Modern Wives GO BROKE For Beauty
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Summary
Why do modern wives spend so much money on makeup and other things that don't serve their husbands? Is it because they don't want to spend money on themselves or because they want to be a good mother to their kids?
Transcript
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This weekend I spent a lot of time thinking about what true femininity is and I thought about how
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you have these women that sell femininity courses and they typically have on a lot of makeup and
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maybe they sell courses on makeup, getting your nails done and looking elegant and really there's
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nothing wrong with that. Image matters, image is important but a lot of times I'll meet these women
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and there's not an ounce of femininity in their body and I was trying to understand like why are
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these women not feminine. I can see that they're not feminine but I can't exactly explain to you why
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and I thought about how one of the most feminine women I have ever met in my life really she didn't
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have the latest fashion trends and she was overweight. She wasn't what these women sell and I thought to
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myself what makes her selfless and the conclusion I came to was when you think about our great
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grandmothers and our grandmothers they didn't care about the latest fashion trends. They didn't
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care about being all polished and proper. What was most important to them was the men in their lives.
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True and this is what I tweeted, true femininity is actually women serving men. It has nothing to do
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with clothes, fashion or having your nails done. If you go get your nails done they are serving you
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therefore it is not feminine. And my thought process was is all of these girls that are really
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into fashion typically live very selfish lives and the things they do are typically for them and
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therefore it makes them unfeminine. So J.O. responded to this and he said femininity doesn't expand it
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enhances masculinity. So then I had another tweet. This made some people mad. I said I heard married wives
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and mothers are getting Botox. Why? He already married you. What more do you need? Spend that
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money on your children. And I thought about the women that invest a lot into their looks. Again it's not
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feminine. It's one thing if you are investing into your looks for the man in your life. But men have
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overwhelmingly said we do not want this. We do not want Botox. We do not want fake hair extensions.
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We do not want a ton of makeup. No, no, no. We do not want this. And it really just leads me to the
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conclusion that really most of these wives that are spending all of this money on their appearance
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are doing it for the external validation rather than their husband's validation. Therefore making it
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not feminine. Women that are getting work done if you polled their husbands. What percent of them would
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say yes? I am so happy my wife is putting in injections into her face. The mother of my children.
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Yes, I am so happy that the mother of my children is tattooing eyeliner. Yes, I am so excited that the
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mother of my children spends two hours every day on her makeup. Do men really want this? And the common
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argument that I hear is yes men want it but they don't know that they want it. And what that tells
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me is I get more attention from men when I do these things. And my question is if you're married
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why do you need attention and validation from the outside world? Why is your husband's opinion not the
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most important? It really if you want to belong to a guy the question is what is he like when I wear it?
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What does he want me to do? And most men look at all of this stuff as an expense. And and I expanded
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on this in my tweet. I said the wives and mothers that are wasting all of this money on Botox nails
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fashion are telling on themselves. It shows their priority themselves their looks attention from men
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and not what ding ding ding their family. And we have to talk about ideals on this show when we talk to
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women that are actually the ideals that really are the most selfless feminine women that you have met.
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Are they typically women that are worried about the latest fashion trends? They are typically worried
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about their children and typically they don't want to spend money on themselves they want to spend money
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on the children. That is a true feminine women. A woman that puts the family above herself. And what we
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have now is a bunch of Kim Kardashian wives that are playing pretend. It's me me me me me. My career
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what I want and it doesn't matter what my husband wants and the kids want. And we saw this when Kim
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Kardashian and Kanye were married. And Kanye repeatedly told Kim that he didn't want her wearing certain
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types of outfits. And her response is that well I was like this when you married me. And while that is a
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valid point my question is are we all going to be exactly the same all through marriage? And isn't
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it your job as a wife to submit to your husband's authority even when he changes directions? And again
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it shows the problem with the modern wives. It's a lack of control. They need to be in control of
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everything. Everything needs to be the same from the day we get married till the day we die. Otherwise I
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have been deceived. Now I got a response from Free Ashley. She says women need to work on their appearance
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through marriage so their husbands remain attracted to them physically. Also women spend too much money
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worrying about their appearance after they are married. Pick one you can't have both. Yes I can
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and I'm going to tell you how I can. When I say worry about your appearance focusing on fitness and
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being healthy will actually put you in the top 25 percent of women because 70 percent of women are
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overweight in the United States. So you actually can't have both. You can focus on your appearance
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wanting to look good for your husband without spending hundreds of dollars a month on face
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creams, moisturizers, heavy makeup, and Botox. We don't need this. And typically women that are
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heavily invested in their looks are not happy with the option they have. They simply want a better one.
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I asked my producers to give me an example of a woman in the media that has done a ton of work over
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time. Do you see on the left how she almost has this like feminine essence of her? And it's interesting
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because even when women age and they get older but they don't get work done, there's something more
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pure about the way they look. There's something more feminine. And then on the right it's almost like
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an older woman trying to cosplay as a younger woman. And we can all see it. Maybe it's more visually
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attractive slightly. But there's a difference between attraction and beauty. And there's something
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about a woman that has gotten very little work done that just ages, I don't want to say better,
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but more gracefully over time. And you start to see these women that are too invested in their looks.
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And I think a lot of women have been lied to. And they end up at 50 just looking kind of nutty,
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looking kind of crazy because eventually the Botox starts to fade. And then when you think about it,
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how much money did you spend on yourself that you could have really spent on your family? So
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Monica Crowley, a prominent conservative political commentator and talk show host,
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has been a fixture in the American media for decades with a career that spans on
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radio, television, and various political roles. She's gained recognition for her sharp
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intellect and articulate communication. However, over the years, the topic of Monica Crowley's
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appearance has become a subject of speculation leading to rumors of plastic surgery. I think it's
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pretty obvious this chick has said plastic surgery. But it's almost like they switch their faces switch
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from beauty to I don't even know what to call it like fake sexy. And it's sad because it's like God
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gives us this natural beauty and we continue to manipulate what God has given us. I would argue
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this is a telltale sign of a lack of femininity. Most women that have had heavy work done that are ultra
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focused on their appearance are not overly feminine because they are focused on themselves and not their