JustPearlyThings - November 10, 2023


Modern Women CONFESSED They Are Not Good Enough for Men


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Length

30 minutes

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180.87549

Word Count

5,541

Sentence Count

855

Misogynist Sentences

102

Hate Speech Sentences

49


Summary

In this episode, we discuss a recent study that says that only 10% of women in the United Kingdom want to be a housewife. Who do you think is the best type of housewife? Do you agree or disagree?


Transcript

00:00:00.000 So today's topic, I wanted to talk about, so I saw this study, right, that talked about what percent of women do you think get to be housewives?
00:00:12.380 Don't cheat and look.
00:00:14.960 What percent do you think?
00:00:16.760 I'm going to say 60.
00:00:18.040 60 percent?
00:00:18.980 Yeah.
00:00:20.180 I'm going to say 30.
00:00:21.160 30 percent.
00:00:22.220 40.
00:00:22.980 Okay.
00:00:23.740 What do you mean, specify housewives as in married?
00:00:27.960 They get to stay home with their children.
00:00:30.560 Oh, can I change it?
00:00:32.220 Yeah, yeah, go ahead.
00:00:33.180 30.
00:00:33.800 30 percent?
00:00:34.440 50.
00:00:35.040 50 percent of women.
00:00:38.980 40, I said.
00:00:39.840 40?
00:00:40.200 Okay, go ahead.
00:00:42.840 35.
00:00:43.820 Okay, 35.
00:00:44.880 40.
00:00:45.720 Okay.
00:00:46.380 38.
00:00:47.100 38.
00:00:47.820 27.
00:00:49.800 So the question is, what percent of women want to be housewives?
00:00:52.900 No, get to be.
00:00:55.740 That means their man can afford for them to be a housewife.
00:00:58.620 Maybe 30 percent.
00:00:59.500 30 percent?
00:01:00.380 I'd say 22.
00:01:02.040 22 percent, Troy?
00:01:03.420 20 percent.
00:01:04.700 It's like 1 percent.
00:01:07.060 So I hate to burst your bubble, everybody.
00:01:10.020 9.2 percent of women in the U.K.
00:01:12.280 Yeah, I'm not surprised.
00:01:12.560 In the U.K.?
00:01:13.500 Oh, I thought we were like including, you know, Africa.
00:01:18.400 No, no.
00:01:19.180 This is Western stats.
00:01:22.020 If you said U.K., I definitely would have said U.K.
00:01:23.880 So I thought to myself, and I guess we'd have to agree on this first.
00:01:30.120 I would say that the best position to be in as a woman is to be married to someone that
00:01:35.720 you want to be with the rest of your life and able to stay home with the kids if you
00:01:40.560 so want to.
00:01:41.340 Would you agree?
00:01:42.340 If you so want to, yeah.
00:01:43.780 Okay.
00:01:44.140 So let's bring it up.
00:01:44.340 If you want to, yes.
00:01:45.140 Yeah, so this is, so it kind of question, it brought me to the question, who qualifies
00:01:50.500 to be a housewife?
00:01:52.820 Like if you were going to apply for a job, let's say like the men, only 10 percent of
00:01:56.980 men get a housewife, they take a housewife, and they basically say, ladies, ladies, ladies,
00:02:02.680 here's the application.
00:02:04.540 What should it say on it?
00:02:06.280 So I have a PowerPoint here.
00:02:09.460 Do you deserve to be a housewife?
00:02:11.220 So wait, and then number two, go to the second slide.
00:02:16.140 I thought it would be fun to put what you guys think housewife, like what you think you
00:02:21.000 should bring to the table in order to be a housewife.
00:02:23.700 Being able to sew.
00:02:26.800 I would do one each.
00:02:28.040 Yeah, one each.
00:02:28.780 One each, yeah.
00:02:29.280 Okay.
00:02:29.860 You should.
00:02:30.360 That's a very nice, old-fashioned, because back in the day, you couldn't like buy clothes.
00:02:35.980 Yeah, my grandma used to sew.
00:02:36.380 So your wife had to be able to make clothes.
00:02:37.500 Okay, I just want to try this.
00:02:39.000 Show of hands, who can sew?
00:02:40.300 So, yeah.
00:02:41.600 All right, all right.
00:02:42.640 You can, like, you can really sew your own clothes.
00:02:45.040 Oh.
00:02:45.200 Yeah, I make my own clothes.
00:02:46.160 I can customize.
00:02:47.360 Oh, I'm actually impressed.
00:02:48.940 I'm actually impressed.
00:02:50.060 Okay, go ahead.
00:02:54.040 A housewife.
00:02:55.800 You've already failed.
00:02:57.720 Yeah.
00:02:58.620 What do you mean?
00:02:59.760 Just be human.
00:03:00.780 What do you mean?
00:03:02.240 Okay, okay, okay.
00:03:03.580 Just have a pulse.
00:03:04.500 So women, women, women are human.
00:03:07.760 Women are human, but only 10% get to do it.
00:03:11.620 So there's something special about those 10%, right?
00:03:15.200 Yeah.
00:03:15.560 It's got to be something different about them.
00:03:17.240 They get it.
00:03:18.820 Okay, so cook.
00:03:19.560 Okay, this is going to be very controversial.
00:03:20.780 How many meals?
00:03:21.780 Okay, go ahead.
00:03:22.280 So I'd say, and don't crucify me for this, but I'm going to say be a actual, be a female.
00:03:31.300 Female.
00:03:32.380 You mean be a female?
00:03:34.520 You mean anatomically?
00:03:36.580 Anatomically.
00:03:37.180 You mean it's this gendered woman?
00:03:38.660 Excuse me?
00:03:39.160 So why would anyone crucify you?
00:03:43.420 I would think so.
00:03:45.200 We said housewife, not househusband.
00:03:48.120 So all right.
00:03:48.740 All right.
00:03:49.080 What about you?
00:03:49.880 I would say to be a good housewife, you'd have to be very good in bed to keep your husband.
00:03:56.000 All right.
