@JWALLER Calls Out Trad Con On Her BS
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Summary
In this episode, we discuss depression, divorce, and porn in the 21st century. We also discuss whether or not porn should be banned in the United States and why we should ban birth control and divorce in America.
Transcript
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spiritual fall into they think oh if i'm just pray enough i can make my depression go away
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right and yes sometimes god does just heal depression like that but a lot of the time
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god uses natural means like a good therapist you know a good psychiatrist to help somebody through
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oh no no you're sending them to the crazy ladies and i'm not saying there aren't good therapists
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but i'm saying that most are pretty shitty most yes the human condition is that things aren't
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always amazing right we have bad days we get sick terrible accidents can happen and so that's where
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the power of love comes in a love that doesn't leave a love that doesn't isn't based on feelings
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or desire but a love that's based on choice and i think deep down we're all wired for that even men
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even men that like like you were saying justin i want to be with multiple women and everything i
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think deep down we want a love that stays a love that lasts and it is possible for everyone every
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single person at this table i guarantee you a thousand percent it is possible for you not for
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asexual yeah but i would argue that like who are you to tell me that i'm not going to be happy because
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i don't choose your path yes i don't think i said that that pretty much you read oh you kind of did
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you're like oh what about the kids i mean in that way so who are you to say that i will say you think
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i'm going to be less happy than you i think that if you live your life and you said you're not sharing
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whether or not you're doing this we're all talking in hypothetical so i don't know exactly how you're
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living right you didn't share that but if hypothetically you live your life where you are
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starting multiple families with multiple women what if i have one family of 50 girlfriends i think in
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the end it will bring great unhappiness to your family to your children to the mother of your
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children that actually sounds like every man's dream i'm not gonna lie like i know like it would
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come with a lot of problems i'm not even promoting this but if i think of like the typical guy
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would he want a girlfriend and to be able to screw girls on the side if the wife could control her
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emotions about it that sounds like a man's dream am i am i wrong maybe i'm wrong maybe i don't know
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what do you think sounds like a bit of a dream it doesn't sound like reality you know i think there
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would be problems that come with it but it's like i'm just thinking like would a guy be so upset and
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like depressed he's like sitting oh my life is so horrible because i have a wife and a bunch of girls
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like i'm just thinking how this sounds that's like telling a woman if you married rich to a hot
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successful billionaire you're going to be depressed i think women can find ways to be depressed
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you understand it's what's said about that it's the equivalent it's the equivalent okay
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men have always led the world listen let's not act like that's not the case we invent build and
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maintain society the fact that despite how beautiful you are you're stunning the fact that you can make
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more money than the motherfucker that paved the road for me to get here is a joke yep it's a fucking
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joke and it's broken now that's not disrespect to you but one thing i will say about the buy if you
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bring the buy back up is that you can't do that shit in the buy okay no you no you can't you can't
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even get on a porn site in dubai if you wanted to and i one thing i think they do to you in dubai
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you just can't do it no no they they they take it away and for that i will say when i'm in dubai not
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only is it safer but you see more families in dubai you see more you see kids you see things like this
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it's a beautiful thing and you know i'm all about people having their free rights and everything but i do
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think dubai gets that right because if america doesn't do something to save the men so men can
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be good enough to get good beautiful women like you ladies then we are always going to have this
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problem regardless of religion this is why we should ban porn in america i'm about it i'm for it
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i could get behind that i could ban i'd ban birth control and porn yes and divorce in pearl's world
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look look if we agree on anything i'm about but i'm all about banning porn it's so funny it's so
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funny how the women are more upset about it than the guys right now well no well look look because
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we're trying to freaking see this but the point is this it's happening what is it listening but i
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hold on go ahead one quick thing is um perhaps the women at this table haven't been hurt by
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a man cheating on them or a boyfriend or something cheating on them and look
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porn or cheating with another person but i know people that have been hurt and probably we know
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people who have been hurt i haven't yeah exactly so so and that's the point like what's the golden
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rule right do unto others how you'd want them to do okay then delete your instagram this is
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what i what i i'm not pro cheating and i hate i hate that i've now become an advocate for cheating
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what i hate is the shaming of men for doing something that women do all of the time in
