JustPearlyThings - November 10, 2023


Male Panelist Starts Becoming Troublesome


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9 minutes

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199

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In this episode, the brother and sister duo of the discuss the concept of deserve and don t in relation to society. Do you deserve a job if you don t get the job?

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00:00:00.000 Sorry, sorry, sorry to interrupt, but what do you mean by deserve?
00:00:02.700 Who are you to tell me I deserve a future?
00:00:05.680 We deserve what we get.
00:00:06.680 No, but who are you to tell me from your fairies? 1.00
00:00:08.600 I'm not telling you anything.
00:00:10.020 Reality is, it sounds like you may not want the future.
00:00:12.760 No, no, no, no, no, no, no.
00:00:13.580 I'm asking you a question.
00:00:15.300 From your fairies and what you're saying to me, 0.99
00:00:18.160 you're telling me that certain people from the aspects of life,
00:00:23.240 they don't deserve a future.
00:00:25.020 Who are you to tell me that?
00:00:26.600 We're simply telling you you won't be in the future.
00:00:28.240 No, I wasn't asking you, my friend.
00:00:29.840 I was asking your missus.
00:00:31.340 I want to know her aspects.
00:00:33.140 I'm not asking you, my brother.
00:00:34.560 I'm asking you, my sister,
00:00:36.200 so I can understand women on a global aspect. 0.78
00:00:40.440 What do you mean by that?
00:00:41.560 Well, he and I are the same person, essentially.
00:00:43.340 I understand that, but I'm not associating you two as the same person.
00:00:49.020 So you have to respect that as me,
00:00:51.160 because you're a woman and he's a man.
00:00:53.000 I think you're kind of moving the goalpost.
00:00:55.180 He answered your question.
00:00:56.380 He didn't.
00:00:58.060 He didn't, pal.
00:00:59.440 No, because you're telling me certain aspects,
00:01:02.160 but I want to know where.
00:01:02.860 Okay, the people that deserve the future are the ones that have kids.
00:01:06.300 Why?
00:01:06.640 Why?
00:01:07.120 Why do you believe that?
00:01:08.360 Because no one else will be there.
00:01:09.800 Why do you believe that?
00:01:11.280 Because I'm going to answer,
00:01:12.040 because no one else will be there.
00:01:14.160 But God give you free will.
00:01:16.020 We know.
00:01:16.740 Yes, I give you free will to show up.
00:01:18.460 Are you a robot of God?
00:01:20.320 But we live in a land that is obliged by the Magna Carta, the God's law.
00:01:26.180 But what are you talking about?
00:01:28.540 I want to see where this goes.
00:01:30.080 It's not what I'm talking about.
00:01:31.220 It's just the law of the land that I'm trying to live by.
00:01:34.100 Okay.
00:01:35.300 So if you all believe in certain things, how can that resonate with me?
00:01:39.820 Okay, okay.
00:01:40.560 Do you deserve a job if you don't get it?
00:01:43.780 I'll create my own job.
00:01:45.120 No.
00:01:45.660 I'm self-employed.
00:01:46.740 Okay, okay.
00:01:47.440 I'm self-employed.
00:01:47.900 Do you deserve a job if you don't get the job?
00:01:50.360 What do you mean?
00:01:51.020 Elaborate.
00:01:51.760 It's a pretty simple question.
00:01:52.820 It's not.
00:01:53.320 It's not.
00:01:53.560 It's very simple.
00:01:54.760 Do you deserve a job if you apply for a job and you don't get that job?
00:01:58.880 If you meet the credentials.
00:02:00.560 Do you deserve a job if you don't get the job?
00:02:02.460 Or if your credentials meet the credentials.
00:02:03.580 Please, yes or no.
00:02:04.700 Do you deserve a job?
00:02:06.860 Do you deserve a job?
00:02:07.720 If your credentials meet the credentials of the job, yes, you do deserve the job.
00:02:11.240 Why would you deserve it if you didn't get it?
00:02:15.860 It's your decision.
00:02:16.820 But see, that's entitlement.
00:02:17.740 It's your choice.
00:02:18.660 And that's why I said God gave you free will.
00:02:20.920 So just like if I go for a job like me and my brother next to me and we have the same characteristics
00:02:26.940 and the same qualifications, it's for you to decide who you want to take that position.
00:02:32.900 What two people have the same characteristics?
00:02:36.620 There's a lot of people.
00:02:38.340 There's a lot of people that go for the same job, that come from the same area, that have
00:02:43.040 the same characteristics.
00:02:44.440 Because the majority of the characteristics we have.
00:02:47.180 The exact same characteristics.
00:02:48.780 No.
00:02:49.820 Similar characteristics.
00:02:51.520 But one would be.
00:02:52.780 But it's not characteristics that get you the job, doesn't it?
00:02:55.620 I would hire the guy in a nicer suit just because he showed up ready and professional.
00:03:01.160 Okay.
00:03:01.580 That's my take on it.
00:03:02.200 So you hire me then, right?