00:03:56.420 So good at sex.
00:03:58.440 Good at sex.
00:03:59.160 I think good with routine and structure.
00:04:05.560 So if they're doing like a hard nine to five, whatever, when they come back, they know they've
00:04:11.260 got all the clothes are clean.
00:04:13.040 They've got the meals.
00:04:15.440 Nice massage.
00:04:16.580 Structure.
00:04:17.400 All right.
00:04:17.660 Clothes.
00:04:18.180 Structure.
00:04:19.100 All right.
00:04:19.360 Clothes, meals, massage, basically.
00:04:23.080 Structure.
00:04:24.180 You're taking everyone's alters in one.
00:04:26.080 Sorry.
00:04:26.640 She did well in school.
00:04:30.060 She's an overachiever.
00:04:32.600 Go ahead.
00:04:33.240 I would say to be very supportive.
00:04:35.540 Supporting.
00:04:37.340 Supportive.
00:04:37.960 Okay.
00:04:39.100 Supportive.
00:04:40.100 I'm putting them in the Google Doc.
00:04:41.640 Just, you know.
00:04:42.900 Go ahead.
00:04:43.900 I would say mine is to like be caring.
00:04:46.020 Like, I don't know if you actually need to be the one doing all the sewing, cooking, cleaning,
00:04:49.960 and massaging, but you need to care that somebody's taking care of it.
00:04:53.360 Okay.
00:04:53.540 That's actually good.
00:04:56.920 The nanny.
00:04:58.880 Okay.
00:04:59.360 Wait.
00:04:59.560 Let me get this straight.
00:05:01.580 10% of women qualify for this.
00:05:04.800 And they don't need to cook or clean.
00:05:06.560 They just need to care.
00:05:07.580 Not necessarily.
00:05:08.100 Yeah.
00:05:08.360 Not necessarily.
00:05:09.020 Like, if there is somebody who can cook and clean, you need to make sure they're doing
00:05:11.880 it to the standard that makes everyone in the house happy, right?
00:05:14.660 Okay.
00:05:15.100 So, so they manage the cookers and the cleaners.
00:05:17.460 You make sure it's done.
00:05:18.760 Okay.
00:05:19.220 Okay.
00:05:19.680 Go ahead.
00:05:19.880 Yeah.
00:05:21.020 Be their peace.
00:05:22.800 Good one.
00:05:23.620 That's a very good one.
00:05:24.580 What does that mean?
00:05:25.440 Like, can I, can I have some specifics?
00:05:26.940 Because I hear this a lot, but I never know what it means.
00:05:30.260 Yeah.
00:05:30.480 So, he comes home and I say, I am peace.
00:05:34.840 That's me.
00:05:36.940 You meditate together.
00:05:38.500 No unnecessary headache.
00:05:42.720 Just when they come home, they want a place to relax.
00:05:45.500 Everyone wants a place to relax and retreat.
00:05:49.080 So, yeah.
00:05:51.940 A lot of women, where have you been?
00:05:54.300 What time did you call this?
00:05:56.220 Unnecessarily.
00:05:56.920 Okay.
00:05:57.360 So, not, you can't argue.
00:05:59.240 No arguing.
00:05:59.780 Well, you can argue, but within reason.
00:06:03.040 Yeah.
00:06:04.740 There's a lot of gray area in that, though.
00:06:06.640 I know, but I'm super chilled.
00:06:08.040 You come home, I'm probably too much.
00:06:10.660 I would just, I would just think the peace is no arguing, right?
00:06:15.540 Not nagging.
00:06:16.940 No nagging.
00:06:17.540 Not being nagging.
00:06:18.580 Yeah, no nagging.
00:06:20.040 Okay.
00:06:21.080 What do you think?
00:06:21.980 A loyal woman deserves to be a housewife.
00:06:24.800 That's all you got to be, loyal?
00:06:26.160 Yeah, you have to be.
00:06:27.000 Damn.
00:06:27.400 What?
00:06:28.640 Wow.
00:06:29.780 I was definitely almost a housewife until just now.
00:06:35.500 Okay.
00:06:36.160 What do you think?
00:06:38.400 Patience.
00:06:39.360 You need patience.
00:06:40.540 So much.
00:06:41.620 For the damn kids.
00:06:44.160 You got about three kids.
00:06:45.080 I've been waiting for someone to say, give you kids.
00:06:48.700 Oh, you don't have to do that.
00:06:49.620 You need to be patient.
00:06:50.700 Okay.
00:06:51.180 Wait, who said you?
00:06:51.860 Fatile.
00:06:52.660 You don't have to.
00:06:53.860 Fatile.
00:06:54.140 I don't think you have to do that to be a housewife.
00:06:57.180 You have to be patient.
00:06:58.080 You don't have to give them kids.
00:06:59.680 Yeah.
00:06:59.880 Not everyone wants, not every man wants kids.
00:07:02.260 You can still be a housewife.
00:07:03.280 Okay.
00:07:04.180 Do men typically.
00:07:05.960 I got production cutting me off.
00:07:08.760 Yeah.
00:07:09.660 I think it was like, I want to give you a slide.
00:07:11.620 I don't know.
00:07:12.520 Remember, remember, remember.
00:07:14.140 You might already have kids.
00:07:15.360 This is only 10% of women get this.
00:07:17.560 So this is cream of the crop.
00:07:19.460 The best of the best.
00:07:21.000 Right?
00:07:22.000 So I would think they would give you kids, you know?
00:07:24.740 I thought we just said who qualifies, not who's like the best one.
00:07:29.480 Well, the best ones qualify.
00:07:32.600 I mean, 50% of them end up not having the job at the end of the day, right?
00:07:37.120 Yeah, because they're not the best.
00:07:38.880 Because none of us go home.
00:07:39.720 But they still qualify to initially.
00:07:41.600 No, no, no, no, no.
00:07:43.520 If you qualify for things, you get them.
00:07:46.740 So if you don't get it, then you don't qualify.
00:07:48.920 Not necessarily.
00:07:49.460 But if 9% of women are becoming housewives in the UK and 50% of marriages fail,
00:07:55.520 then half of those women didn't quite do a good job, right?
00:07:58.640 No.
00:07:59.420 Well, I would say they didn't qualify for the housewife role.
