JustPearlyThings - March 24, 2023


Modern Woman Supports ONLYF＊NS


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45 minutes

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9,433

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276

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Misogyny

140

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In this episode, we discuss the topic of Women Deserve Respect. Do modern women deserve it or not? Do men deserve it? Do women deserve to be treated with respect just for being a woman? Do they deserve respect for what they bring to the table?

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00:00:01.020 I think you can say a lot of women are whores. 1.00
00:00:03.300 And a lot of men are trash. 0.98
00:00:05.240 She's going to have me because of what I bring to the table,
00:00:07.680 but what do you bring to the table?
00:00:08.940 Absolutely nothing.
00:00:09.980 Women need men more than men sort of need women. 0.99
00:00:13.500 I think women want a respect they do not give to men.
00:00:17.200 You cannot respect someone if they do not respect you.
00:00:19.680 I don't think a queen can be a queen without a king.
00:00:23.000 I'm tired of seeing boobies.
00:00:24.660 Boobies and butts and fannies and everything's out there. 0.63
00:00:27.580 I'm sick and tired of seeing it.
00:00:28.760 Women will push you to be like, go queen, go do that. 1.00
00:00:31.200 But at the end of the day, you are losing more respect for yourself
00:00:34.240 by listening to a woman telling you to go out and do that thing 0.96
00:00:36.920 that they wouldn't even do themselves.
00:00:39.320 Do modern women deserve respect? 1.00
00:00:41.640 Now, what made me think of this topic, all right,
00:00:44.860 was I was thinking, do people deserve,
00:00:47.900 do women deserve respect just for being women? 1.00
00:00:50.300 No.
00:00:50.660 No.
00:00:51.400 What do you, so let's go here, go around.
00:00:53.900 I know we had some initial reactions,
00:00:56.060 but start here and then go around and say why.
00:00:58.760 I personally think not.
00:01:01.760 I think women nowadays tends to be like very feminist focused. 1.00
00:01:08.920 You know what I mean?
00:01:09.360 They don't be thinking about the men,
00:01:10.740 which like understandable, we're women, we think about ourselves. 1.00
00:01:13.540 That's just life, in my opinion.
00:01:15.360 I think with everything that's going on in the world and everything,
00:01:19.580 they're expecting a lot from men, a lot of respect for men
00:01:22.640 when they're not bringing anything.
00:01:23.960 They just think, you know what, he has money,
00:01:26.920 he's going to have me because of what I bring to the table,
00:01:29.400 but what do you bring to the table?
00:01:30.660 Absolutely nothing.
00:01:31.680 You bring personality and that's about it.
00:01:33.460 That's what I feel like most of the women nowadays can bring. 1.00
00:01:37.460 Women who are out here, like run their own business, 1.00
00:01:39.300 stuff like that, like go for you.
00:01:40.660 Like I understand that you're bringing other stuff to the table then,
00:01:43.500 like build an empire together.
00:01:45.520 That's fine, no problem.
00:01:46.620 But for the women who don't have stuff like that. 1.00
00:01:48.320 Do you think men care about if women are building a... 1.00
00:01:50.620 No, they don't care about that.
00:01:53.660 But for women, I feel like women really think that men care, 1.00
00:01:57.060 that they have to have something, you know,
00:01:58.840 when that's not the truth at all.
00:02:00.660 Okay, what do you think?
00:02:02.700 I see you thinking over there.
00:02:04.100 She's like, she's not...
00:02:05.660 I feel like...
00:02:07.900 Try to speak into your mic, just, you know.
00:02:09.680 I feel like women do not deserve respect off the bat. 1.00
00:02:14.080 I feel like you need to earn the respect.
00:02:17.560 However, I feel like a certain level of respect
00:02:20.120 should be given to you sort of immediately
00:02:22.760 because you cannot respect someone
00:02:25.180 if they do not respect you.
00:02:26.900 So I then feel like if a man doesn't give you
00:02:31.120 a certain level of respect,
00:02:32.600 you can't respect him back
00:02:34.460 and there's not really going to be any respect
00:02:37.420 in that scenario.
00:02:39.940 And that's all I'm going to say.
00:02:41.040 Can I comment on that?
00:02:42.040 Yeah.
00:02:42.780 Do you think that...
00:02:45.000 Seedway, like you were saying,
00:02:46.080 like if a man can give...
00:02:47.140 Do you not think it's like the other way around?
00:02:48.680 In general, everyone, men and women,
00:02:50.880 the respect should be there straight away.
00:02:52.500 Yeah.
00:02:52.800 If you're focused with that person more,
00:02:54.600 you obviously get more respect put into you.
00:02:56.820 But I feel like with women, it's kind of like, 1.00
00:02:59.560 why would I give him respect
00:03:00.460 when he's done this, that and the other?
00:03:01.540 But they've done this, that and the other
00:03:02.740 and they're respecting their respect straight away,
00:03:04.880 straight off the bat.
00:03:06.000 But women don't do that most times. 1.00
00:03:08.160 I feel like generally,
00:03:09.760 women tend to respect men more... 0.99
00:03:14.920 Sorry, women tend to respect men more 1.00
00:03:17.340 than men tend to respect women off the bat.
00:03:21.660 You think most women respect men? 1.00
00:03:25.620 I wouldn't say most.
00:03:26.460 Most women respect the average guy? 0.98
00:03:28.080 I'm going to be careful with my words here
00:03:29.560 because I wouldn't say no,
00:03:30.680 most women don't respect the average guy. 1.00
00:03:33.360 But I feel like more women respect men
00:03:35.740 than men would respect women off the bat.
00:03:39.600 What makes you say that?
00:03:42.180 I'd say that...
00:03:43.760 It's more like, I feel like women need men 1.00
00:03:47.120 more than men sort of need women.
00:03:49.920 So women are willing to give respect immediately 0.99
00:03:53.140 or give trust immediately
00:03:54.620 rather than the man trying to give it to the woman.
00:03:57.600 Because men, I feel like men sort of want to
00:04:00.060 explore different women.
00:04:02.220 So if that's true,
00:04:03.560 like why do we have phrases in society
00:04:05.200 like men are trash, men are the problem, 1.00
00:04:07.500 men are stupid men, men are dumb, 0.95
00:04:09.340 men are idiots.
00:04:09.960 But we don't have like, you know,
00:04:12.920 I mean, well, in my space of YouTube,
00:04:15.540 women are whores is a bit common, 1.00
00:04:17.100 but in the general public and media,
00:04:19.140 it's really not.
00:04:20.980 And even on the train,
00:04:22.180 like you'll see things that are signs
00:04:24.560 that call men predators on the tube here.
00:04:26.660 It's wild.
00:04:28.860 I'd say, I think our general society
00:04:32.720 as a whole right now is failing.
00:04:34.920 I think you can say a lot of women are whores 1.00
00:04:36.760 and a lot of men are trash. 0.98
00:04:39.280 I feel like we're in a society now
00:04:41.080 that is favoring like prostitution, 1.00
00:04:43.760 like modern prostitution, 1.00
00:04:45.580 to the point where it's like
00:04:47.680 women are not even committed to this guy. 0.52
00:04:51.180 They just want this guy for money.
00:04:53.020 And this man wants this girl
00:04:54.840 just because of her body or her face.
00:04:56.900 Like people are not actually loving each other
00:04:58.960 for who they are as a person anymore.
00:05:01.720 Do you think that's ever happened?
00:05:04.100 Yeah.
00:05:04.400 I feel like the thing is,
00:05:06.060 I don't like generalizing
00:05:07.640 because I feel like everyone's different.
00:05:10.160 So I feel like there's relationships out there
00:05:13.480 where they don't care about
00:05:15.140 how the other person looks.
00:05:16.520 They care about that person as that person,
00:05:20.260 like how that person acts,
00:05:21.420 how that person is,
00:05:23.140 like how that person makes them feel.
00:05:24.640 Some people just generally want women for status 1.00
00:05:27.220 and for that power.
00:05:29.080 Wait, you think who?
00:05:30.860 Just again, some men, some women.
00:05:32.920 Men want women for status and power. 1.00
00:05:35.600 Some men, yeah.
