JustPearlyThings - November 13, 2023


Modern Woman Gets GHOSTED In The Worst Way Possibl


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Length

14 minutes

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178.78622

Word count

2,616

Sentence count

222

Harmful content

Misogyny

39

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Hate speech

30

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An ex-pro hockey player goes off to Russia and leaves his wife and family to be with a Russian woman. He never comes home and no one knows what happened to him or how he ended up falling in love with another woman.

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00:00:00.000 What up guys? Welcome to the Just Pearly Things YouTube channel and welcome to Pearl Daily where
00:00:05.380 I cover this week's treachery, debauchery, and craziness. Before I start don't forget to subscribe
00:00:10.660 to the channel, like the video on your way in, let's get started. So today I am going to be
00:00:16.820 covering the most crazy story that I have seen on Twitter in a while. So as you guys know there is a
00:00:24.200 large percentage of women dating a small percentage of men. Basically 80% of women are dating, chasing, 0.99
00:00:30.800 going after 20% of men. And so the things that these women do for the 20% of men or put up with 0.63
00:00:37.980 or accept in order to be and compete for that 20% of men is actually crazy. So now and then you have
00:00:44.040 women or a woman's friend or someone tells a story that is brutally honest about something that 0.98
00:00:49.180 happened to them. So this was a story about a woman complaining about an ex-pro hockey player
00:00:55.900 that was dating her friend. Let's pull it up. Put a finger down if you've ever been together with a
00:01:01.620 man for eight years and this man is the love of your life. And he's also a professional hockey
00:01:05.540 player. And so one day he gets a contract to go play hockey in Russia and it's for an insane amount
00:01:09.540 of money. So we can't turn it down because you're supportive. You say, yes, babe, go, go to Russia,
00:01:13.400 play in Russia. So he does and he's, things are going so well. He's playing amazing. You guys are
00:01:17.260 talking every day. You're talking about rings and weddings because, mind you, you've been
00:01:20.980 together for eight years. And he says, I can't wait to see you at the end of February when I come
00:01:24.780 home. And finally, the end of February rolls around and all of a sudden he disappears. He just
00:01:29.420 disappears. And you're freaking out naturally. You're saying, are you dead? Are you in the gulag?
00:01:32.520 What's going on? And you text his parents and you text his friends and you say, what happened? Is he
00:01:36.640 okay? And they say, what do you mean? He's just on vacation. He didn't tell you. So you text him. You say,
00:01:41.860 what the fuck? You're on vacation. What happened? And finally you get a response back and it says,
00:01:45.740 I'm sorry, I'm not home yet. I will be home soon. This is not a good response or a drunk response.
00:01:52.160 I will text you a good response tomorrow. And that is the last thing that you ever hear from him.
00:01:59.620 This man you were together with for eight years. This is the last thing you ever hear from him.
00:02:03.820 And you know that he's alive and he's fine because he comes home and you see photos of him home.
00:02:07.660 And you text him and you say, can we please talk? No response. You box up all of his belongings that
00:02:12.140 you've accumulated over the past eight years. And you write him a letter saying, can I please get some
00:02:15.700 closure? You send it off. No response. Eventually he goes back to Russia for the second season.
00:02:21.520 And when he's there about a month in, he posts a photo with a girl and he doesn't tag the girl and
00:02:26.960 you don't know anything about the girl, but you happen to have three best friends who are FBI agents.
00:02:31.400 And these girls go in and they figure out everything about this girl. They figure out who she is. 0.98
00:02:35.720 They figure out what she does and they figure out the timeline of their relationship. And they realize
00:02:40.480 that he and he and this girl had been together for quite some time. They'd been together for a long
00:02:46.860 time, actually. In fact, so long that they were together when he was still talking to you and saying,
00:02:51.780 we're going to get married. And so now, you know, there was philandering. Philandering was done.
00:02:57.220 And the last thing I'll say is, put a finger down if today, November 3rd, 2023, this man posts a photo
00:03:06.220 of this woman with a ring on her hand. This is a true story. It did not happen to me. It happened
00:03:12.520 to my best friend of 20 years, a woman I have known for 20 years. This is not a novel. This really
00:03:17.920 happened. And sir, if you're watching, you know who you are and you can rot in hell.
00:03:22.740 American women cannot compete with Russian women. I'll tell you, that was my first thought. I bet 1.00
00:03:28.340 that chick was Russian or Eastern European. They're actually raised much more to be wives there. 1.00
00:03:34.420 That is the biggest L I have ever heard of in my life. I cannot imagine being with someone for eight
