JustPearlyThings - May 05, 2023


Man Loses His Virginity To A Baby Sitter


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12 minutes

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2,945

Sentence count

215

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Misogyny

19

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Toxicity

60

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16

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In this episode, the guys discuss the controversial topic of "only fans" and whether or not men and women should be allowed to have their own only fans. Also, the boys discuss the importance of body count when it comes to sex and relationships.

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00:00:00.000 is either no guys messaging beyonce going what's your body count no one's saying that
00:00:04.920 men aren't doing that either yes they do when it comes to relationships there's just a study
00:00:10.660 that came out from girls that have been on only fans saying that 75 of them have had issues from
00:00:15.900 doing only fans men do care about purity they do okay but well i will say that we can both agree
00:00:22.280 only fans is the kind of thing that where people have been exploiting themselves
00:00:26.020 to an average degree can you not agree what makes you think that bro bro are you one only fans are 0.87
00:00:32.580 you only fans showing no butt and your hips i'm a manager bro what are you are you one the only 0.81
00:00:36.460 fans showing your body what have you got to say about it bro i'm saying are you one only fans 0.66
00:00:40.120 showing your body i'm a manager and understand what it goes go through tell me what i'm saying
00:00:43.520 no but are you doing tell me what i'm saying i'm i'm saying are you saying what are you saying
00:00:47.320 if you listen you're hearing so he's he's telling you that he he manages girls that do only fans
00:00:52.360 All right, what are you trying to say?
00:00:53.420 No, 100%, but that's completely irrelevant.
00:00:55.360 Hey, what are you saying then, bro?
00:00:56.540 It's easy to say.
00:00:56.920 Brother, you're just shouting, bro.
00:00:58.160 I can't talk to you.
00:00:58.720 What are you saying, bro?
00:00:59.960 Go to the next question, please.
00:01:01.340 What are you saying about OnlyFans, girls?
00:01:02.680 I don't understand.
00:01:03.620 I think he was asking you a question.
00:01:05.200 All right, what's he asking me?
00:01:06.040 That's what I don't know.
00:01:06.560 Thank you.
00:01:07.060 Well, you're going to say it.
00:01:08.020 I was saying, would you do OnlyFans?
00:01:09.920 Not if you're a manager.
00:01:10.840 Why would I do OnlyFans?
00:01:11.940 Am I a girl?
00:01:12.480 Is there a market for guys?
00:01:12.940 Just a general question, man.
00:01:14.060 I think that the answer is.
00:01:16.100 There's the answer.
00:01:22.360 OnlyFans is for girls.
00:01:23.680 Do you understand?
00:01:24.340 There's more lonely girls, the guys out there.
00:01:26.240 Do you understand?
00:01:26.700 There's not too many lonely girls.
00:01:27.920 Do you understand?
00:01:28.780 There's too many lonely guys.
00:01:30.240 That's why the market's big for women that do OnlyFans. 1.00
00:01:32.580 Not for guys.
00:01:33.700 That's why girls do it more. 1.00
00:01:34.520 Yeah, but taking guys are still going to watch OnlyFans. 0.97
00:01:37.060 Yeah.
00:01:37.680 What did you say?
00:01:38.100 I said guys in a relationship can still watch OnlyFans.
00:01:41.040 I'm not talking about that.
00:01:42.040 That's why you just said that.
00:01:42.600 I'm saying there's a bigger audience for girls that do OnlyFans 0.96
00:01:45.160 than men that do OnlyFans.
00:01:46.260 But there's still an audience for men.
00:01:47.560 So what are you trying to say, bro?
00:01:48.440 That girl... 1.00
00:01:49.120 What are you trying to say?
00:01:50.380 That's what we're trying to figure out.
00:01:51.560 What did you ask me?
00:01:52.740 I'm trying to say, would you do OnlyFans?
00:01:54.680 Bro, I'm not...
00:01:55.380 Why would I do OnlyFans, bro?
