Modern Woman Tries To Downplay Pearl’s Facts
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What would you give up for the right guy and men? What would you expect the right woman to give up in a relationship? What do you look for in a high value man? How do you define a man of high value?
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what would you give up for the right guy and men what would you expect the right girl to give up
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for you so um what do you give up in a relationship well i have a lot to give so it's a lot to
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sacrifice because i'm a person of faith i do follow traditional values of faith so there's
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a lot of me on the line for me to give up and um yeah it's uh it's obviously like the sexual side
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so i uh you know in christian faith you you wait until marriage okay so i'm willing to wait for
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that man that high value man yeah and that's a lot to give up okay so you would give up waiting for
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marriage or like not give um you would like have him wait oh i wouldn't give that oh okay i
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understood this wrong yeah i'm so sorry i understood this wrong so i'm saying yeah no no let's go let's
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trace back no no no i would never give up this for any high value man waiting till marriage yeah
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okay are you a virgin yeah oh really yeah i never thought i would disclose this so publicly but yeah
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oh okay okay so you want to wait until you're married yeah okay um would you give up let's say
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like social media yeah that wouldn't be a problem yeah i would give up hold on that's actually really
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good i think i think in that culture is that's what they have to do so i think when she has to um
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do certain things that they have to give up social media they can't present themselves in certain ways
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so i think when you say would you give up a high-end man then we have to look at it
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prospectively above board as how would we do that of women of different cultures
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so her culture they wouldn't be able to do that well you guys don't have social media no i'm on social
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media but uh yeah i grew up in a sudanese arabic culture which is very strict however i lived most
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of my life in germany i live here in a very modern society so i did get influenced from here as well
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not just from my background but um in terms of i think it's not the it's high value men we were
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speaking about this earlier pearl and i would love to have your perspective as well as what how do you
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define a high value man and how do you define a modern woman because the way i define a high value
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man may be very different than you define it and then they define so the way i define a high value
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man is somebody who is faith driven uh who is a respectable who's got um yeah he's got integrity
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so it's values but it's also he definitely has to have a job for sure make money but um there's other
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aspects that i look for in high value men for me to give up something anything what does he bring to
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the table as well well so i would define high value men as the men that women pick so like the men that
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women routinely go after and choose um and kevin samuels actually is the one who coined that term so he
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he laid it out um it's 10k per month he has to have had that for three to five years um other men must
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accept him as high value he has to have a network of high value men he has to be linked in visibility
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level and he must be useful to others in the group so that's the definition yeah yeah but we have to
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take into account different cultures different people's lifestyles how his is his lifestyle that's
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not my lifestyle that's not her lifestyle that's not his or his or different cultures so we can have
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a statistic that says that but you can't truly say that and i think we need to be open when we ask
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that question because we live in a very diverse world right now i can't truly say that um because
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women only swipe right five percent of the time on dating apps and we typically pick the same men
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um so i would say i would go on a dating app and i would never pick my men on a dating app and i mean
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if you if you even at a bar you see women approach or like go after the same type of guys
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how would you know that unless you're the average woman yeah no no no i don't know how would you
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know that unless you ask that person that was going into the bar what type of guy are you approached
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to i can watch you i can see who they go after so where do your statistics come from um so where
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where do my stats come from there's different studies that talk about this it's pretty cut and
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dry on like tinder bumble hand like there's so many dating and even and even if you wait wait i'm
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trying to answer your question so and even if you go off of dating apps like i do it on the show
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where we could go through you guys one by one and put out what you want in a guy and it's usually
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less than 20 percent of men i think you're assuming that i want in a guy x y and z is that what you
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assume no i'm saying in general in general that's i think that is the key point well the average is that
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you're average but that's why she's saying most people are average okay well then i probably may
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miss have looked at it but i'm going away from the topic of what people would give up um and i think
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it's subjective so how would we how would we look at us and add an average woman what would you say
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is an average woman then because then you're going to study average average to me is going to be
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different to what alex thinks is average to what gary thinks is average it's not even who is the
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average woman you would want that woman to give like statistically there is an average or like in
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general i get that but who sets who sets this who sets the statistics you people that do the studies
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look at the statistics what paul will say like from the dating apps which part are you asking about
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the women are you asking about the high value i said to you i looked at statistically a thousand men
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and they said to me this is what they would prefer are you going to prefer my report are you going to
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prefer somebody that's going to say to you well you know what this is what i've done and this is what
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i've looked at and this is what i found um i would probably go by experience and studies which are
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usually pretty similar like if i put up lizzo most guys are will probably pass um but if i so yes yeah
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uh yeah yeah all the over oversized women are coming back right now and i i probably for for women to who
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well for a man maybe not you but for a lot of men she does
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we're sat here laughing and we're sat here laughing and like
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do you know the percentage of the population about how many women are oversized i don't too many
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do you know too many it's like there's more well listen i work in medicine and sat on weight and
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stuff and i see a lot more oversized women and they're trying and if you see the adverts that we
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see on tv from marks and spencer testicles a lot of them that doesn't mean that men want them
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that doesn't mean that they're the women that men desire and that doesn't okay so are you guys
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sat here underweight with a six ab that's that's not the discussion here well that's what i'm
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asking you why are you why are you asking them that no because what's your point stick to the facts
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because if you're commenting on oversized women you're you're trying to decide for men what they
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like and you're not really in a position to do that i'm trying to say not being a man that
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should they shouldn't be um you don't think you don't think you don't think you should discriminate
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in who you date i don't think you should discriminate against anybody yeah but when you're so so you
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want you want to you want a short broke guy five five five five shoes okay here's what i do
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there's some there's some crackheads down the street i can set you up with
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okay so that might be your call i'm dead serious but let me tell you i make my choices so i decide
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to choose who i want to date and i think you decide you want to choose you on a date you do and you do
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right it doesn't matter what it bases on it's based on what i like
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as a person as an individual we're talking about what men like
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well you just discriminated everyone right now that was not the subject about the size of um
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women yeah we're talking about what a man or a woman would give up for the man do you think you
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and lizzo have an equally attractive body do you think you do i i think i have a better body than
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lizzo do you think you and do you think you and lizzo you've automatically just discriminated yourself
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from her how what you just said you have a better body yeah that's not discrimination
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that is i mean i don't think it takes much to be fair when we do when we talk about
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color against white and black and black lives matter do we not discriminate or do we want to
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not have that conversation or does it now suit you better because we're now talking about size
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it's not healthy yes it's only from that perspective it's not just about how she looks
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there is now they are promoting that's her choice that it's fine it's fine it's healthy because it looks
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good and that no it you're right it is her choice to be overweight but it's not a good choice for
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her health it's not a good choice so do you know it's also a man's choice to not choose her healthy
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facts the slimmest person who you would think would look the healthiest could have the unhealthiest
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lifestyle and she might just have a percentage of body fat because she just eats differently did you
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look at that did you know that um obesity drops after like the age of 65 you know why that is
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how many people live till the 65 no the obese people don't that's why it drops because they die
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oh oh so you look at that damn that's no yeah i'm serious that's that's that's a fact that says stats
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anyway can i say i would not give up football it's pretty much the only thing i wouldn't
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i wouldn't want you to either you know i was just banned on tick tock and we are demonetized on a daily
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