00:03:39.180 years and getting ghosted. So I have a couple of questions in this story. Were they dating or was
00:03:44.740 it a situationship? Because I've noticed that a lot of these chicks will, they'll think it's a 1.00
00:03:49.840 relationship. But a lot of times it's a situationship. And this, this chick is going 1.00
00:03:54.380 to be undateable after this. Can you imagine following a pro hockey player that ghosted a
00:03:59.740 girl? Ghosted to the point they're still, it's been like a year and a half after that. They're
00:04:04.120 still checking in on what he's doing. Wow. Big L. So just to be clear, these people committed
00:04:11.940 a federal crime over there. Yeah, this is like one of the biggest L's I have ever heard in
00:04:17.880 my life. You know, sometimes ladies, you just got to take that L and move on. Um, go to the next 1.00
00:04:22.360 one. Yeah. Dude went up Russian and figured out Western women are broken and shows a more 0.60
00:04:28.200 traditional feminine woman. He made a good choice. Probably. Usually if you have four friends that are 0.99
00:04:34.900 FBI agents, dude, that was the other thing I noticed. They typically just kind of meddle in
00:04:39.920 your relationship. Typically women don't typically want other women to be happy. 1.00
00:04:44.840 The second I heard Russia, I knew he massively upgraded the way American culture has gone. 0.92
00:04:51.860 I don't blame him a bit. Yeah. That was my thought. I was like a Russian woman. You are
00:04:56.840 not going to win. You are not going to win. This girl was probably the best girl in his
00:05:01.240 hometown. And then he went to Russia and just thought, Oh wow. Wow. This is what I can get 0.56
00:05:09.100 for my money. And my looks. He's a man. We can't compete guys. I don't know what to tell
00:05:15.700 you. Like the Russian women have been raised to be wives. The American women are overweight. 1.00
00:05:22.100 The Russian women are much more attractive. Typically like sometimes it's kind of like, 1.00
00:05:27.300 all right, all right. Let me, let me give you guys an analogy. It's like a rec league playing
00:05:32.180 against LeBron James. Does the rec league think they're going to win? But when he went
00:05:36.900 to Russia, I'd just say goodbye because what are you going to compete with these Russian 1.00
00:05:41.180 chicks who've been taught from a young age to serve their men who've been in shape? 0.99
00:05:45.700 They're beautiful. Good luck. Good luck. She, you might as well just have broken up when
00:05:51.320 he went to Russia. I could, I could have told you that that was when it was over. Big L, 0.97
00:05:56.460 big L. You know, what's a bigger L? The fact that geopolitical tensions are escalating.
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00:06:32.840 That is the only gold company that I trust. I kept scrolling on Twitter. So obviously this
00:06:38.220 woman took an L. Ladies, you know, in times past, we used to take the L's and not tell everybody
00:06:45.400 about it. Now I know I've been that we've all been there, right? Taking a big L, but we used
00:06:52.200 to just not go on TikTok, not go on Twitter, not go about all these things. And you take
00:06:56.840 the L silently and just move on. Move on with your life. But nowadays, it's really not that.
00:07:04.880 It becomes a whole sob story. Every woman wants to be like the star of some movie where the 1.00
00:07:10.360 men are just so mean and evil. And really, it was the fact that she went for a hockey player
00:07:16.140 when really there's like 80% of men that you could go for that won't do that to you. But you know,
00:07:22.460 it's high risk, high reward. If you want to go for the top guy, it's like, yeah, it's a risky
00:07:27.040 business. But the thing is, women don't really know what it's like to be in a man's shoes. And 1.00
00:07:32.500 there's a lot of things that women are not willing to do in 2023. You know, women demand, 1.00
00:07:37.040 I want to be equal to men, but don't want the price of equality that comes with it. For example,
00:07:41.880 in relationship, you know, women want men to take up all the responsibility. They want them to pay 1.00
00:07:46.440 for dates, plan them, do everything, but they won't give them any authority in terms of, oh,
00:07:52.160 you can't tell me what to wear. You can't tell me what to do. But another aspect that women don't 1.00
00:07:57.000 want to do in society is women want to be equally respected in society for the work that they do. 1.00
00:08:02.260 But women do not want to do equal work. So there's a video I saw on Twitter of a job that really is 1.00
00:08:10.060 looking for female applicants. They said, ladies, please apply here. We need diversity and 1.00
00:08:17.420 inclusion. So please apply. Let's pull it up.
00:08:40.060 Ava. Ava, they're applying. I have it for you. Apply to these jobs. They are
00:09:09.340 willing and taking applicants. And they just, they really want you to come forward and do these jobs,
00:09:17.200 diversity and inclusion. All the women in HR that demand to be taken seriously, please apply for
00:09:24.760 these hard jobs. All these women that just say they're taking on the city by storm and just really 1.00
