JustPearlyThings - July 13, 2023


Jonah Hill TAUGHT Men This Valuable Lesson


Episode Stats


Length

10 minutes

Words per minute

144.54836

Word count

1,453

Sentence count

157

Harmful content

Misogyny

41

sentences flagged

Toxicity

61

sentences flagged

Hate speech

11

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Summary

Summaries generated with gmurro/bart-large-finetuned-filtered-spotify-podcast-summ .

This episode is about how to deal with a guy who doesn t want you to wear a bikini on the beach, and how to get over it. And how to cope when your boyfriend tells you to stop being a whore.

Transcript

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Misogyny classifications generated with MilaNLProc/bert-base-uncased-ear-misogyny .
Toxicity classifications generated with s-nlp/roberta_toxicity_classifier .
Hate speech classifications generated with facebook/roberta-hate-speech-dynabench-r4-target .
00:00:00.000 Teen Vogue did for me what couples therapy didn't.
00:00:05.400 My boyfriend says the way I dress at the beach is too revealing.
00:00:08.780 He says I shouldn't wear bikinis or short shorts.
00:00:11.860 I don't want to make him feel bad, but I like my style.
00:00:14.640 What should I do?
00:00:16.560 Ditch the boyfriend and keep the bikini.
00:00:19.300 These women are not our friends. 1.00
00:00:21.300 This is why I keep trying to show you guys.
00:00:23.040 These women will lead us down a rabbit hole of self-destruction. 1.00
00:00:28.300 Oh, he says put on some clothes. 0.56
00:00:32.520 Wow, I need to break up with him. 0.94
00:00:35.800 Horrible life.
00:00:38.160 You know, thank you, Sarah, for giving me this content.
00:00:40.600 I needed something to talk about today.
00:00:42.720 Even the person I loved shared a bed with uses me
00:00:45.700 and can't just be like, yeah, you were super nice.
00:00:48.440 It hurts me, but I'm done apologizing.
00:00:51.040 I was so lovely to you. 0.99
00:00:53.860 This bitch calls this gaslighting? 1.00
00:00:57.220 Gaslight much? 1.00
00:00:59.020 This is what I mean.
00:00:59.920 We just make up words that mean nothing.
00:01:03.480 The right boundaries in the right place don't limit.
00:01:06.580 They liberate.
00:01:09.480 As you heal.
00:01:10.700 Oh, I am so tired of hearing about women's healing. 1.00
00:01:20.000 What is healing?
00:01:21.560 Oh, I'm going to go take a trip to California and meet a surfer guy.
00:01:27.020 And, oh, this is my healing.
00:01:29.400 I'm going to go get some mimosas with my feminist friends 1.00
00:01:33.520 while they just tell me I did nothing wrong in my relationship and heal.
00:01:38.600 So, invite me to one of these lunches.
00:01:41.740 I want to be invited to one of these lunches.
00:01:44.680 She's being our couple therapist at the same time.
00:01:48.280 Wow.
00:01:49.120 So, the couple's therapist took his side. 1.00
00:01:55.460 That side is bitch is so pissed. 1.00
00:01:57.860 She had me agree to paddle away from any man that approached me in the water, 1.00
00:02:03.120 no matter his age.
00:02:04.500 I was instructed to say, I'm going to talk to my boyfriend and then paddle away. 1.00
00:02:09.780 Yeah, the therapist was like, you're a whore. 1.00
00:02:14.820 The therapist was like, stop being a whore. 1.00
00:02:18.440 This must have made you feel crazy. 1.00
00:02:22.560 Do I got to say it?
00:02:24.140 Should I say it?
00:02:25.600 Do I need to say it? 1.00
00:02:28.260 Bitch, you are crazy. 1.00
00:02:29.960 This is what this feminist propaganda does to us. 1.00
00:02:32.880 We are just convinced we are victims.
00:02:35.540 They'll just convince us and say, oh, you're a victim.
00:02:39.900 Your life is so hard.
00:02:42.080 It's so hard.
00:02:43.200 Oh, boo-hoo. 0.99
00:02:44.580 Dona, I literally just said hello and leave the convo. 1.00
00:02:49.300 I love how your therapist thinks I suck. 0.97
