JustPearlyThings - Male Panelist Shocks Pearl After Saying This

00:00:00.000 in terms of oh in society etc my thing is if you're not doing anything or contribute

00:00:06.060 contributing towards the society in any way can be anything i personally think you deserve

00:00:11.180 nothing and i don't mean that in a horrible way you know i don't mean in a horrible way you need

00:00:16.240 to put something in to get something back and that's how it's always been the cause and effect

00:00:20.960 the greatest lie i think this this urban monoculture i talk about this this dominant

00:00:24.820 culture in our society tells people is that if you do whatever you want whatever you want to do it

00:00:29.380 that you're going to be happy and fulfilled you you will not our biologies are wonderfully

00:00:34.380 structured uh perhaps god made us this way but when you do whatever you want whenever you want

00:00:39.340 to do it a hollowness builds inside you when you are out there working to make the world a better

00:00:44.400 place you will feel a type of happiness that cannot be achieved from anything else true happiness is

00:00:51.240 only achieved by effectively living your value system and more specifically and more specifically

00:00:56.860 that leads to some form of suffering through growth and so therefore yeah and this is the victor

00:01:00.980 frankel argument right so very cool um so the next question actually i'm going to read super chats

00:01:08.660 really quick um guys make sure you like the video that's the most important metric that youtube uses

00:01:15.580 to push out these streams okay um bryden says the true question is what brings you meaning

00:01:22.000 thane mattress says classic case of a suit maketh is that a suit a suit i've never oh a classic case

00:01:31.140 of a suit maketh a man good make it not man oh wait sorry sorry i've never classic case of a suit

00:01:39.440 maketh a man not good frank castle what i have no idea what you just said yeah that's

00:01:45.240 it's a little it's a little it's a little joke there's a quote the suit maketh the man he's saying

00:01:51.240 a suit maketh the man not oh same oh i totally i totally i totally got it

00:01:56.300 um glenn lawrence oh god here comes the servant leader talk juan um figuara as a man uh as a man and

00:02:07.240 father of 3 21 75 we want children but the laws are unfair and the risk 18 to 25 years of child support

00:02:14.420 to reproduce the female market is unstable to risk this amount of effort um paying paying curl i can't 1.00

00:02:24.380 read your username i'm sorry women that don't have children are super lucius a society strictly all

00:02:32.500 men can do everything except have children cruxy says i'm simone and malcolm i appreciate your gene

00:02:39.000 selection work related

00:02:40.560 related please recommend pearl to talk to edward dutton

00:02:48.340 i don't get what's the uh-ohs

00:02:51.960 this is spicy stuff yeah okay he has greatly helped my understanding of why our world is in

00:02:57.720 the current state emily ziegler thanks to your pearls of wisdom i've been finding more and more

00:03:03.400 ways to serve and submit to my husband my husband has been the happiest man and my family is thriving

00:03:08.680 ever since we love you pearl thank you emily uh see don't i can't guys i can't say your new

00:03:16.960 usernames talk about um talk about the dancing in rail israelis on 9 11

00:03:25.280 how do you guys think a cat would answer that question do women owe it to society to have kids 1.00

00:03:41.540 like if i wasn't a human if i was just a group of cats sitting here in a suit pretending to be a

00:03:45.780 person what i what what would i what would i say about the subject they would be irrational yeah

00:03:51.360 what would i answer yeah how would you know cats would just say please shut up and give me some

00:03:57.060 tuna right now they'd be like nah girls don't have any kids it's cool cats do not care i think there's

00:04:03.820 a pretty pretty strong like uh correlation between the cat population and the amount of single 0.91

00:04:08.080 childless woman isn't there no i'll look at the study some people use animals to masturbate the 1.00

00:04:15.080 instinct to have kids um no it's true they they and this is done both because they don't have some

00:04:21.540 sometimes it's not their choice you know sometimes they just end up single without kids for whatever

00:04:25.100 reason but there are ways that you can that's why they call it their baby right can we just can we 0.97

00:04:30.020 just expand on that masturbating your instinct so if i smell delicious cupcakes but i don't eat them 0.98

00:04:34.560 am i just masturbating my instincts well what i mean by that is in the same way when an individual 0.99

00:04:38.700 masturbates they are taking sex and they are i understood what you meant i just i just love the phrase 0.98

00:04:43.780 fulfilling an instinct by looking at a simulacrum uh of of the thing that they really want um with

00:04:50.640 a kid or a little dog it looks like a little child it's got the big eyes it's sweet to you

00:04:55.580 but it doesn't require real sacrifice not at the same level uh in the same way that porn doesn't

00:05:00.780 require the real real sacrifice of going out there and impressing a person yeah but a cat's a lot cheaper

00:05:06.280 than a baby well it is and porn's a lot cheaper than a date you just haven't you just haven't seen

00:05:11.920 a you haven't seen a fat enough cat i challenge i challenge that i think men need to desexualize

00:05:17.260 themselves though i think little corn i think it's it's definitely not a good thing for men

00:05:22.740 we need to stop it personally myself i've been practicing um um you know semen retention yeah

00:05:28.640 and i feel so much more energized honestly i'm just like even like i just think differently i just

