Man DROPS Truth bombs On Modern Women
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Summary
In this episode, we discuss toxic men, toxic exes, toxic parents, toxic siblings, toxic childhoods and toxic siblings. We also discuss toxic parents and how to deal with toxic siblings and toxic parents in our society.
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not honest with each other like you you know when your friend's sleeping out of her league
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you know damn well but nobody tells her you know it is it's not i don't think it's the sleeping
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with the 10 and whatever i feel like with with us girls sometimes we get a little bit carried away
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and we're not realistic you may be sleeping with a guy who's a 10 but is he treating you like a 10
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treating you like a 10 and sleeping with you like a 10 or three or whatever you are is two different
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things how they treat you is another is a whole nother ball game yeah i think women kind of like
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men that don't treat them well though i don't i don't think i'm just i'm just saying like if we
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really hated toxic men why do we all have a toxic ex because we're traumatized yeah but like but why
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would you date him like i mean as a like as you're living out your trauma basically until you realize
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that you're yeah in the situation yeah you kind of heal yourself so you're a feminist yeah this is
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the accountability thing oh my god you just made it obvious it's like this guy gave me trauma you
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picked him no no no i'm not talking about men see i'm not even talking about men i'm talking about
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like experiences in your life like with your parents you know like we are literally walking
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trauma bombs right wouldn't you say it's just an excuse for poor decisions yeah no i wouldn't
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i would say we're just walking trauma bombs like and we have to do the work to heal ourselves so
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that we don't repeat the patterns right the thing is i always say to my friends look if you're in a
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toxic relationship right and you and you experience the same thing right another guy comes along again
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toxic relationship who's the common denominator in this situation you so you're the problem so fix
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yourself and then go get the thing you want or maybe but but but maybe she's toxic exactly that's
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what i'm saying but that's what i'm saying like a lot of times girls will say oh like
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like they blame it on the guys like all the guys are toxic and or they'll say they'll say something
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like oh it's my ability to pick but it's like is it your ability to pick or are you toxic do you have
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toxic traits this is what i'm saying yeah a lot of women are toxic i don't think i don't even think most
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girls are even saying that to their friends and this is what i mean about don't take advice on
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women because your girl will see a girl will do something in a relationship well there's always
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two sides to the story and she'll go to a girl and say look he's doing this that and the third
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ignoring everything that she's doing and her friend will say well you know men are like this
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and blah blah blah blah blah where does she take accountability where does she have the
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opportunity to heal and say let me develop from this situation and make better decisions in the
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future i'm the exception your friends will affirm your behavior i'm the exception no no but also
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like you have to again you have to look at your circle right like if you're toxic heavily toxic
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right the likelihood of your best friend being toxic is quite high how many people would admit they're
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genuinely toxic yeah i think i think it starts from i don't know i i personally think it starts from
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like having children being a mother because i've got a daughter and a son and whenever my daughter
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comes to me and says oh ezra did this to me i said okay what did you do and then i find out
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she's done a list of things and i have to hold her accountable for it i don't because sometimes
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especially being the girl you get lit off with a lot of things and it starts from there i think
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younger sisters yeah exactly yeah as soon as my mom i don't know about that my mom shouts my name
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straight away it's like i didn't even i'm even in the house i feel like this now this is a controversial
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thing but i feel like mums love their sons more yeah but you can say dads love their daughters more
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so both are getting loved yeah because but it's quite really i'm my mom's favorite really
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i think it's quite common because the whole thing of like so the whole thing of okay it takes
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a father to raise a man and takes a mother to raise a woman right so when it and because because
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men women we operate differently right i will i will never understand what it means to move in
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this world as a woman you'll never understand we we play by different rules so a lot of the time in
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a lot of families the mother is the disciplinary for the daughter and the father is disciplinary for the
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for the son so like back in the day you know it would be like the father would be like to the
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son okay you need to go out there you need to slay the snake or the rabbit and come back and if he
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doesn't do it this the father beats him but the mom's like come here babe you did well i'm proud of you
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equally the daughter the mother would to to the daughter would be like okay you need to fill
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these basket of berries right and maybe she fills one basket not two the father's like oh my little
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girl you got a basket of berries but the mother's like no this isn't good enough because if you're
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going to be the wife of the home you need to be able to do this so i think often you know you say
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daddy's little girl do you know what i mean i think there's more mummy's boys than daddy's little
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girls because a lot of people are single parents yes and there's no daddy in the picture
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women raise men yeah no they don't they don't they don't women waste race simps but a caveat to
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that anyway wait say that again sorry facts no facts i can like tell in a guy's voice if he didn't
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have a mom in the home i don't know how to describe it but like in his voice i'm sorry dad dad dad dad
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no no i'm serious like like you can just tell in the way they interact with you it's it's really i don't
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know what would you say it's like more feminine or like slightly yeah or it's like they almost like
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it's almost okay i feel like when you look at a kid that's a boy right it's like they're they're
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naturally the things men should be like they speak their mind they like play they're like rot like all
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that stuff and it's like you see that 22 years later you can just see they've been like feminized and
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it's like they're almost like programmed to think differently because like women raise them are telling
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them what to say and what to think what's wrong with that that's the same sorry would you say it's the
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same with if uh the father's in the life but it's not in the home do you still see that um it depends
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i think like if it's 50 50 custody potentially but if the mom like i know a couple where like i can't
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tell but they're usually older right you know i'm saying but the caveat to that as well is that when
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it comes to single parent homes single parent homes where the father is the single parent the kids
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tend to turn out better than when the the mother is a single parent where do you know why that is
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i don't know why that is but i just i would it's it's after the age of like women raise better kids
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up to the age of like seven where men raise better kids after and it's because um i mean they think
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it's because men are more consistent where women are more emotional so it's like confusing for a kid
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like what's right what's wrong when mom's on her period once a month and like today like this is
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really wrong but last week is kind of wrong you know um and the other thing is that men are better
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with money financially so yeah uh no i mean majority the majority like like women make 70 to 80 percent
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of consumer buying decisions we also spend more even though we make less okay i believe that i agree
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and so like i'm gonna blame it on sheen okay like she needs to chill out
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so i have a question for the women how much does your submission cost oh what do you mean like okay
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so when i as many of you know i was just banned on tick tock and we are demonetized on a daily basis on
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