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relationships even religious women have open instagrams that men can message them on
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i do not like the hypocrisy that's what irritates me if we are going to shame j waller for cheating
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i would like the same level of shaming to a woman with an open instagram that posts
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bikini pictures and even not even bikini pictures because when you think about it when you're
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taking a picture of your face you're saying look at my face this is my beauty you're showing your
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beauty to the world and i understand we got we got brands we're like you know doing all this stuff
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and i understand i understand it but my point is we don't have the same level of like shaming for
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something that is the same thing in a different way maybe not the same i was thinking about this maybe
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it's not the same level of it but it's still the same thing in a different way and that's what
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irritates me right and so i think that's really you mentioned a crisis of masculinity i think there's
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a crisis of femininity too because you know we set the standard as women right like that's part of
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i agree with this i i think i think i agree with where she's going in society of saying like
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we're gonna have boundaries we're gonna have standards for the men
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wait wait wait wait wait she did it again wait wait she did it again
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it's so in the language listen that's part of our role in society of saying like we're gonna have
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boundaries we're gonna have standards for the men and that they need to rise to the occasion for us
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they need this is the whole point they need to rise to the occasion not for themselves
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but for women you hear it it's like and i'm sure i've used this language at some point in my life
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but it's like it's so programmed like into the language she didn't even say we need to have
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boundaries or standards for ourselves she said for the men why why why would you have
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it's it's very backwards thinking in my opinion it's like it's almost it's like pointing at the
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um speck in someone's eye when you have a log in yours yeah well and i'm thinking like wait
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what about let's have higher standards so we can be more pure for our husbands
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yes and so it's funny because it's still like the me me me culture where even when she's like speaking
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about how to be better women it's still for me me me me it's not for him isn't that crazy
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how about and or how about we have better standards for ourselves so that we can attract
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because if you look at it men pursue women attract right so if you're attracting you can you can only
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set standards for people you are going after you can't you can't it's like you need to set standards
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for yourself since you're attracting and then whenever whoever comes to you obviously if they don't meet
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if they don't match who you are as a person then they don't match but it's like you are not even
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you don't even match the standards you're setting for the guy but i would argue there's just as many
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male feminists as there are women yes those pussy motherfuckers are the ones that's messing
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everything up they're all same young beautiful girl would be much happier if there's a man that you
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could be inside of his frame and not be talking to weirdos on the internet i know you make a lot
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money and i don't blame you for doing it 70 grand a month that's good money but ideally for you if
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there was a man that but the problem also is the standards do you know what i mean like what would
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she be willing to go live with a masculine man in an apartment while he saved up so they could buy a
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house no no not when she's made not when she has made 70k in a month or in a year before i've always felt
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like money doesn't really change you it just shows you who you are like even just like alcohol just
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like substances they don't make you a different person it just just it removes inhibitions so you
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have all these walls built up then when you take alcohol you remove the walls and then your true self
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comes out it's the same with money yeah yeah well because i was thinking about how i was thinking about
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myself and i was thinking about my dad how neither of us like have really been into like designer or
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all that stuff and it's kind of like if you spend your money when you're broke on that stuff you'll
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do the same thing when you're rich it just keeps going yeah and i was thinking what i don't know what
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her lifestyle is but i understand why men are so frustrated that they feel like they have to maintain
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a lifestyle because especially because i think about these things because i don't i don't do them
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um like when it comes to like i mean some of it but like the nails the fake hair the botox the
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the lip filler all that shit that the bbls all that stuff like it's so expensive that i often wonder and
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the new clothes the fashionable like in style clothes i always think i'm like how do they afford it
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they they can't they have to be living off of credit cards or something because the average chick's
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making like 35 40 000 a year and and this is why once a woman gets sucked into that life she really
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can't be with a regular guy anymore yeah because a regular guy can't afford to maintain that lifestyle
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for her yeah and she'll resent the one that can't because again she feels like she's better than the