JustPearlyThings - June 08, 2023


Men CHEAT When Women Don't Give Them THIS @AuntyJenny


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13 minutes

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227.90242

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3,027

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315


Summary


Transcript

00:00:00.000 It is only one side to the story.
00:00:02.100 We got a $50 super chat and they want auntie to say,
00:00:05.900 tell us how to keep a man, auntie.
00:00:10.640 She had some stuff we could all learn from.
00:00:15.240 Just say, listen to him and make him the head to keep it simple.
00:00:20.560 No, no, no. What did you say last time?
00:00:22.260 I said, well, empty is...
00:00:25.060 Fill his belly and empty his sack regularly every day as much as possible.
00:00:33.200 What are you...
00:00:35.000 Is that where they're here?
00:00:36.100 Yeah, they...
00:00:37.600 Fill their bellies and empty their sacks.
00:00:41.100 All men will be happy.
00:00:46.620 No, no, no. She got into more detail last time.
00:00:50.020 Oh, yeah. No, I just think.
00:00:54.120 I don't know.
00:00:55.680 I just think that the traditional women,
00:00:58.160 they always had sex all the time.
00:01:00.920 Hence all the children and the happy men.
00:01:03.520 You know, they just didn't stay at home.
00:01:06.220 They just worked really hard.
00:01:08.460 Sometimes modern women just don't like to give their husbands
00:01:11.060 lots and lots and lots and lots and lots of...
00:01:13.020 Most modern women don't like sex.
00:01:15.460 How long has your relationship been?
00:01:18.440 32 years and we're still having sex regular.
00:01:21.580 Yes, auntie. Regular.
00:01:24.120 And not no old people sex either.
00:01:27.660 Right? Regular.
00:01:28.860 What do you say to girls that say they're tired?
00:01:31.860 Too tired for what?
00:01:33.560 Too tired for what?
00:01:34.260 I'm never tired.
00:01:35.660 I'm never tired.
00:01:36.820 I drove 135 miles just to have sex with him.
00:01:41.540 That's how good it is.
00:01:42.780 Because he wanted to.
00:01:44.240 And he said to me, you're up for it.
00:01:45.460 And I said, yep, I'm in the car.
00:01:47.080 And there I was.
00:01:48.040 How many modern women would do that?
00:01:49.880 And then when I'd finish, you went to work and then I went back home.
00:01:53.340 What do you say to women that say they can't do it every day?
00:01:59.480 Just don't put on your makeup and you'll find time.
00:02:02.600 Because they always find time to put on makeup, but they ain't going to five time for like...
00:02:06.180 How long does it take to put on makeup?
00:02:08.180 How long does it take to have sex?
00:02:09.420 What, five, ten minutes?
00:02:10.260 What about when they're pregnant?
00:02:14.900 That's the best sex.
00:02:16.480 That is the best sex when you're pregnant.
00:02:18.040 I think it depends on how your pregnancy is going.
00:02:19.900 Yes.
00:02:20.280 If you're really ill and you're on bed rest, you can't do it.
00:02:22.720 Obviously, if you're sick, that's an exception.
00:02:25.480 I'm not going to say that the man's going to say, hey, you're sick, let's have sex.
00:02:28.600 And you're going to say, no, he's going to say, because we've got...
00:02:30.520 I'm talking about every day, in general, the majority of the people.
00:02:34.880 What about a headache?
00:02:36.040 What about a headache?
00:02:37.120 That is the biggest lie.
00:02:38.360 After that last show that I was on here, right?
00:02:41.380 The biggest lie gets rid of a headache.
00:02:42.800 It does.
00:02:42.960 No, as in the biggest lie that women say is, oh, I'm part tonight, I have a headache.
00:02:46.980 Well, then men should know that sex gets rid of a headache.
00:02:49.600 Sex relieves pain.
00:02:51.120 Yeah, so you would accept that.
