JustPearlyThings - April 22, 2023


Modern Woman Tries To Downplay Pearl’s Facts


Episode Stats

Length

10 minutes

Words per Minute

189.1002

Word Count

1,972

Sentence Count

1

Misogynist Sentences

17

Hate Speech Sentences

7


Summary


Transcript

00:00:00.000 what would you give up for the right guy and men what would you expect the right girl to give up
00:00:05.840 for you so um what do you give up in a relationship well i have a lot to give so it's a lot to
00:00:18.120 sacrifice because i'm a person of faith i do follow traditional values of faith so there's
00:00:23.940 a lot of me on the line for me to give up and um yeah it's uh it's obviously like the sexual side
00:00:34.260 so i uh you know in christian faith you you wait until marriage okay so i'm willing to wait for
00:00:44.180 that man that high value man yeah and that's a lot to give up okay so you would give up waiting for
00:00:51.460 marriage or like not give um you would like have him wait oh i wouldn't give that oh okay i
00:00:57.980 understood this wrong yeah i'm so sorry i understood this wrong so i'm saying yeah no no let's go let's
00:01:03.240 trace back no no no i would never give up this for any high value man waiting till marriage yeah
00:01:10.540 okay are you a virgin yeah oh really yeah i never thought i would disclose this so publicly but yeah
00:01:18.340 oh okay okay so you want to wait until you're married yeah okay um would you give up let's say
00:01:24.300 like social media yeah that wouldn't be a problem yeah i would give up hold on that's actually really
00:01:34.500 good i think i think in that culture is that's what they have to do so i think when she has to um
00:01:42.160 do certain things that they have to give up social media they can't present themselves in certain ways
00:01:49.060 so i think when you say would you give up a high-end man then we have to look at it
00:01:54.700 prospectively above board as how would we do that of women of different cultures
00:01:59.540 so her culture they wouldn't be able to do that well you guys don't have social media no i'm on social
00:02:07.340 media but uh yeah i grew up in a sudanese arabic culture which is very strict however i lived most
00:02:13.880 of my life in germany i live here in a very modern society so i did get influenced from here as well
00:02:19.720 not just from my background but um in terms of i think it's not the it's high value men we were
00:02:26.840 speaking about this earlier pearl and i would love to have your perspective as well as what how do you
00:02:31.000 define a high value man and how do you define a modern woman because the way i define a high value
00:02:36.100 man may be very different than you define it and then they define so the way i define a high value
00:02:41.860 man is somebody who is faith driven uh who is a respectable who's got um yeah he's got integrity
00:02:49.940 so it's values but it's also he definitely has to have a job for sure make money but um there's other
00:02:58.480 aspects that i look for in high value men for me to give up something anything what does he bring to
00:03:04.240 the table as well well so i would define high value men as the men that women pick so like the men that
00:03:11.120 women routinely go after and choose um and kevin samuels actually is the one who coined that term so he
00:03:17.440 he laid it out um it's 10k per month he has to have had that for three to five years um other men must
00:03:25.740 accept him as high value he has to have a network of high value men he has to be linked in visibility
00:03:30.080 level and he must be useful to others in the group so that's the definition yeah yeah but we have to
00:03:38.200 take into account different cultures different people's lifestyles how his is his lifestyle that's
00:03:45.900 not my lifestyle that's not her lifestyle that's not his or his or different cultures so we can have
00:03:52.420 a statistic that says that but you can't truly say that and i think we need to be open when we ask
00:03:59.400 that question because we live in a very diverse world right now i can't truly say that um because
00:04:04.840 women only swipe right five percent of the time on dating apps and we typically pick the same men
00:04:09.500 um so i would say i would go on a dating app and i would never pick my men on a dating app and i mean
00:04:15.800 if you if you even at a bar you see women approach or like go after the same type of guys
00:04:20.200 how would you know that unless you're the average woman yeah no no no i don't know how would you
00:04:25.860 know that unless you ask that person that was going into the bar what type of guy are you approached
00:04:31.200 to i can watch you i can see who they go after so where do your statistics come from um so where
00:04:37.120 where do my stats come from there's different studies that talk about this it's pretty cut and
00:04:40.920 dry on like tinder bumble hand like there's so many dating and even and even if you wait wait i'm
00:04:46.220 trying to answer your question so and even if you go off of dating apps like i do it on the show
00:04:50.760 where we could go through you guys one by one and put out what you want in a guy and it's usually
00:04:55.200 less than 20 percent of men i think you're assuming that i want in a guy x y and z is that what you
00:05:01.180 assume no i'm saying in general in general that's i think that is the key point well the average is that
00:05:07.220 you're average but that's why she's saying most people are average okay well then i probably may