00:08:04.140 So there are men that can afford housewives.
00:08:06.200 There's just a very small percentage of them.
00:08:08.220 You know, prices are going up.
00:08:10.360 You know, most people need two incomes.
00:08:12.700 So, you know, only 10% of women could qualify.
00:08:16.300 I think a big portion, a big part of that percentage is women that turn a blind eye to a lot of things.
00:08:23.760 Yeah.
00:08:24.100 That's quite right.
00:08:26.180 Yeah.
00:08:27.800 Yeah.
00:08:28.380 Yeah.
00:08:28.640 A lot of them.
00:08:29.480 We need to take all the advice from him.
00:08:32.300 He knows.
00:08:32.820 I know.
00:08:33.480 Quite right.
00:08:34.120 Can that be my answer?
00:08:36.340 They turn a blind eye.
00:08:38.080 If they turn a blind eye to a lot of stuff, then they're ideal to be a housewife.
00:08:42.380 I think the other thing that I was going to mention is they've got to not put themselves
00:08:47.480 into positions where they could potentially be unfaithful in any sort of way.
00:08:51.540 And that probably includes social media.
00:08:53.080 So not hoeing.
00:08:53.880 No friends.
00:08:54.840 Loyal.
00:08:55.300 No friends, but not hoeing yourself out on social media and all that kind of stuff.
00:08:59.260 Be respectful.
00:08:59.980 Wait, wait, wait.
00:09:00.820 What is hoeing yourself out on social media?
00:09:02.640 Well, I mean.
00:09:03.340 Thirst trapping.
00:09:03.960 Oh, wait.
00:09:04.180 I got it.
00:09:04.700 I got it.
00:09:05.160 So, no.
00:09:05.680 No selfies.
00:09:06.880 Yeah.
00:09:07.380 Oh, yes.
00:09:08.260 What about Justin Bieber's wife?
00:09:10.720 If you would, she's a model.
00:09:12.620 Well, I mean, Pearl often brings her up as an example, because if you look at her pictures
00:09:16.260 on social media, she's married to Justin Bieber, but she's showing her, you know, there's
00:09:19.940 a lot of flesh on display there.
00:09:21.480 Is that appropriate?
00:09:22.800 Beyonce is married to Jay-Z.
00:09:24.560 Do you think Jay-Z can say, you can't wear that?
00:09:26.920 She's Beyonce.
00:09:27.920 She's twerking on stage.
00:09:28.880 I mean, Beyonce took him screwing another chick.
00:09:32.700 So I think he could.
00:09:34.040 She turns a blind eye.
00:09:38.660 Balance.
00:09:38.980 Balance.
00:09:39.100 I think they both make a lot of money off of it, but I'm saying, like, I think if he
00:09:43.820 told her to do something, she'd probably listen.
00:09:46.400 If she's accepting cheating, you don't think he could tell her something?
00:09:51.000 No, no, he couldn't.
00:09:53.220 Not when it comes to her art and her performances are art.
00:09:57.020 Like, she's an artist.
00:09:58.440 And he had to accept her that way, and so did Justin Bieber have to accept his one as a
00:10:01.900 woman.
00:10:02.240 Yeah.
00:10:02.760 Well, she's not quite on the level of Beyonce.
00:10:04.320 Yeah, what's her name?
00:10:05.040 No, but she's a model in her own lane.
00:10:07.660 And she makes money from that.
00:10:09.260 Yeah.
00:10:09.800 Yeah, but it'd be better off.
00:10:10.820 But isn't it, in an ideal world, though, just if we take the celebrities out of it, isn't
00:10:14.380 it better for the average dude?
00:10:15.880 You know, you're married to this woman, and she's all over social media.
00:10:18.600 She's got bikini shorts and all that.
00:10:20.180 You know, like, I and Napa, like, 20, you know, 20, 2021 or whatever.
00:10:23.760 Isn't it, wouldn't it be preferable not to have that?
00:10:27.240 Do you know what?
00:10:27.700 Because he's kind of like.
00:10:28.560 No, I'm not going to give a damn advice.
00:10:31.320 I'm going to go, I'm going to go even further.
00:10:33.440 So I think a lot of times in our culture, we always use examples of celebrities, right?
00:10:38.400 But they're actually not the real high value men.
00:10:40.940 Typically, it's a very small percentage of them.
00:10:43.300 If you look at high value men, they're typically executives, lawyers, doctors, that sort of thing.
00:10:49.620 And those men are not wifing up social media whores.
00:10:53.560 Not typically.
00:10:55.540 Does anyone disagree with that?
00:10:59.140 No.
00:11:00.040 Well, this is the thing.
00:11:01.240 No.
00:11:02.280 None of my friends are married to doctors.
00:11:05.000 No, a lot of my friends are doctors, and, you know, I've got, like, a variety of friends.
00:11:11.060 And they would, they keep their private life private.
00:11:14.180 They would not be going out with anyone that's on social media.
00:11:17.680 So that's the typical people they are.
00:11:20.640 Or they keep their private life very, very private.
00:11:22.780 There you go.
00:11:23.580 They're just low-key hoes.
00:11:25.640 Because why are they high value?
00:11:26.760 They're just off the radar.
00:11:28.100 That's all.
00:11:28.600 Like, what makes them high value?
00:11:29.700 What, the guys?
00:11:30.480 Yeah.
00:11:31.980 What, a doctor is a low-key hoe?
00:11:34.800 No, no, no.
00:11:35.540 But I think, to be honest with you, I would rather be with someone that's not on social media
00:11:40.400 so that you haven't got to worry about.
00:11:42.580 Yeah.
00:11:43.400 I don't know.
00:11:44.080 I feel like that was standard.
00:11:45.680 Yeah, because you are on social media.
00:11:46.960 Yeah, but that's the point, is those guys aren't, like, the highest value men are not typically big on social media.
