JustPearlyThings - July 08, 2023


Male Only Fans Model Claims That Pr0n Is Healthy


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10 minutes

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2,173

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242

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In this episode we discuss the pros and cons of porn and kinky fetishes. Is porn a net positive for society? Is it a net negative? And why do people with fetishes do it to their own kids?

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00:00:00.000 So you say net positive for porn?
00:00:02.600 Yeah, definitely.
00:00:02.680 Okay, why do you think it's a net positive?
00:00:04.480 Because obviously all the porn stars are earning money. 0.99
00:00:07.280 Okay, so for you guys, it's good.
00:00:09.420 Yeah, it's great for us.
00:00:10.280 And then it's obviously great.
00:00:11.140 What do you think, like, society?
00:00:12.680 So society needs it.
00:00:14.120 Okay, why?
00:00:15.580 To vent.
00:00:16.960 Because a lot of people are sexually frustrated.
00:00:19.620 Okay.
00:00:20.160 And they need to vent.
00:00:20.940 And, like, a lot of people who would potentially attack women,
00:00:26.180 you know, they need to vent.
00:00:28.800 And a lot of them that watch this fetish-type stuff on the internet,
00:00:33.380 that's that getaway from doing it in real life.
00:00:37.060 I think there's going to be trade-offs.
00:00:39.280 Like I said, it's a net positive if you go without it.
00:00:42.300 And it'll probably lead to more families,
00:00:44.600 which is, I think, probably for the betterment of society.
00:00:46.740 So the people with those fetishes can do that to their own kids?
00:00:49.500 Yeah, exactly.
00:00:50.400 You're talking about very small percentages.
00:00:52.840 I don't think you are.
00:00:54.540 Because the people that we speak to every single day,
00:00:56.860 and you, obviously, I don't, you had OnlyFans, yeah?
00:00:59.980 Yeah, really.
00:01:00.300 Right?
00:01:00.840 So you had, you spoke to people who would have these innate fetishes.
00:01:05.440 It's more people than you actually think.
00:01:07.620 Yeah.
00:01:07.920 Have these very, very obscure fetishes,
00:01:10.920 which is, there's nothing wrong with having them.
00:01:14.200 Doesn't mean they're going to act out on them.
00:01:15.700 Which is what the argument you just made.
00:01:17.300 You just made the argument there.
00:01:18.740 Okay, we stop that.
00:01:19.640 They're going to act out on those families.
00:01:20.860 No, but if you, however, if you took away everything,
00:01:23.800 it's like, obviously, like, you have some situations
00:01:27.720 where people aren't going to act out on them.
00:01:29.440 However, if you took away literally everything
00:01:31.480 that they could ever do to release that,
00:01:34.100 what are they going to do?
00:01:34.920 They're going to get so frustrated.
00:01:36.800 They're not going to be, yeah,
00:01:38.080 they're going to get in the gym and then what?
00:01:39.880 They're going to get in the gym, get big, and then what?
00:01:42.440 Look at women in the gym. 1.00
00:01:43.320 What do they know about them and then what?
00:01:44.940 Maybe eventually find a kinky girlfriend. 1.00
00:01:47.440 What, even though they're already married and have a kid?
00:01:49.220 That makes no sense.
00:01:50.260 I think you've got a fear of men that is unfounded.
00:01:52.480 I don't have a fear of men.
00:01:53.360 I love men.
00:01:53.880 It sounds like, oh, if you take everything away from men,
00:01:55.900 they're going to get women. 1.00
00:01:56.780 I just think you're very naive to the reality of a lot of people.
00:01:59.820 You're going to come out of crime.
00:02:00.540 I'm not talking about men.
00:02:01.740 The average person is relatively a good person.
00:02:04.400 I know.
00:02:04.760 I'm not saying they're bad people.
00:02:05.740 I'm saying that people have kinks and fetishes 1.00
00:02:07.300 that can be very obscure.
00:02:08.560 Okay, but we've already discounted that.
00:02:10.980 Just because they have a fetish,
00:02:12.440 it just doesn't mean they're going to do it in real life.
00:02:14.200 No.
00:02:14.780 Right?
00:02:15.100 Yeah, not always.
00:02:16.320 Okay, let me present you with an argument
00:02:18.480 you might understand from a female perspective. 1.00
00:02:20.120 A lot of women have purely a fantasy 1.00
00:02:24.440 in their head of a grape scenario.
00:02:27.960 It does not mean they want to be graped at all, ever,
00:02:31.340 because that is a horrible experience.
00:02:32.920 But they still have that as a fantasy.
00:02:34.480 They might play out in their mind...
00:02:35.840 I don't know what women you know. 1.00
00:02:37.060 ...during masturbation. 0.69
00:02:39.660 I don't know what women you know. 1.00
00:02:42.440 Read Nancy Friday's My Secret Garden.