00:05:36.680 Okay, do you think that's the majority?
00:05:39.460 I'd agree with you on status.
00:05:40.760 I don't know about power.
00:05:42.140 I wouldn't say majority.
00:05:45.140 But I'd say,
00:05:46.420 I'd probably say more,
00:05:47.760 I wouldn't say high value men,
00:05:49.220 but men that perceive themselves as high value
00:05:52.800 would rather have a woman of 0.78
00:05:55.260 sort of higher status.
00:05:58.760 or I wouldn't say status.
00:06:00.520 I'd probably think status isn't the right word,
00:06:02.440 but sort of pretty.
00:06:03.220 Are you still going to say that
00:06:04.920 you would say the majority of women 1.00
00:06:06.800 respect most men
00:06:07.940 or respect more men than men do women?
00:06:10.420 Because that was the initial question.
00:06:12.000 Yeah.
00:06:13.840 That I asked,
00:06:14.940 not the general.
00:06:16.080 Again, I think I maybe might have re...
00:06:18.300 I might have phrased that a bit wrong.
00:06:19.680 I feel like women seek out men, 1.00
00:06:24.000 like need men more than men 0.82
00:06:25.980 would say they need women. 1.00
00:06:27.540 Yeah, that's true.
00:06:27.960 I think that's sort of
00:06:28.440 what I was trying to say there.
00:06:30.360 Okay.
00:06:30.960 Go ahead.
00:06:31.780 Okay, so just to restate,
00:06:33.020 because we didn't go down
00:06:33.880 on a rabbit hole a little bit.
00:06:35.020 Yeah.
00:06:35.800 Do women deserve respect 1.00
00:06:37.220 just for being women? 1.00
00:06:38.580 Correct.
00:06:39.000 Okay, so I think yes,
00:06:41.120 not just because they're women though, 1.00
00:06:42.400 but because we should all give
00:06:43.660 a basic level of respect
00:06:45.000 to anybody that we're meeting.
00:06:46.160 Not because they're just women or men,
00:06:47.720 we should respect each other, period.
00:06:49.060 So, yes.
00:06:50.300 Okay, what do you think?
00:06:52.180 I don't think they should get it
00:06:53.360 just for being women. 1.00
00:06:54.280 I think, as Lauren said,
00:06:55.280 it's just for being a person.
00:06:58.060 And you should respect them
00:06:59.360 until they give you a reason
00:07:00.360 not to respect them,
00:07:01.380 such as maybe they don't respect themselves
00:07:03.340 and they don't carry themselves
00:07:04.120 in a great way.
00:07:05.380 So maybe your respect level
00:07:06.760 would go down for them.
00:07:07.800 And that's okay,
00:07:08.560 because that's your judgment on them.
00:07:10.400 Okay.
00:07:13.060 Yeah, respect to me is just,
00:07:15.520 it's genderless.
00:07:17.000 You know, I think everybody
00:07:18.680 deserves a,
00:07:20.460 you know,
00:07:21.120 deserves respect
00:07:22.040 and it's all about
00:07:22.700 what are you doing
00:07:23.220 to remove respect
00:07:25.120 off of the actions
00:07:26.540 that you take.
00:07:28.760 Okay, go ahead.
00:07:30.820 I think the better question is
00:07:32.620 what we define in there
00:07:35.900 is respect.
00:07:37.520 What is it respect,
00:07:39.340 disrespect, value?
00:07:40.600 Like, that's why I'm confused.
00:07:43.380 Because, like,
00:07:44.460 a dog deserves respect.
00:07:46.760 So I don't think you
00:07:47.960 supposed to just disrespect nobody.
00:07:50.620 But, like,
00:07:53.200 what type of respect?
00:07:54.480 I guess my question is more
00:07:56.020 is respect given
00:07:56.860 or is it earned?
00:07:58.780 Well, I think it's both.
00:08:00.180 You get a basic level of respect
00:08:01.720 just for being a human.
00:08:04.020 You know what I'm saying?
00:08:04.520 And for not disrespecting me.
00:08:05.840 Like,
00:08:06.320 if you don't disrespect me,
00:08:07.440 I'm gonna respect you
00:08:08.140 because you're respecting me.
00:08:09.200 But if you disrespect me,
00:08:11.800 then it's fuck you. 0.99
00:08:12.920 You know what I'm saying?
00:08:13.480 Yeah.
00:08:14.240 Okay.
00:08:15.480 Melanie, what do you think?
00:08:17.060 Um, I think,
00:08:18.620 where you say the question
00:08:19.440 because I, like,
00:08:20.200 I lost, like,
00:08:20.800 the reason.
00:08:21.060 Do women deserve respect 1.00
00:08:22.740 for being women? 0.99
00:08:23.840 No.
00:08:24.640 Like,
00:08:25.120 because you're born
00:08:25.580 with a vagina? 1.00
00:08:27.280 Like,
00:08:27.640 what does that mean?
00:08:28.920 Like, I mean,
00:08:29.860 it's just human anatomy
00:08:30.920 and a lot of women 1.00
00:08:31.780 fight for it.
00:08:32.560 They say,
00:08:32.840 respect me for my mind,
00:08:34.080 respect me for
00:08:34.880 my accomplishments
00:08:36.100 and we're just as equal
00:08:37.360 as men.
00:08:37.840 But then at the same
00:08:38.720 time,
00:08:39.320 they'll say,
00:08:39.640 because I'm a woman
00:08:40.640 born with a vagina, 0.96
00:08:42.580 I deserve respect.
00:08:43.820 It's like,
00:08:44.160 it's a dichotomy.
00:08:45.640 It's like double-minded
00:08:46.540 and it's illogical.
00:08:48.420 Like,
00:08:48.700 you have to earn respect.
00:08:49.820 Like,
00:08:50.240 if you are,
00:08:51.500 everybody's not going
00:08:52.380 to get the same level
00:08:53.100 of respect.
00:08:53.480 I do think there's a,
00:08:54.980 for human nature,
00:08:55.960 yes,
00:08:56.300 but I think women 1.00
00:08:57.200 want a respect
00:08:58.800 that they do not give
00:08:59.700 to men.
00:09:00.460 I think respect
00:09:01.060 might be the wrong word.
00:09:03.100 Yeah.
00:09:03.580 Maybe women 1.00
00:09:04.420 look to be valued.
00:09:05.860 I do,
00:09:06.360 do you want to be valued
00:09:07.480 just because you're a woman? 1.00
00:09:08.720 Well,
00:09:09.060 I think what the question
00:09:09.780 is getting at is,
00:09:11.340 there's so many modern
00:09:12.000 women today that just 1.00
00:09:12.960 call themselves a queen
00:09:13.920 for existing.
00:09:14.840 Yeah.
00:09:15.360 And you give
00:09:15.960 participation trophies
00:09:17.200 just based off of you
00:09:18.300 having a,
00:09:20.640 a,
00:09:20.740 a,
00:09:21.040 a viscous innert.
00:09:21.980 a viscous innert,
00:09:22.900 which is,
00:09:25.540 which is completely trash,
00:09:27.140 right?
00:09:27.420 Like,
00:09:27.680 and I think like,
00:09:28.800 you know,
00:09:28.940 we have a society
00:09:29.660 that panders to one gender
00:09:31.460 so much.
00:09:32.320 Of course,
00:09:33.040 it's easy to accept
00:09:34.680 your,
00:09:34.940 your participation trophy
00:09:36.360 for being a queen.
00:09:37.260 but if you are,
00:09:38.540 if you are a queen
00:09:39.600 and you are doing
00:09:41.840 unsavory things
00:09:43.100 during,
00:09:44.220 during the night,
00:09:45.280 during the street time
00:09:46.380 activity,
00:09:47.120 I think you deserve
00:09:47.840 less respect for me
00:09:49.060 to be considering you
00:09:50.400 within a relationship.
00:09:52.420 What would you define
00:09:53.520 as a queen?
00:09:55.360 Like,
00:09:55.680 what do you mean by queen
00:09:57.000 when you say that?
00:09:58.140 Yeah.
00:09:58.620 So like,
00:09:59.480 queen is earned,
00:10:01.140 right?
