JustPearlyThings - March 27, 2023


Man Exposes The Truth About Modern Marriage

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Hannah Pearl Davis
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Team Selena Justin Bieber Chris Brown
Post Wall Woman Gets In Her Feelings After Man said this DESPERATE Women Settle for SIMPS and Don't Respect Them

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In this episode, we talk about cheating and why women cheat and why they do it. We also talk about why men cheat and how to deal with it and why it s so common in the modern world. We are joined by our good friend and co-host of the podcast, to talk about it all.

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00:00:00.000 But that's another reason, another reason I'm not keen to go into it, because for guys, it's a bit of a bad deal because, you know, the women are very keen to get married. 0.98
00:00:08.380 You know, women will try to push the agenda of like, oh, you know, where are we? 1.00
00:00:12.940 Are we going to get engaged? Are we moving in together? Are we going to get married?
00:00:15.840 But then they get fed up, you know, 10, 15 years down the line and they initiate a divorce and then the guy's screwed. 0.81
00:00:22.080 So. But why is she fed up? Why is she fed up? 1.00
00:00:24.680 Well, I think, I mean, there's going to be many different reasons for that and we could go into lots of different examples.
00:00:30.880 But I think a lot of it is that they lose the, you know, the butterflies go and it's inevitably going to go over a longer period of time because we all know you have that honeymoon period.
00:00:40.540 And then, you know, it gets, yeah, then it gets a bit boring.
00:00:43.980 And the problem with that is that if you're then putting that into a legal contract where one of the parties can just say, I'll sod that and walk out, that's a dangerous ground.
00:00:52.100 I don't know, like, I've got, I don't know, like, I've just got a thought.
00:00:56.060 Like, obviously you said women leave in a marriage, of course, which I understand. 0.79
00:01:03.700 But I'm 21, like, I know I'm still young, but I feel like there's a specific time period to have kids and to marry and settle down.
00:01:14.200 And I feel like, I don't know, like, there's a lot of pressure because if I put myself in a guy's perspective or shoes, like, I'm not bearing a child and that changes your body.
00:01:27.340 It does.
00:01:27.760 It changes your body.
00:01:28.640 Of course, we have the biological clock.
00:01:30.820 Yeah.
00:01:31.160 We're all aware of it as women. 1.00
00:01:32.980 So, yeah, it's harder for us, I think.
00:01:35.340 That's probably why we want to lock it down so quickly.
00:01:37.760 And, like, with women leaving, again, this is such a broad subject, so I'm not on about just cheating, by the way.
00:01:46.760 But, yeah, one-off, it's, like, I get and understand why men do, like, cheat and leave and go for younger women.
00:01:56.940 Well, one out of, it's actually not.
00:01:58.720 It's such a broad thing, though.
00:02:00.420 Well, men don't typically leave for younger women.
00:02:02.760 They don't even leave most of the time.
00:02:03.420 No, they're just going to cheat and stay. 0.67
00:02:05.320 They want to cheat and stay.
00:02:06.140 I mean, but women cheat in their own way. 1.00
00:02:08.220 I mean, I think, personally, I think that sex is to men as attention is to women. 0.99
00:02:14.540 So, I think women need attention, like, men need sex. 1.00
00:02:17.640 But women are never expected to close off their social media. 1.00
00:02:21.360 Yeah. 0.96
00:02:22.160 But men are expected to stop having sex with other girls.
00:02:24.560 How is that fair? 1.00
00:02:25.720 But women can post ass pics on their Instagram. 1.00
00:02:29.420 Sorry. 1.00
00:02:30.060 That's a lot of ass pics. 1.00
00:02:31.420 But, you know, nobody can touch it. 0.99
00:02:33.060 What?
00:02:33.440 Nobody can touch it.
00:02:34.660 Yeah, but it's like advertising.
00:02:36.200 I mean, I was even looking at, I was, okay, this is, can we pull up, can we pull up Hailey Bieber's Instagram?
00:02:42.160 Can you imagine?
00:02:43.580 Okay.