00:11:54.160 Yeah, they're not.
00:11:54.500 Like, I'm saying we use celebrities often as an example, but even celebrities, the guys that own the celebrities
00:12:00.320 and are the people behind the scenes that make way more money are not typically super public.
00:12:05.180 And celebrities, a lot of celebrities, like Jay-Z, blah, blah, blah, they're not really high value men because they're, like, ex-roadman.
00:12:12.720 Do you know what I mean?
00:12:13.220 And also, Troy, I feel like if you're secure as a human being in yourself and you're secure in your relationship,
00:12:22.760 those things are schematic.
00:12:23.820 She shouldn't really care about things like that.
00:12:25.400 Well, I knew someone would bring up that argument.
00:12:28.100 So if you were a real man, you wouldn't mind having a boot to your life.
00:12:31.120 I just said secure.
00:12:32.580 I didn't do a real man.
00:12:33.500 I do get it.
00:12:33.980 No, Kelly, I do get it.
00:12:35.160 I don't entirely disagree.
00:12:37.280 Because, look, I mean, if I date a girl and she's on social, like, I don't really care.
00:12:40.220 It's not a big deal.
00:12:41.100 All I'm saying is in this specific example we're talking about here, if we're talking about you're actually going to marry somebody
00:12:45.320 and she's actually going to be in that 10%, I think a lot of dudes would be like,
00:12:48.980 do you know what?
00:12:49.500 I prefer if she wasn't on social media or if it was very low-key.
00:12:52.860 But why?
00:12:53.620 Because it's just kind of like, why do, why does anybody go on social media?
00:12:57.540 I mean, it may be to make money or it's to get attention.
00:13:00.540 Like, why do most women really?
00:13:01.740 Why if she's for her own business?
00:13:02.700 Business.
00:13:03.360 Business.
00:13:04.240 Okay, so make money.
00:13:05.240 Women suck at business.
00:13:07.440 Yeah.
00:13:08.200 Women, I'm sorry.
00:13:09.820 Even only, women can't even sell their butt for $5.99.
00:13:13.620 I swear, they make like 500 bucks a month tops.
00:13:17.100 No, I could do it for six pounds.
00:13:18.300 Look at that.
00:13:19.500 Go, man.
00:13:21.880 Go, man.
00:13:22.720 I would try to work at that.
00:13:24.420 I'm saying like, most women don't run successful businesses.
00:13:28.540 I disagree with that.
00:13:30.420 Well, the numbers do not.
00:13:32.020 I mean, I'm saying, let's take only fans.
00:13:33.860 That's the easiest sell.
00:13:34.900 Like, wouldn't you agree sex to a guy?
00:13:37.140 That is the easiest thing to sell.
00:13:38.420 I don't think about showing my feet.
00:13:41.720 Like, you don't have to do sex on only fans.
00:13:43.620 You can actually do other things.
00:13:45.160 But I'll think about my feet.
00:13:46.240 The highest earning people on only fans are managed by men, though.
00:13:49.100 Yeah.
00:13:49.600 Oh, really?
00:13:50.140 I'm not up for putting a few pounds on Saturday for a tenner.
00:13:53.440 I mean, let me find it.
00:13:55.700 It's the average only, okay.
00:13:57.340 What do you, how much do you think the average only fans model makes a month?
00:14:00.820 A month.
00:14:01.620 The average.
00:14:01.880 A grand.
00:14:02.440 Five grand.
00:14:03.320 Five grand.
00:14:04.060 Five hundred.
00:14:05.060 Five hundred.
00:14:06.060 What do you think?
00:14:07.060 That's not worth it.
00:14:08.060 What do you think?
00:14:09.060 I think around about ten thousand.
00:14:10.060 What do you think?
00:14:11.060 What's average, though?
00:14:12.060 Two thousand.
00:14:13.060 The average only fans model.
00:14:14.060 What do you think she makes?
00:14:16.060 I was talking about a corn model.
00:14:18.060 Just the average ones.
00:14:19.060 Someone that's doing corn.
00:14:20.060 No, it's only fans.
00:14:21.060 No, is she doing corn on there?
00:14:23.060 No, is she doing corn on there?
00:14:24.060 No, not this.
00:14:25.060 200 pounds.
00:14:26.060 I think the ones that ain't so popular.
00:14:27.060 You just want to say corn, don't you?
00:14:28.060 Okay, who said, who said 200 pounds?
00:14:30.060 Me.
00:14:31.060 Because you could do it.
00:14:32.060 That's at 2,000.
00:14:33.060 2,000 pounds.
00:14:34.060 I'm around 200, 180.
00:14:36.060 A month?
00:14:37.060 Yeah, think about how many are getting like 20, 20 pounds a month.
00:14:40.060 Wow.
00:14:41.060 They did one thing.
00:14:42.060 Someone sent them 20 pounds.
00:14:43.060 What do you think?
00:14:44.060 It has to be higher.
00:14:45.060 Average.
00:14:46.060 It's a bit rough working in McDonald's.
00:14:47.060 The average.
00:14:48.060 I think I made like 50 quid on TikTok in like half an hour.
00:14:53.060 Doing what?
00:14:54.060 I was just like...
00:14:55.060 Spreading your toes.
00:14:56.060 No, I was just singing and you know you interact with people and people send you gifts.
00:15:00.060 Yeah.
00:15:01.060 But are you doing that on OnlyFans without having a platform behind you to begin with?
00:15:06.060 I think you just got to interact with the right people.
00:15:09.060 Okay, what do you think?
00:15:10.060 How much?
00:15:11.060 I would like to go with 2,000 minimum.
00:15:14.060 2,000?
00:15:15.060 What do you think?
00:15:16.060 500.
00:15:17.060 I said 5k.
00:15:18.060 Hopefully.
00:15:19.060 No, 500.
00:15:20.060 Why are you getting your clothes off?
