Modern Women Are Walking RED FLAGS ｜ Pearl Daily Ep. 85
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Melania Trump has been married to Donald Trump for over 20 years and they have been through a lot in that time. In this episode, I talk about why I believe she did the right thing in marrying Donald Trump and why he deserves a better wife.
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What up guys? Welcome to the Just Pearly Things YouTube channel and welcome to Pearl Daily where
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I cover this week's treachery, debauchery, and craziness. Before I start make sure you like the
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video and get yourself some of our new merch that just dropped this week. So time and time again on
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this channel I have shown you guys example after example after example of women that really have
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done their lives incorrectly. I show you guys women that are overweight, I show you guys women
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that have incredibly high standards, and I show you women that are not fit to be wives and mothers
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that are. But today what I wanted to do was actually go through a woman who did things right. When I
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think of elegance, class, and grace one of the people that I think of is Melania Trump. Now this is not to
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say that Melania Trump is perfect. I know that she did some risque modeling in the past. What I wanted
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to point out is what Melania did right in order to marry a billionaire. That is not an easy thing
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for women to pull off. And so I wanted to show you guys why I believe that Trump picked her as
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opposed to all of the you know hundreds of women throwing themselves at a billionaire. So I watched
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both old videos and new videos of Melania Trump. Now Melania and Donald have been together for over
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20 years. I believe you know different articles had different things about when they started dating but
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the year that it seemed like they started dating was 1998 and they have been together ever since.
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Donald Trump has been married three times however this marriage seems to be different than his
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other two and it is the only one that seems to stick. So the number one thing that I noticed
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about Melania is that she never speaks ill of Donald. I have seen her in interview after interview
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after interview of all of these people trying to get her to poke fun at her husband and she refuses
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to do so. Especially being in the position she was in where Donald Trump was running for president
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and the entire world hated him. She refused to speak ill of him. Let's pull up a couple clips that I found.
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I know you want your voice to be heard on this. So a number of women have come forward that made
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allegations against your husband. Some of them go back more than 30 years. He has said their line.
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Do you believe him? I believe my husband. I believe my husband. This was all organized from the
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opposition. And with the details that they go. Did they ever check the background of these women?
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They don't have any facts. And even the story that came out in People magazine,
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the writer that she said that my husband took her to the room and start kissing her. She wrote in the
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same story about me that she saw me on Fifth Avenue and I said to her, Natasha, how can I, we don't see
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you anymore. I was never friends with her. I would not recognize her. How many women are sent a hey
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girly DM from some random chick with screenshots or whatever of their boyfriends or husbands cheating?
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And how many women just say, you know what? I believe my husband. I would argue that's the
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exception, not the rule. And you see how he is trying to say, oh, all of these women are coming
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forward with these allegations against your husband. Not Melania. Melania is not dealing with it. So
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second interview I found was on, I think it's like a late night talk show from the nineties or maybe early
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two thousands. We're back with the trumps, Donald and Melania. Okay. Is he a control freak?
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I don't think he's a control freak. He's perfectionist.
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That's a slight difference. Does he make demands?
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I don't think so. Maybe he makes demands in his business because he needs to, you know,
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he's kind of a general. He needs to, you know, have people in line, but not at home.
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We are very equal in the relationship and that's very important. You know, to marry a man like Donald
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is, uh, you, you know, you need to know who you are and you need to be very strong and smart. And,
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you know, he needs to know that he could rely on me sometimes, you know, and we share a lot of stuff
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together. I don't think he's control freak at all. Does he bring work home?
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Yes, sometimes, but he's working all the time. You know, Saturday, Sundays, he's playing golf. He's
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working all the time. Does it bother you? No, it's his passion. He loves it. It doesn't bother me. I
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don't want to change him. I don't want, you know, to say, come home and, you know, be with me. I don't
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want to change him. I want to give him a space. And I think that's very important in the relationship.
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Two, three things I noticed from this clip. Number one, the interviewer tries to frame it.
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Is Donald Trump a control freak? Melania reframes everything as a positive. As women,
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we have a tendency to nitpick and really just pick it. I've heard women say it's an ick if men
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smile, like smile. They can't even smile. But you see how she reframes it. She's like, no,
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I don't think he's a control freak. I think he's passionate. You can see how all these interviewers
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are trying to get her to speak ill of her husband. She refuses to do so. But in the more modern
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relationship, more see women complaining and poking fun at their husbands in public. Melania doesn't do
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that. The second thing she pointed out was she is not here to change him. Now, I know she said
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something in it. Oh, we're equal in the relationship at home. But she moved it. I mean,
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granted, to be fair, I don't think it's going to take much to convince a woman to move into
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Mari Lago. I don't think that'll take much. My point is she did not come in and nag him to get
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home. She's not telling him that he works too much. She really reframes everything as a positive.
