Modern Man Claimed to be FAITHFUL
Episode Stats
Length
1 hour and 5 minutes
Words per Minute
216.58324
Summary
In this episode, we discuss cheating in relationships and the impact it can have on a marriage. We have a guest on the show who has been cheated on multiple times in his 20s and 30s. He talks about how he dealt with the pain of cheating and how it changed his life.
Transcript
00:00:00.960
Pell, would you stay in a married relationship with your husband happily being cheated on?
00:00:13.460
But I think, again, that the kids are more important than you.
00:00:21.400
But how many times is the limit for them to go?
00:00:25.100
If you have kids, I'm going to try to work it out.
00:00:27.300
Because I just genuinely think that if you put your feelings above the kid,
00:00:34.100
I like this guy, but you are talking the opposite of what your actual life is.
00:00:43.260
When you interview porn stars, I'm like, I never cheat.
00:00:51.340
Two-year career stint in the Celestius industry.
00:01:00.880
I'll go on my Instagram right now, and you can verify this, yeah?
00:01:03.640
I guarantee I have four girls asking me to do scenes next week.
00:01:10.720
But you're not living the lifestyle that you're preaching.
00:01:15.800
You've only had sex with four girls in two years?
00:01:27.480
But I actually disagreed with something else that you said.
00:01:35.000
Have you been on the receiving end of being cheated?
00:01:46.580
And I remember looking through her text message saying another guy who was like, I knew through
00:01:53.680
And a funny old thing is like, we bumped into each other in a bar about a year later.
00:01:59.420
Because he found out the hard way whose girlfriend I thought it was anyway.
00:02:07.020
And he basically came up to me and went, by the way, if I'd known it was you, I would
00:02:11.720
But we ended up having a pint and laughing about it.
00:02:17.960
I said to him, imagine she could see us laughing about what a skank she is.
00:02:22.460
What was that pain like when you went through the phone?
00:02:24.940
Oh, when I was 19, it hit me right in the middle.
00:02:30.780
I was getting the butt home, you know what I mean?
00:02:36.560
I was like, you know when you're like, she's the best thing I've ever seen.
00:02:43.400
She was the prettiest girl and I was like, and fuck women!
00:02:47.400
But obviously, you get over it, but that was 19 for me.
00:02:50.840
Did it put you in a space for a moment where you felt a certain type of way?
00:02:59.900
No, the thing that got me to wake up and not cheat ever again was seeing the pain it caused
00:03:07.400
And it made me go, yeah, I can't do this again to someone.
00:03:15.280
It was that awakening of like, oh, I've really fucking hurt someone here.
00:03:32.780
Have you ever been cheated on, just like Chrissy?
00:03:39.560
Pel, would you stay in a married relationship with your husband happily being cheated on?
00:03:52.080
But I think, again, that the kids are more important than you.
00:04:00.020
But how many times is, like, the limit for them to, like, go?
00:04:03.740
If you have kids, I'm going to try to work it out.
00:04:06.160
Because I just genuinely think that if you put your feelings above the kid, like, I just
00:04:11.080
I'm going to talk on my own experience right now.
00:04:17.060
And I was in a relationship, like, a long relationship.
00:04:29.980
Because, you know, there's two sides to every story.
00:04:39.320
No, because I'm saying, if we asked him, is he going to say she tried everything?
00:04:52.260
But what was, what made, what was the limit for you?
00:04:55.900
What made you realize that you had to walk away?
00:04:59.140
Uh, I don't know if I'm allowed to say that or not, but abuse.
00:05:08.100
When it comes to the cheating thing, though, yeah?
00:05:17.160
No, it's, see, because I'll tell you, women and men cheating is two different things.
00:05:22.080
Yeah, but we both have egos, believe it or not.
00:05:23.840
I know we like to pretend that a woman is from Venus and men are from Mars.
00:05:38.820
The reasons why we cheat are different, yeah, between men and women, yeah?
00:05:51.960
However, what I will say is, are you, is it just sort of like a one-off thing or is
00:06:00.440
See, when you have an affair, that's when it's like, that's different, right?
00:06:04.900
No, but some people would still class an affair and cheat in as two of the same things.
00:06:19.020
Cheating, it hurts the person because, like I said, I don't know what you're telling that
00:06:25.380
individual when you're laying and you're doing your pillow talk, yeah?
00:06:32.400
If you know that you're not ready to give up your bachelor life, yeah?
00:06:38.040
And you're not ready to, like, submerge that ego and say, you know what, cool, I've had
00:06:44.480
Let me just kind of fix up and do what I've got to do.
00:06:47.120
When you're having, like, you know, like I said, when you're at home and you're alone
00:06:51.960
with that individual, whether it's you talking to a woman or your woman talking to a man,
00:07:00.440
So it will hurt a woman as well as it will hurt a man, especially if they believe, and
00:07:07.020
this is where I come back to my point again, you are being sold a dream and you know full
00:07:13.400
well, if you cannot commit to what you're telling me, why tell me that?
00:07:19.280
Because we're in a situation where you're comfortable, I know you, you know me.
00:07:28.100
That's why women, you guys will say, oh, be honest to me, but you pick the guys that
00:07:32.240
sell you a dream, so you don't pick the ones that are honest.
