JustPearlyThings - November 29, 2023


Modern Women Are Walking RED FLAGS ｜ Pearl Daily Ep. 85


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Melania Trump has been married to Donald Trump for over 20 years and they have been through a lot in that time. In this episode, I talk about why I believe she did the right thing in marrying Donald Trump and why he deserves a better wife.

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00:00:00.000 What up guys? Welcome to the Just Pearly Things YouTube channel and welcome to Pearl Daily where
00:00:05.280 I cover this week's treachery, debauchery, and craziness. Before I start make sure you like the
00:00:09.580 video and get yourself some of our new merch that just dropped this week. So time and time again on
00:00:15.460 this channel I have shown you guys example after example after example of women that really have 0.99
00:00:20.940 done their lives incorrectly. I show you guys women that are overweight, I show you guys women 1.00
00:00:25.880 that have incredibly high standards, and I show you women that are not fit to be wives and mothers 1.00
00:00:31.680 that are. But today what I wanted to do was actually go through a woman who did things right. When I
00:00:37.360 think of elegance, class, and grace one of the people that I think of is Melania Trump. Now this is not to
00:00:44.080 say that Melania Trump is perfect. I know that she did some risque modeling in the past. What I wanted 0.96
00:00:49.720 to point out is what Melania did right in order to marry a billionaire. That is not an easy thing
00:00:55.860 for women to pull off. And so I wanted to show you guys why I believe that Trump picked her as
00:01:01.600 opposed to all of the you know hundreds of women throwing themselves at a billionaire. So I watched
00:01:06.660 both old videos and new videos of Melania Trump. Now Melania and Donald have been together for over
00:01:12.700 20 years. I believe you know different articles had different things about when they started dating but
00:01:18.320 the year that it seemed like they started dating was 1998 and they have been together ever since.
00:01:24.060 Donald Trump has been married three times however this marriage seems to be different than his
00:01:28.780 other two and it is the only one that seems to stick. So the number one thing that I noticed
00:01:33.580 about Melania is that she never speaks ill of Donald. I have seen her in interview after interview
00:01:39.660 after interview of all of these people trying to get her to poke fun at her husband and she refuses
00:01:45.480 to do so. Especially being in the position she was in where Donald Trump was running for president
00:01:50.220 and the entire world hated him. She refused to speak ill of him. Let's pull up a couple clips that I found.
00:01:57.500 I know you want your voice to be heard on this. So a number of women have come forward that made 0.53
00:02:01.420 allegations against your husband. Some of them go back more than 30 years. He has said their line.
00:02:06.780 Do you believe him? I believe my husband. I believe my husband. This was all organized from the
00:02:12.940 opposition. And with the details that they go. Did they ever check the background of these women?
00:02:25.740 They don't have any facts. And even the story that came out in People magazine,
00:02:34.300 the writer that she said that my husband took her to the room and start kissing her. She wrote in the
00:02:43.660 same story about me that she saw me on Fifth Avenue and I said to her, Natasha, how can I, we don't see
00:02:53.660 you anymore. I was never friends with her. I would not recognize her. How many women are sent a hey 0.77
00:03:01.580 girly DM from some random chick with screenshots or whatever of their boyfriends or husbands cheating?
00:03:08.220 And how many women just say, you know what? I believe my husband. I would argue that's the
00:03:13.580 exception, not the rule. And you see how he is trying to say, oh, all of these women are coming
00:03:18.860 forward with these allegations against your husband. Not Melania. Melania is not dealing with it. So
00:03:24.220 second interview I found was on, I think it's like a late night talk show from the nineties or maybe early
00:03:29.100 two thousands. We're back with the trumps, Donald and Melania. Okay. Is he a control freak?
00:03:35.260 I don't think he's a control freak. He's perfectionist.
00:03:40.300 That's a slight difference. Does he make demands?
00:03:44.380 I don't think so. Maybe he makes demands in his business because he needs to, you know,
00:03:49.580 he's kind of a general. He needs to, you know, have people in line, but not at home.
00:03:56.220 We are very equal in the relationship and that's very important. You know, to marry a man like Donald
00:04:01.980 is, uh, you, you know, you need to know who you are and you need to be very strong and smart. And,
00:04:11.020 you know, he needs to know that he could rely on me sometimes, you know, and we share a lot of stuff
00:04:17.900 together. I don't think he's control freak at all. Does he bring work home?
00:04:22.700 Yes, sometimes, but he's working all the time. You know, Saturday, Sundays, he's playing golf. He's
00:04:28.700 working all the time. Does it bother you? No, it's his passion. He loves it. It doesn't bother me. I
00:04:34.940 don't want to change him. I don't want, you know, to say, come home and, you know, be with me. I don't
00:04:41.740 want to change him. I want to give him a space. And I think that's very important in the relationship.
00:04:48.700 Two, three things I noticed from this clip. Number one, the interviewer tries to frame it.
00:04:53.260 Is Donald Trump a control freak? Melania reframes everything as a positive. As women, 1.00
00:04:59.100 we have a tendency to nitpick and really just pick it. I've heard women say it's an ick if men 0.62
00:05:04.540 smile, like smile. They can't even smile. But you see how she reframes it. She's like, no,
00:05:09.980 I don't think he's a control freak. I think he's passionate. You can see how all these interviewers
00:05:14.780 are trying to get her to speak ill of her husband. She refuses to do so. But in the more modern
00:05:19.740 relationship, more see women complaining and poking fun at their husbands in public. Melania doesn't do 1.00
00:05:26.300 that. The second thing she pointed out was she is not here to change him. Now, I know she said
00:05:31.180 something in it. Oh, we're equal in the relationship at home. But she moved it. I mean,
00:05:36.060 granted, to be fair, I don't think it's going to take much to convince a woman to move into 1.00
00:05:40.220 Mari Lago. I don't think that'll take much. My point is she did not come in and nag him to get
00:05:46.300 home. She's not telling him that he works too much. She really reframes everything as a positive.
