Male Panelist Shocks Pearl After Saying This
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In this episode of the podcast, we discuss the concept of childlessness and why it's a problem. Do women owe it to society to have kids? Is sex a waste of money if you don't have kids, or is it better to have sex with a cat, a dog, or a cat?
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in terms of oh in society etc my thing is if you're not doing anything or contribute
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contributing towards the society in any way can be anything i personally think you deserve
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nothing and i don't mean that in a horrible way you know i don't mean in a horrible way you need
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to put something in to get something back and that's how it's always been the cause and effect
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the greatest lie i think this this urban monoculture i talk about this this dominant
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culture in our society tells people is that if you do whatever you want whatever you want to do it
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that you're going to be happy and fulfilled you you will not our biologies are wonderfully
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structured uh perhaps god made us this way but when you do whatever you want whenever you want
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to do it a hollowness builds inside you when you are out there working to make the world a better
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place you will feel a type of happiness that cannot be achieved from anything else true happiness is
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only achieved by effectively living your value system and more specifically and more specifically
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that leads to some form of suffering through growth and so therefore yeah and this is the victor
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frankel argument right so very cool um so the next question actually i'm going to read super chats
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really quick um guys make sure you like the video that's the most important metric that youtube uses
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to push out these streams okay um bryden says the true question is what brings you meaning
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thane mattress says classic case of a suit maketh is that a suit a suit i've never oh a classic case
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of a suit maketh a man good make it not man oh wait sorry sorry i've never classic case of a suit
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maketh a man not good frank castle what i have no idea what you just said yeah that's
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it's a little it's a little it's a little joke there's a quote the suit maketh the man he's saying
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a suit maketh the man not oh same oh i totally i totally i totally got it
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um glenn lawrence oh god here comes the servant leader talk juan um figuara as a man uh as a man and
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father of 3 21 75 we want children but the laws are unfair and the risk 18 to 25 years of child support
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to reproduce the female market is unstable to risk this amount of effort um paying paying curl i can't
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read your username i'm sorry women that don't have children are super lucius a society strictly all
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men can do everything except have children cruxy says i'm simone and malcolm i appreciate your gene
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related please recommend pearl to talk to edward dutton
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this is spicy stuff yeah okay he has greatly helped my understanding of why our world is in
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the current state emily ziegler thanks to your pearls of wisdom i've been finding more and more
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ways to serve and submit to my husband my husband has been the happiest man and my family is thriving
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ever since we love you pearl thank you emily uh see don't i can't guys i can't say your new
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usernames talk about um talk about the dancing in rail israelis on 9 11
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how do you guys think a cat would answer that question do women owe it to society to have kids
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like if i wasn't a human if i was just a group of cats sitting here in a suit pretending to be a
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person what i what what would i what would i say about the subject they would be irrational yeah
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what would i answer yeah how would you know cats would just say please shut up and give me some
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tuna right now they'd be like nah girls don't have any kids it's cool cats do not care i think there's
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a pretty pretty strong like uh correlation between the cat population and the amount of single
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childless woman isn't there no i'll look at the study some people use animals to masturbate the
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instinct to have kids um no it's true they they and this is done both because they don't have some
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sometimes it's not their choice you know sometimes they just end up single without kids for whatever
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reason but there are ways that you can that's why they call it their baby right can we just can we
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just expand on that masturbating your instinct so if i smell delicious cupcakes but i don't eat them
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am i just masturbating my instincts well what i mean by that is in the same way when an individual
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masturbates they are taking sex and they are i understood what you meant i just i just love the phrase
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fulfilling an instinct by looking at a simulacrum uh of of the thing that they really want um with
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a kid or a little dog it looks like a little child it's got the big eyes it's sweet to you
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but it doesn't require real sacrifice not at the same level uh in the same way that porn doesn't
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require the real real sacrifice of going out there and impressing a person yeah but a cat's a lot cheaper
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than a baby well it is and porn's a lot cheaper than a date you just haven't you just haven't seen
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a you haven't seen a fat enough cat i challenge i challenge that i think men need to desexualize
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themselves though i think little corn i think it's it's definitely not a good thing for men
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we need to stop it personally myself i've been practicing um um you know semen retention yeah
