JustPearlyThings - June 01, 2023


@JWALLER Breaks Down Monogamy

Hosted by
Hannah Pearl Davis
Her Entire LOGIC Destroyed with THIS Question You Won't BELIEVE What Her BODY COUNT

Episode Stats


Length

10 minutes

Words per minute

188.92

Word count

1,927

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Harmful content

Misogyny

23

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Toxicity

45

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Hate speech

23

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Summary

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On this episode of the brother and sister duo of the and sit down and discuss cheating, monogamy, and hypergamy in the 21st century. The guys discuss how to deal with cheating in the modern dating world, the effects of cheating, and what to do about it.

Transcript

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00:00:00.000 yeah you triggered me a little bit last time you were on the show did you good a little bit i was
00:00:04.740 a little triggered are you mad no no i was i wasn't mad i'm never mad but i it was like when
00:00:11.080 you were saying that my dad was cheating i was like my dad wouldn't do that like yeah but you're
00:00:15.460 a girl you don't want to believe it i'll tell you this respectfully if i had to bet a million
00:00:20.460 dollars i would have to put it on he did it at least once because i know how men are right you
00:00:27.200 know what i'm saying and i also know that the woman would not have had to be attractive just 0.71
00:00:31.820 different yeah you know and it's hurtful as it is and and i remember because you told me that was my 0.98
00:00:38.060 worldview and i'm thinking to myself you shove your worldview up your ass i know yeah just how they 0.97
00:00:43.340 are and and i think what really makes that tough is one might be under the assumption that had your 0.99
00:00:51.380 father done that and i'm not saying he did he would be a bad man i would say bullshit i would say 0.81
00:00:57.100 he took care of his family he provided for your mother and never left her for a younger woman 0.89
00:01:01.940 took care made you an incredible person made your brother a good person and out supporting society 0.99
00:01:09.380 right that's a one percent man just because he got some pussy on a tuesday one time has nothing to 0.99
00:01:16.200 do with who he is and i think society fucks that up they say there's this great guy and he did very 1.00
00:01:21.280 very good but he slept with that one bitch i actually i agree with you yeah i think like 0.99
00:01:27.500 i don't i don't agree i don't think my dad cheated i'm gonna say that i'm not saying he good but i'm 0.99
00:01:33.080 saying if he had but i think if my dad was in your position and i think most men if they're in your
00:01:40.580 position or the position of like many athletes or whatever where women are like chasing them and 1.00
00:01:47.100 hunting them down i i don't think there's a lot of men that would say no over like a 50-year period
00:01:53.300 so i actually i agree with you no no chance so here here's the other thing too is that you take a
00:01:58.640 man that uses monogamy and loyalty as a mating strategy you know look at a guy like me or my friends 0.99
00:02:07.000 and be like those guys are a piece of shit baby i would never no no no women mistake a guy that can't 1.00
00:02:14.640 get it for loyalty big mistake people make big mating strategy of more beta type guys they're 1.00
00:02:22.980 trading sexual exclusivity for something they can't get regularly which is sex and they give up
00:02:32.620 all their research resources for it and they want to act like i'm a bad guy but just before we turn
00:02:38.940 this camera on i showed you a woman that was throwing herself at me 0.92
00:02:42.180 and what did you see me send her back 0.73
00:02:46.100 you said no in some way you showed you said oh a photo you sent her a photo of her family boom 0.96
00:02:53.640 now who's the asshole now kids were so cute too i know but you said you didn't judge her i was like 0.88
00:03:02.220 how do you not judge that i'm not judging her i see it so much i still have facebook okay 0.99
00:03:07.760 it's disgusting how many married women hit on me on facebook it's disgusting 0.99
00:03:14.720 so for me i instead of getting mad i play ball i understand hypergamy
00:03:23.520 yeah so you could you could get mad at the game or you could play it i could play and i just choose
00:03:30.560 and look was a woman attractive yeah i just like here's my thing number one i don't want to i don't 0.69
00:03:39.000 want to sleep on a bad conscious and i see those i see those kids and i'm just like i had that happen 0.99
00:03:44.160 to me you had that happen to you oh with your fuck yeah yeah then then i'm watching my dad and my 0.99
00:03:50.740 stepdad roll around the grass in the front yard just bullshit why why it's not like i'm not in 1.00
00:03:57.140 abundance okay i'm the i'm one of very few men that will ever tell that woman no and you saw what 0.98
00:04:03.120 she said i'm like pick somebody else she's like no i want you hypergamy because if she was just a 1.00
00:04:08.860 whore she'd just go fuck somebody it's hypergamy it's it's a cross and up right this is exactly what 1.00
00:04:14.700 this is a prime example of hypergamy do you think women can ever be happy with a guy 1.00
00:04:20.140 that doesn't fulfill her hypergamy like do you think that i think i think that if i was a normal 1.00
00:04:25.460 guy i didn't mean to cut your question off but i want to answer the first one if i were just some
00:04:30.420 normal dude i would not marry a woman that would not commit to leaving social media
00:04:34.500 because it ruins it it ruins it look back in the 80s my dad might have seen one or two women 1.00
00:04:42.680 that were beautiful outside of my mom and he might have seen them in a parking lot one time and never