00:07:34.400
No, no, no, no, but you can still be honest, but you have to understand, you can't say,
00:07:40.520
I'm not going to sit here and say, oh, I'm picking people that's selling me a dream.
00:07:48.020
So if I'm coming to the table and I'm saying to you, look, I really like you, we've gone
00:07:52.840
out for a few dates, you know, we've come to a point now where we're like, okay,
00:07:58.100
let's come together rather than just call in, let's come together and do what we've
00:08:03.560
But I'm not going to, I'm not going to just say, oh, well, you know, I should pick a
00:08:10.700
No, because I've been in that situation and I've got friends that's been in that
00:08:14.560
You don't say, you don't, you don't think you should pick a different guy?
00:08:17.760
No, you can pick a different guy, but that doesn't mean to say that you picking a
00:08:23.520
You've got some women that like, you know, bad boys and then you've got women that
00:08:30.120
It's still, if you're, if it's in you to cheat, you're going to cheat.
00:08:34.880
But my point is not like a very small percentage of men can cheat.
00:08:38.620
So if you find yourself getting cheated on, cheated on, cheated on, and you're the
00:08:45.120
Because if you really sit down and ask somebody, why are you cheating?
00:08:58.180
I'm not saying all, okay, but that was his argument, right?
00:09:03.380
So what I'm saying is, it's not about, well, you're the, if I've gone and I've
00:09:08.600
changed my line of who I'm putting the energy out there to catch.
00:09:13.380
If you're going to cheat, you're going to cheat.
00:09:21.740
But like, in terms of like when I got to the point where I felt like I'm a man,
00:09:28.460
I met a couple of girls where I was like, I'm bringing up, I'm bringing to the
00:09:33.960
And they're still coming at me with the same attitude that they came at me,
00:09:37.880
that these other geezers with, who aren't on my level.
00:09:40.560
And you think that that's going to fly with me.
00:09:42.540
And you don't realize like, when I say, I can't believe I'm going to say this,
00:09:46.120
but when I say jump, you should be saying how high, because that's actually like,
00:09:51.400
I'm going to make it so you don't have to work anymore.
00:09:55.880
Like, if I'm going to buy, if I'm literally, if I'm going to make it so that you don't
00:10:00.060
have anything to worry about, then what the fuck are you doing for me?
00:10:04.480
Because if you're not free Friday, don't expect me to call you Saturday, because that
00:10:09.180
And that's what I was experiencing a little bit of.
00:10:11.420
It's like, if you're going to treat me like another one of these fuck boys, then goodbye.
00:10:29.320
But why does he have to deal with their trauma?
00:10:34.020
What I was actually trying to say is, those individuals are bringing in baggage from their
00:10:43.200
Or some of them were in this, like, I don't know if you guys have experienced this, but
00:10:46.640
like, some women, because of the modern day women thing, like, modern women, they go to
00:10:51.100
uni, they live on pot noodles, they're messy, they're slobs.
00:10:53.640
They're not like old school women who would like, like, old school women are fucking organized.
00:11:00.280
Everything that I'm not good at, they come into your life, and they're like, Mary fucking
00:11:08.120
But I'm saying the majority of modern women, because of this uni lifestyle, they're like
00:11:16.940
I'm more fucking cleaner and organized than they are.
00:11:19.380
So, obviously, I'm generalizing, and I will continue to generalize.
00:11:25.460
But maybe that's why men have now a tendency or propensity to cheat, because the quality
00:11:29.940
of women are no longer like my mom, my aunties, my grandma.
00:11:38.960
We choose non-monogamy because when we have the most sexual power, which is like 21, 22,
00:11:50.520
When I was in this situation, they were coming at me with this casual attitude.
00:11:56.440
And the thing is, men, when they're in their peak, which is like 35, more are married.
00:12:01.820
Because the average age of first marriage is like 32 for men and 31 for women.
00:12:05.880
So women choose non-monogamy in their 20s and in their 30s ask for monogamy.
00:12:11.180
But with the problem is we bring less to the table because now you have a body count.
00:12:15.500
Now you have trauma from your exes that cheated on you.
00:12:19.640
And the thing that they don't tell women is by 30, your chance of having a kid, if you're
00:12:24.760
single at 30, your chance of having a child is below 50%.
00:12:28.260
That means we are more likely to not have a kid than have one.
00:12:32.840
And, you know, what I'm saying is, it's like, I get it.
00:12:36.800
Like, like you said, you would like somebody to match what you are bringing to the table,
00:12:43.400
Like, you know, and I believe in a relationship, you're there to instill and uplift each other.
00:12:53.540
Well done, by the way, because there's a lot of, like, in modern day relationships,
00:12:59.260
Whereas the reality, it should be a competition of who can give them.
00:13:02.980
I believe it should be a case of you're uplifting me, I'm uplifting you.
00:13:12.040
It shouldn't just be, oh, well, what are you bringing to the table?
00:13:15.580
Like they're saying, with the generation now, it's not like that.
00:13:28.520
But the issue is the quality of woman has gone down.
00:13:31.360
And like, because there's a very small percentage of men that we would even consider.
