JustPearlyThings - Millionaire BREAKS DOWN Why Women Love Bad Boys

00:00:00.000 thinking for you you've been doing OF for three years like that's three years you can still get

00:00:03.840 out you can still get i haven't actually been doing it for three years i've been i did it for

00:00:07.560 like really i was on on it for like a year and a half then the other two years i had it but i

00:00:12.460 never put any effort into it what i'm saying is right now it's still you can semi you can semi

00:00:17.940 get it off oh no 100 i'd never want to be a sex worker rest of my life no way the way the way

00:00:24.020 you're on track like that's what you're on track to do if you don't make life changes quick no i

00:00:28.540 have been though i have been yeah changes have you been making i've i've made a limited company

00:00:32.840 i'm starting with a cleaning company i just need to make my website at the moment

00:00:36.340 so i've got the cleaners for it like not the cleaners i've got the um what's it called

00:00:43.000 why does my mind my mind go i'm like you should get the OF girls to clean 1.00

00:00:45.860 you know you know you know you know you know you know you know you know you know you know

00:00:50.220 wipe the window she's like clean the window clean the window that was a part of my plan 0.90

00:00:55.720 so my plan was to start a legit one first yeah i've got um a friend he does an airbnb business

00:01:01.120 so i thought i can use the cleaners for that to start with and then make a twitter page and get

00:01:07.020 the naughty maids in you know what i mean the sugar dads have the nice houses but then you're still in 1.00

00:01:12.420 that environment that's actually that's amazing and remember one time i was on your show a while ago

00:01:20.000 and and the story was like um i told my wife we should get a cleaner because we have four kids and

00:01:26.020 like a very large house with a lot of toys and stuff and she's like okay fine i'll try it and then

00:01:31.740 the cleaner came and it was this like young ukrainian girl and she cleaned the house spotlessly and she

00:01:36.160 was good looking and my wife's like i'm never inviting the cleaner i will so women watching this 1.00

00:01:42.000 not just the men the women should be you know if you're a guy and your wife's not cleaning hire this 1.00

00:01:47.520 lady in her company your wife will be a cleaner 1.00

00:01:51.380 did you answer the question for how many bodies is too many for high value

00:01:57.920 uh no but uh we talked about this before and uh i knew about the statistics about the pair bonding

00:02:04.020 so five was my number before but you mentioned something about two uh being like the initial

00:02:09.840 drop-off point yeah so i'm now adjusted

00:02:12.180 and i think that's the message i could hear

00:02:15.380 that sounds better

00:02:16.640 honestly i think that like women would be better if men raised their standards especially like the 0.99

00:02:22.120 men that we want but it goes both ways right i think men need to raise their standards for

00:02:26.720 themselves yeah like this this is crazy to me you know like there's so many dudes that are

00:02:30.060 what is it like seven million men in the usa are on uh disability leave even though they're not

00:02:35.200 disabled that's an actual statistic it's a crazy one yeah it's like it's like you know men gaming 0.69

00:02:40.160 the social system in order to just smoke pot and play video games or whatever like like part of this

00:02:45.320 i think the epidemic is not necessarily in men having low standards for women i think it's men having low

00:02:50.360 standards for themselves and i think there's this narrative in society that like men should take

00:02:54.320 on these feminine characteristics you know we have men competing women's sports which is like 1.00

00:02:57.620 and they see that as a no but the reason they see it as a virtue it's like oh well a man should be

00:03:02.340 sensitive a man should be caring a man should be child they always try to make men into women 1.00

00:03:07.380 and then they go into women's sports and now they have to celebrate it otherwise they're hypocrites

00:03:11.340 right so so i'm completely against the social movement of like feminizing men i think that men

00:03:16.780 you know we used to be conscripted into the army and we'd see horrible horrible things in our

00:03:20.900 early 20s and we'd come back and we were hard men you know um and i think society needs a little

00:03:25.360 bit more of that and i and i fully encourage men to take uh to take more responsibility for being

00:03:30.880 higher on themselves raise your standards for yourself a woman isn't interested in you because 1.00

00:03:34.940 of how you think of her a woman is interested of you because of the man you are

00:03:38.720 do you think because i always think like women would never be single mothers and leave their 0.99

00:03:44.780 husbands if they knew no one would take them if they knew and there wasn't a government bailout 0.94

00:03:51.080 well there's a government bailout which messes up a lot of things um there's actually something

00:03:55.180 i was flying over here to i was in i was in budapesth this morning i i got on the plane i

00:03:59.460 flew here to london and i was thinking about this on the flight and i was sort of thinking about this

00:04:03.200 in a biblical sense you know and and this is what i came out to in my mind it's who's taming the devil

00:04:07.460 let me explain that real quick so women find themselves most attracted to a man when they have 0.62

00:04:12.780 to tame the devil inside of him that's why they go for these tyrones and chads right it's like oh the 0.98

00:04:16.360 guy's got this streak of things and a woman thinks i can save him i can be the one that bring him out of

00:04:21.600 hell i can be the one to build him into the angel he can be so the woman is trying to tame the devil 1.00

00:04:27.040 and that keeps the relationship together but when it works the other way when a man is trying to tame

00:04:31.180 the devil and a woman i can get i can rescue her for her life i can give her the life because she's 1.00

