JustPearlyThings - Men don't want to 'handle' women

00:00:00.000 to working a job can i ask you a question because i feel like we talk a lot about hoes we talk about 0.95

00:00:04.320 a lot of the extreme there's a lot of gray matter in the middle sure where a lot of women kind of 1.00

00:00:07.920 get lost yep for example i think that one of the issues sometimes that i hear a lot about and i

00:00:15.440 personally may say i feel it sometimes is that when you're also a quite educated woman intellectual

00:00:22.560 intelligent whatever smart a lot of the time naturally you speak in a way that stands out

00:00:26.720 from other people right and i find that a lot of the time that kind of intimidates some of the

00:00:33.840 mandem where they start thinking this girl is a bit too much now it is not my fault i'm smart it's not

00:00:38.720 my fault i can put one and one together very nicely very quickly what kind of man is going to handle

00:00:45.840 this woman laughs like i don't speak for long ago got three degrees now what is she trying to say

00:00:50.240 you're not smart it's okay i think i do for reasons so please sir can you help me out i'm trying to find

00:00:55.280 the husband the kind of beast that can handle a woman like me well well this is well this is

00:01:00.560 another point right and and i'm only answering generally right because this is the first time

00:01:05.360 i've met all of you ladies you've all been very polite to me you've all been very nice i'm just

00:01:08.000 talking generally and i'm going to answer it based on your last sentence your last sentence was handle

00:01:12.320 a woman like me let's let's look at the average man's life like i just discussed earlier how difficult

00:01:18.080 it is how competitive he has to be and how many problems he has to fix do you think he wants to handle

00:01:22.880 any woman okay so like the idea of any degree of problem it's the straw that breaks the camel's back 1.00

00:01:29.920 like the the point of the point of having a woman as a man for me at least is for her to be my peace

00:01:35.840 and quiet i have my life is stress you see me i'm rolling around with fucking security teams and i got 0.99

00:01:41.600 problems and they're after me and i i'm when i come home to my chick the last thing i want to do is have

00:01:47.360 to handle anything i want her to sit the down and her make me happy she used to be my positive energy 1.00

00:01:53.360 she's my sunshine in the rainstorm okay so you're talking about him handle you i don't know i can't

00:01:58.880 answer the question exactly but if you're sitting there constantly arguing over small points or

00:02:03.360 correcting him or that he's probably thinking this is about i don't have the energy to for another fight

00:02:07.360 okay so now let me add extra context what i mean as well so obviously submission is something that

00:02:12.720 people talk about a lot for me i'm a logical person i believe and i submit with logic i don't submit

00:02:19.360 by default because there's a level of respect that i believe i need to have yes to be able to submit

00:02:24.800 obviously i go around and i disrespect all men and everything but i find that my level of

00:02:31.920 thought process a lot of the times it makes it hard no so i don't i know what you're trying to say

00:02:39.040 yeah thank you no but you need to find a man you truly respect to submit to him and i completely

00:02:43.200 respect that and that's the same with that's the same with 99 of women like you you're never going 1.00

00:02:47.200 to submit to a man you don't respect and and respect is ultimately important because you're not

00:02:51.600 going to sleep with a man you don't respect you're not going to be attracted to a man you don't respect

00:02:55.120 respect is the bottom line of it and the man has a job to do he has a duty to do to be worthy of respect

00:03:00.000 but this all goes back into a very interesting point some of the points i've kind of mentioned earlier

00:03:04.640 if i was a woman if i was a chick the chance of me ending up in a relationship with a man i don't

00:03:10.080 respect is zero percent i don't understand how you girls end up well i do understand how you girls end 1.00

00:03:14.240 up here you end up here because of feminism promiscuity promises that running around taking 1.00

00:03:18.720 dick is fine dumb shit stupid decisions i'm independent so it doesn't matter that he's a dummy 0.99

00:03:23.680 bunch of garbage when you should be waking up going you know what i'm going to be extremely selective

00:03:28.560 and i'm going to take my time and be very very smart because you're the gatekeeper by the time

00:03:32.960 you're in a relationship with somebody you should have immense respect for that man absolute immense

00:03:36.720 respect you shouldn't be able to get there any other way the only reason you've got there is

00:03:40.640 because you've been tricked by society and lied to and told a bunch of fucking bullshit so so you're 0.97

00:03:45.520 talking about submission and respect yeah it'll come when you meet the right man naturally and this

00:03:49.840 is another point i make because i have a lot of men message me i trust guys please understand the