00:10:01.580 Like,
00:10:01.700 so if you think of like
00:10:02.180 the concept of king and queen,
00:10:04.000 you know,
00:10:04.400 you know,
00:10:05.760 it is a history within that.
00:10:07.860 I don't think a queen
00:10:09.220 can be a queen
00:10:10.440 without a king.
00:10:11.920 I think that it is necessary
00:10:13.620 to have a king first.
00:10:15.440 That's hard.
00:10:16.620 And within that,
00:10:17.900 when we live in a culture
00:10:19.220 of men ain't ish,
00:10:21.820 I miss independent,
00:10:23.900 all of this other,
00:10:24.820 all of these other things
00:10:25.660 that continue to put men down
00:10:27.360 and then you meet
00:10:28.820 with the unrealistic standards
00:10:31.020 of most,
00:10:32.340 most modern women today 0.95
00:10:34.300 there just seems to be
00:10:35.840 a complete like
00:10:37.720 breakdown of society
00:10:39.500 and the things
00:10:40.160 that are important
00:10:41.660 within that.
00:10:42.400 So I think a queen
00:10:43.760 needs to have a king
00:10:44.840 first and foremost.
00:10:46.600 But it's also behavior.
00:10:47.800 A king can make a queen, 0.94
00:10:48.740 but a queen can't make a king. 1.00
00:10:49.960 Ever.
00:10:50.440 Yeah.
00:10:50.980 And they always try it.
00:10:52.180 And I don't think that
00:10:53.180 if no one don't respect
00:10:54.120 themselves or the people
00:10:54.960 around them,
00:10:55.820 they don't deserve
00:10:56.540 no respect.
00:10:57.860 And modern women 0.98
00:10:58.360 don't deserve no respect
00:10:59.340 for the way they carry themselves,
00:11:00.460 for the way they dress,
00:11:01.520 for the way they talk,
00:11:02.640 for the way they portray themselves
00:11:03.800 on social media,
00:11:05.220 they're lucky that people
00:11:05.860 are talking to them,
00:11:06.600 let alone sharing them
00:11:07.160 with respect.
00:11:08.620 It's almost like
00:11:09.120 we're brainwashed.
00:11:10.100 It's almost like
00:11:10.680 we've been brainwashed
00:11:11.860 to accept the nastiness
00:11:13.740 of society
00:11:14.960 to say,
00:11:16.020 okay,
00:11:16.760 you're half naked, 0.97
00:11:20.260 therefore,
00:11:20.940 I like that.
00:11:22.000 And it's just so crazy.
00:11:22.940 And it's so backwards
00:11:23.960 that even dudes like that.
00:11:25.340 I used to have
00:11:26.400 guy friends in my life
00:11:27.380 that would feel empowered
00:11:29.480 if their girlfriend
00:11:30.240 wanted to go out
00:11:31.120 and be like
00:11:31.820 half naked in the club.
00:11:33.600 And to me,
00:11:34.060 it's just like,
00:11:34.500 it's so crazy
00:11:35.000 because that to me
00:11:35.580 is not queen behavior. 1.00
00:11:36.780 That's not marriageable material.
00:11:38.580 What do you guys think?
00:11:40.480 Do women deserve... 1.00
00:11:41.120 I just think
00:11:41.620 you have to earn it
00:11:43.640 as a woman.
00:11:45.540 That's my only view on it.
00:11:46.760 Okay.
00:11:47.280 What do you think?
00:11:48.020 I just think
00:11:48.520 if you don't respect a woman,
00:11:50.940 like,
00:11:51.060 there has to be like
00:11:51.920 a good reason behind it.
00:11:53.580 And I also think
00:11:55.060 sometimes
00:11:55.860 if someone doesn't respect you,
00:11:57.580 you don't really care.
00:11:59.040 Like,
00:11:59.140 you know,
00:11:59.360 like,
00:11:59.780 if someone doesn't respect you,
00:12:01.840 their opinion
00:12:02.720 don't maybe even hold weight.
00:12:04.440 That is the problem with society.
00:12:04.920 You should care.
00:12:05.760 Yeah.
00:12:06.280 You should care.
00:12:07.480 Everybody's out there
00:12:08.200 with all their boobies out 0.95
00:12:09.300 and somebody's going to say,
00:12:10.460 I don't like you
00:12:11.080 because you're showing
00:12:12.060 all your front
00:12:12.640 and you're going to say,
00:12:13.440 I don't care what they say
00:12:14.620 because their opinion
00:12:15.980 don't matter.
00:12:16.880 That's the problem with society
00:12:17.940 because it doesn't care.
00:12:19.620 People don't care 0.85
00:12:20.340 what people think about them.
00:12:21.720 You should care.
00:12:22.720 If you're out there,
00:12:23.580 and you're acting horror-ish
00:12:24.660 and you're looking
00:12:25.560 on ladylike
00:12:27.000 and people are commenting
00:12:29.260 and you're trying to get
00:12:30.060 a certain kind of man
00:12:30.920 and people are like
00:12:32.020 slagging you off online,
00:12:33.300 you should care.
00:12:33.900 Turn it down.
00:12:34.800 I'm tired of seeing boobies.
00:12:36.260 Boobies and butts 1.00
00:12:36.980 and fannies 0.98
00:12:37.560 and everything's out there.
00:12:39.120 I'm sick and tired of seeing it.
00:12:40.360 You also get to choose
00:12:41.340 who you follow
00:12:41.940 and who you don't follow
00:12:42.740 on social media too though.
00:12:44.000 So I do think like,
00:12:45.500 you know.
00:12:45.880 It pops up.
00:12:46.560 Titties and butts 1.00
00:12:47.240 pop up on my mind
00:12:48.020 all the time.
00:12:48.620 Of course.
00:12:49.120 And as far as I'm concerned,
00:12:50.580 if you're out there
00:12:51.520 and like you're saying
00:12:52.860 about the question
00:12:53.580 was about respect.
00:12:55.280 How do you expect
00:12:56.280 to get respect
00:12:57.120 when you're at this show
00:12:58.160 and you might say,
00:12:58.860 oh, I don't care.
00:12:59.620 But sooner or later,
00:13:00.680 you're going to come
00:13:01.300 to that age
00:13:01.800 where it's going to hit you
00:13:02.560 and you're going to care
00:13:03.280 and no one ain't going
00:13:04.180 to give a shit
00:13:04.720 because all your fannies 0.99
00:13:05.660 and titties are out there.
00:13:06.980 And I say,
00:13:07.560 do you know what?
00:13:08.240 See on that as well.
00:13:09.440 It's mostly women 1.00
00:13:10.620 that will push women 1.00
00:13:11.520 to do OnlyFans
00:13:12.380 and stuff like that as well.
00:13:13.460 Like, no girl, 1.00
00:13:14.100 go get that bag. 0.89
00:13:14.940 Go get this.
00:13:15.600 But your man will be like,
00:13:16.980 I don't want you to do that.
00:13:17.780 That's why you don't
00:13:18.160 listen to women. 0.95
00:13:18.760 I 100% agree.
00:13:20.760 One million percent.
00:13:21.740 Like, women will push you 1.00
00:13:22.880 to be like,
00:13:23.160 go queen, 0.88
00:13:23.700 go do that. 0.52
00:13:24.400 But at the end of the day,
00:13:25.820 you are losing
00:13:26.600 more respect for yourself
00:13:27.460 by listening to a woman
00:13:28.500 telling you to go out
00:13:29.420 and do that thing
00:13:30.120 that they wouldn't
00:13:30.700 even do themselves.
00:13:31.940 You know what I mean?
00:13:32.760 It's kind of just pushing
00:13:33.500 your morals
00:13:34.640 just a little bit back.
00:13:35.900 You know what I mean?
00:13:36.300 I can say much more
00:13:37.320 of myself.
00:13:37.960 Why do women push 1.00
00:13:39.860 other women 0.95
00:13:40.340 to do sex work
00:13:41.400 and promiscuous activity
00:13:43.500 when the first thing
00:13:44.320 that happens
00:13:44.880 when a woman's mad 1.00
00:13:45.700 is she calls another girl
00:13:46.680 a whore and a slut. 1.00
00:13:48.180 Yeah.
