JustPearlyThings - July 13, 2023


@JWALLER DEBATES Trad Con Woman On Monogamy


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Length

8 minutes

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212.84941

Word count

1,863

Sentence count

155

Harmful content

Misogyny

16

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Hate speech

7

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Lila Rose confronts Justin Waller on his sexual morals and why he doesn t believe in monogamy. She also asks him why he thinks it s a good thing to have multiple families and why it s better to have a single dad than a stepdad.

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00:00:00.000 Today I'm reacting to whatever podcast Lila Rose confronts Justin Waller on sexual morals. 0.96
00:00:07.020 All right, let's go.
00:00:08.620 Justin, do you ever see yourself getting married?
00:00:11.060 No, not on paper.
00:00:12.360 No, absolutely not.
00:00:13.200 I believe in love and marriage in regards to taking care of a woman fully and your responsibilities as a father and a provider and provider and protector, 100%.
00:00:20.880 In fact, I think that's probably what's broken about the world.
00:00:23.280 But in regards to letting the state get into all my businesses that took me over a decade to build, absolutely not, no.
00:00:28.880 How do you think you're going to get to the place of that marriage you want with that family and that lifelong love?
00:00:37.220 I didn't say I didn't have family or children.
00:00:39.040 I just said I'm in your business.
00:00:40.620 Oh, I see.
00:00:41.280 Okay.
00:00:42.460 So you want to keep it private is what you're saying?
00:00:44.540 That's what I said.
00:00:45.500 No, he's saying he doesn't want the government involved.
00:00:48.460 So you can do the ceremony, do the rings thing, but why does the government need to be involved?
00:00:54.020 Do you?
00:00:54.660 Justin has enemies.
00:00:55.360 I might have multiple family.
00:00:57.040 Oh.
00:00:57.280 You never know.
00:00:57.780 I might like family more than you so much.
00:00:59.460 I have five.
00:01:00.340 Do you think that's a good thing to have multiple families?
00:01:02.640 I think it's good if there's one dad and there's not a bunch of step parents involved and the dad can be the hero and those five families live a 10x better life than they would have otherwise.
00:01:09.960 Yes, ma'am, I do.
00:01:11.280 But you don't think that it will be ultimately an opportunity for jealousy or disharmony amongst the other family?
00:01:17.280 Women are always going to be jealous. 1.00
00:01:18.900 What's changed about that?
00:01:19.940 I'm not jealous in my marriage.
00:01:20.280 Women have been jealous all the way through time. 1.00
00:01:21.520 You know, it's interesting how, like, she automatically makes it about her.
00:01:25.320 That's the interesting thing.
00:01:26.460 She's like, well, I'm not jealous in my marriage.
00:01:28.560 But, you know, and I'm someone, you know, I believe one.
00:01:32.820 Okay, one.
00:01:33.620 I think it's really hypocritical for the Christians to shame men about monogamy when women are not monogamous nowadays.
00:01:40.720 Because, again, 95% of women are not virgins on their wedding night.
00:01:45.060 So it's like they'll say, well, why don't you practice monogamy?
00:01:48.420 But monogamy used to be one partner for a lifetime, not one partner at a time.
00:01:53.820 So when you think about it, most Christians are not practicing monogamy.
00:01:57.380 And I also think it's silly to not, to say the situation that he's describing is, like, subpar or can't work when it has worked for hundreds of thousands of years.
00:02:11.200 It's not my cup of tea.
00:02:12.740 Do you know what I mean?
00:02:13.080 It's not for me.
00:02:13.880 But it's like, I don't know.
00:02:16.420 Like, Muslims have done that for so long that there has to be a way to do it that is effective. 1.00
00:02:23.640 I'm not jealous in my marriage.
00:02:24.680 I don't care about your marriage.
00:02:25.900 I'm talking about mine.
00:02:27.380 Well, my life is going to be.
00:02:28.460 So I don't answer to you.
00:02:30.180 So that's my answer.
00:02:31.660 I'm going to run my situation exactly how I want to.
00:02:34.380 And generally, when I do that, that's when I have the most happiness, let's say.