00:02:44.640 Oh, well done.
00:02:45.460 Okay, okay.
00:02:45.780 I'm sorry.
00:02:46.260 Women are obsessed with that show, 1.00
00:02:47.920 The Frickin' Handmaid's Tale.
00:02:49.480 I hate that.
00:02:51.200 The thing is, I think...
00:02:54.680 No, I can't.
00:02:56.000 I'm not even talking about that.
00:02:56.920 Tell me why Beauty Shades of Grey was so popular.
00:03:00.120 Tell me why it was so popular, then.
00:03:01.720 And 50 Shades of Grey is absolute...
00:03:06.760 Oh, it's trash.
00:03:08.080 It's trash.
00:03:08.640 But it was super popular for a reason.
00:03:10.720 But it's not women. 1.00
00:03:11.080 Yeah, but why?
00:03:11.640 Because women are taught to enjoy it. 1.00
00:03:14.280 No, they're not taught anything.
00:03:16.000 Tell me where in the high school curriculum
00:03:19.320 it said you should enjoy SA.
00:03:21.540 It's over corn.
00:03:22.040 It does not ever say that.
00:03:23.680 It's everywhere.
00:03:24.220 And you're saying corn's positive, then.
00:03:26.520 How is this disconnect working in your brain?
00:03:29.060 I didn't say it was positive.
00:03:29.820 It's men and women if it is. 1.00
00:03:30.920 It's not just women. 1.00
00:03:32.060 It's not just women. 1.00
00:03:32.960 Men and women are into this type of stuff.
00:03:34.920 And I see it from both sides.
00:03:36.720 I have followers who are men,
00:03:38.360 who are gay men,
00:03:39.180 and all sorts of men and women.
00:03:41.140 So I see it from both sides.
00:03:43.340 C and C, a lot of people like it.
00:03:45.120 As long as it's healthy, safe,
00:03:46.660 who cares?
00:03:48.300 I agree.
00:03:49.120 I don't think these women are having fantasies 1.00
00:03:52.000 of being sexually assaulted down an alley.
00:03:56.120 It's role-play.
00:03:56.940 Yeah, it's a bit more...
00:03:58.180 That's exactly what I just said.
00:04:00.360 It's literally what I just said.
00:04:01.720 We have to live in reality, though,
00:04:03.740 and we have to look at what women pick. 1.00
00:04:06.720 And if we're reading the 50 shades of grey type shit, 1.00
00:04:10.080 it says something.
00:04:11.020 We can't just say that doesn't exist.
00:04:12.880 I'm not saying it doesn't exist.
00:04:14.060 I'm saying they're stupid if you read that
00:04:15.580 and you thought it was great.
00:04:16.640 Okay, but it's not about stupidity.
00:04:19.200 It's about what did women pick. 1.00
00:04:20.860 And we have to be objective.
00:04:21.580 It's what sells, isn't it?
00:04:22.700 Correct.
00:04:23.240 And so if it sells, what does that mean?
00:04:24.740 There's a demand.
00:04:25.980 I didn't say that makes us look good.
00:04:28.120 I'm just saying that's what we pick.
00:04:29.640 Yeah, you just want it.
00:04:30.320 Like, I know what it is.
00:04:31.740 You love bondage.
00:04:32.520 You love being tied up and spanked. 0.99
00:04:33.940 Yeah, but that's BDSM. 1.00
00:04:35.140 I don't think that's that bad.
00:04:36.880 But that's not 50 shades of grey.
00:04:37.740 That might not be bad for you,
00:04:39.280 but that might be bad for someone else.
00:04:40.580 But it's along the same spectrum.
00:04:42.040 Yeah, but 50 shades of grey
00:04:43.080 put such a bad light on the bondage community.
00:04:45.500 That is not the bondage community.
00:04:46.800 That is a man controlling a woman. 1.00
00:04:48.540 We've got to respect the bondage community, guys. 0.88
00:04:50.200 We've got to respect.
00:04:50.740 Okay, guys, I'm going to read Super Chats for a second.
00:04:52.880 Oh, go for it.
00:04:53.800 Okay, guys, we're at over 1,000 likes on this stream,
00:04:57.760 so make sure you do like the video.
00:05:00.260 All right.
00:05:01.080 Thane, oh my gosh, Thane is back.
00:05:02.780 Thane Matra, I'm losing brain cells.
00:05:05.560 Leah Brooke, the endorphins release in the brain
00:05:08.320 while viewing pornography are 200 times more potent
00:05:11.960 than morphine and more addictive than cocaine.
00:05:14.400 Wow.