00:13:48.440 Literally.
00:13:48.760 No, no.
00:13:49.260 And we get so offended
00:13:50.000 by that word as well
00:13:50.980 when it's like
00:13:51.640 That's because
00:13:52.220 we don't have women 1.00
00:13:53.240 as friends.
00:13:53.640 That's because y'all
00:13:53.820 don't like each other.
00:13:55.180 Exactly.
00:13:55.900 Women don't like each other. 1.00
00:13:57.380 Y'all is demeanous
00:13:58.640 to each other
00:13:59.560 but then get put off
00:14:00.560 on men.
00:14:01.580 Or men say this
00:14:02.580 or do that.
00:14:03.880 Like,
00:14:04.480 we were talking
00:14:04.920 to this one girl
00:14:05.580 outside in between
00:14:06.780 the last show
00:14:07.680 she was talking about
00:14:08.260 getting something done
00:14:09.540 to her body.
00:14:10.960 And the girl
00:14:11.440 body righteous
00:14:12.180 like it's already fine.
00:14:14.060 I'm sitting here
00:14:14.480 telling her like,
00:14:15.160 baby,
00:14:15.380 you ain't got to do
00:14:16.660 none of that.
00:14:17.940 But it's not really
00:14:19.320 they're not doing it
00:14:20.240 for me
00:14:20.520 and they're doing it
00:14:21.080 for other women. 0.69
00:14:22.460 You know what I'm saying?
00:14:23.300 I don't really think
00:14:24.040 it's for the women though. 1.00
00:14:24.860 It's more for the men 0.99
00:14:25.580 because it's a man
00:14:26.380 that want it.
00:14:27.180 No, it's not.
00:14:27.760 No.
00:14:28.160 No, but like we are
00:14:29.240 the big lips
00:14:29.960 and the eyebrows
00:14:31.140 and the eyelashes
00:14:31.580 You were talking about
00:14:32.360 this society being brainwashed.
00:14:34.520 This society has been
00:14:35.280 brainwashed to the point
00:14:36.100 where they think
00:14:36.600 that that is normal
00:14:37.320 and they think
00:14:38.100 that is okay.
00:14:38.920 But here's the thing.
00:14:40.160 I actually agree with you.
00:14:41.600 I think they do do it
00:14:42.380 for the men
00:14:42.900 but it's like sexual attention.
00:14:44.320 It's not relationship attention.
00:14:45.380 So you can kind of do
00:14:46.340 a cheat code.
00:14:47.000 You can go get a BBL
00:14:47.900 and get a nice body
00:14:48.740 and you do get more attention
00:14:49.760 from men
00:14:50.200 than if you're flat, right?
00:14:51.540 But it's not the reason.
00:14:52.880 It's not the attention you want.
00:14:54.680 No, no, but listen though.
00:14:56.180 But it goes so deeper though
00:14:57.360 because I know
00:14:58.760 who you're talking about
00:14:59.640 and she has a great body. 0.99
00:15:02.100 Yeah.
00:15:02.340 So you got to think about
00:15:03.700 how far down deep
00:15:04.900 that she is
00:15:05.780 within watching
00:15:06.680 the Instagram models,
00:15:08.440 within watching
00:15:09.100 the Cosmopolitan magazine
00:15:10.400 to not even think
00:15:11.400 that her great body
00:15:13.300 doesn't look good to a man 0.96
00:15:15.040 and now she wants to enhance it
00:15:16.460 to look like Betty Boop. 0.99
00:15:17.580 You know, honestly,
00:15:18.320 I think it's because
00:15:18.860 we're lazy as women. 1.00
00:15:20.100 We don't want to go to the gym.
00:15:22.160 She's in great shape.
00:15:23.360 Y'all good at how y'all is.
00:15:25.940 Can I just say something?
00:15:26.920 I'm just saying
00:15:27.440 if you want to get better
00:15:28.360 then you go to the gym.
00:15:29.760 Go ahead.
00:15:30.100 As a flat woman,
00:15:31.880 totally flat woman. 0.96
00:15:33.100 Go, go, go, go, go, go.
00:15:34.780 As a totally flat woman. 0.99
00:15:36.000 Right, you're right.
00:15:36.620 There's a couple grand kids.
00:15:38.180 Exactly.
00:15:39.480 So as a flat woman. 0.96
00:15:40.400 Hashtag body positivity.
00:15:42.000 This is what you call
00:15:43.040 body positivity.
00:15:44.260 Come on, talk to them, Marty.
00:15:44.800 I'm not going to go
00:15:45.500 and get no BBL
00:15:46.600 or no implants to improve.
00:15:48.460 And everybody,
00:15:48.940 I'm as flat as a pancake.
00:15:50.300 You know,
00:15:50.480 turn me sideways
00:15:51.080 and look like an ironing board.
00:15:52.140 Always flat.
00:15:53.140 So no,
00:15:53.600 I wouldn't go and do it.
00:15:55.560 And it's like,
00:15:55.960 think of your kids.
00:15:56.620 And no man's going to,
00:15:57.520 I think my man,
00:15:58.820 if I had to go and say,
00:15:59.620 well, my ass is flat. 0.92
00:16:00.480 You know,
00:16:00.660 my ass is flat. 0.93
00:16:01.740 And they think,
00:16:02.220 well,
00:16:02.420 it's been flat
00:16:02.920 for the last 30 odd years.
00:16:03.860 I've known you.
00:16:04.540 Why would you want
00:16:05.080 to get it done?
00:16:05.940 Because once the name's
00:16:06.740 got it done,
00:16:07.140 it looks great.
00:16:07.820 He might say,
00:16:08.300 yeah,
00:16:08.420 it might look good on her,
00:16:09.180 but I don't want that in my bed.
00:16:11.020 You know,
00:16:11.740 men want it 0.99
00:16:12.340 to look at.
00:16:13.660 Yeah.
00:16:14.260 To,
00:16:14.580 was it just to
00:16:16.000 have for one night?
00:16:17.720 To fantasize.
00:16:18.900 Skeet and retreat. 0.92
00:16:19.780 No,
00:16:20.260 we want it to be
00:16:21.740 well done.
00:16:22.980 But they will not marry it.
00:16:24.140 They will not settle down
00:16:25.540 with somebody
00:16:26.480 with a fake old lips,
00:16:27.540 the eyebrows.
00:16:28.000 And if they do it,
00:16:28.640 it ain't going to last.
00:16:29.700 I think the issue
00:16:30.500 might be as well
00:16:31.280 that some girls 1.00
00:16:32.260 see how other girls
00:16:33.180 get treated
00:16:33.640 when they get
00:16:34.300 all these things done.
00:16:35.100 So maybe
00:16:35.460 if they get flown out
00:16:36.920 or good treatment
00:16:37.920 and then they think
00:16:38.560 when they're not getting anything,
00:16:40.240 they think that they should
00:16:41.180 do that
00:16:42.000 and then get the attention
00:16:43.180 the other girls get 0.96
00:16:43.920 when actually
00:16:44.480 they're getting that attention
00:16:45.720 maybe because
00:16:46.360 the guy is
00:16:47.120 kind of doing something
00:16:48.300 transactional with them
00:16:49.240 in a way.
00:16:49.740 Like if you're flying them out,
00:16:50.760 you might expect
00:16:51.500 something from them
00:16:52.200 and then other girls 0.99
00:16:53.440 want to do that
00:16:54.340 to get the same treatment.
00:16:55.500 Women need to be 1.00
00:16:56.340 honest to women 1.00
00:16:57.200 because I saw a girl 0.87
00:16:59.200 I interviewed
00:17:00.020 a young lady
00:17:00.800 and I was
00:17:02.420 she had her butt done 1.00
00:17:03.880 and I had a feel
00:17:05.220 I had a good old feel of it
00:17:06.760 you know
00:17:07.080 and you wouldn't expect
00:17:08.700 and she had
00:17:09.380 hell of a cellulite.
00:17:12.980 Auntie, did it feel good?
00:17:15.100 No, it didn't.
00:17:16.380 It didn't.
00:17:17.440 Did it jiggle?
