Millionaire BREAKS DOWN Why Women Love Bad Boys
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Summary
In this episode of the podcast, I am joined by a man who has been a sex worker for the past 20 years. He is now a full-time entrepreneur, entrepreneur and entrepreneur in his own right hand corner of the world. We talk about his journey, how he got into the sex work industry, and why he thinks men need to raise their standards for themselves.
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thinking for you you've been doing OF for three years like that's three years you can still get
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out you can still get i haven't actually been doing it for three years i've been i did it for
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like really i was on on it for like a year and a half then the other two years i had it but i
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never put any effort into it what i'm saying is right now it's still you can semi you can semi
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get it off oh no 100 i'd never want to be a sex worker rest of my life no way the way the way
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you're on track like that's what you're on track to do if you don't make life changes quick no i
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have been though i have been yeah changes have you been making i've i've made a limited company
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i'm starting with a cleaning company i just need to make my website at the moment
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so i've got the cleaners for it like not the cleaners i've got the um what's it called
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why does my mind my mind go i'm like you should get the OF girls to clean
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you know you know you know you know you know you know you know you know you know you know
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wipe the window she's like clean the window clean the window that was a part of my plan
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so my plan was to start a legit one first yeah i've got um a friend he does an airbnb business
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so i thought i can use the cleaners for that to start with and then make a twitter page and get
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the naughty maids in you know what i mean the sugar dads have the nice houses but then you're still in
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that environment that's actually that's amazing and remember one time i was on your show a while ago
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and and the story was like um i told my wife we should get a cleaner because we have four kids and
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like a very large house with a lot of toys and stuff and she's like okay fine i'll try it and then
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the cleaner came and it was this like young ukrainian girl and she cleaned the house spotlessly and she
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was good looking and my wife's like i'm never inviting the cleaner i will so women watching this
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not just the men the women should be you know if you're a guy and your wife's not cleaning hire this
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lady in her company your wife will be a cleaner
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did you answer the question for how many bodies is too many for high value
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uh no but uh we talked about this before and uh i knew about the statistics about the pair bonding
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so five was my number before but you mentioned something about two uh being like the initial
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honestly i think that like women would be better if men raised their standards especially like the
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men that we want but it goes both ways right i think men need to raise their standards for
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themselves yeah like this this is crazy to me you know like there's so many dudes that are
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what is it like seven million men in the usa are on uh disability leave even though they're not
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disabled that's an actual statistic it's a crazy one yeah it's like it's like you know men gaming
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the social system in order to just smoke pot and play video games or whatever like like part of this
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i think the epidemic is not necessarily in men having low standards for women i think it's men having low
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standards for themselves and i think there's this narrative in society that like men should take
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on these feminine characteristics you know we have men competing women's sports which is like
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and they see that as a no but the reason they see it as a virtue it's like oh well a man should be
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sensitive a man should be caring a man should be child they always try to make men into women
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and then they go into women's sports and now they have to celebrate it otherwise they're hypocrites
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right so so i'm completely against the social movement of like feminizing men i think that men
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you know we used to be conscripted into the army and we'd see horrible horrible things in our
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early 20s and we'd come back and we were hard men you know um and i think society needs a little
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bit more of that and i and i fully encourage men to take uh to take more responsibility for being
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higher on themselves raise your standards for yourself a woman isn't interested in you because
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of how you think of her a woman is interested of you because of the man you are
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do you think because i always think like women would never be single mothers and leave their
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husbands if they knew no one would take them if they knew and there wasn't a government bailout
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well there's a government bailout which messes up a lot of things um there's actually something
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i was flying over here to i was in i was in budapesth this morning i i got on the plane i
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flew here to london and i was thinking about this on the flight and i was sort of thinking about this
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in a biblical sense you know and and this is what i came out to in my mind it's who's taming the devil
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let me explain that real quick so women find themselves most attracted to a man when they have
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to tame the devil inside of him that's why they go for these tyrones and chads right it's like oh the
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guy's got this streak of things and a woman thinks i can save him i can be the one that bring him out of
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hell i can be the one to build him into the angel he can be so the woman is trying to tame the devil
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and that keeps the relationship together but when it works the other way when a man is trying to tame
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the devil and a woman i can get i can rescue her for her life i can give her the life because she's