00:02:39.540 And it's interesting, too, because I bet you she comes in and, like, shames him for this, right?
00:02:44.580 And it's interesting because whenever men are traditionally masculine, right?
00:02:49.540 Because he's saying, I'm going to live my life on my terms, then women always want to come in and, like, shame them for that. 0.72
00:02:57.380 That's my guess of how this is going to...
00:02:59.460 If so, I'm sorry.
00:03:01.600 And you would want that for your daughters? 0.87
00:03:04.400 Yeah.
00:03:04.800 You see that?
00:03:05.600 It's like shaming language, you know?
00:03:08.540 Look it.
00:03:09.060 They've done it.
00:03:10.120 To act like...
00:03:11.400 To act like women are going to be, like, traumatized forever from this stuff.
00:03:16.000 It's just like, one, a lot of women pick cheaters. 1.00
00:03:20.040 And two, two, you know, they've done it in the East for generations.
00:03:24.260 So there has to be a way to do it effectively.
00:03:27.560 Yeah.
00:03:28.000 Not my cup of tea.
00:03:29.040 Please do not misconstrue this as me saying to do it.
00:03:31.840 But...
00:03:32.200 I live my life unapologetically on my terms.
00:03:34.740 So...
00:03:35.100 See, that's masculinity. 1.00
00:03:36.280 My terms, right?
00:03:37.240 I live my daughters that are overly spoiled and educated in every way and have friends 0.99
00:03:41.100 all over the world and world-traveled in the best schools in the world.
00:03:43.700 If they have a problem with me at the end of the day, then they can kick rocks too.
00:03:47.040 But you notice how when she tried to shame him, how he was unaffected?
00:03:51.940 Yeah.
00:03:52.200 So that's what I mean when I...
00:03:53.420 So obviously, I know there are some people that if you try to shame them, they might feel
00:03:57.840 shame.
00:03:58.140 But like I said, like, if you are a man who knows your stuff, you know yourself, you know
00:04:04.020 who you are, it's very hard for people to shame you.
00:04:07.880 And I sent for my daughters.
00:04:08.920 I'll love them fully.
00:04:10.300 But if they grow up and turn into a person that doesn't want to get in line with me or...
00:04:14.660 Look, here's my goal as a parent.
00:04:16.440 Teach my children how the world works.
00:04:18.660 Give them the skills so they can live on their own terms and give them choice.
00:04:21.680 If they choose not to make me part of their life after I've given them those things,
00:04:24.540 I've still succeeded as a father.
00:04:25.720 But I guess I'm asking if you're comfortable answering, obviously.
00:04:29.000 But are you wanting to be a role model for your kids?
00:04:31.200 Is that part of your...
00:04:31.720 A thousand percent.
00:04:33.200 Wow.
00:04:35.180 So now she's like insinuating that he's not a role model.
00:04:39.640 Wow.
00:04:40.320 A father should show up in every way for his children.
00:04:42.360 I think I'll be better than most fathers, regardless of how many children I have.
00:04:45.560 I might have a hundred.
00:04:46.940 But you think part of being a role model, it's okay for your kids not to know even your relationship
00:04:51.220 status with their own mom?
00:04:53.040 They will know their relationship status with me and their mother.
00:04:55.140 But you have other relationships with other women, too.
00:04:57.280 What does that have to do with anything?
00:04:58.800 I'm just wondering if you think...
00:05:00.160 I haven't even said that.
00:05:01.160 I'm just saying, like, if I want to, I will.
00:05:03.360 But you don't think that's a problem for your daughter to know that about their dad?
00:05:07.100 Well, but my question is, whenever this comes up, like, what about the kids in that situation?
00:05:12.000 My question is, why do the kids know?
00:05:14.760 The kids would only know if the mother cannot control her emotions and tells them.
00:05:20.280 Exactly.
00:05:20.560 And Jay Waller has been very open about his views on things.
00:05:24.520 So any woman that picks that knows what she's getting into. 1.00
00:05:28.740 And yet, they will still shame him for that.
00:05:34.660 That's something about my daughter, man.
00:05:37.640 But do you want your daughter to have a guy like that long-term?
00:05:40.380 If he takes care of her in every way and she has a much better life because of it, yeah.
00:05:44.240 I'm cool with that.
