JustPearlyThings - October 17, 2023


Modern Blames Feminists For Ruining Women


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9 minutes

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1,840

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26

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2

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In this episode, Pearly and Pippa discuss modern day women and their lack of men in the home and the modern way of life. They also discuss the difference between being a virgin and being a hoe and why it's so important to be a virgin.

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00:00:00.000 you know but the the misconception that a lot of these modern day women have is when they're 1.00
00:00:05.600 chatting foolishness like we don't need men in the home we don't need a man what are you teaching
00:00:10.020 your daughter yes what are you teaching your son so do you want your daughter to go and get breathed 0.96
00:00:15.460 up by going sleep with any man and have five three different baby dads no you want to teach
00:00:21.220 your daughter the right way my daughter's father's died a couple days ago i'm not looking to just go
00:00:26.240 and get into a relationship just to have a man around me i'd rather make sure that i do it the
00:00:31.580 right way so i can teach my daughter the right way you know and there is a problem with just sleeping
00:00:36.720 around i'm not going to run up my mileage dating how many men just to go and pleasure myself that
00:00:42.780 what's that going to look like to my child what kind of man would i be introducing into my life
00:00:47.440 yeah you can't you know no no like so it's not a case of saying you know there's any to me the
00:00:55.920 traditional way works that's why our grandparents were together for so long you know and this modern
00:01:02.020 day way of living that's why you've got all these single mothers growing up sons on their own and then 1.00
00:01:06.900 their sons are becoming feminine and they can't even deal with your daughter they can't even deal 1.00
00:01:11.740 with your daughter properly or be a man to your grandchild that's why they're breeding these girls and 0.99
00:01:16.860 leaving them saying got no man in home because of these modern day women uneducated your business 1.00
00:01:23.640 sounds amazing but don't you think we can find a balance between the traditional and the modern
00:01:28.240 because there's no need to go back to the 1800s
00:01:30.820 so what pearly's trying to say to you is you've got a choice because i've got a friend here i know
00:01:40.240 one girl i've got to know a couple girls like that and they're actually going up into their 40s 1.00
00:01:44.260 they're deep in their 30s and they haven't got no children and i actually feel a bit like sorry for
00:01:49.000 them they've never really had a serious relationship and my my thing is it's probably because you're
00:01:55.020 not really focused you're not presenting yourself in that way how can you how can you get a husband
00:02:00.160 if you're not letting off that energy if you're in a rave every day if all your friends are single
00:02:05.200 how are you going to get a husband if you're sleeping with everyone what man wants you 1.00
00:02:10.260 like seriously well you said there's a difference in being what's wrong with being a hoe there's a lot 0.98
00:02:15.760 of wrong being a hoe you need to respect yourself to be honest so first and foremost before getting 1.00
00:02:21.660 a man to respect you because a man's going to feel that energy yeah so if you don't respect
00:02:26.180 yourself no one else is going so there's a lot to do with that and then what you're going to be
00:02:30.340 feeding to your daughter to your son or to your nieces or nephews and this is the problem with
00:02:35.660 modern day women they're not thinking they're not very conscious about what this they're just
00:02:40.100 following trends it's not it's not all but but the but the the point is it's still most most women 1.00
00:02:46.080 are not traditional it's like we can't we can't have a conversation about we cannot we cannot have a
00:02:51.600 conversation about anything unless we can have generalizations and we know that over 50 percent of
00:02:57.080 women i would say are not marriageable if you ask the men they're going to say the same exact thing 0.99
00:03:01.160 it's not up to us to decide who's marriageable it's up to the men yeah my son yeah um he's 22 and he's
00:03:08.420 so he made a really good point um going back and he was saying to me about um girls he's age like he's
00:03:16.100 like that age group he's like mom you can't take them seriously because he's saying the roles are
00:03:21.320 reversed he said and imagine this he's a guy that's 22 like and i think he was about 19 at the time
00:03:26.500 when he told me this and what his point is is that these girls they're actually the ones running 1.00
00:03:32.180 down sex and man they're the ones you know the tables have turned now so they're like the boys 0.83
00:03:38.120 and again why is that because of these the education that they're getting from these girls from the last
00:03:45.260 generation think about how bad this is four percent of women are virgins on their wedding days 1.00
00:03:51.120 that is a traditional woman she waits till she's married four percent we went from 85 percent 1.00
00:03:56.740 to four percent i can't think of many modern men who are demanding virginity and they're not demanding
00:04:02.660 they're not but they're not demanding it because they can't how can they demand it when four percent
00:04:07.600 men adapt to the market there's studies we don't need to wait wait wait stop stop there's there's
00:04:12.360 studies there's studies that have said that that sex is a need for men yeah and so if sex is a need