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And here's the third interview I found of Melania with Trump. She's asked by an interviewer,
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what is your least favorite thing about your husband? Now,
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how many women in this moment would crack a joke and say, oh, he doesn't do the dishes. Oh,
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he doesn't do this. Oh, he's messy. Oh, he's this. What does Melania say?
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I don't have the worst thing. She's done a good job.
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How many guys would love this? I was watching these videos. I was like, it's no wonder he picked
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her. And I think it's an important lesson for us women as what do the men with power status. And I
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mean, you maybe, you know, some women, some people might not say that Trump is good looking now,
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but I think back in the day, he was a good looking guy. What do the men with all three,
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they pick women like Melania. So I watched a couple more interviews of Melania and Trump as
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a couple. And I think there's more that we can learn from her as women. How do you get a man
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that has been divorced two times? He lost money in both divorces to marry you. I mean, that's a tough
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sell to a man who really doesn't have much to gain from marriage, but Melania convinced him to do it.
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And one way that she did it was she did not apply pressure on him. She was going to marry him on
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his terms. I see these videos of us getting frustrated that the men are not marrying us
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on our timeline. She lived with him for five years, did not nag and did not argue. And here's
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a video of Trump talking about how comfortable she made him feel.
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Why? Well, you know, we just had a great time and we didn't worry about it and, you know, just
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live lives. And then one day, surprise. How did the proposal take place?
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Well, we were together, we were together five years. We literally have never had an argument or
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forget about the word fight. We never even had an argument. We just are very compatible. We get
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along. And I just said, you know what, it's time. And it wasn't a big deal. It was almost like it was
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obvious. That's the way you did it? You know what, it's time? No, I did it a little better than that,
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you know, without going into too much detail. But it was time and we just have a very good relationship.
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It was natural. It wasn't forced. And so many women will nag on their boyfriends for years trying to get
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them to marry them. But the problem is you cannot control men. And when you try to impose your will
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on men, they want to do it less. So the next thing that I saw was that Melania made it easy for him
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to have children. Melania did not expect him to change himself when they had children. You can see
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Trump's ease or you can see Trump's comfort in knowing that he can trust Melania to raise their child.
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I think it's great. Look, the way I look at it, there's nothing like a good marriage and there's
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nothing like having children. I have four great children. If you have the money, having children
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is great. Now, I know Melania. I'm not going to be doing the diapers. I'm not going to be making
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the food. I may never even see the kids, frankly. No, y'all come on. Okay? No. She will be an
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unbelievable mother. I'll be a good father, but I'll be, you know, doing my deals. How do you know
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doing my deals? You know it. Oh, her? She'll be an amazing mother. There's no, I have no doubt
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about that. She'll be an amazing mother. There is an entire argument on Twitter this month, though,
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on if husbands should help with chores. Now, I know, I know. Elite people live a different life.
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They can outsource that stuff, I understand. The point is, he knew that he could trust Melania
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to raise the children. He knew she wasn't going to be nagging on him, trying to change him,
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trying to get him to be more involved than he could be. And Baron seems to have turned out okay.
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Seems like a good kid. So many times as women, we want to marry the successful guy, but we don't like
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what comes with it, which is a lot of those guys are workaholics. A lot of those guys do not have
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the time to do the everyday things like changing diapers and being there for all of the small things.
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If that's not what you want, that's fine. But women want to have their cake and eat it too. They
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want a high earning husband and they also want him to be home all the time. You cannot have both.
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You pick one. So the next thing that I noticed in these interviews with Trump and Melania is that
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Melania did not take advantage of his money. You know, so many times I see these female dating
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coaches telling women to get as many resources as you possibly can from him immediately. I am not
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saying obviously he's a billionaire. I'm sure he took her out to nice restaurants or whatever,
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but she was not money hungry and wealthy men notice this. They notice this stuff. They look
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for this stuff. Guys, I grew up in a decently well-off neighborhood. Men see women as expensive.
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You know, my brothers, when they're dating a chick, if she's got a long list of hair,
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makeup products that they will have to pay for, they do not want it. They view it as an expense.
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And that's the other thing you can notice about Melania's look. Now, I'm sure maybe she's had a
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little Botox. Maybe she's had a little bit of plastic surgery here and there, but you can see
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that it's minimal. She doesn't have paked on makeup. She doesn't have super, even in all these
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interviews, she's dressed classy. Now I know you guys will scrub the internet and find pictures
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and videos of her when she's dressed a bit more slutty. Okay. And those are totally out there,
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but Melania understood her role. And when she was with Donald, it was in her best interest to make him
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look good and to become an asset, not a liability. Let's pull up the video
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of her talking about money with Trump. What is it like to have everything economically?
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By that, I mean, you go down Fifth Avenue, you look in the window, like something, you know,
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you can buy it. What's it like? Well, it's- You don't have any financial pressure.
