JustPearlyThings - Man REVEALS The Pathetic State Of Modern Men

00:00:00.000 what up guys welcome to the just parley things youtube channel and welcome to the sit down

00:00:05.520 where i have on guests from all different walks of life to you know speak about women's

00:00:11.920 discrimination and just how horrible life is as a woman that's like really what we focus on here so

00:00:17.680 today i have one of i have the founder of one of the largest and most influential men's rights

00:00:26.460 websites called a voice for men you're based in houston texas you worked for 30 years for in the

00:00:33.420 chemical dependency treatment field see i don't even know what that means i don't even know what

00:00:38.540 that means that's how crazy this is and um where you observed a great deal of discrimination against

00:00:43.820 men and boys and it was that experience that that inspired you to pursue men's rights issues uh

00:00:52.140 welcome to the show paul thank you for having me thanks for coming here by the way you've got an

00:00:59.260 old bio i left houston six years ago i live in roanoke now in virginia we're on a budget here

00:01:07.260 i'm a like it's like i'm a woman what do you think i'd get send me your donate button 0.96

00:01:13.980 so okay i found you because i thought you were just hilarious someone sent me your videos

00:01:20.060 like with dating advice for men and i just thought it was so funny so what what got you started making

00:01:26.780 youtube videos well i mean there was a dialogue about men and women in this society that needed

00:01:34.860 to happen and still needs to happen on a much larger scale and um i just sort of took my observations

00:01:42.860 about men and women life uh discrimination on either either or both and rethought things and

00:01:50.380 started putting it down to words and doing videos and writing articles um and so what what did you find

00:01:58.700 did you think that women were just the most reasonable of course absolutely yeah yeah that's what 1.00

00:02:05.580 i discriminated against yes exactly no what i found i mean the the area of discrimination

00:02:12.620 that's interesting i don't think there is that much of it at least not against women and so what i

00:02:18.940 focus myself is on relationships dating life marriage life long-term relationships that sort of thing

00:02:26.700 and encouraging men to find their values as well as their balls and to conduct themselves accordingly

00:02:33.340 in relationships because right now we've got a society full of men who can't even speak up about 0.99

00:02:41.980 what's on their mind or who won't out of fear and why do you think men won't it's like weird once you

00:02:49.900 start to see it it's like you can't unsee it and you just realize like that men are just pandering to us

00:02:56.540 like all the time like it's so crazy like i started to almost get mad i was like why are they lying like

00:03:03.180 they're lying to us and i was like what like why do you think that is do you think it's the the system

00:03:09.820 that's against them do you think it's the media like what do you think is the main problem well

00:03:14.140 i think the reason most men are lying is because women want them to because they actually insist on

00:03:19.740 it dang it i mean it starts with do i look fat in that dress and goes all the way to the wage gap

00:03:26.300 and other problems that men won't talk about but i think there's two fundamental reasons that

00:03:32.940 they won't speak their mind with women one they're afraid of not getting late um be real honest about

00:03:39.340 that it interferes with the pursuit of sex to be honest with women and direct with them and so men

00:03:46.140 avoid it the other component of that is a more emotional one where men are terrified of women's rejection and disapproval

00:03:54.780 and so even in social settings where there's no sexual connotation to anything men still practice

00:04:02.780 this sappy public fawning over women that makes them look like simps why do you think that is do you

00:04:11.340 think it starts like at home because so many people are in single mother homes um or female 0.56

00:04:18.140 mother homes homes with mothers period i mean it's easy to and and absolutely right to point at the

00:04:28.060 problem of single mothers and the lack of masculine influence in the lives of men but there's a million

00:04:33.980 households out there where the woman rules the roost and it might as well be not a father in the house 1.00

00:04:41.100 that's part of this problem of not being direct not being honest not treating women as equals

00:04:47.260 intellectually emotionally other in other ways because women reject men who treat them as equals 0.97

00:04:54.860 uh so there's this undertone to everything all the time that if men are truthful and honest and

00:05:00.540 direct with women they don't want any part of it so what do you mean when you say there's a bunch of

00:05:07.340 like women that rule the roost so the father's not there well i'm talking about hen pecked men i'm 0.76

00:05:15.500 talking about uh households where the woman is the law where she sort of walks her man like a dog

00:05:22.700 and there's a lot of men that look we got to be honest we got to have an honest conversation

00:05:28.060 there's a lot of men that live their lives in subservience to women and of course when they

