JustPearlyThings - March 29, 2023


Modern Woman Gets Schooled On Respect


Episode Stats


Length

8 minutes

Words per minute

218.1689

Word count

1,842

Sentence count

1

Harmful content

Misogyny

7

sentences flagged

Hate speech

3

sentences flagged


Summary

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In this episode, we discuss relationships with your brothers and sisters and how they have different views on relationships and how to deal with them. We also discuss what it means to be a woman in the 21st century and how we should deal with it.

Transcript

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Misogyny classifications generated with MilaNLProc/bert-base-uncased-ear-misogyny .
Hate speech classifications generated with facebook/roberta-hate-speech-dynabench-r4-target .
00:00:00.000 you remind me of a lot of women that i've met and i've dealt with and like you look the part
00:00:04.640 so i'm saying i look the part what do you mean by that what do you mean you're very you look
00:00:07.860 very feminine okay yeah you look very feminine you're you know i mean you're made well you're
00:00:11.480 presented very well so you look very feminine and when you talk you have a nice tone of voice
00:00:15.820 but when we say certain things as soon as we say i can just see your eyes start rolling back
00:00:20.040 and you want to kick back with it but but what are you really kicking back for um do you know
00:00:26.320 what i've never heard these point of views and it's good to be open about these kind of
00:00:30.560 conversations i do how old are your brothers they are 24 um they're twins shout out the twin brothers
00:00:36.580 so have you ever spoke to your brothers about relationships yeah and what do they say they
00:00:41.400 have their different twins we're sisters yeah they have um you guys are sisters yeah oh there's a
00:00:49.880 whole back story now i was wondering i was like oh they must have been
00:00:56.300 friends for a while she's my sister i guess they have their own different views on relationships
00:01:02.160 but when you say what what do they think what do you mean by that like obviously you're the okay so
00:01:10.160 you're their your oldest oldest yeah older sister so obviously they're slightly um they're slightly
00:01:14.840 junior to you they're 24 they're still quite young so a lot of the times is brothers would would speak
00:01:21.260 to their sisters but they're the young they're younger so obviously you're so you're older than
00:01:24.360 my thing is this i don't know obviously your relationship with your father like i don't know
00:01:29.080 any of those types of stuff but i tend to think that a lot of times girls have had friends that
00:01:33.720 are men and they tell and they speak to them at least one or two guys will be real and be like yo
00:01:36.980 this is what it is like like so when you have a real guy that's real then he should be saying to
00:01:42.800 you everything i'm saying is it's not some it's not some fallacy it's not some idea that that i've
00:01:49.500 just just just create a century create out my my head a lot of men will lie as you said they're
00:01:54.460 not going to care about body count you know why because they're not going to be around long enough
00:01:57.360 to care about it they're going to run it up and give it to your husband he's the one that's going 1.00
00:02:00.280 to care about it so when mana when you're saying oh i've never heard this before it's because why
00:02:04.040 would they say it men never speak about so how are you women supposed to learn about it if you 0.94
00:02:08.640 don't say it because okay more men need to tell the truth that's really what it is and there should
00:02:16.600 be a father in the home but a lot of like women weren't raised by wives and they don't have a dad 1.00
00:02:20.400 in the home so they have no one to teach them this i was i'm not saying you i'm sorry sorry i don't
00:02:25.120 know anyone's backstory here but i'm just saying in general like your dads are supposed to teach you
00:02:29.560 this stuff okay and your brothers i mean i don't have all the same views as her so so what so your
00:02:38.160 sisters um so what do you think um i i kind of agree with what you're saying but only because i know
00:02:44.660 the relationship like the friendship between them i would understand why it would be hard for her to
00:02:50.160 just like kick him to the side for a man who possibly could be gone one day whereas he's probably
00:02:55.720 never gonna live her life and also just to say if the guy did have a problem with me being in a
00:03:01.080 situation i would be happy taking a step back yeah but they're saying you're not no bro you're not
00:03:05.240 the problem no it's not yours yeah i'll be disrespectful i hear that yeah yeah like so yeah it's not you
00:03:11.780 it just comes down to um comes down to the to the woman's decision and the willingness to get like 1.00
00:03:17.160 to put that aside for to make him happy i'll be honest a lot of times men don't we don't even care
00:03:23.020 oh sorry a lot of times men we don't even care we just want to know you would do it we just ask
00:03:28.660 you and then soon your first answer is the answer that lets us know and when we start kicking back
00:03:33.380 it's like it's like if you're gonna wear something out i love the fact that my girl's gonna send me