00:02:44.300 Team Selena, by the way. 0.99
00:02:45.740 Team Selena. 0.97
00:02:46.540 Team Selena, too. 0.97
00:02:47.840 Okay, I don't know shit about the Selena, Hailey, whatever. 0.96
00:02:50.660 I don't care. 0.92
00:02:51.640 What I was looking at was her Instagram.
00:02:53.460 I was like, she's married to a world famous pop star.
00:02:56.280 Yeah.
00:02:56.800 And I know she's a model, right?
00:02:58.460 But he's a world, but he's got groupies.
00:03:01.480 Yeah, and he's also very religious apparently, so I don't know what's going on there.
00:03:06.280 And so it's like you're married to a world famous pop star and you still got, look at, look at the booty one.
00:03:14.060 Look at it.
00:03:14.720 Yeah.
00:03:15.160 Look at that.
00:03:15.800 Yeah.
00:03:16.180 Okay.
00:03:17.240 And the funny thing is, he comments on it as well, so it's bizarre.
00:03:20.680 As long as he's okay with it.
00:03:22.120 He's like, oh my God.
00:03:23.500 Yeah, but would she be okay with it if he was to be commenting under somebody else's post?
00:03:28.800 No.
00:03:29.040 Would she be okay with it?
00:03:29.900 I doubt it.
00:03:30.200 I think it works one of two ways.
00:03:32.420 Like you can't take one side just because one's a female and then not back the other side. 0.75
00:03:38.380 Like pick your own battles all the same, but don't come at the man for cheating if she's
00:03:45.740 going to put it out there as if she's going to cheat as well.
00:03:48.160 Well, interesting that you say that.
00:03:49.840 Well, I just think of it as like, like mating strategies.
00:03:52.060 Like women want to get attention from high status men. 1.00
00:03:54.260 That's Instagram.
00:03:55.720 Yeah.
00:03:56.240 Where men want to screw as many people as possible. 1.00
00:03:58.880 So like how many, I don't know anyone that got married and closed their Instagram.
00:04:02.400 I don't know anyone that did it.
00:04:03.560 Like my age anyway.
00:04:05.060 Actually, I told you about it.
00:04:06.860 So, yeah. 1.00
00:04:07.380 So I'm saying modern women are shitty wives. 1.00
00:04:09.000 Why would you close your Instagram? 1.00
00:04:10.340 I don't understand that.
00:04:11.480 Because it's advertised.
00:04:12.640 You know.
00:04:12.800 I was having more.
00:04:14.140 You're booty. 0.99
00:04:15.380 Pull up, pull up, pull up. 0.98
00:04:16.640 Did you just say that?
00:04:17.900 I don't get that.
00:04:18.900 Pull up, pull this up.
00:04:20.800 I mean, I think it really depends.
00:04:22.580 You can't tell me that's not advertising.
00:04:25.020 I mean, she is a model. 0.94
00:04:26.220 I mean, yeah, she's a model. 1.00
00:04:27.220 That's her job. 0.97
00:04:28.180 Like, you know what?
00:04:29.140 You could argue Justin Bieber's job is to screw groupies on tour.
00:04:33.040 Yeah, but he's a singer.
00:04:34.280 That's different.
00:04:35.660 He's not a model.
00:04:36.960 What?
00:04:37.660 It's different.
00:04:38.360 He's not a model, right?
00:04:40.240 So.
00:04:40.820 I do get what you're saying though.
00:04:42.000 He's a world famous pop star.
00:04:43.760 Yeah, but still, he's a singer.
00:04:44.900 What do world famous pop stars do?
00:04:46.820 They screw groupies on the tour, bro.
00:04:49.060 This is a tale as old as time.
00:04:50.920 That's fair.
00:04:51.460 I mean, I do agree.
00:04:53.460 It's part of the job.
00:04:53.900 Yeah, it is.
00:04:55.800 What does Chris Brown do on stage?
00:04:57.640 Come on.
00:04:58.100 No.
00:04:58.640 Come on.
00:04:59.800 Is that his job?
00:05:01.540 Yeah.
00:05:01.900 Yeah.
00:05:02.700 And you know, you can just tell.
00:05:04.200 She would have none of that if he was doing that.
00:05:06.120 Yeah.
00:05:06.940 But it's like, we're in this society where men aren't told they can do that.
00:05:09.920 They're controlling if they tell a girl to close her Instagram.