00:15:21.060 150 pounds.
00:15:22.060 No!
00:15:23.060 180.
00:15:24.060 The average.
00:15:25.060 Think about how many of us.
00:15:27.060 And this is my case.
00:15:29.060 And this is my case for why women are bad at business.
00:15:32.060 Yeah.
00:15:33.060 Because I look at...
00:15:34.060 And I'll tell you.
00:15:35.060 I'm going to give you case number two.
00:15:36.060 Why most women are bad at business.
00:15:38.060 I'm going to say most.
00:15:39.060 There are exceptions, right?
00:15:41.060 But, you know, then we also look at the top earning women.
00:15:46.060 And they got all their money from men.
00:15:48.060 It's typically divorce.
00:15:50.060 Or it's typically they get their money from their sexuality like Kim Kardashian.
00:15:56.060 So, yeah, I think they're pretty bad typically.
00:15:58.060 Is that a bad business though?
00:16:00.060 Does that make us a bad business because we sell our best resource?
00:16:05.060 I would say it takes significantly more skill to sell a product rather than your butthole.
00:16:10.060 I suppose it depends how you leverage it afterwards, right?
00:16:13.060 I mean, if you use that as the platform and then you leverage it into something else afterwards.
00:16:16.060 But I mean, how many women have done that?
00:16:18.060 Can you think of examples?
00:16:19.060 You've got to use what you've got to get what you want.
00:16:22.060 Emily Ratajkowski, I think, is trying to transition to something else, isn't she?
00:16:27.060 But I'm not sure.
00:16:28.060 Will she be successful at that when she hits the wall?
00:16:30.060 They're not making money like that.
00:16:33.060 It's as a content creator, you can tell who's actually making money.
00:16:37.060 Like none of these chicks are.
00:16:38.060 Right, yeah.
00:16:39.060 It's very rare.
00:16:40.060 Okay, so my next question is what disqualifies you from being a housewife?
00:16:48.060 She belongs to the streets.
00:16:51.060 I'm gonna go first, OnlyFans.
00:16:54.060 I would say once you put your butthole on the internet, I'm sorry.
00:16:58.060 Why who is butthole?
00:17:00.060 I mean, I just, you know, that's, you know.
00:17:03.060 But you don't have to show your butthole on OnlyFans.
00:17:06.060 You can show your toes.
00:17:08.060 Yeah, I think all of that will disqualify you from high value men.
00:17:13.060 Yeah, the high value.
00:17:14.060 Okay.
00:17:15.060 Yeah, okay.
00:17:16.060 What do you think?
00:17:17.060 Name something.
00:17:18.060 Me?
00:17:19.060 Yeah, you.
00:17:20.060 We're going in the circle.
00:17:21.060 Yeah.
00:17:22.060 Oh, okay.
00:17:23.060 From not being a wife.
00:17:24.060 Housewife.
00:17:25.060 A housewife.
00:17:26.060 If you're just not, if you're not ready for it.
00:17:29.060 It's not your bad.
00:17:30.060 No, no, no.
00:17:31.060 I'm saying like, what would disqualify the woman?
00:17:33.060 So, like the woman comes to him and says,
00:17:36.060 I want to be your housewife.
00:17:37.060 I want to be your housewife.
00:17:38.060 I want to be your housewife.
00:17:39.060 What would disqualify her?
00:17:42.060 Onions.
00:17:43.060 Onions.
00:17:44.060 I'm joking, I'm joking, I'm joking.
00:17:46.060 Hides feet.
00:17:47.060 It's true.
00:17:49.060 She can't cook.
00:17:50.060 I don't know.
00:17:51.060 I don't know.
00:17:52.060 I was going to say that.
00:17:54.060 But she will say that.
00:17:55.060 She can like, have a maid to cook for her.
00:17:58.060 She's like, who needs to cook?
00:18:00.060 She's going to have a maid.
00:18:02.060 I just saw that in your face.
00:18:04.060 I mean, is that really like, I don't think that's like a deal breaker.
00:18:08.060 Are you Nigerian?
00:18:09.060 Yeah.
00:18:10.060 I knew it!
00:18:11.060 I just got back from Nigeria.
00:18:12.060 My mind is blown.
00:18:13.060 Because Nigerian men, you don't pay for anything when you're Nigerian.
00:18:15.060 Yeah.
00:18:16.060 They're a whole different level.
00:18:17.060 She's like, yeah.
00:18:21.060 All right.
00:18:22.060 So can't.
00:18:23.060 All right.
00:18:24.060 So give me a deal breaker then.
00:18:25.060 Give me one.
00:18:26.060 There's nothing a chick can do.
00:18:28.060 Nothing.
00:18:29.060 Okay.
00:18:30.060 If she's a corn star.
00:18:31.060 Okay.
00:18:34.060 Thank you for remembering that.
00:18:35.060 Thank you.
00:18:36.060 Go ahead.
00:18:37.060 Remember the highlight of my day.
00:18:40.060 What would disqualify you?
00:18:42.060 Bad money management.
00:18:44.060 Overspending.
00:18:45.060 Yeah.
00:18:46.060 He's going to be really rich.
00:18:47.060 No, no, no.
00:18:48.060 You can't.
00:18:49.060 You still got to like.
00:18:50.060 We need light next month as well.
00:18:54.060 Exactly.
00:18:55.060 Overspending.
00:18:56.060 Yeah.
00:18:57.060 Okay.
00:18:58.060 Go ahead.
00:18:59.060 If she's a cheater.
00:19:00.060 Cheater.
00:19:01.060 Or a lesbian.
00:19:04.060 That could be an advantage.
00:19:06.060 If they like that, I know people that love that situation.
00:19:10.060 When they have freedoms.
00:19:12.060 I don't know.
00:19:13.060 I think there's someone for everyone.
00:19:14.060 You know, all those things.
00:19:15.060 They're listed.
00:19:16.060 I think someone was still.
00:19:17.060 Well, there's only housewife positions for 10% of women.
00:19:20.060 Okay.
00:19:21.060 Infertile.
00:19:24.060 You say that?
00:19:25.060 Yeah.
00:19:26.060 Okay.