00:03:04.540 That's me.
00:03:05.140 So I'll get the job.
00:03:06.140 Yeah.
00:03:06.600 Okay.
00:03:07.280 But away from getting the job, it's what your core foundations are and what you believe
00:03:13.580 in.
00:03:14.580 Can I talk to your point?
00:03:17.360 I thought it was really interesting what he said is that like the sporadic populations
00:03:21.040 tend to like be overrepresented in the population because they have more kids.
00:03:23.940 And there's like a really interesting like thesis behind that, right?
00:03:27.480 Because, you know, look at like a lot of the problems we have with society today can
00:03:31.480 be distilled down to one variable.
00:03:32.840 I'll tell you what the variable is, but let me build up to it, right?
00:03:35.020 Like we say, oh, we have too much carbon.
00:03:37.300 And that comes back to too much people.
00:03:39.160 You know, we have too much consumption of meat.
00:03:41.320 And that comes back to too many people eating meat.
00:03:43.040 Let's feed them bugs. 1.00
00:03:43.780 We have too many kids.
00:03:45.680 Let's give everybody birth control. 1.00
00:03:47.220 Everything comes back to humans are the problem.
00:03:50.320 And that's what we see in the big cities.
00:03:53.080 But the populations he's talking about, they're not saying humans are the problem.
00:03:56.840 They're saying humans are the point.
00:03:59.380 God.
00:03:59.940 So why are we?
00:04:00.880 So it's like, and this goes back to the issue of like, do I owe anything to anyone?
00:04:04.460 Right?
00:04:04.580 Exactly.
00:04:05.100 And I was kind of thinking about it this morning.
00:04:06.960 Like, you know, we all serve somebody or something.
00:04:10.200 Maybe you serve God.
00:04:11.180 Maybe you serve your boss, your spouse. 0.59
00:04:12.720 Maybe you just serve yourself.
00:04:14.200 Fine.
00:04:14.920 You know, we're going to go from Ayn Rand all the way to the most, you know, theological views.
00:04:18.980 We all serve somebody.
00:04:20.080 But servitude without gratitude is resentment.
00:04:22.340 Facts.
00:04:22.700 And so the point to me is like, it's like, I don't owe anybody anything.
00:04:25.540 And I look at it and I think like, well, you probably owe your tailor a little bit.
00:04:29.220 Because he's making you look sharp, doesn't he?
00:04:31.520 Is that not fair?
00:04:32.320 You probably owe Pearl.
00:04:34.060 Hang on.
00:04:34.540 You probably owe Pearl for giving you this platform to talk to the world and share your views.
00:04:37.940 Gratitude is gratitude.
00:04:40.020 Gratitude is gratitude.
00:04:41.040 I just wanted to say.
00:04:41.880 Hold on, brother.
00:04:42.460 Sure.
00:04:42.800 Hold on, brother.
00:04:44.220 Pick your words.
00:04:46.740 Really pick your words specifically.
00:04:49.200 English literature is a dangerous thing.
00:04:51.500 You're telling me, oh, I don't owe no one nothing.
00:04:54.780 You're telling me to give gratitude.
00:04:56.860 Gratitude is different because you need owing someone.
00:04:59.760 I postulate the gratitude and...
00:05:01.840 Gratitude and owing.
00:05:02.580 The gratitude and debt.
00:05:04.700 Like, owing, this means I'm obliged to pay you something.
00:05:07.440 And I'm not obliged.
00:05:08.540 I think you owe a lot of people.
00:05:10.480 Like, I think you owe your community something.
00:05:12.740 Why?
00:05:13.440 Why?
00:05:14.080 Because society is better when you're selfless and it's not a me, me, me culture.
00:05:18.540 What is society, Pearl?
00:05:19.660 Explain to me.
00:05:20.700 Do you owe anything to yourself?
00:05:21.840 Do you owe anything to yourself?
00:05:22.760 No, I don't think to myself.
00:05:23.900 I'm a very spiritual person.
00:05:25.960 I go to church every Saturday and I pray and I give homage to my ancestors and my forefathers.
00:05:32.440 But what do I owe anyone?
00:05:35.460 Be careful what you're talking about and what you're saying.
00:05:38.920 I do not owe anyone nothing.
00:05:41.240 Do you owe God something, right?
00:05:43.400 Okay.
00:05:44.340 Yeah.
00:05:44.820 That's something different from a being.
00:05:47.880 Yes, it is.
00:05:48.420 It isn't.
00:05:49.060 Yeah, it is.
00:05:49.540 Because God is the Elohim. 0.98
00:05:50.860 Don't tell me what my perspective is on life.
00:05:54.100 I'm not talking about humanity.
00:05:56.720 I'm talking about myself.
00:05:58.180 Timmy Grant.
00:05:58.640 I'm going to let him go.
00:06:00.960 Go ahead.
00:06:01.220 Yeah.
00:06:01.640 I think that we can say, like, okay, who deserves to be in the future?
00:06:05.280 And I think that that's even the wrong question.
00:06:06.720 Who is going to be in the future?
00:06:08.500 God gave us one of the most beautiful gifts.
00:06:11.500 We can't just decide not to die.
00:06:13.500 The greatest gift he gave us, or one of the greatest, is death.