00:13:35.480
So it's a very, there's less than like 20% of men that we would even consider give a chance to.
00:13:40.840
So it's like, and those men, like the quality of woman is still low.
00:13:47.780
Like, I'm not going to sit here and say, oh, I'm a virgin and I'm this and I'm that.
00:13:55.700
Like, I, I'm sometimes a little bit more, I don't know how to put it, more mature than my age.
00:14:04.500
Like, I believe if we're together, I'm going to bring as much as I can, as well as you can.
00:14:12.040
And if it means that we're going to start this road of life together, where we build each other, build our empire, have our tribe and do what we need to do.
00:14:27.020
But the question is, again, why do you still feel that that's still not enough for you?
00:14:37.120
What do you think women bring to the table that a guy couldn't get with a cook, a cleaner and a hooker?
00:14:44.220
Because everything you listed, that could be outsourced.
00:14:52.000
Me personally, like I said, I've had people ask me, well, what are you bringing to the table?
00:14:59.620
Second of all, I'm bringing my intelligence, whether I'm a spiritual person.
00:15:04.380
If you have a higher IQ, you're less likely to get married.
00:15:11.640
But intelligence could be taken in a different form of way.
00:15:24.180
I'm talking about it is I've, I'm bringing myself to the table.
00:15:28.360
I'm bringing what I know that I've got, whether it's my qualifications, my intellect, you know,
00:15:35.640
yes, like you said, all of those things can be sourced.
00:15:40.060
But my point is like, the issue, the point I'm having is like, we don't have a resume
00:15:44.720
like our grandmothers and our great grandmothers did.
00:15:47.360
And so my point is like, when you're dealing with these top percent of men, which most men
00:15:51.540
that you deal with are going to be top 20 percent, because if we show you 10 men, you're going
00:15:56.860
to find eight of them as ugly, just in general.
00:15:59.400
So, so it's like when we're dealing with those men, they have so much more leverage than we
00:16:05.040
And the issue is a lot of times like the women don't realize like in order to be with those
00:16:12.180
And you know, there's some people that may sell you a dream.
00:16:16.700
I personally do believe it, but like you say, like, no disrespect to yourself, like you're
00:16:23.700
a beautiful woman, but obviously you're bringing, you're saying you, you, you bring
00:16:27.520
You're bringing like your education, your discipline, but you're bringing that stuff, but you're
00:16:36.500
I never stated that I was single, nor did I state that I was in a situation.
00:16:49.640
No, I'm saying, I'm saying like, it's like, how is he, he doesn't know because you don't
00:16:59.280
When we ask him about the ring on the finger, okay, cool.
00:17:03.780
I would say, yeah, like you, you, I feel like you'll be proud to say that I'm married.
00:17:14.100
But I'm saying like, even, even so just like on paper, right?
00:17:23.280
You bring, that's the two most important things to match.
00:17:25.440
Like I said, I'm in a relationship and we're good and we're stable.
00:17:33.160
Even if we take you out of it, the average woman, 31 at first marriage and overweight.
00:17:41.680
Women don't realize the urgency that they should be operating with, by the way.
00:17:45.360
Like as in like a friend of mine was in a wedding the other day.
00:17:49.360
It was an Indian wedding and like there was several girls there who were like late 20s,
00:17:57.540
And we're thinking like women from that background, usually they're the quickest to get married.
00:18:01.740
So I don't think, and when, when I'm dealing with, with what I've been dealing with women,
00:18:05.960
it's, it, they don't realize like the competition that they're up against.
00:18:10.760
That's why they look at me and they're like, like, I'm, I'm a pretty girl.
00:18:15.180
They don't realize it's like, oh, you're like, I'll just spin the wheel and just pick the name out.
00:18:20.860
I'm just saying that's the way I want just to be fucking clear.
00:18:24.860
I think if women realize the reality that Pearl is trying to get across here,
00:18:28.580
people think Pearl is like trying to rub people's nose.
00:18:34.080
if people were aware of how cutthroat in competition it is, it wouldn't be.
00:18:42.660
It's like every guy that we're interested is top, probably top 20% of men.
00:18:49.200
How are these other 80% of guys in a relationship?
00:18:52.540
They find one person, stick with them for life.
00:18:59.660
When women are in their 20s, they choose non-monogamy.
00:19:03.160
So, so what do, when women, we take out the men, what do women pick for?
00:19:14.120
So in our 20s, we go for looks, meaning we share men in our 20s.
00:19:17.880
And then at 30s, when we need a child, it switches.
00:19:21.100
So the guys that are in relationships are getting the leftover women.
00:19:24.120
And that's the problem, though, is they're realizing too late.
00:19:27.460
Like, your peak, your prime, unfortunately, is when you're at your dumbest.
00:19:31.260
When you're in your early 20s, when you look your prettiest, is when every man wants you.
00:19:37.980
But by the time you realize, you're like, now I want to settle down, the window is gone.
00:19:43.800
And now you're hoping that the guy hasn't already been married, got kids.
00:19:48.320
But women aren't realizing this till it's still late.
00:19:50.320
As an advocate, why do we associate our peak with our youth and physical space?