00:05:34.900 get up in the morning without no coffee just active that's interesting we need to desexualize

00:05:38.880 our minds i think as men we that's something that we owe to society women should actually

00:05:42.480 stop first because the more we keep giving out the nuni what do you think these men are gonna do

00:05:46.760 say no listen if i was a dude he has free ting on a flat top i'm taking it so this kind of goes

00:05:52.860 back to this kind of goes back to um you know this question as to what women in general oh society 0.96

00:05:59.980 right and you know one question i had is do women oh society modesty yes because now now now i'm

00:06:10.860 starting to see so i went to vegas um for like a collab like a couple months back and i couldn't

00:06:18.420 believe i was walking down the street and i saw women with their boobs out and just stickers

00:06:23.620 oh on their boobs walking in public this is legal there and i thought to myself 1.00

00:06:29.820 you know 0.98

00:06:32.460 they're they're how is this not public nudity why are women wanting to do this 1.00

00:06:38.280 why are you not arrested this used to be a thing where you get arrested for a public

00:06:41.560 yeah and now they can literally have stickers on their boobs so it kind of bears the question

00:06:46.260 do women owe society modesty and you you seem to want to go so go ahead i want her to go because 1.00

00:06:52.780 she had a long rant about this we were we were reading your tweets about this this afternoon

00:06:56.460 oh we're gonna we're gonna judge the pictures later too in a bit but go ahead go first yeah i mean you

00:07:01.600 know a lot of what we're looking at is um there's a problem with society in which every woman despite 1.00

00:07:06.960 her age wants to look like she's 20 but she can't pull it off after a certain age i'm just sorry

00:07:11.320 so part of it's you know you have to realize after a certain age you can't put pull it off and you

00:07:15.440 have to actually want to desire to be something else maybe to be a mentor maybe to be a professional

00:07:19.740 maybe to be a mother and there are appropriate outfits for all of that but we also have to

00:07:24.320 remember that like honestly like some women unfortunately don't have that much to offer 0.99

00:07:29.560 and so they marry people who want them to flaunt it they they they become trophy wives and they kind

00:07:37.180 of have to dress that way so i do think that there is a place for an immodest woman even a mother 1.00

00:07:42.020 even a woman of a certain age to dress in an extremely sexualized and showy matter because 1.00

00:07:47.040 frankly that's her job at that point she has nothing else that is her way to be productive

00:07:51.300 for society and where where would she do that like what are the wherever the hell her husband wants her 1.00

00:07:55.460 to so that see i don't know i don't know because i'm thinking like if i think that some of these

00:08:01.140 outfits it's like wrong because there are kids around yeah and you can't just even if your husband

00:08:06.840 wants you to dress like a hooker okay so i yeah go ahead i grew up in a super progressive society

00:08:11.620 where like i thought that a wedding was getting naked and wearing masks in the woods and dancing 0.98

00:08:15.660 around right so i grew up around a lot of wait wait oh wow i grew up in silicon valley i i don't

00:08:21.340 is that normal in silicon valley it was naked sweat lodge the masks the dancing the whatever right

00:08:26.900 i'm very very progressive right okay so you know and i so you could say that i grew up as a kid

00:08:32.140 around debauchery um but it didn't screw me up at all um i actually i i i lost my virginity

00:08:39.380 with my husband um it's uh i don't think that these things necessarily hurt people i don't

00:08:44.560 think that nudity or sexualization hurts people in fact it made me kind of blind to it i mean

00:08:48.660 the fact that i at age like 15 went to burning man and i swear to you i didn't see anyone use

00:08:53.220 any drugs somehow um so i i don't think i at least anecdotally it doesn't mean you weren't

00:08:59.160 using them you didn't see other people you know i still i've never been high except for

00:09:03.740 doctor's offices which is super fun of course yeah um but yeah i just uh anecdotally and

00:09:08.960 you know among the people the peers that i grew up around um i i just uh in that progressive

00:09:14.160 culture actually grew up around a bunch of prudes frankly i i think what you're saying simone

00:09:18.880 is that when women dress that way it's because they have nothing else to offer yeah women dress 1.00

00:09:23.120 in a way that shows what they think they have to offer to society and if they don't feel

00:09:27.480 and a lot of women feel very disempowered in our society and they do feel that they have

00:09:30.180 nothing else to offer or this is their primary asset but presumably as a woman ages because 0.99

00:09:35.460 this asset deteriorates so quickly in terms of its market value most women who have anything 1.00

00:09:40.960 else to offer switch what they're selling to like i'm a good mother or i'm a good chef or

00:09:45.740 something like that um whereas uh it's a really negative sign to to an individual if they're

00:09:51.280 still showing this and they're like 40 or 30 but when you're younger uh something to think

00:09:55.340 about as a woman is the type of woman not the type of guy you want to have sex with you the 1.00

00:09:58.880 type of guy you want to marry you is he going to be attracted when you're showing all this

00:10:02.880 out or is he going to look at that and think oh this is not what i want in a wife because 1.00

00:10:07.380 i think that a lot of women they get confused they say oh when i do this guys hit on me when 0.99