00:04:17.440 they're going to adapt to the market but most men would prefer a virgin for a wife there's four
00:04:21.900 billion men in the world you know this statistically they probably would prefer it but i think because
00:04:26.740 of today's culture i think it's highly unlikely i don't think people are any versions of the past
00:04:31.420 i think people lied no they didn't because the consequences of sex were real before the birth
00:04:36.480 control pill like women were like there was always the men that women wanted and then there's the men 1.00
00:04:41.280 that women needed long term and there's a difference the cat versus dad strategy right the cat is
00:04:45.540 like the chad and tyrone we call them today in evolutionary psychology it's called the cat or
00:04:49.480 evolution biology and then there's the dad which is the long-term partner right and the problem was
00:04:53.600 the women couldn't be with those chads and tyrones because the risk of pregnancy would just devastate 1.00
00:04:58.160 their life not to say the shame aspect wasn't there because it was like the social consequences of
00:05:03.100 you know a man probably wouldn't marry you if 85 percent of women are virgins he's not picking from 1.00
00:05:07.920 the 15 percent that are not he's like one body whore right and that's and that's but but but the risk 0.87
00:05:13.700 of pregnancy is like it was so severe and so serious and like if you first of all abortions
00:05:18.700 were illegal so like that wasn't an option and then the reality was that like women had men they 0.89
00:05:24.420 probably were naturally more drawn towards the more masculine etc etc but it's like well that's a
00:05:28.540 dangerous option because that he might not commit so you would pick a guy that would commit there was
00:05:32.320 value in the market to commitment that value is gone today and the numbers on it are pretty shocking if
00:05:36.660 you've got one match on tinder as a man you're in the top 50th percentile 50 percent of men never get
00:05:43.600 a match on tinder that's real data if you've got 14 matches on tinder as a man you're 99th percentile
00:05:49.700 yeah so so should we all go back to the 1800s well in some ways that probably wouldn't be a bad thing
00:05:56.740 and in some ways there probably be some so you're laughing but it's like not necessarily bad right like
00:06:00.480 hey hey i would i would go back to like 400 dc and i would go to like stoicism i'd go to
00:06:06.640 like plato and aurelius and to me like that's a beautiful thing and you can't disagree with that
00:06:10.660 philosophy right that just because it's old doesn't mean it's antiquated well and i guess
00:06:14.820 and the question is what's more what's more important money or family and back then they
00:06:18.920 had intact families now almost 50 percent of births today are out of wedlock half like this this is the
00:06:27.020 direction feminism has led society so i think we can't look less about feminism and more about the
00:06:31.860 liberalization and commercialization of sex i do agree with you this is a big problem but i'd say this is
00:06:35.920 less about feminism and more to do with people not treating sex as something special a big part 1.00
00:06:40.380 but a big part of a big part of a big part of feminism was pushing birth control with which 1.00
00:06:44.460 allowed women to do that birth control was actually invented by men it had very little to do with
00:06:48.980 no no yes yes it did it was invented by the u.s it was margaret sanger was a feminist i know that's why 1.00
00:06:55.040 i had to hold my face i couldn't believe what margaret fachar did you mean she was margaret sanger
00:06:59.500 okay margaret fachar was kind of feminist no she wasn't she was a very anti-feminist very vehemently 1.00
00:07:06.100 anti-feminist because the thing is i think people confuse feminism if she was in office she's got to 1.00
00:07:11.120 be a feminist there's a big confusion there's a big confusion between feminism and careerism because 1.00
00:07:17.380 a woman can be very very career focused without being feminist feminism is specifically about 1.00
00:07:22.340 liberating women from the patriarchy that's what feminist theory comes from but part of feminism is 1.00
00:07:27.600 spending your your primary reproductive years on a career and not a family not necessarily a big part
00:07:33.200 of yes a big part of feminism is breaking up the family pushing policies that break up the family 1.00
00:07:39.420 yeah but actually what it is it's more about this idea of women are an oppressed social class by
00:07:44.000 patriarchal society and this confusion is because the confusion comes when we start saying that
00:07:49.180 a woman having a career i mean she's a feminist because feminists will use that as an argument 1.00
00:07:53.160 feminists will use that as an argument and they'll say that in order to be a stronger dependent woman 1.00
00:07:58.000 it's using your primary reproductive years for for a career instead of a family it's not to say you can
00:08:05.320 never have a career it's saying prioritizing isn't it yeah i mean yeah yeah it's about family before
00:08:11.980 your career feminism pushes career before your family i'd say it more pushes women against men 1.00
00:08:17.640 i mean it does that too yeah that's what i feel is doing yeah and that's yeah that's your business
00:08:22.880 sounds really interesting as well because it's really good if you look but if you look at the um
00:08:27.380 the birth rate it's it's in it's um negative to when women get more educated they have less kids 0.95
00:08:32.760 so it's like a direct correlate like if you look at the like the more educated a woman is the less kids she has 0.98
00:08:38.700 um
00:08:43.940 uh
00:09:01.280 um