Modern Woman SAYS I PREFER VIRGINS
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Summary
In this episode we discuss monogamy, sex and sexless relationships and why women should not expect monogamy from their partners. We also discuss the difference between a virgin and a virgins and how women should be taught how to have good sex.
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question do you think it's fair for women to expect monogamy from men if they gave their
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best years to another man who me yeah like it i start andy you want to start he's he's a little
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nervous no give your best to the one you got and if you can't give him your best and he's going
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elsewhere then you can't blame him i'm sorry but like i said before no man no man no woman
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should put up with bad sex and if a man is having bad sex it's the woman's fault it's the woman's
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fault because if you get a man a male virgin and a woman he's gonna have bad sex anyway she's gonna
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teach him rubbish just to keep him down there but if you get a man who's had lots of sex and a virgin
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he's gonna teach everything he knows to make sure that she can perform properly so as far as i'm
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concerned if you're with somebody and you're not getting good sex from them and i'm talking about
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making love because we're in audiences making love making love that's the little christmas
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birthdays whatever men just want to have sex if the sex ain't good get rid because i'm sorry but
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there's too many men that they're not having sexless relationships and it's wrong all these feelings
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about i want their personality i want this and that why doesn't that work the other way you said that the
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man can teach the virgin woman how to have good sex but why can't the woman who's had a lot of sex
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teach the virgin how to have good why is it not well i just i just think if women were lined up for
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virgins then one out of three men wouldn't be virgins wait say again if women were lined up to
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date virgins if that was true then one out of three men wouldn't be virgins
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okay one out of three men under 30 haven't had sex in the past year or are virgins one out of
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every three men so like if women wanted virgins they're there but how would you know i still
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think and that falls into that confidence she was sorry say that she was talking about earlier with
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a man approaching you nobody was talking earlier and you mentioned confidence that confidence comes
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from experience with women over time so that same confident guy you want to approach you he's not
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going to get that confidence unless he's had that previous experience including sexual
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so you want this guy with this low body count that's not the same sort of guy confidence like
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i don't think it's like just related to sex obviously yeah if you had you know multiple
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women like you had a lot of experience you're probably going to be a tiny bit more confident
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but i think like uh you know how do you act in bed is kind of even you know inside you or you have
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it or not like it's not really about how many the men can bring it out of you a man can bring
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it out of a woman but how often does a woman bring it out of a man is that because you're
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speaking from a woman's perspective so you wouldn't know i'm a woman so i can only speak from
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i hang around with men so i got male friends most i say 99 percent of my friend are male
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they're not getting enough sex and they're not getting enough sex how they want it where they want
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it whenever they want it and it's the women that are like holding this key to sex like that's why
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i can speak from a woman because there's men out there you can as a woman that's had ex-partners
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you can look at your partners and see where the women have done them wrong you can know because the
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women aren't teaching them the women are so quick to open their legs but not their mouth to say
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excuse me but mate but what you're doing down there that's wrong fix up or this is how you're
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supposed to do it but there's too many men there's too many women out there now having bad sex
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because an immense previous partner is not teaching him properly
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interesting that's well i guess i guess as a girl but how do you know it's bad
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you know if the man's not rocking and i'm not shivering then maybe she said about the earthquake
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no i'm saying you have to have a lot to compare it to to know it's bad
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no you can just know no you can just know how you feel because if you go and you relax yourself
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and you free up and you trust the man that he knows what you're doing you're gonna have good sex all the time
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um okay what you want to answer the question um i mean i personally so like this might sound
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controversial but i feel it's unrealistic to believe a man should be with one woman
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okay so i agree that you know they shouldn't expect it from a man but i feel like everything
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comes down to control so as a man if you decide you're going to go into a relationship you have to
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decide to control yourself and choose to be faithful
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what if your woman's a freak what would that what would that do
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if you want to go elsewhere you're gonna go you can have the perfect woman in the world
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it doesn't matter there's i do not believe there is anything a woman can do to stop a man from cheating
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hold it down bro do you agree that not all men cheat speak your truth