00:05:45.120 Wait, do you want to have a hundred kids?
00:05:47.000 Is that like low-key?
00:05:47.660 And that's the other problem they don't talk about is women are not, you know, even, I don't know how many kids she has, but I guarantee it's less than four. 0.98
00:05:57.440 You know, I could be wrong.
00:05:58.860 They'll be like, no, it's five.
00:06:00.980 But, you know, it's probably, if we're going off of stats, it's probably two.
00:06:05.360 And the average woman used to give a man five kids. 1.00
00:06:08.240 So if a guy wants ten children, how does he get that when women today won't give it to him? 0.99
00:06:12.540 So, again, a lot of times men adapt to the market and then we whine about how they adapt.
00:06:17.840 I'm going to have a bunch of kids.
00:06:18.860 Yeah, I believe in having kids, man.
00:06:20.760 So there's too many dumbass people having kids.
00:06:22.960 Might as well have a smart person have some.
00:06:24.640 Dude, is Justin low-key about to repopulate the world?
00:06:27.800 Kids are awesome.
00:06:28.840 Is Justin about to single-handedly reverse the declining birth rate?
00:06:33.060 They got all these single women out here talking shit about shit, man. 1.00
00:06:36.220 Well, cool.
00:06:36.800 I'll have babies with you.
00:06:37.800 What's up?
00:06:39.340 Now, part of it is being a smartass right now, right, to be honest.
00:06:42.940 But, look, if a guy decides to have a bunch of children, I mean, you see it happen all the time.
00:06:48.480 Guy gets married.
00:06:50.020 He's a shitty father, shitty husband.
00:06:52.140 Ends up getting a divorce and then goes and has babies with the next chick. 1.00
00:06:55.580 Doing the same thing I'm doing, except I'm not a lying coward about it.
00:06:58.400 I hear you.
00:06:59.940 Yeah, that's the other crazy thing is men do it all the time.
00:07:02.840 They just have the wives at different times in their lives. 0.99
00:07:07.080 Wow, that's a crazy thing.
00:07:09.680 And I'm not even pro, like, polygamy.
00:07:12.640 Like, I wouldn't want to do that.
00:07:14.620 But I'm just thinking, like, there's no way the whole eastern side of the world has done it for generations.
00:07:21.260 And there's not a way to do it without the kids being traumatized.
00:07:24.860 Because we have more mental disorders now than we did a hundred years ago.
00:07:29.240 Look at the development in the east.
00:07:31.600 Yeah, yeah.
00:07:32.840 I see that.
00:07:33.420 I see that.
00:07:33.720 That's what it is.
00:07:34.160 But I think the big question is, I mean, it seems like you're really focused on self-improvement, which is awesome.
00:07:38.500 And so I guess my question would be, is it ideal?
00:07:41.100 Like, what are we striving towards individually, right?
00:07:43.280 And what do we think is best for society?
00:07:45.420 And I think kids want to know their parents love each other and are committed.
00:07:49.600 Till death do they part to each other.
00:07:51.280 Yep.
00:07:51.740 Didn't say any of that wasn't true.
00:07:53.460 But you're the one saying that's not true.
00:07:54.980 Okay.
00:07:55.280 But do you think it would be a little bit confusing for one of your kids if they found out, let's say, theoretically?
00:08:00.660 No, because if they trust me enough to come to me, I'll just tell them the truth.
00:08:03.040 What are we talking about?
00:08:03.800 I'm not hiding from anything.
00:08:04.780 I just told you.
00:08:05.840 I understand that.
00:08:06.560 It seems like you're challenging because you have a problem with it.
00:08:08.340 I simply don't care.
00:08:10.240 So your kids, you're saying you don't care if they find out you have multiple mistresses.
00:08:14.720 If I had multiple women and then my kids came to me, then I would just talk to them like an adult. 0.99
00:08:20.820 If they're adult enough to ask, I'm adult enough to tell them.
00:08:24.040 Well, okay, but this goes back to the woman. 1.00
00:08:26.560 Why does a six-year-old know this information?
00:08:30.260 How would a six-year-old find this out?
00:08:32.320 As your mother, you're supposed to protect your kids from this information.
00:08:36.980 So, one, any girl that signs up to be with him knows what she's signing up for.
00:08:41.180 They find out because the mothers go talking to the kids.
00:08:44.200 Yeah, I know.
00:08:44.860 I know.