JustPearlyThings - October 29, 2023


Men Shouldn't Get Married In 2023!

Hosted by
Hannah Pearl Davis
Mentioned
Paul Benjamin Andrews Andrew Tucker Carlson Aisha Curry Steph Curry Tom Brady
Pearl DESTROYS Fat Models Pearl Challenges Matt Walsh To A Debate!

Episode Stats


Length

8 minutes

Words per minute

157.36

Word count

1,289

Sentence count

95

Harmful content

Misogyny

11

sentences flagged

Hate speech

10

sentences flagged


Summary

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In this episode, Tucker and I talk about why modern women deserve a better standard of living than their predecessors and why it s time for men to understand what they are signing up for when they choose a wife. We also talk about the recent study from the Pew Research Center that shows that women are more likely to get divorced after 40 years of marriage.

Transcript

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00:00:00.000 2023, a man gets a modern woman for a wife, not a traditional woman. And why do modern women 1.00
00:00:06.860 deserve child support, alimony, and automatic custody of the children? And you're talking
00:00:14.840 about women that have zero traditional skills, were not raised to be wives, are not loyal,
00:00:21.000 and really are addicted to social media. And my point about this is, why are we giving modern
00:00:28.920 women traditional treatment? Why do they deserve it? And so I decided to really think about this. 1.00
00:00:37.820 What is the ideal wife? The ideal wife is a virgin wife, right? What percent of women are virgins on 1.00
00:00:44.880 their wedding days? Four percent. They followed around 40-year marriages, 40-year marriages to see
00:00:52.260 what percent of them are still married after 40 years. And they actually found an increase in the
00:00:57.660 divorce rate. 67 percent. So a lot of the people that are not included in the current divorce rate
00:01:05.800 actually just haven't divorced yet. That's why I sort of poke fun at these people that think they're
00:01:14.580 the CEO of marriage because they had a couple kids and were married 10, maybe 15 years. Yeah. And,
00:01:21.240 you know, I'm sure the people that got divorced after 20 years, 30 years, and 40 years also felt
00:01:28.460 the same way at 10, 15 years. Now, I don't say this to be a doom and gloomer, but we have to be honest
00:01:35.700 about the realities of marriage. So this guy, Paul Benjamin, actually, because a lot of times what the
00:01:43.840 trad cons will do will say, hey, you guys are just dooming gloomers and you're not reading the right
00:01:51.820 stats. And this is why I say there can be a stat made up to say anything. So Paul Benjamin weighs in
00:01:59.140 and says, learn how research works before you make a claim, a claim off of research with low samples
00:02:04.600 by religions. Example, a nine percent divorce rate for Orthodox Christians is out of 182 people.
00:02:11.240 When you work with larger numbers and work backwards, religious beliefs among divorced,
00:02:16.640 70 percent of those divorced are religious. So that flies in the face of the just find a good
00:02:23.960 woman argument. And my belief is when you have an incentive structure that rewards women for being 0.96
00:02:30.240 bad, religious women will take it, non-religious women will take it. And no, you cannot just pray away 1.00
00:02:36.180 that risk. Sorry, guys. The other argument I keep getting is, well, a true alpha can't be divorced.
00:02:45.020 And I just and, you know, couples that pray out every single day don't get divorced. And I thought
00:02:51.080 to myself, I'm like, OK, so you're selling a guy that he's got to pray every single day with his wife
00:02:57.740 for eternity to not get divorced. Now, I'm not saying this is a bad thing, but I'm I'm just asking,
00:03:07.520 like, is this going to is this going to be a good sell to the average American man? And then you could
00:03:14.660 say, well, well, what about the religious men? Well, and I and I say, if you find I mean, Andrews,
00:03:21.920 you know, when I hear stories like Andrews, it really it makes my heart warm. I love hearing stories
00:03:26.980 like that. I think that's beautiful. I think that's amazing. And I absolutely would encourage
00:03:33.400 men to do what they think is best. And if they think that marrying their wife is what's best, 0.82
