Modern Women DON’T UNDERSTAND Motherhood
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In this week's episode, the lads discuss the difference between men and women in the modern world and the differences between the two and discuss the differences in the way they live their lives and the things they do to support their families.
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glass door i think women like to fantasize a lot oh yeah and think way into the future that's good
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because that's how they help men like blossom like that's how women are helpless them in
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because men are very like and women are like oh but you could do it this way and this way and
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like they flower the seeds that make it grow women have to like think outside the box because men are
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very a matter of fact which is good and that's why the woman and the man works together yeah it's
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like that quote that's i think it says something like um behind every great man is an even better
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woman or something have you heard that one yeah i don't agree oh yeah that that's the most
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bullshit quote i don't think it should be even better but i think great women should be there
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instead but it kind of oh just the woman that cares yeah yeah just his woman beyond every man
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is his woman elon musk needed a woman to get to where he's rich men get to where they're going
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regardless of whether or not they have a girl by doing dog eat dog for sure it's like i mean like
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the guys that are going somewhere they're gonna go somewhere whether or not you're there it's just
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like women just like to take credit for doing nothing yeah i guess listen i think unless you're
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looking at having kids men can just pretty much do anything whereas they don't need emotional support
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well they do but they don't need it as much as women like i don't think they need it like women
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like to talk about stuff more they're with their friends what do you talk about you talk about guys
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talk about feelings talk about men are just like straight to the point we wiggle around a bit more
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you know what i know i know i'm the worst and they're not even doing it this time you got a whole
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chorus here oh they always roast me in the comments i'm sitting there laughing because i think normally
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it's pearl and every woman is doing it i've been trying to get better i've been trying after the
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bees interview i've been trying she normally sits there going it's like it's a tick i can't
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no it's just a thing in it because all the women are doing it one person made a comment and i'm just
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saying listen to the choir and the choir said hmm
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auntie oh what do you think i've never been out of a man that's earned more than me never never
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and i've respected every single one why do you think that is different than a lot of women nowadays
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i'm just old school i just don't really care how much they are because
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no it didn't really matter because i didn't when i'm out with a man he's a man so i don't
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i don't pay for anything i'd have to put my hand in my pocket even the man that i've got now
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still got more than him he's got more i must admit he's got more cash to me i've got more assets than
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him but no i can't i don't have to put my hand in my pocket for nothing yeah i think as long as i
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don't have to put my hand in my pocket then yeah what is what is the minimum
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thousand pound a month i can make it work you know i can pearl oh oh you know i can make it work
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so if these people that if these women out here are saying oh they need to do this oh the man can't
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afford that you know what i mean check yourself and cut back what would you do with a thousand
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pounds a month how would you split that up i'm just curious i'd go wholesalers yeah i mean it's
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different because all right then if i had a mortgage in london with a thousand pounds a
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month i can live in before i was living i couldn't do it on 1500 okay because like 500 is towards the
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mortgage yeah kids are not expensive it all depends do you know what right it all depends on what you
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want them to wear but nowadays you'll find that a five pound t-shirt is not going to cost you 50
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pounds for the kid or because of the name or the stamp on it and that's what brings things up
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mm-hmm or you know eating out you know you want a burger buy some mincemeat and teach your kids how
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to make a burger you know no eating out no do you think a thousand pound is covering bills let's do
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me now wow you know i honestly had the same i had the same thought yo she took me she took me
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well how much did you say it was 35 pounds it was 30 pounds for the 30 pounds 30 pounds she said
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a week yeah two people yeah she told me she could get a week's worth of groceries on 30 pounds i
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didn't believe her you wouldn't go to the market yeah she took me she took me no we went to a
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supermarket we didn't even go to a market yeah you can do it you just yeah we'll talk off fresh stuff
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is this ten yes no it was actually good check out wife school episode two
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but yeah i i didn't believe her i was like there is no way there is no way but yeah 30 pounds
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you have to look for the stickers the clearance stickers we just went there we just we just popped
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in there and we picked about four things with stickers but everything else wasn't was it was
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about four things with stickers in the middle of the day yeah no in the evening was it in the evening
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but it wasn't bad food it really wasn't yeah but you have to even though this month to cover a whole
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month including toiletries laundry alcohol and everything for the month thousand pound yeah for
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the month i'm talking about all the alcohol as well well laundry toiletries electric toothbrush
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i'll watch it yeah i'm gonna watch it i'm sold it's fine i show i show you my tricks yeah i'm so
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on a few tips i'm so on it do you guys think that corn you know you know what that stands for okay do
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you guys think that corn is cheating no yes no yes once he does it in front once he watches it in