00:05:52.540 And here's the third interview I found of Melania with Trump. She's asked by an interviewer,
00:05:56.780 what is your least favorite thing about your husband? Now,
00:05:59.420 how many women in this moment would crack a joke and say, oh, he doesn't do the dishes. Oh, 1.00
00:06:04.140 he doesn't do this. Oh, he's messy. Oh, he's this. What does Melania say?
00:06:08.300 I don't have the worst thing. She's done a good job.
00:06:11.500 How many guys would love this? I was watching these videos. I was like, it's no wonder he picked
00:06:15.820 her. And I think it's an important lesson for us women as what do the men with power status. And I
00:06:22.540 mean, you maybe, you know, some women, some people might not say that Trump is good looking now,
00:06:27.260 but I think back in the day, he was a good looking guy. What do the men with all three,
00:06:31.500 they pick women like Melania. So I watched a couple more interviews of Melania and Trump as
00:06:36.620 a couple. And I think there's more that we can learn from her as women. How do you get a man 1.00
00:06:41.100 that has been divorced two times? He lost money in both divorces to marry you. I mean, that's a tough
00:06:47.500 sell to a man who really doesn't have much to gain from marriage, but Melania convinced him to do it.
00:06:53.820 And one way that she did it was she did not apply pressure on him. She was going to marry him on
00:06:59.180 his terms. I see these videos of us getting frustrated that the men are not marrying us
00:07:03.580 on our timeline. She lived with him for five years, did not nag and did not argue. And here's 0.86
00:07:09.100 a video of Trump talking about how comfortable she made him feel.
00:07:16.220 Why? Well, you know, we just had a great time and we didn't worry about it and, you know, just
00:07:23.580 live lives. And then one day, surprise. How did the proposal take place?
00:07:30.940 Well, we were together, we were together five years. We literally have never had an argument or
00:07:37.420 forget about the word fight. We never even had an argument. We just are very compatible. We get
00:07:41.500 along. And I just said, you know what, it's time. And it wasn't a big deal. It was almost like it was
00:07:46.300 obvious. That's the way you did it? You know what, it's time? No, I did it a little better than that,
00:07:49.340 you know, without going into too much detail. But it was time and we just have a very good relationship.
00:07:55.420 It was natural. It wasn't forced. And so many women will nag on their boyfriends for years trying to get 1.00
00:08:01.740 them to marry them. But the problem is you cannot control men. And when you try to impose your will
00:08:07.900 on men, they want to do it less. So the next thing that I saw was that Melania made it easy for him
00:08:14.860 to have children. Melania did not expect him to change himself when they had children. You can see
00:08:21.260 Trump's ease or you can see Trump's comfort in knowing that he can trust Melania to raise their child.
00:08:28.460 I think it's great. Look, the way I look at it, there's nothing like a good marriage and there's
00:08:36.300 nothing like having children. I have four great children. If you have the money, having children
00:08:42.140 is great. Now, I know Melania. I'm not going to be doing the diapers. I'm not going to be making
00:08:45.740 the food. I may never even see the kids, frankly. No, y'all come on. Okay? No. She will be an
00:08:50.380 unbelievable mother. I'll be a good father, but I'll be, you know, doing my deals. How do you know
00:08:53.580 doing my deals? You know it. Oh, her? She'll be an amazing mother. There's no, I have no doubt
00:08:58.540 about that. She'll be an amazing mother. There is an entire argument on Twitter this month, though,
00:09:03.180 on if husbands should help with chores. Now, I know, I know. Elite people live a different life. 0.61
00:09:09.900 They can outsource that stuff, I understand. The point is, he knew that he could trust Melania
00:09:15.500 to raise the children. He knew she wasn't going to be nagging on him, trying to change him,
00:09:20.460 trying to get him to be more involved than he could be. And Baron seems to have turned out okay.
00:09:25.500 Seems like a good kid. So many times as women, we want to marry the successful guy, but we don't like
00:09:31.660 what comes with it, which is a lot of those guys are workaholics. A lot of those guys do not have
00:09:36.620 the time to do the everyday things like changing diapers and being there for all of the small things.
00:09:42.780 If that's not what you want, that's fine. But women want to have their cake and eat it too. They 1.00
00:09:47.660 want a high earning husband and they also want him to be home all the time. You cannot have both.
00:09:53.740 You pick one. So the next thing that I noticed in these interviews with Trump and Melania is that
00:09:58.700 Melania did not take advantage of his money. You know, so many times I see these female dating 1.00
00:10:04.300 coaches telling women to get as many resources as you possibly can from him immediately. I am not
00:10:10.460 saying obviously he's a billionaire. I'm sure he took her out to nice restaurants or whatever,
00:10:14.700 but she was not money hungry and wealthy men notice this. They notice this stuff. They look
00:10:20.220 for this stuff. Guys, I grew up in a decently well-off neighborhood. Men see women as expensive. 0.97
00:10:26.060 You know, my brothers, when they're dating a chick, if she's got a long list of hair,
00:10:30.700 makeup products that they will have to pay for, they do not want it. They view it as an expense.