00:02:51.540 I literally am the best boyfriend on earth. 0.98
00:02:54.660 Yep, the therapists are not our friends.
00:02:58.240 How convenient is this all?
00:03:00.160 Isn't it convenient he just had a kid, this all comes out?
00:03:03.140 Is that convenient to you guys?
00:03:05.380 Right?
00:03:05.920 It's a bit weird.
00:03:06.780 Weird timing.
00:03:08.280 It's so icky to see how I took the blame for him.
00:03:11.320 I'm sorry I said that.
00:03:12.920 I had a couple beers and I'm just upset feeling and we can't do surf social things without an
00:03:19.600 uncomfortable situation that usually feels like my fault somehow.
00:03:22.920 I feel you pull away and then the feeling of being defective creeps in.
00:03:29.100 I'm not being socially intelligent enough to meet your needs as a partner and then I get
00:03:35.360 frustrated.
00:03:36.420 Okay. 1.00
00:03:36.680 She's just, she was just being a whore. 1.00
00:03:38.740 That's all what it is. 0.99
00:03:41.640 In the moments collect my brain thinks of you to dump me because I'm not good enough and 0.99
00:03:49.340 you're the goat. 0.99
00:03:50.660 Yeah. 0.95
00:03:50.920 Okay. 0.99
00:03:51.180 So now he's saying you're being too much of a whore at these social surf events. 0.99
00:03:56.440 I don't, oh, misogyny. 1.00
00:04:00.720 I don't care for your misogyny.
00:04:03.500 I'm so tired.
00:04:04.400 You know what's offensive?
00:04:05.560 It's offensive to me that she uses the word misogyny as a fellow, as a fellow, you know,
00:04:10.500 maybe I'm a feminist now. 1.00
00:04:12.060 I identify as a feminist and I'm offended that you use the word misogyny because your boyfriend 1.00
00:04:17.820 told you to stop being a whore. 1.00
00:04:19.200 I'm offended for the real sexism and misogyny that I experienced so much. 1.00
00:04:25.540 My life is so hard.
00:04:27.280 Okay.
00:04:27.680 Blah, blah, blah.
00:04:28.760 She's just whining. 1.00
00:04:30.380 This makes me feel like you're telling me to see, oh, words are very small.
00:04:37.620 All right.
00:04:37.860 This makes me feel like you're testing me to see if you should keep me around or dump me
00:04:44.300 because that's something, there's something wrong with me. 1.00
00:04:47.200 I'm a nerdy, dorky, unaware, naive, idiot socially. 1.00
00:04:52.060 I hear you. 1.00
00:04:52.920 Probably exactly what was happening.
00:04:54.640 I'm going to be honest.
00:04:56.840 I mean, that's what men do.
00:04:59.280 They're testing you to see if your wife material. 1.00
00:05:02.140 You clearly didn't pass, lady. 0.98
00:05:04.140 Now, oh my God. 0.99
00:05:05.460 So all these women now are commenting, seeing your story highlights that they're disgusting, 1.00
00:05:10.820 controlling men. 0.99
00:05:12.380 And I believe you.
00:05:14.080 I hope you continue to heal.
00:05:15.580 And now she's saying, oh, well, thank God.
00:05:17.800 Now the public is co-signing me.
00:05:20.100 Therefore, I was abused.
00:05:22.120 These women are not our friends. 1.00
00:05:23.940 These women are not our friends. 1.00
00:05:25.700 These women are not our friends. 1.00
00:05:27.200 I hope my ex has a daughter.
00:05:29.780 Maybe she'll turn him into a real feminist. 1.00
00:05:32.340 Men, if she says she's a feminist, run. 1.00
00:05:35.720 Run.
00:05:36.460 Don't walk.
00:05:37.360 Run. 1.00
00:05:37.740 Because she'll me to your ass, okay? 1.00
00:05:41.180 She says, it's just constant and doesn't reflect where you're at or where you want to be. 0.99
00:05:48.540 I respect your skill in surfing.
00:05:50.720 I respect how you want to present yourself.
00:05:53.820 It's just constant.
00:05:55.780 But I also respect myself and I'm interested in my own life and what I let into my heart
00:06:01.620 and inner circle.
00:06:02.480 So celebrate yourself and your life however you please and shine bright.