00:05:14.560 Oh, Rob, women these days spend more time in social media 1.00
00:05:19.460 that they've left reality for virtual reality
00:05:22.080 that doesn't produce a quality partner
00:05:24.520 any more than a man finds a good wife by watching corn.
00:05:28.180 Rob, single.
00:05:28.780 A, Ron, Martinez, side,
00:05:30.600 the OF money might lead you to do things
00:05:33.020 you normally wouldn't be allowed to do,
00:05:35.220 but it's at the cost of your dignity
00:05:36.680 and ability to find a man in the future.
00:05:38.980 I hate that argument.
00:05:40.020 Dignity doesn't pay bills.
00:05:41.200 One who would have allowed you to retire without OF shame.
00:05:45.420 Adam Sutton, nipple-piercing lady. 0.93
00:05:48.440 Pearl is not popular because she's controversial. 1.00
00:05:50.760 She's popular because she dares to point out
00:05:52.660 how good average men have their resources
00:05:55.340 extracted by women like you. 0.99
00:05:57.280 Adam Sutton, nipple-piercing lady. 0.93
00:06:00.000 Who's nipple-piercing lady? 1.00
00:06:00.940 Oh, wait.
00:06:01.900 He put the same one twice.
00:06:04.100 Andre Ferrari, OF.
00:06:05.740 Who's nipple-piercing lady? 1.00
00:06:06.300 Guys, wait till I'm done.
00:06:07.100 Guys, wait till I'm done.
00:06:07.920 OF, fans, doesn't deserve commitment.
00:06:11.180 Image kills career.
00:06:12.300 Dr. David Baker.
00:06:13.980 Australia on the panel, represent Aussie.
00:06:16.580 Aussie, Aussie. 0.61
00:06:18.380 Best tank.
00:06:19.520 If my stint on Twitter means anything,
00:06:21.400 then apparently dishwasher is the worst insult. 0.94
00:06:24.280 Who knew?
00:06:26.840 Sancho's, B, I love them sluts. 1.00
00:06:29.680 I love my 304s,
00:06:30.940 but I ain't gonna dump no baby into them.
00:06:33.100 That's just trifling to do that to my daughter or son.
00:06:36.000 Sorry, girls, that's hush. 0.85
00:06:37.220 Are you sad and lonely?
00:06:39.260 Wait, let me refresh it one more time.
00:06:42.500 Okay.
00:06:43.720 I'm debating which question I wanna do next.
00:06:46.920 Can we do the dignity one?
00:06:49.120 I wanna know his nipple-piercings. 0.58
00:06:50.700 I'm paranoid now.
00:06:53.620 No, so my question is,
00:06:55.380 have you guys thought about
00:06:57.100 what effects that would have
00:06:59.660 on when you guys have kids?
00:07:01.040 I have got kids.
00:07:02.060 Okay.
00:07:02.640 I've got three.
00:07:03.540 How old are they?
00:07:04.720 17, 14, and five.
00:07:06.600 Okay, and they're cool with it?
00:07:08.660 Yeah.
00:07:09.420 They wasn't at first.
00:07:11.400 I've been doing it for two years.
00:07:13.140 But now my job gives them opportunities
00:07:15.640 that I wouldn't be able to give them before.
00:07:19.300 I was literally using food banks with my children
00:07:22.200 when I had my other job.
00:07:23.640 And that was a respected job.
00:07:26.240 I was still spending time away from home,
00:07:28.660 like working,
00:07:29.700 and still coming home
00:07:30.640 and not having enough money
00:07:32.140 to support them.
00:07:33.900 Now I'm home all of the time.
00:07:36.020 They get all of my attention
00:07:37.200 and I'm still able to provide
00:07:40.420 and pay for things
00:07:41.320 that I wouldn't be able to do.
00:07:43.500 Just an example is
00:07:44.880 swimming lessons for my daughter.
00:07:46.240 I would never, ever have been able
00:07:47.660 to afford swimming lessons.
00:07:49.160 Something so basic and simple
00:07:50.900 that's gonna help her in the long run.
00:07:53.060 I wouldn't have been able to do that before
00:07:54.960 without any of us.
00:07:55.760 What do you tell them
00:07:56.580 when they say,
00:07:56.920 mummy, what do you do for work?
00:07:57.900 They know what I do for work.
00:07:58.780 Well, obviously the youngest
00:07:59.880 doesn't know what I do for work,
00:08:01.100 but the two older ones
00:08:01.900 do know what I do for work.
00:08:03.240 Do any of their mates at school subscribe?
00:08:06.640 Obviously not.
00:08:07.620 Under age.
00:08:08.460 Yeah, under 18.
00:08:10.100 That's not gonna stop anyone
00:08:11.180 from going on the internet.
00:08:12.280 Well, yeah, it does
00:08:13.120 because there's a paywall for a reason.
