@JWALLER's Opinion On Pickup Artists
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Summary
In this episode, Myron and I talk about how to find the right frame for a woman that truly loves you and wants to be with you and how to keep the relationship going for a very long time. We talk about the importance of a good frame and why you should have a woman in your life that truly cares about you and is willing to give you the time of your life.
Transcript
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respect but i don't listen to what women say i listen to what they do that same girl i was
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telling you how they can love you and be screaming at you i hate you i wish i didn't love you that
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girl loves you more than anybody and as long as you don't take her from where she is to scorn
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you're good because scorn is like a rejection thing that's what creates anger but if they if
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they're still in it you know and as long as they're still texting you i hate you you just
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translate it to i fucking love you and i can't quit thinking about you i'm not listening to what
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she says i'm watching what she's doing and men don't get that the average man doesn't get that
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that's why i should join the war room you know not because we're sitting there talking about bad about
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women i'll tell you a group in the war room that i think is very impactful in a way it's called
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relationships with loving loving relationships with women it was something along that it's a very
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kind room just helping guys find the right frame it's not talking badly about women like the like
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the media talks about andrew it's like hey listen if you really really love her you're going to have
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this frame because this frame is going to allow you to keep the relationship going for a very long time
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that's the beautiful thing what what is frame to me frame is having the lines and holding them very
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strongly and being in a position for her to look up to you and want to be inside that frame because
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you've created a scenario in your life where you can have a woman that has true genuine desire for
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you and for that reason she wants to be inside your frame she doesn't want to go on the girl's
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trip she wants to be with you if a woman truly loves you she wants your time more than anything
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more than anything in the world she doesn't she's not worried about your money
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money's a part of frame but that's not what she's after it's all the things that collectively come
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together that make you the man that she wants to get saved by and when i say saved i'm using it
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more hypothetically like castle and a dragon there's there's imagine imagine a princess up in a tower right
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and she has the option to have a strong competent dominant man and i mean dominant like masculine like
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frame wrong wise right come save her or some simp that is gonna say hey maybe we can climb down
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together and fight the fight the dragon together or does she want to do this says i slit the dragon's
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throat you're coming with me bro what horse she gonna get on cowboy you know what i'm saying it's not
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it's not hard you know and men are outwardly signaling their ability to do such why did indians have
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and we're constantly signaling why do we drive lamborghinis money signal well it's like a money
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signal right it is yeah but why do certain why do all the animals in the animal kingdom have all these
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elaborate colors and things that they do it's a signal oh it's just that simple so they would say
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mystery method it was like peacocking right mystery method i don't know much about pickup what i have
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found my opinion of pickup is is that it's more learning how to manipulate than it is being the guy
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i i wouldn't say that i have great game i say i have incredible signaling though and i think that
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one massively comes before the other it's like the tip of the iceberg is game right
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now i can be really charming in a conversation but i'm not a very good texter mostly because i
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can't be bothered to do it you're pretty miami question mark right you know i don't give game
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advice i saw a guy made a hit video about me the other day i said that he like clipped it he's like
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this is why being rich fucks up your game bro i get more pussy than you let's not let's not
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you know i'm saying i trip over it and i think the goal is to absorb women not chase them aggressively
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i did think about hiring somebody at one point just to send like cold dms because i'm lazy and
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i don't give a shit you know hey hey hey and just see what bites because myron always talks about a
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numbers game like just experiment wise right but if you have all these girls chasing after you anyway
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why why do it because you'd only go after like straight tens oh straight tens it'd be like a very
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targeted it'd be very targeted this is my type this this and this here's some examples only this
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you know but it's who's your oh celebrity crush don't have one none there's no no celebrity that
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you would like pick above all like if you could like they would send the message to who'd be the
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first message i don't think i watch enough tv oh come on i'm trying to think
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i don't have anybody in my mind but i'll tell you this i'm a chess guy but i expect there to be
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everything and i actually once i meet somebody i really like somebody i have a conversation with
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like i like intellect truly um i should be able to give you a celebrity crush i don't think i have
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one if you would have asked me when i was in like 10th grade i would have told you angelina jolie
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probably oh she's beautiful yeah it's just stunning natural beauty um but now i think she's a dickhead
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yeah i do think brad pitt is the most handsome man to ever live don't argue with me i'm right
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i'm super right but i don't have a crush on him yeah that's not who i'd pick but yeah who would you
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um no because the problem is if i say people sometimes i like i interview them later
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so like then they'll clip me okay cool um you talked about um when a woman becomes scorned
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yeah can you tell me what happens when a woman becomes scorned well i think the first thing they
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would do is try to hurt you back you know so you know you might have a woman say oh you have a
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small dick or you know they might try to fuck your friend you know things like that um they might go
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get a revenge body they might try to do things on social media to upset you i don't actually deal
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with it very much i don't think i've scorned a woman since college i was just wondering because
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i'm doing this documentary right now on um the court system in the uk so i'm interviewing a lot
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of men um that were basically screwed over ah they'll do it with children for sure
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and child support and alimony yeah but a lot of these men it like came out of the blue like one
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guy interviewed he had they had one fight in seven years and then one one day she was just done
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i was just curious blue for him because he didn't see the signs that came before what actually happened
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and and that was the point i was trying to make earlier it's the small things in frame
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that you have to catch but most men don't have it in their consciousness oh yeah she's just going
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to vegas to hang out with the girls really oh so to them it's out of the blue but it really it really
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isn't i interviewed one he said he'd still get married again i was like what but to me it's not
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about it's not about the marriage thing i'll never get married on paper right but i will be a loving
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father husband no problem that used to trigger me too when i first got in the manosphere well you're
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wrong i was wrong i was but why why what was your perception at the time um my parents were married
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and i saw the value in marriage and you know i i'd never really heard of anyone not legally getting
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married right so also you saw a very winning structure all right so let's do your life and my
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life okay some of my first thoughts are screaming and infidelity and violence and divorce and then
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divorce court and then having to go see a child psychologist to see who i'm going to end up living
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with and shit like that my mother spent seven of the nine months pregnant with me on a couch at her
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friend's house because she was cheating on my dad while she was pregnant yeah sorry i'm when she's
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pregnant seven of nine months laying on a couch on her girlfriend's couch because my dad kicked her
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out for cheating he married her twice he married the same woman twice divorced her she came back
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because that's what happens that's what happens these normal women they think because you sleep with
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them that they're going to monkey branch over to you they get pumped and dumped and they're like oh
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shit i'm out in the streets oh well i know i can go back to him takes her marries her again whereas
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your your relationship with family and marriage and your father and your mother's is about as picture
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perfect as it could be they're still together yeah unheard of unheard of your your dad is a one
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percent in every way so you saw something that's probably one in a thousand and i'm probably under
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shooting the statistic there because you literally believe in your father so much to this day you
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think he never cheated do you know but i love that for you yeah i love that for you and i'm not even
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here to argue that with you at all i'm just simply saying you saw the best possible outcome