Modern Woman Says The Most Racist Thing To Pearl
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In this episode, we discuss the double standard that exists between men and women and why it s not equal. Why do women get more than men? What are the privileges that are given to women that are not given to men, and why is it the case that women get them and men don t?
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name one double standard outside of body count that does not benefit women you give me one and
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i'll be able to disprove it because that's what one that does benefit women we get drinks for
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free we get free on the first dates we get into clubs for free women women get drinks where like
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from at bars from men we get our first first dates are free there are specific grants that
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are offered to women that are not offered to men there are women's shelters there are not men
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shelter not not there are grants that go out to you no no no there is not there is not specific
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there are not specific grants for white males what specific why should there be why why should
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there be they have higher suicide rates that could possibly be one reason and then maybe
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because of all the privileges going their way and they know that it's not equal and all the privileges
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excuse me my brothers are white males so i don't i don't say i'm giving you another but i'm saying
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i've had i've had two brothers that tried to commit suicide and i'm saying it's not they didn't try
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to commit suicide because and i'm not sorry i don't try to bring in personal situations i shouldn't do
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that but but like it's not because like they they were thinking oh i have privileges it's because life
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can be hard as a man there's there's there's a lot of privileges offered to women that men do not
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get and i'm giving you examples but it's like i'm asking i'm asking you with white men and why they
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should be getting no no i said i said this is a privilege that women get that men don't often
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get and privileges so and as a woman who are young as well what does that have to do with anything
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because grants are given to people who are 18 to 25 so somebody over that can they be like oh no
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they're okay grants are given to people all the time grants are okay let's take quotas that's across
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all ages so i'm giving you specific examples where women are benefited and men are not so there are
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quotas that's at any age that are given to women that are not offered to men so i'm saying give me
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an example of a privilege that is given to women that is not given to men outside of body count you
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can't don't say sleeping around one double standard that does not benefit that does not benefit women
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i'm trying to think of one yeah i'm trying to think of like all of the different disparities
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that are there and i could say that that's why let's let's answer actually women get three times
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the amount of jail sentencing for the same crime that men do women can go to the police you mean men
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get yeah oh sorry sorry sorry reverse yeah yeah men get three times the amount of sentencing for the
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same crime that women do women can go to the police and say he hit me and they'll take him to prison
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that's true so so i'm asking like where then all of that gets screwed when you add in a black person
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into there so when you're coming but i'm talking but today but you're moving the goalposts no no
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because we're talking about we're talking about gender right now we are talking about i'm saying it's
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very different i can only talk as a black woman but but it's very different within the black community
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if a black man does something and a black woman does something it's not the same treatment is
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different no no no let's give a real example so if me and you was on the street right now me and you
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yeah and you slapped me is anybody gonna react if i slap you what's gonna happen next yeah it's a
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madness it's a bad example done then that's the privilege i am a black woman and i could still
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get done for that but also there is the strength issue in there as well so when a woman but when a
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woman hits a man so we all agree that men are stronger than women yeah of course if i hit you
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and you hit me the effects are going to be really good let's have an example that's that's the thing
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okay that's the nuance of it no no okay okay let's have an example you go up and you punch dwayne
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the rock johnson in the face he's stronger than you yeah yeah does anyone feel bad for you when you get
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hit back no why do why do women get an excuse if a weak man hits a strong man and gets hit back
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nobody feels bad for him why is it that if a weaker woman hits a stronger man and she gets hit
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back say that again say that again so if a woman hits a man no your argument was strength so you said
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you said women women are not as strong as men yeah but i'm saying so if he goes up to dwayne the rock
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johnson big jack dude yes and it's and hits dwayne first yeah nobody is going to feel bad for him when
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he gets knocked the out because you shouldn't have messed with him why do women feel like it's
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acceptable no they wouldn't why i'll wake up a lot because i'm stupid yeah
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that doesn't negate from the issue i'm not saying that women should go around hitting men
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like absolutely but i'm asking a man and he hits you back you hit him first yes but the point is
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because he is stronger the penalties are going to be harder they shouldn't be the law sees you as
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equals right it shouldn't be the point is it doesn't is it but why is it feminists aren't fighting for
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that equality i don't care what feminists are fighting for but the whole point was i asked you for a
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double standard that doesn't benefit women outside of sleeping around okay so i get that yeah and the
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the counter that i was offering is because there is the weakness of a woman so when she hits a man
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why it's not seen as as impervious as a man hitting a woman because there is the strength
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he looks way stronger to me right yeah if he hit you and i hate you would i get less time or more
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time because he's stronger than me both of you are men and you but he's stronger than me it doesn't
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but the point is i'm the weaker one yes but i'm weaker than him so is he going to get more time
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because he hit you no it's going to be two black men and you're going to know but that's the point
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that's the point we're trying to make it's not about strength it's about what i'm trying to say
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that you've contradicted your argument but how because it's not about men hitting okay so what about a
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woman who is like a bodybuilder what if he's a big skinny what if i was skinny and she was stronger
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than me and she could deadlift bench more than me bro there's some big women out there that nuance
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should be taken but it won't should be look what you're saying people will laugh and say you got
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punched up by a girl exactly they'll be laughing so what so what are we gonna do so like if if a man
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and a woman are fighting what are they gonna do put them both on the scale what if she weighs more than
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me then what does it mean bro then i knocked her out i'm saying gender should not be taken into
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consideration if you hit anybody you should expect to get hit back and the law should let you say that
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you were acting in self-defense but i'm saying but i'm saying that's not how it is if i if i hit him
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and then you knocked me out how who would the police take into custody no but i'm saying if
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if it was dwayne the rock johnson sitting here and he hit dwayne the rock johnson and he hit him
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and then he hit him back and gets knocked out the police would ask questions they wouldn't just assume
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arguments like this is is why amber her can do what she did arguments like that is what i'm going to
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do what she did because you can't be saying that oh i hit you but i didn't i didn't really hit you
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did i i'm a girl so i didn't close my face they'll be like i can't hit as hard as you but it's about
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the intent that's right that's what it's about like you knew you couldn't hit harder than me when
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you hit me do you know what i mean and then you got a receipt for your purchase and now what you
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say it's a bit you know what i'm saying it doesn't make sense sorry we're using extremes to
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accentuate the point to you that you can't just say because you're a woman and you know statistically
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you're you're less strong than i am yeah that if you hit me you didn't intend to hurt me as much
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i am given a reason for why the law but that's that's the way it is that's not why it's just
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because society coddles certain women and the law shouldn't be alive it's got nothing to do with
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strength no it should it shouldn't it shouldn't though it shouldn't whether it does or not we
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don't know whether it does probably shouldn't say it shouldn't but that is why it is there but if you
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want equality why not you again i'm not talking about you specifically but if feminists want equality
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why are they not fighting to speak to feminists about but because i'm not about equality i'm about
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equity and that's very different right but the the whole point is like i'm asking you to name
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a double standard that doesn't benefit women because you're not quite getting what you're
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talking about i don't think i mean i don't think there is that's the truth that's the truth so i have
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i have a stat for you guys give me harvard so this is you would you say harvard can gather research