@JWALLER Breaks Down Monogamy
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Summary
On this episode of the brother and sister duo of the and sit down and discuss cheating, monogamy, and hypergamy in the 21st century. The guys discuss how to deal with cheating in the modern dating world, the effects of cheating, and what to do about it.
Transcript
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yeah you triggered me a little bit last time you were on the show did you good a little bit i was
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a little triggered are you mad no no i was i wasn't mad i'm never mad but i it was like when
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you were saying that my dad was cheating i was like my dad wouldn't do that like yeah but you're
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a girl you don't want to believe it i'll tell you this respectfully if i had to bet a million
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dollars i would have to put it on he did it at least once because i know how men are right you
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know what i'm saying and i also know that the woman would not have had to be attractive just
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different yeah you know and it's hurtful as it is and and i remember because you told me that was my
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worldview and i'm thinking to myself you shove your worldview up your ass i know yeah just how they
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are and and i think what really makes that tough is one might be under the assumption that had your
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father done that and i'm not saying he did he would be a bad man i would say bullshit i would say
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he took care of his family he provided for your mother and never left her for a younger woman
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took care made you an incredible person made your brother a good person and out supporting society
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right that's a one percent man just because he got some pussy on a tuesday one time has nothing to
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do with who he is and i think society fucks that up they say there's this great guy and he did very
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very good but he slept with that one bitch i actually i agree with you yeah i think like
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i don't i don't agree i don't think my dad cheated i'm gonna say that i'm not saying he good but i'm
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saying if he had but i think if my dad was in your position and i think most men if they're in your
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position or the position of like many athletes or whatever where women are like chasing them and
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hunting them down i i don't think there's a lot of men that would say no over like a 50-year period
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so i actually i agree with you no no chance so here here's the other thing too is that you take a
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man that uses monogamy and loyalty as a mating strategy you know look at a guy like me or my friends
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and be like those guys are a piece of shit baby i would never no no no women mistake a guy that can't
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get it for loyalty big mistake people make big mating strategy of more beta type guys they're
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trading sexual exclusivity for something they can't get regularly which is sex and they give up
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all their research resources for it and they want to act like i'm a bad guy but just before we turn
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this camera on i showed you a woman that was throwing herself at me
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you said no in some way you showed you said oh a photo you sent her a photo of her family boom
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now who's the asshole now kids were so cute too i know but you said you didn't judge her i was like
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how do you not judge that i'm not judging her i see it so much i still have facebook okay
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it's disgusting how many married women hit on me on facebook it's disgusting
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so for me i instead of getting mad i play ball i understand hypergamy
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yeah so you could you could get mad at the game or you could play it i could play and i just choose
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and look was a woman attractive yeah i just like here's my thing number one i don't want to i don't
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want to sleep on a bad conscious and i see those i see those kids and i'm just like i had that happen
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to me you had that happen to you oh with your fuck yeah yeah then then i'm watching my dad and my
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stepdad roll around the grass in the front yard just bullshit why why it's not like i'm not in
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abundance okay i'm the i'm one of very few men that will ever tell that woman no and you saw what
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she said i'm like pick somebody else she's like no i want you hypergamy because if she was just a
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whore she'd just go fuck somebody it's hypergamy it's it's a cross and up right this is exactly what
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this is a prime example of hypergamy do you think women can ever be happy with a guy
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that doesn't fulfill her hypergamy like do you think that i think i think that if i was a normal
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guy i didn't mean to cut your question off but i want to answer the first one if i were just some
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normal dude i would not marry a woman that would not commit to leaving social media
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because it ruins it it ruins it look back in the 80s my dad might have seen one or two women
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that were beautiful outside of my mom and he might have seen them in a parking lot one time and never
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saw him again you know and so in that way it made things a lot easier for people i think i don't
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think it's easy for women because women either they marry a normal guy and they get flooded with
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every guy that is statistically better than them in some way and they are naturally hypergamous by
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their primal needs right so i'm not out here saying like women are shit and then men
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they go online and they're like me or my friends and they get the selection of all the women they want
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and i might sleep with said person but i'm probably not going to wife her up because my inbox is full of
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it you see what i'm saying so i don't think it's easy for either side and then if you're a normal guy
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then you're really screwed because you're not really kind of getting either one of those
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yeah like what do you think a normal guy should do
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to avoid being the husband i don't i don't think it's about about not being a husband or not
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no i meant avoid being the husband i think you can be a husband without being married first of all
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i'll say that okay like if you have children and you love somebody i believe in love fully and also
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believe in family fully so if i had kids in a family if i would take care of them fully
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she would be retired should have a very large house and be set
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if i was a normal guy i would try to find a scenario where i could be the hero because no man
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wants a woman that he can't save from a castle and dragon the reason you and your brother get
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along more is because you respect the fact that he's out there working like you're you're showing
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more respect to him if the man cannot get admiration for the hard work that he's doing it's no longer
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worth it it's the beautiful thing about love i completely believe in love
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if a man can't be with a woman where she's like i really appreciate everything you're doing to
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protect to provide you you are our hero it's not worth it for the man at all
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it's simply not so what i would do the number one is i always say this is if you were living in
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indiana and you were 510 you can still get jacked you can still work on your style you can still get
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a damn good job or smart start a small business and you can be the fucking man in your little small
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town in indiana like the man and then ideally you wouldn't have you would have a either a joint
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social media or none at all and that way you don't have to put your wife in that position of
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seeing all the competition that's out there because the only natural that's going to feel
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that way that's what i would do personally and if she said you were controlling a woman only calls
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a man controlling when she doesn't want to be inside the frame of that man i've never had a woman call
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me controlling ever but hey what's your instagram that's so true it's absolutely fucking true that's
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so true like a girl's not gonna a girl no because all she wants is to be with you you saw that other
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message i showed you yeah especially when like the guy has all the leverage it's like what you're
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gonna argue and what and what but here's here's the point of the matter though let's say let's say i
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say yes to that girl i sent the photo of her family to i would have all the leverage then she knows that
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damn good well when she's going in women will go into a relationship knowing the man's got all the
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leverage that's what they want they want to look up to the man respect equals love with a woman they
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want to respect you they could fucking hate you and still sleep with you they could hate you and
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be in love with you i've had many many many women madly in love with me screaming i hate you
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it's closer to love isn't it yeah yeah because indifference is what you should worry about if you're a
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man that's so true yeah so true you worry about the ex-boyfriend that we talk about not the one
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that we that we don't exactly yeah that's what you should be worried about and still being friends
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with him on facebook is fucked no so is it controlling or do i love you enough to not put
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these things in front of you why would i send my girl to the club you can send a good girl to a club
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in miami and she'll fuck up she'll get drunk i come through start talking a little shit next thing
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you know boom and she won't tell me that she's got a boyfriend back home oh single girl's trip
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it's that dickhead's fault that sent her our letter and if she's truly in love with him and she's like
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hey sally wanted me to go on a girl's trip and he's like you ain't going on a girl's trip come with me
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she don't want nothing in the world in your time especially if you're on your purpose and you're
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busy and you're working a lot truly not faking working but really working she wants nothing in
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the world but to be with you she's truly in love with you genuine desire and so when that's not the
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case then i think a man has to worry about men worry after the sex is after somebody's already cheated
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men should worry when she's liking photos that she shouldn't be liking it's like the small shit or
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like can i go on a girl's trip just her asking either you're gonna have to educate her on the