JustPearlyThings - July 15, 2023


Men Are Forced To Accept This RAW DEAL


Episode Stats


Length

7 minutes

Words per minute

162.93236

Word count

1,275

Sentence count

1

Harmful content

Misogyny

10

sentences flagged

Hate speech

5

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Summary

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Why is it so hard for women to lose weight? Why do we have double standards when it comes to weight loss and fat loss in the modern era? Is it fair for men to get fat? Why is it a bad thing when a woman gets fat and a man gets fat What is a man supposed to do about it? What should a woman do if she doesn t lose weight

Transcript

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00:00:00.000 i was scrolling through my timeline also on twitter sorry guys i've been tweeting a lot
00:00:04.720 you better follow my twitter pearly things with a z and i found this picture of a girl 0.99
00:00:10.400 that was a before and after of when she met her husband to now hold up hold the picture
00:00:18.000 all right so that was her when she met her husband pull it up what would you rate her one to ten 0.76
00:00:24.480 the girl he thought he'd be with forever seven years and two kids all right this is too much
00:00:33.520 fat for two kids if you're gonna get this fat you should at least give him five okay like my mom
00:00:43.280 did not gain this much weight and she gave birth to seven children seven and you're getting this fat
00:00:51.920 with two kids really now my question to you guys is this a fair deal for men
00:00:59.280 why do men have to love us when we change physically and completely look they expect us to get a little
00:01:06.880 wrinkly you're telling me the men will accept you being a not virgin they'll accept you not really 0.99
00:01:15.440 having any domestic skills like they have been accepting a lot from us all they ask is please
00:01:23.760 don't get that please and this is what we do it's like ladies ladies i i don't understand like it's one
00:01:35.840 thing if he bought you at that size like if he married you and that's how fat you were okay that's 1.00
00:01:41.680 what he signed up this is what he signed up for on the left and on the right this is what he got now
00:01:48.960 seriously is this a fair deal for men i think this should you know i want to ban divorce however i do
00:01:55.840 think there may be some exceptions maybe maybe if you get over a certain weight your husband can divorce you
00:02:03.360 and no the men can get fat the women can't yes ladies double standards because we are supposed to 1.00
00:02:12.960 be the beautiful ones we are supposed to be the good looking ones that is not men's job but yet
00:02:20.160 women the first gut reaction well what if he gets fat what if he gets obese no the equivalent would be 0.99
00:02:26.800 what if he goes broke and stops working and refuses to work i don't say men just leave your
00:02:32.800 wives immediately but it's like if a woman refuses to lose weight what is a man supposed to do
00:02:40.640 anyway so the next the next the next clip um so this was overweight therapy in the 1970s
00:02:51.520 so as you've seen the body positivity movement has been going forward it's been doing really well
00:03:00.160 all these women have been saying i'm beautiful at any size and i wonder what was it like in the 70s roll
00:03:07.680 the clip overweight people tend to be dishonest inconsistent and irresponsible how often have we
00:03:16.000 said or heard people say i don't know why i can't lose weight i hardly eat a thing or i was nervous and
00:03:23.440 upset i just couldn't help myself all kinds of alibis and excuses our sessions together tend to debunk
00:03:32.320 these excuses and instead focus on behavioral consistency control and commitment with an emphasis
00:03:39.760 on action okay what are you going to try um you've heard a lot of people talking about state where you
00:03:45.120 going to try all right well i'm going to go on the quick weight loss diet and you know that's where
00:03:50.080 you eat water that's what i'll do i think you've been sitting around karen waiting for something to
00:03:54.480 happen to you that'll never happen you've got to make it happen yeah losing weights work i mean
00:03:59.920 it's not easy the only way you can do it just you can't don't even get exercise i mean it just
00:04:04.160 doesn't oh i want to lose weight it just won't come off that way you just can't lose weight by not
00:04:10.080 doing anything it's hard we had a turkey dinner for our family on um on saturday and then i went out
00:04:17.840 to the a movie and i just forgot that whole day that i was on a diet i just put it right out of my
00:04:23.360 mind i know because what we're doing is is an occupation not just a hobby it is this is a whole
00:04:28.720 way of life that we're building for ourselves at times i felt like well why do i have to lose weight
00:04:34.880 you know people people look at me but it doesn't really bother them so why should it bother me that
00:04:42.400 i have to have a motivation this is part of our commitment action approach to weight control
00:04:47.680 the girls meet weekly in therapy sessions where behavioral change is emphasized 0.69
00:04:53.440 you see the difference now that's my question like what is kinder is it kind to just let these
00:05:00.320 chicks live in delusion they're dishonest they're dishonest people it's so true because that's what 1.00
00:05:09.520 they'll do they'll be like oh oh i just can't lose weight i can't i don't even eat that much it's like
00:05:17.760 well if you didn't eat that much you wouldn't be fat like i don't and this is the thing guys look
00:05:24.240 you know i'm addicted to my sugar coffee all right and it's a choice and i just cannot stand living in
00:05:34.000 delusion that is my biggest pet if fat people want to be fat i wish they would do it like not in front of
00:05:40.560 me right i mean but it's like they can live their life whatever but what i can't stand is pretending
00:05:50.160 they're not fat and saying that they don't eat a lot and acting like they can't lose weight when it's
00:05:57.680 really just a choice so that was in the 70s let's see how this has progressed today what is what is it
00:06:04.720 like now the only reason people admire bodybuilders and not obese people who have built their body with
00:06:11.840 eating huge amounts of food is because there's prejudice against fat people so bodybuilding could
00:06:16.800 benefit from including the non-competitive display of fat bodies alongside muscular ones that paper
00:06:22.960 just has an awful lot of silliness in it and i take that one quite personally because i don't
00:06:27.680 precisely have thin privilege myself for people who are trying to lose weight or trying to get healthy
00:06:33.120 this kind of activism going on in the background preventing them getting the right advice and the
00:06:38.160 right medical treatment is is i think it's going to be much more of a problem than is currently
00:06:42.480 recognized fat studies is one of the smaller and newer fields that is is really quite worrying
00:06:48.800 because it explicitly rejects that obesity is unhealthy and it puts pressure on medical authorities
00:06:55.120 not to advise people to lose weight a privilege is something that's like it sounds like something
00:07:00.720 just given to you but it's earned and this is the thing like the women are fatter today and they're 1.00
00:07:07.040 more delusional like one of the chicks in that fat acceptance group like she wasn't even big by 0.65
00:07:12.480 today's standards but back then they're like she's got a little gut we gotta send her to fat camp 1.00
00:07:18.800 immediately imagine i was thinking about this imagine if we could get like a pool of money that paid women 1.00
00:07:26.640 like a fat foundation that would pay women to lose weight i genuinely think i may start this okay because i i
00:07:36.400 think a lot of guys would donate to this group where they literally paid us to stop being fat i was like
00:07:47.520 solutions people