JustPearlyThings - March 29, 2023


Modern Woman Gets Schooled On Respect


Episode Stats

Length

8 minutes

Words per Minute

218.1689

Word Count

1,842

Sentence Count

1

Misogynist Sentences

7

Hate Speech Sentences

3


Summary


Transcript

00:00:00.000 you remind me of a lot of women that i've met and i've dealt with and like you look the part
00:00:04.640 so i'm saying i look the part what do you mean by that what do you mean you're very you look
00:00:07.860 very feminine okay yeah you look very feminine you're you know i mean you're made well you're
00:00:11.480 presented very well so you look very feminine and when you talk you have a nice tone of voice
00:00:15.820 but when we say certain things as soon as we say i can just see your eyes start rolling back
00:00:20.040 and you want to kick back with it but but what are you really kicking back for um do you know
00:00:26.320 what i've never heard these point of views and it's good to be open about these kind of
00:00:30.560 conversations i do how old are your brothers they are 24 um they're twins shout out the twin brothers
00:00:36.580 so have you ever spoke to your brothers about relationships yeah and what do they say they
00:00:41.400 have their different twins we're sisters yeah they have um you guys are sisters yeah oh there's a
00:00:49.880 whole back story now i was wondering i was like oh they must have been
00:00:56.300 friends for a while she's my sister i guess they have their own different views on relationships
00:01:02.160 but when you say what what do they think what do you mean by that like obviously you're the okay so
00:01:10.160 you're their your oldest oldest yeah older sister so obviously they're slightly um they're slightly
00:01:14.840 junior to you they're 24 they're still quite young so a lot of the times is brothers would would speak
00:01:21.260 to their sisters but they're the young they're younger so obviously you're so you're older than
00:01:24.360 my thing is this i don't know obviously your relationship with your father like i don't know
00:01:29.080 any of those types of stuff but i tend to think that a lot of times girls have had friends that
00:01:33.720 are men and they tell and they speak to them at least one or two guys will be real and be like yo
00:01:36.980 this is what it is like like so when you have a real guy that's real then he should be saying to
00:01:42.800 you everything i'm saying is it's not some it's not some fallacy it's not some idea that that i've
00:01:49.500 just just just create a century create out my my head a lot of men will lie as you said they're
00:01:54.460 not going to care about body count you know why because they're not going to be around long enough
00:01:57.360 to care about it they're going to run it up and give it to your husband he's the one that's going
00:02:00.280 to care about it so when mana when you're saying oh i've never heard this before it's because why
00:02:04.040 would they say it men never speak about so how are you women supposed to learn about it if you
00:02:08.640 don't say it because okay more men need to tell the truth that's really what it is and there should
00:02:16.600 be a father in the home but a lot of like women weren't raised by wives and they don't have a dad
00:02:20.400 in the home so they have no one to teach them this i was i'm not saying you i'm sorry sorry i don't
00:02:25.120 know anyone's backstory here but i'm just saying in general like your dads are supposed to teach you
00:02:29.560 this stuff okay and your brothers i mean i don't have all the same views as her so so what so your
00:02:38.160 sisters um so what do you think um i i kind of agree with what you're saying but only because i know
00:02:44.660 the relationship like the friendship between them i would understand why it would be hard for her to
00:02:50.160 just like kick him to the side for a man who possibly could be gone one day whereas he's probably
00:02:55.720 never gonna live her life and also just to say if the guy did have a problem with me being in a
00:03:01.080 situation i would be happy taking a step back yeah but they're saying you're not no bro you're not
00:03:05.240 the problem no it's not yours yeah i'll be disrespectful i hear that yeah yeah like so yeah it's not you
00:03:11.780 it just comes down to um comes down to the to the woman's decision and the willingness to get like
00:03:17.160 to put that aside for to make him happy i'll be honest a lot of times men don't we don't even care
00:03:23.020 oh sorry a lot of times men we don't even care we just want to know you would do it we just ask
00:03:28.660 you and then soon your first answer is the answer that lets us know and when we start kicking back
00:03:33.380 it's like it's like if you're gonna wear something out i love the fact that my girl's gonna send me
00:03:39.360 what she's wearing out i can pick oh do you think and if i do you think this is too much too much skin
00:03:44.120 and if i say that she's gonna change it not because not because i'm trying to stop her from wearing
