JustPearlyThings - December 25, 2022


Men WILL Never ACCEPT THIS


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Length

9 minutes

Words per minute

187.49336

Word count

1,765

Sentence count

5

Harmful content

Misogyny

29

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Hate speech

17

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Summary

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In this episode of The Real Reel Podcast, Ben and Ben are joined by Pearl and Mandem to discuss the dangers of ageism in the entertainment industry and the lack of female empowerment in the industry. They discuss the perils of being a woman in the 21st century and how to deal with ageism and ageism.

Transcript

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00:00:00.400 Okay, so we were talking about like the millionaire wouldn't take the OnlyFans seriously and
00:00:04.840 Most people say like in order to become a millionaire you have to have at least six streams of income
00:00:08.240 So would you guys genuinely in in a relationship or even like as a married couple would you guys pass off an
00:00:16.220 Opportunity for a stream of income if your wife was inviting you to create the OnlyFans content with you? Absolutely 0.85
00:00:22.420 I
00:00:24.420 Pass all the way up the question
00:00:28.520 Putting out her body 0.97
00:00:33.540 When anyone screw their wife on camera for OnlyFans 1.00
00:00:43.820 Take three jobs
00:00:45.820 Night, day, shift, day shift, night shift
00:00:48.820 You didn't have to show your face
00:00:49.820 To make sure that I wouldn't have to do that
00:00:52.820 That's assuming someone knows your identity
00:00:54.820 Seven days a week, six months straight
00:00:55.820 It's a creepy culture man, it's a creepy culture 1.00
00:00:58.820 Guys, guys, guys, guys, guys, guys, guys
00:01:01.820 This is stop, stop, this is one at a time, one at a time
00:01:05.820 Okay, go ahead
00:01:07.820 To add to the women staying single and lonely after 35 1.00
00:01:13.820 There's a study that says that women in this generation after they reach 35 plus 0.99
00:01:20.820 They're going to
00:01:21.820 I think it's going to be like what?
00:01:23.820 Half of the women? 0.97
00:01:24.820 They're going to be single?
00:01:25.820 Oh, it's women 1.00
00:01:26.820 Women actually, it's 50 1.00
00:01:27.820 50
00:01:28.820 You got to stop
00:01:29.820 You don't have a mic
00:01:30.820 You got one more chance
00:01:32.820 Where you have to go out
00:01:34.820 So it's 20
00:01:36.820 50% of women
00:01:37.820 Or 45% of women between the ages of 25 and 45 are predicted to be single and childless
00:01:42.820 So much so that big investors are
00:01:45.820 So that means out of all of us, half of us will be single and childless
00:01:49.820 The one right there
00:01:51.820 And basically so much so that places like Morgan Stanley are investing in things like wine, cat food
00:02:02.820 And anything that like all the marketing campaigns are like convincing women that they could be young forever 0.96
00:02:09.820 So any marketing campaign that's basically convincing women that like, what is it ageism?
00:02:14.820 Like you're beautiful even at 50, it's like come on
00:02:17.820 I'm sorry, can I just say something real quick?
00:02:23.820 Listen, I really don't understand
00:02:26.820 I'm going to sound so misogynistic right now
00:02:28.820 I'm so sorry about this
00:02:29.820 But like, I really don't understand women these days 1.00
00:02:32.820 Like it is so clear that there's someone
00:02:37.820 I'm not saying it's the government or Illuminati or whatever
00:02:40.820 But there's something going on where people are just trying to push women into this industry 1.00
00:02:44.820 Where you're going to have to work, you're going to have to be this boss bitch or whatever 1.00
00:02:48.820 And like, understand this
00:02:51.820 The only people that have changed since 1950 are the women 1.00
00:02:55.820 You feel me?
00:02:56.820 Like mandem, I'm going to keep it real with you right now
00:02:59.820 And ladies on the panel, take this in as a game 0.97
00:03:02.820 Mandem, really appreciate traditional things
00:03:06.820 You feel me?
00:03:07.820 Like, no
00:03:08.820 I'm sorry to bring it to myself
00:03:09.820 But my girl is very traditional
00:03:11.820 And the reason I am so faithful to her is because she is traditional