00:06:16.520 And it's one of the greatest gifts he gave us in this intergenerational cycle we get to be a part of.
00:06:21.340 Because I get to look everywhere in the world and find anyone I want to, like the best person I want to, to mix my genes with, to fix my flaws.
00:06:29.320 And then I get to give the next iteration of myself any childhood I want to, the best childhood I can imagine for them.
00:06:35.160 And then on top of all that, I get to tell them what I believe.
00:06:39.160 And the most beautiful thing is they can say, no, you believe that because of some prejudice due to when you were growing up or some bias due to your childhood.
00:06:46.640 The slate gets wiped clean, and they can improve upon me in a way that I could never improve upon myself.
00:06:53.480 And that's why I love this cycle.
00:06:55.420 But I think that, you know, to talk about it in terms of what's owed or what not owed, we're just trying to point out that if you don't have kids, then if you can work to, like, help your brother raise their kids, right?
00:07:06.040 Then people like you might exist in the future, right?
00:07:08.020 But then to stay stable, your brother has to have, like, five, six kids, and you need to be helping with that.
00:07:11.900 You know, you can't be helping with your brother's two kids because then there's going to be half of you in the future between you and your brother.
00:07:16.380 No, I'm not interjecting with that.
00:07:18.160 Wait, let him, no, no, no, no, no, no, no.
00:07:20.760 Why can't you be the best uncle and not the best dad?
00:07:24.000 You don't need to be best dad.
00:07:25.580 Stop, stop, stop, stop, stop.
00:07:26.840 You can be a great uncle.
00:07:28.540 What I'm saying is if you're a great uncle and you want to be stable in a population, so 2.1 is a stable fertility rate, so that means you would need to be a great uncle to a sibling with five kids.
00:07:38.780 Okay, my brother.
00:07:40.020 So say if you couldn't have children.
00:07:41.820 So, say if your sperm count and all of that stuff was not scientifically imbalanced.
00:07:47.820 So, what next?
00:07:48.820 Are you not adequate?
00:07:50.820 I need you to stop interrupting everybody.
00:07:53.820 I need you to stop interrupting everybody.
00:07:55.820 I'm sorry.
00:07:56.820 I'm passionate for what I'm talking about.
00:07:57.820 I understand you're passionate, but you need to control your emotions.
00:08:00.820 Let him talk.
00:08:01.820 By the way, you made a really interesting point about the number you need to reproduce
00:08:05.820 in order to keep the population stable, 2.1.
00:08:08.820 And there's like a few logical steps here.
00:08:11.820 I'm not going to go too deep into it.
00:08:12.820 But there's a fundamentally big difference between a dad and an uncle.
00:08:15.820 There's a lot of ways to be a bad dad.
00:08:17.820 There's only one way to be a bad uncle.
00:08:19.820 So, let's raise the bar.
00:08:21.820 What do you mean by that, bro?
00:08:24.820 You want me to explain how to be a bad uncle?
00:08:26.820 I really do want to understand, because this is what it's about.
00:08:29.820 That's what we're here.
00:08:30.820 I'm not trying to argue.
00:08:32.820 I'm trying to understand.
00:08:33.820 So, in my life, I'm the best person I can be.
00:08:37.820 I want to be clear.
00:08:38.820 You know, when we talk about, you know, having kids and stuff like that, it's not just sperm.
00:08:41.820 It is hard to find a partner out there in the world today.
00:08:43.820 If you're a young guy, you know, people hear me and they go, wow, you're black built.
00:08:47.820 And I saw a tweet, and I totally agree with it. 0.56
00:08:49.820 Being in a happy relationship as a millennial, it feels like catching the last chopper out of Nam. 0.62
00:08:53.820 You know, it is hard out there.
00:08:55.820 Okay?
00:08:56.820 And there are some people who just do something totally outside of their control, not even like they're infertile.
00:09:00.820 Maybe they're short, right?
00:09:02.820 And they just can't get a partner.
00:09:04.820 Maybe, you know, who knows?
00:09:05.820 It's hard out there.
00:09:06.820 And there are ways that you can contribute to your community and make it easier for the people in your community who want to exist in the future.
00:09:13.820 It is not for everyone to be a father or a mother.
00:09:16.820 There are many ways we can contribute to the next generation.
00:09:19.820 I just encourage people to think about that.
00:09:21.820 Like, how can I contribute to my community instead of how can I, you know, chase the Joneses on, you know, TikTok and all these vanity marketplaces we have where we can pair ourselves. 0.94
00:09:31.820 So you've just answered the question, bro.
00:09:32.820 You've answered the question.
00:09:33.820 I was going to say.
00:09:34.820 So no one don't owe no one for nothing.
00:09:35.820 That's when no one is worth anything.
00:09:56.820 You have to go.