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Yes, but you don't, you know, I grew up, you always, you know, taking care of the money. You always,
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you're not like a, you know, big spender and you're saying like, okay, I will buy it even
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if I don't like it for a hundred percent. You know, you really need to love it that you buy it.
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I'm not just shop to shop. It's just that- She's never taken advantage of that situation.
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Okay. As many women would have, frankly. I mean, she's not one that sees a beautiful something
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in a Fifth Avenue or Madison Avenue window and said, I'm going to get it or please get it. She,
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it's not her thing. You know, I made a lot of money myself. So it's like, I know how it's to work
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and what money means. So it's not that I will say, okay, now I will have the latest bag. I want that
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bag. And then in one month, that bag will be in the closet inside that it's not even, you know,
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it's kind of funny if you have that bag. It's like not in fashion. I'm not into that.
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Do you notice how when he talks, she looks at him? And I know these are small,
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subtle things, but you can tell who's leading and who's running the relationship based on these
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subtle sub-communications. So another thing that happened with Donald Trump. So Donald Trump,
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it's interesting looking at his relationship history. His first marriage actually ended because
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he had an affair with his second wife, allegedly, according to what I found online, which could be
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true, could not be true. But Melania, I don't think she expects fidelity from a billionaire.
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Even when all of those allegations came out about Trump having mistresses,
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even when the locker room talk, Melania stood by her husband. She did not expect fidelity.
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This is not me advocating that men should not be faithful to their wives, but life is about choices
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and trade-offs. And typically, if you go for a billionaire, it is not typical that they are
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faithful. For example, Bill Gates, you know, for years, he on paper was the ultimate family man
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until, you know, we all, it all comes out that water is wet, the sky is blue,
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a billionaire's cheat. So there is a video of Melania talking about, I think it was like when
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Stormy Daniels came out on an interview. Let's pull it up.
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To your credit, with no preconditions, knowing that there could be some tough questions asked.
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And it has been a tough year for you personally. You're not the first first lady to have to deal
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with her husband's alleged infidelities. Has this put a strain on your marriage?
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It is not concern and focus of mine. I'm a mother and a first lady, and I have much more important
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things to think about and to do. Okay. Imagine guys, I want you to think of your girlfriends.
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So a girl comes up and says, I slept with your boyfriend, fiance, husband, whatever it is.
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Would your wife say, you know what? My concern is being a wife and a mother. I have much more important
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things to do. That is the attitude that we should have because you cannot control men so many times.
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What are the details going to do for you? Well, what is that going to help you with?
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Is that going to stop? Probably not. Okay. So Trump's second marriage lasted about two years.
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This is Trump's longest marriage. I want to say they've been married about 25 years. They dated
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before they got married. I wanted to look at his ex-wife and see if I could figure out why
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their marriage did not work. Marla and the Donald, married at last, but not without some drama.
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I think it was a little bit surprising. We really anticipated getting married and having a baby,
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not having a baby and getting married. So why didn't you marry her right away when you found
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it she was pregnant? Indecision. Indecision. Really indecision. I was like,
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you're destroying my reputation again here. You know, it's already happened once and just loving you
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with what happened just because I loved you. And now, you know, not to be married before you have the
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baby. Oh my God. But in terms of the personal life, uh, it's to me, it's a more difficult decision.
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You know, it's, it's in many respects, a much bigger decision. That's an irrevocable deal. Well,
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it really is. In theory, it's an irrevocable deal. And so Tiffany Ariana became a Trump two months
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before her mother signed on the dotted line, not the marriage license, the prenuptial agreement.
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Everyone around Donald was like, you've got to get a prenuptial now. Donald knew how I felt about it,
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which was that, please don't talk to me about it. I've stuck by you through everything. Don't even
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offend me by, you know, you know, you know, I love you. I hate the concept of a prenuptial agreement
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because it basically says if and when you get divorced, this is what you're going to get.
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Right. And there's something very bad about it. But I think it's a modern day necessity. I didn't like
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the way this system works. I mean, I really felt that it was very offensive to both of us.
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And he'd say, you know, you're right, but what am I supposed to do? Well, Marla hates it,
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doesn't want to sign it. Ultimately, she has to sign it. Just from my standpoint, she has to sign it.
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So I said, whatever you need for your bankers, for your associates, I'll sign that. Let's just
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not call it a prenuptial and let's not put a dollar amount on what happens once we're divorced.
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Once we're divorced, right? I mean, that's the way you start thinking.
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In the end, they made a deal. Reports had her asking for 25 million, but he negotiated her down
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to a mere million dollars. It looks a little, um... Cheap?
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Yeah. It looks cheap. Yeah. You mean the amount of money? Well, the amount of money...
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That's so bad. Somebody gets married and it doesn't work out, you get a million bucks. I mean, you know.
