Modern Woman DESCRIBES Her Dream Man
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Summary
In this episode, we talk about what we look for in a guy on social media profiles, what we're looking for, and what we don't want to see on a guy's profile. We also discuss what we do and don't care about when it comes to sex.
Transcript
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So when you guys are looking at a social media profile
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I know some of you are in relationships, but just like think back to when you were single and you got you looked at a profile
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And you have to decide whether you would respond or not. What would you look at?
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Okay, so fashion. Yeah. Are you trying to see how tall he is? Is that a big thing for you?
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I mean everyone wants someone over six foot, but I've been with guys that are smaller than that
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So it doesn't really bother me too too much to be fair
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But yeah, definitely fashion style what they do
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Also guys if you want anyone to rate your Instagrams put it in the chat and we'll see what they think of it
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You said you want to see what he does. Yeah, what else anything else is that not if you travel stuff like that and just traveling helped in
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Well, it just shows that he probably was spontaneous and that's an adventure
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Um, okay god, I think for me, um, of course. Yeah, we we want to look what we want to see what he looks like
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So I just want to see if I like his face, you know
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Um his build I am looking at fashion. I'm looking at things. That's like
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Like is he posing with his like with his top out? Like is he trying to show off the packs?
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Like I'm trying to see if he's trying to flaunt all of that because I'm attracted to a dude that's confident
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But I also don't want someone that's like cocky or that like likes to put that on display
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So if you see like a shirtless picture is that a turn on or turn off?
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It's it depends on like most of the time it's a turn off
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But it also depends on like how he's posing like sometimes you can just see some guys on their profile
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And they're like giving you the eyes like smiles and they're like doing the most and I feel like that's low-key a bit of a turn off for me
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Like his friends if he's posted any pictures of his like mom if like like what he does
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Yeah, i'm just kind of looking at all of that. I don't know if that makes sense, but yeah
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For me, it's just like if they post their interest. I don't
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It more depends on the message for me rather than the profile because the profile is fake anyway
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Like everyone's instagram is just a fake version of themselves. So
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It it would catch my eye if they have something that they're really passionate and interested in that they post about
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That might entice me more to reply, but I think it more depends on
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The message for me what type of message would be a good message to send you if it can make me laugh or something funny
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Something funny. Yeah, or something that would make me think like if they said something really interesting
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The standards are rough because it's like I don't know what you find funny
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But that's kind of my point like it's it's it's instagram like it's it's all a fake world anyway
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So you might as well just give it a go and you know, you never know go have that universal riz
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What about you two um good first message to send you to be fair
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It depends whether they're good-looking or not if i'll reply like the message could just be hey
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And if he's good-looking i'll entertain it a little bit, but if the conversation just dead, then it just spoils it
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In the past i've had guys that will like talk about my body
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Or anything like that and I don't want to feel like i'm being sexually objectified in any way
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So if he comes in straight off the bat like oh like and starts talking about my body
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I'm gonna ignore that i'm not going to give that any energy
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I'm, not too fuzzy, but just saying hey like how are you and just starting up a conversation because i'm a human being
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So it's like respect me talk to me like i'm a human being. I don't want you to on instagram
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Sexually like provocative or anything like that too tough
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I can but like i try not to do that too often can we see it?
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Yeah, i want to see if we could can we look at your yeah, yeah, that's fine, uh, it's tashana talks so t-a-s-h-a-u-n-a talks
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Because i was kind of wanted to see i want to get the guys feedback and like what they would think of you without meeting you okay
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So you said it just matters how good looking he is yeah first message for you as long as it's not sexual
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Yeah, just like say hey like what's up that's fine. Did you have something you had to say?
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Yeah, i'm the same like if it's sexual i won't respond whatsoever. Yeah
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Have you guys found that that if you send like a sexual message first, it's like a lower response rate
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Yeah, the hey hi, how are you doing never works
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You get left unread most times you gotta just you gotta just start a conversation you know
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I mean like people the great thing about instagram, which is better. I think than um text and grabbing a number remember four people used to be a bit
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Annoyed if you know you go to talk to a girl and she gives you like her socials
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But the great thing about that is she posts on there every day
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So there's something that you can kind of connect on at some point
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Do you know I mean wait for that moment where you can kind of connect on something and then just talk normally
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You know, I mean don't put someone on a pedestal in the moment that you've done that
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Yeah, the game, but were you guys saying that if you send a sexual message you you're more likely to get a response?
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Like a woodshot? Are you talking about like a nude?
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Obviously don't go don't go don't go 10 out of 10 out of the gate
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I meant like about her like complimenting her body or something like that
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I mean there's certain there's certain profiles that that works with in the same profiles that I wouldn't
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Yeah, because it's with from a guy's perspective not to speak generally for everyone, but it's one of those ones because you guys said
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If you listen, why blah blah blah and if he if he looks like he treats me nice and all over for guys is do you think she will respond?
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Yeah, all right, so we want to hear from the guys. Oh, yeah, I'll put me on blast
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Well, we're getting from here traveling traveling
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You can give it later. I just want to see without without knowing her
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Okay, so I'm not seeing too much like skin out. Yeah, I haven't seen any football posing with a bet. Yeah. Yeah, so she's a respectable girl
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She's chilling. Um, I don't really think this is a page where she's like looking for
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Mandem's attention. Yeah, she's just kind of just enjoying life. She's I used to work around there. She is
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Yeah, I wouldn't get a message her because she could be a quick one type of message if I was to see this instagram
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Yeah, this is a honest individual who is showing you situations and I like that in her life
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That first one that first one that first one's like don't look at me, but look at me with the whole jacket
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What's your instagram he's gonna pull it up it's ashton maria
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We have one girl on this show we we did a show today called wife or cat lady
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Yeah, you come on the show and we had we had one percent men so that all these men were verified millionaires and they all had to
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Decide if the women coming in were wife wifey or cat ladies, you know
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It was like her boobs were like ow. It was like a see-through like top on instagram
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Yeah, and I was trying to tell her I'm like, I don't know if that's like what the the millionaire maybe like the millionaire like ballers
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Maybe that's a different group, but like I'm like, I don't know about the millionaire like
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Yeah, well she's very she's very beautiful see she didn't need to do that
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No, that's what I was telling her cuz I was like I was like I probably would have put her top like 10 20 percent of beauty
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She's so beautiful. And I was just like, why would you put that?
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I was like that's like being born 610. Yeah, and not playing basketball
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That's that's that's interesting. She needs more people around. I just said tell her that she's attractive in the face
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If she deleted three of these pictures on instagram
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You should have gone percentage rather than number three percent and she'd have to delete like eight pictures
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She was very attached to the instagram. Okay, she was a very nice girl, but I was like you're very attached to the insta
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She she's comparing herself to whoever she idolizes on there. So she might see some woman that all comes down to self-confidence
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No, but there might be a woman that she finds. She might look at Carly and think raw if I was if I was like