00:17:18.560 I wanted to feel her breasts 1.00
00:17:19.480 because her breasts 1.00
00:17:19.920 were fantastic.
00:17:20.500 Oh, you were all over.
00:17:21.520 Is she here tonight?
00:17:24.240 No, she had the best breasts 1.00
00:17:26.020 I've ever seen ever.
00:17:27.460 But when you think about
00:17:28.720 because the women 1.00
00:17:29.680 are out there
00:17:30.080 they don't think about the pain
00:17:31.220 you know
00:17:31.760 the stuff when they get
00:17:32.460 in their lips
00:17:32.880 it goes rock hard
00:17:33.740 they have to get it cut out
00:17:34.780 but I looked at her ass 1.00
00:17:36.280 and I thought
00:17:36.720 have you had your bum done? 0.75
00:17:38.480 She said yeah
00:17:38.960 and I said
00:17:39.240 can I have a feel?
00:17:40.460 And I said
00:17:41.200 you've got cellulite
00:17:42.080 and she said yeah
00:17:43.000 because I had a fat reduced
00:17:44.060 like taken out of here
00:17:45.260 and put in there.
00:17:46.380 Now women are going to go around 1.00
00:17:47.360 they're going to go
00:17:47.860 say yeah
00:17:48.260 we've had our butt done
00:17:49.280 but it was
00:17:50.300 it looked like an orange
00:17:51.480 you know
00:17:52.580 it just looked like
00:17:53.080 an ordinary butt
00:17:54.200 it was nice peatly shaped
00:17:55.960 but it was all
00:17:56.540 it had all cellulite
00:17:57.780 and I'm sure that
00:17:58.940 women are thinking 0.99
00:17:59.660 about getting their butt done 0.85
00:18:00.500 they're not thinking
00:18:01.060 I'm going to get cellulite
00:18:02.520 years ago
00:18:03.320 you used to get like
00:18:04.160 lip gloss
00:18:04.980 that used to like
00:18:05.520 sting your lips
00:18:06.080 and make them swell a bit
00:18:06.920 now you want to go
00:18:07.820 and get it injected
00:18:08.420 why?
00:18:09.540 Can I comment on that
00:18:10.680 right?
00:18:11.000 So it's this illusion
00:18:12.360 that is taking place
00:18:13.860 so women 0.99
00:18:14.420 to your point
00:18:15.400 want to do it
00:18:16.260 because of the reactions
00:18:17.440 they see
00:18:18.160 they're getting from men
00:18:19.840 but at the end of the day
00:18:21.640 it's so much deeper than that
00:18:23.100 because their mindset
00:18:23.940 is so twisted
00:18:24.940 and warped
00:18:25.580 and their value
00:18:26.420 is placed in
00:18:27.480 this is what I bring
00:18:28.720 to the table
00:18:29.320 and this is what I need to get
00:18:31.100 and so
00:18:31.640 I can go get a quick fix
00:18:32.900 if I get my body done
00:18:33.680 I can go ahead
00:18:34.600 and get you know
00:18:35.300 my boobs done 0.84
00:18:36.420 my booty done
00:18:37.640 and my lips done
00:18:38.580 and I'm going to be able
00:18:39.280 to pull this attention
00:18:40.140 from a guy
00:18:40.820 not knowing that
00:18:41.860 that is not lasting
00:18:42.660 that's not the attention
00:18:43.460 that you want
00:18:44.020 he's not looking
00:18:44.740 for a wife in that 0.96
00:18:45.760 and so
00:18:46.220 by the time
00:18:47.380 you're in that position
00:18:48.460 you have to maintain it
00:18:49.840 right?
00:18:50.140 So you are looking
00:18:50.820 at your competition
00:18:51.580 for the girl
00:18:52.240 who influenced you
00:18:53.160 in the first place
00:18:53.800 to get that done
00:18:54.440 because now
00:18:55.160 she has become
00:18:55.900 your competition
00:18:56.460 because your mindset
00:18:57.440 delusionally
00:18:58.300 you wanted the attention
00:18:59.820 that she got
00:19:00.380 but in turn of that
00:19:01.460 she's become your competition
00:19:02.560 and now you have to compete
00:19:03.460 with her
00:19:03.760 and maintain it
00:19:04.460 and go get more injections
00:19:05.400 and get a little
00:19:06.020 poke of Botox
00:19:07.200 over and over
00:19:07.940 when instead of
00:19:08.880 working on your character
00:19:09.860 and going and getting healing
00:19:11.380 and doing the internal work
00:19:12.800 that is going to long term
00:19:14.100 make you wife material 1.00
00:19:15.400 you became
00:19:16.420 an objective
00:19:17.320 object for him
00:19:18.800 well I think
00:19:19.300 that the issue is
00:19:20.180 is that modern women 0.99
00:19:21.060 today don't want
00:19:21.800 to be wife material 0.63
00:19:22.620 being wife material 0.71
00:19:24.000 is not cool
00:19:25.040 for the majority
00:19:25.880 of them
00:19:26.260 that's very submissive
00:19:27.680 for women nowadays 0.98
00:19:28.560 and now we get
00:19:29.360 into the real
00:19:30.000 the real of the real
00:19:31.340 because at the end
00:19:33.280 of the day
00:19:33.640 you know
00:19:34.000 whether or not
00:19:34.780 you will get something
00:19:35.280 done with your body
00:19:35.820 you should say
00:19:36.380 what are the results
00:19:37.320 that I want in life
00:19:38.240 what are the results
00:19:39.600 because men
00:19:41.320 have been telling you
00:19:42.220 that getting something
00:19:44.080 done to that degree
00:19:45.080 and that extent
00:19:45.880 does not make you
00:19:46.700 more marriage material
00:19:47.660 but you would rather
00:19:48.600 pay
00:19:48.800 they don't care about us though
00:19:49.900 that's what I'm saying
00:19:51.160 they're not listening to us
00:19:51.860 exactly
00:19:53.200 they're not listening to us
00:19:54.180 but you would rather pay
00:19:55.220 for the short term
00:19:56.220 attention validation
00:19:57.860 that you see your homegirls getting
00:19:59.740 versus putting the actual work in
00:20:01.860 that guys say
00:20:02.740 that they're actually
00:20:03.360 looking for
00:20:04.060 to get the end result
00:20:05.040 that you inevitably want
00:20:06.500 so you want to get
00:20:07.240 your body done
00:20:07.900 in order to receive
00:20:09.200 more eggplants
00:20:09.840 inside of you
00:20:10.400 or do you want to work
00:20:11.600 on becoming
00:20:12.160 much more marriageable material
00:20:13.680 to get a man 0.94
00:20:14.700 that is going to provide
00:20:16.140 protect
00:20:16.620 for you
00:20:17.980 into the long term
00:20:19.400 men change their minds
00:20:20.580 a lot as well
00:20:21.220 about the body preference
00:20:22.580 before it was really
00:20:23.400 slim girls with big boobs 1.00
00:20:24.660 then it was the massive bums 0.88
00:20:26.400 and now men like
00:20:27.480 just natural
00:20:28.400 what is deep down inside of you
00:20:37.420 has never changed
00:20:38.280 what the men want
00:20:39.520 what they perceive to like
00:20:40.900 now because it's been the same
00:20:43.140 all over the years
00:20:44.340 what the men has want 0.73
00:20:45.680 has never changed
00:20:46.580 your body might change
00:20:48.060 but deep inside
00:20:48.880 what the men want
00:20:49.640 has never changed
00:20:50.540 you keep on changing
00:20:51.700 the outside
00:20:52.320 when the men not give a shit 0.93
00:20:53.620 about the outside
00:20:54.220 they want the inside
00:20:56.560 to say the same
00:20:57.380 they want the inside
00:20:58.480 like what their granny had 0.76
00:20:59.440 their great granny had
00:21:00.600 that is the kind of woman 1.00
00:21:01.760 they want
00:21:02.220 they don't really give a shit
00:21:03.260 about what you look like
00:21:04.000 outside
00:21:04.320 so you might be keeping up
00:21:05.760 with the fashion
00:21:06.320 but they don't care
00:21:07.300 they want the old school
00:21:08.260 the inside
00:21:08.980 so me
00:21:10.060 you might not never
00:21:10.820 your big old titties 0.92
00:21:11.740 and your big old arse 0.94
00:21:13.600 but I can catch a man
00:21:14.700 with my flat breasts
00:21:15.660 and my flat arse 0.93
00:21:16.680 why
00:21:16.960 because I can cook clean
00:21:18.160 and I'm submissive
00:21:19.200 and I can look after my man
00:21:20.500 I think you're very lucky though
00:21:21.060 I think you're very lucky
00:21:22.140 it's not luck
00:21:22.960 I think a lot of men
00:21:23.840 don't care about that stuff anymore
00:21:25.220 no it is not luck
00:21:26.040 I did not come like 1.00
00:21:27.160 this because of luck
00:21:28.040 it pisses me off
00:21:28.900 when people say luck
00:21:29.840 I didn't get like this
00:21:30.980 because of luck
00:21:31.680 this is who I am
00:21:32.860 this is good parenting
00:21:34.480 good upbringing from women
00:21:36.320 good upbringing from man
00:21:37.800 this is not listening
00:21:38.740 to stupid women 1.00
00:21:39.680 this is listening to older men
00:21:41.520 older women
00:21:42.400 that support me
00:21:43.180 this has got nothing
00:21:44.120 to do with luck
00:21:44.900 this is doing with hard work
00:21:46.580 and determination
00:21:47.820 I'm not going and paying
00:21:49.140 your money
00:21:49.620 to get your outside fixed up
00:21:51.200 when you need to pay your money
00:21:52.320 to get your inside fixed up
00:21:53.740 down
00:21:54.620 that was a lot
00:22:07.200 come on
00:22:07.620 sorry
00:22:07.840 question for the panel
00:22:10.900 do you guys think that sex work
00:22:13.120 is immoral yeah can i comment on that actually go ahead so i i done an only fan but it wasn't like