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You shouldn't be able to pay a price and be able to walk away. You make a commitment between
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yourselves and God, and you should not be able to say, write a little check, see you later.
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It's a lousy thing. I hate the concept, but it's totally necessary. And I think a million dollars is a
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lot of money. So I wanted to point out a couple things that I noticed from this interview. Do you see
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the difference where immediately when he's talking to Melania, she does not take advantage of his
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money? Where this other woman is saying, oh, I want 25 million dollars if it doesn't work out.
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Women always have the odd debt. Can you imagine blessing? Getting to a million dollars if you get
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divorced and saying that's cheap. Oh my gosh. Other thing I noticed, she got offended by a prenup.
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You can always tell how good of a wife and mother someone is, or partially one sign, how easily are they
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offended. If they are easily offended, they use that offense to the control of their husbands for
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a lifetime. Oh, it's how you said it. Man, this is a headache to them. Based on the videos we saw of
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Trump's third wife, Melania, and second wife, do you think they would have had different responses
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to what Trump wanted to do with a prenup? The next thing she does, and you can see there's a lack of
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accountability with his second wife, she said, you destroyed my reputation when she got pregnant
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before they were married. And my thought is, how did he? It takes two to tango. I mean,
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you destroyed your own reputation. And you see a lot of times when women get pregnant before the
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marriage, they want the baby on their term. So these are signs, I don't know if she was,
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but these are signs of a controlling wife. She gets offended easily, she blames everything on the guy,
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and she is more concerned with what she will get than what she has to give. So Trump also talks in
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interviews about his first wife. It's interesting because Trump's a little bit red pill, and I think
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he learned from every single wife that he had. You know, I think his first wife seemed to be like
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a working wife. His second wife seemed to be like a hot model, basically a hot chick. And his third wife,
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Melania Trump. We love Melania Trump around here. Okay, so let's show Trump talking about his first wife.
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Trump started, he claims, after he suggested that Ivana run the Trump Castle Casino in Atlantic City.
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And you never thought of asking her to quit when you saw it wasn't working?
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Well, I'll give you an example. I didn't think of it that way. See, you tend not to think of it that way.
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Uh, Ivana would get angry at somebody over the telephone all of a sudden who was at the casino,
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and she'd start shouting. And I'd say, I don't want my wife shouting at somebody like that.
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I really don't want that. And a softness disappeared. It was a great softness to Ivana.
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And she still has that softness. But during this period of time, she became an executive, not a wife.
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Well, you now are married to a woman, and you, who would like to continue her career.
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Marla says she does want to have a career. There's a difference between having a career
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and working for me. You have said you don't want Marla to work.
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You actually said that on the day of the wedding, actually. I think I'm probably mixed.
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I have days where I think it's great. And then I have days where if I come home and, you know,
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I don't want to sound too much like a chauvinist, but when I come home and dinner's not ready,
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I go through the roof. Okay. You know what's interesting, Don, is you take these women,
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these two particular women in your life, and you help them become very well known. And then when
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they want to act on that appeal, you seem to get upset about it. I create stars. I love creating stars.
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And to a certain extent, I've done that with Ivana. To a certain extent,
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I've done that with Marla. And I like that. Let me lead you from your solitude.
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I mean, I've really given a lot of women great opportunity. Unfortunately, after their star,
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the fun is over for me. It's like a creation process. It's almost like creating a building.
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It's pretty sad. Trump is so funny. Okay. But do you see how the second wife says she still wants a
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career? Melania, on the other hand, was willing to give up hers for Trump to become president.
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In an interview from years ago, they asked Melania if she would give up her modeling career
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if Trump became president. And she says, yes. But this woman, on the other hand,
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wants to work and doesn't have dinner ready when she's married to a billionaire. Again,
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second wife is more concerned with what she can get, or Melania was more concerned with what she could
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give. And how did that second marriage end? Not well. Not well at all. In 1996, Trump fired his
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bodyguard, Spencer Wagner, after a police officer found Maples and the bodyguard together under a
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lifeguard stand on a deserted beach at 4 a.m. Both Maples and Trump denied she was having an affair.
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Despite reports in the National Enquirer and other tabloids, the bodyguard himself told conflicting
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stories about the incident. Maples and Trump separated in May 1997 and divorced in June 8,
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1999. Under the terms of their prenuptial agreement and divorce settlement, Maples is
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bound by a confidentiality agreement regarding their marriage. The bodyguard, you know, I mean,
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I guess it says here, but Trump, that's the great thing about Trump. He doesn't really speak
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ill of his ex-wives. He really, in future interviews, he speaks pretty highly of all of them.
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So the next thing I wanted to talk about is ladies. I have seen this phenomenon of so many of you
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look like absolute clowns. You look ridiculous. It is the craziest thing I have ever seen in my
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life. I will see women that are posing naked, basically naked on Instagram. They're in bikinis,
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they're in the shortest skirt. You guys look ridiculous. It's one thing if you are single.