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front of me i know he's there watching whatever i think if it's hidden it's cheating if it's like
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yeah you want to watch it it's like it's like watching another movie i'm watching it though but
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if it's hidden i think it's cheating because for you to hide it so it must be wrong yeah i agree
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don't lie about it fine yeah i feel like you can i don't think together
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no i don't want to do that but do you think it's cheating no i said if
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no if he has i just feel like he wouldn't want to do it in front of you why not i don't know
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no don't do it in front of me like i don't no i don't i don't want i don't mean that in front of
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you i mean like if he's there watching that he knows men have a watching a tv and yeah he's in one
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room and he's watching it and he coming oh you're watching that rubbish again it's like it's nothing to
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me but you wouldn't get mad if he's not as long as he's not he's open with it yeah would anyone here
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be mad if their husband watched or boyfriend watched corn sorry can i just say something it all depends
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what kind it is if it's that sick perverted kind then yeah oh yeah yeah yeah no that wouldn't be
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okay if it's like regular normal normal yeah any i'd be upset i don't think i'd be mad i'd be concerned
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because what is what's what are you seeking from this like variety why do you and so maybe picking
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up a few tips but then but then again to me that's a concern for me because what variety why do you want
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variety just try this that's like what men want naturally i'm not saying all men cheat but men
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naturally want variety you're telling me okay you could take the best man in the world if he had a
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bus full of models waiting for him every day when he got home every single day begging to sleep with
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it most of you guys are gonna fail fair enough but i'm i'm putting my self in it if you want variety
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it's a concern if you if you cannot exercise self-control it's a concern if i am to exercise
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self-control and you don't give yourself that same parameter it's a concern i'm not saying i'll be angry
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but if this is something to iron out it's not something that oh this is how you are that's
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your makeup that's fine because i know what i want and as far as i'm concerned on the foundational
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like morals principles standards we match and so if we're no longer matching it's an even bigger
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concern and now we're talking about the longevity of our relationship i don't think it means that you
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don't match no no but it's because i know what i would like and when you say what you would like
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what is that i know not to watch that and if if you're telling me these are the reasons why you watch
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it let's iron out those reasons so you don't have to if you feel like the reason is just
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i just like yeah and it doesn't mean he's doing it every day or even every week everyone knows why
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they like it everyone knows why they like what they like no one just likes it and i'm not sure
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but that's like but that's like a female point of view like to men it's just like a reaction they
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don't think that much yeah but then that's not what i then that's that's fine we don't have to
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like but it's almost like asking men not to be men well no not necessarily because in my experience
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i have what i have not experienced that do you understand so i can't even speak to it because
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it's not like i've been with a man that could explain his side of it all i can say is from my
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wants and if this is how you are that's fine i'm not gonna like say change or it's you're just not for
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me yeah it sounds like you're not it you haven't created a space where they could even come to tell
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you that they watch it it sounds like if they do it's in private like they wouldn't even tell you
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no it's if and this is what i'm saying i wouldn't get angry to me it would be a concern so if you
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came to me or i caught you i'm not going to be oh no no it's like okay let's sit down and talk about
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it like why why why why do you feel like you like this or whatever and like if if you're like this is
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how i am and i can't really explain it or whatever i have the right to say but i don't like this i
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i don't i don't have to compromise on that so how can i just hang on can i just say something
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because from what tell me if i'm wrong yeah you're talking about if like now if you found him watching
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or if he suddenly decided yeah but what i would say yeah and what i think you're saying is that yeah
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this is you wouldn't be with somebody that does it anyway yeah and then if he happens to be doing it
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there's a problem yeah and that i feel the same way i mean if i know if i know that my man does it and
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i'm with him i knew that he'd done it before i got with him but if i'm with a man and then suddenly
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he starts doing it well what's going on why all of a sudden you start you never showed it and i
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think that's what you're trying to say because trying to change an individual is futile to me
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okay especially if you do not see an issue how like i don't have the energy to try and make you see or
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even see it from my point of view if you don't you don't but i don't have to be i don't have to take it
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do you understand or or like i do have the choice i can i can just tolerate it like okay this is that
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i can tolerate it but my point is is then i have a choice but before me making that choice i want to
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sit down and understand i think if i had a man and he wasn't open about it in the first place and i
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found him doing it i'd have issues then i'll be angry yeah that's that i'd have issues then but if i knew
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if he said to me in the beginning that when i thought oh yeah sometimes i watch this i would
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like okay then when i know you stand to me whether i'll stay with you or not yeah i want to know what
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i want to know like you know what kind can you imagine you know i've been with you for x amount