00:19:27.060 I'll go with that first.
00:19:28.060 I would agree with that.
00:19:29.060 Yeah.
00:19:30.060 Unfortunately, but.
00:19:31.060 Yeah.
00:19:32.060 So by that logic over a certain age.
00:19:34.060 Over say.
00:19:35.060 I'm just saying infertile.
00:19:36.060 Somebody else can add that in.
00:19:37.060 What if they are infertile but hope to like have other treatments to have children.
00:19:43.060 Or even adopt.
00:19:44.060 Depends if he's patient for that.
00:19:46.060 You know.
00:19:47.060 But Pearl is saying like if they're like premenopausal.
00:19:49.060 Yeah.
00:19:50.060 Well, I'm partially.
00:19:51.060 Somebody can say age.
00:19:52.060 Somebody can say age.
00:19:53.060 Yeah.
00:19:54.060 Well, because I'm saying also.
00:19:55.060 I mean, why would a man choose that if he didn't have to?
00:19:58.060 Yeah.
00:19:59.060 Like this is a guy with all the choice.
00:20:01.060 Yeah.
00:20:02.060 Okay.
00:20:03.060 So we're sticking at high value men.
00:20:05.060 Yeah.
00:20:06.060 Disqualifying a housewife for a high value man.
00:20:07.060 Okay.
00:20:08.060 Yeah.
00:20:09.060 I mean, I feel like I spoke to randomly two men recently that were saying that they went through
00:20:14.060 the whole IVF thing with their women.
00:20:16.060 I don't know how high value they were, but they weren't low value.
00:20:19.060 So I don't know.
00:20:20.060 I do think some men consider that.
00:20:22.060 But again, I'm sorry.
00:20:23.060 Were they successful?
00:20:24.060 I do believe they were successful.
00:20:25.060 Yeah.
00:20:26.060 You do believe or you know?
00:20:27.060 Yeah.
00:20:28.060 I don't know.
00:20:29.060 That's what I said.
00:20:30.060 I don't know if they were high value, but they were absolutely not low value.
00:20:31.060 But they were, yeah.
00:20:32.060 Don't you think they probably found out that she couldn't have kids.
00:20:36.060 Specifically told me his whole life story on this flight.
00:20:39.060 And it was like, no, they knew before that she was going to have trouble having children.
00:20:43.060 They decided to get married.
00:20:44.060 He really got into it on that flight.
00:20:46.060 Yeah.
00:20:47.060 Stop talking to me.
00:20:48.060 But he was adorable.
00:20:49.060 But yeah.
00:20:50.060 Did you?
00:20:51.060 Did I?
00:20:52.060 What?
00:20:53.060 Well, hi.
00:20:54.060 I did not anything.
00:21:00.060 Where were we in the circle?
00:21:05.060 Did you go?
00:21:06.060 Sheree?
00:21:07.060 Did you go?
00:21:08.060 I just took Miss Ling's answer for the infertility.
00:21:13.060 Because I guess for a high value man, if he's trying to expand on his offspring, if his...
00:21:23.060 Whatever.
00:21:24.060 Expand his name.
00:21:25.060 Yeah.
00:21:26.060 With his legacy.
00:21:27.060 The legacy.
00:21:28.060 The legacy.
00:21:29.060 They want to pass it down.
00:21:30.060 Yeah.
00:21:31.060 Over what age are you disqualified from being a housewife?
00:21:33.060 I don't know.
00:21:34.060 Because this is the thing.
00:21:35.060 I just think it's such a broad, vague question because guys...
00:21:39.060 So in general.
00:21:40.060 In general for men?
00:21:41.060 There's going to be exceptions to every rule.
00:21:44.060 So we're just talking in general.
00:21:45.060 We're not talking about the one chick there.
00:21:48.060 But like by and large, by the rule, over what age are women disqualified from being a housewife?
00:21:54.060 30.
00:21:55.060 Do you think?
00:21:56.060 No.
00:21:57.060 Yeah, I think so.
00:21:58.060 I know.
00:21:59.060 What if you marry a man who's like 60?
00:22:00.060 She's an honest one.
00:22:01.060 And you could be in your 40s.
00:22:04.060 You're still a young thing to him.
00:22:05.060 I know, but that's probably...
00:22:06.060 He's the high value guy as well, right?
00:22:07.060 I know, but you've probably already been a housewife once or twice prior to that.
00:22:10.060 And why do you want to have a baby for a 60 year old?
00:22:12.060 But by 60, he's probably married.
00:22:15.060 So he's like high value by like 40, surely.
00:22:18.060 He's divorced and he's looking for a new beans.
00:22:21.060 And then you're like...
00:22:24.060 Divorce.
00:22:25.060 And you weren't talking to him because you're like in your 40s.
00:22:27.060 And you look good for your age.
00:22:29.060 You're better than him.
00:22:30.060 And you're still fertile.
00:22:31.060 Do you know what percent chance you have of a man marrying over the age of 35 if he hasn't already?
00:22:39.060 0.3%.
00:22:42.060 15% chance he marries.
00:22:44.060 And before Troy.
00:22:46.060 There's still 15% charge.
00:22:48.060 No.
00:22:49.060 What about before then?
00:22:52.060 These statistics are based on people that are actually being honest.
00:22:56.060 Like, what are these numbers?
00:22:58.060 It's just like...
00:22:59.060 And it's in the UK as well because...
00:23:01.060 Yeah.
00:23:02.060 The UK and US are pretty similar.
00:23:04.060 So I mean, sometimes there's a little differentiation.
00:23:07.060 It's what people report.
00:23:08.060 Is it not like the actual registry?
00:23:10.060 Can't they just look that stuff up?
00:23:11.060 Yeah.
00:23:12.060 Yeah.
00:23:13.060 Yeah.
00:23:14.060 Yeah.
00:23:15.060 Yeah.
00:23:16.060 So it's pretty...
00:23:17.060 What is it below 35 though?
00:23:18.060 I don't know off the top of my head.
00:23:20.060 I just know that one.