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Now I know, I know the Christians, Catholics are going to come at me and say, but Pearl,
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no, it's the exact same. Okay. Okay. It totally is the same sin or the same crime. But one crime is
00:22:45.180
10 times worse. You guys' Instagrams look like OnlyFans. You might as well just have a public
00:22:51.180
OnlyFans account at this rate because I see your butt cheeks on my profile. I mean, I'm just
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scrolling. I'm just living my life scrolling. And then I find out that you guys have boyfriends or
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husbands. Then, then all, everybody comes at Pearl and they say, oh, Pearl, why don't you just live
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life? Mind your business. Well, when I have kids, they have to grow up with these crazy chicks kids.
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At what age is it time to put it away? At what age do you guys just look ridiculous? At like 35 years
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old, 45 years old, wearing a tube top. Ladies, it's time. Why do women want to be naked so bad?
00:23:29.180
This is so ridiculous. I wanted to ask the guys. I had two questions that I wanted to ask on Twitter.
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One, what are the biggest red flags in women? Men, when you go on a date and you see this or see that,
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what are the biggest red flags? And how can a woman dress to signal to you that she is wifey
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or to signal you that she is a whore? Now, I know what the women will say. It doesn't matter how I
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dress. Just because I look a hoe, a 304, it doesn't mean I am one. Well guys, don't, don't we, shouldn't
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we as women dress for the job we want? Do you know what I mean? It's like, shouldn't, okay, if you go for
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a job interview, shouldn't you wear a suit if you're a guy? Women, if we want the job of being a wife and
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a mother, shouldn't we dress or maybe act like it? And it's just this trend in society where
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everybody is just naked. Like, I am just so tired of seeing butt cheeks. Jesus lady. Like, okay,
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one, all of you guys edit your pictures. It is so clear to everybody that you have a filter. You
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either have a filter or all of this makeup where I can't even see what you look like. I'm not even
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against light work done. I'm not even against light makeup. I'm not even against, like, ladies,
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at this rate, I'll give you guys a little bit of room to dress slightly. Like, I'll let you show a
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little leg or something, but my lord, you ladies, this is just getting ridiculous. Um, it's like we
00:24:48.160
give them an inch, they take a mile. Oh my gosh, I am so tired. And then I find out you guys are in a
00:24:54.100
relationship of 10 years. Why? Or, or have a kid? Why? Once you guys have a child, it is so time. It is
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time to put the boobs and butt away. I don't even know why I have to say this. I don't, why? Why do
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I have to say that? Okay. So I asked the men, what are the red flags? And I think as women, we can
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learn from this. What can we learn? One red flag is a guy says if they're super hot, but single. You
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know, if you're over a certain level of attractiveness, men assume you're crazy if you're
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single because there should be a line out the wazoo for you. But okay, so Greg, that's number one.
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So another red flag is that women who have many sexy pictures on social media, it shows they have
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a constant need for male confirmation. Yes. Yes. And I, and I've tried to explain this to you guys
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that it doesn't matter if you're not a 304. It really doesn't matter. If you dress like one,
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men will just assume this is how guys minds, you know, if I wear, and I think this is a Dave Chappelle
00:25:51.180
joke or something, but if you wear a police uniform, are you confused when someone comes up to you and
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asks you for help? Why are women confused that you dress like a 304? And so that's what men assume
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that you are. Brendan says, doesn't like children, not doesn't want them, but doesn't like them. Yes.
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Men typically are looking in a long-term relationship for a wife and a mother. And if you don't like kids,
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men are not for that. So controlled Neo says visual red flags. Okay. And I've tried to explain this to
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you guys. Tattoos. Why do women ruin their beauty with a bunch of tattoos? I seriously do not get it.
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You guys will have these sleeves. I've seen chest tattoos. I see butt tattoos and I only see the butt
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tattoos because you crazy ladies have your butts out on Instagram. Put it away. Oh my goodness.
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Piercings, not going to the gym. 304 eyelashes. Oh my gosh. Yes. I'll see these. They're like
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tarantula eyes. Why? And I don't understand why we, why as women do we want to look so trashy? We don't
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want to look classy. What is this need to just dress like absolute garbage? Red lipstick, background
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check, red flags, fatherless. Okay. Well, women can't really help that one, Neo. I mean, I, I had a dad,
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but like, I'm just saying, okay. Promiscuous pictures on IG, body count more than three. So up to now,
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other than the dad, sorry, ladies, these are all things that women can control. Yet we will cry
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and whine about men's standards, which are entirely in our control. Internal red flags,
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masculine, opinionated, attention seeker, victim mentality, and lazy. I could go on and on about
00:27:30.440
the amount of women that just want a free ride. Um, band notices high vehicle accident count. Is
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that, is that another way to say body count or does he really mean? I don't, I don't know if I get it.