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of years and you're saying i've always watched it and i'm like and i'm now you know i'm out of there
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but then that's choosing to hide it no yeah but that's right but that's when that's when i may get
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angry yeah i agree but if it's happening we're gonna talk about it okay i just think a lot of times
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like from the men's point of view it's like we want them to be exclusive to us which is like
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compromising on their mating strategy which is to spread their seed but on the same time like when
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they try to watch and i'm not saying you specifically i don't know your marriage or whatever yeah but
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like when when you tell them that they can't even watch corn and that's cheating too it's like well what
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do you want from me what can i do so i just tell them straight whatever they're doing on there i would
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try it with you yeah i will auntie's ready to meet them in the middle yeah i will try it with
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you you know i mean like you want to pick up some tips but then i'm gonna watch it let's let's have
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a go what's another freaky stuff you know i mean don't slap me either yeah
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i feel like corn has saved a lot of marriages i've had a partner show me something and be like
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like let's try this really yeah were you down or were you mad she was down she was down i was down
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but i it wasn't a case where i i didn't know that he wasn't watching it because i knew he watched it
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or he'd sometimes be like oh look at this like he'd send it to me and be like i don't know how i'd feel
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if my partner showed me really if he sent you events and let's try this tonight i don't know
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i feel like i would be like i'm not saying i would be against it but i i don't know i think
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there's bad i don't know obviously everyone's different but to me for me personally there's
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boundaries you could be watching it and doing all this but if you're putting more attention on that
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than me then it's an issue i think that's a bad reminder mine is tell me the first place because
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if i find it later on we're done it's just a slippery slope yeah yeah just tell me who you are
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yeah show me introduce me to you and i'll choose if i want to be yeah i'm gonna show you who i am
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yeah yeah i agree if as long as you're transparent then there's no issue what do you want just let me
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know no freaky stuff either yeah yeah it's definitely important to ask which kind what to ask which kind
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yeah which uh because there's different levels and you find that women might accept up might
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i accept some levels but then yeah because if you're watching certain stuff i'm just like it's
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like yeah yeah that's that's who they are as well yeah that's like a sicko who should be in my house
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your interest i feel like that's a topic of conversation that you talk about no yeah i know 100
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like i want to know i've never had that conversation though yeah i've never had that conversation with a
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man i've had it what what they're into yeah not not in corn i'm saying in in general in the bedroom
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like oh yeah you know what they like and what they don't like i'm up for anything because you're my
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man in it but no freaky stuff that's different that's not in copying nobody that's me getting
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freaky there's a big difference yeah okay i'm gonna take a second to read super chats guys um like the video
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she's coming on to wife school she's going to help us can i say something please yeah yeah go ahead
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pearly animations oh i forgot about yeah pearly we have pearly animations now which is like
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well you want to explain it it's um your clips in animation yeah it's a clips and animation and you see
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shapely pearl oh yeah they gave me a good my cartoon has such a good body guys i was like i do not look
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like that but i will take it she's got bum chest hips and yeah yeah yeah i was i was like thank you
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okay um maggie the substitute teacher um 30 for a whole week of groceries um russ thank you for the
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super chat liberty now cheers to england hello from america question for england what is
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the definition of liberty and doesn't matter please be specific um james pritt found the woman of my
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dreams got engaged but bedroom got cold started getting a lot of offers so i broke things off but
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i didn't think i could trust myself haven't found anything close to that should i have just cheated no
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he did good he did the right thing i mean because if they're if they're already having issues before
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they're married it's not gonna be free um okay maggie the substitute tissue teacher new to the show
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just saying hello to pearl blessing and auntie jenny appreciate you all um eugene steel i am not
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considering myself a passport bro but i wouldn't mind traveling to the uk to meet the woman in olive green
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oh you have a she's single um sentience um men are required to be gentle with women because they're
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not the same well the oh i think i read this one already okay let me refresh it really quick guys
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um also guys i think we're gonna do i know i know i announced that i was gonna do our one million party
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next month i was too ambitious okay i was very ambitious i was like let's do it next month we can
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do it it's happening in june i think junetown i'm gonna finalize it this week but yeah yeah it's not
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happening next month sorry guys too much planning yeah underestimated how much work it is yeah i didn't
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realize how much like it takes to throw an event together and like the tickets and every yeah that was
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that was my fault um okay i'm trying to think of my next question actually um
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oh no if they when they get married what kind of wife do they think they're gonna be
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oh that's a good question auntie go ahead and start there
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definitely a calm wife i know that sounds like what is a calm wife but just someone who like
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keeps the home peaceful no outside dramas um and just a loving nurturing place like i want like