00:05:12.500 But women immediately want you to stop sleeping with other girls. 1.00
00:05:15.320 Go ahead.
00:05:15.440 And you can tell, like, I know so many people in relationships who have told people, unfollow
00:05:20.160 her.
00:05:20.680 Stop liking her photos.
00:05:21.920 Oh, yeah.
00:05:21.960 I know.
00:05:22.300 Get rid of her. 0.92
00:05:23.240 If you do it to a man, or if you're in a relationship with another girl and you tell 0.51
00:05:27.020 her not to do that, you're the bad person.
00:05:29.420 Well, you've got to be a bit careful.
00:05:30.180 You have to, it goes one or two, like, you have to look at it.
00:05:33.720 See, I think that's a standard respect thing.
00:05:36.280 You've got to be careful now, though.
00:05:37.460 It is, but if you're going to do it one way and not accept it backwards. 0.83
00:05:41.540 Yeah, but there's different.
00:05:42.440 Hold on, hold on.
00:05:43.380 This might be controversial, but I feel like there are different reasons and there's people
00:05:49.420 with different circumstances.
00:05:50.720 For example, if you was dating someone and she was, for example, like a content creator
00:05:56.180 or something, and she was in, you know, Instagram engagement groups, so if she was in an engagement
00:06:02.200 group, in an engagement group, there are rules.
00:06:04.140 You have to like everyone's photo to help each other with the algorithm, right?
00:06:08.220 So would you then turn around to your girlfriend and say to her, I don't want you liking pictures
00:06:12.760 of other girls?
00:06:13.360 But the standard person isn't on its, like, I'm not famous on Instagram, I don't have
00:06:18.040 to do any of that.
00:06:19.120 But would a good wife argue with him when he asks that and say, well, but my Instagram group, 0.55
00:06:23.760 or would she just say, okay, whatever you say, honey?
00:06:26.180 Yeah, in a really traditional setup, she would give it up, probably. 0.97
00:06:30.720 You know, she would just say, listen.
00:06:31.680 If she's making six figures.
00:06:33.500 Well, regardless of, no, regardless of if he's making six figures, she should be like, 0.95
00:06:37.880 listen, you know, we're married now.
00:06:39.560 That is the, I've made this commitment in the eyes of the Lord.
00:06:42.660 That's the commitment, exactly.
00:06:43.980 And in the eyes of God.
00:06:45.240 So that's more important to me than having an Instagram account.
00:06:48.160 You know, that's what she would have said in the back of the day.
00:06:50.360 Okay, so I have a question.
00:06:51.480 Why does he have to be making six figures to be listened to?
00:06:54.340 So, and do you have the same energy?
00:06:55.960 If a woman's mid, does she, if she's average looking, does she not, is she not able to 1.00
00:07:00.060 ask for loyalty?
00:07:02.540 That's a good question.
00:07:04.020 Like, you know, she's average looking.
00:07:05.300 So why, why does she get to ask for that? 0.99
00:07:06.860 I don't know.
00:07:10.200 I don't, I don't really know how to answer that because I just feel like women do definitely 0.99
00:07:16.000 look at men's financial status and we can sit here and argue about that all the time.
00:07:22.560 But at the end of the day, there is survival and women will always try to go with someone 1.00
00:07:28.220 above her level or at least on her level.
00:07:31.360 She will never go low.
00:07:33.520 So you said six figures.
00:07:34.960 That's 10% of men.
00:07:38.540 No, I know.
00:07:39.200 I was just trying to be funny there, but like, um, no, but I'm just saying like, realistically,
00:07:45.260 she will always go above or on the same level.
00:07:48.400 So she's never going to go low.
00:07:50.380 So financial status does get looked at.
00:07:53.060 And that is actually how men earn respect from women.
00:07:56.980 I feel like it's one of the ways that if you want to earn respect from a woman, you need 1.00
00:08:01.860 to do that.
00:08:02.620 You need to be able to provide.
00:08:04.080 Yeah.
00:08:04.680 No bro keys.
00:08:06.300 I'm being real.
00:08:07.120 I'm being absolutely real.
00:08:08.700 You know, I'm not going to sugarcoat it.