00:19:58.940
Couldn't your peak actually be, once you've gone through all of those experiences and you
00:20:02.740
understand, as a man or a woman, who you truly are?
00:20:05.120
Question for you, would all those men paying for your OnlyFans still want to fuck you with
00:20:13.100
No, I'm saying, if he was 50 years old on OnlyFans, would the same amount of people
00:20:18.440
Because, shoot, I'm just, it's people, youth is attractive to the men.
00:20:27.960
Would they want to watch if you're effing 60-year-old women?
00:20:35.660
He showed me a bloody actor that he had on his podcast who'd done something with a 78-year-old.
00:20:46.100
You know, in the beauty industry, anything that sells sex, like, they want the young
00:20:50.320
And so it's like, we're not saying you can't get better as a person.
00:20:53.420
Like, I think a lot of times, older women are a lot nicer and kinder.
00:20:59.680
But our parents were getting married at early 22, 23, 24, 25.
00:21:05.920
But that time, we valued the purity of women, you know what I mean?
00:21:13.060
And that's what we hold high up there in high regards.
00:21:16.220
Whereas women hold, for men, how much accomplishments we've done.
00:21:22.760
I've got a question, just out of curiosity, right?
00:21:32.060
Because then we'll be able to decipher how much infidelity really is a problem.
00:21:42.960
I.e. you've got a 20% guy who will cheat on you Monday to Monday, twice on a Sunday.
00:21:47.260
Or a trap, not a trap, well, an 80% guy who's not so rich, but he's going to be loyal to you.
00:21:52.300
You can make money together if you take it like that.
00:21:55.860
For me, it would definitely be loyalty and a good line of communication.
00:22:05.180
Yeah, I think, and this is the thing, I think it sounds nice.
00:22:10.540
But we just have to talk about, by and large, women don't pick loyalty when they're at their peak.
00:22:14.800
So it's like, they could say that, but it's like, when, when, no, because seriously,
00:22:18.160
if loyalty was the number one thing to you guys, if it was, no, listen, listen,
00:22:22.640
if it was the number one thing to you guys, you would, no, you would be virgins on your
00:22:26.880
wedding day because you want to make sure that you have a man that sleeps with you,
00:22:34.300
Yeah, but I feel like sexual education is not that, uh, into, yeah, into, into early stage.
00:22:47.540
Can I ask the ladies a very valuable question, which I don't think anybody's asked.
00:23:06.120
I know you, the thing is, if you guys, if you guys were men for one day, you lot would shag
00:23:13.000
So if I had a penis on my mind, then they would do the most.
00:23:30.040
I watched the feminists crawl out of the comments.
00:23:34.700
The first thing I would do, okay, is, I don't know, because, I mean, I'm not about,
00:23:43.240
and that's the thing, if you've just got one track mind, like, are you just going to go
00:23:49.340
Okay, but you are a man for one day, what you can do in one day.
00:23:56.600
I'll probably try and set up some sort of, I don't know, something, but sex would be the
00:24:04.860
You'd play with your willy, it'd be the first thing you'd do.
00:24:09.220
First of all, if I wake up as a man in a day, I'll be shocked to be like, why is this thing
00:24:17.460
First of all, I'll be like, what the fuck do I do with this?
00:24:20.320
Second of all, I'll be like, okay, I'll call one of my brothers, bro, I'm a man now,
00:24:26.260
I want to think about going around fucking girls.
00:24:33.620
Well, guys, men have like, I don't know, like four, five, ten, I don't know, a million
00:24:40.580
Yeah, and so it's like, we will never understand how much they think about sex.
00:24:45.000
You know when you're coming on your period, and you're real moody, and it's like,
00:24:51.320
No, no, some women are really hormonal, really upset about, you cry over any little thing,
00:24:56.760
Imagine that, but your horny is fucked nonstop.
00:25:04.960
In your head, you know what, you're like, this isn't really me, it's just like.
00:25:20.940
Well, they say most men cheat because their woman is not active enough.
00:25:41.240
I have a grilled chicken, but I couldn't eat it every day.
00:25:46.700
Sometimes I want to get, you know, the chef special.
00:25:52.680
For the guys that have cheated before, what's the most demon time thing you've done?
00:26:07.400
Let's get a lesson about how to travel more than you have.
00:26:30.220
So I was always a good person at heart, even when I was doing it.
00:26:33.360
So I cheated on her and I've been watching too many like blockbuster movies and rom-coms
00:26:40.520
If I go and tell her, I've just cheated on her and cry.
00:26:43.160
She's going to love me and be like, what an amazing human being.
00:26:47.100
I drove home listening to bloody backstreet boys, whatever I was listening to.
00:27:02.440
Like literally, we were never, ever the same after that moment.
00:27:07.400
So I suppose the dogly thing to do is to cheat and then have the audacity to tell someone
00:27:12.640
that you cheated thinking you're a hero when actually you're not.
00:27:20.240
If I tell you the truth, it's going to be okay.
00:27:25.440
No, the right thing is just not cheating to me.
00:27:33.080
But I was going to say, if she looks back at it now, she'll probably be like, do you know
00:27:35.800
I have respect for him for telling me back then.