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i know in the uk you get like that i think it's like 10 to 12 months or something for your maternity
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leave i want at least the two the first two and a half years just with my kids at home and i kind
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of want them close in age and just i know it sounds so like cliche and like the cooking and the cleaning
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but i just want it to be a place where my man can feel like he can be a man and like he's in his role
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and he's masculine and i can be in my feminine and just be a mother and a wife there's that's literally
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what i want what do you think you're gonna get that's what i'm going to get okay yeah but that's what
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i'm going to get i but i need a man who wants to be a husband and wants to do that role i can't have
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a man who wants me to also be like so what would your like day-to-day like life look like if you're
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in that role like what would you be doing right from the time you wake up in the morning with the
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two kids at six o'clock in the morning what's your day gonna be like well i have my my own daily
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structures and then that can just put me in the mind frame of doing what i need to do and with kids you
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know it's never gonna no day is gonna look the same but what do you mean like what does it look
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like feeding them cooking cleaning like give us your rota yes like all right then you wake up at
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five o'clock in the morning one baby screaming right you've got to get your husband ready for work
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you you have a guy across from you makes 250 000 a year he says you know you could be my you could
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be my housewife what are you going to do for me go cook clean make sure the kids are looked after
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and when i say and also make keep myself together and in order to describe your normal day from
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start to finish okay so i wake up a vj like get stuff out in my journal meditate do my like seven
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self-care pillars cold shower if that means i gotta wake up at four because the kid wants to scream at
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five then i gotta do that one two kids one might be on school one might be nursery or two under two i don't
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know um homeschooled homeschooled until what age me doing it or like someone comes in oh i do you
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know i've never um actually thought about like what that would look like but i would be happy to
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i've never thought about what that would look like i've always just kind of had in my head that
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my kids would be at home until about three four i personally don't want my kids going to nursery at
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two i know that's like this kind of extended age but i i want to be at home with my kids at two years
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old so about three four they can like start going to to other people i okay my kids can't be looked
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after by other people until they can put a sentence together yeah like that that's it until they can
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understand like their body in terms of like for that age they're not being looked after by anyone and
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i need a man who gets that who says you know what yeah i agree i i don't want a man to think oh
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you doing that means you're going to live off of me no i'm doing this because of the nurturing and
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the foundation i want for my kids and them going into the world if the child is really ill and you
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go to bed at midnight are you still going to get about four o'clock in the morning to go through your
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whole yeah i'm just thinking myself you would love to have that couple of hours in the morning to do
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all of that all of that stuff it just sounds amazing if they're sick if they're sick sorry
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a bit sorry i mean no i mean because you're going to say you're going to get up at four
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o'clock in the morning if i had to because um i heard you're doing a lot of talking but i heard
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you say about your day yet it's been a lot of i don't know i want to i want to say what i want
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to hear right like you said you get up at four o'clock in the morning you do all of your stuff your for
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you what time is that finish 45 minutes to an hour all right then so five o'clock we can do that
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i mean i'm not a mother so i don't exactly know what that looks like but i know that i'm prepared to
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do whatever it takes to be the mother that i know that i want to be so i i can't how have you how have
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you prepared what do you mean no i said i i'm prepared to do it okay so like i would have to teach
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you what do you mean so you i'm saying so then he would have to teach you you're prepared to do it
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but you're not telling me what it is yeah i i yeah i i don't know exactly i know it takes a lot
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emotionally mentally physically um and i'm ready to and i'm prepared to go through it i i want to go
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through it because i want to be a mother have you got nieces and nephews um i do do you babysit a lot
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not not like that no would you be able to if you could yeah i could it's half term this week
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try it try it for a day yeah all of them try having them for a day yeah i would i would and
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let me know how you can i would be down for it let me know how you go i think my my siblings that
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they they range in a massive range so i want you to have all the ones under five okay and let me know
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how you get on for a full day no parents involving but in the morning they drop off to the evening
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bedtime i would love to do that let me know how you get on i'd love to know okay so then we get
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five a.m so the kids like i don't know how long the day is going to be but i know it's going to be
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long because yeah because the thing is what he gives up do you know i mean because and then it's like
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you know finding time to like have your shower and all that and you might not even have time to to do
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all of that stuff and then to you know have dinner ready for when he gets home like i i know it's going
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to be stressful i know it's not going to be an easy job like i'm not even gonna pretend like i'm
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deluded on that but i just can't wait to be in it i think you need to start practicing now that's
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what i mean yeah it sounds wonderful because i can't wait till we get down to the end so you can