Modern Blames Feminists For Ruining Women
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Summary
In this episode, Pearly and Pippa discuss modern day women and their lack of men in the home and the modern way of life. They also discuss the difference between being a virgin and being a hoe and why it's so important to be a virgin.
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you know but the the misconception that a lot of these modern day women have is when they're
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chatting foolishness like we don't need men in the home we don't need a man what are you teaching
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your daughter yes what are you teaching your son so do you want your daughter to go and get breathed
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up by going sleep with any man and have five three different baby dads no you want to teach
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your daughter the right way my daughter's father's died a couple days ago i'm not looking to just go
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and get into a relationship just to have a man around me i'd rather make sure that i do it the
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right way so i can teach my daughter the right way you know and there is a problem with just sleeping
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around i'm not going to run up my mileage dating how many men just to go and pleasure myself that
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what's that going to look like to my child what kind of man would i be introducing into my life
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yeah you can't you know no no like so it's not a case of saying you know there's any to me the
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traditional way works that's why our grandparents were together for so long you know and this modern
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day way of living that's why you've got all these single mothers growing up sons on their own and then
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their sons are becoming feminine and they can't even deal with your daughter they can't even deal
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with your daughter properly or be a man to your grandchild that's why they're breeding these girls and
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leaving them saying got no man in home because of these modern day women uneducated your business
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sounds amazing but don't you think we can find a balance between the traditional and the modern
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because there's no need to go back to the 1800s
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so what pearly's trying to say to you is you've got a choice because i've got a friend here i know
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one girl i've got to know a couple girls like that and they're actually going up into their 40s
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they're deep in their 30s and they haven't got no children and i actually feel a bit like sorry for
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them they've never really had a serious relationship and my my thing is it's probably because you're
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not really focused you're not presenting yourself in that way how can you how can you get a husband
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if you're not letting off that energy if you're in a rave every day if all your friends are single
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how are you going to get a husband if you're sleeping with everyone what man wants you
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like seriously well you said there's a difference in being what's wrong with being a hoe there's a lot
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of wrong being a hoe you need to respect yourself to be honest so first and foremost before getting
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a man to respect you because a man's going to feel that energy yeah so if you don't respect
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yourself no one else is going so there's a lot to do with that and then what you're going to be
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feeding to your daughter to your son or to your nieces or nephews and this is the problem with
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modern day women they're not thinking they're not very conscious about what this they're just
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following trends it's not it's not all but but the but the the point is it's still most most women
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are not traditional it's like we can't we can't have a conversation about we cannot we cannot have a
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conversation about anything unless we can have generalizations and we know that over 50 percent of
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women i would say are not marriageable if you ask the men they're going to say the same exact thing
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it's not up to us to decide who's marriageable it's up to the men yeah my son yeah um he's 22 and he's
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so he made a really good point um going back and he was saying to me about um girls he's age like he's
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like that age group he's like mom you can't take them seriously because he's saying the roles are
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reversed he said and imagine this he's a guy that's 22 like and i think he was about 19 at the time
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when he told me this and what his point is is that these girls they're actually the ones running
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down sex and man they're the ones you know the tables have turned now so they're like the boys
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and again why is that because of these the education that they're getting from these girls from the last
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generation think about how bad this is four percent of women are virgins on their wedding days
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that is a traditional woman she waits till she's married four percent we went from 85 percent
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to four percent i can't think of many modern men who are demanding virginity and they're not demanding
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they're not but they're not demanding it because they can't how can they demand it when four percent
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men adapt to the market there's studies we don't need to wait wait wait stop stop there's there's
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studies there's studies that have said that that sex is a need for men yeah and so if sex is a need
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they're going to adapt to the market but most men would prefer a virgin for a wife there's four
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billion men in the world you know this statistically they probably would prefer it but i think because
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of today's culture i think it's highly unlikely i don't think people are any versions of the past
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i think people lied no they didn't because the consequences of sex were real before the birth
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control pill like women were like there was always the men that women wanted and then there's the men
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that women needed long term and there's a difference the cat versus dad strategy right the cat is
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like the chad and tyrone we call them today in evolutionary psychology it's called the cat or
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evolution biology and then there's the dad which is the long-term partner right and the problem was
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the women couldn't be with those chads and tyrones because the risk of pregnancy would just devastate
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their life not to say the shame aspect wasn't there because it was like the social consequences of
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you know a man probably wouldn't marry you if 85 percent of women are virgins he's not picking from
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the 15 percent that are not he's like one body whore right and that's and that's but but but the risk
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of pregnancy is like it was so severe and so serious and like if you first of all abortions
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were illegal so like that wasn't an option and then the reality was that like women had men they
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probably were naturally more drawn towards the more masculine etc etc but it's like well that's a
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dangerous option because that he might not commit so you would pick a guy that would commit there was
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value in the market to commitment that value is gone today and the numbers on it are pretty shocking if
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you've got one match on tinder as a man you're in the top 50th percentile 50 percent of men never get
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a match on tinder that's real data if you've got 14 matches on tinder as a man you're 99th percentile
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yeah so so should we all go back to the 1800s well in some ways that probably wouldn't be a bad thing
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and in some ways there probably be some so you're laughing but it's like not necessarily bad right like
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hey hey i would i would go back to like 400 dc and i would go to like stoicism i'd go to
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like plato and aurelius and to me like that's a beautiful thing and you can't disagree with that
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philosophy right that just because it's old doesn't mean it's antiquated well and i guess
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and the question is what's more what's more important money or family and back then they
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had intact families now almost 50 percent of births today are out of wedlock half like this this is the
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direction feminism has led society so i think we can't look less about feminism and more about the
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liberalization and commercialization of sex i do agree with you this is a big problem but i'd say this is
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less about feminism and more to do with people not treating sex as something special a big part
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but a big part of a big part of a big part of feminism was pushing birth control with which
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allowed women to do that birth control was actually invented by men it had very little to do with
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no no yes yes it did it was invented by the u.s it was margaret sanger was a feminist i know that's why
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i had to hold my face i couldn't believe what margaret fachar did you mean she was margaret sanger
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okay margaret fachar was kind of feminist no she wasn't she was a very anti-feminist very vehemently
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anti-feminist because the thing is i think people confuse feminism if she was in office she's got to
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be a feminist there's a big confusion there's a big confusion between feminism and careerism because
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a woman can be very very career focused without being feminist feminism is specifically about
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liberating women from the patriarchy that's what feminist theory comes from but part of feminism is
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spending your your primary reproductive years on a career and not a family not necessarily a big part
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of yes a big part of feminism is breaking up the family pushing policies that break up the family
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yeah but actually what it is it's more about this idea of women are an oppressed social class by
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patriarchal society and this confusion is because the confusion comes when we start saying that
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a woman having a career i mean she's a feminist because feminists will use that as an argument
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feminists will use that as an argument and they'll say that in order to be a stronger dependent woman
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it's using your primary reproductive years for for a career instead of a family it's not to say you can
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never have a career it's saying prioritizing isn't it yeah i mean yeah yeah it's about family before
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your career feminism pushes career before your family i'd say it more pushes women against men
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i mean it does that too yeah that's what i feel is doing yeah and that's yeah that's your business
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sounds really interesting as well because it's really good if you look but if you look at the um
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the birth rate it's it's in it's um negative to when women get more educated they have less kids
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so it's like a direct correlate like if you look at the like the more educated a woman is the less kids she has