00:02:52.940 You see, there's a lady, and she confirms it.
00:02:55.720 Aunty, I have a question.
00:02:56.900 I'm not saying it's me, but how about for the women that don't enjoy it or like sex?
00:03:00.720 Well, then don't have a man.
00:03:03.080 Or allow your man to go and find a woman.
00:03:05.100 If you want to be a housewife without sex, allow him to step out and have sex.
00:03:09.140 Because you can't just get...
00:03:10.340 You can't tie down a man and then once you put the ring on your finger, then say,
00:03:13.180 sorry, I don't like it no more.
00:03:14.280 But if you turn around and say, sorry, I don't like you no more.
00:03:17.300 That's a lot of rubbish.
00:03:18.400 Every woman ain't having sex with you, leave her.
00:03:21.120 What if sex isn't like the main thing in a relationship?
00:03:24.720 What?
00:03:25.260 What kind of relationship is that?
00:03:26.580 It's not the main thing, but it's extremely important.
00:03:29.240 You need to be connected on a deeper level.
00:03:30.340 Listen, right, after your children, it's sex with your man.
00:03:32.900 Okay.
00:03:33.280 Yeah, you need sex to be healthy.
00:03:34.940 What if the guy doesn't want to have sex with the girl?
00:03:37.140 Oh my gosh.
00:03:37.720 Well, then he's getting...
00:03:38.560 He's dead, isn't he?
00:03:39.320 He can't be alive.
00:03:40.340 He's got to be dead.
00:03:41.420 He's got to be dead.
00:03:42.760 He can't be alive.
00:03:43.700 He's got to be a corpse.
00:03:44.780 I feel like women have a higher sex drive anyway, naturally.
00:03:47.240 So why do they keep on pretending like they don't and don't free it up more often?
00:03:50.400 I don't know.
00:03:50.960 That's not me, though.
00:03:51.660 That's my issue.
00:03:53.080 I mean, because the men aren't satisfying the women.
00:03:54.560 That's why they come up with excuses.
00:03:56.380 Oh, please.
00:03:57.020 When you find the right guy that actually doesn't want to need to do...
00:03:59.240 How can you say that a man is not satisfying you when people have opened their legs and
00:04:04.020 you won't say to the man, men need tips sometimes.
00:04:06.620 Help them out.
00:04:07.800 As I say, help out a brother.
00:04:08.700 Yeah, but...
00:04:09.220 Do you know what I mean?
00:04:09.760 The men don't always know what they're doing.
00:04:11.640 What, the women don't always know what they're doing?
00:04:13.680 No, the men don't always know what the women is.
00:04:14.960 So the women need to help them.
00:04:16.700 If you're having bad sex, it's the woman's fault because she knows her body.
00:04:21.000 The man knows it's just all hanging out.
00:04:22.400 He can bang it against them.
00:04:23.440 He can get an ard on.
00:04:24.340 Do you know what I mean?
00:04:24.980 But the women know what they like.
00:04:26.360 So as far as...
00:04:26.900 Not baggy, but you know what I mean.
00:04:28.040 But the women, they know what they want.
00:04:32.560 It's more internal.
00:04:33.480 You know what I mean?
00:04:33.820 There's more bits and pieces to fiddle around with.
00:04:35.660 Help out the man.
00:04:36.520 You need to teach him and not to do what you like.
00:04:38.980 If it's bad sex, it's the woman's fault.
00:04:40.480 But even guys can be like, like, guys don't like certain things.
00:04:43.400 So as a guy, you tell the woman...
00:04:44.620 It's simple to make a guy not, bruv.
00:04:46.420 No, yeah, obviously.
00:04:47.620 But I think the best thing is for both of you to explore what you like.
00:04:53.020 And tighten your pelvic floors, women.
00:04:54.920 Tighten your pelvic floors.
00:04:56.220 Get the grip in there.
00:04:57.400 Explore your life.