00:22:20.720 vagina boobs it was lingerie yeah boobs are whatever i done it and when i finished it i 0.93
00:22:26.620 felt very degraded i felt very like why did i actually do that now i know there's girls out
00:22:30.560 there who do that they don't feel that way that is perfectly fine you do you you feel the way you
00:22:34.380 feel but me personally like like in the future how like when i have kids and all in the future
00:22:39.360 and if my kids found out about that they'll probably get bullied in school they'll people
00:22:42.660 be like oh your mom done this your mom done that and your man as well he's not going to if you
00:22:46.760 don't respect yourself and you're selling your body online i can't speak for everyone i can just speak
00:22:50.800 for myself if you're selling your body online like that there's not there's not a high respect for
00:22:54.860 yourself why expect that from others then you know what i mean and it's like if you're doing that sex
00:22:59.620 work it's so different for you how much money did you make into so i basically done it like
00:23:05.640 consecutively for like a week like literally i posted for a full yeah first week in total
00:23:10.080 first week i made about 2000 that was from people being nosy and from people
00:23:15.640 so you made two reds in the first week in one week in one week and you felt this shit 0.66
00:23:19.740 100 if you've seen the stuff that people would ask you and even outside of it even to this day i don't
00:23:25.400 do it anymore but people still being like to me oh well you used to have only fans like what was
00:23:29.220 that like you you you must be real freaky no why are you going for what they talking about
00:23:33.600 it's because i wasn't posting this whole vagina i wasn't doing the whole thing you know what i 1.00
00:23:38.200 mean so you won you ain't show no man you know i showed i showed the titties i showed the titties
00:23:43.880 but i didn't i didn't show nothing else you know what i mean and it was kind of to a point where it's
00:23:47.440 like i thought i could do that when i got onto it do you think she won money but she didn't win 1.00
00:23:52.340 respect i didn't win respect do you think that you should be judged for doing sex work
00:23:56.680 to an extent it does i don't care what anybody says in my opinion it does it does speak a lot
00:24:03.080 about yourself it does it 100 even for me like when i done it people knew the type of girl i was
00:24:07.560 like i'm very out there i'm open i don't care i'll speak what i speak and say what i say and do what
00:24:11.440 i do but when i done it i just didn't expect to big like whoa what did you expect i don't know what
00:24:19.240 what were you thinking before you did it before i did it i was like get me get the bag get some money
00:24:24.120 just get some money see what was there someone that influenced you to do it oh yeah i see all
00:24:28.080 these girls doing it and getting the money but the one thing i did on instagram tiktok some girls i 1.00
00:24:32.520 know and i'm like girl get it if that's what you want to do that is perfectly fine like do you
00:24:36.900 me personally i couldn't do it like that do you understand if a guy would disqualify you in the
00:24:41.760 future for that that was the first thing i said i can understand how a man would look at me and why
00:24:46.660 why do you think that you accept that where other girls will call the man misogynistic
00:24:50.760 feelings they're not using their logic they're like how dare you speak about me like that and
00:24:55.040 it's like you're taking it so personal i was like you obviously must feel a specific way about
00:24:58.980 yourself if that's how you're speaking about man a man being misogynistic because he won't take
00:25:03.240 you up for that that that that's about your own respect levels and that that's just your own
00:25:07.000 opinion like do you do you guys think that sex work is immoral um speaking to your mic just
00:25:13.940 to an extent yes um a lot of points that you mentioned i'd agree with i feel like it comes
00:25:22.420 off very desperate and i just generally feel like um doing them sort of things don't make
00:25:37.060 you seem like a very good person in the way of so it's not your fault like i'm not blaming you for
00:25:45.220 it how is it not your fault whose fault is it i think i think you're like genuinely like i feel
00:25:51.900 like obviously i'm not gonna put the blame on everyone else i feel i believe everyone should
00:25:56.120 take accountability for the actions and whatnot but i feel like upbringing and the like financial
00:26:03.840 state you're in can influence you a lot with them sort of things but you can look at someone that's
00:26:08.660 born in the same upbringing and they don't make those decisions yeah no 100 100 um i feel like
00:26:17.040 they even just being born in this century you're richer than most people were in all of human history
00:26:22.920 that's true i agree with that i just feel like because again going on back onto the part of the
00:26:28.700 society that we're in now obviously back in the day it was prostitution that was looked down upon 0.99
00:26:32.780 more now only fans is being favored especially by like men and whatnot like men that start only
00:26:38.720 fans um they get favored they're like all right he he's he's doing his thing like he's fucking 0.97
00:26:44.600 different bitches every night type vibe it's like it gets favored and it's normalized to the point 1.00
00:26:49.500 where you think men make more money on only fans than women um i don't know the statistics so i won't
00:26:54.800 speak on that but um obviously i know i i personally know men that are on only fans and they do make
00:27:00.880 money like what's make money as in like they make how much a substantial amount probably like 30k a
00:27:06.820 month so like it is a thing obviously it's not as normal as women doing it but it is a thing 1.00
00:27:14.660 it's crazy how men were the ones that kind of that kind of run the porn society and it's the women 0.95
00:27:19.580 that are falling into it oh sorry corn society my apologies how they run the corn societies but
00:27:24.300 obviously women being consumers as it is we're going to be the ones to jump into it more you know i mean 1.00
00:27:28.780 compared to men yeah okay so what do you think um is sex work immoral yes i absolutely think so for 0.99
00:27:36.920 any sex it doesn't even matter um male or female we weren't made to do that right like um even just
00:27:44.400 the fact that we have to wear clothes and layers is to protect right so even before you put on your
00:27:48.900 regular clothes you have on undergarments right and so that in and of itself just shows the default
00:27:54.180 nature of how that's supposed to be more sacred it's supposed to be more private more secure right
00:27:58.020 we even refer to it as private parts private areas so absolutely it's immoral to just be
00:28:03.300 flaunting that and giving it to anyone yeah what about you um so for myself i would say it would
00:28:09.860 be immoral for me but i i don't know like i think is morality different is morality different for
00:28:15.940 different people like if i steal and you steal it's different general no but i think some people
00:28:20.660 will kind of rationalize what they're doing and then say that they have their reasons for it and then
00:28:25.320 i'm not i don't know their life so i don't know what their reasons would be but if i steal
00:28:29.880 it because i'm hungry does that does that make it different it's not okay but people are going to do
00:28:37.180 what they're going to do so if they do it no but i'm asking if you think it's moral no i've not for
00:28:41.920 me i wouldn't no but for everyone do you think it's moral no no okay okay okay thank you all right go
00:28:48.920 hell no and i and i think like now um you know i also think as i get older like if i had a daughter
00:28:56.360 what would my answer be right like i think it's you know just think about that but also too like i
00:29:01.480 think the word the terminology sex work is it's it's a really like large term there's a lot of things
00:29:06.280 that could be encompassed within that but i also think uh sex work you know could be you know a lot
00:29:11.080 of these hollywood stars that you know show up half naked to the red carpet right like i was looking at the
00:29:16.040 oscars and sierra just showed up to the oscars uh like literally half naked and she has two or three 1.00
00:29:23.320 kids and is married to a a a multi multi-millionaire rossa wilson that to me is a component of sex work 0.93
00:29:30.280 as well because she's taking degrees of her sexuality putting it somewhere and and going to get brand deals 1.00
00:29:36.440 because of it right like and everything that comes from it right so like i even think when we talk about
00:29:41.560 sex work the definition has to be expanded for modern times today because although
00:29:45.800 she's not doing that and getting direct money or maybe that she is from the outfit that she's 1.00
