JustPearlyThings - Man DROPS Truth bombs On Modern Women

00:00:00.000 not honest with each other like you you know when your friend's sleeping out of her league

00:00:04.080 you know damn well but nobody tells her you know it is it's not i don't think it's the sleeping

00:00:08.320 with the 10 and whatever i feel like with with us girls sometimes we get a little bit carried away 0.83

00:00:15.040 and we're not realistic you may be sleeping with a guy who's a 10 but is he treating you like a 10

00:00:21.600 treating you like a 10 and sleeping with you like a 10 or three or whatever you are is two different

00:00:25.840 things how they treat you is another is a whole nother ball game yeah i think women kind of like 1.00

00:00:31.840 men that don't treat them well though i don't i don't think i'm just i'm just saying like if we

00:00:39.120 really hated toxic men why do we all have a toxic ex because we're traumatized yeah but like but why

00:00:46.960 would you date him like i mean as a like as you're living out your trauma basically until you realize

00:00:53.840 that you're yeah in the situation yeah you kind of heal yourself so you're a feminist yeah this is 1.00

00:00:59.360 the accountability thing oh my god you just made it obvious it's like this guy gave me trauma you

00:01:04.880 picked him no no no i'm not talking about men see i'm not even talking about men i'm talking about

00:01:08.720 like experiences in your life like with your parents you know like we are literally walking

00:01:13.840 trauma bombs right wouldn't you say it's just an excuse for poor decisions yeah no i wouldn't

00:01:21.600 okay what what would you call it

00:01:23.840 i would say we're just walking trauma bombs like and we have to do the work to heal ourselves so

00:01:30.960 that we don't repeat the patterns right the thing is i always say to my friends look if you're in a

00:01:35.680 toxic relationship right and you and you experience the same thing right another guy comes along again

00:01:41.280 toxic relationship who's the common denominator in this situation you so you're the problem so fix

00:01:47.120 yourself and then go get the thing you want or maybe but but but maybe she's toxic exactly that's 1.00

00:01:53.440 what i'm saying but that's what i'm saying like a lot of times girls will say oh like

00:01:58.640 like they blame it on the guys like all the guys are toxic and or they'll say they'll say something

00:02:03.520 like oh it's my ability to pick but it's like is it your ability to pick or are you toxic do you have

00:02:08.880 toxic traits this is what i'm saying yeah a lot of women are toxic i don't think i don't even think most 1.00

00:02:13.600 girls are even saying that to their friends and this is what i mean about don't take advice on

00:02:17.440 women because your girl will see a girl will do something in a relationship well there's always 1.00

00:02:21.600 two sides to the story and she'll go to a girl and say look he's doing this that and the third 0.91

00:02:25.120 ignoring everything that she's doing and her friend will say well you know men are like this

00:02:29.200 and blah blah blah blah blah where does she take accountability where does she have the 1.00

00:02:32.640 opportunity to heal and say let me develop from this situation and make better decisions in the

00:02:36.560 future i'm the exception your friends will affirm your behavior i'm the exception no no but also

00:02:42.480 like you have to again you have to look at your circle right like if you're toxic heavily toxic

00:02:48.480 right the likelihood of your best friend being toxic is quite high how many people would admit they're

00:02:53.280 genuinely toxic yeah i think i think it starts from i don't know i i personally think it starts from

00:02:58.880 like having children being a mother because i've got a daughter and a son and whenever my daughter

00:03:03.600 comes to me and says oh ezra did this to me i said okay what did you do and then i find out

00:03:08.160 she's done a list of things and i have to hold her accountable for it i don't because sometimes

00:03:12.560 especially being the girl you get lit off with a lot of things and it starts from there i think

00:03:17.200 younger sisters yeah exactly yeah as soon as my mom i don't know about that my mom shouts my name

00:03:22.560 straight away it's like i didn't even i'm even in the house i feel like this now this is a controversial

00:03:30.080 thing but i feel like mums love their sons more yeah but you can say dads love their daughters more