00:03:53.680 most googled man on the planet i have a hundred thousand emails a day from people and i get dudes email me

00:03:59.440 how do i get my woman to submit and i don't reply to i can't reply to all the emails but i if i ever

00:04:03.360 read them i'm like bro you're a fucking dork why would she reply to you why would she submit to you 0.99

00:04:08.880 you're a fucking nerd that's the truth i'm not out here saying submit to all men men are the boss i'm 0.97

00:04:15.040 saying listen there's natural balance in the universe when you meet a g i've never had a truck i've 0.74

00:04:21.120 never had trouble with a woman obeying me she just wants to it's natural for our dynamic if she didn't 0.94

00:04:28.000 want to obey me we wouldn't even get to the point of a relationship if she didn't feel like she

00:04:31.840 wanted to listen to me we would have never got to where we want to get it just doesn't work that

00:04:35.520 only happens when the female is giving up sex too easy and the dude's just picking up easy 1.00

00:04:39.200 pussy and they end up in some relationship they don't even like each other that's dumb 0.98

00:04:42.320 that's dumb right but i don't have any of these problems in my life and if you're a dude at home

00:04:46.640 and you're watching this and you go i want my woman to submit and she doesn't guess what she 1.00

00:04:50.160 doesn't respect you and guess whose fault that is a lot of the time your fault that is your fault as a man

00:04:55.680 yes it is yes no no it is yes no no you guys need to damn here tell him but it's not blaming men

00:05:03.280 and women because everyone has a problem but but then there's also men who are worthy of respect to

00:05:06.960 women refuse to respect because of society so there's two there's two sides to it right but 1.00

00:05:12.160 a lot of it is if you're a capable enough man and you're brilliant enough then the female has no choice 1.00

00:05:17.120 but it's very interesting this goes back into a point i made earlier about how important it is for

00:05:21.680 us men to find women who we don't believe have had a lot of life experience and look like they are

00:05:25.840 because i got attacked i'm gonna make this point right now i got attacked when the matrix attacked

00:05:29.440 me and lied about me they said that men are interested in women who are younger because

00:05:34.000 they're more programmable and that they're trying to make out that i'm making out that men are out

00:05:37.600 here trying to get women and do bad things to them no what i'm saying is if you find a woman who's

00:05:42.880 younger and been through less things less trauma less relationships less headache she's lived less life

00:05:48.720 your ideals if you ask any woman who loves her man what's your favorite song his favorite song who do you

00:05:54.320 vote for who he votes for what's your favorite car his car that that's how what happens when a woman 1.00

00:05:58.720 loves a man and that makes the man feel good right if she's been through too much shit then that's a

00:06:02.880 lot harder to pull off so that that that that that link is very important for men and women but um so

00:06:09.360 yeah the matrix attacked me with that but it's very very interesting you have to understand all these

00:06:12.560 small sub dynamics and why things are happening and why the world is the way it is and the baseline of

00:06:17.760 it is is that everything's men are acting like men and women are acting like women and it's all messed

00:06:22.480 up oh yeah so what about like your own autonomy and like just like you can your favorite car is

00:06:28.320 your favorite car my favorite car is my favorite car like why does it have to i guess that's where

00:06:31.920 i'm confused yeah why does it have to be like that okay yeah and that's a good point right i understand

00:06:37.200 that completely but i'll give you an example i'll talk from personal experience because it makes it easy

00:06:40.560 for me i have a bunch of cars i love cars i have 32 cars my favorite car is x i pick up a chick this is my

00:06:46.000 that uh what's your favorite car this one i like that one i'm like all right cool whatever no big

00:06:49.760 deal but the agreeableness is ultra attractive it depends what the woman wants to do right if i was 1.00

00:06:56.160 a woman and let's say let's say i'm 22 years old and i meet a billionaire and it's my goal to marry

00:07:00.560 this man and i go to his house and i say wow you have so many cars what's your favorite car this one

00:07:05.280 really i thought that one too it looks so good why that one because this is this oh really okay i'll try

00:07:10.160 and remember that that's how you get the dude right you don't get the dude by going well that one is

00:07:14.400 a better color you're a dickhead it's it's it may be small things it may be tiny things but men are 0.87

00:07:21.280 ultra interested in things like agreeableness so we're ultra interested in the idea of a woman absorbing

00:07:26.960 our worldviews we're ultra interested we are that's what we're looking for what is that taking away from

00:07:31.360 the woman's identity wait what if you say she doesn't like the car no no no why should she agree 0.98

00:07:36.240 to your car that she doesn't she doesn't why do you want to be with someone she doesn't know who 1.00

