JustPearlyThings - Modern Woman Says Price Before RESPECTING a Man

00:00:00.000 date a guy that makes less than you i would date a guy that um yeah i would but he would have to be

00:00:07.520 able to like pay the bills and what's your what's your minimum um i would say four grand because

00:00:14.560 that's like enough to like pay bills rent or mortgage um car note that sort of stuff okay

00:00:21.920 what about you um i think i would respect him um i don't believe you why don't you believe me

00:00:38.560 um oh gosh i don't what's your minimum okay my minimum i'll be comfortable with let's say

00:00:46.640 3k a month i think that's okay yeah okay to bring in um i think it's all down to i don't know if it

00:00:53.360 kind of relates to the question that you're asking i think it's just all down to ambition

00:00:56.960 if he's a bum no she said no no that's what he's gonna say this is the problem with women she said 1.00

00:01:01.680 that's he's gonna he's gonna be a high earner one day no he's not no potential here he goes the job

00:01:13.120 he's happy at his job he loves it he loves it it doesn't mean he's lazy maybe he's like a i don't

00:01:18.560 know do police officers yeah postman do police officers and mcdonald's and he loves working at

00:01:24.320 tisco yeah yeah oh god i mean i worked at mcdonald's it's all right i worked at tisco

00:01:31.200 i think my approach generally is a job is a job as long as it's making you comfortable then i will

00:01:36.000 respect that full stop yeah i think that's just it oh yeah but i mean in terms of like respect i mean

00:01:41.040 if we're living together and we have a family and i'm into like respect all your decision making

00:01:47.040 if you're not earning at least to cover what it takes i mean it's like okay if you're dating a

00:01:52.160 guy that makes 250 000 a year pounds or whatever it is here um if he says quit when i get so much

00:02:02.160 funny it's when like when do you want me to but at some point like it switches to where you give him

00:02:07.600 more control because if a bum tells you to do that you're not going to do it yeah if it hasn't worked 1.00

00:02:12.960 in two years he says quit you're like what i think we can all agree on that though yeah yeah which we

00:02:18.720 all agree on but like i'm just asking roughly around what point is it that you respect his decision

00:02:23.280 making yeah roughly random like roughly four grand a month okay such a good question these are things

00:02:29.440 that you wouldn't even ask yourself oh yes it's i'm actually kind of glad that i'm here and you're doing

00:02:34.480 if you want to get married you kind of have to do the math yeah like because it also depends how

00:02:38.800 many kids you want yeah so like how much does each kid cost yeah you need to think about these things

00:02:43.760 while entering a relationship especially if you're going to merge into one i feel like women do don't 0.99

00:02:48.480 they yeah like i see even on first dates exactly like what would our wedding look like yeah what area

00:02:55.920 are we going to move to and the man is just right there looking at the state yeah but we're five years

00:03:00.720 into it she's like oh today's a nice day she's like we could have two kids

00:03:07.680 the white picket fence is there yeah and you think about their career ladder as well all of it

00:03:12.560 yeah 100 and you look on glass door i think women like to fantasize a lot oh yeah and think way into 1.00

00:03:19.200 the future that's good because that's how they help men like blossom like that's how women are help 0.61

00:03:25.360 because men are very like and women are like oh but you could do it this way and this way and

00:03:32.960 like they flower the seeds that make it grow women have to like think outside the box because men are 0.98

00:03:38.480 very a matter of fact which is good and that's why the woman and the man works together yeah it's like

00:03:45.360 that quote that's i think it says something like um behind every great man is an even better woman or 0.99

00:03:51.200 something have you heard that one yeah i don't agree with that oh yeah that that's the most

00:03:56.320 quote i've ever heard i don't think it should be even better but i think great women should be there 0.98

00:04:00.720 instead but it kind of oh just the woman that cares yeah yeah this is woman beyond every man is his 0.98

00:04:07.360 woman elon musk needed a woman to get to where he's rich men get to where they're going regardless of

00:04:14.880 whether or not they have a guy doing dog eat dog for sure it's like i mean like the guys that are going

00:04:20.080 somewhere they're going to go somewhere whether or not you're there it's just like women just like 1.00

00:04:23.360 to take credit for doing nothing yeah i guess listen i think unless you're looking at having kids men

