JustPearlyThings - March 24, 2023


Man exposes What Cheating Women Do On Dates

Hosted by
Hannah Pearl Davis
Mentioned
Cardi B Pearl Calm
Sa Ra Garvey DROPS Red Pill Truths on a 25 Year old Being A SINGLE Parent DOWNGRADES Your Dating Value

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Length

10 minutes

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200.22

Word count

2,043

Sentence count

193

Harmful content

Misogyny

41

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Toxicity

7

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Hate speech

20

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In this episode, we discuss the role of women in society and how they should be brought back into the modern dating scene. We also talk about the difference between modern women and women in the past and present, and how we should bring them back.

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00:00:00.000 Pound, pound, pound, pound, 50 pound max.
00:00:02.380 Okay.
00:00:03.960 Oh, my God.
00:00:05.420 What do you think?
00:00:08.180 I think that they should, I think that they should be caught in,
00:00:11.140 brought back into relationships because I feel like it will just balance
00:00:14.080 everything, how it makes it, if you keep doing something,
00:00:16.660 it's going to become its norm.
00:00:18.620 That's why I just feel like there's masculine women because of the imbalance 1.00
00:00:22.800 of what, of the roles, what the men and women are supposed to have.
00:00:26.240 I strongly believe that men and women are completely two different people.
00:00:31.940 Do you understand?
00:00:32.520 We look at things differently, we're designed differently.
00:00:35.340 And the moment that we more understand that, the better that we'll get along.
00:00:39.200 Then it's easier to find your compatibility and stuff like that.
00:00:42.440 Courtship is getting to know somebody.
00:00:44.720 Courtship is showing respect to somebody.
00:00:47.020 Courtship is showing somebody how special you think they are.
00:00:49.820 Those are the type of things that women like to have. 1.00
00:00:52.180 So that's why I look at those things.
00:00:54.320 That's why I think that those things should happen.
00:00:56.240 So when you say modern women, I look at modern as you mean in this day
00:00:59.720 and time that we are now.
00:01:01.440 Of course.
00:01:02.580 Because if you don't do it, then like our children,
00:01:04.860 our daughters to come and stuff, they're not going to have any of that. 1.00
00:01:07.800 You kind of have to show.
00:01:09.000 Or they could just like wait for the next round of 22-year-olds.
00:01:12.760 I think our era is done, to be honest.
00:01:16.440 Because at the end of the day, like what you're saying is all well and good.
00:01:20.020 Calm, yeah.
00:01:20.460 But the reality is like, okay, say I want to court the average modern chick walking around.
00:01:28.840 Typical girl walking around. 1.00
00:01:30.080 She's probably talking to at least five to ten other guys.
00:01:33.180 She's probably sleeping with one or two other guys. 1.00
00:01:36.240 Bro, like why am I going to court her?
00:01:38.360 It's a different time.
00:01:39.240 That whole courting thing, in my opinion, it kind of refers to an older time,
00:01:43.580 a more traditional time where the women were traditional,
00:01:46.060 the men were traditional, and it made sense to court a girl 1.00
00:01:48.240 because you knew she wasn't sleeping around. 1.00
00:01:50.840 You knew she didn't throw a box around, bro.
00:01:53.040 Do you get what I'm saying?
00:01:53.680 Whereas now, bro, like once you hit 25,
00:01:58.880 most girls you're going to encounter have thrown their box around considerably, bruv.
00:02:03.880 Even if they want to forget about the guys that didn't do it well
00:02:06.980 or they just didn't like that much.
00:02:09.100 They've done a lot.
00:02:10.420 Do you get what I'm saying?
00:02:10.940 So the courting thing, deserve, I wouldn't agree with deserve.
00:02:14.580 If you come across a decent woman, then yeah, she can get courted. 1.00
00:02:19.360 But what's the percentage of decent women walking around? 1.00
00:02:22.600 That's debatable, isn't it?
00:02:24.820 What do you think it is?
00:02:26.440 What a percentage?
00:02:27.280 Yeah, yeah.
00:02:31.280 Bruh.
00:02:31.760 With all social media, Instagram, you know, Cardi B, City Girls,
00:02:37.920 the influence, especially in the UK, the influence of the American, bruh.
00:02:42.720 Oh, no, bruh.
00:02:43.780 I reckon it's like 15%.
00:02:47.700 15?
00:02:48.540 Yeah, 15.
00:02:49.700 I honestly think that.
00:02:51.060 And that's going from my experience and the experience of the guys that I know,
00:02:54.920 the things that girls I've had entanglements with, what they've said.
00:02:59.260 Do you know what I mean?