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and i feel so much more energized honestly i'm just like even like i just think differently i just
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get up in the morning without no coffee just active that's interesting we need to desexualize
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our minds i think as men we that's something that we owe to society women should actually
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stop first because the more we keep giving out the nuni what do you think these men are gonna do
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say no listen if i was a dude he has free ting on a flat top i'm taking it so this kind of goes
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back to this kind of goes back to um you know this question as to what women in general oh society
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right and you know one question i had is do women oh society modesty yes because now now now i'm
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starting to see so i went to vegas um for like a collab like a couple months back and i couldn't
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believe i was walking down the street and i saw women with their boobs out and just stickers
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oh on their boobs walking in public this is legal there and i thought to myself
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they're they're how is this not public nudity why are women wanting to do this
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why are you not arrested this used to be a thing where you get arrested for a public
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yeah and now they can literally have stickers on their boobs so it kind of bears the question
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do women owe society modesty and you you seem to want to go so go ahead i want her to go because
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she had a long rant about this we were we were reading your tweets about this this afternoon
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oh we're gonna we're gonna judge the pictures later too in a bit but go ahead go first yeah i mean you
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know a lot of what we're looking at is um there's a problem with society in which every woman despite
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her age wants to look like she's 20 but she can't pull it off after a certain age i'm just sorry
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so part of it's you know you have to realize after a certain age you can't put pull it off and you
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have to actually want to desire to be something else maybe to be a mentor maybe to be a professional
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maybe to be a mother and there are appropriate outfits for all of that but we also have to
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remember that like honestly like some women unfortunately don't have that much to offer
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and so they marry people who want them to flaunt it they they they become trophy wives and they kind
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of have to dress that way so i do think that there is a place for an immodest woman even a mother
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even a woman of a certain age to dress in an extremely sexualized and showy matter because
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frankly that's her job at that point she has nothing else that is her way to be productive
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for society and where where would she do that like what are the wherever the hell her husband wants her
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to so that see i don't know i don't know because i'm thinking like if i think that some of these
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outfits it's like wrong because there are kids around yeah and you can't just even if your husband
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wants you to dress like a hooker okay so i yeah go ahead i grew up in a super progressive society
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where like i thought that a wedding was getting naked and wearing masks in the woods and dancing
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around right so i grew up around a lot of wait wait oh wow i grew up in silicon valley i i don't
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is that normal in silicon valley it was naked sweat lodge the masks the dancing the whatever right
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i'm very very progressive right okay so you know and i so you could say that i grew up as a kid
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around debauchery um but it didn't screw me up at all um i actually i i i lost my virginity
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with my husband um it's uh i don't think that these things necessarily hurt people i don't
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think that nudity or sexualization hurts people in fact it made me kind of blind to it i mean
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the fact that i at age like 15 went to burning man and i swear to you i didn't see anyone use
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any drugs somehow um so i i don't think i at least anecdotally it doesn't mean you weren't
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using them you didn't see other people you know i still i've never been high except for
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doctor's offices which is super fun of course yeah um but yeah i just uh anecdotally and
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you know among the people the peers that i grew up around um i i just uh in that progressive
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culture actually grew up around a bunch of prudes frankly i i think what you're saying simone
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is that when women dress that way it's because they have nothing else to offer yeah women dress
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in a way that shows what they think they have to offer to society and if they don't feel
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and a lot of women feel very disempowered in our society and they do feel that they have
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nothing else to offer or this is their primary asset but presumably as a woman ages because
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this asset deteriorates so quickly in terms of its market value most women who have anything
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else to offer switch what they're selling to like i'm a good mother or i'm a good chef or
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something like that um whereas uh it's a really negative sign to to an individual if they're
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still showing this and they're like 40 or 30 but when you're younger uh something to think
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about as a woman is the type of woman not the type of guy you want to have sex with you the
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type of guy you want to marry you is he going to be attracted when you're showing all this
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out or is he going to look at that and think oh this is not what i want in a wife because
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i think that a lot of women they get confused they say oh when i do this guys hit on me when