00:04:31.200 can just pretty much do anything whereas they don't need emotional support well they do but they don't

00:04:39.760 need it as much as women like i don't think they need it like women like to talk about stuff more 1.00

00:04:44.640 they're with their friends what do you talk about you talk about guys talk about feelings talk about

00:04:48.080 but look men are just like straight to the point we wiggle around a bit more but it works together

00:04:56.480 i like the chorus

00:05:07.280 you're not even doing it this time you've got a whole chorus here 0.98

00:05:09.760 oh they always roast me in the comments they're laughing because i think normally it's pearl and

00:05:16.160 every woman is doing it i've been trying to get better i've been trying after the fees interview i've

00:05:21.680 been trying she normally sits there going it's like it's a tick i can't no it's just a thing in it

00:05:29.360 because all the women are doing it one person made a comment and i'm just saying listen to the 0.91

00:05:33.520 choir and the choir said hmm auntie oh what do you think i've never been out of a man that's earned

00:05:42.720 more than me never never and i've respected every single one why do you think that is different than

00:05:51.440 a lot of women nowadays i'm just old school i just don't really care how much they are because no 1.00

00:05:59.040 it didn't really matter because i didn't when i'm out of a man he's a man so i don't i don't pay for

00:06:06.880 anything i'd have to put my hand in my pocket even the man that i've got now

00:06:12.240 i still got more than him he's got more i must admit he's got more cash than me i've got more assets

00:06:17.600 than him but no i can't i don't have to put my hand in my pocket for nothing yeah i think as long as

00:06:24.720 i don't have to put my hand in my pocket then yeah what is what is the minimum thousand pound

00:06:30.080 a month i can make it work you know i can pearl oh oh you know i can make it work right so if these

00:06:36.400 people that if these women out here are saying oh they need to do this oh the man can't afford that 1.00

00:06:40.160 you know what i mean check yourself and cut back what would you do with a thousand pounds a month how

00:06:43.840 would you split that up i'm just curious i'd go wholesalers yeah i mean it's different because all right

00:06:49.280 then if i had a mortgage in london with a thousand pounds a month i can live in before i was living i can do it

00:06:54.560 on 1500 okay because like 500 is towards the mortgage yeah kids are not expensive it all

00:07:01.440 depends do you know what right it all depends on what you want them to wear but nowadays you'll find

00:07:06.560 that a five pound t-shirt is not going to cost you 50 pound for the kid or because of the name or the

00:07:11.600 stamp on it and that's what brings things up or you know eating out you know you want a burger buy

00:07:18.080 some mincemeat and teach your kids how to make a burger you know no eating out no you think a

00:07:25.120 thousand pound is covering bills let's do me now wow you know i honestly had the same i had the same

00:07:32.800 thought yo she took me she took me well how much did you say was 35 pounds it was 30 pounds for the 30

00:07:40.160 pounds 30 pounds she said 10 a week yeah two people yeah she told me she could get a week's worth of

00:07:44.960 groceries on 30 pounds i didn't believe her you wouldn't go to the market yeah she took me she

00:07:49.520 took me no we went to a supermarket we didn't even go to a market yeah you can do it you just yeah we'll

00:07:55.840 talk off fresh stuff is this tin yes no it was actually good food check out wife school episode

00:08:03.040 two but yeah i i didn't believe her i was like there is no way there is no way but yeah 30 pounds you have

00:08:11.680 to look for the stickers the clearance stickers in the morning we just went there we just we just

00:08:18.480 popped in there and we picked about four things with stickers but everything else wasn't was it

00:08:22.880 was about four things with stickers in the middle of the day yeah no in the eve was in the evening

00:08:29.120 but it wasn't bad food it really wasn't no yeah but you have to even though this month to cover a whole

00:08:36.320 month including toiletries laundry alcohol and everything for the month thousand pound yeah

00:08:44.800 for the month i'm talking about all the alcohol as well well laundry toiletries electric toothbrush

00:08:50.880 everything frozen pan didn't that's it

00:08:55.520 teach us yeah i'm gonna watch it so i'm sold it's fine

00:08:59.040 i show i show you my tricks yeah i'm so i give you tips i'm so on it as many of you know i was just

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JustPearlyThings - March 22, 2023

Modern Woman Says Price Before RESPECTING a Man

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