00:03:39.360 what she's wearing out i can pick oh do you think and if i do you think this is too much too much skin 0.82
00:03:44.120 and if i say that she's gonna change it not because not because i'm trying to stop her from wearing
00:03:48.740 something no i'm just like oh maybe that one's a little bit you know i'm trying to say
00:03:51.260 you're like you're giving a bit too much of what you shouldn't be giving all right cool
00:03:54.880 you know i'm saying yeah um and men we like to be a part of the process we're not stopping you we
00:03:59.920 see you can go out but when you start going out too much or if you start going out with single
00:04:05.380 friends or potentially you go to places where you know maybe the vibe isn't right or they've heard
00:04:10.080 they could have been drama or things that have happened in the past that's when we get worried you
00:04:13.220 know i'm trying to say to you but we're not trying to stop a woman from ever going out but we'll get
00:04:16.740 concerned when you start going out too much and you put yourself in situations where men can start
00:04:21.740 hitting up to you and then there's alcohol flowing and and you know whenever people say i made a
00:04:27.240 mistake or i was drunk that's never happened when someone wasn't drunk and they didn't make a mistake
00:04:31.240 so you have to take a lot of these scenarios out and we know women cheat as much as men do so there
00:04:37.120 has to be someone doing the cheating and if we talk about women having women are the ones with the 1.00
00:04:41.660 gateway gateway sorry the gatekeepers to sex then once you're adding nightclub once you're adding
00:04:48.440 out with a single whole friends once you're once you're adding alcohol once you're adding all of
00:04:52.820 these other factors and the fact that you can make a mistake we're human how about we just try to just
00:04:57.980 take away some of these factors that's all i'm saying respectfully that's fair enough so i have a
00:05:06.300 question felons have 30 more kids over their lifetimes than non-felons why do modern women love 0.99
00:05:16.340 bad boys i can't answer that one um i can well i can answer from my perspective i feel like
00:05:23.360 like we like bad boys because we feel like we want to feel protected and but i mean what makes you feel
00:05:31.440 like a good guy can't protect you no it's not that it's not that they can't it's just i haven't seen
00:05:37.340 that they can whereas with like bad boys you kind of like know what they're on so like you kind of
00:05:44.340 so so sorry carry on but i don't want to ask you something so do you feel it's a man's job to protect
00:05:49.760 you always yeah that's cool no that's cool no i do my dad protects me so i feel like my man should do
00:05:55.980 yeah that's cool that's what i feel that's that's that's what we prescribe to you but there seems to be
00:06:00.840 something that goes on when we talk when we speak like this there seems to be different narrative
00:06:03.960 that gets pushed about how we speak about wanting to protect women and and be there so when i hear
00:06:08.300 you say protect that's one of the things that we always talk about so i just picked up on it carry
00:06:13.060 on that's fair enough um yeah that's only that's why i would rather yeah do most of your friends like
00:06:21.300 the nice guys or the bad boys um most of my friends they like bad boys as well what about what
00:06:29.020 about each other what are what are each other's types i just don't want somebody to make me feel
00:06:35.220 like i gotta back us up and you ain't doing nothing you know what i'm saying no no okay i don't want
00:06:42.700 to feel like i'm in a situation where um a man is being disrespectful maybe i'm in maybe i'm out with
00:06:50.160 my with my fiancee and we're out to dinner and maybe somebody's being really disrespectful on the
00:06:55.400 table um next to us i don't want to feel like i'm going back and forth with this person and
00:07:01.520 you're just sitting there watching us go back and forth i don't want to feel like i'm not protected
00:07:05.660 that way so so you do like the bad boys a little bit it doesn't necessarily have to be bad it just
00:07:10.360 has to be you know how to make me feel safe it doesn't have to be bad though okay that's cap i'm
00:07:17.120 both of them i'm both of their friends and they both like bad boys i don't like the guy is he a bad
00:07:24.880 boy is he a bad boy you know who i'm talking about is he a bad boy is he got time to be a bad boy
00:07:30.560 no seriously no he might not be a bad boy now but look at previously men men men vet other men better
00:07:37.040 than women do let them talk i'm telling you like they're lying they both like bad boys well you told the truth 1.00
00:07:43.120 but she's lying she likes bad boys do you know what is it's not that she's lying guys yeah it's
00:07:49.360 she believes that that's not what she likes but it is what she likes
00:07:54.580 pearl you know what i found interesting i don't think she does i feel like deep down like we know
00:08:00.440 we just don't like to admit it yeah so she believes that she doesn't like them but she does and so and
00:08:05.420 so then later when we get bamboozled we're like oh no you cheated i can't believe it and it's like
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