JustPearlyThings - July 31, 2023


Married Man Gives His Thoughts On The Red Pill Community

Topics
MGTOW rejection experiences
Hosted by
Hannah Pearl Davis
Mentioned
Aaron Clary
Trans Man Gives His Thoughts On Trans Sports He Was Pro Abortion Until He Uncovered This Fact

Episode Stats


Length

6 minutes

Words per minute

142.52

Word count

966

Sentence count

74

Harmful content

Misogyny

8

sentences flagged

Toxicity

4

sentences flagged

Hate speech

11

sentences flagged


Summary

Summaries generated with gmurro/bart-large-finetuned-filtered-spotify-podcast-summ .

In this episode, I sit down with my good friend Aaron Clary to discuss what it means to be a MGTOW and why it s a bad idea to have kids. Aaron and I have been friends for a long time and we have a lot in common in that we have both been raised in the Christian and Millennial culture. He has been in the military and has been married for over 20 years. He is a father, husband, and father-in-law to his wife and kids. We talk about what it takes to have a child, how to have children, and what to do if you don t want to have one.

Transcript

Transcript generated with Whisper (turbo).
Misogyny classifications generated with MilaNLProc/bert-base-uncased-ear-misogyny .
Toxicity classifications generated with s-nlp/roberta_toxicity_classifier .
Hate speech classifications generated with facebook/roberta-hate-speech-dynabench-r4-target .
Topics generated with Qwen2.5-3B-Instruct.
Hosts, guests, and mentioned names generated with spaCy (en_core_web_sm), reconciled against Wikidata.
00:00:00.000 How do you think social media has influenced women and men?
00:00:03.860 Oh, my God, not for the better.
00:00:07.460 I have to say, I think we've had some good years now with the red pill content.
00:00:15.500 Social media actually is having an impact of getting the truth out to a lot of people.
00:00:22.160 But still, if you look at just the narratives out there that float around social media,
00:00:26.640 it's, gosh, it's ended up with OnlyFans.
00:00:32.620 That's where social media has taken us with women. 1.00
00:00:37.140 And with men, it's taken us, I think, to more, a better place with red pill information.
00:00:43.900 But social media, we're more isolated from each other than we've ever been
00:00:48.940 while we're more connected at the same time.
00:00:51.860 Do you consider yourself red pill or MGTOW?
00:00:58.340 That's a really good question.
00:01:00.240 Yeah, I do consider myself red pill.
00:01:02.340 There's no doubt about that.
00:01:04.120 And there's guys that would tell you I couldn't be MGTOW. 0.74
00:01:06.960 I'm in a 21-year long-term relationship with a partner who I love very much.
00:01:12.400 That would not qualify me for some guys as a man going his own way.
00:01:18.620 However, I am a man, and I am going my own way.
00:01:23.040 So make your conclusion there whether or not I can be MGTOW.
00:01:29.200 I think I can.
00:01:30.360 What do you think the most common response I get about MGTOW is these are the men that
00:01:36.680 women wouldn't want anyways? 1.00
00:01:39.820 You know, guys don't get to MGTOW from sexual failure.
00:01:45.220 They get there from sexual success and bad experiences with women. 0.97
00:01:50.560 One of those experiences may be rejection.
00:01:53.280 But I know a lot of MGTOW guys that did their stint in family court and came out with the 0.99
00:02:00.120 blades poking out of their back and went MGTOW from there. 0.93
00:02:05.100 I don't buy, of course, that's just a sour grapes mentality.
00:02:08.960 All those guys were guys women didn't want anyway. 0.91
00:02:13.200 I don't think so.
00:02:16.900 So I'm not buying it.
00:02:18.740 How can a guy, if a guy wants to, like, what are a guy's options if he wants to have a family?
00:02:30.000 If a guy wants to have a family in the traditional sense, I would say, you know, make sure your
00:02:36.320 passport is up to date.
00:02:40.700 Because if you're going to pick from the pool in the United States and Canada, you're going
00:02:45.360 to be SOL.
00:02:46.120 Well, there's just not hardly any wife and mother material.
00:02:53.580 I heard Aaron Clary the other day say something I thought was great.
00:02:57.260 Lots of women want to get married and have children. 1.00
00:03:02.840 Very few want to be a wife and mother. 0.77
00:03:07.520 And that is what we're actually dealing with here.
00:03:10.920 So I suggest to guys, you know, if you can do it, if you can pull off the digital nomad,
00:03:17.240 move to the Philippines or somewhere else where the culture is not feminist, where people don't 1.00
00:03:23.060 embrace that stuff, and start shopping there for a family.
00:03:28.700 But if you get online or travel there and bring somebody back here to the United States or Canada
00:03:36.580 or the UK, you're going to end up with the same problem.
00:03:41.840 They get westernized very quickly.
00:03:43.900 And then you end up with them having the use of our family court systems. 0.99
00:03:49.700 It's not a good thing to do.
00:03:55.680 So if you can't move, I would say another option is surrogacy. 0.87
00:04:01.020 If you can pay a woman to have a child for you, if you want a child that bad. 1.00
00:04:07.640 But for a guy that wants to stay in the United States and have a family, all I can say is
00:04:13.840 good luck.
00:04:14.980 I'll see you when your email hits my box.
00:04:17.480 And three, four, five years down the road.
00:04:19.960 And it's probably true. 0.62
00:04:23.520 Is there a way for men to legally protect themselves when they have a kid?
00:04:29.580 No.
00:04:30.980 Wow.
00:04:32.900 I tell this to men all the time.
00:04:35.200 Do not have a child unless you're prepared for the distinct possibility of that child hating
00:04:42.360 your guts because he or she has been alienated from you.
00:04:47.360 This is the most common thing at XY Crew where we do men's groups throughout the week.
00:04:53.040 I'd like to put a pitch in for that.
00:04:55.520 You can find out more about it at paulelam.com forward slash XY Crew.
00:05:00.640 But so many of the men in there, their children were being turned on them even before the divorce
00:05:09.140 happened within the home itself.
00:05:11.140 The mother was colluding with the child to alienate the father and the repair of that is often a failure.
00:05:20.940 It's just hard to get over it once a child has been alienated.
00:05:25.020 There are some cases where you can patch it up, but they're very few and far between.
00:05:31.280 But don't have children and expect that it's going to be this.
00:05:35.480 You're going to be bonded with that child until the day you die with this loving relationship.
00:05:41.700 Men are really, really ill-advised to go into it expecting that that's the likely outcome.
00:05:47.100 The more likely outcome is a bunch of money and a child that hates you.
00:05:54.720 And it's the one red pill.
00:05:56.960 I feel like I was like, I don't know, maybe 14 years old or something. 0.96
00:06:02.220 And I realized just how all the moms are crazy. 1.00
00:06:07.460 And even if they're married, they're still talking shit about the dad. 1.00
00:06:11.360 Go on to some of the mother's forums. 0.99
00:06:17.140 They're out there, several of them.
00:06:19.200 Stay-at-home moms and mother's forums.
00:06:22.740 And you will see women ragging about their husbands all day. 0.99
00:06:27.500 And you can even see the alienation of the child play out in their comments
00:06:32.740 of what they're doing with their children.
00:06:35.720 It's despicable and horrible.
00:06:37.800 And it's exactly why I tell men all the time, don't do it.
00:06:43.920 There is no legal protection for you.