Man Exposes The Truth About Modern Marriage
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Summary
In this episode, we talk about cheating and why women cheat and why they do it. We also talk about why men cheat and how to deal with it and why it s so common in the modern world. We are joined by our good friend and co-host of the podcast, to talk about it all.
Transcript
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But that's another reason, another reason I'm not keen to go into it, because for guys, it's a bit of a bad deal because, you know, the women are very keen to get married.
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You know, women will try to push the agenda of like, oh, you know, where are we?
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Are we going to get engaged? Are we moving in together? Are we going to get married?
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But then they get fed up, you know, 10, 15 years down the line and they initiate a divorce and then the guy's screwed.
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Well, I think, I mean, there's going to be many different reasons for that and we could go into lots of different examples.
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But I think a lot of it is that they lose the, you know, the butterflies go and it's inevitably going to go over a longer period of time because we all know you have that honeymoon period.
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And then, you know, it gets, yeah, then it gets a bit boring.
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And the problem with that is that if you're then putting that into a legal contract where one of the parties can just say, I'll sod that and walk out, that's a dangerous ground.
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I don't know, like, I've got, I don't know, like, I've just got a thought.
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Like, obviously you said women leave in a marriage, of course, which I understand.
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But I'm 21, like, I know I'm still young, but I feel like there's a specific time period to have kids and to marry and settle down.
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And I feel like, I don't know, like, there's a lot of pressure because if I put myself in a guy's perspective or shoes, like, I'm not bearing a child and that changes your body.
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That's probably why we want to lock it down so quickly.
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And, like, with women leaving, again, this is such a broad subject, so I'm not on about just cheating, by the way.
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But, yeah, one-off, it's, like, I get and understand why men do, like, cheat and leave and go for younger women.
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Well, men don't typically leave for younger women.
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I mean, I think, personally, I think that sex is to men as attention is to women.
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So, I think women need attention, like, men need sex.
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But women are never expected to close off their social media.
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But men are expected to stop having sex with other girls.
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But women can post ass pics on their Instagram.
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I mean, I was even looking at, I was, okay, this is, can we pull up, can we pull up Hailey Bieber's Instagram?
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Okay, I don't know shit about the Selena, Hailey, whatever.
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I was like, she's married to a world famous pop star.
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Yeah, and he's also very religious apparently, so I don't know what's going on there.
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And so it's like you're married to a world famous pop star and you still got, look at, look at the booty one.
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And the funny thing is, he comments on it as well, so it's bizarre.
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Yeah, but would she be okay with it if he was to be commenting under somebody else's post?
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Like you can't take one side just because one's a female and then not back the other side.
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Like pick your own battles all the same, but don't come at the man for cheating if she's
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going to put it out there as if she's going to cheat as well.
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Well, I just think of it as like, like mating strategies.
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Like women want to get attention from high status men.
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Where men want to screw as many people as possible.
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So like how many, I don't know anyone that got married and closed their Instagram.
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You could argue Justin Bieber's job is to screw groupies on tour.
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She would have none of that if he was doing that.
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But it's like, we're in this society where men aren't told they can do that.
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They're controlling if they tell a girl to close her Instagram.
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But women immediately want you to stop sleeping with other girls.
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And you can tell, like, I know so many people in relationships who have told people, unfollow
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If you do it to a man, or if you're in a relationship with another girl and you tell
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You have to, it goes one or two, like, you have to look at it.
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It is, but if you're going to do it one way and not accept it backwards.
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This might be controversial, but I feel like there are different reasons and there's people
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For example, if you was dating someone and she was, for example, like a content creator
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or something, and she was in, you know, Instagram engagement groups, so if she was in an engagement
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group, in an engagement group, there are rules.
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You have to like everyone's photo to help each other with the algorithm, right?
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So would you then turn around to your girlfriend and say to her, I don't want you liking pictures
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But the standard person isn't on its, like, I'm not famous on Instagram, I don't have
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But would a good wife argue with him when he asks that and say, well, but my Instagram group,
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or would she just say, okay, whatever you say, honey?
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Yeah, in a really traditional setup, she would give it up, probably.
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Well, regardless of, no, regardless of if he's making six figures, she should be like,
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That is the, I've made this commitment in the eyes of the Lord.
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So that's more important to me than having an Instagram account.
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You know, that's what she would have said in the back of the day.
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Why does he have to be making six figures to be listened to?
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If a woman's mid, does she, if she's average looking, does she not, is she not able to
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I don't, I don't really know how to answer that because I just feel like women do definitely
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look at men's financial status and we can sit here and argue about that all the time.
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But at the end of the day, there is survival and women will always try to go with someone
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I was just trying to be funny there, but like, um, no, but I'm just saying like, realistically,
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And that is actually how men earn respect from women.
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I feel like it's one of the ways that if you want to earn respect from a woman, you need
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So like 25 year olds can be earning like 35,000.
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Which in London isn't going to be very much in the standards of earning six figures.
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And then it's on, it's unfair to expect that off someone.
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You've got the average, you've got the average UK wage though, which is probably like, it's
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You've got, you know, if you're looking at the mean, it's going to be taking both the.
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I mean, does the man expect us to be top 10, 20, 30% of beauty?
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No, but why should they not if we're expecting them to be in the higher range?
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They might want it, but they're not, they're not going to hold out for it because most guys
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They're going to take, they're going to take what they could get, you know?
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There's like a husband store analogy in the manosphere.
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And basically every, every store or every floor is a different set of husbands.
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And you go up a floor and then the only rule is you can't go back down.
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So there's five floors total and you can go up, but you can't go down.
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So the first floor is guys that love kids and are, and are loyal to you.
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So they go to the first floor and they say, you know what?
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So they go to the second floor and then they find the shitty one.
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So, but they're like, well, what's on the next floor?
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And they say, they say, they say, okay, the next floor, these guys are hot.
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And then she's like, well, what's, what's on the next floor?
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But she wants to go to the fifth floor and on the fifth floor, unfaithful, all the husbands
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So, so, so that, to make it fair, they did a wife score, a wife store, right?
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So on the first floor, there was women, good sex, loyal, sixes.
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And they never found out what was on the second floor.
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And all of them grabbed their girl and they're like, good enough.
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