00:10:36.380 And that's the other thing you can notice about Melania's look. Now, I'm sure maybe she's had a 0.99
00:10:40.460 little Botox. Maybe she's had a little bit of plastic surgery here and there, but you can see 0.97
00:10:45.580 that it's minimal. She doesn't have paked on makeup. She doesn't have super, even in all these
00:10:50.460 interviews, she's dressed classy. Now I know you guys will scrub the internet and find pictures 1.00
00:10:55.660 and videos of her when she's dressed a bit more slutty. Okay. And those are totally out there,
00:11:00.300 but Melania understood her role. And when she was with Donald, it was in her best interest to make him
00:11:06.780 look good and to become an asset, not a liability. Let's pull up the video
00:11:11.660 of her talking about money with Trump. What is it like to have everything economically?
00:11:16.460 By that, I mean, you go down Fifth Avenue, you look in the window, like something, you know,
00:11:20.780 you can buy it. What's it like? Well, it's- You don't have any financial pressure.
00:11:26.380 Yes, but you don't, you know, I grew up, you always, you know, taking care of the money. You always,
00:11:32.620 you're not like a, you know, big spender and you're saying like, okay, I will buy it even
00:11:37.500 if I don't like it for a hundred percent. You know, you really need to love it that you buy it.
00:11:42.780 Because it's- So you're not just shop to shop.
00:11:45.180 I'm not just shop to shop. It's just that- She's never taken advantage of that situation.
00:11:49.740 Okay. As many women would have, frankly. I mean, she's not one that sees a beautiful something 0.98
00:11:55.340 in a Fifth Avenue or Madison Avenue window and said, I'm going to get it or please get it. She,
00:12:00.380 it's not her thing. You know, I made a lot of money myself. So it's like, I know how it's to work
00:12:06.860 and what money means. So it's not that I will say, okay, now I will have the latest bag. I want that
00:12:13.900 bag. And then in one month, that bag will be in the closet inside that it's not even, you know,
00:12:20.460 it's kind of funny if you have that bag. It's like not in fashion. I'm not into that.
00:12:25.180 Do you notice how when he talks, she looks at him? And I know these are small,
00:12:29.340 subtle things, but you can tell who's leading and who's running the relationship based on these
00:12:34.220 subtle sub-communications. So another thing that happened with Donald Trump. So Donald Trump,
00:12:39.100 it's interesting looking at his relationship history. His first marriage actually ended because
00:12:43.740 he had an affair with his second wife, allegedly, according to what I found online, which could be
00:12:49.020 true, could not be true. But Melania, I don't think she expects fidelity from a billionaire. 1.00
00:12:54.220 Even when all of those allegations came out about Trump having mistresses,
00:12:58.380 even when the locker room talk, Melania stood by her husband. She did not expect fidelity.
00:13:04.300 This is not me advocating that men should not be faithful to their wives, but life is about choices
00:13:09.660 and trade-offs. And typically, if you go for a billionaire, it is not typical that they are
00:13:14.220 faithful. For example, Bill Gates, you know, for years, he on paper was the ultimate family man
00:13:19.500 until, you know, we all, it all comes out that water is wet, the sky is blue,
00:13:23.500 a billionaire's cheat. So there is a video of Melania talking about, I think it was like when
00:13:28.380 Stormy Daniels came out on an interview. Let's pull it up. 1.00
00:13:31.340 To your credit, with no preconditions, knowing that there could be some tough questions asked.
00:13:37.420 And it has been a tough year for you personally. You're not the first first lady to have to deal
00:13:43.340 with her husband's alleged infidelities. Has this put a strain on your marriage?
00:13:47.420 It is not concern and focus of mine. I'm a mother and a first lady, and I have much more important
00:13:54.140 things to think about and to do. Okay. Imagine guys, I want you to think of your girlfriends.
00:14:00.220 So a girl comes up and says, I slept with your boyfriend, fiance, husband, whatever it is. 1.00
00:14:04.940 Would your wife say, you know what? My concern is being a wife and a mother. I have much more important
00:14:10.860 things to do. That is the attitude that we should have because you cannot control men so many times.
00:14:16.860 What are the details going to do for you? Well, what is that going to help you with?
00:14:21.340 Is that going to stop? Probably not. Okay. So Trump's second marriage lasted about two years.
00:14:26.940 This is Trump's longest marriage. I want to say they've been married about 25 years. They dated
00:14:32.220 before they got married. I wanted to look at his ex-wife and see if I could figure out why 1.00
00:14:38.060 their marriage did not work. Marla and the Donald, married at last, but not without some drama.
00:14:45.100 I think it was a little bit surprising. We really anticipated getting married and having a baby,
00:14:49.260 not having a baby and getting married. So why didn't you marry her right away when you found
00:14:52.460 it she was pregnant? Indecision. Indecision. Really indecision. I was like,
00:14:56.380 you're destroying my reputation again here. You know, it's already happened once and just loving you
00:15:00.700 with what happened just because I loved you. And now, you know, not to be married before you have the
00:15:06.540 baby. Oh my God. But in terms of the personal life, uh, it's to me, it's a more difficult decision.
00:15:14.060 You know, it's, it's in many respects, a much bigger decision. That's an irrevocable deal. Well,
00:15:18.060 it really is. In theory, it's an irrevocable deal. And so Tiffany Ariana became a Trump two months
00:15:25.660 before her mother signed on the dotted line, not the marriage license, the prenuptial agreement. 0.94
00:15:31.340 Everyone around Donald was like, you've got to get a prenuptial now. Donald knew how I felt about it,
00:15:38.460 which was that, please don't talk to me about it. I've stuck by you through everything. Don't even
00:15:43.740 offend me by, you know, you know, you know, I love you. I hate the concept of a prenuptial agreement
00:15:49.500 because it basically says if and when you get divorced, this is what you're going to get.
