 boundary setting. You think telling your professional surfer girlfriend to not post
00:06:41.740 pictures of herself in a bathing suit is boundary setting? He says, I understand that specific
00:06:48.240 boundaries aren't what I would choose, but everyone has the right to send boundaries that
00:06:52.300 they are comfortable in a relationship. He literally sought her out and loved your pictures
00:06:56.420 before they were dead. Guys, guys, guys. Why do women think they need to act the same exact
00:07:04.240 way single as in a relationship? Do you guys expect your, if you have a girlfriend, do you
00:07:09.480 expect her to act the same exact way single as she would marry? No, no. That's so crazy.
00:07:17.340 And you know, let's, let's even say the men, are you going to act the same exact way single
00:07:22.980 as men make compromises for us all the time? I bet you if she said, I don't want him going to the
00:07:29.900 club anymore. I bet you they would say, oh, you poor thing. How could, how could he do that if he went
00:07:38.020 anyway or whatever? But all right, this is Sarah Brady's Instagram. Now, as you can see, it's a lot of
00:07:46.260 bikini pictures. Now, now that she is single, she is super empowered to post these bikini pictures.
00:07:52.800 Here, she is weaponizing mental health. I struggle with mental health, but I do not use it to control
00:08:01.000 people like he did to me. It's been a year of healing and growth with the help of loved ones and
00:08:06.680 doctors to get back to living my life without guilt, shame, and self-judgment for things as small
00:08:13.220 as surfing in a swimsuit rather than a more conservative wetsuit. And I'm sure there's
00:08:18.980 still much more healing, healing from this, this abuse of me. Guys, do you see why I criticize therapy?
00:08:26.340 They make us crazier. Do you see this? She's been talking to doctors. These doctors are not our
00:08:33.980 friends. These women are not our friends. Oh, it's unbelievable. He would send me shit like this.
00:08:39.100 Oh, boo hoo. My life is so hard.
00:08:43.220 Wow. Sharing this publicly now because it was keeping it to myself was causing more damage to
00:08:51.680 my mental health than sharing it would ever do. Can we break that down? It's doing more damage to
00:08:57.220 her mental health than to shut the fuck up. Like, how is this more damaging? Sorry, guys. Sometimes my
00:09:07.940 manager says I should swear less, but it's like you women just bring the shit out of me. Like, oh, oh,
00:09:14.720 I'm so damaged. I'm so damaged because he told me to take off my bikini. Wow. Can you imagine if your
00:09:23.940 sister had to go through that trauma? Can you imagine your daughter, wife, mother, the horrible trauma?
00:09:30.600 Teen Vogue did for me what couples therapy didn't. My boyfriend says the way I dress at the beach is
00:09:39.060 too revealing. He says, I shouldn't wear bikinis or short shorts. I don't want to make him feel bad,
00:09:44.180 but I like my style. What should I do? Ditch the boyfriend and keep the bikini.
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