JustPearlyThings - Modern Woman RAGE QUITS On Pearl

00:00:00.000 though I genuinely think here that the issue here isn't necessarily intentional

00:00:04.720 or malicious I think it's just a perspective thing in this generation I

00:00:07.920 don't feel like a lot of women learn how men are like or how they think all right

00:00:12.240 what the desires are so it's always like the way it can translate across is that

00:00:15.840 oh wait I see that men like big boobs so that was clearly what the one are see 1.00

00:00:19.800 but if females actually sit down with men and say what would you want from a 1.00

00:00:24.880 wife now you know from your Instagram early one you can want a hundred percent 1.00

00:00:29.320 argue it's not that deep you know you can argue on one side of the coin but on

00:00:32.980 the flip side of the coin you can also argue wait the action she's faced away

00:00:36.700 from the screen got a bomb through the screen yeah the intention let's say that

00:00:40.600 you don't it doesn't know what she's wearing let's say the intention alone how 0.98

00:00:43.600 could people perceive it could we perceive it as that's a woman that's got a 1.00

00:00:47.080 husband and that's a woman that you know is in a relationship or could we perceive

00:00:50.000 it as oh she's single like how long ago do you bring this perspective thing three

00:00:56.260 years ago I wouldn't ever get back with him oh this is three years ago yeah but

00:01:00.320 he would always come back I thought you said you would always come back wait wait

00:01:04.220 I thought you said he was eight you were 18 he was 28 mm-hmm but so how aren't you 26

00:01:09.460 yeah so then you would have been 23 is this a different X yeah so okay yeah okay so

00:01:14.740 I've been with him for like four years you know so when you were you were 22 you got

00:01:20.800 with him for four years no 18 I got with you know no the last X how long were you with

00:01:25.100 Portugal X this this was the main serious relationship I would consider in my life

00:01:31.040 the rest was like getting to know you okay how old were you when you met him

00:01:39.200 how old were you when you met him when did you break up 18 we had an on and off

00:01:43.580 relationship up until 22 23 I would say okay so say okay so 2018 to 22 yeah that

00:01:50.720 answer your question no wait so 8 18 to 22 so you dated him for four years on and 0.99

00:01:58.340 off so on and off that means the relationship was shit but the sex was 0.99

00:02:01.520 good no no the one why is on and off no we've never had sex okay okay someone else 0.99

00:02:11.900 ask the question someone ask question actually I'm a blank right now four years 0.96

00:02:15.280 of this Wow that's your don't are you virgin yes you have a stop you know you're you're you're

00:02:28.100 what what I don't know okay no disrespect we shouldn't even have this discussion about me

00:02:34.100 right now not to be fair for me yeah I'm just learning because this is a completely different

00:02:38.180 insight because you because you're coming with a Muslim background yeah and you got these types of

00:02:42.940 insights behind you yeah this sounds pretty different to me like for example you've been

00:02:46.020 saying like you're 26 right now you're virgin we're in a western air society i haven't heard

00:02:49.900 that since i was like 15 that someone's a virgin so that's the reason why like we're asking and

00:02:55.020 it's like this is the thing as well it's they're surprised because you don't portray yourself like

00:03:00.300 a virgin which is which is it which is a great you know based on that you're are you a born are

00:03:05.060 you i'm not i'm not saying it's like a well is she a born again virgin they don't believe you 0.99

00:03:10.060 but i'm saying there's a reason they think you're capping stupid yeah there's a reason i think 0.99

00:03:14.120 you're capping no okay i'm capping for my instagram but no one has virgin on no but i'm saying no 0.99

00:03:20.860 yeah but usually like i've had virgin girls come on the show where nobody really nobody really like 0.99

00:03:25.560 wait nobody really like pushes back right but it's not like it's just it's a good thing right

00:03:32.080 that's like a great thing i think that's awesome it is good but it's like it's like unfortunate

00:03:35.740 because i'm like no one believes you because of the instagram i was like so you know it's like

00:03:40.220 it's like it loses like yeah that's a great thing nobody has that that's why i want to change my

00:03:45.440 instagram too i should probably archive i'm gonna go home and archive that picture okay but you know

00:03:50.000 okay i'm just gonna give you the chance right now honey do you remember the conversation we had

00:03:55.840 before the cameras were on what do you mean what conversation about the situation you told me

00:04:00.580 about i don't remember we were just talking in general no but do you remember about the situation

00:04:05.420 you told me about that i was giving you advice on it was a general situation i can't remember

00:04:10.660 exactly word for word but what does that have to do with this because you just told everyone

00:04:14.920 here something that from that situation i was that what are you talking about because i wasn't talking

00:04:21.040 about me and myself in that situation you you were i don't know how you because maybe you don't

00:04:26.480 want to you don't know what you're talking about honestly i was talking about situation with my

00:04:31.420 friend just in general but i don't know it i just i just met you do i know you look don't be rude to

00:04:36.860 me yeah because i'm not trying to be rude to me but i'm just you're like trying to say some sort of