00:03:38.980 then sure. But what I am not for is not giving men informed consent. Men need to understand what
00:03:46.340 they're signing up for. And I really do believe that there is little evidence to suggest that women 0.97
00:03:52.640 will do the right thing when given power. I you know, women time and time again have done the 1.00
00:03:59.120 wrong thing when given power. And, you know, it's interesting because the other thing that I keep
00:04:04.240 hearing from all these trad cons as well, it's going to take so long for the divorce laws to change. 0.90
00:04:09.920 Just do it anyway. Well, and I thought to myself, well, the biggest media network who has more political
00:04:16.580 poll than the Daily Wire, I think they have more political poll than Fox News right now. I know,
00:04:22.420 I know, maybe maybe that's an overstatement, but Fox doesn't have Tucker Carlson. So when you have the
00:04:28.360 biggest political right wing media network saying, well, it's going to take too long, just sign up
00:04:35.200 anyway, get married. I'm like, well, and I'm not Andrew. Andrew didn't do that. But I think to myself,
00:04:41.520 well, okay. Imagine, imagine. All right. Imagine. Okay. Imagine. I tell you guys buy my product.
00:04:50.760 You know, I have sponsors and a lot of these episodes. Imagine I have a product and 5% and
00:04:57.140 and I'm going to use a super low number. So you guys can't argue with me. 5% of men die when they
00:05:05.040 take this pill. This is like a tummy, whatever, you know, you guys would be appalled at me.
00:05:11.040 For pushing that product. Would you not? And again, modern marriage is death to a lot of men. 0.92
00:05:18.520 The idea of another man raising their child is death to them. The idea of a woman taking their 1.00
00:05:24.000 money and spending it with her new boyfriend is also death to them. You know, really modern marriage 0.98
00:05:31.160 is a form of indentured servitude. Yes, because they are legally forced to have women rob them for 0.99
00:05:38.960 a lifetime or at least 20 years, which is a pretty long time. If you ask me and you would tell me that
00:05:47.680 I am irresponsible. Now, if I said, Hey guys, there's a 5% death rate and a 20% chance that this pill will
00:05:59.320 give you abs, you know, take it at your own risk. At least I gave the warning label and did not tell
00:06:07.480 you to take it without knowing the risks. And I really do believe that pushing marriage is a 0.92
00:06:12.980 fundamental misunderstanding of human nature. No man can be perfectly alpha at all times. And I can name
00:06:19.620 you man after man after man that was religious, that had the money, had the fame, was attractive,
00:06:27.380 had everything on paper. And then it just starts to become, and I really hate it. I cannot stand when
00:06:35.260 it just becomes a religious off. Now it's a, it's a, well, you just weren't religious enough. That's why
00:06:41.920 you got divorced. Really? Tom Brady. You don't think that man was religious and say, well, he just picked
00:06:54.300 the wrong woman. I mean, who's the right woman when I can, Ayesha Curry was Steph Curry's high school
00:07:03.320 Christian sweetheart who started off covered talking about, she, she's not a hoe. And now she's posting 1.00
00:07:10.240 nude on Instagram. If that happens to the richest, most successful men, what happens to the average
00:07:17.660 man in America? Where a lot of the men that say this are increasingly above average in intelligence,
00:07:25.520 wealth, and looks. We could just go by height. Most of them are above average in height. Most men will
00:07:31.700 never get the level of respect that you get from your wives. And no, being alpha, not, not every guy is
00:07:39.720 going to be alpha. But the truth of the matter is that women still would listen and respect average 0.90
00:07:47.300 men back in the day. They do not do that anymore. Social media has made us delusional. 70% of us are
00:07:53.380 overweight. And the truth of the matter is men don't want to get married because the juice is just not
00:07:59.020 worth the squeeze. And what trad cons will do is shame the men and say they're not real men if they
00:08:05.520 don't sign up for a system that pays you to financially ruin a man's life.