Modern Society Is Bad
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Summary
In this episode, we talk about monogamy and why women choose the men they choose when they are at their peak of their prime. Why does no woman choose monogamy when she is at her peak of her prime? Why is it that women only choose men when they re mature? Why does it happen when they ve all the choices in the world and have all the options?
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imagine you had a man who was home seven nights a week he was always home i'm talking about like
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an hour like during his work lunch you don't even notice then would you even give a shit about
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monogamy if you had all of his time effectively would you really care i still would care because
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i i feel like it's still just an hour a day and we're not it's not really quality time i feel i
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really have been in so many different situations again the trainer in austin to the nba player
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baby daddy like i i have seen all of that stuff and it's just my personal experience and perspective
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to where i want someone that sees the value in the grand canyon i want somebody who i understand
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okay so so that's a good point and that's just ask the first question i'm gonna ask the second
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question the realization you've come to is an interesting one it is something that happens
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especially to to females as they mature don't you think it's strange or why do you think that
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zero women on earth choose those kind of men who they perhaps have slightly lower status but
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are more likely to be uh loyal to them and be monogamous etc in the modern world because like
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the world's changed why do you think zero women choose them when they're at the peak of their
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choices so when a woman is 19 and she can go anywhere she wants every man wants her she's can
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go on any y'all in miami she can get flown out to dubai when she has all the choices in the world
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why is she completely uninterested in those kind of men and then when she gets to a certain age of
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maturity and all there's a whole new generation of girls who have all the choices then they sit
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there and go you know what i deserve monogamy and data and they all of a sudden want to grow up
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and mature why don't does why does no woman decide that when she actually is at her most valuable i i
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feel like for like i said i don't like to speak for all women i just speak for myself but i know for me
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that i was looking for a man for a lifestyle something that i was not able to do individually
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by myself so that's why it's like well yeah i want to be able to do this do that i want to go for
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the football player that was just on gq and in reality now i realize well okay there's a lot that
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comes with that i can make my own money i don't necessarily need that type of guy for the happiness
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that i'm looking for again seeing value in the grand canyon is a lot different than like okay
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here's money for this here's allowance for that and that's the same thing as you asking why a man
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that is 20 21 23 is not a top g like a 30 40 year old man the point your age actually dictates your
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sort of maturity to a large extent well i'm arguing the point the point i'm trying to make is that what
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i actually think happens especially in the modern world because the modern world's all fucked up and
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nothing's the way it's supposed to be the traditional life path of a female is she's 17
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she's 18 she's 19 and her value is massively inflated and i don't blame her of course it's
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massively inflated imagine being 19 years old have achieved exactly fucking zero in your life
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knowing nothing you put makeup on and and sports stars billionaires actors the most important famous
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people on the planet the richest men on the planet are begging for your attention the ego you're going
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to develop let's all be honest right the ego you're going to develop is gonna be monumental
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fucking mental i'm special i'm so gorgeous all this bullshit right and then what happens as they
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grow older as new generations come along because the truth is most women are are at their peak
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attraction let's say in their early 20s as they grow older what they what women become is far more
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fearful of competition this is why you'll see a woman who's a bit older go oh you know i really want
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monogamy today what she's scared of is her dude getting a 21 year old that's what she's fucking scared of
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she may not know it she may not say it but basically that's what the truth is because she knows a
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21 year old is gonna be more desirable higher status more fertile that's what she's scared of
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cheating is bad when you're 30 or 27 so no but i'm not it's not about that i'm telling you the the
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the shift in the female mentality because when a female is 20 she doesn't give a fuck about
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any of this she doesn't want to find a nice man now she's trying to like you're saying chasing a
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lifestyle chasing mr promiscuous chasing mr famous doesn't give a shit until she starts getting
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scared oh shit oh my my age begins with three now and then they change their mentality changes
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it's a fear element that's the reality and it's a biological fear element i'll give you an example
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of it you know what's amazing about humans we are still very primal if when when men like these two
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and me when we walk through the mall people just move it's like you can sense when you can sense when
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the big animals turn up right it's something amazing about humans if you have a very attractive 45 year
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old woman she's gorgeous but a gorgeous 19 year old walks in look at that 45 year old woman's face
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she's furious she fucking hates her she just doesn't like her for no reason because women understand
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unfortunate unfortunately but you're innately your age is a massive indicator in your value
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in an inverse way to men men are more valuable as we get older every man every woman knows that
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every woman will sit here and go yeah i know a man who's older than me of course but if i say it
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the other way around i'm misogynistic it's just the reality of the world so so then we have to go
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into the other point the point is this when you were at your peak value you had zero interest
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in monogamy but then you find a man who's 35 at his peak value he's finally struggled and worked
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because when he was 19 no girl spoke to him when he was 23 he was broke when he was 24 he had no life
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experience when he was 25 he couldn't fuck when he was 20 whatever he finally gets to the point where
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he's now at his peak value him at 35 is you when you were 19 and then you're sitting there saying to
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him no you should be a monogamy it's like well you fucking weren't you did whatever you wanted