00:27:38.060
But obviously in that situation, she's probably like.
00:27:42.420
So we're talking about the amount of time between shagging another woman.
00:27:46.060
What's the most girls you've slept with in a day?
00:28:26.300
Like, if there's any lumps or dodgy white patches.
00:28:40.780
I'm going to ask all of the demon time stories.
00:28:45.940
But would you ever date someone that does the same work you do?
00:28:57.900
When I first started this line of work, absolutely not.
00:29:00.520
Because like many people, I had this preconception that if you are that,
00:29:04.440
you have to be some form of repulsive human being.
00:29:07.200
However, having met many a nice women with good standards and good morals,
00:29:16.420
I probably, for the right one, I don't say no to anything.
00:29:21.180
If you told me two years ago, I'd be getting my willy out on the internet
00:29:23.620
to make a living, I would not just laugh at you.
00:29:30.080
So if anyone's looking at this and it's interesting.
00:29:33.020
You know you're not going out of anyone in the industry.
00:29:51.940
We're going to pay someone to delete all the content as much as possible,
00:29:56.700
I hear that, but she still has the 5,000 dicks.
00:30:15.740
Mate, you can fact check everything I'm saying.
00:30:19.900
There's no Photoshop and there's videos to show.
00:30:22.520
Every one of you girls is going to be Googling.
00:30:29.480
I sent you a free trial for having me on the show.
00:30:41.420
Okay, so you might date someone with an OnlyFans.
00:30:46.760
You know, I don't believe that you're what we call in the dictionary that I've read three
00:30:53.860
Talking of which, I'm going to be doing a scene next week with that.
00:30:55.720
But a cock hold is someone who takes pleasure in seeing their missus have sex with other
00:31:00.520
However, if she's done it in the past, babe, you had to do what you had to do.
00:31:29.580
And then I picked up another girl and I got, I got her in a hotel nearby.
00:31:34.440
So there was two girls in two different hotels.
00:31:38.820
I want to say like within like five minute walk of each other max.
00:31:43.060
And so I fucked the other girl, left her in the hotel, went to work, had a full day's
00:31:49.220
work, went back in the morning and then fucked the first girl as well again.
00:31:55.580
So no, like it was like one girl at like 12 p.m., one girl at like 12 at midnight and
00:32:06.440
What percent of girls ask you guys to wear condoms?
00:32:09.020
Oh, well, I mean, when I was like, when I was active, about 50 percent.
00:32:24.000
Do you feel like if a female asked you, you would get a bit like, do you feel like it would
00:32:31.760
No, because it tells me that you're serious about your health.
00:32:34.820
But would you feel offended if I was to be like, yeah, here you go.
00:32:39.880
Well, OK, I'm a slightly different situation because I've got tests every month.
00:32:59.080
But a few times when I've been like, no, you have to put something on.
00:33:12.040
She's insinuating that there's something wrong with you.
00:33:49.640
Okay, what's the most demon time thing you've done?
00:34:00.780
I remember in my younger days, everyone used to see this tiger stuff.
00:34:03.860
And everyone used to be like, oh, you look like tiger, all this stuff.
00:34:06.640
And then I swear on my life, it must have been nine girls.
00:34:14.380
And then I remember there's three girls from Manchester.
00:34:20.940
They was like, no, I was speaking to him first.
00:34:24.820
Then, obviously, I'm young, so I'm with my guys, and they're all laughing and stuff.
00:34:28.420
And then the other girl was like, I spoke to him first.
00:34:31.420
And three of them, I was like, you can all come chill.
00:34:35.620
Then when I went back on the strip, her friend was like, oh, my friends had an argument with
00:34:42.320
And then my friends had an argument with all the girls.
00:34:51.180
I will chill with you for a bit until I call them later.
00:34:54.820
She's come back, and then went back on the strip, and then there's another three girls
00:35:03.540
You could have made money from every single interaction.
00:35:23.060
There's too many stories, but I'm going to change it.
00:35:56.060
But I mean, you know, later on in life, just when, you know, you get older, you work things
00:36:00.980
And, you know, it's just like, like I say, honesty.
00:36:05.180
Did you know when you met her that when you met the mother, you were like, yeah, I would.
00:36:10.460
I was younger and really untruthfully, if I really think about it, this was some cougar
00:36:17.380
This was, this was some real, like, I don't know, from a man's point of view, I don't know
00:36:38.020
I know, but notice how we're not as scandalized.
00:36:40.500
If he said he was a girl and the dad did that to her.
00:36:44.860
They'd be calling, they'd be on the phone to her.
00:36:51.100
Yeah, I mean, I was in a sort of situation ship with the daughter.
00:36:54.200
And I would go around to the mum's, well, to the actual house where it was.
00:37:00.120
And yeah, just one of the times I got invited into the house thinking that I was waiting for the daughter to come down.
00:37:24.220
His fiancée, yeah, he was waiting for her to come down.
00:37:57.780
Divorce papers are getting sent off right now, mate.
00:38:03.320
All right, ladies, what's the most demon time thing you've done?
00:38:24.180
I have no comment because I have not misbehaved like that.
00:38:32.360
Okay, you're telling me I got four random girls from London.