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she's a single she's a single mom i can help her now and that's where everything breaks down so like
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as a man you have to make yourself dangerous and then it works in a powerful man situation when you've
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got money you've got status all those things yes but when you're talking about younger girls with
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like the chads and the guys those guys are the ones that younger girls are trying to tame and think oh
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he'll change for me he'll love me you can't keep those relationships together the woman can never
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keep that relationship together because that guy doesn't have to choose you and he isn't going to
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choose you well my wife hang on a second like i was when my wife married me i was making well over
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a million dollars a year and i was like i met her at 26 and and she and she got me to commit and and
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honestly very happily but are you a chad what are you yes i think so oh if you don't think so that's
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fine you don't have to think so i was let's see 26 years old six foot four playing ice hockey four
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times a week making 1.6 million dollars a year at 26 that was me and so you don't have to think
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i was a chad but when you're in like was i was i getting chicks yeah lots okay but i'm not i'm not
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saying that like i was i was any man with money gets gets go back to generally forget about the
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money they didn't even know they didn't know i had a normal normal situations normal life normal
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going out to the club not i have never met a million you know millionaires and things like
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that so i'm not talking about that but generally those guys you've you've like killed my point
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because the point the point was to kill your point because because here's the thing 85 listen 85%
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of millionaires are married 85% of billionaires are married the marriage statistics for men actually go up
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the wealthier they are and the divorce rates go down the wealthier a man is so what should a man's
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goal be if he truly wants to build a happy successful life is to get more money now well
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because you'll you'll say like it's the men that won't settle down but it's more like like the women
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probably just aren't good enough yeah no i i possibly for those yeah for those men you know
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i've watched one once and it's men date down women date up or sleep up all that and i agree with
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that 100 um so that that's probably the case as well that he's sleeping with you but he won't
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consider you as a wife and there were lots of women like that in my life and that's fine they
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just didn't meet the criteria that i wanted for a wife yeah but i'm so you obviously you talk a lot
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from the man's perspective but we could also teach women not to even look at those guys because they're
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not like if you're not you absolutely i have two daughters i'll tell you right now 100% look at
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those guys 100% not the million i'm talking about the ones that aren't millionaires ambition who just
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have she's talking about are you talking about the broke the yes yes the average guy the yes she's
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talking about hot broke guys with swag with charisma with all the drip but it's the spade because they
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can't even like they don't even have drip where i come from yeah they can't even afford their red but
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that's the danger that's the i think dating is more difficult for women than it is for men
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and the reason i believe it's more difficult for women is because you're putting yourself in a
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position where like if you commit to the wrong guy or give yourself the wrong guy a it will lower your
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value for the next high value guy and b you can lose your market value as that time passes right
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yep so women women have to be you can be attracted to those guys and everything but it's like you have
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to draw the line of where do you think your chances are for potential relationship with this man
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i also know a couple of girls used to work in our company like one example she was 22 23 one of the
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most beautiful girls i've ever seen she was working in our company she was an amazing salesperson right
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met a guy now she lives on a yacht in monaco and that guy committed to her and they're happy and
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they've been together for for a pretty long time and it's like she was not only attractive and
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garnering attention she was also a great judge of character and potential and that's the hard part
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it's like it's easy for a guy to judge looks but it's real hard for a woman to judge a man's character
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and potential but those men do exist 85 percent of millionaires are married statistically speaking
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men who are married once and retired married uh have i think four times more money than men who get
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divorced and twice more than men who get divorced and remarried but those that got divorced and
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remarried still have twice the amount of wealth so successful men actually marry and by the way uh if you
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want to find a successful man because the girls like oh they're never married that's not true
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there's significant opera there's significant business um business how do i put this there's
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positive business outcomes for men who are married because men want to do business with other men who
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are doing good things for the community who are trustworthy and reliable so a lot of times when you're
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doing business you ask the guy about his wife and his kids and his family and you don't trust the
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guys so much that are 42 and single trying to get you to invest a million bucks you trust the guy
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that's 42 who's got a wife and three four kids and they've been married for 15 years that's the guy you
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trust so there's a lot of market pressure on the successful guys to do that you just have to be
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the right girl many of you know i was just banned on tiktok and we are demonetized on a daily basis
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