00:04:58.700 I'm just not...
00:04:59.940 Explain to each other what you like and what makes you happy.
00:05:03.320 And then sex will be great.
00:05:04.540 There's nothing stopping it.
00:05:05.740 The only person stopping it is you by not saying anything.
00:05:08.040 That's right.
00:05:08.380 The only person that can stop you from having fun.
00:05:10.480 Is you.
00:05:11.180 So, auntie, is this your first relationship?
00:05:14.200 No.
00:05:15.020 It's the longest though because it's the most sexiest.
00:05:17.260 Okay.
00:05:18.160 So what happened with your previous relationship?
00:05:20.220 Like, why did they break up or end or...
00:05:21.960 She told the two to cheat.
00:05:23.140 Yeah, she said the bus driver.
00:05:24.960 But this one, yeah, if they cheat, if they're abusive.
00:05:27.740 But this one's a lifer.
00:05:29.800 So do you feel like women are to blame if a man cheats?
00:05:32.580 No.
00:05:33.200 I don't think the women are to blame if a man cheats.
00:05:34.900 Because I felt women are to blame if they keep on staying with the man and then complaining that he cheats.
00:05:39.140 If a man cheats, he don't like it, get rid of him.
00:05:41.800 If you stay with him and he continues cheating, shut up about it.
00:05:45.080 So if, um, would a man cheat because you were offering him good sex?
00:05:49.040 Yes, a man would cheat if he wants to cheat.
00:05:52.080 I've just found one that doesn't.
00:05:53.480 No matter what, you do.
00:05:54.260 I'm just found one that doesn't.
00:05:55.540 There's literally nothing you can do to stop them.
00:05:57.460 No, but I've found one that doesn't.
00:05:58.840 They're the rarity, but they're out there.
00:06:00.260 So if you were, like, just say the traditional good woman, why did the man cheat or what happened?
00:06:06.500 That's a traditional woman.
00:06:07.460 I've got nothing to do with his dick.
00:06:08.800 He does what he likes with it.
00:06:10.840 As a traditional woman, how can I say, the men will tell you it doesn't matter.
00:06:16.080 It's not, I didn't take it personal.
00:06:17.700 It's not about, oh, they're in love with this woman.
00:06:20.040 That's what, it's just like, as I heard a young man say, they've got a nut to bust and they did.
00:06:25.060 That's it.
00:06:25.460 But why would he not bust it with you?
00:06:27.220 Maybe you weren't there at the time.
00:06:28.740 You could have been at work.
00:06:29.460 She was hot and there.
00:06:30.940 She was hot and available.
00:06:32.640 That's what I'm saying.
00:06:33.460 You were there, right?
00:06:34.420 Like Eddie was saying earlier, sex is different for guys than it is for girls.
00:06:37.860 We, not all girls, some girls can just have sex, but most girls have an emotional level to it,
00:06:42.940 whereas guys can just bust a nut to anybody.
00:06:44.940 But did you notice that?
00:06:45.580 It doesn't matter whether they're your girlfriend or not.
00:06:48.980 I didn't take it personally when they cheated on me, because shit happens.
00:06:51.780 If he's going to cheat, he's going to cheat.
00:06:53.360 There's nothing you can do to stop him.
00:06:54.460 And often the guys in the cheat of a guy that never look as good as his main girls are.
00:06:57.660 That's how you know.
00:06:58.620 That's how you know a brother's a dog.
00:07:01.040 When this girl's not, it's like, cool.
00:07:02.440 If the girl's nicer, then you can kind of validate, all right, cool, it makes sense.
00:07:06.100 But more time, it's just, she was there, right place, right time, right circumstances, and shit went left.
00:07:11.400 I'm not advocating for it.
00:07:12.720 I'm not advocating for it.
00:07:14.720 Like I said, I say, modern day men need discipline.
00:07:17.540 Do boys ever look back and think, oh, you know what?
