JustPearlyThings - December 28, 2022


Modern Woman And Pearl ARGUE on Child Support


Episode Stats

Length

8 minutes

Words per Minute

222.10791

Word Count

1,943

Sentence Count

2

Misogynist Sentences

15

Hate Speech Sentences

10


Summary


Transcript

00:00:00.000 my point i i think he should i think he should take care of it i just don't agree with having
00:00:04.560 legal incentives for women to leave that's my point he should give you money for the kid
00:00:09.360 if you have a kid you should but i just don't agree with with see but the thing is if men stood
00:00:14.640 up and became fathers to their children women wouldn't but if women but if women but it starts
00:00:22.480 we're in control of who we sleep with so at the end of the day if you pick if you pick but if you
00:00:28.080 but you pick who you sleep with so you pick a guy that's getting girls pregnant left and right
00:00:32.160 but she doesn't know that he's not gonna be there she doesn't know that if she married him she'd be
00:00:36.080 all right she trusted this man to be a father to a child and now she's left with a child and no one's
00:00:41.200 gonna support her don't you think that's not sure i mean you can get married that's what i'm saying
00:00:47.760 it's just like marriage is what solves problems are you guys not what i'm trying to say
00:00:51.600 please don't cut me off this is the problem yeah stop acting like every woman that leaves a marriage
00:00:59.280 and gets divorced is because she's this and she's that there's a lot of women that suffer and they
00:01:03.600 actually need the support and the legal incentive so that they know when they leave somebody can back
00:01:07.840 them up because they'll be on their own stop acting like men are angels because there's a lot of men
00:01:12.400 that are dealing with a lot of the traumas that they have from a man's world being difficult the same
00:01:16.560 way that andrew tate explained a man's world is highly competitive men are out there suffering it is
00:01:21.280 hard to be a man and a lot of the time the person takes the brunt of it is the woman so yes she's
00:01:25.520 well within her right to leave take her child and be in a better place and the government should step
00:01:30.000 in to make sure that that man that made her make that decision steps in for that kid wait the time
00:01:35.840 that she takes to take care of the child is the time that she doesn't have to go to work so she's
00:01:40.080 already done on income and she's having to be taking care of the child on her own that don't make sense
00:01:44.080 not every man is a bloody angel and not every woman is a devil
00:01:46.960 i don't pick wait hang on a minute hang on a minute i'm gonna leave go ahead hang on a minute
00:01:50.880 how do you do that when did i say a man was an angel how do you do that how do you do that
00:01:55.760 i'm talking i'm talking i waited i waited yes i waited right so now it's my time to talk talk to
00:02:02.880 me what i was saying to her is right is that if she got married first then she would have been
00:02:08.960 all right she would have to be fighting for the court so the same law that you're saying would have
00:02:12.400 supported her and her child and no and that is the difference between getting married first
00:02:16.720 and that's what i'm saying and that's what getting married just gives you more money
00:02:22.160 it's not a good decision yeah excuse me but i shut up when you were talking
00:02:26.080 oh one apologies my auntie right so what i was trying to say
00:02:30.320 is that there is an incentive when women get married first and have children because i'm not
00:02:36.240 saying that i'm not saying like you i'm just saying women in general if a woman gets married first
00:02:40.960 before she has a child and then it leaves then it's totally different like he said before she's
00:02:45.920 up for life if she leaves she's out for life so if somebody else for life without marriage though
00:02:51.200 that's the point no and that is what you want to hear no and as a person again let's ask somebody
00:02:56.160 who's actually going through because none of you know what the you're talking about when it comes
00:02:59.120 to child support lawyers none of that none of you know okay so you don't the reality is if i
00:03:05.920 would have gotten married and did everything right and did everything the moral way right guess what all i
00:03:10.720 would have a dish on top of what i'm going through with child support is alimony so i'm still in the
00:03:16.240 courts fighting whether i'm married or whether i'm not so that i get what you're saying because hey you
00:03:21.280 at least get the commitment to you know maybe back up that he's going to be there but it doesn't
00:03:26.160 ensure anything everybody wants a guaranteed thing there's no guaranteed in life we're talking
00:03:31.520 different places when you're in america and you're married and you divorce you still got to fight for
00:03:34.880 your money and would you yes you have to get a lawyer not in england in england you get a lawyer
00:03:40.400 and it's sorted that's the difference you would have to be going there saying oh i need this for
00:03:44.800 my child and i need this you get once you get divorced and you go to court it's that i'm saying
00:03:51.040 she just spent 50 000 pounds she's still fighting you have to pay that here you would not have to pay
00:03:56.160 that here you would not have to pay that here do your research you would not have to pay that here
