JustPearlyThings - Man Hating Feminists Cannot Accept This Fact

00:00:00.000 does feminism stop you from having a real man? Part two. Yeah. Yeah. Part two. Yes. 1.00

00:00:09.100 Were you here for part one? Yeah. I do. I do recognize you. I was like, I feel like

00:00:12.880 you've been on the show before. Yeah. I was sitting here the last time we had the feminist

00:00:16.020 topic like a week ago. We do talk about feminism a lot here. Yeah. I love it. Yeah. So what's 0.67

00:00:22.680 your initial response to that topic? Starting here and go around. Yes. Oh, it does. Has

00:00:29.020 it stopped you before? Well, I'm not a feminist, but I can see where the problem lies. Okay.

00:00:37.120 I think I agree because I feel like feminism takes away from everything that men are attracted 1.00

00:00:43.160 to in a female. So things like learning how to cook, learning how to be maternal, learning 1.00

00:00:48.400 how to take care of yourself. Feminism kind of belittles that. And that's why people, while 1.00

00:00:53.580 men are really struggling to take girls seriously because, you know, just, they're just sucking 1.00

00:00:58.560 away everything that men are actually attracted to.

00:01:02.520 I mean, I agree with that and I hear that, but then in the same time, it shouldn't stop

00:01:06.840 you because in the end of the day, if you really want somebody, it's going to, you know,

00:01:09.860 going to make it work because I have my beliefs. My men can have his beliefs, but then we can

00:01:15.360 just, you know, come to an agreement, I guess.

00:01:18.620 How? How would you come to an agreement if he's not a feminist and you're a feminist? 1.00

00:01:22.620 Just discuss about it, you know, and tell him like, why am I a feminist, for example? 0.76

00:01:27.120 And he can tell me like, why are you not a feminist? And we're just going to make it 0.84

00:01:31.140 work. I mean, at the end of the day, if it's not working, it's not working, but I'm not

00:01:33.660 going to be with someone that, you know, I'm not.

00:01:35.780 Yeah, but I'm asking if feminism as a whole stops women from having men. So like chasing 1.00

00:01:40.880 a career, putting off having children, saying things like men are trash. Does that, does 1.00

00:01:47.620 that stop us from having men? 0.77

00:01:49.400 Yeah, definitely.

00:01:50.320 Okay. So you, you, you think yes, but kind of no.

00:01:53.140 Yeah. Like I'm in the middle, like, I think it's just depends on the, the person.

00:01:58.380 Do you consider yourself a feminist? 1.00

00:02:00.380 Yeah, I know. I mean, I believe, I believe in certain things and I don't agree certain

00:02:05.620 things about feminism, right? Like, you know, obviously like women rights, like I know how 1.00

00:02:11.860 women are treated in this society. You know, I know that we can never be seen the same, 0.99

00:02:16.620 like, you know, as a guy, but in the same time, you know, like you do you, like, I

00:02:21.180 like, you know, when you have a career, I like when you can take care of your family

00:02:24.260 by yourself. You don't need a guy to, you know, so.

00:02:27.720 You don't think you need a guy to take care of your family? 0.99

00:02:30.420 I mean, to take care of my family, I think to, first of all, to have a family with

00:02:35.140 someone, it needs to be both ways. Like both of us needs to be included, you know,

00:02:39.280 where it's our family. But then in the same time, there are so many cases where people

00:02:44.020 are divorcing. Right. So then what am I doing if I'm divorcing? Like if I cannot

00:02:47.780 take the relationship, if I'm not happy in the relationship. Yeah. And then you

00:02:51.240 divorce. And what am I going to do then if they cannot take care of me? I think, I

00:02:55.060 think then you're selfish and he should be given the kids. Yeah, that's what I

00:02:59.380 think. Well, I hear that. I think the divorcer, I think the lever, unless they were

00:03:03.520 abused, I'll give you abuse or whatever. If you leave, the other person gets the kids. 1.00

00:03:09.620 I hear that. Yeah. I hear that. I say no rewards for quitting. Yeah. What do you

00:03:14.680 disagree? No, I think it's like, you're right. And then they cannot have kids if

00:03:18.620 you cannot raise them. Yeah. So obviously I don't want my kids to suffer just

00:03:22.300 because I broke up with their father. Now it's the provider. So, you know, that's

00:03:26.940 a, you know, another topic, obviously, but. I think it, I actually think it's the same

00:03:31.200 topic because feminism says divorce your husband if you're not happy. Your 1.00

00:03:35.540 happiness comes first. Where traditional values say, screw your happiness. Your

00:03:40.740 happiness doesn't matter at all. It only matters about the kids and the family

00:03:45.960 unit. So actually, I think it's a part of it. Yeah, it is. It is. Do you agree with

00:03:52.900 that or you disagree? I agree with that. Definitely. I agree. Okay, great. Great.