00:04:48.900 saw him again you know and so in that way it made things a lot easier for people i think i don't
00:04:56.140 think it's easy for women because women either they marry a normal guy and they get flooded with 1.00
00:05:03.160 every guy that is statistically better than them in some way and they are naturally hypergamous by 1.00
00:05:08.480 their primal needs right so i'm not out here saying like women are shit and then men 1.00
00:05:15.820 they go online and they're like me or my friends and they get the selection of all the women they want 0.99
00:05:21.520 and i might sleep with said person but i'm probably not going to wife her up because my inbox is full of
00:05:29.500 it you see what i'm saying so i don't think it's easy for either side and then if you're a normal guy
00:05:34.560 then you're really screwed because you're not really kind of getting either one of those
00:05:39.880 yeah like what do you think a normal guy should do 0.95
00:05:42.900 to avoid being the husband i don't i don't think it's about about not being a husband or not
00:05:51.520 no i meant avoid being the husband i think you can be a husband without being married first of all
00:05:55.560 i'll say that okay like if you have children and you love somebody i believe in love fully and also
00:05:59.800 believe in family fully so if i had kids in a family if i would take care of them fully
00:06:07.540 she would be retired should have a very large house and be set 1.00
00:06:13.520 if i was a normal guy i would try to find a scenario where i could be the hero because no man
00:06:23.240 wants a woman that he can't save from a castle and dragon the reason you and your brother get 0.61
00:06:26.580 along more is because you respect the fact that he's out there working like you're you're showing
00:06:31.260 more respect to him if the man cannot get admiration for the hard work that he's doing it's no longer
00:06:37.200 worth it it's the beautiful thing about love i completely believe in love
00:06:42.300 if a man can't be with a woman where she's like i really appreciate everything you're doing to
00:06:48.760 protect to provide you you are our hero it's not worth it for the man at all
00:06:55.120 it's simply not so what i would do the number one is i always say this is if you were living in
00:07:01.680 indiana and you were 510 you can still get jacked you can still work on your style you can still get 0.99
00:07:08.900 a damn good job or smart start a small business and you can be the fucking man in your little small 0.99
00:07:14.360 town in indiana like the man and then ideally you wouldn't have you would have a either a joint 0.99
00:07:23.840 social media or none at all and that way you don't have to put your wife in that position of 0.57
00:07:29.440 seeing all the competition that's out there because the only natural that's going to feel
00:07:34.060 that way that's what i would do personally and if she said you were controlling a woman only calls 1.00
00:07:41.760 a man controlling when she doesn't want to be inside the frame of that man i've never had a woman call 0.90
00:07:47.040 me controlling ever but hey what's your instagram that's so true it's absolutely fucking true that's 0.91
00:07:53.780 so true like a girl's not gonna a girl no because all she wants is to be with you you saw that other 0.86
00:07:59.000 message i showed you yeah especially when like the guy has all the leverage it's like what you're
00:08:05.040 gonna argue and what and what but here's here's the point of the matter though let's say let's say i
00:08:10.180 say yes to that girl i sent the photo of her family to i would have all the leverage then she knows that
00:08:15.240 damn good well when she's going in women will go into a relationship knowing the man's got all the 1.00
00:08:19.160 leverage that's what they want they want to look up to the man respect equals love with a woman they 1.00
00:08:25.020 want to respect you they could fucking hate you and still sleep with you they could hate you and 1.00
00:08:29.200 be in love with you i've had many many many women madly in love with me screaming i hate you 0.99
00:08:36.080 it's closer to love isn't it yeah yeah because indifference is what you should worry about if you're a
00:08:42.980 man that's so true yeah so true you worry about the ex-boyfriend that we talk about not the one
00:08:50.140 that we that we don't exactly yeah that's what you should be worried about and still being friends 0.97
00:08:56.300 with him on facebook is fucked no so is it controlling or do i love you enough to not put 0.98
00:09:01.500 these things in front of you why would i send my girl to the club you can send a good girl to a club 1.00
00:09:08.360 in miami and she'll fuck up she'll get drunk i come through start talking a little shit next thing 1.00
00:09:15.360 you know boom and she won't tell me that she's got a boyfriend back home oh single girl's trip 1.00
00:09:20.860 it's that dickhead's fault that sent her our letter and if she's truly in love with him and she's like 0.93
00:09:28.160 hey sally wanted me to go on a girl's trip and he's like you ain't going on a girl's trip come with me 0.98
00:09:32.440 she don't want nothing in the world in your time especially if you're on your purpose and you're
00:09:38.180 busy and you're working a lot truly not faking working but really working she wants nothing in
00:09:43.020 the world but to be with you she's truly in love with you genuine desire and so when that's not the
00:09:51.280 case then i think a man has to worry about men worry after the sex is after somebody's already cheated 0.91
00:09:56.980 men should worry when she's liking photos that she shouldn't be liking it's like the small shit or 0.98
00:10:05.520 like can i go on a girl's trip just her asking either you're gonna have to educate her on the 0.98
00:10:09.940 subject or you need to