JustPearlyThings - Modern Woman Gets Cornered With This Question

00:00:00.000 quick one for you like let's boil it down to realness here yeah you got eyes right so are

00:00:05.280 you gonna sell because the guy is not good looking so you're settling basically you're

00:00:09.120 basically is it settling or is that you're going on meetings no but we look at a relationship you

00:00:14.400 have to be with someone who want to tear their clothes off and they've got personality to match

00:00:17.040 right am i being wrong someone correct me i'm wrong i think that's more for men you know my

00:00:19.840 opinion really no but yeah okay women's i must be a man then we must be a man whoever that is 0.97

00:00:26.640 it's me i must be a man yeah obviously women have that as well but mostly like bro let's

00:00:32.560 be real like if you're looking at a girl now yeah especially if you're a so-called girl whatever

00:00:36.400 yeah bro we could be we could be on the airplane but you know you look at her you're like yo yo

00:00:41.520 we need to go to the bathroom yeah but why wouldn't you want why wouldn't you want that as a woman 1.00

00:00:45.200 we're not anyone anyone in this room is not mind readers first thing we see is looks what makes us

00:00:56.960 to know their personality beyond that right yeah don't be so sure baby oh so you're mind reading

00:01:00.800 yeah it's not you don't need to be a mind reader you have to be a body language reader and you need

00:01:04.560 to look people in the eyes and question everything that they say first you always know if you think

00:01:09.280 whilst people are speaking to you always be ahead of the game you have to play a game because this is

00:01:13.440 art of seduction i've been reading that book and it's taught me a lot so love is the game

00:01:20.560 love is the game then yeah listen i sit here and i can have a conversation with anyone and ask you

00:01:25.760 about three questions to make you be like oh you know she's kind of nice she's quite interesting no 1.00

00:01:29.440 matter what your first impression of me was one of them will be where are you from because it shows

00:01:33.760 that i'm kind of showing any sort of interest in you i can do whatever i want with you if i've got a

00:01:38.960 look i'm a woman i asked you the right question you think she's generally interested men like girls 0.83

00:01:42.640 are also interested because they make them seem easier so answer my question is love a game love

00:01:48.240 because where you are describing it's all listen love is one of those things that there's an

00:01:52.400 attraction but then you need to secure the deal securing the deal is the game what's the deal the

00:01:56.720 deal is making sure that the person is aware that you love them and you love me therefore we're going

00:02:00.800 to create something thanks persuasion yo yo yo you you've got all this insight in this thing yeah are you

00:02:07.680 are you currently winning do you know why why i'm winning because all the wrong ones are falling off

00:02:12.960 like so you have all this knowledge you know every strategy you know exactly what to do look in the

00:02:18.880 eyes and all of that michael i made you smile so much today

00:02:21.280 i'm just keeping it real fam i'm just asking do you think you're winning i am winning because

00:02:34.800 realistically okay i'm not gonna say realistically in my opinion are you single and let me tell you

00:02:40.400 something yes or no i am winning let me tell you what does winning mean does winning do i win because i

00:02:46.000 have to be in a relationship the reason why i'm not in a relationship is out of choice let me let

00:02:52.320 me ask you you said the reason you're not in a relationship is out of choice yeah so if you

00:02:56.240 found the perfect guy right now would you date him yeah this is the hell out of him i'm actually working

00:03:00.720 on something okay okay so wouldn't you say that the guys you want then don't want you no it's not

00:03:07.120 that they don't want me let me tell you something like i said to you already for you to create a

00:03:16.240 relationship it takes you to tango you people at this you don't trust somebody like that you have

00:03:20.560 to test out you need to make sure so what you do that's when the game and the little dance is there

00:03:25.120 that's where the seduction play comes in so all i'm saying is i'm winning because every single time i

00:03:30.480 get to suss out who i want and who i don't want so i say i don't want you but you are nice and you're 1.00

00:03:34.240 still interested if i want to do like this tomorrow i can if i want to open my legs and secure it

00:03:38.640 quicker i can but i don't want to so i'll take my time it's better challenge can i can i can i just

00:03:43.520 say trust is not repetition wow trust is benefit of the doubt repetition is when you come in and you

00:03:50.960 turn your light on and the light works when you turn your light on it don't work a million things go

00:03:55.520 through your head is it the light bulb did i pay the bill am i having a power shortage is the power out

00:04:00.480 that's repetition that's not a way to trust somebody because the second they deviate from

00:04:04.800 that repetition that you are used to you no longer trust that person and it's hard and or impossible

00:04:11.520 to get that trust back trust is benefit of the doubt are you challenging something that i said or you're

00:04:16.240 just making a point both so what do you challenge that i said because you said you said it's again it's

00:04:22.640 do we trust each other do we go to this if i will put you through this multiple things to see

00:04:28.000 if i trust you that's fine to do but what i'm telling you is that's again goes back to and

00:04:33.680 again i'm telling you this because i'm not trying to i'm telling you the truth that is very easy to

00:04:39.840 manipulate from a man's point of view i can make you think that what i'm doing in my actions all the