00:07:19.960 My girl's actually really pretty.
00:07:21.360 Why did I cheat with this ugly girl?
00:07:22.720 Of course.
00:07:23.120 As soon as they bust a nut, they think that straight away.
00:07:25.100 I thought it's not clarity.
00:07:26.100 How do boys even get hard over that girl?
00:07:29.000 A man who busts a nut and then take you on holiday.
00:07:31.220 That's how you know it's a mad thing.
00:07:32.460 He's not buying your bare shit.
00:07:35.100 That's how much he loves you.
00:07:36.920 That's how much he loves you.
00:07:38.260 Because as soon as he busts that nut, he's like, do you know what?
00:07:40.720 I miss my babes.
00:07:42.240 Oh, true love.
00:07:43.520 True love.
00:07:44.560 It's the worst thing when you realize you have to worry about ugly girls, too.
00:07:47.680 You're like, I'm fine.
00:07:50.140 But like Carl said, women don't like 8% of men.
00:07:53.480 Men don't have that standard.
00:07:55.040 They just...
00:07:55.400 They like 50.
00:07:56.500 They swipe right on dating apps around 50% of the time.
00:07:59.060 Yeah, they would probably just do that.
00:08:00.360 That's swiping.
00:08:01.340 But if the woman's in front of them, that goes up to 80, 90%.
00:08:04.960 Auntie, what did you say earlier?
00:08:07.620 You said if the guy turns the girl down for sex, he should be dead?
00:08:11.940 Or she'll kill him?
00:08:13.080 Yeah, but no, I mean...
00:08:14.080 Okay, go, go, go.
00:08:14.700 I wouldn't...
00:08:16.040 There's got to be something wrong with the girl,
00:08:17.240 because I can't see no man turning down a woman.
00:08:18.960 That's why I said he must be like a corpse.
00:08:20.560 He himself must be dead.
00:08:22.320 Nah, I don't disagree with that.
00:08:23.360 It's got to be something that's...
00:08:26.500 Maybe it's a...
00:08:27.520 She smell, I don't know.
00:08:28.900 Maybe it's...
00:08:29.480 I don't know.
00:08:30.900 Maybe he might add stamina.
00:08:32.480 Maybe he's to bleed.
00:08:33.560 Nah, nah, nah.
00:08:34.320 Nah, nah.
00:08:34.840 This is where I have to come in, because...
00:08:36.320 All right, cool.
00:08:37.460 I believe fundamentally that men need to learn sexual discipline, yeah?
00:08:40.820 To not be a dog in doggy situation.
00:08:43.820 So for me personally, I took a year out of sex
00:08:45.740 to learn sexual discipline,
00:08:47.200 just so I could have the power to say no when the time was right.
00:08:50.080 So there is times when I've got a girl in bed,
00:08:53.020 and she said, look, I'm going to come over,
00:08:55.300 we're going to watch a movie.
00:08:56.760 Before, I probably would have tried to make a move.
00:08:58.580 Now we're genuinely just going to watch a movie,
00:09:00.180 because I've learned sexual discipline.
00:09:01.600 I think that's important.
00:09:02.380 But not every guy has been able to raise a small minority.
00:09:06.100 I got invited onto a date,
00:09:08.880 and they said, where do you want to go?
00:09:09.840 And I said, I want to go to the movies.
00:09:11.760 And because I don't have people in front of me,
00:09:14.180 so I just chose the back row.
00:09:16.740 Me not thinking now, we're older people, back row.
00:09:20.460 I was like, what are you talking about?
00:09:22.260 What are you doing?
00:09:23.200 Because I thought, I said, listen, right,
00:09:24.640 I want to come to watch the movie.
00:09:26.240 That's what I'm going to do.
00:09:27.020 I want to watch the movie.
00:09:28.340 It's about the movie.
00:09:29.140 I said, I've got a house there if I want to go back to.
00:09:31.260 But no, all this Netflix and chill, no.