00:29:49.320 wearing she could be right but then also what comes of that right and if there's an exchange of
00:29:56.520 money then that's sex work as well uh i don't know man i don't know my my thoughts on it different
00:30:07.320 everybody else i don't i don't really see nothing wrong with it because like
00:30:14.200 sex work been going on since the beginning of the time it's never gonna stop have you ever had a
00:30:17.960 process no i don't i don't i don't do that i'm just saying it's gonna happen like women gonna get 0.92
00:30:27.160 money they're gonna use what they got to get money men gonna do the same thing see i'm like torn on it
00:30:33.560 because on one hand i sometimes agree with you like i sometimes think it's needed in a society
00:30:40.600 because what are the one in three men gonna do and if you if you think sex is a need which it sort of
00:30:47.880 is for men but then it just makes my stomach turn to say that too that's why i'm kind of told i don't
00:30:55.800 know let me ask you let me ask you something who you think have sex more a regular girl 0.83
00:31:03.560 or somebody who do only fans like who got one person one person who they sleep with an only fan
00:31:09.800 they do only fan who you think i would agree i mean who you think having sex more or a stripper
00:31:16.280 versus just a regular girl no i think it's the i think girls that do promiscuous behavior 1.00
00:31:24.200 are like tend to make more promiscuous like choices like i think if someone does that they're
00:31:29.000 probably more likely to sleep around that's my opinion i know some people will say no but
00:31:33.480 i would be able to do all right i would really be able to do because i'm with you i don't know why
00:31:40.520 i'm always with you but i'm with you if you ever um been close with a stripper or kind of see what
00:31:48.680 they what they do like they're scheduling how they work they ain't really yeah they they going
00:31:55.160 to the club doing anything they come home count up their money get up in the morning go to the bank
00:32:00.520 deposit them ones they ain't really out here just messing around like that but it might be another
00:32:05.400 girl who going to the strip club just throwing ones on them but they that night i think yeah 1.00
00:32:11.960 girls in the strip club are desensitized to it right so that they're when you are stripping for 1.00
00:32:18.280 a man and doing that you have to sell a fantasy to him right you have to get into this persona
00:32:23.320 and give him the dream for the night so he will give you the money right and so once you come off of
00:32:29.240 that in your home and you're with your family or whatever you usually they have kids that they're
00:32:33.880 taking care of and they're doing stuff for they're exhausted they're tired because i just had to go and
00:32:37.880 pretend to be someone that i wasn't and i don't even want i'm i'm disgusted by men to a certain
00:32:42.920 degree right because i know how creepy they are they come here and they're their most vulnerable
00:32:46.600 and nasty and all the stuff that everyone else is going to look at you crazy for i have to take it
00:32:51.160 because you're paying me to take it so i think they're desensitized to it honestly i can see your
00:32:55.480 point and then on the other end um it's a girl i'm not going to say her name but she's super big 1.00
00:33:01.800 her only fan like she she getting like 200 000 a month her only fan she only she only sleep with 0.71
00:33:09.160 one dude on only fans yeah there's girls like that as well think about it she getting money you can't 1.00
00:33:14.200 you can't you don't get more money than her and she already got a dude who who's pleasing her 1.00
00:33:19.560 sexually so she not you're not finna even go be able to go mess with her yeah but the question is
00:33:25.640 based on morality morality is con is grounded in principles so then but would you be okay if your
00:33:31.240 daughter but what is morality what are the things that we do on every on every day for for the for
00:33:35.880 money but let's say that you had a daughter as a father you pass on virtues you you pass on values
00:33:41.160 you pass on principles you pass on morality and if your daughter if your daughter is doing that
00:33:46.920 is that something i'm not gonna agree with my daughter doing it so then the answer to the
00:33:50.360 question for you is no you think it's a moral i'm not i'm not i'm not gonna i wouldn't agree with my
00:33:55.000 my daughter or my see you're doing a lot of i do but i'm wrong i'm gonna do it well then it's a
00:34:00.120 moral what you can't control what your little babies do you got to just lead them in the right
00:34:04.760 way and hope that they grow up and do the things that you'll be pleased with but you still got to
00:34:09.320 love them i think there's a place for them i think it's been there for a long time i think that if
00:34:16.600 you're going to be a sex worker you should be single you shouldn't expect no man and there should be a 1.00
00:34:21.000 slut island where you can just get a ferry over to slut island and you know like what's it called 1.00
00:34:27.320 hit the box what they call it that boxing so like can regular people go to that island like
00:34:32.920 no i think that's because we should do a reality show i think for me i think it becomes immoral when
00:34:39.720 they're they're looking for they've got children they've got partners or they expect to get a man
00:34:45.800 through it and i think that if you're going to be a sex worker that's what you're going to be
00:34:51.000 i don't expect to be nothing else don't expect to be a wife you shouldn't be a mom i think if
00:34:55.560 you're a mother and you're you're a sex worker you're the only fans i think if you're a partner 1.00
00:34:59.880 and you're the only fan or anything like that i think if you're a wife no but other than that if
00:35:04.920 you're single you want to go and do it and you're not harming no one go to slut island and just have 0.99
00:35:08.520 an old island as women though i do think now i will say this and it ain't my place to say this either 0.98
00:35:15.160 but i do think it's a time limit on it at a certain point so you always here you need to
00:35:21.960 get your ass out the streets but nobody's gonna want you after that that's what i'm saying stay on 0.99
00:35:26.040 the island because once you started you can't be 30 you can't be four to five out here it depends how
00:35:34.280 bad that she is have you seen that there was an article about like an 80 year old woman on tinder 1.00
00:35:39.000 guys we're still i mean she's gonna she'll be like the five she'll be like the five dollar special 1.00
00:35:44.280 it'll be real i said we'll always forgive if she's bad enough yeah um i'm curious what do you guys
00:35:49.720 think is sex work moral immoral um i think it's immoral immoral uh i don't know i i personally think
00:35:58.280 like i have a lot of friends and a lot of people so maybe i'm a bit desensitized to it but i think
00:36:04.440 corn has been happening for ages i think as consenting adults you know well corn has it
00:36:11.800 yeah it's been okay how before i'm not too but this is this but even before like think about it we
00:36:18.280 had there's always sex work the statues even of naked women like women have always been kind of 0.55
00:36:23.480 admired for their bodies yeah i don't know if the statues are the same thing as like not really but i
00:36:28.200 mean as in like admiring women for their bodies and like i don't know i just we don't think
00:36:34.360 there's a difference between like a sexual picture and like abuse because some of the older
00:36:39.960 pictures um wouldn't it be the same difference though whose phone's ringing um some but some of
00:36:49.560 the older pictures it's it's it's it's times have moved forward though so i can imagine even sex back
00:36:55.560 then wasn't how we have sex now you know we've become more and more uh modern freaky disgusting
00:37:04.360 i know disgusting you know people people i think watch corn really early and normal sex becomes 0.50
00:37:10.760 boring and you want to spice things up and you do more and more things that maybe didn't happen back
00:37:16.520 in the day not to say that that's right or wrong it's it's for everything yeah well yeah yeah
00:37:23.880 so to answer the question moral or immoral i don't think it's immoral no i just think it's immoral
00:37:28.520 um so then you think it's immoral i i don't know i just think it's each to their own i think it's
00:37:35.640 each to their own i think if moral or immoral okay we got it i think if you're single and like you
00:37:43.400 said andy andy said it was moral yeah i think it is more as long as it suits your lifestyle and like
00:37:48.120 she said i think as long as you don't expect to for everyone just to accept it and understand i think
00:37:53.640 it's moral no i said don't expect a man don't expect anyone to marry i think women too make sure 0.96