00:23:21.060 Nigeria.
00:23:22.060 Honestly.
00:23:23.060 Girls.
00:23:24.060 You get married tomorrow in Nigeria.
00:23:25.060 Okay.
00:23:26.060 What about you?
00:23:27.060 Not being attentive.
00:23:28.060 Okay.
00:23:29.060 Not being attentive.
00:23:30.060 Go ahead.
00:23:31.060 Super revolting personal hygiene.
00:23:33.060 Okay.
00:23:34.060 Smelly.
00:23:35.060 Okay.
00:23:36.060 Gonna go for something so obvious.
00:23:38.060 Being selfish.
00:23:39.060 Selfish.
00:23:40.060 Okay.
00:23:41.060 I'd say a liar.
00:23:44.060 Selfish.
00:23:45.060 Liar.
00:23:46.060 There's some basic ones I'm surprised no one's getting.
00:23:51.060 Let's see if you get it.
00:23:52.060 Um.
00:23:53.060 Who we've got.
00:23:54.060 No pressure.
00:23:55.060 No pressure.
00:23:56.060 Um.
00:23:57.060 Sorry.
00:23:58.060 I wasn't ready.
00:23:59.060 Being a hoe.
00:24:00.060 You were going to say that.
00:24:01.060 Oh my gosh.
00:24:02.060 These hoes ain't...
00:24:03.060 No.
00:24:04.060 You can't turn a hoe into a housewife.
00:24:05.060 These hoes ain't...
00:24:06.060 No.
00:24:07.060 You can't turn a hoe into a housewife.
00:24:09.060 You can't turn a hoe into a housewife.
00:24:10.060 These hoes ain't...
00:24:11.060 How is her favorite work?
00:24:12.060 Kanye tried.
00:24:13.060 He tried exactly.
00:24:14.060 He did what he did.
00:24:15.060 Yeah.
00:24:16.060 That was deja vu.
00:24:17.060 For real.
00:24:18.060 Okay.
00:24:19.060 Okay.
00:24:20.060 I want to see...
00:24:21.060 You have to get it, Troy.
00:24:22.060 Well, I don't know.
00:24:23.060 BPD, I think.
00:24:24.060 Personality disorders.
00:24:25.060 Because otherwise you end up with Amber Heard.
00:24:27.060 Right?
00:24:28.060 Yeah, right.
00:24:29.060 Oh my god.
00:24:30.060 There's some convictions you could probably put under the same thing.
00:24:31.060 Drug addict.
00:24:32.060 If she's like...
00:24:33.060 Well, if she's a drug addict or she's an alcoholic, that's going to be problematic if she's using...
00:24:37.060 Awkward.
00:24:38.060 And if she's got...
00:24:39.060 And if she's got that kind of personality disorder, I mean, if you could identify it before,
00:24:45.060 she's definitely not in the field for being a housewife.
00:24:48.060 Okay, so I'm gonna add some of mine.
00:24:51.060 Yes.
00:24:52.060 Enlighten us.
00:24:53.060 Yeah, yeah.
00:24:54.060 So, number one, you can't be fat.
00:24:55.060 Oh.
00:24:56.060 Yeah, yeah.
00:24:57.060 You will not get in the door.
00:24:59.060 Let's not...
00:25:00.060 For...
00:25:01.060 What's considered fat?
00:25:02.060 With a high-value man.
00:25:03.060 It depends.
00:25:04.060 So, UK 10 and over?
00:25:05.060 Um, I would...
00:25:06.060 I would say, look up your BMI.
00:25:09.060 And if it's over, that's...
00:25:11.060 That's rule of thumb.
00:25:12.060 I know...
00:25:13.060 I know there's exceptions, right?
00:25:14.060 I know there's the women that have the very shapely whatever.
00:25:18.060 Mm-hmm.
00:25:19.060 Because I thought it was talking PH-fat.
00:25:20.060 Yeah.
00:25:21.060 I was like, yeah, well, fat.
00:25:22.060 Oh, no.
00:25:23.060 But...
00:25:24.060 But yeah, there's none of this, like, thick where it's like the girls pretend they're thin.
00:25:29.060 Yeah.
00:25:30.060 But they're really fat.
00:25:31.060 I think you need to ask a Nigerian producer.
00:25:33.060 Is there a producer there?
00:25:34.060 Because he...
00:25:35.060 I'm sure...
00:25:36.060 What's your preference?
00:25:37.060 We're all skinny to you, aren't we?
00:25:39.060 Yeah.
00:25:40.060 We're all skinny to you, aren't we?
00:25:41.060 The biggest girl here.
00:25:42.060 Tin.
00:25:43.060 Tin.
00:25:44.060 Tin.
00:25:45.060 Tin.
00:25:46.060 Tin.
00:25:47.060 I mean, Pearl and I argue about this all the time.
00:25:49.060 This is the thing.
00:25:50.060 So, this is...
00:25:51.060 It's like when the doctor goes, you're obese and you're like, huh?
00:25:53.060 Yeah, but what?
00:25:54.060 But...
00:25:55.060 But...
00:25:56.060 But it doesn't...
00:25:57.060 But it's still no fat thing still, though.
00:25:59.060 What is fat in your perception?
00:26:00.060 What is fat in your perception?
00:26:01.060 Fat is fat, isn't it?
00:26:02.060 Like a manpe.
00:26:03.060 What size?
00:26:04.060 Wait, what size?
00:26:05.060 Is that...
00:26:06.060 It's that size.
00:26:07.060 It's like...
00:26:08.060 I think if you're fat, you know you're fat, though.
00:26:09.060 Yeah, it's like...
00:26:10.060 I think his fat and your fat is very different.
00:26:12.060 Are you talking about...
00:26:13.060 I think so.
00:26:14.060 Pearl's fat and his Nigerian...
00:26:15.060 Nigerian standard fat is...
00:26:16.060 Nigerian fat.
00:26:17.060 Yeah, we like curvy women, boys.
00:26:18.060 Yeah, right.
00:26:19.060 Yeah, right.
00:26:20.060 Yeah, but it's curvy.
00:26:21.060 I think it's a small waist, though, don't you?
00:26:23.060 Yeah, it's always a small waist.
00:26:24.060 There's European fat, there's Jamaican fat, and there's African fat.
00:26:27.060 African fat.
00:26:28.060 Yeah.
00:26:29.060 They're all different things.
00:26:30.060 That's different.
00:26:31.060 Men do like a bit of meat on them, though.
00:26:34.060 Look at...
00:26:35.060 I'm not even disputing that men like curvy women.
00:26:38.060 I'm saying they don't like fat women.
00:26:40.060 Some men like skinnies women.