00:10:13.080 i do this guy sleep with me and then they then think that that's the type of thing that

00:10:17.220 will get a guy to marry them but these are two different things that you're courting for

00:10:20.360 have we created that problem though as men yeah we have yes thank you and what i wanted to say

00:10:26.320 was women have been sexualized since this big i remember my father being like you know my friends

00:10:32.380 are coming around no no women sexualize themselves women get naked no no i disagree i think that women 1.00

00:10:39.420 will get naked far quicker than men will ask for sex but and that my my proof of this is going to 1.00

00:10:45.680 vegas those women are walking around naked women walk naked around naked outside they 1.00

00:10:51.140 walk around naked to work they take off their clothes more and more and more far before men 0.99

00:10:56.820 ask for sex but would we be still talking about this if a guy was walking with his top off we

00:11:01.960 wouldn't because women have been sexualized men can walk out with a t-shirt on and no one says 0.98

00:11:06.380 they walk out with their slippers just hanging on no no no we're talking about in vegas when it's hot

00:11:11.780 it's a sunny day a man's walking with no t-shirt okay are we really gonna have okay okay are we 0.92

00:11:18.840 really gonna how old are you 28 okay you're 28 and you don't understand why women have boobs that's 0.81

00:11:27.100 why we that's why we have to have a shirt on no no it's just i feel like when like what like women 1.00

00:11:33.180 from a young age like what i was trying to say is when i was younger my father would say you know

00:11:36.620 my friends are coming around make sure you're you you know you're covered up why why on earth

00:11:41.540 am i being told to cover up when people are coming around the house so you don't grow so 1.00

00:11:46.680 yes so he doesn't look like a terrible father so you don't grow so you don't grow up to be a whore 1.00

00:11:55.900 but but can i do we have to be covered from head to toe to not be sexualized when men come over they 1.00

00:12:02.580 coming from a background where i've seen men coming to people's homes and they abuse

00:12:06.740 certain people's children including me obviously not to knock them out but you might touch me but

00:12:11.260 it's like no seriously black hearts everything the reason sorry sorry about that when men or

00:12:19.620 other uncles all this come into your house you're a young girl your mom and dad should teach you

00:12:24.160 modesty doesn't mean you have to lose your sexy when you grow up i lost my sexy i'm sexy without

00:12:28.440 having to speak you know what i mean but it's like you when you're a young kid you have to cover up you

00:12:34.080 need to learn decency modesty understand how to dress when people come over people are predators

00:12:38.120 your parents can't fully protect you all the time so you have to know how to protect yourself

00:12:42.020 of course the first way to do that is by dressing properly i used to be at home in short shorts

00:12:46.440 crop tops but i knew if a visitor's coming i dress appropriately it's just a respect for yourself

00:12:51.100 for the people that are coming over and for your family so should the little boy cover up when the

00:12:54.540 females come around what's he gonna wear he's not on the phone no no no like no no no but he might be a 0.52

00:12:58.480 t-shirt off because boys and girls are different why can't people just understand no but why is

00:13:02.400 women sexualized and why is men why is women not sexualized no that's not an answer for me

00:13:07.780 over here even as a man i've got to say i think you've got a point thank you because at the same

00:13:12.380 time i know you're saying okay well it doesn't matter you keep on saying people but it is the

00:13:17.640 influence of men of course do you think you have to protect yourself sorry sorry why do we have to

00:13:23.260 protect ourselves no i'll explain to you i'll explain to you in in all of in all of nature

00:13:27.580 there's there are things that all the female um species have that they use to attract males 1.00

00:13:35.560 and it's it's it's it's prevalent in every single aspect of nature so if you see peacocks for example

00:13:42.580 the females spread their wings to attract the males if you see there's some other animals they

00:13:47.260 have different things they do to to act sorry not peacocks sorry peacocks is actually the males

00:13:50.820 it's actually males yeah but um my point is like in every um part of nature you have something that

00:13:57.920 one side of the species does to attract the other side it's actually more males that attract no my 0.76

00:14:04.800 point is my point is if in human beings women have physical attributes that attract men yeah that is

00:14:12.940 how we are designed so the reason why you are taught to cover up is because those are attributes that

00:14:18.820 signal certain things to men biologically

00:14:21.460 i don't understand why do you say the men are responsible for the sexualization i wouldn't say

00:14:33.700 they're completely wholly responsible but i do think some sick men that we all are influenced by or heard

00:14:39.640 of right that's the reason why a young girl will be told okay well you've got a cover-up or anything

00:14:44.240 like that that young girl is very innocent she doesn't know anything like in terms of that like

00:14:49.440 but she learns that because really the biggest influence tends to be that sick man that does

00:14:55.040 but even without the sick man why is it bad to teach your daughter to cover up isn't that a skill that

00:15:00.020 would be good throughout her life it's not bad at all so then why do we like paint that as a bad thing 0.99

00:15:04.600 like it's been sexualizing women we wouldn't have to cover ourselves up if it wasn't for men and we 0.98

00:15:10.180 know we're comfortable

JustPearlyThings - November 10, 2023

Male Panelist Shocks Pearl After Saying This

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