Modern Woman Gets Schooled On Respect
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Summary
In this episode, we discuss relationships with your brothers and sisters and how they have different views on relationships and how to deal with them. We also discuss what it means to be a woman in the 21st century and how we should deal with it.
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you remind me of a lot of women that i've met and i've dealt with and like you look the part
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so i'm saying i look the part what do you mean by that what do you mean you're very you look
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very feminine okay yeah you look very feminine you're you know i mean you're made well you're
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presented very well so you look very feminine and when you talk you have a nice tone of voice
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but when we say certain things as soon as we say i can just see your eyes start rolling back
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and you want to kick back with it but but what are you really kicking back for um do you know
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what i've never heard these point of views and it's good to be open about these kind of
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conversations i do how old are your brothers they are 24 um they're twins shout out the twin brothers
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so have you ever spoke to your brothers about relationships yeah and what do they say they
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have their different twins we're sisters yeah they have um you guys are sisters yeah oh there's a
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whole back story now i was wondering i was like oh they must have been
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friends for a while she's my sister i guess they have their own different views on relationships
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but when you say what what do they think what do you mean by that like obviously you're the okay so
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you're their your oldest oldest yeah older sister so obviously they're slightly um they're slightly
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junior to you they're 24 they're still quite young so a lot of the times is brothers would would speak
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to their sisters but they're the young they're younger so obviously you're so you're older than
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my thing is this i don't know obviously your relationship with your father like i don't know
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any of those types of stuff but i tend to think that a lot of times girls have had friends that
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are men and they tell and they speak to them at least one or two guys will be real and be like yo
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this is what it is like like so when you have a real guy that's real then he should be saying to
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you everything i'm saying is it's not some it's not some fallacy it's not some idea that that i've
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just just just create a century create out my my head a lot of men will lie as you said they're
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not going to care about body count you know why because they're not going to be around long enough
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to care about it they're going to run it up and give it to your husband he's the one that's going
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to care about it so when mana when you're saying oh i've never heard this before it's because why
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would they say it men never speak about so how are you women supposed to learn about it if you
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don't say it because okay more men need to tell the truth that's really what it is and there should
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be a father in the home but a lot of like women weren't raised by wives and they don't have a dad
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in the home so they have no one to teach them this i was i'm not saying you i'm sorry sorry i don't
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know anyone's backstory here but i'm just saying in general like your dads are supposed to teach you
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this stuff okay and your brothers i mean i don't have all the same views as her so so what so your
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sisters um so what do you think um i i kind of agree with what you're saying but only because i know
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the relationship like the friendship between them i would understand why it would be hard for her to
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just like kick him to the side for a man who possibly could be gone one day whereas he's probably
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never gonna live her life and also just to say if the guy did have a problem with me being in a
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situation i would be happy taking a step back yeah but they're saying you're not no bro you're not
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the problem no it's not yours yeah i'll be disrespectful i hear that yeah yeah like so yeah it's not you
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it just comes down to um comes down to the to the woman's decision and the willingness to get like
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to put that aside for to make him happy i'll be honest a lot of times men don't we don't even care
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oh sorry a lot of times men we don't even care we just want to know you would do it we just ask
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you and then soon your first answer is the answer that lets us know and when we start kicking back
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it's like it's like if you're gonna wear something out i love the fact that my girl's gonna send me
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what she's wearing out i can pick oh do you think and if i do you think this is too much too much skin
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and if i say that she's gonna change it not because not because i'm trying to stop her from wearing
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something no i'm just like oh maybe that one's a little bit you know i'm trying to say
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you're like you're giving a bit too much of what you shouldn't be giving all right cool
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you know i'm saying yeah um and men we like to be a part of the process we're not stopping you we
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see you can go out but when you start going out too much or if you start going out with single
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friends or potentially you go to places where you know maybe the vibe isn't right or they've heard
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they could have been drama or things that have happened in the past that's when we get worried you
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know i'm trying to say to you but we're not trying to stop a woman from ever going out but we'll get
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concerned when you start going out too much and you put yourself in situations where men can start
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hitting up to you and then there's alcohol flowing and and you know whenever people say i made a
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mistake or i was drunk that's never happened when someone wasn't drunk and they didn't make a mistake
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so you have to take a lot of these scenarios out and we know women cheat as much as men do so there
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has to be someone doing the cheating and if we talk about women having women are the ones with the
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gateway gateway sorry the gatekeepers to sex then once you're adding nightclub once you're adding
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out with a single whole friends once you're once you're adding alcohol once you're adding all of
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these other factors and the fact that you can make a mistake we're human how about we just try to just
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take away some of these factors that's all i'm saying respectfully that's fair enough so i have a
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question felons have 30 more kids over their lifetimes than non-felons why do modern women love
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bad boys i can't answer that one um i can well i can answer from my perspective i feel like
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like we like bad boys because we feel like we want to feel protected and but i mean what makes you feel
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like a good guy can't protect you no it's not that it's not that they can't it's just i haven't seen
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that they can whereas with like bad boys you kind of like know what they're on so like you kind of
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so so sorry carry on but i don't want to ask you something so do you feel it's a man's job to protect
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you always yeah that's cool no that's cool no i do my dad protects me so i feel like my man should do
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yeah that's cool that's what i feel that's that's that's what we prescribe to you but there seems to be
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something that goes on when we talk when we speak like this there seems to be different narrative
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that gets pushed about how we speak about wanting to protect women and and be there so when i hear
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you say protect that's one of the things that we always talk about so i just picked up on it carry
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on that's fair enough um yeah that's only that's why i would rather yeah do most of your friends like
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the nice guys or the bad boys um most of my friends they like bad boys as well what about what
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about each other what are what are each other's types i just don't want somebody to make me feel
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like i gotta back us up and you ain't doing nothing you know what i'm saying no no okay i don't want
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to feel like i'm in a situation where um a man is being disrespectful maybe i'm in maybe i'm out with
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my with my fiancee and we're out to dinner and maybe somebody's being really disrespectful on the
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table um next to us i don't want to feel like i'm going back and forth with this person and
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you're just sitting there watching us go back and forth i don't want to feel like i'm not protected
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that way so so you do like the bad boys a little bit it doesn't necessarily have to be bad it just
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has to be you know how to make me feel safe it doesn't have to be bad though okay that's cap i'm
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both of them i'm both of their friends and they both like bad boys i don't like the guy is he a bad
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boy is he a bad boy you know who i'm talking about is he a bad boy is he got time to be a bad boy
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no seriously no he might not be a bad boy now but look at previously men men men vet other men better
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than women do let them talk i'm telling you like they're lying they both like bad boys well you told the truth
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but she's lying she likes bad boys do you know what is it's not that she's lying guys yeah it's
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she believes that that's not what she likes but it is what she likes
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pearl you know what i found interesting i don't think she does i feel like deep down like we know
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we just don't like to admit it yeah so she believes that she doesn't like them but she does and so and
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so then later when we get bamboozled we're like oh no you cheated i can't believe it and it's like
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