00:38:53.780
What, you went full throttle or just the oral stuff?
00:39:33.540
She's got like her own house and it's got like so many rooms.
00:39:35.860
And then, yeah, we just kind of did our thing in her house downstairs.
00:39:40.080
Well, it is bad because we're in someone else's house.
00:39:42.480
I think there's more to the story, but we'll go to the next one.
00:39:46.500
Don't try to put everything on the internet here.
00:39:57.240
If you talk about knocking boots in a car, okay, I've done that.
00:40:01.960
Isn't it funny how we're all pretending, like, let's be real.
00:40:04.980
There is no way that none of you, like, I'm sure that some of you are innocent, but there's
00:40:08.700
no way that one of you girls have not had sex with at least two men within a 36, 48 hour
00:40:17.300
But, yeah, because women's importance of their purity is so important.
00:40:26.020
And yet we're talking about, like, cheating and how we need to be more open and more honest
00:40:46.920
But women are very good at hiding the cheating.
00:40:50.980
I think what men need to realise and what men don't actually realise, a lot of women, believe
00:40:55.000
or not, are actually willing to work out in their relationship if a man cheats, like, a lot
00:41:13.960
Women say that, like, if you would have just told me, you know, we would have been all right
00:41:19.780
Any guys here ever told a woman about cheating?
00:41:29.120
I can't blame women, though, because one guy, remember, some guy's intentions are just to go out and get
00:41:37.880
Because if they didn't care about their hair, they'll be out.
00:41:40.640
But when you speak to a guy, it'll be like, if they say, oh, I ain't got a trim, I'm not
00:41:45.460
Their purpose is of going out to impress girls with having a girlfriend or not.
00:41:50.080
But then you can't really blame the females because when they are speaking to girls, they
00:42:02.620
Does that mean they're not responsible, though?
00:42:04.260
Women also have the responsibility to look and go, whatever his actions say.
00:42:09.480
And you can blame all on him all you want, but, like, you're a grown adult who can look
00:42:14.220
at him and go, what is he doing for you, really?
00:42:33.280
Girls start realising changes from that guy, like, after a few months.
00:42:37.240
Bro, have you never been in a relationship with a woman where three months in, and all of
00:42:41.560
a sudden, she got comfortable, and it's a different human.
00:42:46.680
That's why I met her PR, the first three months, and then all of a sudden, like, she is ratty.
00:42:54.640
So we experience it, too, as men, where we are, like, the first month, I'm like, this
00:43:02.160
But no guy's gonna go up to a girl and be like, oh, by the way, I'm a cheat.
00:43:08.820
By the way, I'm a woman beater, which I don't condone.
00:43:10.500
But women are also gonna be like, I set this fucking world on fire.
00:43:14.540
Right, but the thing is, like, women don't care anyways.
00:43:18.320
Felons reproduce, like, men with criminal histories reproduce more than that don't have them.
00:43:22.900
So it's like, do women really, like, ignore red flags?
00:43:27.260
Bro, death row inmates are getting more letters than most men on fucking Instagram.
00:43:36.540
I've interviewed a death row guy before, and they're, like, they're getting emails all day.
00:43:41.440
Like, women love a bad boy for some reason, serial killers.
00:43:47.700
I had a score, and I thought it was the end of my beauty regime.
00:43:50.580
And every single guy I've seen since, they were like, dude, you look so much more attractive.
00:43:58.380
When men have to, like, for women to be attracted to a man nowadays, yeah, to be really attracted
00:44:09.060
I just feel like girls are that horrible, guys.
00:44:10.640
You have to have conquered some stuff, and you have to be that man.
00:44:11.980
The more horrible you are, the more successful the relationship is going to be.
00:44:13.960
If you ever have a fight in a bar, the amount of women who approach you after that is unreal.
00:44:20.040
You have, like, five, you have a pick of women if you have a fight, especially if you win.
00:44:28.320
There's something which women enjoy when it comes to men having a certain amount of
00:44:34.920
You know, they've been through a certain amount of trauma.
00:44:39.620
There's all of these things add up to make the characteristics of a man that women really
00:44:46.580
They like, okay, I want a man who's intelligent and kind and all that kind of stuff, but they
00:44:50.880
also want a man that will grab them by the throat from time to time.
00:45:10.560
You don't like to grab by the front from time to time.
00:45:11.440
Why do you think girls like the frickin' Handmaid's Tale and Fifty Shades of Grey?
00:45:19.800
The Handmaid's Tale is literally, it's really popular among women.
00:45:24.240
It's literally, basically, the women get graped.
00:45:26.940
Graped once a month by, like, they're, it's like, it's really weird.
00:45:32.000
They're, like, owned by a family and they're, like, graped once a month.
00:45:36.680
Fifty Shades was the biggest joke ever, though, really.
00:45:43.120
Actually, I wonder, because I had a different OnlyFans.
00:45:45.780
I had a, I had a different OnlyFans model on the show.
00:45:56.100
I wouldn't want you, I wouldn't want you to stay in my reputation, though.
00:46:01.220
I've said a lot of smack here, so I've got to live up to it.
00:46:10.380
Because I got, so I'm just curious if this is going to be the same.
