JustPearlyThings - December 28, 2022


Modern Woman And Pearl ARGUE on Child Support

Hosted by
Hannah Pearl Davis
Mentioned
Andrew Tate
Andrew Tate Educates This Feminists Brittany Renner's Ideal Man

Episode Stats


Length

8 minutes

Words per minute

222.11

Word count

1,943

Sentence count

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Harmful content

Misogyny

15

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Toxicity

14

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Hate speech

10

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Summary

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In this episode, we talk about the reasons why women should get married first before having children and the benefits of getting married before having a child. We also talk about why it's not a good idea for women to get married before they have a child and the problems that come with it.

Transcript

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00:00:00.000 my point i i think he should i think he should take care of it i just don't agree with having
00:00:04.560 legal incentives for women to leave that's my point he should give you money for the kid 1.00
00:00:09.360 if you have a kid you should but i just don't agree with with see but the thing is if men stood
00:00:14.640 up and became fathers to their children women wouldn't but if women but if women but it starts 1.00
00:00:22.480 we're in control of who we sleep with so at the end of the day if you pick if you pick but if you
00:00:28.080 but you pick who you sleep with so you pick a guy that's getting girls pregnant left and right 1.00
00:00:32.160 but she doesn't know that he's not gonna be there she doesn't know that if she married him she'd be 0.57
00:00:36.080 all right she trusted this man to be a father to a child and now she's left with a child and no one's
00:00:41.200 gonna support her don't you think that's not sure i mean you can get married that's what i'm saying
00:00:47.760 it's just like marriage is what solves problems are you guys not what i'm trying to say
00:00:51.600 please don't cut me off this is the problem yeah stop acting like every woman that leaves a marriage 0.99
00:00:59.280 and gets divorced is because she's this and she's that there's a lot of women that suffer and they 1.00
00:01:03.600 actually need the support and the legal incentive so that they know when they leave somebody can back
00:01:07.840 them up because they'll be on their own stop acting like men are angels because there's a lot of men
00:01:12.400 that are dealing with a lot of the traumas that they have from a man's world being difficult the same
00:01:16.560 way that andrew tate explained a man's world is highly competitive men are out there suffering it is
00:01:21.280 hard to be a man and a lot of the time the person takes the brunt of it is the woman so yes she's 0.97
00:01:25.520 well within her right to leave take her child and be in a better place and the government should step 1.00
00:01:30.000 in to make sure that that man that made her make that decision steps in for that kid wait the time
00:01:35.840 that she takes to take care of the child is the time that she doesn't have to go to work so she's
00:01:40.080 already done on income and she's having to be taking care of the child on her own that don't make sense
00:01:44.080 not every man is a bloody angel and not every woman is a devil
00:01:46.960 i don't pick wait hang on a minute hang on a minute i'm gonna leave go ahead hang on a minute
00:01:50.880 how do you do that when did i say a man was an angel how do you do that how do you do that
00:01:55.760 i'm talking i'm talking i waited i waited yes i waited right so now it's my time to talk talk to
00:02:02.880 me what i was saying to her is right is that if she got married first then she would have been
00:02:08.960 all right she would have to be fighting for the court so the same law that you're saying would have 0.78
00:02:12.400 supported her and her child and no and that is the difference between getting married first
00:02:16.720 and that's what i'm saying and that's what getting married just gives you more money
00:02:22.160 it's not a good decision yeah excuse me but i shut up when you were talking 0.57
00:02:26.080 oh one apologies my auntie right so what i was trying to say
00:02:30.320 is that there is an incentive when women get married first and have children because i'm not 1.00
00:02:36.240 saying that i'm not saying like you i'm just saying women in general if a woman gets married first
00:02:40.960 before she has a child and then it leaves then it's totally different like he said before she's
00:02:45.920 up for life if she leaves she's out for life so if somebody else for life without marriage though 1.00
00:02:51.200 that's the point no and that is what you want to hear no and as a person again let's ask somebody
00:02:56.160 who's actually going through because none of you know what the you're talking about when it comes
00:02:59.120 to child support lawyers none of that none of you know okay so you don't the reality is if i
00:03:05.920 would have gotten married and did everything right and did everything the moral way right guess what all i
00:03:10.720 would have a dish on top of what i'm going through with child support is alimony so i'm still in the
00:03:16.240 courts fighting whether i'm married or whether i'm not so that i get what you're saying because hey you
00:03:21.280 at least get the commitment to you know maybe back up that he's going to be there but it doesn't
00:03:26.160 ensure anything everybody wants a guaranteed thing there's no guaranteed in life we're talking
00:03:31.520 different places when you're in america and you're married and you divorce you still got to fight for
00:03:34.880 your money and would you yes you have to get a lawyer not in england in england you get a lawyer
00:03:40.400 and it's sorted that's the difference you would have to be going there saying oh i need this for