00:37:58.360 you're talking to your sorry you shouldn't have any children don't expect a man once you decide on
00:38:02.920 the sex work that's you till you die get sex work insurance no i'm not saying that i think i'm
00:38:08.040 saying that's how it should be because if somebody knows that this is how you start you know you're
00:38:13.000 gonna you're not gonna get anybody that should be able to put women off but there's women are 1.00
00:38:17.240 going out they say i can go and be only fans i can still get a husband i can then be gonna be only
00:38:21.320 fans i'm not gonna have my children i can be only fans no after you know that that is it you're
00:38:26.200 gonna have to take dick for the rest of your life you get the scraps but there's a lot of women that 1.00
00:38:32.680 go out and don't do only you don't get around a lot i'm talking about anyone that has sex for money 1.00
00:38:37.560 anybody that isn't money i'm talking about like just normal people that when they don't have their
00:38:42.200 children they go out and they sleep with loads of people and they don't do only fans but they still
00:38:45.960 get married and they still get respected because we've got not weave because there's a platform 0.93
00:38:53.240 that you're like showcased on it's highlighted but there's a lot of women in privacy that do 1.00
00:38:58.840 a lot worse than women do you know what do you know what it says if you go on only fans that you have 1.00
00:39:03.800 no shame and so and so it's like you don't you don't you don't care about bringing shame to your
00:39:09.480 family you have no shame some families like don't mind you think the kids don't mind i mean kids don't
00:39:17.400 obviously kids don't have like the same view i mean like mums and dads like some people just you know
00:39:23.640 but it's still saying i'm putting my my money before bringing shame to the family name depending
00:39:30.200 on what your family view is on it right but i'm saying what are the kids get no say in this so
00:39:34.840 it's still it still goes back to i always talk about this the me me me culture where it's me before
00:39:38.920 the children yeah oh okay well hopefully the kids will turn out fine but you know i need this money so
00:39:44.680 i'm going to do this now there's a lot of porn stars with children that are okay as well porn stars
00:39:48.680 porn stars sorry sorry yeah um outliers some people literally listen if we could if we could so like
00:39:54.920 so the thing is is that so the way that you talk it's kind of like in this this um this my truth
00:40:00.200 you know it just is what it is everyone can make decisions but at the same time as i hear it it
00:40:04.200 sounds like people can make decisions without repercussions or consequences and i think that's
00:40:09.560 on a slippery slope because when we do that it starts to get away from accountability and the thing is
00:40:14.840 is like when you look at generally what men typically want out of women men typically do not want women
00:40:21.000 that have been conquered sufficiently and especially have done it for money and especially have put their
00:40:29.560 viscous innards up on the internet but there's also a massive misconception that like um the gentleman
00:40:35.720 said there's a lot of women that only sleep with their boyfriends on there and also that there's a 1.00
00:40:41.480 misconception that if you do only found your easy whereas it's most of the time it's actually very
00:40:46.120 opposite to get in contact with this woman normally you have to pay up front like you're not con she's not
00:40:51.960 responding she gets so many dms a day she's not going to respond to you and it's immoral in the way of like
00:40:57.720 money money money money comes first but i'm saying there's a misconception that just because a girl 1.00
00:41:01.960 does only fans that she's maybe easy or easy easy access and it's not it doesn't but that's not what
00:41:06.520 i'm saying it's it's sex work men of value if you can if you want to when the entertainment besides
00:41:14.520 let's say like a kanye a kanye west what people in entertainment have women that have done only fans 1.00
00:41:23.000 publicly there's a lot of people that do playboy and like maybe not as um as graphic but there's
00:41:29.080 still there's still men married women with children my memory is terrible so i'm just saying it should 1.00
00:41:37.080 be easy if it happens a lot there's loads five if you would have asked me to before i could have
00:41:41.960 probably researched it but no not off the top of my head no but i'm saying if this was common
00:41:47.000 if this was common like you should be able to to name five or at least one two three off the top
00:41:52.200 of your head i think far too often when we have these conversations if women if women's goal is 0.99
00:41:57.240 to be with men then you have to consider what men want and irrespective of the brand if she had been 1.00
00:42:04.440 involved with that it's going to deselect a lot of women and here's the thing there's a lot of women 1.00
00:42:09.160 that sit in situationships that think they're in good standing with the man but the man just don't say
00:42:13.320 ish yeah but they continue they continue in that situationship and just don't don't tell her the
00:42:17.480 truth while it's fine while it's still extracting and then as soon as they don't they won't take them
00:42:21.320 while still extracting their insides so they're getting what they want and that they already know 0.68
00:42:25.800 there's going to be an expiration date at the end of it yeah so the thing is is is what is your goal
00:42:30.360 and how how are you working towards your goal what are the actions that you're putting in the place
00:42:34.840 and i think if we if it's on a slippery slope where you're not understanding what men want and if the
00:42:38.840 result is a man that you have to make some changes within the way that you move within that
00:42:43.080 well i think it's obvious it started it started doing only fans she's not thinking about getting
00:42:48.520 married that's the last thing on my mind exactly that's not what she's trying to do until time runs 0.99
00:42:53.800 out yeah and then she has to think about something have you ever thought about it or considered it
00:43:00.600 or done it only fan um or stripping no because you just seem really like it's like part of you like
00:43:06.280 you're in the circle you know is i have a lot of i have a lot of close friends that do it and i can
00:43:11.000 understand um and even being a photographer that does laundry and i i promote body positivity so i
00:43:17.560 post myself in laundry on my my content i'm plus size i try to like do you know what i mean so it's
00:43:23.080 not it's not exactly that but like it's kind of within a tiny bit of a window with it you go further
00:43:30.280 you're going to start there now and you're going to get so body positivity you're going to get so
00:43:34.600 positive about your body you're going to think you know what my friends are doing it i can go and be
00:43:38.360 positive on only fans and get paid for it like a dominoes if i did i would understand the
00:43:44.920 repercussions i mean okay it just sounds like you're you're already invested in that whole yeah
00:43:49.960 i just think i don't know i just think some like is there's a bit of an unfair vision on it sometimes
00:43:56.120 but i understand why do you know what i mean but it's like when you're arguing it's kind of like do i
00:44:00.440 want a thief in my house no right yeah does it matter if you know maybe maybe that maybe that thief
00:44:06.840 stole five dollars worth of stuff and that thief stole 50 but they're still both thieves and that's
00:44:11.800 what i'm saying with the guys the way the guys think about promiscuity okay maybe maybe the
00:44:16.120 regular girl's worse that's not in sex work but then guys don't want either can i just say though
00:44:21.480 if you're speaking about regular girls to do it they're not actually putting out there so you
00:44:25.320 wouldn't know what they're doing anyway and also saying that girls that are in sex work might not 1.00
00:44:30.440 do it as regular as a regular girl but maybe they haven't actually been given the opportunity if
00:44:35.080 they're trying to make money off it so who like sex workers if you're saying that they do it um 0.83
00:44:41.560 less than a regular girl oh i don't i don't say that to your point you said like sometimes regular
00:44:47.480 girls do it more than a sex worker but maybe the sex workers not meeting anyone who's actually willing 1.00
00:44:51.720 to pay so they haven't presented the opportunity if you if you move around we know it goes from group
00:44:57.080 after group boys know boys boys know that like if you think that you're private and you've had sex with
00:45:02.520 say 20 boys and they don't know each other they know men know 100 we call that the whole facts
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