00:03:35.280 so both are getting loved yeah because but it's quite really i'm my mom's favorite really

00:03:42.960 i think it's quite common because the whole thing of like so the whole thing of okay it takes

00:03:46.720 a father to raise a man and takes a mother to raise a woman right so when it and because because 0.60

00:03:51.600 men women we operate differently right i will i will never understand what it means to move in

00:03:56.080 this world as a woman you'll never understand we we play by different rules so a lot of the time in 0.60

00:04:01.360 a lot of families the mother is the disciplinary for the daughter and the father is disciplinary for the

00:04:06.480 for the son so like back in the day you know it would be like the father would be like to the

00:04:09.520 son okay you need to go out there you need to slay the snake or the rabbit and come back and if he

00:04:13.520 doesn't do it this the father beats him but the mom's like come here babe you did well i'm proud of you

00:04:18.320 equally the daughter the mother would to to the daughter would be like okay you need to fill

00:04:22.080 these basket of berries right and maybe she fills one basket not two the father's like oh my little

00:04:27.600 girl you got a basket of berries but the mother's like no this isn't good enough because if you're 1.00

00:04:30.960 going to be the wife of the home you need to be able to do this so i think often you know you say

00:04:35.520 daddy's little girl do you know what i mean i think there's more mummy's boys than daddy's little

00:04:39.760 girls because a lot of people are single parents yes and there's no daddy in the picture

00:04:44.320 women raise men yeah no they don't they don't they don't women waste race simps but a caveat to 1.00

00:04:49.360 that anyway wait say that again sorry facts no facts i can like tell in a guy's voice if he didn't

00:04:56.560 have a mom in the home i don't know how to describe it but like in his voice i'm sorry dad dad dad dad

00:05:02.400 no no i'm serious like like you can just tell in the way they interact with you it's it's really i don't

00:05:07.680 know what would you say it's like more feminine or like slightly yeah or it's like they almost like

00:05:12.560 it's almost okay i feel like when you look at a kid that's a boy right it's like they're they're

00:05:18.720 naturally the things men should be like they speak their mind they like play they're like rot like all

00:05:23.280 that stuff and it's like you see that 22 years later you can just see they've been like feminized and

00:05:28.640 it's like they're almost like programmed to think differently because like women raise them are telling 1.00

00:05:33.280 them what to say and what to think what's wrong with that that's the same sorry would you say it's the

00:05:37.920 same with if uh the father's in the life but it's not in the home do you still see that um it depends

00:05:44.320 i think like if it's 50 50 custody potentially but if the mom like i know a couple where like i can't 1.00

00:05:51.760 tell but they're usually older right you know i'm saying but the caveat to that as well is that when

00:05:56.560 it comes to single parent homes single parent homes where the father is the single parent the kids

00:06:01.280 tend to turn out better than when the the mother is a single parent where do you know why that is 0.93

00:06:07.120 i don't know why that is but i just i would it's it's after the age of like women raise better kids 0.99

00:06:12.960 up to the age of like seven where men raise better kids after and it's because um i mean they think

00:06:19.600 it's because men are more consistent where women are more emotional so it's like confusing for a kid

00:06:24.160 like what's right what's wrong when mom's on her period once a month and like today like this is

00:06:28.000 really wrong but last week is kind of wrong you know um and the other thing is that men are better 0.68

00:06:32.960 with money financially so yeah uh no i mean majority the majority like like women make 70 to 80 percent 0.99

00:06:41.680 of consumer buying decisions we also spend more even though we make less okay i believe that i agree

00:06:49.600 and so like i'm gonna blame it on sheen okay like she needs to chill out 1.00

00:06:58.640 so i have a question for the women how much does your submission cost oh what do you mean like okay 1.00

00:07:07.360 so when i as many of you know i was just banned on tick tock and we are demonetized on a daily basis on

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JustPearlyThings - April 09, 2023

Man DROPS Truth bombs On Modern Women

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