Modern Women ALWAYS Have Backup Men For Relationships
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Summary
Have you ever had a backup plan in a relationship? Do you have a guy friend? Have you ever been in a situation where you didn't know what to do with a guy you were interested in but didn't have the balls to go out with someone new? Are you looking for a new guy to take care of you while you figure out who you really want to be with?
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I feel like social media has a lot to do with that, too, because there's always, like, somebody on the back burner or someone we've been eyeing or somebody else who we know we could get somebody together.
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Some of us have been liking your pictures for the last two years and just waiting for their chance.
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Yeah, it's so easy to just get on a dating app and find a replacement.
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That's the outlier. That's the guy friend that none of you want to be with, but he's a nice guy, and he's the guy waiting on the outside, the guy that's liking all your pictures.
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Guys, guys, guys, guys, ever question, ever question.
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Who here has been in a relationship and had a backup plan?
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My relationships last, like, three months, though.
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I've never gotten into a relationship thinking that it was going to end.
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So I've never had a backup plan, but when I found out that they did something, I could have either chose to leave it or chose to get back,
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and that's the only kind of backup plan that I've had, and never initially, because I don't do that.
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It got snuck into me because my best friend had just committed suicide.
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My best friend had just committed suicide, so I felt, like, very, like, vulnerable, and that's how my best guy friend got to sneak in there.
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Well, that's not, that's not, that's not a guy friend, though.
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Well, if I knew him four years and we didn't do anything, and then, like, when my friend passed away and he was being there for me, then he kind of...
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He was always thinking about that in the back of his mind, though.
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Do you know why, do you know why they're guy friends?
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I think that if you're going to be a guy friend, you put them on.
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Okay, they're probably waiting for the chance, but we never went on a date.
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Because you told them they're their guy friends.
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And so as a guy, if I'm dating a gal, I got five guy friends, I'm like, I put the brakes
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So women, pretty women always have a backup plan.
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If I looked at your IGs and your inbox, your DMs, you got backup plans.
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Because I've been checking my ex-boyfriend's fucking phone, and it'd be all kind of DMs.
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That's because some of my friends is in their DMs, too.
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I make fun of cats, so I get pussy pics all the time.
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So I get people sending me cat jokes because I made a joke about single women.
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Angel numbers, horoscopes, and cats in box wine.
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I think they're so unattractive when men send dick pics.
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I don't even like when they send me a shirtless pic.
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Can I just say this for anybody who's listening?
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Like, girls only like dick pics when we ask for that dick.
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If you ever send an unsolicited dick, there's no woman.
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I'm going to say 10% because I'm 10% of weirdos.
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Well, yeah, the thing about it, if you send a random dick pic to us, it's very perverted.
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Men are always looking at women as a sexual object.
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Now, if they're simping and they're like, ooh, she's going to be my sugar mama.
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Whatever's in the desire of the guy, sexually what he likes, and he's going to look at her.
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There's objective truth to that, what beauty is, but not subjective, but objective.
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So guys are like, okay, we think with our testosterone, we were put here to breed, procreate.
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Women look at a guy and they go for the resources, not money.
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When I say resources, you're going to have children.
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You want the best outcome and probability for your family to have longevity.
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So you're not going to date no scrub, scrub, right?
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Or you're not going to have a relationship with someone or continue a relationship, especially
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when you're looking to have those things with a person.
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You always date at your level and above, right?
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Dr. David Buss has a book called The Evolution of Desire.
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Five years of interviewing 10,000 people all over the world, different religions, ethnic
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And the number one response that women look for in a man was resources.
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Because what happens biologically, you're looking for somebody better than you want a man that's
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You want a guy that's successful doing what he's doing.
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If all the women are going to be like outside with a tray of cookies, like, when UPS comes...
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And all the stands in Seattle have the girls with the bikinis on, the lingerie.
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I would drive up, and I'd see a dude, and I would just keep going.
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Oh, I want to go to Dutch Brothers and have a swirl latte, double frappuccino latte with
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First of all, I've been there for a wokeness for seven years.
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As women, we don't realize, as a group, how much we suck.
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I think that women suck as a group nowadays, compared from a historical point of view.
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Because nowadays, a hundred years ago, a guy would have got a virgin.
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She would have had the mentality of, she has to serve him.
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Nowadays, it's like 90% of us are on birth control.
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So as a group, unfortunately, we're just not doing that well.
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From a historical point of view, we all would have been thrown out a hundred years ago.
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We even had to learn instruments to play for when our husbands, like friends, came over.
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And your husband could actually take you to jail for nagging.
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If you were nagging too much, you could be prosecuted.
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But on the other hand, you could prosecute your husband for not paying bills.
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Yeah, so back then, you would have been like 21.
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But nowadays, we have all this, like, programming that basically tells us to do it on your own.
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So you know how much has changed for as far as what women used to offer men as a wife?
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But it's changed the same way for us as far as what men have to offer as a husband.
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Because you don't know what they're looking for.
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Okay, so I'll tell you, I'll tell you, I'll tell you why I disagree.
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Because typically, like, what do women typically bring to the table?
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You're usually, you're supposed to traditionally be a virgin.
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You're supposed to traditionally be able to cook, clean.
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You're supposed to traditionally have a lot of children, right?
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But I'm saying from a historical point of view, if a guy wanted to get 10 kids from a chick,
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it wouldn't be that hard to do it that's damn near impossible unless he has multiple baby
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mamas today do you do okay just question do any of you want to have 10 kids hell no but okay okay
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thank you thank you okay wait wait wait now from the men's point of view from the men's point of
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view they still offer like they still offer protection and provisioning because we live
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in a society where men will protect us you can walk alone at night in a major city and men you're
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not even married and men will still protect you you can call the police you can we have the military
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protecting us so they're still protecting us they can buy a gun and protect you provisioning you know
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women are a net tax loss meaning we spend more than we make that's so yeah so so we already get we even
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get provisioning just from men as a whole from the society we have all these jobs we're either
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monetizing beauty or we're working for a man that employs us so we're getting protection and
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provisioning even without a husband but if you go to a husband men still make more they spend less
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they're better with money so you still get provisioning and protection they're still
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stronger than us and if they're if they're not you know super strong they can go buy a gun i think in
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vegas right they can't hear him so so i think so wait from the exchange point of view okay we're not
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bringing purity we're not bringing youth and we're not even in shape where the men are still giving a
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bare minimum protection and provisioning your argument is so flawed because back in the day
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100 years ago people were farming they needed to have kids to put them to work and most of them some
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of them didn't even survive so they needed to have 10 just to hope five of them were gonna live
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as many of you know i was just banned on tiktok and we are demonetized on a daily basis on this platform
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