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i do this guy sleep with me and then they then think that that's the type of thing that
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will get a guy to marry them but these are two different things that you're courting for
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have we created that problem though as men yeah we have yes thank you and what i wanted to say
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was women have been sexualized since this big i remember my father being like you know my friends
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are coming around no no women sexualize themselves women get naked no no i disagree i think that women
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will get naked far quicker than men will ask for sex but and that my my proof of this is going to
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vegas those women are walking around naked women walk naked around naked outside they
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walk around naked to work they take off their clothes more and more and more far before men
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ask for sex but would we be still talking about this if a guy was walking with his top off we
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wouldn't because women have been sexualized men can walk out with a t-shirt on and no one says
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they walk out with their slippers just hanging on no no no we're talking about in vegas when it's hot
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it's a sunny day a man's walking with no t-shirt okay are we really gonna have okay okay are we
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really gonna how old are you 28 okay you're 28 and you don't understand why women have boobs that's
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why we that's why we have to have a shirt on no no it's just i feel like when like what like women
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from a young age like what i was trying to say is when i was younger my father would say you know
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my friends are coming around make sure you're you you know you're covered up why why on earth
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am i being told to cover up when people are coming around the house so you don't grow so
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yes so he doesn't look like a terrible father so you don't grow so you don't grow up to be a whore
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but but can i do we have to be covered from head to toe to not be sexualized when men come over they
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coming from a background where i've seen men coming to people's homes and they abuse
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certain people's children including me obviously not to knock them out but you might touch me but
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it's like no seriously black hearts everything the reason sorry sorry about that when men or
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other uncles all this come into your house you're a young girl your mom and dad should teach you
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modesty doesn't mean you have to lose your sexy when you grow up i lost my sexy i'm sexy without
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having to speak you know what i mean but it's like you when you're a young kid you have to cover up you
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need to learn decency modesty understand how to dress when people come over people are predators
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your parents can't fully protect you all the time so you have to know how to protect yourself
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of course the first way to do that is by dressing properly i used to be at home in short shorts
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crop tops but i knew if a visitor's coming i dress appropriately it's just a respect for yourself
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for the people that are coming over and for your family so should the little boy cover up when the
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females come around what's he gonna wear he's not on the phone no no no like no no no but he might be a
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t-shirt off because boys and girls are different why can't people just understand no but why is
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women sexualized and why is men why is women not sexualized no that's not an answer for me
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over here even as a man i've got to say i think you've got a point thank you because at the same
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time i know you're saying okay well it doesn't matter you keep on saying people but it is the
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influence of men of course do you think you have to protect yourself sorry sorry why do we have to
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protect ourselves no i'll explain to you i'll explain to you in in all of in all of nature
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there's there are things that all the female um species have that they use to attract males
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and it's it's it's it's prevalent in every single aspect of nature so if you see peacocks for example
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the females spread their wings to attract the males if you see there's some other animals they
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have different things they do to to act sorry not peacocks sorry peacocks is actually the males
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it's actually males yeah but um my point is like in every um part of nature you have something that
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one side of the species does to attract the other side it's actually more males that attract no my
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point is my point is if in human beings women have physical attributes that attract men yeah that is
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how we are designed so the reason why you are taught to cover up is because those are attributes that
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i don't understand why do you say the men are responsible for the sexualization i wouldn't say
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they're completely wholly responsible but i do think some sick men that we all are influenced by or heard
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of right that's the reason why a young girl will be told okay well you've got a cover-up or anything
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like that that young girl is very innocent she doesn't know anything like in terms of that like
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but she learns that because really the biggest influence tends to be that sick man that does
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but even without the sick man why is it bad to teach your daughter to cover up isn't that a skill that
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would be good throughout her life it's not bad at all so then why do we like paint that as a bad thing
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like it's been sexualizing women we wouldn't have to cover ourselves up if it wasn't for men and we
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