00:01:56.920 Just asking you a question, bro.
00:01:58.140 Why would I do OnlyFans?
00:01:59.340 Just go to the next thing.
00:02:00.700 You're telling me, yeah?
00:02:01.560 You're telling me the same thing for a guy to do OnlyFans
00:02:03.720 and a girl to do OnlyFans. 1.00
00:02:04.940 The same thing.
00:02:05.260 It's the exact same thing.
00:02:06.560 It's both a platform.
00:02:07.580 The same way I use Instagram and you use Instagram.
00:02:10.840 It's the exact same thing.
00:02:11.880 Do you think if I surveyed 100 men and 100 women
00:02:14.340 and said, is body count important, that it would be equal?
00:02:16.960 I think it would depend on where you do the survey.
00:02:19.000 If you want to be technical, depending on what country,
00:02:27.080 depending on what age.
00:02:28.140 I'm just answering your question.
00:02:29.680 I'm saying, I remember earlier when I said,
00:02:31.720 please don't say it depends.
00:02:32.980 I need a yes or a no.
00:02:34.860 That makes it black or white.
00:02:39.880 Yeah, I need a yes or a no.
00:02:41.820 Do you think it would be equal?
00:02:43.480 Yes or no?
00:02:44.060 What does it depend on this one, bro?
00:02:45.600 Yeah, yeah, go on.
00:02:46.720 You think it would genuinely...
00:02:48.240 Is this survey going around the world?
00:02:50.160 You said I can't say it depends.
00:02:51.180 Oh, I'm going around the world.
00:02:51.840 You can't say I depends.
00:02:52.940 Yeah, fine, fine.
00:02:53.780 We can do around the world.
00:02:54.840 If it's around the world, then probably no.
00:02:56.800 No.
00:02:57.320 I would say no.
00:02:58.020 Okay, so you don't think this is disingenuous?
00:03:00.260 Because you're trying to act like men and women are equal. 0.96
00:03:03.700 We're not equal.
00:03:04.360 No, we're not.
00:03:05.400 I'm not saying that we are, but that's what we're striving for.
00:03:07.880 Do you not want to be equal for men?
00:03:10.200 You don't want to be equal to men? 0.99
00:03:11.740 No.
00:03:12.220 Then I think that's a bit of...
00:03:13.680 If I wanted to be equal to men, then I'd want to be a man.
00:03:16.060 It's like women will say they want equality, 0.99
00:03:18.040 but they're not lining up to do the hard jobs.
00:03:20.500 I think you deserve respect for you being a woman.
00:03:24.900 You don't have to be a man to be entitled to that person.
00:03:28.060 No, I think that respectable people get respect.
00:03:31.020 I don't think everyone deserves respect.
00:03:33.320 Yeah.
00:03:33.860 Do you think I deserve respect?
00:03:35.540 I think if you're respectful, you get respect back.
00:03:38.040 If you're disrespectful, then you get disrespect back.
00:03:40.680 I don't think it's just deserved.
00:03:42.600 I'll be polite.
00:03:43.180 You're polite.
00:03:43.780 I'll be polite back.
00:03:44.780 Yeah.
00:03:45.080 But I don't think it's like...
00:03:46.540 I think respect is earned.
00:03:49.140 It's how you treat others.
00:03:50.580 You should expect to have that back.
00:03:52.840 Whatever it is.
00:03:53.780 What age were you guys when you lost your virginity?
00:03:57.120 I was 17.
00:03:58.160 17.
00:03:59.320 I was 15.
00:04:01.040 15, okay.
00:04:01.620 16.
00:04:02.260 16.
00:04:02.960 I was about 13, 14.
00:04:05.380 Oh, Jesus.
00:04:06.260 13?
00:04:07.220 14, yeah.
00:04:08.660 Babysitter.
00:04:11.700 Maybe what?
00:04:12.500 I'm just being real, yeah.
00:04:14.520 Maybe what?
00:04:15.400 Babysitter.
00:04:16.020 And it's weird, because if it was the other way around,
00:04:17.760 it would be classed as something completely different.
00:04:19.560 But because it's a guy, it's a bit like...
00:04:21.260 Are you traumatized from that or no?
00:04:23.960 Not really, but because, you know, I had sex then, but then I didn't actually start having
00:04:29.360 sex when you're in actually in love in a relationship until I was a lot later in my teens.
00:04:34.020 That's so scary.
00:04:34.740 I'm not leaving a kid with a babysitter. 1.00
00:04:36.720 It's fucked. 1.00
00:04:37.340 That's so scary. 1.00
