JustPearlyThings - June 15, 2023


Pearl EXPOSES Her Toxic Trait In Her Last Relationship


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Length

11 minutes

Words per minute

205.07286

Word count

2,280

Sentence count

2

Harmful content

Misogyny

18

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Toxicity

9

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Hate speech

3

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Summary

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In this episode, the team discuss what it means to be a virgin in the dating world and how to deal with it. We also discuss the dangers of online dating and how it can be a very toxic experience.

Transcript

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00:00:00.000 projecting and maybe troy gentlemen you guys could agree with me or not i have been
00:00:05.380 in on and off relationships with girls and the only thing that was keeping us both there was
00:00:10.620 really good sex like yeah i mean mr rickett are you agree with me you're the dating coach or no
00:00:16.620 you disagree i heard like if it's on and off it's like you're having sex but it's not a commitment
00:00:21.540 that's what it is but that was not it well okay so then and i'm open to understanding the truth
00:00:28.060 so like what we're on and off was why did i stay what was the on and off about and was it the sex 0.99
00:00:33.160 mediocre or um i don't know all right pearl you gotta get off the show get the fuck out of here 0.99
00:00:43.660 get out of here you're off the show i just i just i just think sometimes i'm like oh my dad i don't 0.97
00:00:52.420 wanted to see oh sorry mr pearl sorry sorry mr davis it was all right it wasn't great so so what is
00:01:02.580 the context of the off and on like what happened um it was just like maybe i'd like go through his
00:01:09.040 phone and find something i didn't like you know i was kind of i was kind of looking for problems if
00:01:12.900 i'm being honest yeah and i and i really would overreact about a lot of stuff what did you find
00:01:17.700 when you went through his phone um i don't um you know like messages that sort of thing but to other
00:01:25.580 girls partially but i i think i kind of overreacted on a lot of them like it wasn't really that deep
00:01:31.420 were you overreacting because you wanted to find a reason to overreact or was it just because you
00:01:36.500 were triggered emotionally um i just think i just think i must have liked the drama if i kept doing it
00:01:42.200 you know it's interesting yeah it's interesting because i was thinking why is it so many girls will go 0.99
00:01:45.980 through guys phone and it's insecurity right yeah i've i've had girls i had a girlfriend like every
00:01:51.360 single girl that i've ever dated really is used to would go through my phone and there was one girl 1.00
00:01:55.300 i was dating and she would like literally every time she came around she'd go i've seen something
00:01:59.460 on your phone you know it's very it's very like it's addicting you gotta get your next fix no and
00:02:03.840 that's what i that's what i realized i was like i keep like like if i like i obviously don't care
00:02:08.820 because i keep we keep getting back together and i keep looking for problems yeah is she still here
00:02:13.800 no i think she left is she king was she taken out okay um what did she say bro tell us
00:02:21.160 come on bro i plead the fifth that doesn't exist in england
00:02:29.120 listen i'm sorry listen listen that i don't think she's a virgin i think she knows people that are 0.98
00:02:39.880 going to see her on social media and she's going to get shamed for being a shitty muslim i i have 1.00
00:02:45.640 never met you someone such with such a visceral reaction like virgins don't know how to be that 0.99
00:02:52.760 toxic that comes from trauma i've had virgin like girls come on the show and yeah they're very meek 1.00
00:03:00.520 they're like yeah yeah they're very meek you know you can you can tell um i think the defensive
00:03:08.440 element was too consistent for me like i'd see too many times that she say something then someone
00:03:14.120 else will say something like oh i just remembered this happened to you oh okay i could tell i could
00:03:20.200 tell you i could tell you uh there you go let it out give us the team give us the british team
00:03:25.720 this isn't anything crazy but she was she was like telling me a story about like a guy or whatever
00:03:31.160 that she had history with and then she was saying about how like her sister he then i think she called
00:03:37.640 it off so then he went for her sister right and i was like oh wow that's like kind of mad like that's
00:03:44.520 really weird and i was like you know how'd that happen i was like oh this happened she was like you
00:03:48.840 know my sister got his number i was like wait your your sister got his number she was like yeah i was
00:03:54.120 like how did she get his number she's like oh well i gave her gave it to her i was like wait i'm
00:03:58.840 confused so did he go after your sister or did your sister go after him because she was like he was
00:04:04.840 like oh well you know a patch she was like oh well he said no because her sister said no because you 0.90
00:04:11.640 know he had already been with her and i was like wait but you gave your sister her number his number
00:04:18.440 right and then did she reach out to him she was like okay yeah so she reached out to you 0.69
00:04:22.200 yeah it wasn't like he he called it off with him then he went after your sister like you ended
00:04:30.280 things right she was interested you gave her the number and green lit the situation and then you
00:04:36.200 didn't like it after and i was a bit like after asking these questions i was like she painted it
00:04:41.240 kind of one way yeah and then when i actually found out i was like yeah yeah it was completely
00:04:45.080 different yeah did you see how i started to sip my tea at one point i just started to i'm just
00:04:49.000 listening you know i'm just listening you know i'm just listening you know what if it's more believable
00:04:52.840 if she wasn't like the fact that she got so mad because if someone said something about you
00:04:57.080 that's like how did my teeth come to the conversation you might find it annoying right so you might be like
00:05:05.320 okay like whatever but if you're getting like angry and insulting people i'm just like well like yeah
00:05:10.520 but you know from what she described earlier i wouldn't be surprised if she said from my childhood
00:05:14.360 of arguing with my brothers i'd have to lie every now and again from my childhood of arguing with
00:05:17.720 my brothers and after like you know like i like in general i think once someone has that defense