00:04:03.120 when you get divorced she wouldn't be going for all the battle that she's going it'd be simpler
00:04:07.680 in england to get divorced than in america take your money don't get married have a parental
00:04:14.400 partnership i just want to make a point you know what you were saying get married even tate said
00:04:20.800 himself men don't want to get married anymore why are you not turning what he's saying why you're not
00:04:25.360 twisting what you say you're not even listening to what he's saying it's not attractive anymore
00:04:33.280 and you're twisting it to suit yourself no i'm not he literally said didn't you say that men are
00:04:38.160 scared of getting married now what yeah okay but why because like you said with child support
00:04:43.920 they feel like there's no advantage it's not that simple because men don't want to marry you
00:04:49.920 okay so let's let's let's analyze that point and first and first thing back to the child support
00:04:54.720 thing what's actually interesting to talk about is there's a lot of countries in the world where
00:04:59.120 there is no child support system and it functions right so you have to if you want to pay attention to
00:05:04.480 actually you know learn about society as a whole it's very interesting to study all the different
00:05:09.920 societies and economies in which there is no child support and and children don't die i mean people
00:05:14.720 get divorced and they still find a way to function and it's interesting it's a very long conversation
00:05:18.880 because it extrapolates about how the whole society works as a whole that's the first point
00:05:22.640 second thing i'll actually sit here and argue the point that i don't think any man really ever wants
00:05:30.400 to get married i think that women convince them to get married and i think that any woman who is
00:05:35.040 genuinely serious about convincing her man to get married could do it i don't think in the modern world
00:05:40.320 at least men wake up and go can't wait to get married but what they do is they get a chick who's so
00:05:44.080 good and ticks so many boxes and makes them so happy and she'll sit there and say you know what
00:05:50.320 it would mean the world to me please and he'll go off for fuck's sake all right then
00:05:56.320 and that's what happens so i still think you can convince 99.9 percent of men to marry you the point
00:06:01.280 i was making is the society society isn't convincing the man to to marry you it's not like
00:06:06.880 it used to be where the man believed he had to be married society's done the opposite so it's your
00:06:10.720 job as a woman to make it clear to him that it is worthwhile once again how would you convince a man
00:06:16.880 it's worthwhile for him to say that's my wife status that's how you do it this is the under
00:06:23.200 a misunderstood hack to to men as a whole is status if you can say if you can convince that man but by
00:06:29.920 marrying you his status will increase amongst his peers he's going to do it and for anyone out here who
00:06:34.800 disagrees with me the things men do for status let's actually analyze how baseline men are what
00:06:41.040 is status status is respect right men kill over respect men gangs kill each other over respect a
00:06:48.080 man will smash another man's face in for insulting him we will die for respect and status you tell me
00:06:53.280 we won't get married we'll die for we'll go to the front line of a war and the only reason we don't walk
00:06:58.960 away and abandon our post as artillery shells let rain it's because we're afraid of being mocked for
00:07:04.880 being a coward we'll die for status so status is what it's all about it's what it's always been about
00:07:10.640 if you wanted a man to marry you status and it's the same thing with nearly anything you want to do
00:07:15.200 with a man i don't know anything about your personal life i'll be honest i don't know right
00:07:19.760 but i'll tell you this now if this dude this mba player believed that he would be higher respected
00:07:25.520 amongst his peers and amongst society for taking care of you properly that's what he'd do he doesn't
00:07:30.400 feel that because either he's rolling with the wrong people or you've pissed him off in a way
00:07:34.880 or something public's happened i don't have a clue but something's happened where he feels like if i
00:07:38.800 take care of her i'll look like a bitch that's what he's scared of if it was inversed he had no
00:07:43.600 problem giving you money because that's how men function i'm telling you right now as a man i'm
00:07:47.200 telling you what i would do if i had a chick with a woman right and she went on the news top jeez this
00:07:51.040 and fucking i don't and this like i said i have no idea what you've done i was giving my personal
00:07:54.480 made up a scenario yeah she would go on the news top jesus and he fucking lied to me he's a piece
00:07:58.880 of shit and then i bought her a bentley was like well look she insults top jesus she insults him
00:08:03.440 and he's fucking he's a simp but if she was like you know what he he's misunderstood he's a good guy
00:08:08.400 it just didn't work out but she'd be in a mansion right and would that be me being a nice guy caring
00:08:14.320 about her or let's be honest would it be me being a selfish piece of dude and say what makes me look
00:08:18.560 better as many of you know i was just banned on tick tock and we are demonetized on a daily basis
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