Modern Woman Says Price Before RESPECTING a Man
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Summary
In this episode, we discuss the difference between men and women in the modern dating world and the differences between the two and how to deal with them. We discuss the differences in money, what it takes to be a good partner and what to look out for in a relationship.
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date a guy that makes less than you i would date a guy that um yeah i would but he would have to be
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able to like pay the bills and what's your what's your minimum um i would say four grand because
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that's like enough to like pay bills rent or mortgage um car note that sort of stuff okay
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what about you um i think i would respect him um i don't believe you why don't you believe me
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um oh gosh i don't what's your minimum okay my minimum i'll be comfortable with let's say
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3k a month i think that's okay yeah okay to bring in um i think it's all down to i don't know if it
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kind of relates to the question that you're asking i think it's just all down to ambition
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if he's a bum no she said no no that's what he's gonna say this is the problem with women she said
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that's he's gonna he's gonna be a high earner one day no he's not no potential here he goes the job
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he's happy at his job he loves it he loves it it doesn't mean he's lazy maybe he's like a i don't
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know do police officers yeah postman do police officers and mcdonald's and he loves working at
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tisco yeah yeah oh god i mean i worked at mcdonald's it's all right i worked at tisco
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i think my approach generally is a job is a job as long as it's making you comfortable then i will
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respect that full stop yeah i think that's just it oh yeah but i mean in terms of like respect i mean
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if we're living together and we have a family and i'm into like respect all your decision making
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if you're not earning at least to cover what it takes i mean it's like okay if you're dating a
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guy that makes 250 000 a year pounds or whatever it is here um if he says quit when i get so much
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funny it's when like when do you want me to but at some point like it switches to where you give him
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more control because if a bum tells you to do that you're not going to do it yeah if it hasn't worked
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in two years he says quit you're like what i think we can all agree on that though yeah yeah which we
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all agree on but like i'm just asking roughly around what point is it that you respect his decision
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making yeah roughly random like roughly four grand a month okay such a good question these are things
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that you wouldn't even ask yourself oh yes it's i'm actually kind of glad that i'm here and you're doing
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if you want to get married you kind of have to do the math yeah like because it also depends how
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many kids you want yeah so like how much does each kid cost yeah you need to think about these things
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while entering a relationship especially if you're going to merge into one i feel like women do don't
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they yeah like i see even on first dates exactly like what would our wedding look like yeah what area
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are we going to move to and the man is just right there looking at the state yeah but we're five years
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into it she's like oh today's a nice day she's like we could have two kids
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the white picket fence is there yeah and you think about their career ladder as well all of it
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yeah 100 and you look on glass door i think women like to fantasize a lot oh yeah and think way into
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the future that's good because that's how they help men like blossom like that's how women are help
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because men are very like and women are like oh but you could do it this way and this way and
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like they flower the seeds that make it grow women have to like think outside the box because men are
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very a matter of fact which is good and that's why the woman and the man works together yeah it's like
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that quote that's i think it says something like um behind every great man is an even better woman or
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something have you heard that one yeah i don't agree with that oh yeah that that's the most
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quote i've ever heard i don't think it should be even better but i think great women should be there
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instead but it kind of oh just the woman that cares yeah yeah this is woman beyond every man is his
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woman elon musk needed a woman to get to where he's rich men get to where they're going regardless of
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whether or not they have a guy doing dog eat dog for sure it's like i mean like the guys that are going
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somewhere they're going to go somewhere whether or not you're there it's just like women just like
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to take credit for doing nothing yeah i guess listen i think unless you're looking at having kids men
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can just pretty much do anything whereas they don't need emotional support well they do but they don't
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need it as much as women like i don't think they need it like women like to talk about stuff more
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they're with their friends what do you talk about you talk about guys talk about feelings talk about
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but look men are just like straight to the point we wiggle around a bit more but it works together
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you're not even doing it this time you've got a whole chorus here
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oh they always roast me in the comments they're laughing because i think normally it's pearl and
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every woman is doing it i've been trying to get better i've been trying after the fees interview i've
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been trying she normally sits there going it's like it's a tick i can't no it's just a thing in it
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because all the women are doing it one person made a comment and i'm just saying listen to the
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choir and the choir said hmm auntie oh what do you think i've never been out of a man that's earned
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more than me never never and i've respected every single one why do you think that is different than
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a lot of women nowadays i'm just old school i just don't really care how much they are because no
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it didn't really matter because i didn't when i'm out of a man he's a man so i don't i don't pay for
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anything i'd have to put my hand in my pocket even the man that i've got now
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i still got more than him he's got more i must admit he's got more cash than me i've got more assets
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than him but no i can't i don't have to put my hand in my pocket for nothing yeah i think as long as
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i don't have to put my hand in my pocket then yeah what is what is the minimum thousand pound
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a month i can make it work you know i can pearl oh oh you know i can make it work right so if these
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people that if these women out here are saying oh they need to do this oh the man can't afford that
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you know what i mean check yourself and cut back what would you do with a thousand pounds a month how
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would you split that up i'm just curious i'd go wholesalers yeah i mean it's different because all right
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then if i had a mortgage in london with a thousand pounds a month i can live in before i was living i can do it
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on 1500 okay because like 500 is towards the mortgage yeah kids are not expensive it all
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depends do you know what right it all depends on what you want them to wear but nowadays you'll find
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that a five pound t-shirt is not going to cost you 50 pound for the kid or because of the name or the
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stamp on it and that's what brings things up or you know eating out you know you want a burger buy
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some mincemeat and teach your kids how to make a burger you know no eating out no you think a
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thousand pound is covering bills let's do me now wow you know i honestly had the same i had the same
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thought yo she took me she took me well how much did you say was 35 pounds it was 30 pounds for the 30
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pounds 30 pounds she said 10 a week yeah two people yeah she told me she could get a week's worth of
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groceries on 30 pounds i didn't believe her you wouldn't go to the market yeah she took me she
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took me no we went to a supermarket we didn't even go to a market yeah you can do it you just yeah we'll
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talk off fresh stuff is this tin yes no it was actually good food check out wife school episode
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two but yeah i i didn't believe her i was like there is no way there is no way but yeah 30 pounds you have
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to look for the stickers the clearance stickers in the morning we just went there we just we just
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popped in there and we picked about four things with stickers but everything else wasn't was it
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was about four things with stickers in the middle of the day yeah no in the eve was in the evening
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but it wasn't bad food it really wasn't no yeah but you have to even though this month to cover a whole
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month including toiletries laundry alcohol and everything for the month thousand pound yeah
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for the month i'm talking about all the alcohol as well well laundry toiletries electric toothbrush
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teach us yeah i'm gonna watch it so i'm sold it's fine
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i show i show you my tricks yeah i'm so i give you tips i'm so on it as many of you know i was just
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