00:15:53.660 Right. And there's something very bad about it. But I think it's a modern day necessity. I didn't like
00:16:00.540 the way this system works. I mean, I really felt that it was very offensive to both of us.
00:16:07.740 And he'd say, you know, you're right, but what am I supposed to do? Well, Marla hates it, 0.96
00:16:12.140 doesn't want to sign it. Ultimately, she has to sign it. Just from my standpoint, she has to sign it.
00:16:18.220 So I said, whatever you need for your bankers, for your associates, I'll sign that. Let's just
00:16:23.100 not call it a prenuptial and let's not put a dollar amount on what happens once we're divorced. 0.99
00:16:27.580 Once we're divorced, right? I mean, that's the way you start thinking.
00:16:31.420 In the end, they made a deal. Reports had her asking for 25 million, but he negotiated her down
00:16:38.460 to a mere million dollars. It looks a little, um... Cheap?
00:16:43.980 Yeah. It looks cheap. Yeah. You mean the amount of money? Well, the amount of money...
00:16:48.300 That's so bad. Somebody gets married and it doesn't work out, you get a million bucks. I mean, you know.
00:16:51.820 You shouldn't be able to pay a price and be able to walk away. You make a commitment between
00:16:55.740 yourselves and God, and you should not be able to say, write a little check, see you later.
00:17:00.620 It's a lousy thing. I hate the concept, but it's totally necessary. And I think a million dollars is a
00:17:06.540 lot of money. So I wanted to point out a couple things that I noticed from this interview. Do you see
00:17:10.540 the difference where immediately when he's talking to Melania, she does not take advantage of his
00:17:15.900 money? Where this other woman is saying, oh, I want 25 million dollars if it doesn't work out. 1.00
00:17:21.180 Women always have the odd debt. Can you imagine blessing? Getting to a million dollars if you get 1.00
00:17:27.340 divorced and saying that's cheap. Oh my gosh. Other thing I noticed, she got offended by a prenup. 1.00
00:17:32.940 You can always tell how good of a wife and mother someone is, or partially one sign, how easily are they
00:17:39.660 offended. If they are easily offended, they use that offense to the control of their husbands for 1.00
00:17:44.780 a lifetime. Oh, it's how you said it. Man, this is a headache to them. Based on the videos we saw of
00:17:51.020 Trump's third wife, Melania, and second wife, do you think they would have had different responses
00:17:56.380 to what Trump wanted to do with a prenup? The next thing she does, and you can see there's a lack of
00:18:02.060 accountability with his second wife, she said, you destroyed my reputation when she got pregnant 0.64
00:18:07.820 before they were married. And my thought is, how did he? It takes two to tango. I mean,
00:18:12.940 you destroyed your own reputation. And you see a lot of times when women get pregnant before the 0.96
00:18:18.220 marriage, they want the baby on their term. So these are signs, I don't know if she was,
00:18:23.180 but these are signs of a controlling wife. She gets offended easily, she blames everything on the guy, 1.00
00:18:29.900 and she is more concerned with what she will get than what she has to give. So Trump also talks in
00:18:35.980 interviews about his first wife. It's interesting because Trump's a little bit red pill, and I think
00:18:40.540 he learned from every single wife that he had. You know, I think his first wife seemed to be like
00:18:45.500 a working wife. His second wife seemed to be like a hot model, basically a hot chick. And his third wife, 0.91
00:18:51.500 Melania Trump. We love Melania Trump around here. Okay, so let's show Trump talking about his first wife.
00:18:57.180 Trump started, he claims, after he suggested that Ivana run the Trump Castle Casino in Atlantic City.
00:19:04.460 And you never thought of asking her to quit when you saw it wasn't working?
00:19:07.900 Well, I'll give you an example. I didn't think of it that way. See, you tend not to think of it that way.
00:19:12.940 Uh, Ivana would get angry at somebody over the telephone all of a sudden who was at the casino,
00:19:21.100 and she'd start shouting. And I'd say, I don't want my wife shouting at somebody like that. 0.94
00:19:27.900 I really don't want that. And a softness disappeared. It was a great softness to Ivana.
00:19:34.620 And she still has that softness. But during this period of time, she became an executive, not a wife.
00:19:41.820 Well, you now are married to a woman, and you, who would like to continue her career.
00:19:46.620 Marla says she does want to have a career. There's a difference between having a career 0.99
00:19:51.420 and working for me. You have said you don't want Marla to work.
00:19:55.420 You actually said that on the day of the wedding, actually. I think I'm probably mixed.
00:19:59.180 I have days where I think it's great. And then I have days where if I come home and, you know,
00:20:05.820 I don't want to sound too much like a chauvinist, but when I come home and dinner's not ready,
00:20:09.340 I go through the roof. Okay. You know what's interesting, Don, is you take these women, 0.98
00:20:13.420 these two particular women in your life, and you help them become very well known. And then when 0.63
00:20:19.900 they want to act on that appeal, you seem to get upset about it. I create stars. I love creating stars.
00:20:28.060 And to a certain extent, I've done that with Ivana. To a certain extent,
00:20:34.220 I've done that with Marla. And I like that. Let me lead you from your solitude.
00:20:43.740 I mean, I've really given a lot of women great opportunity. Unfortunately, after their star, 0.98
00:20:48.220 the fun is over for me. It's like a creation process. It's almost like creating a building.