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so one thing i will say is i think men exercise their options
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women don't find them attractive and therefore they don't have options to exercise
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and therefore they cannot cheat whereas the top percentile of men
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have options to exercise therefore they can cheat
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and if the woman that is with them feels a type of way wants to leave
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he's like okay i'll just add a new girl to the rotation
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and he's able to get a plethora of girls because he's got the option to exercise his will to cheat
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yeah that's fine i just i just don't believe that all men cheat
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i agree i think i think you'd agree most do if they can
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most men can't what most men in relationships can't she
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um so what about you do you think it's fair that women expect monogamy if they gave their best years to another man
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and what would you define as a woman's best years go ahead
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okay well i would put that into the same sort of especially with that particular male or man
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usually her child's dad her first love is usually that type of person
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you know he's usually he's usually got everything else out of her by the time you've come across her
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whatever the scenario is you are getting the after bits there's going to be memories of him
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be it in a relationship sexual whatever you know there's going to be especially if they've got a child
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there's an imprint i've seen it loads of times you know people have broken up they've got with someone else
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as soon as the kid dad come back in the picture gone they're either sleeping together or they're back
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together so if a woman's had her best years with another male
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to me she she's actually his to be perfectly honest and i found a lot of the time that
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in and around 30 30 ish 30 mid 30s it depends what she's kind of done up to then okay um but
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to be fair about sort of like the mid 30 ish then by that point it's like yeah
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what do you think is it fair to expect monogamy if you've given your best years to another man
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because because it's like if then if men value purity and youth and you don't have that to give
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to him how can we expect like monogamy when they can't fulfill their mating strategy
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is this are you speaking like from a new relationship where they've been together for
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years and now he can cheat because she's given her best like so so what i'm saying is relationships
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are an exchange and men and women want different things like we want resources um we want a guy
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that's tall and that can protect us we want resources protection provisioning
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guys want youth purity peace and so if they can't fulfill their mating strategy which is to get a
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girl with low mileage that's young why would we expect them to give to forsake their mating strategy
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which is to spread their seed but then so is that isn't that kind of an unfair deal for men
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so then if if you then why would you stay with that person and cheat if if the person if the woman's
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not giving you the youth and whatever whatever why keep her there and cheat on her when you can just
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leave and be with the youth that you want that's my thing like i don't understand but i'm saying well
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is it fair that women expect it over a certain age that's the question because you give your best years
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she's talking about going into a new relationship yeah i know but if you're going to a new relationship
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and say this is the car and the car has been used for the last 15 years we don't have a spider date
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honestly speaking like who said that we gave our best to someone else i don't even know my maximum or my best
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probably i never done to to no one my best because i don't know i give honestly i loved someone before
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i don't know if i get the maximum i can i don't know maybe i'm gonna find tomorrow a man i'm gonna give
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actually the best of myself who said that i already gave to someone else it's about what they think is the best it's not about you
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because you're not the one buying so the guy the guys think is the best men yes what they think is the best
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men from the ages of 20 to 80 all think that girls are the most attractive around 22 to 24
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okay but like this is a man that cannot stand on his own like honestly because if you honestly think
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that uh he can't stand on his own yeah because like they actually mind about what other people think
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because if you're telling me that after like you're shaming men for their standards that's shame
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it's shame insult guilt need to be right no that's just my point of view i'm saying that i don't have an
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inspired date that doesn't mean that after because i had six year uh relationship i gave my best to
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someone no like if a man think this it means that he's not that confident to like get my best
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because if you are a proper man you're gonna get my best but see that's shame if you're saying like
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i'm not shaming i'll tell you why because you're saying if you're a real man if you're a proper man
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then you would think like me but that that's shaming men for what they want it doesn't it doesn't have to
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think like me i just don't want a man that think in this way just give me alone do you know what i mean
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i want to amend that it comes with confidence say i'm gonna get the best