JustPearlyThings - July 31, 2023


Married Man Gives His Thoughts On The Red Pill Community


Episode Stats

Length

6 minutes

Words per Minute

142.51991

Word Count

966

Sentence Count

70

Misogynist Sentences

8

Hate Speech Sentences

11


Summary


Transcript

00:00:00.000 How do you think social media has influenced women and men?
00:00:03.860 Oh, my God, not for the better.
00:00:07.460 I have to say, I think we've had some good years now with the red pill content.
00:00:15.500 Social media actually is having an impact of getting the truth out to a lot of people.
00:00:22.160 But still, if you look at just the narratives out there that float around social media,
00:00:26.640 it's, gosh, it's ended up with OnlyFans.
00:00:32.620 That's where social media has taken us with women.
00:00:37.140 And with men, it's taken us, I think, to more, a better place with red pill information.
00:00:43.900 But social media, we're more isolated from each other than we've ever been
00:00:48.940 while we're more connected at the same time.
00:00:51.860 Do you consider yourself red pill or MGTOW?
00:00:58.340 That's a really good question.
00:01:00.240 Yeah, I do consider myself red pill.
00:01:02.340 There's no doubt about that.
00:01:04.120 And there's guys that would tell you I couldn't be MGTOW.
00:01:06.960 I'm in a 21-year long-term relationship with a partner who I love very much.
00:01:12.400 That would not qualify me for some guys as a man going his own way.
00:01:18.620 However, I am a man, and I am going my own way.
00:01:23.040 So make your conclusion there whether or not I can be MGTOW.
00:01:29.200 I think I can.
00:01:30.360 What do you think the most common response I get about MGTOW is these are the men that
00:01:36.680 women wouldn't want anyways?
00:01:39.820 You know, guys don't get to MGTOW from sexual failure.
00:01:45.220 They get there from sexual success and bad experiences with women.
00:01:50.560 One of those experiences may be rejection.
00:01:53.280 But I know a lot of MGTOW guys that did their stint in family court and came out with the
00:02:00.120 blades poking out of their back and went MGTOW from there.
00:02:05.100 I don't buy, of course, that's just a sour grapes mentality.
00:02:08.960 All those guys were guys women didn't want anyway.
00:02:13.200 I don't think so.
00:02:16.900 So I'm not buying it.
00:02:18.740 How can a guy, if a guy wants to, like, what are a guy's options if he wants to have a family?
00:02:30.000 If a guy wants to have a family in the traditional sense, I would say, you know, make sure your
00:02:36.320 passport is up to date.
00:02:40.700 Because if you're going to pick from the pool in the United States and Canada, you're going
00:02:45.360 to be SOL.
00:02:46.120 Well, there's just not hardly any wife and mother material.
00:02:53.580 I heard Aaron Clary the other day say something I thought was great.
00:02:57.260 Lots of women want to get married and have children.
00:03:02.840 Very few want to be a wife and mother.
00:03:07.520 And that is what we're actually dealing with here.
00:03:10.920 So I suggest to guys, you know, if you can do it, if you can pull off the digital nomad,
00:03:17.240 move to the Philippines or somewhere else where the culture is not feminist, where people don't
00:03:23.060 embrace that stuff, and start shopping there for a family.
00:03:28.700 But if you get online or travel there and bring somebody back here to the United States or Canada
00:03:36.580 or the UK, you're going to end up with the same problem.
00:03:41.840 They get westernized very quickly.
00:03:43.900 And then you end up with them having the use of our family court systems.
00:03:49.700 It's not a good thing to do.
00:03:55.680 So if you can't move, I would say another option is surrogacy.
00:04:01.020 If you can pay a woman to have a child for you, if you want a child that bad.
00:04:07.640 But for a guy that wants to stay in the United States and have a family, all I can say is
00:04:13.840 good luck.
00:04:14.980 I'll see you when your email hits my box.
00:04:17.480 And three, four, five years down the road.
00:04:19.960 And it's probably true.
00:04:23.520 Is there a way for men to legally protect themselves when they have a kid?
00:04:29.580 No.
00:04:30.980 Wow.
00:04:32.900 I tell this to men all the time.
00:04:35.200 Do not have a child unless you're prepared for the distinct possibility of that child hating
00:04:42.360 your guts because he or she has been alienated from you.
00:04:47.360 This is the most common thing at XY Crew where we do men's groups throughout the week.
00:04:53.040 I'd like to put a pitch in for that.
00:04:55.520 You can find out more about it at paulelam.com forward slash XY Crew.
00:05:00.640 But so many of the men in there, their children were being turned on them even before the divorce
00:05:09.140 happened within the home itself.
00:05:11.140 The mother was colluding with the child to alienate the father and the repair of that is often a failure.
00:05:20.940 It's just hard to get over it once a child has been alienated.
00:05:25.020 There are some cases where you can patch it up, but they're very few and far between.
00:05:31.280 But don't have children and expect that it's going to be this.
00:05:35.480 You're going to be bonded with that child until the day you die with this loving relationship.
00:05:41.700 Men are really, really ill-advised to go into it expecting that that's the likely outcome.
00:05:47.100 The more likely outcome is a bunch of money and a child that hates you.
00:05:54.720 And it's the one red pill.
00:05:56.960 I feel like I was like, I don't know, maybe 14 years old or something.
00:06:02.220 And I realized just how all the moms are crazy.
00:06:07.460 And even if they're married, they're still talking shit about the dad.
00:06:11.360 Go on to some of the mother's forums.
00:06:17.140 They're out there, several of them.
00:06:19.200 Stay-at-home moms and mother's forums.
00:06:22.740 And you will see women ragging about their husbands all day.
00:06:27.500 And you can even see the alienation of the child play out in their comments
00:06:32.740 of what they're doing with their children.
00:06:35.720 It's despicable and horrible.
00:06:37.800 And it's exactly why I tell men all the time, don't do it.
00:06:43.920 There is no legal protection for you.