00:20:51.740 It's pretty sad. Trump is so funny. Okay. But do you see how the second wife says she still wants a 0.98
00:20:59.340 career? Melania, on the other hand, was willing to give up hers for Trump to become president. 1.00
00:21:05.900 In an interview from years ago, they asked Melania if she would give up her modeling career
00:21:10.940 if Trump became president. And she says, yes. But this woman, on the other hand,
00:21:14.860 wants to work and doesn't have dinner ready when she's married to a billionaire. Again, 0.99
00:21:18.700 second wife is more concerned with what she can get, or Melania was more concerned with what she could 0.99
00:21:24.220 give. And how did that second marriage end? Not well. Not well at all. In 1996, Trump fired his
00:21:30.380 bodyguard, Spencer Wagner, after a police officer found Maples and the bodyguard together under a
00:21:35.420 lifeguard stand on a deserted beach at 4 a.m. Both Maples and Trump denied she was having an affair.
00:21:41.820 Despite reports in the National Enquirer and other tabloids, the bodyguard himself told conflicting
00:21:48.140 stories about the incident. Maples and Trump separated in May 1997 and divorced in June 8,
00:21:53.260 1999. Under the terms of their prenuptial agreement and divorce settlement, Maples is
00:21:58.300 bound by a confidentiality agreement regarding their marriage. The bodyguard, you know, I mean,
00:22:03.900 I guess it says here, but Trump, that's the great thing about Trump. He doesn't really speak
00:22:08.060 ill of his ex-wives. He really, in future interviews, he speaks pretty highly of all of them.
00:22:12.620 So the next thing I wanted to talk about is ladies. I have seen this phenomenon of so many of you 1.00
00:22:17.820 look like absolute clowns. You look ridiculous. It is the craziest thing I have ever seen in my
00:22:23.020 life. I will see women that are posing naked, basically naked on Instagram. They're in bikinis, 1.00
00:22:28.860 they're in the shortest skirt. You guys look ridiculous. It's one thing if you are single.
00:22:33.820 Now I know, I know the Christians, Catholics are going to come at me and say, but Pearl, 0.99
00:22:38.220 no, it's the exact same. Okay. Okay. It totally is the same sin or the same crime. But one crime is
00:22:45.180 10 times worse. You guys' Instagrams look like OnlyFans. You might as well just have a public
00:22:51.180 OnlyFans account at this rate because I see your butt cheeks on my profile. I mean, I'm just 1.00
00:22:57.020 scrolling. I'm just living my life scrolling. And then I find out that you guys have boyfriends or
00:23:01.980 husbands. Then, then all, everybody comes at Pearl and they say, oh, Pearl, why don't you just live 0.90
00:23:08.140 life? Mind your business. Well, when I have kids, they have to grow up with these crazy chicks kids. 1.00
00:23:12.860 At what age is it time to put it away? At what age do you guys just look ridiculous? At like 35 years
00:23:21.020 old, 45 years old, wearing a tube top. Ladies, it's time. Why do women want to be naked so bad? 1.00
00:23:29.180 This is so ridiculous. I wanted to ask the guys. I had two questions that I wanted to ask on Twitter.
00:23:35.100 One, what are the biggest red flags in women? Men, when you go on a date and you see this or see that, 1.00
00:23:42.220 what are the biggest red flags? And how can a woman dress to signal to you that she is wifey 1.00
00:23:47.900 or to signal you that she is a whore? Now, I know what the women will say. It doesn't matter how I 1.00
00:23:52.860 dress. Just because I look a hoe, a 304, it doesn't mean I am one. Well guys, don't, don't we, shouldn't 0.99
00:23:58.300 we as women dress for the job we want? Do you know what I mean? It's like, shouldn't, okay, if you go for 1.00
00:24:03.180 a job interview, shouldn't you wear a suit if you're a guy? Women, if we want the job of being a wife and 1.00
00:24:08.220 a mother, shouldn't we dress or maybe act like it? And it's just this trend in society where 1.00
00:24:13.740 everybody is just naked. Like, I am just so tired of seeing butt cheeks. Jesus lady. Like, okay, 1.00
00:24:19.420 one, all of you guys edit your pictures. It is so clear to everybody that you have a filter. You
00:24:24.620 either have a filter or all of this makeup where I can't even see what you look like. I'm not even
00:24:29.820 against light work done. I'm not even against light makeup. I'm not even against, like, ladies, 1.00
00:24:35.660 at this rate, I'll give you guys a little bit of room to dress slightly. Like, I'll let you show a
00:24:41.620 little leg or something, but my lord, you ladies, this is just getting ridiculous. Um, it's like we 1.00
00:24:48.160 give them an inch, they take a mile. Oh my gosh, I am so tired. And then I find out you guys are in a
00:24:54.100 relationship of 10 years. Why? Or, or have a kid? Why? Once you guys have a child, it is so time. It is
00:25:02.520 time to put the boobs and butt away. I don't even know why I have to say this. I don't, why? Why do
00:25:07.960 I have to say that? Okay. So I asked the men, what are the red flags? And I think as women, we can
00:25:12.940 learn from this. What can we learn? One red flag is a guy says if they're super hot, but single. You
00:25:18.740 know, if you're over a certain level of attractiveness, men assume you're crazy if you're
00:25:23.460 single because there should be a line out the wazoo for you. But okay, so Greg, that's number one.
00:25:29.340 So another red flag is that women who have many sexy pictures on social media, it shows they have 1.00
00:25:34.540 a constant need for male confirmation. Yes. Yes. And I, and I've tried to explain this to you guys
00:25:40.460 that it doesn't matter if you're not a 304. It really doesn't matter. If you dress like one, 1.00
00:25:45.760 men will just assume this is how guys minds, you know, if I wear, and I think this is a Dave Chappelle
00:25:51.180 joke or something, but if you wear a police uniform, are you confused when someone comes up to you and
00:25:58.660 asks you for help? Why are women confused that you dress like a 304? And so that's what men assume
00:26:04.320 that you are. Brendan says, doesn't like children, not doesn't want them, but doesn't like them. Yes.
