JustPearlyThings - August 14, 2023


Millionaire EXPOSES Why Women Choose Toxic Men

Hosted by
Hannah Pearl Davis
Delusional Woman Said This on Air And This Happened This Is Why Women Shouldn't Vote

Episode Stats


Length

9 minutes

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230.67

Word count

2,235

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Harmful content

Misogyny

20

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Toxicity

1

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Hate speech

11

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Summary

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In this episode of the podcast, I'm joined by a man who has been a sex worker for the past 15 years and has now left the sex industry to pursue his dream of becoming a cleaning company owner. We talk about his journey and how he's managed to get out of his job, what he's been up to, and what he wants to do with his life now that he's out of sex work.

Transcript

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00:00:00.000 i agree with that definitely i'm just thinking for you you've been doing of for three years like
00:00:05.460 that's three years you can still get out you can still i haven't actually been doing it for three
00:00:09.100 years i've been i did it for like really i was on it for like a year and a half and then the
00:00:14.000 other two years i had it but i never put any effort into it what i'm saying is right now it's
00:00:18.840 still you can semi you can semi get it off oh no 100 i'd never want to be a sex worker rest of my
00:00:25.240 life no way the way the way you're on track like that's what you're on track to do if you don't
00:00:29.760 make life changes quick no i have been though i have been yeah changes have you been making i've
00:00:34.300 i've made a limited company i'm starting with a cleaning company i just need to make my website
00:00:38.680 at the moment so i've got the cleaners for it like not the cleaners i've got the um what's it called
00:00:45.900 why does my mind my mind go i'm like you should get the of girls to clean you know you know you know
00:00:52.180 you know you know you know you know you know you know you know you know you know you know you wipe
00:00:53.400 the window she's like clean the window clean the window that was a part of my plan so my plan
00:00:59.580 wants to start a legit one first year i've got um a friend he does an airbnb business so i thought
00:01:04.480 i can use the cleaners for that to start with and then make a twitter page and get the naughty
00:01:10.380 maids in you know what i mean the sugar dads have the nice houses but then you're still in that 1.00
00:01:15.540 environment
00:01:16.120 that's actually that's amazing and remember one time i was on your show a while ago and
00:01:23.100 and the story was like um i told my wife we should get a cleaner because we have four kids
00:01:28.780 and like a very large house with a lot of toys and stuff and she's like okay fine i'll try it and
00:01:34.440 then the cleaner came and it was this like young ukrainian girl and she cleaned the house spotlessly
00:01:38.700 and she was good looking and my wife's like i'm never inviting the cleaner i will 1.00
00:01:42.200 clean clean so women watching this not just the men the women should be you know if you're a guy and
00:01:48.520 your wife's not cleaning hire this lady in her company your wife will be a cleaner 1.00
00:01:54.280 did you answer the question for how many bodies is too many for high value uh no but uh we talked
00:02:03.460 about this before and uh i knew about the statistics about the pair bonding so five was my number before
00:02:08.880 but you mentioned something about two uh being like the initial drop-off point yeah so i've now
00:02:14.640 adjusted and i think that's the message right here that sounds bad honestly i think that like women 1.00
00:02:22.240 would be better if men raised their standards especially like the men that we want but it goes 0.95
00:02:26.820 both ways right i think men need to raise their standards for themselves yeah like this this is crazy
00:02:31.400 to me you know like there's so many dudes that are what is it like seven million men in the usa are on
00:02:36.480 disability leave even though they're not disabled that's an actual statistic it's a crazy one yeah
00:02:40.700 it's like it's like you know men gaming the social system in order to just smoke pot and play video
00:02:46.220 games or whatever like like part of this i think the epidemic is not necessarily in men having low
00:02:51.540 standards for women i think it's men having low standards for themselves and i think there's this
00:02:54.960 narrative in society that like men should take on these feminine characteristics you know we have men 0.92
00:02:59.120 competing women's sports which is like and they see that as a no but the reason they see it as a 0.99
00:03:03.100 virtue it's like oh well a man should be sensitive a man should be caring a man should be child they
00:03:08.700 always try to make men into women and then they go into women's sports and now they have to celebrate
00:03:12.980 it otherwise they're hypocrites right so so i'm completely against the social movement of like
00:03:18.100 feminizing men i think that men you know we used to be conscripted into the army and we'd see horrible 0.72
00:03:22.700 horrible things in our early 20s and we'd come back and we were hard men you know um and i think
00:03:27.480 society needs a little bit more of that and i and i fully encourage men to take uh to take more
00:03:32.380 responsibility for being higher on themselves raise your standards for yourself a woman isn't interested 1.00
00:03:37.180 in you because of how you think of her a woman is interested of you because of the man you are
00:03:41.640 do you think because i always think like women would never be single mothers and leave their husbands
00:03:48.000 if they knew no one would take them if they knew and there wasn't a government bailout well there's a
00:03:54.420 government bailout which messes up a lot of things um there's actually something i was flying over
00:03:59.280 here i was in i was in budapest this morning i i got on the plane i flew here to london and i was
00:04:03.320 thinking about this on the flight and i was sort of thinking about this in a biblical sense you know
00:04:07.220 and and this is what i came out to in my mind it's who's taming the devil let me explain that real
00:04:11.980 quick so women find themselves most attracted to a man when they have to tame the devil inside of him 0.99
00:04:16.980 that's why they go for these tyrones and chads right it's like oh the guy's got this streak of
00:04:20.520 things and a woman thinks i can save him i can be the one that bring him out of hell i can be the
00:04:25.420 one to build him into the angel he can be so the woman is trying to tame the devil and that keeps 0.93