00:03:44.800 my child and i need this you get once you get divorced and you go to court it's that i'm saying
00:03:51.040 she just spent 50 000 pounds she's still fighting you have to pay that here you would not have to pay 0.99
00:03:56.160 that here you would not have to pay that here do your research you would not have to pay that here
00:04:03.120 when you get divorced she wouldn't be going for all the battle that she's going it'd be simpler 1.00
00:04:07.680 in england to get divorced than in america take your money don't get married have a parental
00:04:14.400 partnership i just want to make a point you know what you were saying get married even tate said
00:04:20.800 himself men don't want to get married anymore why are you not turning what he's saying why you're not
00:04:25.360 twisting what you say you're not even listening to what he's saying it's not attractive anymore
00:04:33.280 and you're twisting it to suit yourself no i'm not he literally said didn't you say that men are
00:04:38.160 scared of getting married now what yeah okay but why because like you said with child support
00:04:43.920 they feel like there's no advantage it's not that simple because men don't want to marry you 0.85
00:04:49.920 okay so let's let's let's analyze that point and first and first thing back to the child support
00:04:54.720 thing what's actually interesting to talk about is there's a lot of countries in the world where
00:04:59.120 there is no child support system and it functions right so you have to if you want to pay attention to
00:05:04.480 actually you know learn about society as a whole it's very interesting to study all the different
00:05:09.920 societies and economies in which there is no child support and and children don't die i mean people
00:05:14.720 get divorced and they still find a way to function and it's interesting it's a very long conversation
00:05:18.880 because it extrapolates about how the whole society works as a whole that's the first point
00:05:22.640 second thing i'll actually sit here and argue the point that i don't think any man really ever wants
00:05:30.400 to get married i think that women convince them to get married and i think that any woman who is
00:05:35.040 genuinely serious about convincing her man to get married could do it i don't think in the modern world
00:05:40.320 at least men wake up and go can't wait to get married but what they do is they get a chick who's so 1.00
00:05:44.080 good and ticks so many boxes and makes them so happy and she'll sit there and say you know what 1.00
00:05:50.320 it would mean the world to me please and he'll go off for fuck's sake all right then 0.97
00:05:56.320 and that's what happens so i still think you can convince 99.9 percent of men to marry you the point 0.99
00:06:01.280 i was making is the society society isn't convincing the man to to marry you it's not like
00:06:06.880 it used to be where the man believed he had to be married society's done the opposite so it's your
00:06:10.720 job as a woman to make it clear to him that it is worthwhile once again how would you convince a man
00:06:16.880 it's worthwhile for him to say that's my wife status that's how you do it this is the under
00:06:23.200 a misunderstood hack to to men as a whole is status if you can say if you can convince that man but by
00:06:29.920 marrying you his status will increase amongst his peers he's going to do it and for anyone out here who
00:06:34.800 disagrees with me the things men do for status let's actually analyze how baseline men are what
00:06:41.040 is status status is respect right men kill over respect men gangs kill each other over respect a
00:06:48.080 man will smash another man's face in for insulting him we will die for respect and status you tell me
00:06:53.280 we won't get married we'll die for we'll go to the front line of a war and the only reason we don't walk 0.82
00:06:58.960 away and abandon our post as artillery shells let rain it's because we're afraid of being mocked for
00:07:04.880 being a coward we'll die for status so status is what it's all about it's what it's always been about
00:07:10.640 if you wanted a man to marry you status and it's the same thing with nearly anything you want to do 0.68
00:07:15.200 with a man i don't know anything about your personal life i'll be honest i don't know right
00:07:19.760 but i'll tell you this now if this dude this mba player believed that he would be higher respected
00:07:25.520 amongst his peers and amongst society for taking care of you properly that's what he'd do he doesn't
00:07:30.400 feel that because either he's rolling with the wrong people or you've pissed him off in a way
00:07:34.880 or something public's happened i don't have a clue but something's happened where he feels like if i 0.96
00:07:38.800 take care of her i'll look like a bitch that's what he's scared of if it was inversed he had no 1.00
00:07:43.600 problem giving you money because that's how men function i'm telling you right now as a man i'm 0.99
00:07:47.200 telling you what i would do if i had a chick with a woman right and she went on the news top jeez this 1.00
00:07:51.040 and fucking i don't and this like i said i have no idea what you've done i was giving my personal 1.00
00:07:54.480 made up a scenario yeah she would go on the news top jesus and he fucking lied to me he's a piece 0.99
00:07:58.880 of shit and then i bought her a bentley was like well look she insults top jesus she insults him 1.00
00:08:03.440 and he's fucking he's a simp but if she was like you know what he he's misunderstood he's a good guy 1.00
00:08:08.400 it just didn't work out but she'd be in a mansion right and would that be me being a nice guy caring 1.00
00:08:14.320 about her or let's be honest would it be me being a selfish piece of dude and say what makes me look
00:08:18.560 better as many of you know i was just banned on tick tock and we are demonetized on a daily basis
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