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in your peak now i'm finally got there and i had to work for my shit god gave you god and l'oreal gave
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you you i had to fucking struggle i had to go through hell to get on this yacht you got on the yacht with
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an instagram dm i had to buy it and now you're telling me i need to fucking settle down and behave
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and grow up fuck you it's bullshit you're assuming that the journey is a man that starts with nothing
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to something because there's a lot of men that have exactly the journey of every man on earth
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we are born without value do you ah so there's there's specificity in that because that's not
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how it should be for everybody and that's not how it is for everybody and not for every woman either
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as well may i just say can ask britney something please um you know like oh then you've learned in
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the past and now you want to find someone to settle down with hindsight now would you have
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reversed it and like started young looking for someone to settle down with looking for those
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values that now you know i'm talking about with hindsight okay well i've i actually from 18 to 22
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i was in a relationship i've always actually been a lover girl despite what i put out online for you
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know i've never seen you online yeah that's fine well that's even better um i have always wanted
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one person and i feel like i was so delusional in thinking that oh i'm i'm like you said like i
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have value i'm beautiful i'm this i'm at my peak like why wouldn't you want to be with me so
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going into these relationships or just like p i'm sorry just people my goal was always to get
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commitment like i'm giving you my time i'm pouring into you because i want commitment and
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the reality is i'd never had i'd never really understood my value so i was going through guys
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giving up sex doing this and it didn't make sense so i believe in like i stay on everything
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i do like i i don't i don't do apology tours it is what it is and i think that's where i feel like
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when it when i talk about women being delusional and all these other things it is true because what
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you have to understand is that there are repercussions to your decisions which is fine
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so then you're talking about okay well i want this type of guy i want this that and that you're talking
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about maybe monogamy that's three to five percent of animals are monogamous i think that's what it is
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right so the your window is really really small for what you're looking for and even to go on to the
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point you said where you were talking about it's like a subconscious fear
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i think it's like for me i feel like if it was more of a fear i would have just stayed in my
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situation like it wouldn't have made sense like i mean that was my first kid i thought i waited and
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did it right i left because i believe that there's something else on my heart when it comes to love
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and i'm just gonna have to trust that and if that means being alone having a dog i have to take that
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chance because the bentley the ring the house and still getting again deceived right disrespected
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because deceit is disrespect right so i just i cannot settle for that i can't suck a dick and
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shut up and that is where a lot of people don't like my views and what i represent because it is
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something new i don't know how it's gonna fucking end i don't know what's gonna happen would you tell
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you're 17 if you had to like what would you tell your 17 year old self knowing what you know now
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looking back and you had to meet yourself at 17 what would you tell your what would you tell
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yourself like lock it down and wait for the right man don't have sex what would you tell your 17
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year old self that the answers aren't outside of you because i feel like i'd always look for
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men to answer all my questions that i've ever had i thought when i had a man it would complete me
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complete me and i feel like too um especially with like my dad not being in my life you look for
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somebody to guide me like so that's where for me i put too much value in someone else having the
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answers for me so that's why i'm really big on accountability so i i would just tell myself like
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to be patient to take your time because i was always quick oh let's try to get in a relationship
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like we weren't even compatible there's a lot of just not compatible factors so i feel like for me
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it would be to slow down and to really get to know people instead of just blindly banking on potential
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that most likely will never be tapped into or selling myself short because there's a fear of well
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i don't know this could be the best that i could get i might as well just suck up shut up and suck a
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and that's what that's what i meant about about women nowadays because exactly what you'd be
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telling your 17 year old self is what happened back in the day so when i'm repeating these things
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i'm going oh you're old-fashioned but it seems like women do what they like and then they hit a
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certain age and say oh well i've got to settle but it's not settling you're just getting whatever
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you can you know or whatever you deserve you know because if you think back now you'd be telling
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people now rather than say that auntie's old-fashioned or auntie don't know what she's
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talking about look what she'd be telling her 17 year old self which ain't nothing that i already said
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yeah because really and truly let me finish let me finish because what i've always said and you can
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check i'm an older version of you so where you've been i've already been an upper comeback so that's why
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i asked you what would you tell your 17 year old self because me telling you is i'm telling my 30
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year old self do you understand where i'm coming from so it's not that i'm old-fashioned it's just
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that women hit a certain age and then realize oh my god it wasn't that old-fashioned you know it
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works because it does but there's no point in waiting till you're a certain age to start thinking
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about it you know even if you're like you hold your own accountability so it's like if you meet
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somebody and they were like 17 18 and you saw the match in a certain way they asked you for advice
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you won't say do as i do you say listen this is what happened to me and this is what i thought and
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what i recommend you do is blah blah blah am i right or am i wrong if they ask you for your advice
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no as many of you know i was just banned on tiktok and we are demonetized on a daily basis on this
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