Modern Woman Doesn't Understand Marriage
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Summary
What makes a good wife? How to be a good mother? What does a wife need to be in order to be considered a good one? How should a wife be treated by her husband? And what does a good woman need to do? All of these questions and more are answered in this episode.
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modern women are crappy wives so um today my first question is do you want to be a wife
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yeah and if so what makes a good wife so starting here and then go around
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what makes a good wife um i think companionship like definitely friendship i think that's a big
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thing in a marriage um i wouldn't know that because i'm not married but you know something
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i want is to be literally my partner's best friend um do you think men want a best friend
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yeah 100 100 okay yeah really i think so i think men want to talk to women all the time okay yeah
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not all the time too much is too much yeah even me it's not all the time okay okay anything else
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um just just to be there to show up okay yeah women don't have to do anything but be a best friend and
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show up to be a wife okay not just that okay well i need to elaborate so i'm just gonna go off of
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what you said so um just i i don't know okay i just um because we live in this in a society like this
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in terms of like cooking and like traditional things i've i genuinely feel like it should be
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like you know divided yeah divided definitely so i don't think it's like a compulsory thing
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do you think all the like fixing stuff around the house should be divided half half fixing the car
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i mean if you can do it should the dates be half half i'm just i'm just you know we're gonna this
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is the energy right yeah and that would be a good wife yeah i'll split the chores with you
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i'll be your best friend yeah okay okay go ahead um what do i think a wife do you want to be a wife
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and what makes a good wife yeah i do want to be a wife um i would say what makes a good wife is
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being the type of woman that can motivate and inspire a man to be the best version of himself
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because i feel like with a good woman by his side supporting him a man can do incredible things and i
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i feel like some men are lacking that in their lives like they're like they don't have that woman
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that's there guiding them and like being supportive and motivating him and lifting him up um so how would
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how would a girl do that just inspiring a man to be the best version of himself like um how so like if
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i said i want to i want to i want to be a good wife and i'm coming to you how can i inspire well i feel
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like you you have to be a good woman yourself first like you have to be like you have to be basically
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having your own things like you have to be independent you have to be like cultured worldly
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intellectual um you have to have things that also inspire the man and i feel like when you have those
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things as a woman you can bring those into the relationship and the man sees you he sees your
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worth he sees your value and he's like i've got to step my game up like i've got to be the best man
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for her um because you inspire him to be like that you know and where did you learn this is this from
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your parents or did you learn it somewhere else um i learned it from my parents yeah i did i think my
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mom really helped my dad become the best version of himself she helped him on the straight road
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she made him cut out a lot of toxic how did you do that um because of her morals like she had
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real strong morals he saw her value he saw what type of woman she was and he wanted to
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lock it down straight away he was like this is like a real good woman like she's you know there for me
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she's supporting me she's trying to help me build she wants to help me build this empire so i've got to
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get my act together so yeah i did watch my mom and dad like that because my question is more you
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said independent and i just went in history have independent women have men wanted independent
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women like when men have always wanted women yeah that relied on them when i'm when i meant sorry i
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just want to rephrase that when i meant independent i meant as in like she is able to stand on her own
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two feet like she doesn't need him she's not constantly needing him she doesn't give off that like
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needy clinginess like she can do things around on her own but she would rather let the man do things
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for her if that makes sense but if he wasn't around and god forbid something happened then she'd be able
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to stand on her own two feet because i feel like men do want that they don't want to know that you like
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constantly like need them emotionally mentally everything i've never heard a guy say that he
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doesn't want a girl that needs him but there's so many guys that get turned off by it if they don't like
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you if like usually it's like a girl that's like a little bit too ugly for him like typically like
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she's a little bit below his typical league and like that's why she's annoying to him because she's
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not in his like league yeah like have you ever said a guy that was into a girl that's like oh she's
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too needy she wants me too much i mean i have heard men say that but i guess maybe they're with the
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wrong woman i guess i don't know okay okay what do you think well i think the woman needs to look
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after the house i think she have to um be there for him like to support him and i think the friendship
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it's important as well um i don't know the respect as well okay so you think she should take care of the
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how she's respectful to him yeah friendship i think that's important okay they can be friends
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they can do things together they can even house things they can do together okay all right go ahead
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it's a weird one for me well do you want to be a wife and did you say do you want you want to be
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a wife well it's a tricky one for me because i actually was a wife okay uh but now i'm single
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so yeah i want to be a wife okay all right go ahead sorry i just love love i love love i love
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love um i kind of like the idea of being a wife equaling things if that makes sense like paying for
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dates supporting our family supporting a house when it comes to building stuff and i think so i like it
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though um so you'll half the money yeah you'll do 50 50 on the money but again i i understand it
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comes to some extent because obviously we get pregnant we um leave obviously because we are with child
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um so i like the way you said that with child i'm waking up and i was like how can i phrase this
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but um what's your question actually what makes a good what makes a good wife makes a good wife
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morals morals and i think would you include like loyalty in that absolutely okay so you'd say a
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woman's a bad wife if she leaves no right no i i disagree no you disagree yeah but how are you a
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good wife if you leave well if you don't have the reason to stay you you have to leave you know
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commitment vows i think like um to be married and to have a family like i think that's beautiful and i
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tell me before um it's it's called it's a commitment and it's hard and i feel like a lot of
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people don't like to go through the hardship but the hardship makes you stronger but the good wives
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go through the hardship and the bad wives leave no i was asking her but you can
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i'm gonna think about that one i'm just i'm trying to i'm trying to understand i don't know like this
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so i just think if you're good at something you get it done yeah i feel like um it goes down to like
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being a team you know and like working on things together and progressing the relationship
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together you know so if someone's slacking fair enough and if it is a long period of time or
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it does affect the relationship or you know then you gotta cut it basically