00:04:38.680 How did she... 0.67
00:04:39.520 Like, did your mom ever find out?
00:04:42.260 No.
00:04:42.620 I've heard that story before, though.
00:04:43.980 It is.
00:04:44.400 It's a common story.
00:04:45.200 I think I was being babysitted by, like, my friend's older sister who brought a friend
00:04:49.940 to kind of help babysit, and it was her who kind of used to, like, play with me and my 0.94
00:04:54.980 mate, and it got like that, and, you know, they were, like, a couple years older.
00:04:58.520 How old were they?
00:05:00.120 I couldn't tell you.
00:05:00.760 I was about 13.
00:05:01.380 They probably must have been about 16, maybe.
00:05:03.280 What?
00:05:04.020 Yeah.
00:05:04.220 Oh, so they were a couple years...
00:05:05.680 A couple years older, but I still...
00:05:07.400 Still wet. 0.88
00:05:08.340 I would kill... 1.00
00:05:09.140 Oh, I would kill it. 1.00
00:05:10.340 Some people say. 1.00
00:05:11.480 You're right.
00:05:12.020 If it was the other way around, it would be a completely different story. 0.99
00:05:14.160 Even if it is that way around, if I had a son and a babysitter, oh, I would kill her. 1.00
00:05:19.100 Yeah, yeah, it's crazy. 0.99
00:05:21.300 I've heard that story a couple times, though.
00:05:23.340 It's very common.
00:05:24.040 Yeah, it's very common.
00:05:26.180 What about you?
00:05:27.000 How old were you when you lost your virginity?
00:05:29.240 I was 14, and then I went to a girl's house on my bike, on my, like, bicycle, and then
00:05:36.060 she was like, come round.
00:05:37.860 Came round, and I went upstairs, and she had friends on the downstairs.
00:05:41.940 She had friends.
00:05:42.740 I was like, oh, I'm doing it then.
00:05:44.300 It was my first time.
00:05:44.880 It was my first time.
00:05:46.160 She's like, wait a bit, wait a bit.
00:05:47.380 I was like, I can't wait.
00:05:49.100 But I'll still wait.
00:05:51.880 And then, yeah, it was like, I was kissing her, kissing her, and then I was like, cool,
00:05:56.800 when are we going to do it then?
00:05:57.760 She's like, wait, go slow.
00:05:58.680 I was like, how much more slower can I go, bruv?
00:06:01.080 I don't understand.
00:06:02.800 And then, yeah, we ended up doing it. 1.00
00:06:05.360 It was shit, obviously. 0.99
00:06:07.400 But then I went, I was riding back home to my, on my bike. 1.00
00:06:12.220 Yes, bruv. 1.00
00:06:13.440 Fuck, done it. 1.00
00:06:13.700 Yes, bruv, finally, bruv. 1.00
00:06:15.780 Finally, I've done it, bruv.
00:06:17.220 And then I went home, slept happily.
00:06:19.580 Easy as, and I never spoke to her again.
00:06:21.840 Easy as, bruv.
00:06:22.860 You never talked to her again?
00:06:23.980 No.
00:06:24.740 Why, you didn't like her like that?
00:06:26.180 It's not that.
00:06:26.840 It's just like, you know when it's your first time, you're either proper falling in love with 0.99
00:06:30.300 a girl, or you're just like, oh, what the fuck? 1.00
00:06:32.480 You just wanted to lose your virginity? 1.00
00:06:34.260 Yeah, it's not even that.
00:06:35.220 You just wanted to say you did it.
00:06:36.500 No, it's not even that. 1.00
00:06:37.980 I proper wanted to fuck her, do you understand? 1.00
00:06:40.140 But when I did it, I was like, what the fuck is this about? 1.00
00:06:43.620 Like, cool, it was nice, whatever, but I was like, ugh, like, I don't want her anymore. 0.98
00:06:47.140 Do you know what I'm saying? 1.00
00:06:47.620 I think that's what happens to a lot of girls, a lot of guys, and then we're like, oh, fuck 0.99
00:06:53.280 that now, it's too much, and then they leave her, then she gets upset. 0.99
00:06:56.320 Easy as, do you know what I'm saying?
00:06:59.060 But yeah, that was my story of losing my virginity.
00:07:01.440 What was it that, like, turned you off from her?
00:07:03.960 Or did you lose him a little?
00:07:05.080 Right, you see, you see how it was like, doing it, this and that, after I came, no offence
00:07:11.900 to the podcast, by the way, after I came, I was like, you know, after a guy comes, 0.99
00:07:16.020 he's like, either he's in love with her, or he's like, ah, what the fuck is this? 0.69
