Modern Women Are Selfish Wives
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Summary
In this episode, we talk about why men are afraid of divorce, why women are scared of it, and why men should be afraid of it too. We also talk about the benefits and disadvantages of being a single parent vs being a married parent.
Transcript
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Like, you know, sorry, so let me get it this straight.
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Basically, all men are now scared of marriage because you have to share half with a woman.
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The reason I'm going to start reluctant to get married today.
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Yeah, but if you're so hopeful about the marriage, why do you think about divorce?
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You know, and there's also great incentive for women to falsely accuse men of abuse in this country.
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They also only get access to their kid maybe 20% of the time.
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So I think what's more scary actually to men is not being able to see their children.
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I think that is absolutely something they should be afraid of.
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And economically speaking too, so divorce, when you are subsidizing divorce, right?
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And that's why right now, in the UK, the United States, Australia, Canada, right?
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If I could marry a good looking woman who is rich as fuck, and I could trick her in like three to five years and divorce her,
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and take half of her millions, there would be guys out there that would do that.
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It's just on the other side, the shoe's on the other foot in this situation.
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There needs to be greater safeguards against that.
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The other problem is, you're kind of, it's almost like going into a casino and betting on 50-50, isn't it?
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Like, is this woman, and I guess you could say the other way for argument's sake, but as a guy's perspective,
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is this woman going to, she's made this promise to me, we're going to be together and this is going to be it.
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But how do I know that in 10, 15 years down the line, she's not going to be thinking,
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well, actually, do you know what, I'm kind of not really feeling it anymore,
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and my friends say I can do better, and I deserve to, you know, it's, you know, one life, I've only got one life.
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If you can dump somebody and get a fat payout, like, you know how much, you know how many guys would be so happy if they're...
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We have a generation of just like selfish wives, because they think about their feelings before their kids.
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A word that gets banded around a lot is happiness in marriage.
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And I say to people, why did you get married for happy, like, who said that marriage will bring happiness?
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So then, no, it's not one of the reasons why people stayed together for 20, 25 years for a lifetime.
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Don't you say, I stayed with him because I was consistently happy?
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Yeah, you're going to get good bits, you're going to get bad bits.
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And the problem is that they want to be happy the whole time.
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And to answer, like, why would guys be afraid of divorce?
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Like, on top of that, so literally a girl can make one phone call and get a restraining order on a guy and kick him out of a house that he pays for.
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So then he, this is, like, to the average guy, he's paying for a mortgage on a house that he's not even living in.
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It takes him, like, six months to a year a lot of times to even get to go to court.
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On top of that, during that time, she can also, with no evidence, put him on child support.
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And he can't, he's paying a mortgage on a house that wasn't his.
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I could see how on the outside looking and you might think that.
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Because I'm, probably because I've never been married.
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Imagine, imagine, like, would you agree that, like, women can be spiteful?
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And, like, you are the worst version of yourself when you feel really wronged by a guy.
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Like, if she feels really wronged by a guy, like, she does crazy things sometimes.
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Like, why do you hear girls say, oh, he made me crazy?
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And so it's like, you're giving women a ton of power when they're the worst version of themselves.
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Like, let's say you're, let's say you and I are married, right?
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So let's just say you're married to a guy, right?
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And then he says, well, I'm cheating because of you.
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And you have to give him monthly alimony payments and child support payments while you're watching him with his new wife.
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What I'm trying to say is, like, imagine, and then you have to watch on Instagram every day, him with the new girl.
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And you know you're financing their trips to Italy and them having a good time, their relationship photos and all that.
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So, when you have your child, you look after him or her.
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And when I look after him, I look after him or her.
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Why should I have to pay for you to look after your own child?
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Are we in the same relationship or are we in different ones?
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He's talking about, say, if you split up, for example, and he's been caught cheating.
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And then imagine now you're having to pay for your ex-partner.
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How many times have you dated a guy and then you were stalking him?
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And then you saw the new girl he's with and you just made me so angry.
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Guys, I've got two case studies to basically explain why, to give an answer to this.
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The reason I bring these two women up are these are two women who got divorced and took the
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male's perspective of having to pay their partners half rather than men paying them.
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The entire internet called both those ex-husbands pussies, clout chases, money hungry.
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They said they were only after Adele for her money.
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The most famous, the most richest woman in the world is only rich because she's divorced
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Even if it was a few million, I just don't like the thought of my ex living in a house
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My husband paid for the house and he's driving the car.
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I think it like from the documentary I've been doing, it's like it seems to affect average
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guys the most because it's always like they worked for 20 years.
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They're not the type of guys that are going to be able to like build that up or like make
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And I always find as well, like in relationships when they break up, like this is what I said
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For example, I've got a friend now, a best friend.
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He's going through, he's engaged, but he's going through a breakup.
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And for some reason, unbeknownst to me, I don't know why he put his, missus, his name
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And I know all her friends are like, you deserve off that house.
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Because like an idiot, you deserve off that house.
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He goes to work, gets up, he doesn't pay for everything.
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All of, now she's going to get half of that and she feels entitled to it.
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Even if I meet somebody and I've got nothing, I still don't believe she deserves half.
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I'm going to box regardless of if I met you or not.
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If we've built, come from nothing and I've built something with you, you definitely deserve
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We don't deserve half because you wasn't with me taking punches in the gym.
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Because you weren't with me shooting in the gym.
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And on the flip side, if I was with a woman and she made way more millions and I was together
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I don't, that's not my money, that's your money.