00:26:10.300 Men typically are looking in a long-term relationship for a wife and a mother. And if you don't like kids,
00:26:16.260 men are not for that. So controlled Neo says visual red flags. Okay. And I've tried to explain this to
00:26:21.960 you guys. Tattoos. Why do women ruin their beauty with a bunch of tattoos? I seriously do not get it.
00:26:28.160 You guys will have these sleeves. I've seen chest tattoos. I see butt tattoos and I only see the butt
00:26:34.720 tattoos because you crazy ladies have your butts out on Instagram. Put it away. Oh my goodness. 1.00
00:26:40.060 Piercings, not going to the gym. 304 eyelashes. Oh my gosh. Yes. I'll see these. They're like
00:26:45.680 tarantula eyes. Why? And I don't understand why we, why as women do we want to look so trashy? We don't 1.00
00:26:52.540 want to look classy. What is this need to just dress like absolute garbage? Red lipstick, background 0.80
00:26:58.300 check, red flags, fatherless. Okay. Well, women can't really help that one, Neo. I mean, I, I had a dad, 1.00
00:27:06.180 but like, I'm just saying, okay. Promiscuous pictures on IG, body count more than three. So up to now,
00:27:12.680 other than the dad, sorry, ladies, these are all things that women can control. Yet we will cry 1.00
00:27:18.740 and whine about men's standards, which are entirely in our control. Internal red flags,
00:27:24.340 masculine, opinionated, attention seeker, victim mentality, and lazy. I could go on and on about
00:27:30.440 the amount of women that just want a free ride. Um, band notices high vehicle accident count. Is 1.00
00:27:36.560 that, is that another way to say body count or does he really mean? I don't, I don't know if I get it.
00:27:41.680 Okay. Tattoos, nose rings, and being overweight. Paul Elam weighs in. Honestly, having a vagina in 1.00
00:27:48.660 2023, that is a red flag until proven otherwise. Yes, ladies, men are sick and tired of the nonsense 1.00
00:27:55.220 that comes with dating modern women. Lore or data from wish.com says condescending view of males and
00:28:01.480 humanity. Yes. I mean, there are so many women that openly say misandristic things and openly hate men. 0.98
00:28:07.300 We would not like it if men said those things about women. And we openly shame men that do,
00:28:13.360 even though like, honestly, guys, I don't know how you can't scroll on Instagram nowadays and not agree
00:28:18.840 that most women are whores nowadays. I mean, they signal it on their Instagram. They have their 1.00
00:28:22.480 butt. It's like a free OF. And if men say that the gut feeling is not all, not all, not all. But if
00:28:27.860 women say that men are trash, we never have a gut reaction to defend men. List of red flags, 0.91
00:28:33.220 red or blue hair, tattoos, body hair, her family, and loud. All right. Okay. Being liberal is number
00:28:42.600 one, not Sol Walker. So the next question I had for men, and I think as women, we can learn from
00:28:48.500 what the men tell us. We can seriously learn. I think there's lessons here. So many times women, 1.00
00:28:53.440 we think that we know it all. When a lot of times, most of us were not raised to be a wife and a
00:28:57.840 mother. Most of us did not have submissive mothers. If we did have mothers or most of us grew up in
00:29:03.680 single parent or divorced families. I don't know why as women, we think we know it all, but most of
00:29:09.020 us are pretty dumb when it comes to this stuff. And I think it's clear just looking around society.
00:29:13.060 So I asked Twitter, I wanted examples of pictures that make you look like a 304 versus someone that 0.58
00:29:19.220 a man would take seriously for a wife. So number one, do you see this? This woman, I think is in a 0.97
00:29:25.160 public place wearing this. This is so embarrassing. Like this is the most embarrassing thing I've
00:29:29.720 seen. I mean, I think she's over the age of 25. I think this woman, if I had to guess 27, 28. As you
00:29:35.920 can see, I can clearly see her eyebrows probably don't move just based on how her face looks. The 0.99
00:29:41.700 boobs, it's like see-through. I can see it. Her butt cheeks are out. This is embarrassing. Okay, 1.00
00:29:47.580 here we go. A Dallas Cowgirls cheerleader. Yeah. You see, you know, it's funny. This is almost
00:29:54.400 modest nowadays. This is so bad. Okay. Look at, but yeah, booty shorts, very low waisted. But here
00:30:01.740 you got the booty shorts. I mean, it's so crazy that this is almost modest in 2020. You see the
00:30:09.000 butt. Do you see what I'm talking about? I can basically see her butt cheeks. No bad. And there's 1.00
00:30:13.980 a way to be sexy without being trashy. Okay. There is a way to do it. Even in the interview Melania did 1.00
00:30:20.680 with Trump. The shoulders were out. It wasn't like her boobs were all out there over the place. 0.99
00:30:26.020 Women that understand how to walk and dress with class tend to have better outcomes than women that 1.00
00:30:30.700 dress like this. Oh yes. The bikini pictures. Yes. The boobs out. There you go. Yeah. You see that
00:30:38.120 the butt. Do you guys see this butt? I am so sick of these butt. Like I have just been seeing butt,
00:30:42.520 butt, butt. Like all these women. It's like, I don't need to see it anymore. Yeah. Okay. So now I asked 1.00
00:30:47.920 for pictures of women that they would consider wife. See, we got a nice sweater there. Like
00:30:52.840 look how cute that is. This, this looks like classy. Like this is an example of a woman that 1.00
00:30:58.620 is dressed with class. She's got the long skirt, the white shirt on the top. And these are still
00:31:03.980 cute outfits. They're still appealing to men. They just don't look like tramps. Okay. Oh, this one's 0.95
00:31:10.560 super cute. You see that? That's super cute. We got the, the high boot. Like that, that is an
00:31:15.320 adorable outfit. It's so funny. Women. It's like, we do so much to be naked when all we had to do
00:31:19.620 was put on a sundress. You see, look at, look at boots, a nice black dress. I think guys started
00:31:25.380 tweeting me their wives and girlfriends. I think this one is. Yeah. Ladies, we don't have to do all
00:31:30.020 this. I'm not claiming to be a fashion expert. I clearly don't have all the answers in that category.
