JustPearlyThings - April 28, 2023


@JWALLER Reveals The Truth Behind Girl’s Night Out


Episode Stats

Length

8 minutes

Words per Minute

192.78305

Word Count

1,617

Sentence Count

132

Misogynist Sentences

19

Hate Speech Sentences

19


Summary

In this episode, the guys talk about how to deal with a woman who doesn t want to be in a relationship with a man and how to make sure she wants to be with him in the long-term.


Transcript

00:00:00.000 love. I completely believe in love. If a man can't be with a woman where she's like, I really
00:00:08.340 appreciate everything you're doing to protect, provide you, you are our hero. It's not worth it
00:00:13.900 for the man at all. It's simply not. So what I would do, number one is I always say this is if
00:00:22.060 you were living in Indiana and you were five, 10, you can still get jacked. You can still work on
00:00:27.780 your style. You can still get a damn good job or smart, start a small business. And you can be
00:00:33.320 the fucking man in your little small town in Indiana, like the man. And then ideally you
00:00:42.580 wouldn't have, you would have either a joint social media or none at all. And that way you don't have
00:00:48.540 to put your wife in that position of, of seeing all the competition that's out there because the
00:00:52.620 only natural that she's going to feel that way. Well, that's what I would do personally.
00:00:59.680 And if she said you were controlling, a woman only calls a man controlling when she doesn't want to
00:01:04.260 be inside the frame of that man. I've never had a woman call me controlling ever. But Hey,
00:01:10.520 what's your Instagram? Boom.
00:01:11.160 That's so true. It's absolutely fucking true.
00:01:14.760 That's so true. Like a girl's not going to, a girl. No, because all she wants is to be with you.
00:01:19.580 You saw that other message I showed you. Yeah. Especially when like the guy has all the leverage.
00:01:25.120 It's like what you're going to argue and what, and what, but here's, here's the point of the matter
00:01:29.080 though. Let's say, let's say I say yes to that girl. I sent the photo of her family too. I would have
00:01:35.240 all the leverage then. She knows that damn good and well when she's going in, women will go into a
00:01:38.860 relationship knowing the man's got all the leverage. That's what they want. They want to
00:01:42.200 look up to the man. Respect equals love with a woman. They want to respect you. They could fucking
00:01:47.080 hate you and still sleep with you. They could hate you and be in love with you. I've had many,
00:01:51.740 many, many women madly in love with me screaming. I hate you. It's closer to love, isn't it? Yeah.
00:02:00.380 Yeah. Because indifference is what you should worry about if you're a man.
00:02:04.540 Oh, that's so true. Yeah. So true. It's very true.
00:02:08.180 You worry about the ex-boyfriend that we talk about, not the one that we, that we don't.
00:02:13.340 Exactly. Yeah. That's who you should be worried about. And still being friends with him on Facebook
00:02:17.980 is fucked. No.
00:02:20.120 So is it controlling or do I love you enough to not put these things in front of you?
00:02:25.760 Why would I send my girl to the club? You can send a good girl to a club in Miami and she'll fuck up.
00:02:30.560 She'll get drunk. I come through, start talking a little shit. Next thing you know, boom.
00:02:38.140 And she won't tell me that she's got a boyfriend back on. Oh, single girl's trip.
00:02:42.640 It's that dickhead's fault that sent her or let her. And if she's truly in love with him and she's like,
00:02:49.220 hey, Sally wanted me to go on a girl's trip. And he's like, you ain't going on a girl's trip. Come with me.
00:02:53.820 She don't want nothing in the world in your time, especially if you're on your purpose and you're busy
00:02:59.440 and you're working a lot, truly not faking working, but really working.
00:03:02.380 She wants nothing in the world but to be with you. She's truly in love with you.
00:03:07.320 Genuine desire. And so
00:03:09.960 when that's not the case, then I think a man has to worry about it. Men worry
00:03:14.700 after the sex is, after somebody's already cheated.
00:03:19.080 Men should worry when she's liking
00:03:22.360 photos that she shouldn't be liking. It's like the small shit
00:03:26.360 or like, can I go on a girl's trip? Just her asking.
00:03:29.420 Either you're going to have to educate her on the subject
00:03:31.340 or you need to have a red flag.
00:03:34.820 I was going to say, I do think a lot of girls
00:03:37.500 don't really think about it because
00:03:39.380 we're in a culture that like encourages it.
00:03:41.920 And I will say this, like I do know
00:03:43.960 girls that I would say are good girls.
00:03:46.760 But
00:03:47.120 when I say no,
00:03:49.880 like I wouldn't go on a girl's trip.
00:03:51.340 They're like, they're like, they're like, why?
00:03:53.220 Like they don't, they, it doesn't compute because the men
00:03:55.380 have never been told this.
00:03:57.040 Like a lot of men have never been told, don't let your girl go.
00:03:59.560 Exactly. And that's another reason to join the war room
00:04:01.380 because you're getting this consciousness on number one,
00:04:04.420 how competitive it actually is.
00:04:06.720 These guys think they're competing in their friend groups.
00:04:10.560 Dude, if you're competing in your friend group,
00:04:12.040 first of all, you don't have any fucking friends, real friends.