00:03:14.820 You feel me?
00:03:15.820 What?
00:03:16.820 But you know
00:03:17.820 You got to understand
00:03:18.820 And it all comes with submissiveness and all of that
00:03:20.820 Like, sorry to trigger anyone
00:03:22.820 But my girl, ask me for permission to wear what she wears 1.00
00:03:25.820 Okay, okay, okay, okay
00:03:27.820 I'm going to let you go
00:03:28.820 And then I'm excited to hear what you have to say
00:03:30.820 And then we'll get to
00:03:31.820 Okay, start with you
00:03:32.820 I've got three points to make
00:03:33.820 Okay
00:03:34.820 One, know your category and where you sit as a woman 1.00
00:03:37.820 All of us are different
00:03:39.820 We all require different things
00:03:40.820 We all like different things
00:03:42.820 So we like a different type of man
00:03:44.820 Two, you said about
00:03:45.820 No, we all like to say Ben
00:03:47.820 That's not true
00:03:48.820 That's not true
00:03:49.820 No, no, no
00:03:50.820 When I say that
00:03:51.820 I mean, you know, physicality, preference
00:03:54.820 For example
00:03:55.820 I like black men
00:03:56.820 That's my preference
00:03:57.820 That's a lot of women 1.00
00:03:58.820 No, no, I know
00:03:59.820 But that's a lot of
00:04:00.820 What I'm saying is
00:04:01.820 We all know the reality is
00:04:02.820 We all don't like exactly the same things
00:04:05.820 Maybe in
00:04:06.820 If you want to be generalist
00:04:08.820 We do
00:04:09.820 Anyway, absolutely
00:04:10.820 Cool, cool, cool
00:04:11.820 Second of all
00:04:12.820 I just wanted to say on the back of what you said
00:04:15.820 And what Pearl said
00:04:17.820 Can everybody acknowledge
00:04:18.820 There's less women than men in the world anyway 1.00
00:04:21.820 So there's more women than men 1.00
00:04:22.820 I believe there's more
00:04:23.820 Sorry, the other way around
00:04:24.820 Sorry, sorry
00:04:25.820 I meant to say the other way around
00:04:26.820 So there's more women than men in the world anyway 1.00
00:04:28.820 So there's going to be more single women 1.00
00:04:30.820 It's going to be that way
00:04:31.820 Because there is less men in
00:04:33.820 Yeah, less men in the world 0.99
00:04:35.820 If you want to have certain requirements
00:04:39.820 As a woman
00:04:40.820 You either have to be of a certain standard yourself
00:04:43.820 And I mean
00:04:44.820 When I mean standard
00:04:45.820 I mean
00:04:46.820 The way you carry yourself
00:04:47.820 You know
00:04:48.820 If your body is what you lead with
00:04:50.820 Then that's what men just look at you
00:04:51.820 As a physical object
00:04:53.820 And they will exploit that
00:04:54.820 Because that's what men do
00:04:55.820 And
00:04:56.820 Not all men 0.96
00:04:57.820 But if you're going to advertise your body
00:04:59.820 That's what men are going to look at 0.63
00:05:01.820 And if you want
00:05:02.820 You know
00:05:03.820 A lot of women 1.00
00:05:04.820 They will do only fans
00:05:05.820 And that kind of thing
00:05:06.820 And then when they get
00:05:07.820 To an age where they're no longer relevant
00:05:10.820 Younger girls are coming up better than them 1.00
00:05:12.820 Now they go to church
00:05:13.820 Then they want to turn around and say
00:05:14.820 Thank God
00:05:15.820 Oh, please
00:05:16.820 You know
00:05:17.820 Take me now
00:05:18.820 And the problem is
00:05:19.820 The problem is with that
00:05:21.820 When you want them to take you
00:05:22.820 You've already surpassed your most
00:05:25.820 I don't want to say
00:05:26.820 Prime
00:05:27.820 It's not about fertile
00:05:28.820 It's not
00:05:29.820 But you've passed your peak
00:05:30.820 Your prime
00:05:31.820 And it's natural
00:05:32.820 That's the only thing that's changed that for us
00:05:34.820 Is plastic surgery
00:05:35.820 Makeup
00:05:36.820 And so societal standards overall
00:05:39.820 And it's not everybody
00:05:41.820 But realistically
00:05:42.820 You have to look at
00:05:43.820 Back in the day
00:05:44.820 There was no Photoshop
00:05:45.820 Everyone couldn't buy makeup
00:05:47.820 Everyone couldn't change their hair every week
00:05:49.820 You know
00:05:50.820 You had a role to play
00:05:51.820 And if you're not willing to play your role
00:05:53.820 No matter how big or small you think it is
00:05:56.820 It adds up
00:05:57.820 It adds up
00:05:58.820 That's it
00:05:59.820 Can I say something?