00:09:33.760 No, that's what I'm saying.
00:09:34.700 So sexual discipline for a man is important
00:09:36.320 to mitigate those situations.
00:09:38.020 For both, for both.
00:09:39.680 Was that with your partner at the cinema?
00:09:40.740 No, it was a friend.
00:09:42.240 It was just a date.
00:09:43.040 Supposed to be a date.
00:09:43.720 Okay.
00:09:44.380 Like an old-fashioned date.
00:09:46.060 Like back in...
00:09:46.660 Years ago.
00:09:47.280 An old-fashioned date.
00:09:48.120 32 years ago.
00:09:48.880 You're trying to check me?
00:09:49.760 No, no, no.
00:09:50.140 I'm just asking you.
00:09:51.920 You're trying to check me?
00:09:52.740 I'm 54 years old.
00:09:55.320 No, no, no.
00:09:55.660 You're trying to check me?
00:09:56.900 My son's 36.
00:09:57.960 What else you want to know?
00:09:58.740 No, I'm saying was this date
00:10:00.060 before you met your this partner?
00:10:02.480 Yes.
00:10:02.960 Okay, so this was when you were dating...
00:10:04.600 And what have I said to you
00:10:05.420 that it was a date when I had my partner?
00:10:07.620 No, I'm just asking.
00:10:09.360 Okay then.
00:10:10.060 No, I'm just asking.
00:10:10.960 Does it make a difference?
00:10:12.280 No, not at all.
00:10:12.880 It should though, shouldn't it?
00:10:13.780 Think about it.
00:10:14.520 It should.
00:10:15.760 It should.
00:10:16.780 No, I'm just asking.
00:10:17.580 No, but you're asking for a stupid reason
00:10:19.020 because it should.
00:10:19.800 No, I'm asking.
00:10:20.300 Because you said...
00:10:20.860 It doesn't make no difference.
00:10:21.660 No, because you said,
00:10:22.300 um, old people
00:10:23.200 because obviously I'm trying to say
00:10:24.680 because you said something
00:10:26.020 about old people back in the school.
00:10:26.740 My son's 36
00:10:27.700 so I've got to say that, innit?
00:10:29.260 No, no, but I just thought
00:10:30.580 that you went like
00:10:31.440 obviously if you went in your
00:10:32.480 even early 20s
00:10:33.440 you're not old.
00:10:34.080 Do you get what I mean?
00:10:34.720 Yeah, yeah, yeah.
00:10:35.020 It's only because you said
00:10:35.700 oh, as old people
00:10:36.980 you know, you didn't know
00:10:37.600 what the back was.
00:10:38.680 So I thought
00:10:39.180 it was 20s not old.
00:10:40.700 Do you get what I mean?
00:10:41.380 That's what I was asking you.
00:10:42.780 Yeah, like no.
00:10:43.680 Would it make a difference?
00:10:44.620 You still not get what I'm saying.
00:10:46.340 It should make a difference.
00:10:47.400 It should make a difference.
00:10:48.300 Yeah, yeah, yeah.
00:10:48.740 Why are you asking the question?
00:10:49.820 Basically, the answer for you
00:10:51.300 shouldn't be either all.
00:10:51.800 Do you just want to check my numbers?
00:10:52.860 Like us old people
00:10:54.420 something you mentioned old.
00:10:55.260 No, what I'm saying is that
00:10:55.640 you're missing the point
00:10:56.600 because if I'm saying to you
00:10:58.560 that I'm in a relationship
00:10:59.460 and I've been on a date
00:11:00.380 you're not interested in that.
00:11:01.600 No, because you're saying
00:11:02.300 you're a traditional woman
00:11:02.940 so I know that's not the fact.
00:11:04.220 How can I be a traditional woman?
00:11:05.460 I'm not married
00:11:05.960 I'm having sex regular.
00:11:07.620 How's that traditional?
