JustPearlyThings - Men Shouldn't Get Married In 2023!

00:00:00.000 2023, a man gets a modern woman for a wife, not a traditional woman. And why do modern women 1.00

00:00:06.860 deserve child support, alimony, and automatic custody of the children? And you're talking

00:00:14.840 about women that have zero traditional skills, were not raised to be wives, are not loyal,

00:00:21.000 and really are addicted to social media. And my point about this is, why are we giving modern

00:00:28.920 women traditional treatment? Why do they deserve it? And so I decided to really think about this. 1.00

00:00:37.820 What is the ideal wife? The ideal wife is a virgin wife, right? What percent of women are virgins on 1.00

00:00:44.880 their wedding days? Four percent. They followed around 40-year marriages, 40-year marriages to see

00:00:52.260 what percent of them are still married after 40 years. And they actually found an increase in the

00:00:57.660 divorce rate. 67 percent. So a lot of the people that are not included in the current divorce rate

00:01:05.800 actually just haven't divorced yet. That's why I sort of poke fun at these people that think they're

00:01:14.580 the CEO of marriage because they had a couple kids and were married 10, maybe 15 years. Yeah. And,

00:01:21.240 you know, I'm sure the people that got divorced after 20 years, 30 years, and 40 years also felt

00:01:28.460 the same way at 10, 15 years. Now, I don't say this to be a doom and gloomer, but we have to be honest

00:01:35.700 about the realities of marriage. So this guy, Paul Benjamin, actually, because a lot of times what the

00:01:43.840 trad cons will do will say, hey, you guys are just dooming gloomers and you're not reading the right

00:01:51.820 stats. And this is why I say there can be a stat made up to say anything. So Paul Benjamin weighs in

00:01:59.140 and says, learn how research works before you make a claim, a claim off of research with low samples

00:02:04.600 by religions. Example, a nine percent divorce rate for Orthodox Christians is out of 182 people.

00:02:11.240 When you work with larger numbers and work backwards, religious beliefs among divorced,

00:02:16.640 70 percent of those divorced are religious. So that flies in the face of the just find a good

00:02:23.960 woman argument. And my belief is when you have an incentive structure that rewards women for being 0.96

00:02:30.240 bad, religious women will take it, non-religious women will take it. And no, you cannot just pray away 1.00

00:02:36.180 that risk. Sorry, guys. The other argument I keep getting is, well, a true alpha can't be divorced.

00:02:45.020 And I just and, you know, couples that pray out every single day don't get divorced. And I thought

00:02:51.080 to myself, I'm like, OK, so you're selling a guy that he's got to pray every single day with his wife

00:02:57.740 for eternity to not get divorced. Now, I'm not saying this is a bad thing, but I'm I'm just asking,

00:03:07.520 like, is this going to is this going to be a good sell to the average American man? And then you could

00:03:14.660 say, well, well, what about the religious men? Well, and I and I say, if you find I mean, Andrews,

00:03:21.920 you know, when I hear stories like Andrews, it really it makes my heart warm. I love hearing stories

00:03:26.980 like that. I think that's beautiful. I think that's amazing. And I absolutely would encourage

00:03:33.400 men to do what they think is best. And if they think that marrying their wife is what's best, 0.82

00:03:38.980 then sure. But what I am not for is not giving men informed consent. Men need to understand what

00:03:46.340 they're signing up for. And I really do believe that there is little evidence to suggest that women 0.97

00:03:52.640 will do the right thing when given power. I you know, women time and time again have done the 1.00

00:03:59.120 wrong thing when given power. And, you know, it's interesting because the other thing that I keep

00:04:04.240 hearing from all these trad cons as well, it's going to take so long for the divorce laws to change. 0.90

00:04:09.920 Just do it anyway. Well, and I thought to myself, well, the biggest media network who has more political

00:04:16.580 poll than the Daily Wire, I think they have more political poll than Fox News right now. I know,

00:04:22.420 I know, maybe maybe that's an overstatement, but Fox doesn't have Tucker Carlson. So when you have the

00:04:28.360 biggest political right wing media network saying, well, it's going to take too long, just sign up

00:04:35.200 anyway, get married. I'm like, well, and I'm not Andrew. Andrew didn't do that. But I think to myself,

00:04:41.520 well, okay. Imagine, imagine. All right. Imagine. Okay. Imagine. I tell you guys buy my product.

00:04:50.760 You know, I have sponsors and a lot of these episodes. Imagine I have a product and 5% and

00:04:57.140 and I'm going to use a super low number. So you guys can't argue with me. 5% of men die when they

00:05:05.040 take this pill. This is like a tummy, whatever, you know, you guys would be appalled at me.

00:05:11.040 For pushing that product. Would you not? And again, modern marriage is death to a lot of men. 0.92

00:05:18.520 The idea of another man raising their child is death to them. The idea of a woman taking their 1.00

00:05:24.000 money and spending it with her new boyfriend is also death to them. You know, really modern marriage 0.98

00:05:31.160 is a form of indentured servitude. Yes, because they are legally forced to have women rob them for 0.99

00:05:38.960 a lifetime or at least 20 years, which is a pretty long time. If you ask me and you would tell me that

00:05:47.680 I am irresponsible. Now, if I said, Hey guys, there's a 5% death rate and a 20% chance that this pill will

00:05:59.320 give you abs, you know, take it at your own risk. At least I gave the warning label and did not tell

00:06:07.480 you to take it without knowing the risks. And I really do believe that pushing marriage is a 0.92

00:06:12.980 fundamental misunderstanding of human nature. No man can be perfectly alpha at all times. And I can name

00:06:19.620 you man after man after man that was religious, that had the money, had the fame, was attractive,

00:06:27.380 had everything on paper. And then it just starts to become, and I really hate it. I cannot stand when

00:06:35.260 it just becomes a religious off. Now it's a, it's a, well, you just weren't religious enough. That's why

00:06:41.920 you got divorced. Really? Tom Brady. You don't think that man was religious and say, well, he just picked

00:06:54.300 the wrong woman. I mean, who's the right woman when I can, Ayesha Curry was Steph Curry's high school

00:07:03.320 Christian sweetheart who started off covered talking about, she, she's not a hoe. And now she's posting 1.00

00:07:10.240 nude on Instagram. If that happens to the richest, most successful men, what happens to the average

00:07:17.660 man in America? Where a lot of the men that say this are increasingly above average in intelligence,

00:07:25.520 wealth, and looks. We could just go by height. Most of them are above average in height. Most men will

00:07:31.700 never get the level of respect that you get from your wives. And no, being alpha, not, not every guy is

00:07:39.720 going to be alpha. But the truth of the matter is that women still would listen and respect average 0.90

00:07:47.300 men back in the day. They do not do that anymore. Social media has made us delusional. 70% of us are

00:07:53.380 overweight. And the truth of the matter is men don't want to get married because the juice is just not

00:07:59.020 worth the squeeze. And what trad cons will do is shame the men and say they're not real men if they

00:08:05.520 don't sign up for a system that pays you to financially ruin a man's life.

JustPearlyThings - October 29, 2023

Men Shouldn't Get Married In 2023!

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