JustPearlyThings - July 29, 2023


Trans Man Gives His Thoughts On Trans Sports


Episode Stats

Length

15 minutes

Words per Minute

178.07558

Word Count

2,702

Sentence Count

1

Misogynist Sentences

13

Hate Speech Sentences

13


Summary


Transcript

00:00:00.000 all right tell me what's the nullification what is that um so it depends so for the female side
00:00:06.180 that can when a female takes testosterone their clitoris like extends and turns into like
00:00:11.960 a micro dick it's kind of gross but the kind of they keep that but they keep the vaginal entrance
00:00:18.700 uh or no or they may have removed like the labia or something or parts of it and
00:00:23.780 and with the males they might say they might keep the balls and the testicles but create a cavity
00:00:30.760 or they might just remove the testicles or they might do an inversion without the depth so imagine
00:00:37.040 what i had but zero depth so zero depth is way less uh that's preferred now by surgeons because it's
00:00:46.800 got the highest success rate and the reason is it's way less invasive getting your dick like
00:00:53.460 shredded is still pretty severe but having your pelvis removed like fucked with and stuff that
00:01:01.860 like destroys your nerves but the the zero depth one is way way less impactful and because of that
00:01:09.560 you have people who have a lot more sensation but there's no depth to it like it's zero depth it looks
00:01:16.120 kind of real on the outside but there's nothing in there like you can't go in it's just
00:01:23.180 zero depth what do you think about trans people in sports um
00:01:32.180 um i think the question shouldn't be trans people in sports it's trans women in sports trans men and
00:01:44.040 so trans men in sports there's that one boxer who he's a trans man and he's actually doing quite well
00:01:50.220 he's knocked out a few male opponents but you could also argue that's a female who has jacked up on
00:01:56.800 steroids because of the testosterone is that fair i don't know maybe maybe he's a he's a diamond a
00:02:02.600 dozen because most trans men aren't really competing in any sports it's mainly trans women and it's mainly
00:02:08.700 trans women who are a certain predisposition should i say that they don't get surgery they've
00:02:17.220 what you would classically call or gynephiles i would say the ones who get a fetishistic sort of
00:02:25.220 sexual kick from dressing as the wearer or the me in my opinion they very much get a
00:02:32.700 sense of dominating others especially women i really feel that way and i think like leah thomas
00:02:39.260 did leah thomas has piqued the world in ways that i could already dream of do you know what i mean
00:02:46.060 by like just showing people that one photo with the swimming where they're diving all over the women
00:02:52.500 like literally and you can see it and it's like it's just people seeing that reality really does break
00:03:00.560 it and you've got the cyclists and it's just like they didn't just win the uk cyclists won by like
00:03:07.380 five or six minutes like it was a crazy crazy lead it was like i went to a volleyball tournament
00:03:14.320 where it was like mostly um where they let the trans people in or the trans the trans i don't know the
00:03:20.880 dudes the dudes like into it basically and and it was so weird because it was just like a dude with a
00:03:26.560 boob job i was like what the fuck like but but the crazy thing was they would like there was one
00:03:32.620 like the the countries because it was an all nations tournament brazil and philippines i don't know what's
00:03:38.800 going on in those two countries they have more than any especially the philippines i don't know what
00:03:43.640 the hell is going on in the philippines but they had damn near had a whole team full of dudes and
00:03:49.540 freaking they um wanted and it would be so weird because they would do something like manly
00:03:56.540 and then they would like pull back like they would like hit the shit out of the ball and then they'd
00:03:59.940 realize it was like too hard and you'd see them just kind of like kind of like draw off i'm like
00:04:05.600 they they even know they can't do it all the way like they know they can't be too good like they'll
00:04:12.540 like do something crazy well they'll get it up and then it's like they'll they'll try to bring
00:04:17.740 it was so weird i always thought trans like women in sports was always a bit of a red flag anyway
00:04:25.440 because most of us hated sports like you know what i mean like uh like the ones who are gay at least
00:04:31.900 like we just fucking hated it not that we went physically active it was just like no desire to
00:04:38.480 compete you know what i mean it's just like not in us and it's again it's a it's a very dominating
00:04:44.340 thing to and the gal the gal to enter a woman's competition and being their chain like the stuff
00:04:52.800 in the changing rooms is horrific what um is it riley um oh riley canes yeah yeah yeah she like what
00:05:01.680 she said about what layev's done is just like totally invasive and unnecessary there's no