00:07:19.940 Was there a certain thing, though, that gave you a nick? 0.99
00:07:21.940 No, it's just like, it was just too easy, do you know what I'm saying?
00:07:24.920 I came to her house one time, the first time, I came to her house, on my bicycle, on my bicycle,
00:07:31.120 on my bicycle, I was like, oh, let me do this right now, quickly. 0.95
00:07:35.880 Of course I'm going to go like, oh, what the fuck is this, like, the first time, this 0.90
00:07:38.700 and that. 0.99
00:07:39.560 I get you, I get you.
00:07:41.280 Yeah, but she liked it, and she kept texting me about it to block her, and then we went to
00:07:44.480 the same school, and then she was like, Birkin, what's wrong?
00:07:47.360 Brutal.
00:07:47.840 Just relax, bro, relax yourself, move away, bro, easy as.
00:07:51.380 Don't even look at me.
00:07:53.020 Easy as, because the guy either falls in love with the girl that he loses his virginity to, 1.00
00:07:57.540 or, he goes like, fuck this girl, I can't be asking. 1.00
00:08:00.160 Was there anything she could have did differently? 1.00
00:08:02.760 I don't know, maybe, like, make me wait, get me in a relationship with her, but if you just
00:08:06.580 like that.
00:08:06.760 Yeah, but you were rushed, though, you were saying, well, when do you want to do it, then?
00:08:09.340 Yeah.
00:08:09.600 She was holding herself back.
00:08:11.580 She wasn't holding herself back.
00:08:12.720 If I asked a girl, cool, let's do it now, I understand she's a skirt, no offence, I understand 1.00
00:08:17.680 she's a skirt, and I understand she's going to give her quickly, that's why I say, cool,
00:08:20.840 and we're doing it, then?
00:08:21.640 Did you ever think about pressure?
00:08:23.000 I'll never do that now, bro.
00:08:24.300 How do you know you weren't pressurising her?
00:08:26.520 What the hell is pressurising?
00:08:27.960 So, like, being pushy?
00:08:31.000 Yeah.
00:08:31.620 Into doing something?
00:08:32.540 Being forced into something sexual.
00:08:33.980 Yeah, but what is that?
00:08:34.460 Yeah, but what is that?
00:08:35.980 Not my man again.
00:08:37.480 Not my man again.
00:08:38.540 It's just my man again.
00:08:39.820 Just feeling like, you have to, let him speak.
00:08:42.120 Yo, brother, stop raising your voice, stop raising your voice, there's microphones.
00:08:45.780 I actually, I wanted to hear, wait, so what is pressure, like, just a guy pressuring you?
00:08:50.240 Yeah, just, like, you feel like you have to, but, like, because, I don't know, I don't
00:08:54.660 know the situation, not saying this is the situation, by the way, but, like, a girl
00:08:58.820 maybe feeling, in a way, like, she doesn't want to do it, but she's kind of, you're kind
00:09:02.700 of going at her, like, oh, you know, let's do it, like, or, like, hinting, and she's
00:09:06.620 kind of feeling, you know what, let's just get over and done with whatever, and then
00:09:10.320 maybe she might think, oh, now that I've done it, we can carry on, but sometimes that's
00:09:16.780 not the case.
00:09:17.440 Yeah, of course, of course.
00:09:18.780 Like, if a girl feels pressurised, and she's young, she'll do it, you know what I'm saying?
00:09:22.420 Yeah.
00:09:22.680 I don't personally think I was pressurising her, do you know what I'm saying?
00:09:25.220 Yeah, yeah, obviously, I don't know the situation.
00:09:26.900 There's a lot of guys that will go, like, yeah, let's have sex now, we've got to deal
00:09:30.160 about it, do you know what I'm saying? 0.53
00:09:31.000 I mean, that's, like, that's that grapey, do you know what I'm saying? 0.99
00:09:34.260 I don't fuck with that, but if I'm going to the girl, what are we doing it, then come 0.99
00:09:37.800 on now, what are we doing it, do you know what I'm saying? 0.99
00:09:39.720 And if she goes, like, no, I don't want to do it, then that's fine, on her, easy as,
00:09:43.120 if she goes, like, cool, come to my house on this day, on this time, with
00:09:45.880 your bike, then obviously I'm going to go do it.