00:08:15.040 It's to stop under 18s 1.00
00:08:17.860 getting access to it.
00:08:19.120 Yeah, that'll work.
00:08:20.080 That'll work.
00:08:20.900 Yeah, that doesn't actually stop.
00:08:22.140 Yeah, that'll work, yeah.
00:08:26.660 I got it.
00:08:27.360 You can't be naive.
00:08:28.340 What did your son say
00:08:29.820 when you first did it?
00:08:31.560 Not a lot, really.
00:08:33.040 He just accepts that
00:08:34.340 that's where the money comes from
00:08:35.740 and he's got a lifestyle
00:08:37.760 that he's happy with.
00:08:38.920 Do you think that's gonna
00:08:39.620 set him back a little bit
00:08:40.560 because he just thinks
00:08:41.500 that's a good way to make money?
00:08:43.940 So my daughter's 17,
00:08:46.060 so my oldest is 17.
00:08:47.480 She's a girl.
00:08:49.760 She would never, ever do only funds.
00:08:52.560 She's not that kind of person. 0.93
00:08:53.920 She's really shy and reserved.
00:08:55.100 But she's like,
00:08:58.280 she's happier now that I do only funds.
00:09:01.720 Would you be okay with her doing it?
00:09:05.540 I literally would support her
00:09:07.260 in anything she wanted to do.
00:09:08.580 Or like encourage it.
00:09:09.960 I wouldn't encourage it.
00:09:11.020 I wouldn't encourage anybody
00:09:12.000 to do only funds.
00:09:13.140 Just because it's hard work.
00:09:16.600 You do have the negative stuff.
00:09:18.020 I'm not naive.
00:09:18.960 I don't think that
00:09:19.800 only funds is like
00:09:20.960 the be all and end all
00:09:22.200 and is amazing.
00:09:24.060 So if you said
00:09:24.880 this is a good route to go down
00:09:26.240 or a bad route,
00:09:26.940 would you say it's bad?
00:09:28.340 It depends on which way
00:09:29.480 you look at it.
00:09:30.600 So...
00:09:31.000 It is a bad route to go down.
00:09:32.220 It depends.
00:09:32.900 It depends.
00:09:33.440 Like if you're going to get
00:09:35.400 like $130 a month,
00:09:37.480 then I don't see the point
00:09:38.760 in doing any funds.
00:09:39.660 So it's a good route
00:09:40.020 if you make enough money.
00:09:41.720 I would say so, yeah.
00:09:43.000 Because I don't think like money
00:09:44.260 should have any bearing on values.
00:09:46.540 Unfortunately, it does though.
00:09:47.980 No, I disagree.
00:09:49.220 I don't think it does.
00:09:50.400 Money literally makes
00:09:51.440 the world go round.
00:09:52.340 No, I think there's either
00:09:53.300 things you would do for money
00:09:54.420 or things you wouldn't.
00:09:55.500 Like I'll give you
00:09:56.460 a different example.
00:09:57.300 Like murder.
00:09:58.000 Could you murder someone
00:09:58.820 if they pay you enough money?
00:10:00.140 Yes.
00:10:00.280 The difference is
00:10:08.160 I'm not hurting anybody.
00:10:10.080 Can I tell you something?
00:10:10.640 Murder is obviously hurting someone.
00:10:12.200 Your reputation will, in fact,
00:10:15.840 it will hurt your family someday.
00:10:17.520 It won't.
00:10:18.040 There's always...
00:10:19.260 What if your daughter's
00:10:20.460 to get bullied
00:10:20.940 because her mum chose that route? 0.99
00:10:22.560 Then we need to sort the bullies out.
00:10:23.940 No, I'll move out our country
00:10:24.940 and live in a mansion somewhere else.
00:10:26.360 We need to sort the bullies out.
00:10:26.960 Like if you think it's okay
00:10:28.120 for bullies to bully people
00:10:29.360 because of something that...
00:10:30.480 I don't think it's okay.
00:10:31.500 I just know that's an outcome.
00:10:33.320 It's a possibility that will happen.
00:10:34.640 And then, okay,
00:10:35.480 you've got to get a mansion,
00:10:36.400 but that's to Pearl's point.
00:10:37.840 Not everything is about money.
00:10:39.240 Not everything is so material.
00:10:40.700 You've got to have something
00:10:41.560 fulfilling in your life.
00:10:42.680 And to teach your kids
00:10:43.860 that, hey, it's okay,
00:10:45.240 if all goes to shit,
00:10:46.840 just jump on OnlyFans
00:10:47.740 and sell your body, you know?
00:10:49.600 I don't think that's
00:10:50.220 a really good way to...
00:10:51.240 I'm not a parent,
00:10:52.640 so I can't really go out and say it,
00:10:54.040 but I only have to help you.