00:03:48.740 something no i'm just like oh maybe that one's a little bit you know i'm trying to say
00:03:51.260 you're like you're giving a bit too much of what you shouldn't be giving all right cool
00:03:54.880 you know i'm saying yeah um and men we like to be a part of the process we're not stopping you we
00:03:59.920 see you can go out but when you start going out too much or if you start going out with single
00:04:05.380 friends or potentially you go to places where you know maybe the vibe isn't right or they've heard
00:04:10.080 they could have been drama or things that have happened in the past that's when we get worried you
00:04:13.220 know i'm trying to say to you but we're not trying to stop a woman from ever going out but we'll get
00:04:16.740 concerned when you start going out too much and you put yourself in situations where men can start
00:04:21.740 hitting up to you and then there's alcohol flowing and and you know whenever people say i made a
00:04:27.240 mistake or i was drunk that's never happened when someone wasn't drunk and they didn't make a mistake
00:04:31.240 so you have to take a lot of these scenarios out and we know women cheat as much as men do so there
00:04:37.120 has to be someone doing the cheating and if we talk about women having women are the ones with the
00:04:41.660 gateway gateway sorry the gatekeepers to sex then once you're adding nightclub once you're adding
00:04:48.440 out with a single whole friends once you're once you're adding alcohol once you're adding all of
00:04:52.820 these other factors and the fact that you can make a mistake we're human how about we just try to just
00:04:57.980 take away some of these factors that's all i'm saying respectfully that's fair enough so i have a
00:05:06.300 question felons have 30 more kids over their lifetimes than non-felons why do modern women love
00:05:16.340 bad boys i can't answer that one um i can well i can answer from my perspective i feel like
00:05:23.360 like we like bad boys because we feel like we want to feel protected and but i mean what makes you feel
00:05:31.440 like a good guy can't protect you no it's not that it's not that they can't it's just i haven't seen
00:05:37.340 that they can whereas with like bad boys you kind of like know what they're on so like you kind of
00:05:44.340 so so sorry carry on but i don't want to ask you something so do you feel it's a man's job to protect
00:05:49.760 you always yeah that's cool no that's cool no i do my dad protects me so i feel like my man should do
00:05:55.980 yeah that's cool that's what i feel that's that's that's what we prescribe to you but there seems to be
00:06:00.840 something that goes on when we talk when we speak like this there seems to be different narrative
00:06:03.960 that gets pushed about how we speak about wanting to protect women and and be there so when i hear
00:06:08.300 you say protect that's one of the things that we always talk about so i just picked up on it carry
00:06:13.060 on that's fair enough um yeah that's only that's why i would rather yeah do most of your friends like
00:06:21.300 the nice guys or the bad boys um most of my friends they like bad boys as well what about what
00:06:29.020 about each other what are what are each other's types i just don't want somebody to make me feel
00:06:35.220 like i gotta back us up and you ain't doing nothing you know what i'm saying no no okay i don't want
00:06:42.700 to feel like i'm in a situation where um a man is being disrespectful maybe i'm in maybe i'm out with
00:06:50.160 my with my fiancee and we're out to dinner and maybe somebody's being really disrespectful on the
00:06:55.400 table um next to us i don't want to feel like i'm going back and forth with this person and
00:07:01.520 you're just sitting there watching us go back and forth i don't want to feel like i'm not protected
00:07:05.660 that way so so you do like the bad boys a little bit it doesn't necessarily have to be bad it just
00:07:10.360 has to be you know how to make me feel safe it doesn't have to be bad though okay that's cap i'm
00:07:17.120 both of them i'm both of their friends and they both like bad boys i don't like the guy is he a bad
00:07:24.880 boy is he a bad boy you know who i'm talking about is he a bad boy is he got time to be a bad boy
00:07:30.560 no seriously no he might not be a bad boy now but look at previously men men men vet other men better
00:07:37.040 than women do let them talk i'm telling you like they're lying they both like bad boys well you told the truth
00:07:43.120 but she's lying she likes bad boys do you know what is it's not that she's lying guys yeah it's
00:07:49.360 she believes that that's not what she likes but it is what she likes
00:07:54.580 pearl you know what i found interesting i don't think she does i feel like deep down like we know
00:08:00.440 we just don't like to admit it yeah so she believes that she doesn't like them but she does and so and
00:08:05.420 so then later when we get bamboozled we're like oh no you cheated i can't believe it and it's like
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