00:06:07.380 And I don't want to have to deal with it. 1.00
00:06:09.420 Basically, he's dumping her ass. 0.99
00:06:12.000 It's like he's been texting you for months. 1.00
00:06:13.880 Babe, put the bikini pictures away. 1.00
00:06:16.600 Put the bikini pictures away.
00:06:18.420 And, oh, everyone's saying this is so embarrassing.
00:06:22.380 He's like, babe, all right, look it.
00:06:23.880 I'm going to dump you if you don't put the bikini pictures away. 1.00
00:06:27.060 Does this not seem like ample warning?
00:06:30.020 Does this not seem like ample warning?
00:06:32.480 She doesn't do it.
00:06:33.340 She gets dumped.
00:06:35.920 Could have been a housewife. 1.00
00:06:37.620 But, like, do you think about this?
00:06:40.060 She could have been a housewife but gave that up for bikini pictures on Instagram. 1.00
00:06:48.420 She could have been a housewife. 1.00
00:06:51.640 She could have been a housewife, married, with kids, and now she has feeling fortunate.
00:06:58.780 Now she has amazing women that are single and really secretly hate her. 1.00
00:07:03.660 These women hate us. 1.00
00:07:05.840 Oh, my God. 0.72
00:07:06.260 She goes to law school.
00:07:07.540 Oh, and she put Taylor Swift on there. 0.97
00:07:13.200 Ladies, ladies, this is what happens when we take advice from feminist, older, single women. 1.00
00:07:20.620 And this is really, I want to talk to the women right now. 1.00
00:07:24.580 These women are not our friends. 1.00
00:07:26.040 They will call everything abusive, everything controlling, everything manipulative, even when
00:07:32.400 it's reasonable, healthy boundaries, and they don't tell us the truth.
00:07:37.200 And they are more evil because they lie to us. 0.99
00:07:40.960 They are big liars. 0.99
00:07:44.160 This is your sign. 0.99
00:07:45.680 Talk to your brothers.
00:07:46.860 Talk to your dad.
00:07:47.800 And, but maybe your mom, it's like 50-50, you know what I mean?
00:07:53.280 But these feminist, older women are not your friends. 1.00
00:07:58.600 They're not your friends.
00:07:59.600 They're competing with you.
00:08:00.600 And what they'll do is have you throw away a good thing for bikini pictures on Instagram. 1.00
00:08:07.260 And they'll co-sign it.
00:08:09.020 You lost your ability to be a multimillionaire housewife.
00:08:14.680 A multimillionaire housewife.
00:08:17.300 Now, for what? 1.00
00:08:19.720 For a bikini ass shot. 1.00
00:08:23.540 And the crazy thing is you can wear wetsuits. 0.96
00:08:26.760 He was saying in the messages she could wear a wetsuit.
00:08:28.900 Is that unreasonable?
00:08:31.920 Hey, babe, you know, you're in a relationship now.
00:08:34.560 Can we put the bikini pictures away?
00:08:37.340 I don't think that's unreasonable.
00:08:39.000 So, to the men.
00:08:40.700 If she says she's a feminist, run. 1.00
00:08:43.880 Run.
00:08:44.260 Don't walk.
00:08:44.740 Run. 1.00
00:08:44.880 Because she will meet you, your ass. 1.00
00:08:47.000 Also, make sure you got ring cameras or some sort of recording devices all over your apartment 1.00
00:08:53.440 so she can't come back and say,
00:08:55.740 Oh, the first time we slept together at the beginning of our relationship, like a year ago,
00:09:00.680 he graped me and he was abusive.
00:09:03.420 Get some cameras everywhere, okay? 0.99
00:09:07.360 And also, make sure that you get some of this shit in writing and text messages. 0.99
00:09:13.500 So, when you do dump her and she does go crazy, it's not about if she goes crazy. 0.99
00:09:19.300 It's more of just a when.
00:09:20.520 Like, when will it happen? 0.99
00:09:22.160 Make sure you get shit in writing. 0.99
00:09:24.380 So, if she ever goes to the police, the cops, anything like that, or social media, 0.99
00:09:29.880 you can say, 1.00
00:09:30.840 This bitch is crazy. 1.00
00:09:32.400 Here's my proof. 1.00
00:09:33.140 Here's my proof.