00:04:42.580 no i haven't i haven't hold on i've not said anything about anything yeah i'm just saying do you

00:04:47.160 remember the conversation that we had i remember some of the conversations we had yeah most of them

00:04:51.440 this is like a politician isn't it yeah i don't know i did not have sexual relations with that

00:04:58.820 woman how long ago was this conversation this was about an hour ago so you you remember all of it

00:05:03.800 then don't you yeah yeah i remember okay you know you're saying i remember some i remember the

00:05:07.680 conversation but we was talking about a lot of things yeah okay but no but we specifically were

00:05:12.460 talking about a situation that i was giving you advice on we were talking about for about 45 minutes

00:05:17.440 right i was talking about about a certain situation that wasn't my situation that was your situation

00:05:21.820 no it wasn't stop the cap

00:05:24.020 stop the cap

00:05:27.880 i don't know why you're getting involved with the name

00:05:31.100 you're literally saying cap this cap that you don't know me

00:05:34.780 don't come here

00:05:36.160 can i say this though 0.99

00:05:37.780 don't come here with your fake suit and your fake teeth 0.71

00:05:40.000 wait wait before they're not necessary but listen

00:05:42.820 can i say this though can i say this

00:05:45.040 i don't like that

00:05:47.040 you're not gonna insult him

00:05:48.380 stop it

00:05:49.420 okay that's right but he's saying i'm capping

00:05:51.580 and all this but he

00:05:52.840 that's insulting to myself

00:05:55.060 read the label it's laura piana

00:05:57.480 you don't have to get defensive

00:05:58.820 but it's about me and myself and my body

00:06:01.940 if you're just gonna argue

00:06:02.920 can i say this then

00:06:04.520 i was making a joke about the fresh and fit podcast when they pushed the button it goes beep stop the cap

00:06:09.820 that is actually a thing on the fresh and fit

00:06:11.360 i thought he was trying to trigger me

00:06:13.220 i apologize if that was the case

00:06:14.940 but you could come check the label on my suit it's it costs more than your outfit

00:06:17.820 okay that's

00:06:19.280 can i say this though

00:06:19.960 hey guys guys guys guys let me just say

00:06:22.260 hey before

00:06:22.980 hey hey hey

00:06:23.640 okay okay cool cool but let me say this

00:06:25.460 you know the reason why i thought there could just be a bit of tension right now

00:06:28.240 and a bit of disagreement

00:06:29.040 is only because earlier on when you were speaking about

00:06:31.340 the city um girl situation or the um the holiday thing that happened

00:06:35.180 i remember at one point you did also say

00:06:37.260 oh and then that happened

00:06:39.520 and it's not me saying that you're a liar or anything like that

00:06:41.900 it's just that within this limited time of knowing you here

00:06:44.240 if i if someone says a story then misses out a story

00:06:47.840 i can only go off my imagination in it

00:06:49.800 it doesn't necessarily mean that i'm tying you

00:06:51.760 or saying yo straight hole

00:06:53.200 straight this

00:06:53.780 it's not that but you have to remember

00:06:55.360 all of us

00:06:56.440 not all of us but

00:06:57.740 a lot of us are just meeting each other for the first time

00:07:00.780 and we're going off

00:07:01.960 you see first impressions are the most important

00:07:03.800 because they're the ones that stick the longest

00:07:05.240 so obviously in regards to the instagram it's not even like i've looked at the instagram

00:07:08.500 and said yo you're dressed mad

00:07:10.360 it's not even that

00:07:11.180 it's just that when you say i'm a virgin

00:07:13.860 and then there's quite a few westernized similarities

00:07:17.140 like it's just in common similarities

00:07:18.820 like do you see how someone that's a stranger could be like

00:07:21.800 oh maybe i don't i don't 100% know if she's a virgin

00:07:24.360 yeah that's fine but that's you lot's opinion

00:07:27.080 yeah yeah

00:07:27.980 that's fine everyone can have different opinion

00:07:29.480 yeah yeah

00:07:30.180 you can't you can't you can't insult my guest

00:07:32.580 i apologize for him because i thought he was coming for me

00:07:35.480 and calling me a liar that's why 0.97

00:07:37.320 okay

00:07:37.700 and that was to do with me personally

00:07:39.180 okay

00:07:39.500 i'm not here to disrespect anyone but i just felt a bit attacked

00:07:42.500 so i was defending myself

00:07:44.220 he wasn't he wasn't attacking you

00:07:45.900 i just felt because when he kept saying

00:07:47.400 i know you felt but it's like you keep having this like visceral react

00:07:50.800 you can stay because you apologized okay

00:07:53.300 if you want to you can say but

00:07:55.920 but you can't you can't you can't insult my guest

00:07:58.780 like that's it's not

00:08:00.020 but you would you were deflecting as well because it seemed like there was some

00:08:02.840 opposing evidence to what you're saying

00:08:04.180 no it wasn't it was just everyone just

00:08:06.000 putting their little two cents in

00:08:07.680 and um it wasn't you guys don't know

00:08:10.720 it wasn't facts as well so it was just a bit like

00:08:12.900 i'm saying what i'm saying you lost you just respect what i'm saying