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Okay. Tattoos, nose rings, and being overweight. Paul Elam weighs in. Honestly, having a vagina in
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2023, that is a red flag until proven otherwise. Yes, ladies, men are sick and tired of the nonsense
00:27:55.220
that comes with dating modern women. Lore or data from wish.com says condescending view of males and
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humanity. Yes. I mean, there are so many women that openly say misandristic things and openly hate men.
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We would not like it if men said those things about women. And we openly shame men that do,
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even though like, honestly, guys, I don't know how you can't scroll on Instagram nowadays and not agree
00:28:18.840
that most women are whores nowadays. I mean, they signal it on their Instagram. They have their
00:28:22.480
butt. It's like a free OF. And if men say that the gut feeling is not all, not all, not all. But if
00:28:27.860
women say that men are trash, we never have a gut reaction to defend men. List of red flags,
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red or blue hair, tattoos, body hair, her family, and loud. All right. Okay. Being liberal is number
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one, not Sol Walker. So the next question I had for men, and I think as women, we can learn from
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what the men tell us. We can seriously learn. I think there's lessons here. So many times women,
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we think that we know it all. When a lot of times, most of us were not raised to be a wife and a
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mother. Most of us did not have submissive mothers. If we did have mothers or most of us grew up in
00:29:03.680
single parent or divorced families. I don't know why as women, we think we know it all, but most of
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us are pretty dumb when it comes to this stuff. And I think it's clear just looking around society.
00:29:13.060
So I asked Twitter, I wanted examples of pictures that make you look like a 304 versus someone that
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a man would take seriously for a wife. So number one, do you see this? This woman, I think is in a
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public place wearing this. This is so embarrassing. Like this is the most embarrassing thing I've
00:29:29.720
seen. I mean, I think she's over the age of 25. I think this woman, if I had to guess 27, 28. As you
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can see, I can clearly see her eyebrows probably don't move just based on how her face looks. The
00:29:41.700
boobs, it's like see-through. I can see it. Her butt cheeks are out. This is embarrassing. Okay,
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here we go. A Dallas Cowgirls cheerleader. Yeah. You see, you know, it's funny. This is almost
00:29:54.400
modest nowadays. This is so bad. Okay. Look at, but yeah, booty shorts, very low waisted. But here
00:30:01.740
you got the booty shorts. I mean, it's so crazy that this is almost modest in 2020. You see the
00:30:09.000
butt. Do you see what I'm talking about? I can basically see her butt cheeks. No bad. And there's
00:30:13.980
a way to be sexy without being trashy. Okay. There is a way to do it. Even in the interview Melania did
00:30:20.680
with Trump. The shoulders were out. It wasn't like her boobs were all out there over the place.
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Women that understand how to walk and dress with class tend to have better outcomes than women that
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dress like this. Oh yes. The bikini pictures. Yes. The boobs out. There you go. Yeah. You see that
00:30:38.120
the butt. Do you guys see this butt? I am so sick of these butt. Like I have just been seeing butt,
00:30:42.520
butt, butt. Like all these women. It's like, I don't need to see it anymore. Yeah. Okay. So now I asked
00:30:47.920
for pictures of women that they would consider wife. See, we got a nice sweater there. Like
00:30:52.840
look how cute that is. This, this looks like classy. Like this is an example of a woman that
00:30:58.620
is dressed with class. She's got the long skirt, the white shirt on the top. And these are still
00:31:03.980
cute outfits. They're still appealing to men. They just don't look like tramps. Okay. Oh, this one's
00:31:10.560
super cute. You see that? That's super cute. We got the, the high boot. Like that, that is an
00:31:15.320
adorable outfit. It's so funny. Women. It's like, we do so much to be naked when all we had to do
00:31:19.620
was put on a sundress. You see, look at, look at boots, a nice black dress. I think guys started
00:31:25.380
tweeting me their wives and girlfriends. I think this one is. Yeah. Ladies, we don't have to do all
00:31:30.020
this. I'm not claiming to be a fashion expert. I clearly don't have all the answers in that category.
00:31:35.160
There's people that you can consult with, but I could tell you I'm an expert in what looks
00:31:39.360
absolutely ridiculous. And you guys can look at me as the bad guy because I point this stuff out.
00:31:45.260
Um, but what I'm saying is true. And simps won't tell you and other women won't tell you, but Pearl
00:31:49.900
is here to help. And I wanted to give you guys an example of Melania understanding the role that she
00:31:55.520
was playing. Melania didn't keep her boobs and her butt out for a lifetime. And at one point she did
00:32:00.440
post promiscuous pictures, but she understood after a certain age, it's time to put it away.