00:02:59.740 Like, bruh, like, you know, I've been in situations where I'm sleeping with a girl 0.79
00:03:03.620 and then the girl's on hinge going out on dates. 1.00
00:03:07.180 And then she's coming back telling me how the date went and I'm sleeping with her again. 0.99
00:03:11.500 That's like, obviously, that's good for me. 1.00
00:03:14.200 Like, you lot could call me a scumbag. 0.99
00:03:15.860 I don't care. 0.99
00:03:16.460 That's good for me.
00:03:17.260 But for that guy, that woman paid for that, he's courting her.
00:03:21.940 That's a joke to me.
00:03:23.200 And then from like a guy's point of view, it's just like the, it's almost like the costs
00:03:27.900 that way, the benefits, because it's like you're spending money and your time and your
00:03:31.380 attention on a girl. 1.00
00:03:32.460 But like, what do you get in return?
00:03:34.540 The average age of first marriage in the UK is 31.
00:03:36.880 So you don't get youth and you don't get purity anymore.
00:03:39.480 You get used books.
00:03:40.760 Yeah.
00:03:41.080 And so it's like, and you don't really get loyalty anymore because the divorce rate is
00:03:44.780 50% and women leave 70 to 80% of the time, 90% if they're college educated. 0.71
00:03:48.660 So it's kind of like the juice isn't really worth the squeeze from the man's point of view.
00:03:52.180 And then if she divorces you, she's taking the kids away. 1.00
00:03:55.280 So she's paid to, she's paid to take the kids away. 1.00
00:03:57.880 There you go.
00:03:59.260 Yeah, that makes sense.
00:04:01.560 There's a mad thing out here.
00:04:04.960 So basically what you're saying is you don't think there's hardly any decent women out here?
00:04:09.800 No.
00:04:10.640 Do you women agree with that? 1.00
00:04:14.580 I think from like 1950s standards, I would agree.
00:04:17.300 Yeah, I think that's 100% true.
00:04:19.740 Like women back then were virgins. 1.00
00:04:21.020 They had cookbooks.
00:04:21.740 They were wives. 1.00
00:04:22.380 I don't think most women today were raised to be wives. 1.00
00:04:24.400 They weren't raised by wives.
00:04:25.320 How would they know how to be one?
00:04:26.340 And a lot of girls wasn't raised with their father as well.
00:04:30.500 That's another aspect in that as well.
00:04:32.640 And I just think we live in a very selfish culture where it's me, me, me.
00:04:35.920 And like when you're traditional, like you believe in the family before me.
00:04:39.340 But like how many women are willing to give up their dreams for a man? 1.00
00:04:42.940 How many women are really willing to put the family first? 1.00
00:04:46.380 Yeah, I will agree with Pearl.
00:04:50.160 There's been some things that I've seen on TV and I've just been like, man, it's just how women are portraying themselves nowadays. 1.00
00:04:59.140 And it's just the same type of woman. 1.00
00:05:01.480 And I like think like, do y'all wonder why like you're single or you have baby daddies or X, Y, Z.
00:05:09.340 It's like, do you ever think about your actions?
00:05:11.340 And then something that Pearl just said about women will leave men for their careers instead of staying with them. 0.68
00:05:18.400 There was this post that I saw.
00:05:20.480 There was a woman, she was with some, she was with a man that took care of her house, paid for everything. 0.57
00:05:28.360 And she wanted to become an actor.
00:05:30.240 She left, went to, I think it was Atlanta.
00:05:33.380 And she wanted to pursue her dream in acting.
00:05:36.020 Got there, didn't do acting, became a stripper, got pregnant. 0.96
00:05:40.680 And she was like, maybe I should go back to him so he can help me while she's pregnant. 0.99
00:05:45.000 It's just like, it just doesn't make sense.
00:05:47.700 And I think of like my grandparents' generation where my grandma had 13 kids for my grandpa.
00:05:53.920 Like I know guys that want like five, six, like a lot of children.
00:05:57.660 And they can't find someone that wants to do that for them.
00:06:01.300 Like most women only want one or two kids because they don't like, it's like more about them and their lifestyle rather than having as many kids as possible. 1.00
00:06:08.560 Like the women back then used to want kids. 1.00
00:06:11.200 They wanted to do it early.
00:06:12.100 They wanted as many as they possibly could.
00:06:13.960 Because there was more security.
00:06:16.200 What do you mean?
00:06:16.440 That's what I think.
00:06:17.800 If you're from a time where you're able to live out your role, which is like, you know, you stay at home and you have your children.
00:06:24.700 You feel secure within that.
00:06:26.760 I feel like nowadays women are in relationships and they're always looking, they're always thinking like it might not work out.
00:06:33.300 I might get divorced.