00:05:07.380 there's no need for that it's absolutely it's a violation of boundaries and at every level
00:05:13.900 and the confrontation and but i do love that one photo where leo's just standing with the
00:05:19.440 the trophy and the the rest are just kind of grouped up together kind of hugging and i thought that was
00:05:25.040 really a powerful image that because that kind of shows you that they themselves weren't really happy
00:05:30.880 with it either well and i was um the thing is i i played volleyball for 12 years uh actually i think
00:05:37.740 i might have been 16 i had a long time i don't know i was i'm 26 so i was like 10 or 12 something
00:05:44.520 like that and it's like women's sports has no opportunity like literally not there's no money
00:05:50.860 i'm probably top like one percent in terms of how far i've taken it i can maybe make two grand a month
00:05:57.320 and like do you know i mean like making it to the top like one percent of a skill in any industry you
00:06:01.900 think you'd make money not women's yeah um but the thing start there is some change happening like
00:06:09.180 in the uk there is a big push for like to support the women's football and stuff like that but even
00:06:14.960 they the you know what i mean it's so competitive but my my point isn't even about the pay i think we
00:06:20.900 deserve less money we're not as entertaining it just is what it is and my point is that
00:06:27.300 it's like we'll work so hard and there's such little opportunity so it's like when we start
00:06:31.820 having people come in and taking like the things that like like it's like there's barely any trophies
00:06:38.540 okay there's barely any like winning in these sports because it's just not it's just an l industry okay
00:06:44.780 and i'm like you're gonna take away the scholarships that we barely have
00:06:48.680 yeah um to to dudes i'm like yeah i really do think that's tragic i said this to um on a trans
00:06:57.540 panel on vice like they put me on and they were just telling me to be more confident they're like
00:07:02.840 why don't you just be more confident and beat them i'm like what the i can't like because i i was
00:07:08.760 thinking they're in now beat them it's your problem not our problem bye yeah yeah i'm top one percent
00:07:15.460 of height for women i'm so that means i means i'm six foot to put this into per in perspective so
00:07:21.340 out of every 100 women one is taller than me i was still short in sports i was still short my
00:07:27.520 to get a scholarship it would have been ideal to be six two i was still considered short wow
00:07:32.400 that's how competitive it is and i'm like the top 15 percent of men are over six foot
00:07:37.760 even just at height alone it's like does that competitive angle also not apply to men though
00:07:43.660 because there's still that nature and the fact that they still have to compete within themselves
00:07:48.080 to well you were saying that like the the top one percent of women are like they're gonna be like
00:07:56.160 six like a little bit taller than you right you know um but with men that doesn't really matter
00:08:02.400 because it's all dependent on who's the best of that category anyway it just kind of feels like it's
00:08:08.660 i think men's sports obviously have always naturally got a lot more attention and women's
00:08:13.520 have always taken a back seat because they never really had it as long as uh the men's sports have
00:08:19.920 but honestly i'm not i'm not the person to speak to about sport generally i just think oh all i can say
00:08:28.180 is an observer watching someone like leah dominate with the goal the absolute fucking goal to do that
00:08:36.660 because they know they know that they know that they're faster they know that they've got an
00:08:41.680 advantage and the goal to do a competition and international like the competition was huge as
00:08:47.520 well on televised it's just like no that takes that's fucking insane the thing is i i know like
00:08:54.740 the riley gains or whatever it's like we literally train i'm like i know how bad as a female athlete you
00:09:01.780 want to win a national title that is like the ultimate like that is what you dream of like
00:09:06.380 from the time you're a kid like it's like from 10 years old you want to win a national title that's
00:09:11.540 always like in the back of your mind and i'm like so you she worked her whole life to her senior year
00:09:17.340 of college she's got one shot left and i'm like i can't even imagine putting 16 years like think about
00:09:24.400 it that's 16 years of work just to have that that didn't happen to me like the the dudes coming in
00:09:32.000 that that just started this year and i'm leaving england like i'm done playing so it doesn't really
00:09:36.580 matter but i just i couldn't even imagine if that happened when i was playing like i i would kill
00:09:42.160 somebody yeah um i also think maybe there needs to be some rules like if you previously competed in one
00:09:50.340 sport as like even if you're pre-transition that you should kind of be in a way so especially for