00:32:05.520
It is time, dear God. And this is coming from one of the most beautiful women on the planet. I mean,
00:32:10.900
Melania back in the day was definitely a eight, nine or 10, arguably. Okay. So this is a picture
00:32:17.260
of Melania before. So, and by the way, compared to what you guys are wearing, this is modest, I swear.
00:32:23.580
But you see the, the middle is see-through boobs are out jeans. Okay. Versus what she wears today.
00:32:30.300
Look at that. That, that is a picture of class and grace. And she understood that when she was a wife
00:32:35.380
and a mother, that was what came first. So many times, especially amongst Christian women, I hear
00:32:41.680
I cannot follow my husband if he does not lead. But I think we really, as women don't give the men
00:32:47.860
enough credit. Some of us are very hard to lead. And until you are an expert follower, I don't think
00:32:53.100
we should be criticizing our husbands or boyfriends for not leading us properly. So the caption of this
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tweet says, if ladies actually follow these instructions, instead of being contentious brats,
00:33:03.400
men could be the leader they were designed to be. Now imagine if you had a wife or girlfriend that did
00:33:10.080
all of the following things. Never belittle your man. Never talk down to him. Never ignore him. Never
00:33:15.640
let him feel replaceable. Never play down your need for him. Never cause him to feel embarrassed. Never
00:33:22.680
look away or text while he's talking. Never manipulate him. Never boss him around. Never laugh at his mistakes
00:33:29.360
or his fault. Never put any person before him. Never be too busy for him. Never be inconsiderate
00:33:34.920
of his feelings. And never tell his personal business. It doesn't matter if the man who you
00:33:40.040
are dealing with is your father, your grandfather, a boyfriend of two weeks, or your husband of 50 years.
00:33:45.780
This is how women should respect all men at all times. All the guys are like, do women like this?
00:33:50.720
But this is the problem. We're not even, women are not even taught this. We're not, we're not.
00:33:54.860
And so, you know, this is something we're supposed to get from older women. This is something older
00:34:01.100
women are supposed to work on this for a lifetime. You know, most people don't start off as good
00:34:06.740
husbands and good wives. That is something that we typically become. And so after 20, 30 years,
00:34:13.460
as a wife and a mother, you're supposed to be able to show your work. You're supposed to be able to say,
00:34:18.340
look it, my husband thinks this of me. These are the things that I do for him. But what I find instead
00:34:24.580
is women that are older that left their husband because he didn't work enough or didn't lead.
00:34:30.480
But if nagging was such a great way to get what you wanted as a woman, why don't we see the men
00:34:35.820
with nagging wives become productive, competitive, successful men? I mean, it seems like the men,
00:34:41.860
and I think we could say that with Melania and Trump, Trump seemed to accomplish more with
00:34:46.660
a supportive wife than with a nagging wife. Okay. So the comment section weighs in respect him,
00:34:52.020
not because he is a man. Respect the sacrifice he is expected to make for you. Respect his ability
00:34:57.380
to be destructive if he chooses but doesn't. Dogs get more respect than they are due. Denise says,
00:35:03.420
follow instructions. OMG, LMFAO, we aren't children. We have value and are equals. And now,
00:35:09.560
if you said couples may be happier if they both respected these guidelines, or maybe they should
00:35:14.260
be mutually respect each other. You cannot have two kings of a castle. Somebody is going to be in
00:35:20.740
control. And unfortunately, in 2023, most of the time, the women that say this are actually the
00:35:26.000
ones running their household. Ms. Shari 2000 says, these principles are straightforward,
00:35:31.300
but TradCons will try hard to find buts and what if. Most women will do this for their bosses or
00:35:36.500
customers or business associates, but whine about doing the same for your husband. Just do your part
00:35:41.920
and see what happens. You know, I heard a story of a woman who was having trouble in her marriage.
00:35:47.300
She sat down and she had to think to herself, is my husband a bad guy? Is he a bad person?
00:35:52.640
And she thought to herself, no. And she thought, if I am just overly loving and giving and selfless
00:35:59.640
this next month, I'm going to try to every day, I'm going to do something nice for my husband
00:36:03.860
every single day. Maybe it would improve my marriage because I don't believe my husband is a bad guy.
00:36:09.300
And she told me that that was the turning point in her marriage, was not viewing her husband as an
00:36:15.060
oppressor, but rather as a benevolent dictator. And she told me that completely changed her
00:36:21.140
marriage. She completely gave up control in her marriage. The last topic is an especially touchy
00:36:28.120
topic. Oklahoma City Thunder's Josh Giddey goes viral for alleged explicit photos with an underage
00:36:34.560
girl. NBA player Josh Giddey is facing potential statutory rape allegations after pictures and videos
00:36:41.080
surface online showing him with an allegedly underage girl. The girl identified as Liv Cook
00:36:46.980
reportedly claims to have had sexual intercourse with Giddey. Giddey is 21 years old while Cook is
00:36:52.640
a high school sophomore. The age of consent is 16, meaning that if Cook is 15, Giddey would be committing
00:36:58.400
a crime. The date of the pictures and videos is unclear, so it is possible that they were taken
00:37:03.920
before Cook turned 16. The Oklahoma City Thunder has not yet made any public statements about the
00:37:10.760
Over the past couple of days, it was a pretty serious allegation. I know nothing concrete there.