00:46:13.220
We had a different OnlyFans model that was a guy, too.
00:46:16.140
And he said the number one request he gets from women is grape scenes,
00:46:27.060
But what really startles me is, and I was talking to you offline about this,
00:46:37.280
I'm like, you have no imminent need to be here in front of me.
00:46:43.060
Like, I've got a lady, I won't say her name or her username,
00:46:48.580
And I kid you not, she sent me $250 every single day for three months,
00:46:54.640
We'd jump on FaceTime, she'd twerk for me, show me her titties,
00:47:00.560
And I was just sitting there, not sure one off.
00:47:03.760
Yeah, there are really loads of women, yeah, that do it, honestly.
00:47:06.780
My split, I can tell you from a statistical standpoint,
00:47:25.200
I guess people like five foot, seven foot, ten foot.
00:47:36.620
The people might sign on to his thing to see him slapping, you know.
00:47:43.900
That would never work, because that could be anyone's cock.
00:47:46.060
They have to see the facial expressions, the exaggerated, you know.
00:48:01.040
So if you could go back to being 18, okay, now you're starting over.
00:48:04.840
Well, I don't, maybe you guys, whenever you lost your virginity,
00:48:08.160
like, clean slate, okay, and you have three choices
00:48:25.500
I mean, in school from young, we've been taught this fairy tale,
00:48:29.380
you know, the guy comes and saves us from the castle.
00:48:34.500
Like, we've been taught this as females, as young, as aged.
00:48:51.800
How do you know what's good if you've only ever had one?
00:48:55.260
Right, and this is where I will answer from my perspective.
00:49:00.540
If we're both coming together and we're doing one for life,
00:49:06.320
then we should be able to explore our sexual nature with each other.
00:49:13.020
But I think the question was if you could go back and you were 18,
00:49:46.840
You could do one person for life, one person at a time,
00:49:53.460
Yeah, so you could have a main guy and then some side dudes.
00:49:59.500
Okay, so you'd have a main guy and then you'd sleep with a bunch of side dudes?
00:50:19.500
What makes you think that would be a good idea?
00:50:24.780
obviously, you know that person, you know everything,
00:50:41.300
Okay, so then you want to have sex with other people.
00:50:54.940
I feel like that's the woman that's going to go very well.
00:51:22.220
she's going through a period where she feels that she doesn't want to have sex that much anymore.
00:51:42.700
just the change in vagina can really bring about a different outlook on life.
00:52:32.540
but you said he was in a relationship with two people.
00:52:40.760
but don't be in a relationship with that person.
00:53:04.820
I doubt you'd have the same level of intimacy as you do with that dog,
00:53:20.680
someone that when you call you bust jokes with and love.
00:53:32.260
but you're the one who's living this the least.
00:53:37.020
And you're out here telling all of us how great it is for being a hypocrite world.
00:53:41.560
Your actual life is a million miles away from that.
00:53:49.420
You are talking the opposite of what your actual life is.
00:54:05.380
Two-year career stint in the Celestius industry.
00:54:14.740
I'll go on my Instagram right now, and you can verify this year.
00:54:17.640
I guarantee I have four girls asking me to do scenes next week.
00:54:24.760
But you're not living the lifestyle that you're preaching.
00:54:29.720
You've only had sex with four girls in two years?
00:54:41.560
I actually disagreed with something else that you said.
00:54:50.020
But, you know, I think that what you said was wrong.
00:54:53.220
I don't think that men and women should be best friends in a relationship.
00:54:57.420
I actually don't really think it works that way.
00:54:59.960
Because, like, best friends is, like, I think men and women are meant to do different things.
00:55:04.720
If you're best friends with someone, you have to tell them everything.
00:55:07.300
You won't say you're your partner and everything.
00:55:11.060
Like, you should be best friends with your partner.
00:55:19.180
Like, I think men need male friends to hang out with.
00:55:22.140
I don't think we're meant to be their best friend.
00:55:25.140
And this is coming from someone, you know, I was a bit of a tomboy.
00:55:28.620
But it's like, you know, I just don't think men want to talk to you in the way they talk to other men.
00:55:36.360
But men need male time and females need female time.
00:55:39.360
And I don't really want to, like, talk to my husband or my boyfriend about the same things I'm talking about in girls' night.
00:55:52.020
I'm like, you won't believe what Becky, Diane, and Debra did.
00:56:01.360
We're at least with the girls, they're interested.
00:56:05.100
Yeah, but then he's not your best friend because he doesn't have the same level of interest as the things that you do.
00:56:08.600
But there is a man that would be interested in what Becky did.
00:56:11.200
I don't want the guy that's interested in women things.
00:56:25.120
Yeah, you know, I do think you have a little bit of feminine energy, like just talking to you, you know.
00:56:32.780
And I think, like, if you're crying all the time, I do think you're more feminine than a guy that doesn't cry all the time.
00:56:47.600
But I think, like, as women, we want a strong leader.
00:56:50.500
And, like, we call our husband, like, our rock that we want to lean on, right?
00:56:54.660
We don't want a guy that's crying all the time.
00:56:57.400
Is the president of the country, like, is Trump when he was in office crying on stage?