00:05:13.800 miss have looked at it but i'm going away from the topic of what people would give up um and i think
00:05:18.340 it's subjective so how would we how would we look at us and add an average woman what would you say
00:05:25.880 is an average woman then because then you're going to study average average to me is going to be
00:05:29.940 different to what alex thinks is average to what gary thinks is average it's not even who is the
00:05:34.700 average woman you would want that woman to give like statistically there is an average or like in
00:05:40.200 general i get that but who sets who sets this who sets the statistics you people that do the studies
00:05:46.400 look at the statistics what paul will say like from the dating apps which part are you asking about
00:05:51.360 the women are you asking about the high value i said to you i looked at statistically a thousand men
00:05:57.540 and they said to me this is what they would prefer are you going to prefer my report are you going to
00:06:03.940 prefer somebody that's going to say to you well you know what this is what i've done and this is what
00:06:08.140 i've looked at and this is what i found um i would probably go by experience and studies which are
00:06:14.900 usually pretty similar like if i put up lizzo most guys are will probably pass um but if i so yes yeah
00:06:24.100 uh yeah yeah all the over oversized women are coming back right now and i i probably for for women to who
00:06:36.820 well for a man maybe not you but for a lot of men she does
00:06:42.420 we're sat here laughing and we're sat here laughing and like
00:06:48.420 do you know the percentage of the population about how many women are oversized i don't too many
00:06:54.100 do you know too many it's like there's more well listen i work in medicine and sat on weight and
00:07:00.340 stuff and i see a lot more oversized women and they're trying and if you see the adverts that we
00:07:05.700 see on tv from marks and spencer testicles a lot of them that doesn't mean that men want them
00:07:11.220 that doesn't mean that they're the women that men desire and that doesn't okay so are you guys
00:07:15.460 sat here underweight with a six ab that's that's not the discussion here well that's what i'm
00:07:20.980 asking you why are you why are you asking them that no because what's your point stick to the facts
00:07:26.900 because if you're commenting on oversized women you're you're trying to decide for men what they
00:07:31.700 like and you're not really in a position to do that i'm trying to say not being a man that
00:07:35.540 should they shouldn't be um you don't think you don't think you don't think you should discriminate
00:07:42.260 in who you date i don't think you should discriminate against anybody yeah but when you're so so you
00:07:47.780 want you want to you want a short broke guy five five five five shoes okay here's what i do
00:07:55.220 there's some there's some crackheads down the street i can set you up with
00:07:57.940 okay so that might be your call i'm dead serious but let me tell you i make my choices so i decide
00:08:04.580 to choose who i want to date and i think you decide you want to choose you on a date you do and you do
00:08:10.180 right it doesn't matter what it bases on it's based on what i like
00:08:14.660 as a person as an individual we're talking about what men like
00:08:19.300 well you just discriminated everyone right now that was not the subject about the size of um
00:08:24.260 women yeah we're talking about what a man or a woman would give up for the man do you think you
00:08:29.620 and lizzo have an equally attractive body do you think you do i i think i have a better body than
00:08:36.020 lizzo do you think you and do you think you and lizzo you've automatically just discriminated yourself
00:08:40.260 from her how what you just said you have a better body yeah that's not discrimination
00:08:45.860 that is i mean i don't think it takes much to be fair when we do when we talk about
00:08:54.100 color against white and black and black lives matter do we not discriminate or do we want to
00:08:58.580 not have that conversation or does it now suit you better because we're now talking about size
00:09:03.540 it's not healthy yes it's only from that perspective it's not just about how she looks
00:09:07.780 there is now they are promoting that's her choice that it's fine it's fine it's healthy because it looks
00:09:14.580 good and that no it you're right it is her choice to be overweight but it's not a good choice for
00:09:19.860 her health it's not a good choice so do you know it's also a man's choice to not choose her healthy
00:09:24.180 facts the slimmest person who you would think would look the healthiest could have the unhealthiest
00:09:32.020 lifestyle and she might just have a percentage of body fat because she just eats differently did you
00:09:37.460 look at that did you know that um obesity drops after like the age of 65 you know why that is
00:09:43.780 how many people live till the 65 no the obese people don't that's why it drops because they die
00:09:49.140 oh oh so you look at that damn that's no yeah i'm serious that's that's that's a fact that says stats
00:09:56.420 anyway can i say i would not give up football it's pretty much the only thing i wouldn't
00:10:00.580 i wouldn't want you to either you know i was just banned on tick tock and we are demonetized on a daily
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