00:11:08.320 I thought you were traditional.
00:11:09.920 Sorry.
00:11:10.140 No, I can't be.
00:11:10.780 No, no, no, no, no.
00:11:11.540 Oh, okay, no, sorry.
00:11:12.900 Don't come for you
00:11:13.460 traditional at all.
00:11:14.520 I would not say that.
00:11:18.740 You're a traditional woman?
00:11:19.280 No, I'm not traditional.
00:11:20.600 I'm not married
00:11:21.260 how can I be traditional?
00:11:22.420 I'm having sex outside of marriage
00:11:23.860 how can I be traditional?
00:11:25.160 Okay, because when you were saying
00:11:26.240 Because traditional means
00:11:27.440 that you have sex
00:11:28.960 in a marriage
00:11:29.900 and that you're married.
00:11:31.140 That's traditional.
00:11:31.940 So don't get confused.
00:11:33.080 You can behave traditional.
00:11:34.780 I might behave traditional
00:11:36.400 but I'm not traditional.
00:11:37.880 Sorry, my apologies.
00:11:38.280 And I'm not a hypocrite either.
00:11:39.680 No, my apologies
00:11:40.260 only because obviously
00:11:41.100 when you were saying
00:11:41.620 being a traditional woman is better
00:11:43.000 whatever I thought you were
00:11:44.160 No, no, no.
00:11:45.000 I was asking you
00:11:45.820 because when you said
00:11:46.840 about the modern and the traditional.
00:11:48.080 Okay, no, no.
00:11:48.680 Sorry, my apologies.
00:11:49.320 Because you stand the dance
00:11:50.280 of being traditional
00:11:51.060 because you're married.
00:11:52.360 But as far as I'm concerned
00:11:53.540 when you're not married
00:11:54.680 when you get divorced
00:11:55.620 and you move on
00:11:56.220 you're not traditional no more.
00:11:57.460 That's the difference
00:11:58.160 between you and me.
00:11:59.500 You've got a chance
00:12:00.240 to be traditional
00:12:00.920 because you've got a ring.
00:12:02.720 If you get divorced now
00:12:03.740 in my view
00:12:04.220 you're not traditional anymore
00:12:05.200 because you're divorced.
00:12:06.660 So between you and me
00:12:07.520 I would say
00:12:08.240 traditional values
00:12:09.620 doesn't make you traditional.
00:12:11.700 Can you be traditional again
00:12:12.900 even after a divorce
00:12:14.480 if you get married again
00:12:15.460 will you then be a traditional woman?
00:12:16.460 Traditional is you're a virgin
00:12:18.220 and then you get married.
00:12:19.440 Okay.
00:12:19.680 That's that's traditional.
00:12:20.920 If you didn't do that
00:12:21.660 you're not traditional.
00:12:22.620 Okay.
00:12:23.080 I'm not traditional.
00:12:23.940 I have traditional values
00:12:25.140 as in I prefer like old school.
00:12:27.500 I don't like all you know
00:12:28.500 the dating apps
00:12:29.280 and stuff like that.
00:12:30.020 I personally don't do them
00:12:31.220 but I wouldn't be able to say
00:12:32.600 I am traditional
00:12:33.760 because I've had sex
00:12:35.380 out of wedlock.
00:12:36.120 I've had kids out of wedlock.
00:12:37.540 You know, I'm not with the dad.
00:12:39.000 I am I have a very modern life
00:12:41.780 but I just deep down
00:12:43.260 it's when it comes to love
00:12:44.920 and stuff like that
00:12:45.760 and values
00:12:46.340 it's you know
00:12:47.580 what our parents grew up with
00:12:48.840 or our grandparents.
00:12:49.560 You've got a traditional foundation.
00:12:49.920 Yeah, like you know
00:12:51.200 back in the 1900s
00:12:52.800 whatever.
00:12:53.720 Like 1940s, 1950s
00:12:57.520 back in them days
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