00:04:30.420 the relationship together but when it works the other way when a man is trying to tame the devil
00:04:34.400 and a woman i can get i can rescue her for her life i can give her the life because she's that doesn't 1.00
00:04:39.220 she's a single she's a single mom i can help her now right and that's where everything breaks down 0.99
00:04:43.280 so like as a man you have to make yourself dangerous and then it works in a powerful man
00:04:50.560 situation when you've got money you've got status all those things yes but when you're talking about
00:04:55.080 younger girls with like the chads and the guys those guys are the ones that younger girls are 0.99
00:05:00.320 trying to tame and think oh he'll change for me he'll love me you can't keep those relationships
00:05:04.640 together the woman can never keep that relationship together because that guy doesn't have to choose 1.00
00:05:08.560 you and he isn't going to choose you well my wife hang on a second like i was when my wife married 1.00
00:05:12.380 me i was making well over a million dollars a year and i was like i met her at 26 and and she
00:05:16.620 and she got me to commit and and honestly very happily but are you a chad what are you yes i think
00:05:22.500 so if you don't think so that's fine you don't have to think so i was let's see 26 years old six foot
00:05:27.380 four playing ice hockey four times a week making 1.6 million dollars a year at 26 that was me and so
00:05:33.200 you know you don't have to think i was a chad but when you're in like was i was i getting chicks yeah
00:05:37.640 lots okay but i'm not i'm not saying that like i was i was any man with money gets gets gold back to
00:05:44.580 generally forget about the money they didn't know they didn't know i had a normal normal situations
00:05:50.240 normal life normal going out to the club not i have never met a million you know millionaires and
00:05:55.180 things like that so i'm not talking about that but generally those guys even you've like killed my
00:06:01.240 point the point the point was to kill your point because because here's the thing 85 85 percent of
00:06:09.040 millionaires are married 85 percent of billionaires are married the marriage statistics for men actually
00:06:13.780 go up the wealthier they are and the divorce rates go down the wealthier a man is so what should a man's
00:06:18.660 goal be if he truly wants to build a happy successful life is to get more money now well because you'll
00:06:23.700 you'll say like it's the man that won't settle down but it's more like like the women probably just 1.00
00:06:27.940 aren't good enough yeah no i i possibly for those yeah for those men you know i've watched one once
00:06:34.320 and it's men date down women date up or sleep up and i agree with that 100 um so that that's probably
00:06:41.800 the case as well that he's sleeping with you but he won't consider you as a wife and there were lots
00:06:45.840 of women like that in my life and that's fine they just didn't meet the criteria that i wanted for a 1.00
00:06:49.280 wife yeah but i'm so you obviously you talk a lot from the man's perspective but we could also teach
00:06:54.280 women not to even look at those guys because they're not like if you're no no no you absolutely 0.99
00:06:59.040 i have two daughters i'll tell you right now 100 look at those guys 100 not the million i'm talking
00:07:04.220 about the ones that aren't millionaires ambition who just have she's talking about are you talking 0.89
00:07:09.860 about the broke the yes yes the average guy yes she's talking about hot broke guys with swag with
00:07:17.500 charisma the drip but yeah because they can't even like they don't even have drip where i come from
00:07:23.220 yeah they can't even afford their red but they can afford a pair of blue that's the danger that's
00:07:27.880 the i think dating is more difficult for women than it is for men and the reason i believe it's more 1.00
00:07:32.360 difficult for women is because you're putting yourself in a position where like if you commit 1.00
00:07:37.300 to the wrong guy or give yourself the wrong guy a it will lower your value for the next high value
00:07:41.760 guy and b you can lose your market value as that time passes right yep so women women have to be 1.00
00:07:47.060 you can be attracted to those guys and everything but it's like you have to draw the line of
00:07:51.220 where do you think your chances are for a potential relationship with this man i also know a couple
00:07:55.380 of girls used to work in our company like one example she was 22 23 one of the most beautiful 1.00
00:08:00.320 girls i've ever seen she was working in our company she was an amazing salesperson right 1.00
00:08:03.660 met a guy now she lives on a yacht in monaco and that guy committed to her and they're happy and
00:08:08.380 they've been together for for a pretty long time and it's like she was not only attractive and
00:08:13.260 garnering attention she was also a great judge of character and potential and that's the hard
00:08:19.820 part it's like it's easy for a guy to judge looks but it's real hard for a woman to judge a man's
00:08:24.300 character and potential but those men do exist 85 percent of millionaires are married statistically
00:08:29.260 speaking men who are married once and retired married uh have i think four times more money than
00:08:34.780 men who get divorced and twice more than men who get divorced and remarried but those that got
00:08:39.500 divorced and remarried still have twice the amount of wealth so successful men actually marry and by
00:08:43.980 the way uh if you want to find a successful man because the girl's like oh they're never married 1.00
00:08:47.580 that's not true there's significant opera there's significant business um business how do i put this
00:08:54.900 there's positive business outcomes for men who are married because men want to do business with other
00:08:59.980 men who are doing good things for the community who are trustworthy and reliable so a lot of times when
00:09:03.820 you're doing business you ask the guy about his wife and his kids and his family and you don't trust the
00:09:07.620 guys so much that are 42 and single trying to get you to invest a million bucks you trust the guy
00:09:11.520 that's 42 who's got a wife and three four kids and they've been married for 15 years that's the guy
00:09:15.960 you trust so there's a lot of market pressure on the successful guys to do that you just have to be
00:09:21.000 the right girl i've worked in this sex industry for a long time and most of the men that come to me
00:09:27.300 are rich married men yeah exactly they're they're rich and they're married i don't get broke men
00:09:34.040 come it's the rich and the married men that are happy in their relationships but you're not
00:09:39.320 because you're finding pleasure somewhere else