00:07:40.800 they are can i say oh i'm telling you what the man wants this is my favorite but i like yours too

00:07:46.000 yours is quite nice you know actually now that i'm looking at it it's quite good but i like this one

00:07:49.680 but i like that one as well you sound like you want a slave is that fine that's just that's just not

00:07:54.800 going against me it's just being nice it's not it doesn't cost you much men don't want a girl that's 1.00

00:08:00.080 nagging on them for the smallest things it's like why are you giving a guy a headache i'm talking

00:08:14.240 about i am talking about how as a female to be as attractive as possible to men now i'm not saying

00:08:20.480 you can't get a man if you say another car i'm saying how do you be as attractive as possible

00:08:25.600 because you also about it because you also don't understand how men think it's different if you come

00:08:28.960 to my house and choose to like another one of my cars but what if i only have one car and now you

00:08:34.160 say well no i'll pick you up my bmw oh yeah it's nice i prefer mercedes you know a man thinks the

00:08:38.960 second you say that who picked you up in a merc that's the first thing it goes to his mind

00:08:43.280 who how do you know about mercedes what if you can buy your own mercedes that's not what that's

00:08:48.160 what crosses the man's mind i'm telling you how men think but then that's why and that's why

00:08:52.240 what percent what percent of women can really afford their own mercedes 1.00

00:08:57.280 especially when you go no no no guys guys guys guys guys guys guys guys guys guys guys guys

00:09:03.280 i said okay i said okay okay i'm really i'm really happy for you i'm really happy for you i said what

00:09:11.040 but the whole point is that what percent of women even earn that much it's not a high percentage 0.99

00:09:29.360 so when a guy hears that you've been in this car and that car in that car his automatic assumption

00:09:36.800 is that you're an average girl and that foolishness and that and that you've been with a bunch of guys

00:09:40.480 to get to that point i i've had a lot of experiences because of my dad because my dad's very successful

00:09:45.520 but i've been in situations where i've said like oh i did this i did this i did this and they think

00:09:49.680 it's with a guy but it's with my dad because most guys assume that you were an average person

00:09:54.720 and that's something that's demeaning a woman she can't afford a lot it's not it's not demeaning a

00:10:01.120 woman it's it's looking at a balance of probabilities if i if i meet an average guy i assume he

00:10:05.920 makes average money i i think it's just it's based on wait wait wait wait it's based on a

00:10:13.200 balance of probabilities can i just say something that it's all about making a man feel like he

00:10:19.040 everybody says oh he's a top g but it's like if your man put up a light fitting and you're standing

00:10:25.840 and watching the part of the light fitting are you denalva you're they're watching a man put a light

00:10:29.520 fitting what would you say while he's putting up on how would you react i'd be like you're probably

00:10:33.680 doing it wrong but i'll let you finish and then i'll fix it right all right then but hang on a

00:10:37.440 minute and how would you act if your man was putting up the light fitting i appreciate you

00:10:53.520 my man put up a light fitting i was like wow he got it all out it was all in boxes he got his toolbox

00:10:58.720 he was up there on the ladder whatever you want me to hand you i was like oh my god you're stripping

00:11:02.640 wires oh my god then he said oh turn when it finished i was like it works that's what he's

00:11:08.480 talking about i agree that is what he's talking about when he's talking about the car he's not

00:11:12.080 saying you can get your own car he's saying make the man feel like he's doing something make you feel

00:11:16.400 appreciated like act like a child no like you know and that's what he's saying he's not saying that

00:11:21.520 oh yeah you don't like that car it's like my man got a car it's like oh my god it's got heated seats

00:11:26.720 i think it's got to be a balance though like yeah i agree i i like to make my man feel good

00:11:35.520 when my man dresses up i'm like girl you look so fine like i like to make my man feel good but

00:11:40.480 he has to do that to me as well listen right he has to offer me that i listen to mr tate right

00:11:45.280 say about let me put for instance there's an artist that i like my man likes it too

00:11:50.160 coveted just sort of like finished i've got two free tickets to go to the to go my man said to

00:11:57.200 me you're not going what would you do i'm going what would you do why why why am i not going it

00:12:04.800 doesn't matter he said to you because that's just the logical submission i know but the whole the

00:12:11.520 whole point is you pick someone that you respect enough to trust his judgment even when you even

00:12:15.920 when you disagree that's the whole point as many of you know i was just banned on tick tock and we

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JustPearlyThings - December 28, 2022

Men don't want to 'handle' women

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