00:31:35.160 There's people that you can consult with, but I could tell you I'm an expert in what looks
00:31:39.360 absolutely ridiculous. And you guys can look at me as the bad guy because I point this stuff out.
00:31:45.260 Um, but what I'm saying is true. And simps won't tell you and other women won't tell you, but Pearl
00:31:49.900 is here to help. And I wanted to give you guys an example of Melania understanding the role that she
00:31:55.520 was playing. Melania didn't keep her boobs and her butt out for a lifetime. And at one point she did 1.00
00:32:00.440 post promiscuous pictures, but she understood after a certain age, it's time to put it away.
00:32:05.520 It is time, dear God. And this is coming from one of the most beautiful women on the planet. I mean,
00:32:10.900 Melania back in the day was definitely a eight, nine or 10, arguably. Okay. So this is a picture
00:32:17.260 of Melania before. So, and by the way, compared to what you guys are wearing, this is modest, I swear.
00:32:23.580 But you see the, the middle is see-through boobs are out jeans. Okay. Versus what she wears today. 1.00
00:32:30.300 Look at that. That, that is a picture of class and grace. And she understood that when she was a wife
00:32:35.380 and a mother, that was what came first. So many times, especially amongst Christian women, I hear
00:32:41.680 I cannot follow my husband if he does not lead. But I think we really, as women don't give the men
00:32:47.860 enough credit. Some of us are very hard to lead. And until you are an expert follower, I don't think
00:32:53.100 we should be criticizing our husbands or boyfriends for not leading us properly. So the caption of this
00:32:58.680 tweet says, if ladies actually follow these instructions, instead of being contentious brats, 1.00
00:33:03.400 men could be the leader they were designed to be. Now imagine if you had a wife or girlfriend that did 0.99
00:33:10.080 all of the following things. Never belittle your man. Never talk down to him. Never ignore him. Never
00:33:15.640 let him feel replaceable. Never play down your need for him. Never cause him to feel embarrassed. Never
00:33:22.680 look away or text while he's talking. Never manipulate him. Never boss him around. Never laugh at his mistakes
00:33:29.360 or his fault. Never put any person before him. Never be too busy for him. Never be inconsiderate
00:33:34.920 of his feelings. And never tell his personal business. It doesn't matter if the man who you
00:33:40.040 are dealing with is your father, your grandfather, a boyfriend of two weeks, or your husband of 50 years.
00:33:45.780 This is how women should respect all men at all times. All the guys are like, do women like this?
00:33:50.720 But this is the problem. We're not even, women are not even taught this. We're not, we're not. 0.95
00:33:54.860 And so, you know, this is something we're supposed to get from older women. This is something older 1.00
00:34:01.100 women are supposed to work on this for a lifetime. You know, most people don't start off as good 1.00
00:34:06.740 husbands and good wives. That is something that we typically become. And so after 20, 30 years,
00:34:13.460 as a wife and a mother, you're supposed to be able to show your work. You're supposed to be able to say,
00:34:18.340 look it, my husband thinks this of me. These are the things that I do for him. But what I find instead
00:34:24.580 is women that are older that left their husband because he didn't work enough or didn't lead. 1.00
00:34:30.480 But if nagging was such a great way to get what you wanted as a woman, why don't we see the men 1.00
00:34:35.820 with nagging wives become productive, competitive, successful men? I mean, it seems like the men, 1.00
00:34:41.860 and I think we could say that with Melania and Trump, Trump seemed to accomplish more with
00:34:46.660 a supportive wife than with a nagging wife. Okay. So the comment section weighs in respect him, 0.84
00:34:52.020 not because he is a man. Respect the sacrifice he is expected to make for you. Respect his ability
00:34:57.380 to be destructive if he chooses but doesn't. Dogs get more respect than they are due. Denise says,
00:35:03.420 follow instructions. OMG, LMFAO, we aren't children. We have value and are equals. And now,
00:35:09.560 if you said couples may be happier if they both respected these guidelines, or maybe they should
00:35:14.260 be mutually respect each other. You cannot have two kings of a castle. Somebody is going to be in
00:35:20.740 control. And unfortunately, in 2023, most of the time, the women that say this are actually the 1.00
00:35:26.000 ones running their household. Ms. Shari 2000 says, these principles are straightforward,
00:35:31.300 but TradCons will try hard to find buts and what if. Most women will do this for their bosses or 1.00
00:35:36.500 customers or business associates, but whine about doing the same for your husband. Just do your part
00:35:41.920 and see what happens. You know, I heard a story of a woman who was having trouble in her marriage. 0.98
00:35:47.300 She sat down and she had to think to herself, is my husband a bad guy? Is he a bad person?
00:35:52.640 And she thought to herself, no. And she thought, if I am just overly loving and giving and selfless
00:35:59.640 this next month, I'm going to try to every day, I'm going to do something nice for my husband
00:36:03.860 every single day. Maybe it would improve my marriage because I don't believe my husband is a bad guy.