00:57:03.640
But equally, a lot of women need to realize that you're not, like, the president too.
00:57:15.680
And that's actually a complement to each other.
00:57:18.720
And I feel like, as much as I hear what he's saying, like, being close is a great thing.
00:57:25.040
And we need to, like, come together in a different way.
00:57:33.460
I think my best friend, I think we read too deeply into it.
00:57:37.880
Someone who you are happy to be in their presence.
00:57:43.240
But, of course, we're not going to sit down and play Xbox One and FIFA 2024.
00:57:53.020
There's nothing worse than a girl trying to play PlayStation.
00:57:58.740
You're taking away from my excellence right now.
00:58:02.500
Girls, you might be, say if you girls are your partner's best friend, is it okay for
00:58:16.600
No, it's rude to answer a question with a question.
00:58:42.080
And he was just saying something like, when male and females are friends, it's because
00:58:50.680
If she had the slightest chance that he could go through that gap, he would.
00:58:55.760
And for me, I was just like, hmm, that's very interesting.
00:59:09.440
They know where they stand, but they may know where they stand, but if you said to them
00:59:19.680
If my partner wasn't happy with me having male friends, I would happily, you know, cut
00:59:25.260
Would you cut all the male friends off for the man?
00:59:28.940
Because, I mean, if you're telling me to cut off my friends, but then you're still being
00:59:43.520
Yes, if we're both willing to do it, I don't see a problem with that.
00:59:46.680
But if it's a case of, yeah, you're my woman now, you can't talk to this person, no.
00:59:53.360
I personally don't believe there's nothing, there's no such thing as a male best friend towards
00:59:57.700
a female, because I feel like every guy would know what he wants.
01:00:01.620
And if he did put it on the plate and say, no, if a female did put it on the plate for
01:00:05.740
that guy and say, you know what, I'm fed up on my guy, he's been peeing me off a bit.
01:00:12.400
Man, when I was 18, one of my first girlfriends, she convinced me, it's not like that.
01:00:19.120
And you know when you're young and impressionable, you're willing to let things go because
01:00:23.480
And then the minute we broke up, he was in there, he was trying everything.
01:00:28.520
I was like, I'm never going to fucking allow this again, ever.
01:00:32.920
I mean, I was at a club last night, and I spoke to this guy that used to be friends with
01:00:39.260
And even he said to me, he was like, you know when you used to go out with Danielle, I used
01:00:46.640
He's like, yeah, man, I used to proper love her off.
01:00:59.660
Yeah, but I mean, you don't get the same level of service, do you?
01:01:03.020
You see like all the pretty girls, they're like, oh yeah, my male best friend, he'll pick
01:01:06.420
me up any time of the night, and all of this kind of stuff.
01:01:09.020
You're going to get certain privileges from being that good-looking friend.
01:01:21.000
So you're cool with him seeing her butt naked slapping her?
01:01:33.360
Someone pretend that I was gay just because he wanted to go in her pants.
01:01:38.140
And this, ah, this is what I was going to say when you asked me before, bro.
01:01:41.140
You see, women cheat more, yeah, but see the men, the men are more willing to be more
01:01:52.420
So what it means is I will be more in a way to conduct myself for you not to get caught
01:01:57.960
out and for our situation to keep evolving, right?
01:02:00.300
So if I'm going to be a side Negro, yeah, what I would tend to do would be to save my
01:02:07.280
number as something else in a girl's phone book.
01:02:09.720
If a man rings up my phone, I'm not going to blow up her spot.
01:02:13.500
I'm going to say, oh, no, no, bro, I'm a cousin or like whatever it might well be.
01:02:20.960
You see, once the jig is up, yeah, they're like, yeah, I told your girlfriend, yeah?
01:02:26.120
I told your girlfriend about us and all that, but men are more conducive.
01:02:30.300
I've seen two girls go home in a taxi together.
01:02:35.700
So we are generally more conducive to you guys not being caught.
01:02:39.600
And if we're the side pieces, we tend to play that role better, I believe.
01:02:44.440
Whereas women, they don't really give too much of a shit.
01:02:48.220
They don't mind if men get caught when it comes to the cheating side of things.
01:02:54.260
I think it's got a lot to do with a man's confidence as well.
01:02:56.820
When I was broke and I didn't look the way I did, I'll be honest,
01:03:00.520
I didn't want my ex-girlfriends lingering around other guys
01:03:04.320
But I've got to a position in my life by working on myself for two years
01:03:16.300
So, at the end of the day, I do know what I offer.
01:03:23.560
And go ahead, have as many male friends as you want.
01:03:32.320
Even though a lot of women wouldn't agree with it,
01:03:43.580
They want to know that that woman is the only one...
01:03:46.320
You're the only one as a man that's going with this woman, basically.
01:03:50.500
I'm not going to go into too much details, but...
01:03:54.780
That is something that I've heard from a lot of men,
01:04:02.020
To be honest, I've been kind of thinking about children,
01:04:13.460
when I finish doing certain things with myself,
01:04:36.180
Why do we have to travel first and then have the family?
01:04:42.720
I just feel like I need to do some things by myself separately,