00:09:32.240 tearing down this patriarchy. I have the job for you. Please apply here. And this is the problem,
00:09:40.040 guys. Women will never do those jobs. Never. Women will never be the majority of mechanics, 1.00
00:09:46.940 truckers, or any of the hard jobs in society. And when they do apply for these jobs and do these jobs,
00:09:52.380 you know what I get from a lot of these guys? That these women just mess everything up. 1.00
00:09:56.400 And then they give them the easiest parts of the job. And then it makes the other guy's jobs harder
00:10:02.400 because women are always doing less work. Feminists apply. Please apply here. The comment section weighs 1.00
00:10:08.740 in on this and says, I wonder why women don't want to work jobs like this. I don't know, Isabella.
00:10:15.160 I don't know. I'm looking. I please apply here. All of you women that demand equal pay. I have the job 1.00
00:10:24.560 for you. I hear it pays really well and you will be well respected and loved by all.
00:10:30.240 G-Dub says they want to be equal, but not that equal. Yes, because women do not want to do the 1.00
00:10:35.440 hardest jobs in society. They do not want to actually be equal. They want special privileges
00:10:41.680 and freedoms without the responsibility that comes with it. Women live life on easy mode. 1.00
00:10:47.000 They have all the easy jobs in society. They get special treatment and they don't do the work.
00:10:52.040 And until women start doing the work, I'm not going to feel bad for you when you're complaining 1.00
00:10:56.660 about your student debt. You know, we have all these women coming out complaining about all the 1.00
00:11:01.140 debt they have, yet they order new clothes every week. They go out to eat every week and they go
00:11:07.340 traveling and you question, how do you afford this? So many of them are living on credit card
00:11:13.540 after credit card, after credit card. They have a boatload of debt and the government and men keep
00:11:18.720 having to bail them out. I mean, look at, look at what has happened with all this student loan debt.
00:11:23.700 Who, who has the majority of student loan debt? Who has the majority of student loan debt? Women, 1.00
00:11:30.100 women, ladies, it's time to put the credit cards away. I almost think that men should take away 1.00
00:11:37.320 our bank accounts. Why do you think we didn't have bank accounts? Because we couldn't handle them.
00:11:44.080 All we do is swipe, swipe, swipe. Jeff Blink weighs in and says, the first thing I will do as president
00:11:49.600 is mandate that wine box TikTok feminists be immediately transferred from their corporate 1.00
00:11:54.320 managerial careers to the oil fields, the electric line crews in the name of diversity, inclusion,
00:12:00.340 and equity. And you know what's funny? Women basically do nothing at these corporate jobs. 1.00
00:12:05.980 Now guys, are there women that do make money? Yeah, obviously, obviously, before you say, 1.00
00:12:12.100 oh, oh, Pearl, but they're smart women. Um, yeah, unicorns exist, but that doesn't make them not 1.00
00:12:18.560 unicorns. Oh my goodness. Like for everyone, I worked in corporate America for everyone. Awesome sales
00:12:26.500 shit. There was just like three managers bitching at everybody and doing nothing. Nothing. We are tired
00:12:36.400 of the women that do nothing. Get rid of human resources. Get rid of all these diversity and 1.00
00:12:43.420 inclusion programs. Why is diversity and inclusion something we are striving for? It should be the best
00:12:50.840 person for the job. So yeah, ladies, all of, I want all diversity and inclusion professionals
00:12:57.960 put their money where their mouth is and go out there and do that job. And if you're not willing
00:13:04.480 to do that, please stop bitching about your pay because all the women that go online and cry and moan 1.00
00:13:13.580 and whine about not getting paid enough are just lazy. You heard it here first. No, nothing is
00:13:20.360 stopping you. You actually have an advantage in most places. So instead of using it, you cry on TikTok
00:13:27.080 because you're a fat feminist who's got nothing better to do. Modern women will still complain that 1.00
00:13:32.900 this guy making six figures isn't doing housework or tending to the kids after work. Yes. Yes. There is
00:13:39.460 a huge debate on Twitter right now. There is a huge debate with my friend Rachel Wilson where she
00:13:44.940 talked about that her husband doesn't lift a finger when he comes home. She does all of the housework 0.97
00:13:51.880 and so many trad cons start crying and complaining that her husband doesn't do the housework and that 0.58
00:14:01.940 husband should do the housework. Guys, what sounds more pleasant as a wife? I'm just, I'm just wondering. 1.00
00:14:07.640 I'm just wondering. Now I'm not saying you can't do the housework, right? Well, what sounds more
00:14:13.660 pleasant? Baby, you don't have to lift a finger when you come home or a woman that's going to whine 1.00
00:14:20.120 and nag about not helping enough. I saw a tweet recently that said that in marriage, you shouldn't
00:14:26.860 expect your husband to lift a finger, that you should not expect him to help you with chores at all.
00:14:31.960 If he does, great. But managing expectations is the key to a happy relationship.