00:26:42.060 My girlfriend is really, really skinny, and like, when we're out, certain men just gravitate
00:26:46.060 towards her, because she's cute, and she's like a twig.
00:26:49.060 Yeah.
00:26:50.060 That sounds childlike.
00:26:51.060 Some men love twiggy women.
00:26:52.060 They're like, oh, she's so heroin-looking.
00:26:53.060 Yeah, I'm sorry.
00:26:54.060 I'm into that.
00:26:55.060 I'm into that.
00:26:56.060 I'm into that.
00:26:57.060 I'm into the heroin cheat thing.
00:26:58.060 You know, like the Kate Moss back in the day.
00:27:00.060 Yeah, yeah, yeah.
00:27:01.060 We call that manga.
00:27:02.060 You're like manga.
00:27:03.060 Number two that disqualifies you from being a housewife.
00:27:07.060 A child.
00:27:08.060 Another man's child.
00:27:10.060 Yeah.
00:27:11.060 It's tricky.
00:27:12.060 Now, I know Sierra pulled it off, but do you look like Sierra?
00:27:17.060 Probably not, right?
00:27:18.060 Yes, we do.
00:27:19.060 I look better than Sierra.
00:27:21.060 I don't like Miss Lynn.
00:27:22.060 You know, I can't.
00:27:24.060 Sierra...
00:27:25.060 Alright, so I would say a child, in general, disqualifies you from being a housewife.
00:27:33.060 Not even.
00:27:34.060 It will definitely impact it somewhat.
00:27:39.060 I don't think that a guy will completely dismiss you for it, but it will impact it somewhat
00:27:44.060 because they know that's an additional person they have to provide for.
00:27:49.060 Baggage.
00:27:50.060 Then they've got your child's...
00:27:52.060 Attitude.
00:27:53.060 Yeah.
00:27:57.060 What percent of single mothers remarry?
00:28:00.060 If they want to.
00:28:01.060 Six percent.
00:28:02.060 Wow.
00:28:03.060 Higher than that slightly.
00:28:04.060 Sixteen.
00:28:05.060 What?
00:28:06.060 Sixteen.
00:28:07.060 No.
00:28:08.060 Okay, off the top of my head, I know what it roughly was.
00:28:12.060 It was between like ten and like eight, like seventeen percent.
00:28:16.060 It was somewhere between there.
00:28:17.060 Twenty-two percent of single mothers get a guy to live with them.
00:28:21.060 Yeah.
00:28:22.060 So overwhelmingly, sixty percent roughly of single mothers do never...
00:28:25.060 I could get a guy to live with me now.
00:28:27.060 Yeah.
00:28:28.060 Yeah.
00:28:29.060 Give me one hour.
00:28:30.060 Yeah.
00:28:31.060 Look it.
00:28:32.060 Look it.
00:28:33.060 Look it.
00:28:34.060 I don't...
00:28:35.060 There's a couple in the car park in Tesco.
00:28:36.060 I don't know why.
00:28:37.060 There's a couple waiting outside.
00:28:39.060 There's a couple in here right now.
00:28:40.060 I would change the statistics right now.
00:28:42.060 Look it.
00:28:43.060 Look it.
00:28:44.060 I don't know what to tell you.
00:28:45.060 Actually, let's FaceTime them.
00:28:46.060 But also, I would say that some...
00:28:47.060 But this is housewife, right?
00:28:49.060 So this is like housewife status.
00:28:51.060 This is the best of the best women.
00:28:52.060 But I would say some women that have kids, because I know that if I had kids, I would
00:28:57.060 be very reluctant to just pick up with any man.
00:28:59.060 So maybe some women, for the sake of their kids, they don't want to expose them to certain
00:29:03.060 people.
00:29:04.060 So they're just like, for now, I'm just going to be single and not have another man in my household.
00:29:08.060 I think that's admirable, actually.
00:29:10.060 Yeah.
00:29:11.060 I think it's better for the kids.
00:29:12.060 But I think that affects the statistic, definitely.
00:29:14.060 Because I know that there will be women that will think...
00:29:16.060 I disagree.
00:29:17.060 I disagree.
00:29:18.060 I think we're being soft on the single one.
00:29:20.060 I actually think it's the other way around.
00:29:21.060 I think most women...
00:29:22.060 We said high value men housewives.
00:29:24.060 I think it's the other way around.
00:29:26.060 I think a lot of women would immediately start looking for another man to replace.
00:29:30.060 No.
00:29:31.060 No.
00:29:32.060 No way.
00:29:33.060 My son has his dad.
00:29:34.060 I'm a single woman.
00:29:35.060 Thank you.
00:29:36.060 We're not talking about...
00:29:37.060 See, the thing about women is you guys always think that your situation is worth it.
00:29:41.060 Everyone.
00:29:42.060 What goes around in society.
00:29:44.060 But if you look at society and look at what actually happens...
00:29:46.060 I'm a single woman.
00:29:47.060 There are a lot of irresponsible women out there.
00:29:49.060 Yeah.
00:29:50.060 And that's the fact.
00:29:51.060 Yeah, but I do feel like when you have a child, like that child has to come first.
00:29:55.060 So you have to be very careful who you bring around your child.
00:29:58.060 And I know that would definitely, you know, affect my decision.
00:30:01.060 I totally agree with you, but I don't think most single mothers are responsible.
00:30:06.060 I'm a single mom.
00:30:07.060 I'm a single mom.
00:30:08.060 And there's no way I would be rushing into any relationship with any man.
00:30:14.060 I'm very protective over my daughter.
00:30:16.060 There's no way.
00:30:17.060 Especially when you've got a daughter.
00:30:19.060 Even when you've got a son.
00:30:21.060 As many of you know, I was just banned on TikTok.
00:30:25.060 And we are demonetized on a daily basis on this platform.
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