00:03:56.640 What do you, what do you think? Oh, me? Yeah. Yeah. Um, does, do you, do you enjoy

00:04:02.160 dating feminists? Yes or no? That's the thing. I was going to be honest in it and 0.77

00:04:06.180 just say from the jump, like, I'm not really that knowledgeable on feminism. That's 1.00

00:04:10.580 me being totally true with it. Um, going off on what she said as well, like, I feel

00:04:15.180 like in relationships, when you get with someone, it's about learning as well. If you

00:04:19.360 really like that person learning what they like and what they're doing and sort of

00:04:22.720 what they're involved in. So if say, for example, I met someone and she was a

00:04:26.480 feminist and I do like her, it's about maybe understanding what that's about and 1.00

00:04:31.200 actually getting to know what feminism is about. And then we can run from there. 1.00

00:04:34.600 Do you get me? Like, if we don't, if it's just not working from there, like some of

00:04:37.780 the rules and stuff, then. Have you, so I have a question. What do you like in a

00:04:41.040 woman? Oh, that's a big question. Um, I mean, what traits? What traits? Me

00:04:47.440 personally, um, I'm obviously, I'm trying to pursue music. I've been doing that for

00:04:52.080 years. Um, so I like someone that's supportive, I'd say also supporting them.

00:04:56.320 But getting it back, um, it sounds a bit cliche, but I just, I like a naturally

00:05:01.680 nice person that I know that's a broad term, but I like someone just nice. You

00:05:05.720 get me? Like someone that's not, I like someone that's nice overall. So not just

00:05:10.440 nice to you, but nice to the weight up. For example, I like someone that's overall

00:05:14.360 just a nice person, not just trying to impress you, but also just naturally caring.

00:05:19.440 Do you think, do you think feminists are nice people? 1.00

00:05:22.040 Yeah. That's what I mean. I, that's what I'm saying. I don't, I need to be supportive

00:05:26.600 if she's strong and independent. She don't need you. Oh, so it's like, you don't have to

00:05:33.720 know too much about feminism today. Like, can you tell the difference between a more traditional 1.00

00:05:37.400 woman and a more modern woman, like feminist? Uh, in some ways. Yeah. Yeah. I feel like what,

00:05:45.040 like what, as in like what people do a bit more now than like what they didn't do before

00:05:51.000 or? Yeah. Like when I think of, um, a traditional woman, I think of more of a woman that like 0.74

00:05:55.960 believes in the family first where more modern people believe in like their feelings first.

00:06:00.440 So traditional women tend to act like, um, like, I mean, if you think of like a, like a 1.00

00:06:07.340 traditional, traditional woman, it's like, they're, they're usually good with kids. They, 1.00

00:06:11.240 they cook, they clean, they're submissive to their meds. You know what I'm saying?

00:06:15.660 No, there's, yeah, there's definitely obviously a difference nowadays. I think that's what I

00:06:19.620 mean. It's hard because I think it depends on the individual that some, some people still

00:06:23.780 have that, that sort of thought and then others do want a bit more independence and want to

00:06:28.440 show that independence. Um, so I think it's, I think it comes down to the specific person

00:06:34.840 personally, like I've met people who are both in the past. So I think there's no such thing

00:06:43.360 as both. Okay. Yeah. Yeah. As in, when I said, sorry, when I say both, not, not having both

00:06:48.660 as in like a person that's one type, sorry. And the person that is the other type. That's

00:06:53.180 what I meant. Sorry. I could be wrong. You know, don't, don't feel like you can't, you can push

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JustPearlyThings - April 27, 2023

Man Hating Feminists Cannot Accept This Fact

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