00:36:09.300 And she told me that that was the turning point in her marriage, was not viewing her husband as an
00:36:15.060 oppressor, but rather as a benevolent dictator. And she told me that completely changed her
00:36:21.140 marriage. She completely gave up control in her marriage. The last topic is an especially touchy
00:36:28.120 topic. Oklahoma City Thunder's Josh Giddey goes viral for alleged explicit photos with an underage
00:36:34.560 girl. NBA player Josh Giddey is facing potential statutory rape allegations after pictures and videos
00:36:41.080 surface online showing him with an allegedly underage girl. The girl identified as Liv Cook
00:36:46.980 reportedly claims to have had sexual intercourse with Giddey. Giddey is 21 years old while Cook is
00:36:52.640 a high school sophomore. The age of consent is 16, meaning that if Cook is 15, Giddey would be committing
00:36:58.400 a crime. The date of the pictures and videos is unclear, so it is possible that they were taken
00:37:03.920 before Cook turned 16. The Oklahoma City Thunder has not yet made any public statements about the
00:37:10.180 allegation.
00:37:10.760 Over the past couple of days, it was a pretty serious allegation. I know nothing concrete there.
00:37:15.880 Is there anything you can say in this situation?
00:37:17.780 Yeah, I mean, I understand the question, obviously, but, um, you know, there's no further comment right now.
00:37:23.460 I get the question, guys. I completely understand you guys want to know about it, but, uh, just,
00:37:27.160 just for right now, I don't have any understanding.
00:37:28.960 Every game.
00:37:29.440 A small piece of nightclub footage may be the key that saves Josh Giddey's entire NBA career
00:37:34.860 from the concerning allegations against him. On Friday evening, the NBA confirmed that they
00:37:40.100 are conducting an investigation into the serious allegations that Josh Giddey has had a relationship
00:37:44.980 with an underage girl. While more concerning clues have leaked online apart from initial photos
00:37:49.720 and videos, the new video offers a new light into what could potentially help the Australian
00:37:54.020 players' cape. A video uploaded by a random Twitter user shows a moment of Josh Giddey with
00:37:59.380 a girl that seems to be Liv Cook. There's only one problem, though. Cook should not be there. 0.94
00:38:04.000 If she is supposed to be a minor, after this new piece of evidence, there are new questions that
00:38:08.060 need to be made. First of all, how did Liv Cook get into a club where only adults are allowed? 1.00
00:38:12.980 Did Josh Giddey go into the club knowing he was in there with an alleged minor? Is Liv Cook even a
00:38:18.160 minor, as the allegations suggest? If that is the case, did Liv Cook tell Josh Giddey her real age,
00:38:23.720 or did she lie about it even to him? For how long has Josh Giddey known this young woman?
00:38:28.420 If we get around to answering these questions, we will have a less difficult time getting to the
00:38:32.580 bottom of the truth. The NBA needs to look into these questions with objectivity and consider
00:38:37.120 all of the viable options in order to reach the truth. Because right now, Josh Giddey's career is
00:38:42.760 in serious jeopardy. If, for some reason, Giddey had no idea this girl was a minor, he may not be
00:38:47.900 looking at a punishment as severe as he would have if he knowingly dated this young woman.
00:38:52.460 There's always the possibility that Josh was tricked into thinking this girl was over 18,
00:38:56.520 which is quite common amongst young people at that age. But then again, NBA players should not
00:39:01.840 be exposing themselves in such a manner by dating young women who seem a little too young to begin 0.66
00:39:07.040 with. Whatever ends up happening when the investigations are over, someone will have to
00:39:10.920 pay the price. It's also safe to note that the footage still only proves nothing, only that the
00:39:15.780 allegedly underage girl was inside a nightclub illegally. You know, guys, this is an uncomfortable
00:39:21.020 topic. And I think it's an uncomfortable topic because, well, nobody wants to be labeled. I think
00:39:26.880 the death of someone's career is to be labeled a pedo. I don't, I can't think of something worse to call
00:39:33.700 somebody or a worse reputation to have. But my question is, does this young woman bear any
00:39:39.520 responsibility for that night? I mean, if a man at 16 years old robs a store, oftentimes he's tried as
00:39:47.240 an adult. Oftentimes if a kid commits murder at 14, 15 years old, they are tried as an adult. So in this
00:39:55.120 case, does the young woman bear some responsibility for hypothetically tricking a man into thinking that
00:40:02.540 she was of age? Is she really a sweet, innocent victim that the left is going to paint her out to 1.00
00:40:09.680 be? You know, guys, I've been 16 years old before. And at 16, I think you pretty much know what you're
00:40:15.980 doing. This is not me advocating for relationships between adults and minors, obviously. But I think
00:40:23.560 it's unfair to put a guy in a situation where he will have to pay a price when she's lying about her
00:40:31.680 age, allegedly. Now, there are videos on her TikTok account saying that she is above 18.
00:40:45.980 So in this TikTok, she's captioning it that she's over 21. And the question is, if he meets a random
00:40:56.200 girl at a club that you were supposed to be over the age of 21 to get into, why would he assume that
00:41:02.840 she's under the age of 21? And I don't think we can just say she's an innocent victim in this. And I
00:41:08.840 don't really think it's fair to him that he now has this allegation on his name that he goes for
00:41:14.660 underage women. I don't think that's fair. Okay. So as you guys know, at the end of every episode, 1.00
00:41:19.880 we read the top comments. So if you guys have a comment that you want to leave below and you want
00:41:23.900 it read next episode, make sure you like your favorite comment below. Edward Briga says,
00:41:28.520 when a man says my wife is the most intelligent person I know, I walk away as soon as I can. I just,
00:41:33.260 I just don't like to see a man in his worst moment. Okay, guys, let me know what you think in the
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00:41:44.260 next time.