00:37:15.880
Is there anything you can say in this situation?
00:37:17.780
Yeah, I mean, I understand the question, obviously, but, um, you know, there's no further comment right now.
00:37:23.460
I get the question, guys. I completely understand you guys want to know about it, but, uh, just,
00:37:27.160
just for right now, I don't have any understanding.
00:37:29.440
A small piece of nightclub footage may be the key that saves Josh Giddey's entire NBA career
00:37:34.860
from the concerning allegations against him. On Friday evening, the NBA confirmed that they
00:37:40.100
are conducting an investigation into the serious allegations that Josh Giddey has had a relationship
00:37:44.980
with an underage girl. While more concerning clues have leaked online apart from initial photos
00:37:49.720
and videos, the new video offers a new light into what could potentially help the Australian
00:37:54.020
players' cape. A video uploaded by a random Twitter user shows a moment of Josh Giddey with
00:37:59.380
a girl that seems to be Liv Cook. There's only one problem, though. Cook should not be there.
00:38:04.000
If she is supposed to be a minor, after this new piece of evidence, there are new questions that
00:38:08.060
need to be made. First of all, how did Liv Cook get into a club where only adults are allowed?
00:38:12.980
Did Josh Giddey go into the club knowing he was in there with an alleged minor? Is Liv Cook even a
00:38:18.160
minor, as the allegations suggest? If that is the case, did Liv Cook tell Josh Giddey her real age,
00:38:23.720
or did she lie about it even to him? For how long has Josh Giddey known this young woman?
00:38:28.420
If we get around to answering these questions, we will have a less difficult time getting to the
00:38:32.580
bottom of the truth. The NBA needs to look into these questions with objectivity and consider
00:38:37.120
all of the viable options in order to reach the truth. Because right now, Josh Giddey's career is
00:38:42.760
in serious jeopardy. If, for some reason, Giddey had no idea this girl was a minor, he may not be
00:38:47.900
looking at a punishment as severe as he would have if he knowingly dated this young woman.
00:38:52.460
There's always the possibility that Josh was tricked into thinking this girl was over 18,
00:38:56.520
which is quite common amongst young people at that age. But then again, NBA players should not
00:39:01.840
be exposing themselves in such a manner by dating young women who seem a little too young to begin
00:39:07.040
with. Whatever ends up happening when the investigations are over, someone will have to
00:39:10.920
pay the price. It's also safe to note that the footage still only proves nothing, only that the
00:39:15.780
allegedly underage girl was inside a nightclub illegally. You know, guys, this is an uncomfortable
00:39:21.020
topic. And I think it's an uncomfortable topic because, well, nobody wants to be labeled. I think
00:39:26.880
the death of someone's career is to be labeled a pedo. I don't, I can't think of something worse to call
00:39:33.700
somebody or a worse reputation to have. But my question is, does this young woman bear any
00:39:39.520
responsibility for that night? I mean, if a man at 16 years old robs a store, oftentimes he's tried as
00:39:47.240
an adult. Oftentimes if a kid commits murder at 14, 15 years old, they are tried as an adult. So in this
00:39:55.120
case, does the young woman bear some responsibility for hypothetically tricking a man into thinking that
00:40:02.540
she was of age? Is she really a sweet, innocent victim that the left is going to paint her out to
00:40:09.680
be? You know, guys, I've been 16 years old before. And at 16, I think you pretty much know what you're
00:40:15.980
doing. This is not me advocating for relationships between adults and minors, obviously. But I think
00:40:23.560
it's unfair to put a guy in a situation where he will have to pay a price when she's lying about her
00:40:31.680
age, allegedly. Now, there are videos on her TikTok account saying that she is above 18.
00:40:45.980
So in this TikTok, she's captioning it that she's over 21. And the question is, if he meets a random
00:40:56.200
girl at a club that you were supposed to be over the age of 21 to get into, why would he assume that
00:41:02.840
she's under the age of 21? And I don't think we can just say she's an innocent victim in this. And I
00:41:08.840
don't really think it's fair to him that he now has this allegation on his name that he goes for
00:41:14.660
underage women. I don't think that's fair. Okay. So as you guys know, at the end of every episode,
00:41:19.880
we read the top comments. So if you guys have a comment that you want to leave below and you want
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00:41:28.520
when a man says my wife is the most intelligent person I know, I walk away as soon as I can. I just,
00:41:33.260
I just don't like to see a man in his worst moment. Okay, guys, let me know what you think in the
00:41:40.200
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