00:08:15.540 whether you believe it or not and just call it a day

00:08:18.020 that's it

00:08:18.940 but to some degree though like it's like to some degree i accept that

00:08:22.840 that's fair it's just that to some degree though

00:08:24.900 it is a it's a public podcast that we're all just putting opinions forward in it

00:08:27.920 like it's normal that someone can put an opinion forward yeah

00:08:30.280 and if i think yo boom i don't really agree with that or i don't

00:08:33.840 i could be wrong you know

00:08:35.240 but it's it's for you to be able to be like you know what yeah

00:08:37.720 you may not be agreeing with me but

00:08:39.420 this is a podcast isn't it but it's like

00:08:41.260 but people are just gonna have something to say against what you got to say in it

00:08:43.900 course that's that's why i'm on social media i already know that people are

00:08:46.580 gonna say this and that about me so it's okay it's no where's my best actor or jay

00:08:51.220 because i need to hand over real quick

00:08:53.020 this guy won't smoke

00:08:55.640 so come on now

00:08:57.840 so don't be doing the back and forth thing with a woman 0.99

00:09:00.600 stop fishing for an argument please

00:09:02.240 don't tell him what to do

00:09:03.520 he's fishing for an argument

00:09:04.820 you're the one arguing with everybody

00:09:06.840 why is he saying talking about i'm gonna pass my

00:09:09.820 tall wall today come on man you're just trying to

00:09:12.340 I didn't say you all was passing it too

00:09:13.840 so i just am confused you guys had a conversation before the show

00:09:16.520 we had a conversation before the show

00:09:17.920 okay okay i'm gonna i'm gonna ask him questions and i'll ask you questions

00:09:21.100 so so this conversation this conversation

00:09:24.300 this ain't my show

00:09:29.840 so this conversation you don't have to tell me what she said but it's basically

00:09:34.080 contradicting what she's saying now

00:09:35.700 no no i'm asking him

00:09:37.680 no no no i'm asking him i'm asking him

00:09:39.680 there are some things that she has said on this podcast

00:09:42.140 right that does not align with things she that we discussed but it's her life i will

00:09:49.160 not disclose anything that she said because

00:09:51.660 we were discussing i was helping through a situation so i wouldn't disclose anything

00:09:55.000 because if she doesn't want it to be public that's fine

00:09:56.980 but that's why i was asking her do you remember the conversation because it doesn't

00:10:01.180 some things are not aligning

00:10:02.440 you know this happens

00:10:03.360 that's not respectful because i wasn't even talking about myself in that situation

00:10:07.060 okay okay i've warned you i told you i told you i'm going to ask you questions in a second

00:10:10.740 okay go on

00:10:11.640 no i need you you this is i've warned you you gotta go

00:10:14.520 all right that's fine i'll just go because this is just feeling a bit like too much of a

00:10:19.620 attack okay for no reason okay i didn't come here for all this okay okay that's fine just go

00:10:25.120 it's fine

00:10:26.040 i'll go

00:10:26.720 it's back for there

00:10:27.840 troy i'll come sit next to you please

00:10:34.880 i need a hug now

00:10:37.840 uh and that's what they're saying they're like why'd you bring it up it's like

00:10:41.900 what did she think okay uh we're gonna get it to the truth here soon

00:10:45.620 do you know what's funny though i'm not i'm not i'm not disclosing anything that's what

00:10:48.240 okay do you know what's funny though this happens to me all the time on the show this

00:10:51.240 happens to me all the time where like someone will say something but i don't want to say

00:10:54.620 anything yeah i can yeah yeah i i i saw it in real time no no and it's like yeah so i i

00:11:02.420 know what you mean i think ultimately like you know go ahead like ultimately like people

00:11:06.940 just like fuck it it's just that i think some people can just be new in it 0.98

00:11:09.760 oh mine no no that one like this 0.99

00:11:12.900 well yeah if you come on the podcast you should know what you're saying

00:11:18.620 look i listen like everyone's entitled to their privacy etc that but i'm a bit like

00:11:24.260 oh boy if you've said something i don't know like if you said something that i'm like

00:11:29.040 i was just that's what i said look i'm just saying do you remember the conversation we had

00:11:32.940 does the truth trigger people or do lies trigger people like what which one is it what society

00:11:38.980 we're talking about this one the british one ah uh depends on the truth

00:11:43.360 well i mean it's a little bit disingenuous if you're going to come on to a show and say

00:11:49.980 something that's i mean that you you're directly contradicting something that you've revealed

00:11:55.420 to somebody else yeah just prior to that show it's a little bit well particularly particularly

00:11:59.980 if it's something that you're trying to cast yourself in a good light

00:12:02.620 i don't even understand because i'm like nobody expected her to be a virgin you know what i mean

00:12:10.820 like i didn't say that's what it was just for the record i didn't say that's what it was

JustPearlyThings - June 15, 2023

Modern Woman RAGE QUITS On Pearl

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