00:04:35.820 she's a single she's a single mom i can help her now and that's where everything breaks down so like

00:04:40.680 as a man you have to make yourself dangerous and then it works in a powerful man situation when you've

00:04:48.680 got money you've got status all those things yes but when you're talking about younger girls with 0.95

00:04:52.920 like the chads and the guys those guys are the ones that younger girls are trying to tame and think oh 0.95

00:04:58.620 he'll change for me he'll love me you can't keep those relationships together the woman can never 1.00

00:05:02.920 keep that relationship together because that guy doesn't have to choose you and he isn't going to

00:05:06.400 choose you well my wife hang on a second like i was when my wife married me i was making well over

00:05:10.420 a million dollars a year and i was like i met her at 26 and and she and she got me to commit and and

00:05:15.620 honestly very happily but are you a chad what are you yes i think so oh if you don't think so that's

00:05:21.080 fine you don't have to think so i was let's see 26 years old six foot four playing ice hockey four

00:05:25.640 times a week making 1.6 million dollars a year at 26 that was me and so you don't have to think

00:05:31.340 i was a chad but when you're in like was i was i getting chicks yeah lots okay but i'm not i'm not

00:05:37.400 saying that like i was i was any man with money gets gets go back to generally forget about the

00:05:43.160 money they didn't even know they didn't know i had a normal normal situations normal life normal

00:05:48.320 going out to the club not i have never met a million you know millionaires and things like

00:05:52.540 that so i'm not talking about that but generally those guys you've you've like killed my point

00:05:58.600 because the point the point was to kill your point because because here's the thing 85 listen 85%

00:06:05.980 of millionaires are married 85% of billionaires are married the marriage statistics for men actually go up

00:06:11.360 the wealthier they are and the divorce rates go down the wealthier a man is so what should a man's

00:06:15.760 goal be if he truly wants to build a happy successful life is to get more money now well

00:06:20.120 because you'll you'll say like it's the men that won't settle down but it's more like like the women

00:06:24.540 probably just aren't good enough yeah no i i possibly for those yeah for those men you know

00:06:30.320 i've watched one once and it's men date down women date up or sleep up all that and i agree with

00:06:36.120 that 100 um so that that's probably the case as well that he's sleeping with you but he won't

00:06:41.540 consider you as a wife and there were lots of women like that in my life and that's fine they 0.99

00:06:44.740 just didn't meet the criteria that i wanted for a wife yeah but i'm so you obviously you talk a lot

00:06:49.580 from the man's perspective but we could also teach women not to even look at those guys because they're 0.86

00:06:53.920 not like if you're not you absolutely i have two daughters i'll tell you right now 100% look at

00:06:58.940 those guys 100% not the million i'm talking about the ones that aren't millionaires ambition who just

00:07:04.660 have she's talking about are you talking about the broke the yes yes the average guy the yes she's

00:07:11.520 talking about hot broke guys with swag with charisma with all the drip but it's the spade because they

00:07:17.300 can't even like they don't even have drip where i come from yeah they can't even afford their red but

00:07:21.800 that's the danger that's the i think dating is more difficult for women than it is for men 0.91

00:07:27.680 and the reason i believe it's more difficult for women is because you're putting yourself in a 1.00

00:07:32.860 position where like if you commit to the wrong guy or give yourself the wrong guy a it will lower your

00:07:37.740 value for the next high value guy and b you can lose your market value as that time passes right

00:07:42.280 yep so women women have to be you can be attracted to those guys and everything but it's like you have 1.00

00:07:47.320 to draw the line of where do you think your chances are for potential relationship with this man

00:07:51.680 i also know a couple of girls used to work in our company like one example she was 22 23 one of the 1.00

00:07:56.800 most beautiful girls i've ever seen she was working in our company she was an amazing salesperson right 1.00

00:08:00.760 met a guy now she lives on a yacht in monaco and that guy committed to her and they're happy and

00:08:05.480 they've been together for for a pretty long time and it's like she was not only attractive and

00:08:10.360 garnering attention she was also a great judge of character and potential and that's the hard part

00:08:17.100 it's like it's easy for a guy to judge looks but it's real hard for a woman to judge a man's character

00:08:21.680 and potential but those men do exist 85 percent of millionaires are married statistically speaking

00:08:26.820 men who are married once and retired married uh have i think four times more money than men who get

00:08:32.580 divorced and twice more than men who get divorced and remarried but those that got divorced and

00:08:37.160 remarried still have twice the amount of wealth so successful men actually marry and by the way uh if you

00:08:42.240 want to find a successful man because the girls like oh they're never married that's not true 1.00

00:08:45.280 there's significant opera there's significant business um business how do i put this there's

00:08:52.340 positive business outcomes for men who are married because men want to do business with other men who

00:08:57.380 are doing good things for the community who are trustworthy and reliable so a lot of times when you're

00:09:01.020 doing business you ask the guy about his wife and his kids and his family and you don't trust the

00:09:04.720 guys so much that are 42 and single trying to get you to invest a million bucks you trust the guy

00:09:08.620 that's 42 who's got a wife and three four kids and they've been married for 15 years that's the guy you

00:09:13.200 trust so there's a lot of market pressure on the successful guys to do that you just have to be

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JustPearlyThings - May 11, 2023

Millionaire BREAKS DOWN Why Women Love Bad Boys

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