00:04:15.040 Dude, I will take my girl
00:04:16.940 and I'll leave her at Tate's house for the weekend
00:04:19.320 with my bank card.
00:04:20.540 I'm not worried about it not coming back
00:04:23.900 in any way, how I got it.
00:04:25.880 Like you would never, and neither would I.
00:04:28.960 And you learn about your friends in a couple of ways,
00:04:32.040 women and money.
00:04:34.100 Number one, like I don't even want a friend
00:04:36.440 that's not abundant in both of those.
00:04:39.060 Why?
00:04:39.980 Well, think about it.
00:04:42.040 You got two guys, been friends 20 years.
00:04:45.440 One of them gets married.
00:04:46.300 He goes over to the house all the time, hangs out.
00:04:51.780 The wife and the husband start having a rocky ship of it.
00:04:55.120 They get divorced.
00:04:56.100 The first person she's going to try to fuck is him.
00:04:58.980 And if he has not done his work as a man to be in abundance,
00:05:02.240 enough abundance to tell a woman,
00:05:04.020 no, as you just saw me do,
00:05:06.640 then he's going to sleep with her.
00:05:09.060 And then he ruined a 20-year relationship
00:05:11.560 with the only friend he probably has
00:05:14.340 over 30 minutes.
00:05:19.880 Values
00:05:20.280 and ethics
00:05:22.820 come long before you actually need them.
00:05:26.000 So if that guy
00:05:26.820 was taking care of his business,
00:05:28.180 he would have been in enough abundance
00:05:29.320 to tell that woman to kick rocks.
00:05:31.000 So much so that he would have easily
00:05:32.800 traded out the sex
00:05:33.920 for how proud he was of the honor
00:05:36.520 that he showed to his friend.
00:05:38.480 And many men cannot do that.
00:05:39.960 And many friendships get wrecked
00:05:42.420 over a divorce or a breakup
00:05:44.040 that ends up with some guy
00:05:45.780 fucking his buddy over
00:05:47.680 he's been friends with him for 20 years
00:05:49.340 because he doesn't work hard enough on himself
00:05:52.140 to have women of his own.
00:05:54.560 And so, no, I don't trust a man
00:05:55.620 that doesn't get women.
00:05:56.720 And I certainly don't trust a man
00:05:57.860 that doesn't have money
00:05:58.560 because it will come up
00:06:00.340 and he will fuck you.
00:06:01.240 Not because he's a bad man,
00:06:02.540 because he's a desperate man.
00:06:05.400 What do you mean it will come up?
00:06:06.880 So if you're with your buddies
00:06:10.960 and a money situation comes up,
00:06:14.140 or it could be as simple as
00:06:15.480 how come every time we go out
00:06:17.120 I catch the bill
00:06:17.920 and nobody else helps?
00:06:20.220 You know?
00:06:20.860 Or, hey man, I need a loan
00:06:22.500 or all these other things.
00:06:24.200 Or if you go into a business with somebody,
00:06:26.140 you find out around money for sure.
00:06:28.980 And women.
00:06:29.760 I think women probably come up even more.
00:06:31.280 I was just thinking about the money thing
00:06:35.640 because that switched for me.
00:06:38.020 How many times did you cover the bill
00:06:39.240 with your friends?
00:06:41.000 No, I had a friend steal from me.
00:06:43.380 I had to like, yeah, it was actually,
00:06:45.380 yeah, that's what I was thinking
00:06:47.180 when you said that.
00:06:48.120 I was like, wow, that did happen.
00:06:50.540 But you have to pre-qualify now.
00:06:52.120 Yeah.
00:06:52.900 You know?
00:06:53.760 And one thing I pre-qualify with
00:06:55.340 is money, women.
00:06:57.780 You know?
00:06:58.060 Because if you go off to take a piss,
00:07:00.680 if Sterling Cooper goes to take a piss
00:07:04.100 and we're at a restaurant,
00:07:05.140 the first thing I do
00:07:05.960 is look at the girl he's with
00:07:06.900 and say, how the fuck
00:07:07.680 did you get Sterling Cooper?
00:07:09.720 First thing.
00:07:11.840 Like, that's just how we run our offense.
00:07:14.780 You know?
00:07:17.700 In regards to money,
00:07:19.780 same thing.
00:07:20.640 Like, I don't want to think
00:07:21.920 that I'm going to pick up every bill.
00:07:23.260 The biggest game that we play
00:07:24.440 between the five of us that hang out
00:07:25.760 is who can act like they're going to take a piss
00:07:27.760 and pay the bill behind everybody's back.
00:07:30.200 Gotcha, bitches.
00:07:31.200 Like, that's,
00:07:31.760 I literally do it all the time.
00:07:33.780 I'll go to do it
00:07:34.820 and somebody would have already done it
00:07:37.420 30 minutes ago
00:07:38.160 or vice versa.
00:07:40.440 Like, that's the kind of stuff
00:07:41.860 you want to do with your boys.
00:07:43.860 You know?
00:07:44.800 Or being degenerate,
00:07:46.420 riding through the mountains in supercars
00:07:47.840 and like those types of things.
00:07:49.180 Or if you don't make a ton of money,
00:07:51.520 you know, maybe you go on a hunting trip
00:07:52.960 or do whatever.
00:07:54.360 I'm not shitting on that.
00:07:55.320 I've had that life.
00:07:56.200 It's wonderful.
00:07:57.360 There's a fulfilling life out there.
00:07:58.540 I think social media
00:07:59.240 makes a lot of people unhappy
00:08:00.320 because it's all the gap
00:08:02.800 between expectation and reality.
00:08:04.860 That's what I think happiness is.
00:08:05.880 Just the gap between expectation and reality.
00:08:07.420 As many of you know,
00:08:08.080 I was just banned on TikTok
00:08:10.140 and we are demonetized
00:08:11.860 on a daily basis
00:08:13.120 on this platform.
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