00:06:00.820 No, it's her turn
00:06:01.820 So
00:06:02.820 My turn?
00:06:03.820 Yeah, you said
00:06:04.820 You had something
00:06:05.820 You seemed like you wanted to talk
00:06:06.820 I have so many things
00:06:07.820 Okay, go ahead
00:06:08.820 But it seems like
00:06:09.820 I'll yield
00:06:10.820 Like someone
00:06:11.820 You'll yield
00:06:12.820 I think you were next
00:06:13.820 And then you can go
00:06:14.820 Okay
00:06:15.820 You had something before
00:06:16.820 You were raising your hand
00:06:17.820 Oh yeah
00:06:18.820 Wait, what was the original question?
00:06:20.820 Sorry
00:06:21.820 Okay
00:06:22.820 Okay, now you can go
00:06:23.820 You can go
00:06:24.820 I don't really understand
00:06:25.820 What's the push for women to shame men for their standards 1.00
00:06:30.820 Like if men don't want women above 35, so what?
00:06:34.820 Yeah, I don't
00:06:35.820 Who's shaming you?
00:06:36.820 It's not shaming
00:06:37.820 It's like
00:06:38.820 If I don't want a woman to be fat 1.00
00:06:40.820 Am I fat shaming?
00:06:41.820 Like I don't understand this
00:06:43.820 It's like
00:06:44.820 Women can say they want men who are six foot 1.00
00:06:46.820 I think there's a difference
00:06:47.820 And they want a washboard abs and all this
00:06:49.820 And you don't see men on the streets crying that they're being
00:06:54.820 Where's the short man positivity?
00:06:57.820 Exactly
00:06:58.820 See, where's the short man positivity?
00:07:01.820 I'm sorry
00:07:02.820 Can I speak on that?
00:07:03.820 Everything is misogyny
00:07:04.820 Everything is misogyny
00:07:05.820 Everything is patriarchy
00:07:06.820 I don't think that that's true
00:07:08.820 No, no, no
00:07:09.820 I don't think that's true
00:07:10.820 Take this in
00:07:11.820 People is entitled to having their own
00:07:13.820 Like no one's going on you for having
00:07:15.820 So I think
00:07:17.820 Wait, I think that's I think that's easy from like a woman's point of view 1.00
00:07:20.820 Because a lot of times like we don't notice it
00:07:22.820 But it's like every time a man has standards there's always a woman shaming him for having them
00:07:26.820 So like for example when a guy says I don't like I don't like fat chicks that like then all of a sudden he's fat phobic
00:07:32.820 If he says if he says I don't I don't like sluts then like they have then they have the slut walk if he says that I don't like 1.00
00:07:38.820 Yeah, but like every every time that a man has standards he's shamed for it
00:07:43.820 I don't but I don't think that's a quote-unquote a standard
00:07:46.820 I think that's like that like the way the way I'm interpreting what you just said is
00:07:51.820 And maybe it may not be in the way that you and that you mean
00:07:54.820 But when someone's saying I don't like fat chicks like that to me is fat shaming 1.00
00:07:59.820 I don't like to date fine fine. I don't like to date fat chicks. That's how wait 1.00
00:08:07.820 I said I don't like to date fat chicks, but I can say on air. I don't like to date short men 0.84
00:08:12.820 I'm six foot if a guy's significantly shorter than me. I'm just not gonna go for it
00:08:16.820 Yeah, but as I said we're allowed to have preference women are but men are men are but the thing the different no no 0.90
00:08:23.820 This is the problem and I'll tell you what the problem is social media has given people a voice echo chamber
00:08:29.820 Remember if there was no socials you wouldn't really be hearing about it
00:08:32.820 You would have to accept your fate as a man and live and walk through it without this echo chamber like the podcast right now
00:08:39.820 Now because there's been a nature that's I don't know being bestowed upon us with technology
00:08:45.820 We're constantly hearing men have to have this men have to have that and the reality is
00:08:50.820 They actually they don't they don't actually have to have it yeah
00:08:54.820 Because the reason why they don't have to have it is because if they're the provider in the relationship
00:08:59.820 They have the power to execute the woman out of the relationship if they want to if they're willing to lose half of their property
00:09:08.820 But as many of you know, I was just banned on tick-tock and we are demonetized on a daily basis on this platform
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