00:09:57.720 the males like kind of locked in because like leah was like what was their rank it was like 435th or
00:10:05.720 something daft it was like way from the top one and that now all of a sudden the number one and it's
00:10:11.560 like come on they shouldn't they shouldn't have been allowed to do it like having them in was
00:10:16.640 and again and i know this may sound weird but leah was allowed to compete yeah she was she was given
00:10:28.740 um the opportunity to compete if the mechanisms were there i don't know what happened in the
00:10:35.260 background with leah trying to like force the way in but somebody behind leah in whoever runs these
00:10:41.980 competitions at one point said yes it is acceptable to allow this male to compete so how much of this
00:10:51.140 is all like leah again has got a lot of gal and does take responsibility but leah and people like leah
00:10:58.140 are being invited they're being encouraged to do this and it's like again i kind of not understand but
00:11:08.300 i see it as a two-dimensional issue leah was allowed to do that like she shouldn't have been
00:11:15.160 allowed to do that and it's so weird because when um the trans tournament i was telling you about in
00:11:21.160 england when i was asking because i went to go see my friend play my friend was playing at it i played in
00:11:26.460 that tournament last year but i just didn't register in time and so i asked the tournament director i'm
00:11:31.400 like what you know this is wrong i'm like this is like this is crazy and he's just like well i just do
00:11:36.440 with the government it's like weird they become like programmed it's like oh i just do what the
00:11:40.180 governing body says i just do with the governing body and i'm like yeah but okay is there someone
00:11:45.080 i can complain to this is like this is wrong and it's just it's so weird it's like some people don't
00:11:50.840 care enough as well like they because especially when they're not impacted themselves it's like
00:11:55.960 why should i do that extra effort to find out this this is the way it is so deal with it you know
00:12:01.320 what i mean yeah yeah well um i enjoyed most of this conversation not the parts they're kind of
00:12:09.900 gross i won't even lie to you no no it is it is you're allowed you you shouldn't say that you should
00:12:15.400 say that like we would need to stop hiding behind these things oh it's terrible it's gross like
00:12:20.540 it's brutal it's horrible it's horrifying it's disgusting say it say it out aloud that's so nasty
00:12:28.620 um but i do think this stuff's important because i yeah i can't even imagine taking a bunch of
00:12:35.060 just from the autistic people i know i'm just imagining like a bunch of autistic people
00:12:40.940 like that is predatory that is it is it is um tell the people where they can find you you know
00:12:49.820 you can find me on twitter at tulip r so that's t-u-l-l-i-p-r um and there's links on my profile
00:13:00.380 to my youtube and me writing and stuff like that but um that's where i'm the most active i've got a
00:13:07.040 very tiny youtube channel but it's very it all it is is just a video diary it's not really like a
00:13:13.200 it's not nothing like this you know what i mean now and i'm not hoping for it to be like that it's
00:13:17.540 more about me documenting how i recover from this and kind of because i am still untangling a lot of
00:13:24.300 the webs a lot of the the like what i call a brain worm like the ideas that burrow deep that you like
00:13:31.560 you were better off trans you you're actually a woman you've got dysphoria all these ideas you can't
00:13:36.860 just pick them out you've got to really draw them out and extract them and think it through it takes a
00:13:42.860 lot and that's what that is but yes you can find us on twitter sorry i just bought one you're fine
00:13:47.800 you're fine yeah um would you ever do a trans panel like um we do sometimes we do panels every
00:13:54.120 couple months with like trans versus non-trans basically yeah but i will say as a caveat that
00:14:01.000 the i don't think it should be detrans versus trans because i think we're very much got the same
00:14:08.560 issues and problems in some regards we've got ideological differences and i'm happy to discuss
00:14:15.480 them but pitted against each other when ultimately i think a lot of our goals are quite alignment i
00:14:20.580 don't think any trans person wants to be harmed by surgery and i don't think they want anyone who
00:14:25.060 really doesn't want surgery get pushed into surgery um and i think we're it's all about finding
00:14:30.460 what common ground do i have yeah well i just meant um have you ever seen those jubilee shows
00:14:37.700 no you should you should look at them i just meant two people on opposite ends of the spectrum
00:14:42.900 and then we just talk about like yeah maybe yeah we'll see we'll see yeah it's up to you i'll just
00:14:49.600 put you on a list and yeah put us on the list i'm already on lots of lists as it is
00:14:55.460 okay um well thank you so much i appreciate it guys make sure go follow the twitter follow the youtube
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