00:09:48.320 There's no, there's no pressurisation, bro, if that's a word, you know what I'm
00:09:52.520 saying?
00:09:52.780 I mean, if you both agree to it, can you be pressured by a guy, like, because I'm
00:09:56.140 thinking, you'd have to be somewhat into it to get to that point.
00:10:01.820 Sometimes you don't expect it, though.
00:10:03.600 Yeah.
00:10:04.140 There's situations.
00:10:04.860 Sometimes us girls are delusional.
00:10:06.340 So you get into bed, and then he takes off your clothes, you don't see it.
00:10:10.900 Maybe you could think about, like, you could be talking, and that guy actually wants 0.99
00:10:15.140 to fuck you, but you're, you kind of have, every girl has that kind of thought in their 1.00
00:10:19.420 head that, oh, like, you know, he probably wants to fuck me, but I want to get to know 1.00
00:10:23.040 him, and, like, a lot of, yeah, a majority of men, like, just, just want to fuck, mate, 1.00
00:10:27.880 they'll fuck anything, do you know what I mean? 1.00
00:10:29.520 Let's be real here, but, um, where was we, where was we talking about? 0.99
00:10:33.560 Ah, cool, cool, what comes down to you, what comes down to you?
00:10:36.020 I thought that guys are, like, pretty patient, as long as you, none are up.
00:10:38.940 Oh, I don't find them patient.
00:10:39.600 Some of them, some of them, some of them.
00:10:41.420 No, I don't think they're patient.
00:10:45.140 If a man wants you, he will wait.
00:10:48.220 But the thing is, the thing is, if a guy actually wants you, yeah, and you're in a mode for it,
00:10:52.420 like, you actually want to do it, but you're holding yourself back in your head, in the
00:10:55.200 back of your mind, you're, like, ah, should I do this, yes or no, but you're so, like,
00:10:58.140 into the moment, like, you just don't care, do you know what I'm saying? 0.99
00:11:00.700 You don't want to give it to him, like, you don't care, fuck the consequences. 1.00
00:11:04.140 I mean, if you're both feeling it, then fucking go home. 1.00
00:11:06.480 If you're both feeling it, but a guy's, like, I can't lie, a guy's, like, in his head, 0.99
00:11:11.660 he's, like, ah, are you sure this girl, like, into himself, are you sure this girl wants
00:11:15.680 it, this and that, do you know what I'm saying?
00:11:17.560 Like, he thinks about it as well. 1.00
00:11:18.940 It's not like, I just want to fuck this girl, fuck it, I don't care. 1.00
00:11:20.740 There are some guys that are like that. 1.00
00:11:21.780 That's predatory, I can't lie, that's predatory.
00:11:24.000 You'd be surprised if you had that, how many girls are like this. 1.00
00:11:26.300 Of course, I don't know, I don't respect that, I don't respect that.
00:11:28.300 But some boys don't think about how the girl feels in the situation.
00:11:32.240 Especially if they've got it on their head, and it's almost like a mission for them.
00:11:35.140 The thing is, when the girl's in the moment, she wants to do it so much, like, she's, ah,
00:11:39.640 like, I can't lie, I want to do it so much.
00:11:41.680 Oh, yeah, you'll tell when a girl wants it. 1.00
00:11:43.600 I'm in that moment, do you know what I'm saying?
00:11:44.760 The guy's not going to hold back, easy as.
00:11:46.520 But, if the girl says no to him, he's in the back down, he's, you know, okay, no problem,
00:11:51.640 baby.
00:11:51.740 Not necessarily, though.
00:11:52.700 He'll stroke her hair.
00:11:53.780 But the guys that are like that, they're not predators, innit? 1.00
00:11:55.760 Fuck them, easy as. 1.00
00:11:56.960 But the guys that actually listen to them, they call, the girl goes like, no, I don't 1.00
00:12:01.240 want it, but like, no.
00:12:02.220 Well, no problem, baby.
00:12:03.560 Stroke her hair, make her feel comfortable, you know what I'm saying?
00:12:05.420 Yeah, but some aren't like that, though.
00:12:06.340 Some aren't like that.
00:12:06.840 Some girls can't say no. 1.00
00:12:08.040 Fuck them, guys. 1.00
00:12:08.820 Easy as, bro. 1.00
00:12:09.680 Birkin, some girls can't say no. 1.00
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