00:05:22.760 that's so thick so thick there's nothing you can like you can't actually truly trust the story that
00:05:28.680 comes out of their mouth but isn't it rude isn't it just sort of illustrate what pearl's been saying
00:05:32.920 though about like not taking that accountability yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah you called her out on
00:05:37.880 that too but there's not taking accountability then there's lying yeah like there's there's there's
00:05:42.680 like in this i'm seeing a mixture of about three toxic things in one no but then it's like it was
00:05:47.880 pretty toxic you don't get that you don't get that toxic without getting trauma in a relationship
00:05:56.440 i'm sorry like you cannot it takes two to tangle i won't yeah i will not deal with this like
00:06:02.680 narrative that oh it's only him that's toxic you're probably doing toxic she just got toxic right
00:06:08.120 here well because but when you think when you think about it you're supposed to listen to your man
00:06:12.680 right so like you're supposed like you're not supposed to argue with him hey pearl can i ask a
00:06:16.920 question as well didn't she say that because i don't believe that as well early one when she was
00:06:21.240 speaking about her her boyfriend uh about oh yeah it was three years ago then we found out it's a whole
00:06:26.360 different ex now no i know i caught that too yeah how many exes were there what's the what's the
00:06:31.080 i caught that too because she was like she was like 22 and then she said oh 18 i was with him
00:06:36.440 for you i was like three years and then now you're 26 it could be it could be a thing she was like
00:06:40.760 she could they could have broken up when she was like 22 and a half she said it coherent she said it
00:06:44.760 like in one line she didn't mention she didn't say oh that was that ex by the way this other ex she 0.99
00:06:50.280 literally just said oh yeah and when i was 23 18. from your experience what does that mean when women 1.00
00:06:55.880 are like miss whatever the x like what is that what is that well when they miss their ex no no no when
00:07:02.200 they're like the details of the timelines are off like when you're like in your experience what does
00:07:06.680 that typically mean well she's lying but i'm asking like why okay you have any so okay it's very simple
00:07:16.120 okay first okay here's a couple red flags i picked up one number one she's a woman no i'm just joking 0.97
00:07:34.840 all right based
00:07:36.200 red flag number two that i picked up was when i asked her are you a virgin she was like 0.96
00:07:50.040 yes it's that face should be looking like this and the pause and then number three okay you don't
00:07:56.440 have to sit there and think and remember about the truth you know the truth just comes up you're like oh
00:08:03.800 yeah it's just that that was that right and so when she had to sit back and like remember the truth i was
00:08:10.440 just like oh i don't know and then the inconsistencies in the stories and then kit with the with the ko
00:08:17.880 punch was like wait a minute because what we were talking about after this and she was like 1.00
00:08:21.720 fuck you and your actor award 1.00
00:08:26.200 did you know she's just whoa 1.00
00:08:28.360 i was just like do you remember that conversation
00:08:30.360 she was your biggest friend and your biggest enemy in the same hour
00:08:33.960 i think when i met her she said my suit was nice on the balcony
00:08:37.320 didn't she like she said something she said something about my suit on the balcony
00:08:41.160 she was like yeah the suit was nice and then now
00:08:43.240 it's always coming to this i'm just curious in your experience in your experience like what are
00:08:48.920 they hiding like what is the some sort of some sort of treachery and deception that she because she
00:08:54.280 women are smart enough to know how they're perceived yeah and they're definitely under they're 1.00
00:08:59.720 definitely know when the camera's on them or they're being interrogated by somebody and they
00:09:04.040 there's an authority over them so she's like oh wait oh i'm definitely a virgin yeah did you notice
00:09:10.040 how as well though she said oh we shouldn't be talking about this because i thought you know
00:09:13.480 your second point i thought that the reason she paused was because she didn't she felt uncomfortable
00:09:17.800 with revealing like talking about her sexuality like that on a public forum but then she then said
00:09:23.560 oh yes i'm a virgin but we should be talking about this yeah yeah yeah she was trying to get it off 0.70
00:09:28.520 that's what they'll do they'll bring up a situation and when you ask the questions they don't like
00:09:32.760 then they don't want to talk about it but they always bring it up they always bring it up first
00:09:36.280 yeah always but then that but then that leads on to like what we're talking about with how a lot of
00:09:40.360 men will leave their actions a lot of females will leave their emotions i really think that what i
00:09:43.720 saw earlier on was a gigantic emotional response and a defense mechanism along with a lot a lot of
00:09:49.160 emotions mixed in because because i go well and the girl that came on that i actually like believe
00:09:54.440 was a virgin you know like she wasn't like how could you just because i haven't seen that episode
00:09:59.880 in it so how how was she uh no she was great she was on um yeah yeah you believe it right yeah
00:10:05.560 was it the one who wore glasses wore a mask because she didn't want to be i 100% believe
00:10:10.440 she's a virgin 100% so what was that manner no she was just really she was really um i think she was
00:10:16.040 on fresh and fit once too uh yeah yeah she was on fresh and fit once she went super viral on there
00:10:23.000 no she was just a sweetheart like she was just so sweet um she wasn't defensive at all and she wouldn't
00:10:28.440 go around like i think she was kind of like she didn't even want to say that she was a virgin do you know
00:10:32.840 what i mean like she wasn't even trying to put it out there like that and then what like isn't that
00:10:36.920 the ultimate flex so like yeah i am a virgin like why would you be hesitant to release that information
00:10:41.640 but i mean all of us here we're obviously we're all non-virgins right we're all no i decided you're
00:10:46.760 definitely not a virgin i decided i decided i'm born again now you're born again she got mad when i said 1.00
00:10:55.800 that i was like are you a born again virgin she's like don't tell that to me 0.99
00:10:59.240 yeah yeah i'm i'm a proud born again virgin hey is that easy is that easy is that easy i just bought
00:11:05.880 it off of ebay baby