00:05:33.900 start living in subservience to women women don't respect them and so the relationship becomes one of 0.63

00:05:41.740 control and disrespect and abusiveness that may end up going both ways but the fundamental problem is

00:05:48.860 that you have men who can't assert their their leadership and masculinity in the home

00:05:54.780 it's a rather unpopular thing to do with a lot of women well and it doesn't help that all the feminists 1.00

00:06:01.420 like make up these words that don't mean anything to like like co that's that i was that's what i

00:06:07.020 realized i'm like the feminist like thing that they do is they bring in these like big words to 1.00

00:06:12.220 confuse you and change definitions so that's what i noticed on the show i'm like why does every

00:06:17.020 date a narcissist like how many narcissists are there millions upon millions they're endless

00:06:24.140 one percent of the population like how does every chick and then i realized it's on the right too like 1.00

00:06:31.180 it's not like men's issues are sort of like not championed by the right or the left because i i was

00:06:37.340 more of like a trap i would say my belief set before getting into like men's stuff was more traditional

00:06:42.780 conservative um and what i realized is even on the right they still it's like always about what the

00:06:49.740 women wants like on both political parties the left kills you with feminism kills men with feminism 1.00

00:06:55.980 and the right kills men with chivalry uh which is another i mean uh one of the things i would hope

00:07:02.620 part of our discussion would go to today is that we need a new and different and better social contract 0.96

00:07:08.860 with women uh this is not 1600 anymore uh women work have jobs uh we just haven't managed to develop a

00:07:19.660 society where a working woman shows up with her purse at a date most women still insist that they're 1.00

00:07:27.820 wined and dined and i think the last study i read about this said that 44 of women would be offended 1.00

00:07:37.020 if they were expected to carry any financial weight in a dating relationship wow that is just i mean

00:07:45.420 that's entitlement that that needs to end yeah that's what i didn't realize that was that's like

00:07:53.740 part of the red pill in a way because you realize like men get such a bad deal today historic like

00:07:59.580 from a historical point of view like when i found out a hundred years ago 95 of women were virgins

00:08:06.300 or not sorry 85 85 now today 95 aren't so it's like half of the marriage contract you're supposed to bring

00:08:14.220 purity and then we say give me a traditional outcome and it's offensive if you don't pay but

00:08:21.420 isn't it offensive if you come in like not avert i know it's like really normal now so no one thinks

00:08:27.420 about this but like it like it used to be offensive if you came in not a virgin for your husband

00:08:33.900 absolutely and that's changed and unfortunately you know this is a part of what we called women's

00:08:40.460 sexual liberation yeah but the net result is is that women are twice as miserable as they've ever been 1.00

00:08:48.060 um they're not happy any you do any kind of google search or research on women's relative happiness or 0.94

00:08:55.980 their happiness relative to men and they come up a fail every time and it's gotten worse over the years

00:09:02.940 the more so liberated women have become the less happy they are yeah well and then i started looking

00:09:10.140 into the stats like because i was like why are the guys complaining so much about us and i'm like one

00:09:15.260 out of three of us has had an abortion one out of three of us has an std 90 of us have been on birth

00:09:20.620 good like when i started looking at the numbers i'm like i i kind of get it well and not only that that's

00:09:28.780 just the stuff that shows up on entry uh on the other side of that coin the men who engage these

00:09:34.300 women in relationships down the road find that they have more than a 50 chance that the woman will 1.00

00:09:40.460 file for divorce or 80 percent of divorces are filed by women over half of marriages end in divorce and

00:09:47.340 then comes the financial and often reputational ruin that happens to men during divorce it's uh there's 1.00

00:09:55.020 you know what's the return on investment for men right now in women and it's shit 0.98

00:10:03.580 what what is um so what contract do you think it should be for the new it's going to have to be 0.98

00:10:09.420 negotiated um i set a limit uh i'm 21 years in a relationship right now and and but back then i i set

00:10:19.500 a standard that if a woman couldn't show up with her purse and contribute financially i wouldn't be 0.98

00:10:24.780 interested and lo and behold when i drew that line in the sand i met somebody who felt the same way

00:10:31.740 i think that's what men need to do is they need to figure out what they want what they want a woman to 0.99

00:10:36.700 show up with in a relationship you know if if all she has is a you know a wish list from tiffany's 0.96

00:10:43.660 a wish list from tiffany's and an occasional blowjob that's not showing up with much 0.98

JustPearlyThings - July 31, 2023

Man REVEALS The Pathetic State Of Modern Men

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