00:06:34.840 I might need a backup plan because men ain't supplying the same security as back in the day because they're not staying in the homes.
00:06:40.680 Do you mean money?
00:06:41.780 I mean security is financial and emotional as well.
00:06:45.460 If a woman feels totally secure within her man, I believe that that's when she will feel feminine enough to give you loads of kids. 0.84
00:06:53.740 A woman that feels like she has to go out and do something for herself is because she's in a relationship is because she's not being fulfilled properly by her man. 0.99
00:07:03.200 Simple because if you're in a traditional relationship, the man is the provider and the woman's the homemaker. 0.99
00:07:10.160 Do you understand what I mean?
00:07:11.080 But the problem is women won't go down in lifestyle in order to have a family. 1.00
00:07:15.840 So like if something, something.
00:07:16.720 Because they're normally with self because men are going more selfish. 0.67
00:07:19.440 So no, I think women are more. 1.00
00:07:21.140 I'll give you an example.
00:07:22.100 Okay.
00:07:22.380 And I don't, I don't mean to pick on you, but like you, your nails done.
00:07:25.200 Right.
00:07:25.480 Yeah.
00:07:25.660 And I noticed most girls that come on my show have their nails done and they usually have very nice clothes. 0.99
00:07:31.160 And it's like, it's like lifestyle.
00:07:36.520 But, and, and so like, I've asked this question where I say, would you go down in lifestyle?
00:07:40.880 Like you make this much money.
00:07:42.240 Would you go down to this lifestyle at $40,000, $30,000 a year for a family?
00:07:46.600 And they say no.
00:07:48.540 Like because a man on one income, you can afford an apartment, but women want a house. 1.00
00:07:52.760 If you go down by that much money, because children cost money.
00:07:57.480 And though that's the realist, that's the reality of it.
00:07:59.960 If you can't just sit, sit down and just, you can't just say, I'm going to just have five children like that.
00:08:06.080 But back then they used to like figure it out.
00:08:08.860 So like my dad, my dad was one of 13 kids and they would do hand-me-downs.
00:08:12.820 Like they lived off of one salary.
00:08:14.460 It was a fireman's salary.
00:08:15.620 It wasn't a ton of money.
00:08:16.560 They just lived poor because it was always about the family first.
00:08:20.320 But like women don't want to do that. 1.00
00:08:21.840 There ain't no women now that want to live, bruh. 1.00
00:08:24.360 Like women now want to live Instagram lifestyle, bruh. 1.00
00:08:27.720 That's why a lot of them are on Instagram, bro.
00:08:30.800 That's why a lot of them are on Instagram taking pictures of the plate of food that they're eating, bruh.
00:08:36.840 Come on, bro.
00:08:38.020 Come on.
00:08:38.700 Like from the, what's it?
00:08:41.300 The music video vixen girl to the girl next door.
00:08:44.120 They're all doing the same thing, bruh.
00:08:45.800 It's the same programming.
00:08:47.700 So if a guy can't provide X, Y, Z, they're not going for it, bruh.
00:08:52.120 They're just not, bruh.
00:08:53.620 Like hypergamy is on stories in this era.
00:08:57.640 Or even like I think about how my mom, like she got, she got like a top half a percent guy, right?
00:09:02.040 But she quit her job. 1.00
00:09:03.740 She was a teacher.
00:09:04.340 She quit her job to go work for him. 0.64
00:09:06.060 He said, if you want to be with me, like you need to move.
00:09:08.920 Otherwise, like go find a new boyfriend.
00:09:10.680 She said, okay, I'm going to quit.
00:09:11.880 I'm going to come to you.
00:09:12.980 But like how many women nowadays are willing to quit their job for a man that has no money because he had no money? 1.00
00:09:18.540 She obviously could see his potential and she allowed him to lead. 0.95
00:09:23.960 Not believe that you should let your man lead, but not make some idiot make lead you because he's leading you into nowhere sometimes. 0.98
00:09:31.080 Do you understand what I mean? 0.99
00:09:32.060 Yeah.
00:09:32.200 That's what I feel like.
00:09:33.840 We keep talking about the women, but with me, I think it goes back onto the men.
00:09:37.980 Women adapt. 0.91
00:09:39.300 Do you understand?
00:09:40.380 They're only, they're taking pictures of plates on their own because it's been normalized because everybody's hiding and they're not showing PDA.
00:09:47.660 So women are now saying, right, that's it. 1.00
00:09:49.180 We're just going to show the plates.
00:09:50.600 Do you know what I mean?
00:09:51.560 I've never gone through that because I've always been in a relationship.
00:09:54.300 My mom's always been in a relationship. 0.99
00:09:55.420 My grandma's always.
00:09:56.040 As many of you know, I was just banned on TikTok and we are demonetized on a daily basis.
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