00:04:46.960 time are trustworthy easy but but what i'm saying to you i'm not saying that you're wrong but what i'm

00:04:54.000 saying to you is benefit of the doubt will work much better in this any situation because the

00:04:58.480 benefit of the doubt is i'm not looking through your phone because i you wrong what's the point

00:05:03.120 of looking through your phone if i don't trust you so let me tell you something quickly uh listen if

00:05:09.120 let me tell you how it works i'm trying i'm literally because the point because the point is just

00:05:14.560 this the point is wait hold on let's see these two are at sports i'm gonna let them speak i'm gonna

00:05:19.120 let them say something no no no okay you're gonna let them speak now go yeah go go go go go what was

00:05:24.880 the question again okay i don't even remember the fact the fat friend or the ugly friend and have you been 0.91

00:05:31.200 for free lunch obviously you have every pretty girl has come on i'm ugly then what are you trying to say 0.97

00:05:36.320 that i'm ugly who's ugly who said he's ugly me i've never been on a free lunch look at your skin 0.83

00:05:41.360 you said every pretty woman has been on the free lunch i've never been on a free lunch you're called 0.97

00:05:46.880 auntie for a reason i've never been on a free lunch because you're auntie you're from

00:05:50.880 i haven't gone out to get free food i've gone out with somebody that i had a friendship with

00:06:11.920 that i didn't find attractive but we were getting on so well and i thought can i

00:06:15.280 can this go anywhere and then it confirms 100 no like there's no attraction for me i know some women 1.00

00:06:21.760 can or some men might be able to wear that i cannot live that date there confirmed it and i was honest

00:06:27.040 and i said no but because we was friends anyway it was kind of like okay i think he was a bit

00:06:32.320 that annoyed but he didn't express that to me but he appreciated your honesty but um for me personally i

00:06:39.040 have to be very attracted or it's not gonna work like it's just not gonna work what what what was the

00:06:43.040 things about him that like made you unattracted to him what was it about him that you didn't like

00:06:48.080 like physically just the way he looks

00:06:53.840 like i didn't feel like yeah like it wasn't that it was just so it was just his face really

00:07:00.720 it's just everything like the just just build everything i don't really okay obviously someone

00:07:05.760 can't be shorter than me but i'm not like if someone's a little bit taller than me that don't

00:07:09.040 bother me so a man don't need to be tall too i know a lot of girls are like no he has to be 1.00

00:07:12.800 too i don't really care can i ask a question if he if he was blind and you went on a date yeah that

00:07:17.360 would have made him your perfect man then if he's blind if he was blind yeah okay i don't understand

00:07:27.840 if i was blind and you went on that date with him was i blind from birth yeah well yeah i wouldn't

00:07:33.680 really know i wouldn't know about i wouldn't know about but what i'm trying to say is that by the

00:07:37.280 way he sounded and the conversation and because you were friends and everything yeah then it would

00:07:42.320 have been perfect but my eyes worked so it couldn't work see that's what i'm talking that's what i can

00:07:51.840 what is what i need physical attraction that's the whole point what is this thing with like people

00:07:57.200 acting surprised that like women like physically attractive okay it makes no sense and and the

00:08:02.720 fact that you guys seem to over emphasize one thing so women for attraction and sexual attraction 0.97

00:08:08.400 for women is quite complex right women are very hard to please they need atmosphere they need a good 1.00

00:08:13.120 conversation they need good looks they need a good frame they need charisma level of status they need

00:08:18.080 all these things this is why unattractive guys can constantly win as you've seen in real life

00:08:23.120 so why do we come on these conversations and pretend that like it's only because of looks and

00:08:27.920 like you're shallow for doing this and that when it's like well obviously she gave him an opportunity

00:08:31.680 to show these other characteristics and most of the time will fail because women are complex right 1.00

00:08:36.480 most guys don't have those other characteristics because they're not obvious so that's that's one thing

00:08:40.880 i would say i think on this matter i think is actually kind of a good thing so i i haven't had

00:08:45.280 much experience with these kind of things like paying for dinners and not getting like you know

00:08:48.320 smashing or whatever but when i know i will tell you one thing my experience of that was in uni first

00:08:56.480 year i hit the clubs and you know i hit the bar and you know i watched all these american power movies

00:09:01.840 so i thought it was like yeah you see someone cute you say hey can i get you a drink try and have a chat

00:09:05.920 in this crowded busy stinky club when you can't hear each other and that's how it worked didn't it

00:09:12.000 so saw this girl made eye contact do you want to get a drink queued up like 10 minutes 0.94

00:09:17.760 got her this drink was seven pound fifty it still hurt i was i was in uni i was like

00:09:21.680 right they're taking a piss so seven pound fifty for a vodka and coke and she took it turned around 1.00

00:09:30.240 i was like that was the dumbest thing i've ever done that makes no sense so you know when when 0.88

00:09:35.440 people when grown men are like oh i took her out for dinner she didn't smash it's like bro you could 0.93

00:09:38.800 have bought like a twix or like a vodka and figured that out like you didn't have to

JustPearlyThings - June 08, 2023

Modern Woman Gets Cornered With This Question

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