00:08:10.940 You do need to be working hard.
00:08:12.680 How much does he have to make?
00:08:13.820 What about an average guy?
00:08:16.020 I don't know.
00:08:16.780 I don't know what the average salary here is.
00:08:18.380 What is it like?
00:08:18.960 40, 30?
00:08:20.060 Depends on your age.
00:08:21.100 So like 25 year olds can be earning like 35,000.
00:08:25.800 All right.
00:08:26.580 Which in London isn't going to be very much in the standards of earning six figures.
00:08:32.340 And then it's on, it's unfair to expect that off someone.
00:08:35.540 You've got the average, you've got the average UK wage though, which is probably like, it's
00:08:38.840 going to be weighted higher in London.
00:08:40.160 Yeah.
00:08:40.320 Well, yeah, because you've got extremities.
00:08:42.560 You've got, you know, if you're looking at the mean, it's going to be taking both the.
00:08:46.340 I mean, does the man expect us to be top 10, 20, 30% of beauty?
00:08:50.580 No, but why should they not if we're expecting them to be in the higher range?
00:08:55.040 I think they do want that.
00:08:56.740 They might want it, but they're not, they're not going to hold out for it because most guys
00:08:59.940 are quite thirsty.
00:09:00.800 Do you know what I mean?
00:09:01.440 We were talking about this the other night.
00:09:03.680 Most guys are quite thirsty.
00:09:04.680 I love how you said that as well.
00:09:06.340 They're going to take, they're going to take what they could get, you know?
00:09:08.680 Oh, oh.
00:09:09.980 I mean, that's a good point.
00:09:11.800 It's a good point.
00:09:12.660 Have you heard the husband store analogy?
00:09:15.120 No.
00:09:15.440 Oh, there's like, I hope I say this right.
00:09:17.640 There's like a husband store analogy in the manosphere.
00:09:20.420 Okay.
00:09:20.920 And basically every, every store or every floor is a different set of husbands.
00:09:27.020 Okay.
00:09:27.720 And you go up a floor and then the only rule is you can't go back down.
00:09:32.000 So there's five floors total and you can go up, but you can't go down.
00:09:35.060 So the first floor is guys that love kids and are, and are loyal to you.
00:09:41.680 Oh, sweet.
00:09:42.440 And so the women go to the first floor. 1.00
00:09:44.360 So they go to the first floor and they say, you know what?
00:09:48.220 I want more.
00:09:49.040 I want to, I want to go up. 0.65
00:09:50.240 So they go to the second floor and then they find the shitty one. 0.96
00:09:53.440 No, no, no, no. 0.95
00:09:54.500 It gets better.
00:09:55.220 It gets better.
00:09:55.720 So these guys love kids.
00:09:57.100 They're loyal and they're hot.
00:09:59.420 Oh, they're sexy.
00:10:01.140 Yeah.
00:10:01.920 So, but they're like, well, what's on the next floor?
00:10:06.900 Okay.
00:10:07.540 Then they go.
00:10:08.320 They're just curious.
00:10:09.380 Yeah.
00:10:09.580 Yeah.
00:10:09.860 So they go, what's, what's, what's next?
00:10:11.520 Curiosity comes out.
00:10:12.200 And they say, they say, they say, okay, the next floor, these guys are hot.
00:10:16.220 They make 70,000 a year.
00:10:18.620 They love kids and they're loyal.
00:10:21.300 But she's on the third floor. 0.54
00:10:22.820 And then she's like, well, what's, what's on the next floor?
00:10:26.280 And so then she goes next.
00:10:29.400 They make six figures.
00:10:32.080 Love kids, loyal, everything.
00:10:34.880 But she wants to go to the fifth floor and on the fifth floor, unfaithful, all the husbands 1.00
00:10:40.680 are sold out.
00:10:43.240 And there's dogs because die alone.
00:10:47.640 So, so, so that, to make it fair, they did a wife score, a wife store, right? 0.97
00:10:53.200 So on the first floor, there was women, good sex, loyal, sixes. 0.97
00:11:00.080 And they never found out what was on the second floor.
00:11:04.520 That's what they did.
00:11:06.400 And all of them grabbed their girl and they're like, good enough.
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